4 Things You Should NEVER Say to Your Teen

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  • čas přidán 7. 05. 2024
  • If you want to get through to your teens, there are specific things that you need to stop saying to them.
    In this video, I’ll walk you through the 4 things you should never say to your teens.
    If you say these things to your teens, it will hurt the relationship that you have with them. They’ll be less likely to communicate openly with you, and they’ll be more likely to become unmotivated and disrespectful.
    I’ve been working with teens for over a decade, so I’ve discovered exactly what parents say that teens find annoying and frustrating.
    The more you annoy and frustrate your teens, the less they’ll be willing to listen to your advice. In addition, they won’t be in a position to maximize their potential.
    If you avoid saying these 4 things to your teenagers, their attitude and behavior will improve. These 4 things are what most parents commonly say to their teens, because it comes naturally to parents.
    So I’m confident that all parents of teenagers will benefit from watching this video.
    If you apply the tips in this video, your teenagers will start opening up and developing a more positive mindset. So watch the video till the end - you won’t regret it!
    🕛 TIMESTAMPS
    0:00 Intro
    1:11 Thing #1 that you should never say to your teen
    2:30 Thing #2 that you should never say to your teen
    5:25 Thing #3 that you should never say to your teen
    7:59 Thing #4 that you should never say to your teen
    11:04 Conclusion
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Komentáře • 66

  • @AskDanielWong
    @AskDanielWong  Před 2 lety +1

    Download your FREE quick action guide "10 Proven Ways to Get Your Teenager to Listen to You" here ➡ www.daniel-wong.com/guide

    • @koaung9237
      @koaung9237 Před rokem

      Hello Daniel, I am Ko Ko. I hope you are fine and busy everyday. Thanks for your great lessons. I am learning and taking action. I am sure and hope to get great result.
      By the way, I already tried to download your some free guide files from web page but didn't get reply message to my mail. Maybe something wrong. What should I do? Pls help. Thank you.

    • @AskDanielWong
      @AskDanielWong  Před rokem

      @@koaung9237 You're welcome. I'm sorry, I don't think I fully understand your comment. Could you please let me know which free guides you were trying to download? Are you saying that you entered your email address to download the free guides, but the guides were not sent to your email address?

  • @521SFarla
    @521SFarla Před 9 měsíci +6

    im having a challenging time getting my 13yr old grandson just to do basic chores like putting items in the trash or cleaning up behind himself. it so bad that we wind up fighing about simple things like washing a dish or cup my patience is wearing thin i am trying to find ways for him to open up to express why he feels like he does not have to help out around the house especially when its his mess.

  • @leetos.4915
    @leetos.4915 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Thank You Sir Dan. I much value your channel and find myself as a step Dad on a need of progress for my 3 step daughters. Being educated first is the 1st step for strong family values and I’m in 100% agreement to you, sensei 😊.

  • @mywaymyself7873
    @mywaymyself7873 Před 8 dny +1

    Very informative, just wish I saw this years ago, very interesting, I appreciate this tip.

  • @jemimahnchinga4005
    @jemimahnchinga4005 Před 2 lety +6

    I love your videos, I am keeping my teen siblings since the passing of my parents and OMG do i get frustrated sometimes......thanks for these helpful tips!

  • @melsmartie123
    @melsmartie123 Před rokem +4

    My first time here and it seems as if you are speaking directly to me...the superpowers you have...haha. Thank you so much for the wealth of information which helps me with parenting. This is greatly appreciated.

  • @moresloppyjango6567
    @moresloppyjango6567 Před 10 měsíci +3

    These are great idea and easy. I will just have to work on remembering them.

  • @joshmetz9192
    @joshmetz9192 Před 18 dny +1

    I noticed you have worked hard making this video. I didn’t click like because I want you to remain focus oriented

  • @agnesodonnell4945
    @agnesodonnell4945 Před 2 lety +3

    Great video and advice Daniel. A life saver. Thank you. 🙏

  • @traceyreynolds8978
    @traceyreynolds8978 Před rokem +2

    Well said and easy to follow. Thank you

  • @guyharper5604
    @guyharper5604 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Surprisingly few subs, your channel is so helpful! Thank you

    • @AskDanielWong
      @AskDanielWong  Před 10 měsíci

      You're welcome! Yes, I haven't published that many videos yet, but I hope to produce more content going forward. Thanks for your support!

  • @user-nn7zs2eb6v
    @user-nn7zs2eb6v Před 8 měsíci +1

    Great video, really learned alot.

  • @sanbrunofriend5968
    @sanbrunofriend5968 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Great advices! is practically what we do as parents our children, will learn , we are the role model , I need to change if I want changes in my teen! 😊

  • @10anplischakjou33
    @10anplischakjou33 Před rokem

    Keep doing what is good brother

  • @lindiwekubu8846
    @lindiwekubu8846 Před rokem +1

    Daniel,l just want to say Thank You so much!
    With Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️

  • @deepan8783
    @deepan8783 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Very much helpful tips and I feel we dint know so much on this earth to raise a teenager. Appreciate your effort to give us the apt points. Thanks a ton Sir Daniel

  • @michelleensley7846
    @michelleensley7846 Před 5 měsíci

    yes ❤

  • @lllima432
    @lllima432 Před 8 měsíci

    Please provide tips on how to motivate a teen under treatment for depression

  • @oar-N-oasis
    @oar-N-oasis Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you..

  • @algerianpodcast
    @algerianpodcast Před 14 dny

    “ you can do better “ destroyed my personality 🙂‍↕️i hated myself because i could never know what my better is.
    I will never say this to my kids .

  • @kazimafzal4634
    @kazimafzal4634 Před rokem +1

    Informative

  • @ElizondoTribe
    @ElizondoTribe Před rokem +1

    I always end up nagging about chores. Trying to come alongside them instead and provide company in doing them together.

  • @katthefantastic
    @katthefantastic Před 2 měsíci +1

    How do you get teens to stop saying inappropriate things for shock value?

  • @user-yk4jz6mg3l
    @user-yk4jz6mg3l Před 3 měsíci +1

    Very impressive super correct

  • @DeborahVahanian-nx9ir
    @DeborahVahanian-nx9ir Před 23 dny

    Getting their chores done.

  • @rebeccablossom9823
    @rebeccablossom9823 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @neelamwaheed3377
    @neelamwaheed3377 Před rokem +2

    Ur videos, pdf 📚 really help me alot in my routine functioning. ..

  • @stephanieurick8820
    @stephanieurick8820 Před 4 měsíci +1

    🤦🏻‍♀️ 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @C-G183
    @C-G183 Před 2 lety

    once again great vieo daniel

  • @nayeemahassan3977
    @nayeemahassan3977 Před měsícem

    So they don’t study and exams are coming up then what let them fail

  • @aniteamina1012
    @aniteamina1012 Před 7 měsíci

    Like that

  • @stanmoney8470
    @stanmoney8470 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Good video! But I disagree with not telling your kid good job!

  • @user-sb9es3ed5v
    @user-sb9es3ed5v Před 2 měsíci +1

    I have a 46 year old teen

  • @LB-hi6zc
    @LB-hi6zc Před měsícem

    Getting them to hurry yp

  • @jesserodriguezhammond1763
    @jesserodriguezhammond1763 Před 4 měsíci

    I work with teens daily. This is ridiculous! Lol I would be curious which studies you have to prove anything. Also, I can guarantee this will not work with any teen with behavioral issues.

  • @annmarieanderson4695
    @annmarieanderson4695 Před rokem +1

    I’m nagging about their tones and phones

  • @charlee11127
    @charlee11127 Před rokem

    Hello, first time watching this video or any of your videos, question, do you have children?.

    • @charlee11127
      @charlee11127 Před rokem

      My apologies, just starting watching an heard you say you do have children.

    • @AskDanielWong
      @AskDanielWong  Před rokem

      @@charlee11127 No worries. Yes, I have 3 children and I feel like they make my life feel rather full!

  • @amrutavadanagekar1737
    @amrutavadanagekar1737 Před 4 měsíci

    I all the time nag him for studies

  • @fatimmagas4148
    @fatimmagas4148 Před 2 měsíci

    How can you be my teenager counselor?

    • @AskDanielWong
      @AskDanielWong  Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you for your comment. Please feel free to submit this online form:
      daniel-wong.typeform.com/to/a20ZzZ

  • @MD.orion1
    @MD.orion1 Před 28 dny

    You've been coaching teens for 10 years.....well they di not behave and abuse you like they think the can do at home to their mother

    • @kristenmuir80
      @kristenmuir80 Před 27 dny

      If your teen is abusing you you should get therapy for yourself for how to handle it

  • @virginiawatkins2321
    @virginiawatkins2321 Před 3 měsíci

    Clean your room don’t leave like a rat

  • @ronnyhotive5256
    @ronnyhotive5256 Před 7 měsíci +5

    My friend i dont know which planet you come from but what you are asking people to do is make the 17 year old be the parent and we the parent be the father.. that wont work

    • @Lukdaman
      @Lukdaman Před 2 měsíci +1

      you are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣