Stress on your child : it means disaster : | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.
بچوں کی تربیت کرنے میں سب سے اہم بات ہے کہ صبر ، صبر اور صرف صبر
بے شک اللّٰہ صبر کرنے والوں کے ساتھ ہے
Bht khubsurat BT ki ap ny...zindage badal skti
Ya Allah sb fathers k dil m bchon k liye narmi r piyar dal dy Ameen
Ameeen
bht acha tareeqa hy samjhany ka allah hum sub ko bacho ki naik tarbiat krny waly maa baap banaey ameen
اللہ تعالیٰ آپ سے راضی ہوں ❤️🌹
You are the best ... I always feel guilty when I listen to you .... Trying to be a good mom but sometimes your own stress overtake
yes ur right same here
Same here :(
Mashaallaha sir.dr.javed.iqbal.naice.speak.............
Yes you are right
yes same here too...
I think for this purpose we should change our educational system
Agree
May Allah remove all our difficulties and ease all our tasks. Aameen
Ameen
Summa aameen
Aameen ya rabbal alameen
Summa Aameen
My mom and dad are fighting from years... And this makes us alot stressful
sad 😒
Allah ye lrye khtm kray gharon se
Talk to your parents yourself to make your home peaceful
@@simplifyradiologytalking doesn’t help. Ye dimaghi mareez ho chukkay hain. They don’t listen
Ohhhh ..sorry to hear
Dr. Sab Allah apki zindgi mai barkat dey ...
1 baat ye keh apki baat boht simple lagti hai pehli dafa mai lagta hai samajh aa gai lekin dubara sunney se koi nya point samny aata hai ...
2 dusri baat mai samjhta hu keh ye aik ba qaeda subject bna ke hamary nisab mai dakhil karna chahiye hai ...
Dil se ye chahta hu ...
Apki bat se main 100% agree krti hn. Hmarey parents ki kbi fight ni hue thi halan k mere father well educated thay aur ami jan illiterate thi. Unho ne hm 10 behn bhayon ki behtreen prwarish ki. But hm being parents dono educated hn but 3 bachay hm se control nahi ho rahy. Iski wja hm dono ki different approaches hn. Allah pak hme aur hmari aulad ko siraat e mustaqeem pr chalaey. Ameen
The main reason for stress in students is comparison with other students. Especially in teens
U Totally rite brother😔
Studies pressure these days... Educational system sucks
Agreed. I am in UK and there is no comparison and no burden. I studied here and learn how the difference in teaching style.
@@zaraukeducation communication system??
@@sidwrites..7323 sorry typing mistake. No comparison and no burden until primary school.
Doc sahab, thank you for such amazing parenting guidelines. But please, also discuss behavioural problems of age 7-12, where parents have already done this damage to their children. Please please talk about how to fix n recover this problem in kids. Where due to parents mutual arguments, kids are already affected and don't listen to parents or are hyper and have aggressive behaviours specifically from age 7-12. Buhut Shukria, hamari society ko ap jesay Naseh Ki buhut zarooret hai. ❤
Same request is mine.
What should we do now ..??
😔
How to fix this problem now??
Same request from me please give some advice my son is 13
Same request is mine .
Same reason here sir
Can we have short video on that
یا اللہ پاک میرے بچوں کی مزید اچھی تربیت کرنے میں میری میرے شوہر کی اور تمام والدین کی مدد فرما آمین 🤲
Ameen
Ameeen
Ameen
Ameen
Aameen
اللہ تعالیٰ تمام والدین کو اپنے بچوں کی اچھی تربیت کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین۔۔۔۔
Aameen summa aameen
Ameen
Ameen Sum ameen
Sir u r great I always use to listen to ur precious thoughts...ALLAH apko sehat wali lambi Zindagi ata kry Ameen...
MashaaAllah u are lectures are so true.
I am feeling so guilty after listening to our lecture. I a mother of 5 kids AlHamdulillah, but sometimes get so stressed as there are so many things going on through out the day and becomes difficult to mange and then I get stressed and irritated. I know I am wrong and In Shaa Allah will over it and not get angry on my kids.
JazakaAllah Khair ur lectures are very motivational.
Wonderful information.
I think pre-wedding or during the pregnancy tenure, both parents should get such awareness sessions at hospital level to enable them good practices on patenting..
Allah Pak hmain behtreen walidain baneny ki tofeeq de aur Sahi tarbiyat krny ma hmari madad kray aameen
Most of Pakistani school give stress to students
Teachers give lots of homework
Mentally and physically torcher
Yes Agree, or ye torture mother KO Bhi milta hai individually, or Bachon KO pas karti hai phir, wo Bhi KIA Kare, school wale itna home work itna kaam dete hain, bache KO kuch na bolo to wo pharte hi nhi hain, Samjh nhi aata KIA Kare to KIA Karen..
@@komalmehmood9364 Parents should have to take action against unjustified homework and too much course
@@contentart5169 KOi kuch nhi karta ye hi soch k, k KOi dusra nhi Kar Raha to Humari kon Sune ga, 3rd standard k bache ka bag itna heavy hai k mother se nhi uth raha hota, or wo bag Bechare bache Utha rahe hain
@@komalmehmood9364 I agree with you but All Parents do something for their children
nahi nahi : ) ap bohat acha samjatay hain Dr sb hum ap k sath hain,. ap ki muhabtin be rohani tur pr hamray pass ati jati hain..with out net,.. ager zendgi rahi tu inshaallah khaeen pr mulaqaat ho jaey gi,.. ( I am spiritual student )
My father did all these thing to Us and now I give stress to my child I'm sorry I will never I do all these things and I will avoid it.Insha Allah
InshAllah
انشالللہ ۔۔بار۔بار۔خود۔کو۔سمجھائیں۔
Yes me too😢
Dr sahab pahle to bahot thank you aaj m ne pahli baar aapka video dekha aisa laga ke Allah tala ne aapko khaas humare liye bheja h
Yes of course. Very important message for all to understand in real sense
Sir, I really admire your knowledge . I thank to Allah swt that we are blessed to have a teacher like you .
No words for your good words Dr. Sahab, very nice 👍
Absolutely Informative...
JAZAAK ALLAH Khair Dr. Sb... 💝💝
under constant stress your brain cannot process information accurately and hence your academic performance goes down, you cant get the grades that you want, constant frustration of the parents creates new problems if the child finds a bad company to vent those feelings out.
unfortunately in our society beating and punishing kids physically is a norm.
If your kid is acting different always try to figure out the reason in yourself first then other settings and then fix the underlying problem.
Children behave in a very predictable way.
In psych this leads to oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, antisocial personality disorder, Obsessive compulsive disorder, acute stress disorder and PTSd, major depressive disorder, bipolar disorder etc etc.
And remember in children depression presents differently.
Teens usually have a high ego which means whatever they say is right, with time we learn other people have their views also. so when ego is hurt they get depressed.
in our society adults think kids cant get depressed.
Al ham du Lillah Allah pak ka shukr h k ap jaisy behtareen raah numma hamry darmyan moujood hain thank u so much Dr sb
Sir u r great and kind and i wonder that still sincere people like u are still with us❤ thank u so much God we are blessed MashaAllah❤
Allah bless u doc shbb... Hmesha kuch naa kuch seekhny ko milta hy
JazaakAllah doctor sahab. Apne bohat bra ehsaan kia ye bta kr. Allah apko hmesha khush rakhay ameen.
Allah hum sb k bachun ko naik raah pe chlae ar aik sacha ashiq e Rasol SAWW bnae aameen
Aameen
Ameeen
I want to like your every video even without listening just because of that you have built a lot of trust in my mind and my heart my most respectable personality. May ALLAH PAK bless you abundantly
Nice guidelines for the parents and teachers.
Sidra kitny bachy hain apky
I invite everyone to listen Quran MAJEED 💝💌💌💝💐
@Shahzaib b7gghuu66
Yes exactly
جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء
MashaAllah keep it up sir..You are great and graceful as always.
ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ
بہت ہی عمدہ نصیحت پروفیسر صاحب زید مجدھم
جزاک اللّٰہ خیرا کثیرا و احسن الجزاء فی الدنیا والاخرہ
Osm mind-blowing information for me as a teacher thanks my ideal ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Very nice topic for parents. Thank you sir .Allah apko jaza dy
ma sha allah sir! most effective talk!
Jazak Allah doctor sahab .
بہت عمدہ مسرت ہوئی مسرتوں کے ساتھ شکریہ ادا کرتا ہوں
Very important video kash yeh video phly mil jati.information ki kumi ki wajha sy hum sy bht ghalti ho jati hy.Allah pak madad kary ameen.
MashAllah Sir 👍👍👍
Last Year mein Apne mohlay k doston se ye baat karha tha
Wo dost mujhe bewakoof kerhay thay per aaj khushi hue aur aap jese Professor ki baat yehe sahi hai MashAllah Sir thanks for information about Stress free happy life 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Sir yours such informative videos, really have a deep impact on understanding parental caring & child parent relation.
Allah apku or taraqqi day Dr sb bht sari duaen apky liye
Dr Dil to krta he ap bolte Rahe or hm log sunnte Rahe..bht zrort he hm logo ko guidelines ki... Allah apko jazae kher de in kaamo k lie.. amen
Aameen summa aameen
ماشاء اللہ زبردست عمدہ پیغام
Helping video jazak allha
Thanx Dr....big fan of u from 🇮🇳
Sir g u r such a great person Allah pak apko ajar e azeem ata farmaye ameeeen
Great zbrdst👍 Allah pk apko r kamyabi ata kry🤲
MashAllah treasured and prized
May Allah bless on you Dr saib,🙏
Very informative video doctor shib Allah bless you always ameen
Proud to have stress in an early age
Thanks Almighty For Poverty 😍😎
MashaAllah very intresting and useful information
Best ever teacher mentor, who can guide u anywher❤❤❤blessed to have such mentors in our society....
Bilkul sahi sir! Giving stress to kids is a disaster for them!
Every word is precious n important to practice in daily life
Very useful information sir.
Boht achy questions kiay ap ny
I am sorry but I don’t agree with this theory. I feel that parents get afraid due to this theory and fail to deal with their kids. I am experiencing this fear of parents. Parents are afraid of crying and showing stubborn behaviour of their kids and as a result of this so called stress they allow almost everything to their kids. They can use the mobile because otherwise they will cry due to stress, they can sleep late in the night because early going to bed will stress the kid and it cries, they can eat sweets as much as they want otherwise there will be a great drama due to stress and so on. The result is that I observed parents falling on knees before their kids to ask what do you wish to do, have or get for being stress free, they are allowed and as this child grows up his demands for being stress free grow with him.
Sorry, our Islam has told us very nicely and deeply how to bring up a child. And there it is clearly said that do yourself first what you want your child to do. Creating an environment is just created and not real. And kids are clever enough to find out a just created scene or real. If you want to be him respectful than be respectful yourself, be honest, humble and polite yourself the kid will copy. If you just pretend to be then it will not last long. And that is the point. We adults fail to be ourselves like we want our kids to be.
If you are harsh or angry for some reason to your kid it’s not the end of the world. The kids learn from that stress that this was a situation I don’t want to be ever again so I will change my behaviour. And then parents should distress their kid and everything will be fine.
A 5 or 6 years kids go to school then why can’t we feel the kid you are going there to learn interesting things which will guide you throughout life, you will meet other kids and learn how to deal in companies.
Near to Yaumul Qiyamaa one sign is that parents will give birth to their lords and literally I am observing several scenes where parents sit in front of their kids and ask for their wishes and beg for relief of their stubborn behaviour. Yes make the kids stress free and take all the stress on your own, tell the kid you are my lord and we have to obey you and make sure that you get no stress.
Islam is a religion of balance. Love your kid, give him safety, love and confidence but stop him from things that are harmful for him or others. And for the last you should start with yourself. Stop harming people, stop lying, stop fighting, stop betraying. Don’t pretend to your kid. It is a piece of yourself, you can’t pretend in the long run the kid is like yourself
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جزاک اللہ خیرا
Sir ur amazing personality
Thankyou so much , love from India ❤️
JAZAK ALLAH Dr Sahab
Thankyou sir g
Very informative topic
MASHALLAH so good and interesting videos I love your voice
Such a nice guidelines sir👏👍👍
ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ بہت اچھی باتیں کرتے ہیں
Bohat bohat sukariy
Alhamdulliah ❤️ sir you are great 👍💯
Thank you so much sir..stay always blessed.
Bilkul sai bt ha yh mere b 2 bachy chuti wly din yhi bolty han k aj mza ni aya school bht mza ata ha from Spain Madrid
Allah bless you .Jazak Allah.
Only if parents understand this it’s very important topic ty for sharing this hopefully it will help many kids
Keep guiding sir it's really.important
Thankyou so much sir wonder full guideline thankyou👌
Mashaallah aap bahut ache s smajhate hai
Aoa sir g mujy mashallah sey ap bhot acha sajhty han bacho k barey me
Very well explained Sir
Allah pak ap ko slamat rakhy or Allah pak mere or mery shohar ke madad farmay apny bacho kee or ache tarbeat Karny ke or Allah pak sab k bacho kee hefazat farmay ameen sum ameen
Jazakallah stay Blessed
MashaAllah Allah bless you Sir
JazakAllah Khair
Dr sahib You doing Great job
You are a great man sir. Excellent.
So nice MAA Shaa Allah
Love From India 💐💐
much needed jazakaAllah
Doctor sahab u r really good guy mahalalah
Aslama O alikum sir ap blkul thk keh rhy Hain bachy K lea maa bap EK E hoty I have quintpltes ma Sha Allah or wo hmsha yehi khty Hain K mama K baba or baba Ki mama unhe HM EK E lgty Hain💞
السلام عليكم ورحمۃ اللہ
بہت بہت شکریہ
سر۔۔۔۔
مستقل آپ کی ویڈیوز دیکھ رہا ہوں
اس قوم کو آپ۔اچھی رہنمائی کررہے ہیں
بہت عمدہ
قابل ستائش
دلی مبارکباد
نیک خواہشات
Sir Mari bati 7 year ke hai school Ka bohat stress Lati hai ... ..jab us Ka admition howa to bohat relax the school ko enjoy krti the AK teacher NY Kasi Bachy ko thaper mara bas us din say.. ..nashta ni krti vomiting ati hai bohat zeda stress hai ap please mujy guide kry kesy solve kry
This talk is gem piece advice for those still not married (Y) Noting it down !
Jaza kallah sir bahut ache se samjhaya aap ne....
Jazak ALLAH
Jazakallah Khairan kaseera
Dr. Sahb u doing very good job
Plz guide us for teenagers. Teenagers k bohat issues ha parents ko in issues ko handle karna bohat difficult ha. Plz guide us.
ایکن ایسا نہیں ہوتا ہمارے معاشرے میں ۔اکثریت
thank you hame gaed karne k liye jaza kaAllah