4 Parenting Mistakes That Will Ruin a Teenager
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- čas přidán 29. 05. 2024
- Some parenting mistakes can definitely ruin a teenager. Make sure you aren’t making the 4 mistakes I discuss in this video!
For over a decade, I’ve been working with teens who are unmotivated, rebellious, angry, troubled, anxious, and depressed.
So I know what mistakes parents make that lead to these kinds of problems.
No parent is perfect, including me. But it’s helpful for you to be aware of what you shouldn’t be doing when it comes to parenting your teens.
Armed with this knowledge, you’ll become a more effective parent who empowers your teenagers to become motivated, responsible, and successful.
If you implement the tips that I recommend, I’m confident that you’ll witness positive changes in your teens.
So watch the video from start to end, and stop making the 4 mistakes today.
🕛 TIMESTAMPS
0:00 Intro
0:23 Mistake #1
1:57 Mistake #2
3:28 Mistake #3
6:04 Mistake #4
8:20 Conclusion
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One mistake I made was, when my teen was already having high emotions, I overreacted to it instead of keeping my calm. It really made things worse till I realized that when your teen is going through a storm, jumping into the storm with them is not the way to help, rather I should throw the safety net from a calm side of the ocean.
As a parent it can seem hard to be calm especially when you see your teen about to or in a dangerous situation and we panic and out of fear come over overreaction to the situation.
Thanks for sharing. Those are very meaningful reflections.
One mistake I've made is: Trying to find out what is wrong with my teen when he is especially tight, seems angry, and is shut down. It never ends how I want it to end. I have started to say: I'm here for you if you want to talk. You are a good person and are very much loved...being a human is hard, sometimes. I used the tips from your videos! Totally open to hear more on this topic and on maybe naming emotions. I think I could help my teen better on that front. Thanks for your awesome content. T
It's hard to let natural consequences unfold, especially after you've invested so much effort, only to watch it seemingly go to waste. However, you're right. This approach was what finally helped my oldest grasp the importance of their actions and set them on a better path. It was incredibly painful to watch and doing nothing felt like the toughest choice, but I now realize it was worth it. My mother wasn't perfect in many ways, and with my brother, she never enforced real consequences or stuck to her punishments, which negatively affected him throughout his adult life. His life was a sad story of wasted potential, despite his kind heart and promise. I've come to understand that what's easy for a parent isn't always what's best for the child. Parenting is about accepting this tough reality, knowing full well they might not appreciate or understand your actions until they're older, perhaps not until they're living on their own or have children themselves. So, don't expect immediate gratitude. Do your best and the results are what they are we are human as are they.
I said to my daughter not to talk if she could only say bad words or unnecessary.She became silent , introvert and not openly having conversations to me .She is 18 now,she act older than me, criticize me if I say wrongs in my sentence, ungrammatical sentence.she less interest to talk to me more
Now I realize how important are these lessons in raising kids in these changing times.
When the phrase : "You're too sensitive" appeared i sadly understood the pain a teen feels when they hear that phrase.
I'm sorry to hear that
@@AskDanielWong It's ok . I may show this entertaining video to my parents so they will try to become better. Thank you for the entertaining and important information for the future of my or others people's life !
I sended this video to my father hoping he'll understand that ge did all of these mistakes and that he'll never say any of these phrases cause they almost made me to end my life.
I always being positive for my son , think I have a very good parenting. He’s 14 going 15 and the major struggle since Two weeks ago he doesn’t want to go to school , it’s hard
Same here. My 15 years old doesn’t want to go to school. It is the hardest thing I have ever dealt bringing up . I am writing to you to tell you that you aren’t alone in your struggle and your teen isn’t the only one who has this problem.
Great all this is very true
Only 1 thing left to do
Trying to show my parents this video without being judged
Hope that goes well!
@AskDanielWong thank u, im planning to give them hints instead of showing the video bc i dont want my parents to think i dont like the way they parent or anything
I was an absent mom during their teenage years and now am Struggling to have a relationship with my son of 24 ,its been 3years we not talking .Am troubled but my hope is in God
You talk a lot of sense. Thanks for the tips
My pleasure!
What about when they start smoking what shouldn’t parents do or should than
I said to my daughter not to talk if she could only say bad words or unnecessary when she was 5.She became silent , introvert and not openly having conversations to me .She is 18 now,she act older than me, criticize me if I say wrongs in my sentence, ungrammatical sentence.she less interest to talk to me more
Well I mean self explanatory if u tell ur kid not too talk when they have bad words then any bad feeling ect is never going too be spoken about you should create an environment where ur kid wants too talk too u no matter what
Snek.thank you
I've probably asked my son to stop being hyper-reactive. But, he goes through days and phases where he will only be cruel, snapping at me constantly when I say something like "Good morning." But, then if I ask him to stop literally chanting insults at me, he will go in his room and not talk at all. Maybe I already ruined things and I'm not sure how.
He seems to feel I am part of the school system that forces him to be there each day. He hates it. He wants a college style experience where he can choose his own classes, but for elementary school. He does not like history, biology, or math, or anything that isn't automatic and instantly gratifying.
Thanks for this.
You're welcome
Excellent video. Thank you!
You're welcome!
My son I do everything but he doesn't take a bath I told so many times he doesn't listen
Very informative thank you very much
Glad it was helpful.
Thank you. Like this video very much.
I'm glad you like the video.
Awesome 👌
Thanks!
Best video ever.❤️👍
Glad you think so :)
n4 for me totally :(((
What do you suggest for a still at home 19 1/2 yr old daughter who sometimes screams at you?. No name calling or curse words, but can scream at the top of her lungs She scared my adult GS yesterday!! . Ready to show her the door..
Mind if I ask how the situation has evolved? I was thinking, there needs to be a game plan for them to move out and time to prepare, say, 6 months. Support and Tough love can be the best in the long term.
@@cobblecatttbro if ur watching parenting videos you’d know that “tough love” isn’t good if used regularly it won’t help at all u need too be straightforward but open and kind
So what we suppose to talk to our teenagers??
Wish i had seen this video earlier ive been doing all the wring stuffs 😢
No worries, it's never too late!
You work for 40yrs to have $1M in your retirement, meanwhile some people are putting just $10K in crypto from just few months ago and now they are multimillionaires..
That's great! I'm motivated too! How can we achieve this challenge?
No specific one really, because there are lots of investment plans and strategies littered all over the internet today, for instance, investments like real estates,gold, drop shipping crypto currency and lots more
For me,I would say Gold are profitable but Crypto has been the best so far
I agree, I invested in shiba coin and BTC last year and now I am bullish
Since 2018 I reached out to Mrs Sonia ,I’ve been debt free! Bought myself a car,house and an Amazon parrot☺️I love parrots
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