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  • čas přidán 26. 07. 2019
  • Telling a trusted adult or disclosing abuse can help make it stop and start the healing.

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  • @saptieujobe9293
    @saptieujobe9293 Před 4 lety +3662

    No way a young child should ever have to go through this at all. She is far too young for the sexy stuff at this young age. That teacher deserves to be fired and sentenced to prison

  • @deb9784
    @deb9784 Před 2 lety +1556

    "We don't hold secrets, secrets hold us." I learned that way too late! But once we share the secrets we carry, the power and fear that keep us in bondage are defeated! Let the healing begin!

    • @1Rose_
      @1Rose_ Před 2 lety +9

      I’ve been keeping a secret for 8 years, trust me the ache never goes away. Get rid of the burden whilst you’re still young.

    • @ameliagraham7334
      @ameliagraham7334 Před rokem +8

      Crap I learned that right now. I have quite a few secrets that nothing bad would happen if I let go, I’m just to scared. It causes me so much stress.

  • @narissafyord8760
    @narissafyord8760 Před 4 lety +2326

    The mouse 🐁 thing was really cute. Be empowered.

    • @Yhoda
      @Yhoda Před 3 lety +6

      wut kinda channel is this

    • @dino2094
      @dino2094 Před 3 lety +37

      heaven angel it’s a Chanel to help ppl understand different kinds of abuse

    • @dino2094
      @dino2094 Před 3 lety +14

      heaven angel and other things

    • @dino2094
      @dino2094 Před 3 lety +13

      heaven angel kinda but it teaches u things like how to Protect yourself and these are real stories sent in by really peopl

    • @Yhoda
      @Yhoda Před 3 lety +2

      @@dino2094 OK THEN STOP DELETEING MY COMMENT FOR ONCE GOSH

  • @iamV10010
    @iamV10010 Před 2 lety +798

    As a parent this is my worst nightmare. The voice acting is so damn good I want to hug whomever is doing it.

    • @random.1599
      @random.1599 Před rokem

      @Slut Girl Reborn You're not a parent, you're a 14-year-old that has nothing better to do. You will never be a parent, you don't have the maturity for it.

    • @imbeingheldhostagehelp
      @imbeingheldhostagehelp Před rokem

      @Slut Girl Reborn what… 💀

    • @afrahlol
      @afrahlol Před rokem

      @Slut Girl Reborn what the actual fuck is wrong with you?

    • @Imhotasf_
      @Imhotasf_ Před rokem +1

      @Slut Girl Reborn what. 😒

    • @a.v.a.a.m
      @a.v.a.a.m Před rokem

      ​@Slut Girl Reborn wtf

  • @Su-wo4id
    @Su-wo4id Před 2 lety +2921

    How can somehow actually plan all this grooming out and not feel disgusted with themselves??

    • @neglelakk4life165
      @neglelakk4life165 Před 2 lety +186

      Because in their mind its okay and its a good thing they have a mental blockage that prevents them from thinking straight.

    • @neglelakk4life165
      @neglelakk4life165 Před 2 lety

      Because in their mind its okay they have a mental blockage that prevents them from thinking straight.

    • @tatyanas.9134
      @tatyanas.9134 Před 2 lety +41

      You need to put yourself in the persons shoes, think about what happened if you were them, how would you feel? What would you do? Just think about it, let it sink in. Abuse is not ok, it should never happen to anyone, understand how the person feels.

    • @enelenallen
      @enelenallen Před 2 lety +108

      @@tatyanas.9134 sounds like you misunderstood the comment

    • @AnnaGreenMoon
      @AnnaGreenMoon Před 2 lety +48

      these people were victims of sexual abuse themselves mostly, it's all about power, taking it back but it's not an excuse.

  • @dresden
    @dresden Před 3 lety +305

    "I left immediately and went straight home, and told my dad everything. He knew what to do"
    Yup, he marched on over to that school and beat the sh*t out of that tutor!

  • @Mayacatnapped
    @Mayacatnapped Před 4 lety +5655

    The true hero of the story was the white mouse.

  • @TotallyNotAToastOrAnything
    @TotallyNotAToastOrAnything Před 2 lety +794

    "I thought we were in love" really hurt me. That happens alot in situations like this one. I can't understand, but I can feel the pain in that one sentence. Scratch that, nearly as much pain in that one sentence.

    • @Meela9088
      @Meela9088 Před rokem +33

      I thought we were in love, ew she’s a kid. But then again, she was oblivious at that age :(

    • @Jeanette-z8f
      @Jeanette-z8f Před měsícem

      For sure! Mr. Alan should be teaching Eva and helping her with homework, not touching her and doing "romantic" things with her!

  • @spencerbrown6214
    @spencerbrown6214 Před 2 lety +720

    I worked at a children’s shelter for years and any type of physical, mental and especially sexual abuse is so horrific!!!!!!! It does damage that is irreversible. Why in the hell is society so lenient with all these molesters?? If you suspect a child is being abused you’re most likely right. Please speak to the child to try to protect them. We need tougher laws on the planet 🌎 We need to protect future generations from all this evil and damage!!!! Why is this not the worlds number one priority…to protect our children???😫😫

    • @minteteaee
      @minteteaee Před rokem +18

      I agree. There are people out there like this and they are absolutely disgusting.

    • @chickench0ck
      @chickench0ck Před rokem +5

      Why the emojis!!??? "😫" 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

    • @ruvplayzroblox7975
      @ruvplayzroblox7975 Před rokem +3

      representing worried of course

    • @chickench0ck
      @chickench0ck Před rokem +2

      Just saying "😫" is really sus 🤨

    • @taneeshajackson1817
      @taneeshajackson1817 Před rokem +8

      @@chickench0ck You need a refreshed mind

  • @marianojimenez1245
    @marianojimenez1245 Před 4 lety +314

    I'v been abused by my brother, and thought it was my fault, but now i know it wasn't my fault it was his
    he got in SO much with my dad and mom. he sick. he does have mental issues so i guess that is why he touched me. i'm still scared of my brother but i'm i. the process of healing.

    • @cosmicdoodles2992
      @cosmicdoodles2992 Před 3 lety +21

      That's sad to hear. Hope you're doing better!

    • @doctatofen2.089
      @doctatofen2.089 Před 3 lety +6

      I hope your brother gets help

    • @philomendaniel6032
      @philomendaniel6032 Před 3 lety +3

      Stand up for yourself be strong!💖👏

    • @join8998
      @join8998 Před 3 lety +2

      your lives are precious people, i believe you never doubt yourself, you are good the way you are independent of what you are externally and internally, ​​never give up regardless if the situation is bad, continue, you will succeed. And share your situation and fellings to people.

    • @kaleahcollins4567
      @kaleahcollins4567 Před 3 lety +2

      Brother i understand you. I felt the same fate from age 3 to 14 ( when i lost my virginity) He lost interest for a while then he tried again and that was it for me. He is 10 years older it started as a game we was acting like the people i saw on the t.v. that was his logic . He bought me things and allowed me to do what my sisters wouldnt let me.

  • @jenniecadet4270
    @jenniecadet4270 Před rokem +118

    As a mother with two girls, this is breaking my heart and making me angry.

  • @greyzanticz
    @greyzanticz Před 5 lety +559

    Poor Girl! Hope you get better and recover.

    • @macaronitree9127
      @macaronitree9127 Před 4 lety +8

      Secrets secrets are no fun, secrets secrets hurt someone.

    • @macaronitree9127
      @macaronitree9127 Před 4 lety +5

      watashi wa loli Noodle bruh

    • @mackensiebissenas2028
      @mackensiebissenas2028 Před 3 lety +2

      OMG JUNKO HAS HOPE

    • @capncook2006
      @capncook2006 Před 3 lety +1

      @@macaronitree9127 So you know who turned out to be kind of a creep? Benjamin Franklin. And Elizabeth, the “dancer,” was actually very helpful. Just makes you think how somebody like Benjamin Franklin can become president but someone like her can’t.

    • @macaronitree9127
      @macaronitree9127 Před 3 lety +1

      @@capncook2006 thanks for reminding me of this comment I was a dickhead when I typed it

  • @Islapark518
    @Islapark518 Před 2 lety +509

    I feel bad for Eva... I would call him a monster, but that is offensive to monsters

    • @chilling_koala
      @chilling_koala Před rokem +59

      Yeah, I mean have you ever watched Monster's Inc? These people deserves stronger insults

    • @Givemeabreak.
      @Givemeabreak. Před rokem +14

      ​@@chilling_koala this man is the whole monster's inc.

    • @SarahSanchez-mu1ze
      @SarahSanchez-mu1ze Před 11 měsíci +5

      True

    • @sonic176yt7
      @sonic176yt7 Před 11 měsíci +19

      Satan does not know what to do with him

    • @Dample-Is_me
      @Dample-Is_me Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@sonic176yt7yes

  • @kaylagachapresents1702
    @kaylagachapresents1702 Před 5 lety +461

    She was so younge how could that man hes so cruel

    • @caiplaysgacha6742
      @caiplaysgacha6742 Před 4 lety +17

      @Sumia Dale My moms 1st cousin was sick in the head and he tried to rape my mom years ago

    • @yuishi3714
      @yuishi3714 Před 3 lety +7

      cai playsgacha Aww...God bless your mom :)

    • @janetbaker8745
      @janetbaker8745 Před 3 lety +1

      @@caiplaysgacha6742 that's awful

    • @vaniapinto8214
      @vaniapinto8214 Před 3 lety +1

      *young

    • @aaaameeera
      @aaaameeera Před 3 lety

      @@caiplaysgacha6742 wtf is wrong with your video

  • @braveheartthewarriorcatajClare

    And the mouse was adorable

  • @Crikeyshaggy1_
    @Crikeyshaggy1_ Před rokem +109

    I was groomed when I was 10 by my 48 year old grandpa, feelings keep you away from the solution. Now I’m traumatized walking near any middle aged or young man.

    • @Imarandom
      @Imarandom Před rokem +13

      Damn im sorry to hear that I can't relate to it but, I hope you can push through it.

    • @papercat_morningteeth1137
      @papercat_morningteeth1137 Před rokem +7

      Yeah I think my friend has a creepy grandpa too cause she told me that her grandpa told her 6 year sister to sit on a vibrator and see how it feels….

    • @BawiCung-jn2dc
      @BawiCung-jn2dc Před 11 měsíci

      @@papercat_morningteeth1137At his ancient fossil age…

    • @animegirl76155
      @animegirl76155 Před 11 měsíci +3

      ​​@@papercat_morningteeth1137 Wait...Vibrater? Huh? Sorry. I'm confused.

    • @papercat_morningteeth1137
      @papercat_morningteeth1137 Před 11 měsíci

      @@animegirl76155 like a back rubber vibrator

  • @keisharussell2103
    @keisharussell2103 Před 5 lety +322

    It's no teachers anymore they pose to help to teach students about subjects and knowledge not to be touching,feeling,and having sexual encounter with the student some teachers good people and some are abusive, pervert,and a creep.

    • @wolfythewolf2
      @wolfythewolf2 Před 4 lety

      BIG WORDS! ARE YOU FLAMINGO'S SON

    • @wolfythewolf2
      @wolfythewolf2 Před 4 lety +1

      @@keisharussell2103 Sorry gez. I didn't mean to offend you

    • @keisharussell2103
      @keisharussell2103 Před 4 lety

      wolfy the wolf2 While gez....that ok☺🙄

    • @yuishi3714
      @yuishi3714 Před 4 lety +5

      If all say that if a teacher rubs a kid's shoulder they are creep....then maybe the teacher would have punched the kid if they dont rub the kid's shoulder ;-;

    • @ratsunited4272
      @ratsunited4272 Před 4 lety +2

      This happend to me in 1st grade

  • @Legacy-sw7bv
    @Legacy-sw7bv Před 2 lety +456

    Young girl: "I ... told my dad everything, he knew what to do."
    Young girl: "I never saw Mr. Alan again..."
    Dad: *Pats a mound of dirt in scenic nowhere with a shovel while whistling a sea shanty*
    (In all seriousness, don't be afraid of what will happen to the abuser. Suffering isn't worth keeping them around to hurt you or others. They made that choice, and no matter how nice they act, the consequences are theirs alone to bear.)

    • @MORA._._
      @MORA._._ Před rokem +16

      And she said that he knew what to do😂

    • @Weee009
      @Weee009 Před rokem +2

      Or maybe, she realizes the dad and mr allen oftenly hangs out and in the room, she always hear clapoing noises when they leave a room, they are sweating🥵.

    • @Legacy-sw7bv
      @Legacy-sw7bv Před rokem +10

      @@Weee009 I'm pretty sure Mr. Alan isn't going to be interested in her dad.... seeing as how, you know... he's an adult.

    • @Weee009
      @Weee009 Před rokem

      And it turns into a Filipino teleserye or a Spanish telenovela.
      Girl: dad how could you, i was first
      Dad: u dont belong here b*tch, go do ur homework!
      Girl: lats see whos the b*tch, theif!!
      *Random slapping and pulling of each others hair*👊

    • @lilstrawberry_lady
      @lilstrawberry_lady Před 6 měsíci +1

      I was a victim of sexual abuse and when my parents found out my mom was actually waiting out his school for him to come out, I knew she was going to probably kill him.(not literally. But probably) but my other family talked her out of it and told her it would only make the situation worse. So she let the police and the court handed it.
      I know she did it to protect me but I’m glad she didn’t actually do through with it.

  • @hanahouli3592
    @hanahouli3592 Před 5 lety +559

    I thought that said my tumor abused me so i was like oh sheeet

  • @kingchichi201
    @kingchichi201 Před 4 lety +91

    The truth is that people who are abused want to tell someone that they've been abused but they don't want everyone to find out because it would be embarrassing. I've been abused, but I can never tell anyone because it's embarrassing. and even if I tell someone, no one is going to do anything. They would need evidence or else, they wouldn't find him guilty

  • @Lunarmoonsisters
    @Lunarmoonsisters Před rokem +95

    To all those people who say."Tell someone."
    It's not as easy as it seems.

    • @nadiayousufmalla1878
      @nadiayousufmalla1878 Před rokem +13

      Yes there is fear of judging and people do judge. No one understands completely. And sometimes people misuse your weakness... But if anyone here reading my comment is going through such kind of abuse and has noone to share with. I am here you can contact me i will listen to you without judging you at all.

    • @amane_only
      @amane_only Před 3 měsíci +2

      Fr...

  • @ZMD43
    @ZMD43 Před 5 lety +354

    What the-
    I feel bad... ;(

    • @randomvideos8722
      @randomvideos8722 Před 3 lety +8

      I feel bad too.

    • @pie-1950
      @pie-1950 Před 3 lety +4

      ☹️

    • @philomendaniel6032
      @philomendaniel6032 Před 3 lety +5

      Same 😔

    • @join8998
      @join8998 Před 3 lety +6

      your lives are precious people, i believe you never doubt yourself, you are good the way you are independent of what you are externally and internally, ​​never give up regardless if the situation is bad, continue, you will succeed.

    • @superfan364
      @superfan364 Před 3 lety +2

      @@join8998 PREACH.

  • @moneyman7247
    @moneyman7247 Před 3 lety +431

    The usage of the word “sex” was used pretty bad that was rape still very amazing raising awareness

    • @ss75691
      @ss75691 Před 3 lety +168

      It’s from a child’s point of view. Most children know the term sex before they know the term rape.

    • @marsp5636
      @marsp5636 Před 3 lety +9

      @Shania Silva I knew rape way before I knew sex

    • @moneyman7247
      @moneyman7247 Před 3 lety +14

      Shania Silva I understand where ur coming from

    • @isabellab5491
      @isabellab5491 Před 3 lety +4

      I would say more seduce. But seduce is NO better, Thats convincing somebody to do it.

    • @badchara2214
      @badchara2214 Před 2 lety +2

      Not R@pe*

  • @tuyiorla
    @tuyiorla Před 3 lety +26

    When I was around 15-16 I had a similar problem with a math tutor as well. His office was on the same street as my school, which meant I didn't have to travel far to get there which was very convenient as I live very close by. He told my mother I would need one on one lessons and he didn't charge much so my mom agreed. At first I thought it was odd that he had a room with a bed in full view of the small room he was giving me class in, he told me some students would sometimes come after class and crash there to sleep before their lessons started, he told me I was free to do so as well, and actively encouraged me to go and lay down. I never accepted his offer as I did thought it was weird as hell, he would rub my shoulders when I was struggling with a problem and made me sit in his lap several times :/ I felt so uncomfortable but he reassured me his students loved him and his teaching methods, he always tried to get his face so close to mine, he hugged me tight too. Luckily I passed the exam I needed to keep my grades afloat and I told my mom I no longer needed to go. I never came back, I never said goodbye, I just wanted to forget about him, to this day I regret not saying anything to my mom but I genuinely believed I was the weird one for being uncomfortable about the whole situation, I even felt guilty. It was only years later that I realized how wrong that guy was, and how I wasn't the only girl he was trying to groom and take advantage off. I feel so sick remembering it all, I've passed his office once or twice and I'm glad he no longer tutors anyone as the place seems abandoned.

  • @kenny_drawzz
    @kenny_drawzz Před rokem +49

    I liked how she took the mouse too. Everyone if your being sexually assaulted tell immediately don’t be scared stay strong! 😊

  • @sxulsisters
    @sxulsisters Před 2 lety +257

    I’ve went through the EXACT same experience with my math teacher.. I can definitely relate to the part where Eva said it made her feel gross.. I just felt disgusted with myself and still am still this day.. it happened in 6th grade. I’m in 7th now.(lmao I’m in 8th now HS in 2024: Edit) If anyone else is going through this, I just want to let you know, you’re brave and strong enough to tell someone!! Don’t let your worries stop that 💗

    • @q4m00r
      @q4m00r Před rokem +17

      i hope the best for you! i hope you told your parents or your person, just know you‘re not alone! 💞

    • @sxulsisters
      @sxulsisters Před rokem +8

      @@q4m00r oh my god thank you so much! This means a a lot… 💗

    • @sxulsisters
      @sxulsisters Před rokem +10

      @@q4m00r and yes I’ve told my parents!! Thank you for your concern. Apparently my teacher got fired from what I’ve heard..

    • @q4m00r
      @q4m00r Před rokem +7

      @@sxulsisters that’s great! i hope theyre in jail, or at least got karma for it 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @sxulsisters
      @sxulsisters Před rokem +6

      @@q4m00r I was really hoping he was in jail lol. People like him don’t deserve to just be let off after what they did

  • @sillyfella2009
    @sillyfella2009 Před 4 lety +52

    *tutor touching her
    Me: pretty bad
    "We had sex"
    Me:where to buy medieval knight sword?

  • @juniorgates5762
    @juniorgates5762 Před rokem +56

    I was inappropriately touched by my little brother as a kid in elementary school. When it happened, I was numb and didn't even know how to tell my parents. When I was a junior in high school, I called him out, and he didn't even apologize. I started speaking up, and he would try to find ways for me to not say anything. I'm glad at the age of 25, I put myself in the mindset to accomplish my dream career and not let him be verbal or physically abusive to me

    • @daisym21
      @daisym21 Před rokem +7

      Im so sorry you had to go through that, I hope you get the justice you deserve,
      Reminds me of a similar story, when I was a young child (about 6-7) i was at a family reunion and my grandpas best friend was there. he kept on saying weird stuff to me like ‘if u were just a little bit older id want to marry you and have kids with you’, thank god my mum noticed and got me away from him immediately

    • @juniorgates5762
      @juniorgates5762 Před rokem +4

      @daisymacphee2965 that's terrible what you went through! No one should have to. I continue to speak up about my abuse regularly. God will bring peace and justice

    • @minteteaee
      @minteteaee Před rokem +3

      That is horrible! I’m really sorry u had to go thru that at like 5.❤

    • @Jewel_Salazar
      @Jewel_Salazar Před 7 měsíci

      lil brother? Seriously? I could’ve just hit his eye with a pencil and run off.

    • @purpleX-q
      @purpleX-q Před 7 měsíci

      ​@Jewel_Salazafr

  • @hannahduggan3599
    @hannahduggan3599 Před 4 lety +76

    I had a teacher like this when I was in the 7th grade, but she was another female. She would always embarrass me about my bra and my period out loud in front of the boys in my class and also showed me pornography photos and told me that's what all girls my age at the time must look like and then called me ugly because I looked nothing like those pornography girls. And then she threatened to dump burning hot wax all over my legs if I told anyone about what she was doing to me. That was 10 years ago.
    My 7th grade teacher: Hannah, if you keep on getting your period every month, you're gonna turn into a boy!
    Also her: Gets married a couple of years later, goes through childbirth twice, and still stays female.
    Pregnancy and childbirth are way worse than periods, as Mommy tells me.

    • @HellaFuckingKawaii
      @HellaFuckingKawaii Před 3 lety +7

      Regardless of years that has gone by, it is never too late to report these kinds of people. Let it be known and maybe other may speak up as well. No one deserves to have a happy life when they treated children so wrongly.

    • @capncook2006
      @capncook2006 Před 3 lety +1

      I mean that’s not really sexual abuse but ok

    • @HellaFuckingKawaii
      @HellaFuckingKawaii Před 3 lety +11

      @@capncook2006
      Except that it is. Please don’t comment something when you have no idea what you’re talking about.

    • @capncook2006
      @capncook2006 Před 3 lety +1

      @@HellaFuckingKawaii Except that it’s not. Please don’t comment about stuff you know nothing about.

    • @HellaFuckingKawaii
      @HellaFuckingKawaii Před 3 lety +7

      @@capncook2006 🤡

  • @x.o.-13.
    @x.o.-13. Před rokem +25

    This happened to me. My older brother one day said "Hey do you want to play a game?" I as a young kid didn't think anything of it, so I said yes. He abused me in a lot of ways. For a while I didn't know what to do, so I didn't tell my parents. But then eventually he kept doing it, so I told them.
    Luckily they were loving and understanding about it. He got in so much trouble. He went to therapy, and got help. It's better now, but he has to ask me if he wants to touch me (for example a hug). It hurts, and I feel sad that I can never feel the amount of love I did before he abused me. But I know what I did was the right thing.

  • @shaunastockton1407
    @shaunastockton1407 Před 5 lety +171

    Very intresting, but also super sad.

  • @hamzatahir4278
    @hamzatahir4278 Před 4 lety +96

    People who are too nice for their own good, mostly towards children are those kinds of people that should be put in jail.

  • @tuckernutter
    @tuckernutter Před 3 lety +16

    It breaks me hearing these stories because they really happen, as much as everyone tries to overlook, what people dont want to see. I'm so sorry to everyone who went through this kind of abuse. You're not bad people for what horrible people did to you.

  • @mynameismynameis2000
    @mynameismynameis2000 Před rokem +48

    Parents should **strictly** tell their children and train them on what would happen when stuff like this happens

  • @mac.chalamet
    @mac.chalamet Před rokem +48

    the 3D lady caught me off guard ..

  • @ashleessingingsensations7294
    @ashleessingingsensations7294 Před 7 měsíci +13

    No child, teen, young adult, or even an elderly should go through that, ever! That "tutor" should go to prison for a long time. 😠😠😠😠😠😠

  • @Racc00n-Mama
    @Racc00n-Mama Před 2 lety +55

    I love how the mouse helped her so she helped the mouse❤ this is heart warming and I hope her and the mouse have a good life

  • @WhatVaniReads
    @WhatVaniReads Před 4 lety +47

    These stories made me cry and remember something horrible 😥

  • @Crumble_n_use
    @Crumble_n_use Před 4 lety +69

    That Mr. Allen guy had better get shot

    • @Is-qb3jn
      @Is-qb3jn Před 2 lety +2

      He’s an awful person

    • @thesibsfsurkfb
      @thesibsfsurkfb Před 6 měsíci +1

      Be careful saying these types of things you could get banned. But I agree strongly

    • @Videosxstarlight
      @Videosxstarlight Před měsícem +2

      No that's offensive to the gun😭

    • @Lynxlily
      @Lynxlily Před měsícem +1

      Why

  • @seasonsstarsstudios
    @seasonsstarsstudios Před rokem +60

    When I was sexually abused as a kid my father blamed me and punished me for years afterwards. Most parents are like mine, but I’m glad Eva got the help she needed. But please, speak up against abuse! Abusers are disgusting, horrible people who deserve to be punished.

    • @Aiaiueueuej
      @Aiaiueueuej Před rokem +11

      Im really sorry! Hope everything is alright with you now! And i agree, abusive people are absolutely gross, they should just quit doing these stuff to children and others

    • @seasonsstarsstudios
      @seasonsstarsstudios Před rokem +7

      @@Aiaiueueuej considering my father these days basically ignores the fact that he put me in that dangerous situation in the first place, let alone the fact that it happened, I’m surprised I’m not more messed up. I don’t have any more contact with the abuser anymore, and I recently found out he has Alzheimer’s. I wouldn’t wish it on most people, but in his case it’s what he deserves for doing it to his two daughters, my mom, and me and my younger sister. He’s an evil, evil man who deserves to suffer for what he’s done.

    • @Aiaiueueuej
      @Aiaiueueuej Před rokem +9

      @@seasonsstarsstudios Dayum... Im really sorry, Your Father is Seriously Selfish, I really hope he goes to jail or leave to Another Country to leave you alone. You have been through alot, Im gonna pray for you that everything will go well with your family

    • @minteteaee
      @minteteaee Před rokem +6

      I’m am so sorry. Your SA was never your fault. I really hope you feel better😢❤

    • @JustACreativeMoth
      @JustACreativeMoth Před rokem +3

      That isn't normal. I'm so sorry that happened

  • @amy-9118
    @amy-9118 Před 3 lety +13

    2:06 her voice is like so smooth and gentle... Like it's asmr

  • @jimenabarajas9657
    @jimenabarajas9657 Před 3 lety +14

    So basically the mouse saved her life 😀👍

  • @-AngelKiity-
    @-AngelKiity- Před rokem +163

    I can't believe some people get flustered by this. Sexual harassment and love are two very different things. Imagine if someone sat close to you and got in your personal space, The first thing you want to do is walk away and you feel uncomfortable. It even makes you feel sick. It's a horrible feeling. That's how you feel but like 10 times worse with sexual harassment, It is not love or romantic. It's honestly sickening people can't see the difference

    • @Anastasiaaattt
      @Anastasiaaattt Před rokem +17

      Is never the victim's fault, they can't see the difference because they are being manipulated.

    • @PreciousElegance
      @PreciousElegance Před rokem +7

      That’s what Grooming does, it confuses the vulnerable victim.

  • @sunflower-ws7yd
    @sunflower-ws7yd Před rokem +20

    Pure definition of G-R-O-O-M-I-N-G!

  • @lady_kitty_coffee
    @lady_kitty_coffee Před 5 měsíci +11

    I really didn't get abused before, but now i am a big sister for my autistic sister and she trusts me even more then my parents, so i need to protect her in anyway i can, thanks for the hard working on this video :) 4:54

  • @roxie3286
    @roxie3286 Před 2 lety +37

    It crazy how people Never feel disgusted doing this it’s like they don’t ha be feeling at all :(

  • @JessicaZane4realz
    @JessicaZane4realz Před 2 lety +36

    These kinds of Horrors you just can't ever get over. There's a terrible movie called No Child of Mine, and I literally lived through those moments that that person live through in that movie, and I just don't see how things get better.

  • @goofybbober
    @goofybbober Před 4 měsíci +9

    MR ALLEN WHEN I CATCH YOU MR ALLEN.😡

  • @korilakkumasheart
    @korilakkumasheart Před 2 lety +14

    Honestly,I always watch these especially I’m young I’m only 7! This reminds me that I should never do this !

  • @deadchannel8115
    @deadchannel8115 Před 4 lety +147

    Aren't there cameras at that school?someone should be looking through the cameras for God's sake!if someone checked this situation would have ended quickly,poor girl..

    • @marymosier3932
      @marymosier3932 Před 4 lety +21

      Now in most schools there is no cameras in the classes..

    • @tsharkey1000
      @tsharkey1000 Před 4 lety +3

      then someone would see.... "it"

    • @myleiah
      @myleiah Před 4 lety +13

      Meep Weep most schools aren’t allowed to put cameras in classrooms

    • @deadchannel8115
      @deadchannel8115 Před 4 lety +4

      @@myleiah what?I have cameras in my classes,I though all schools had that

    • @PatZalatoris
      @PatZalatoris Před 3 lety +4

      Most likely not in the classrooms, idk if they even have any inside the halls

  • @J.A.WilsonTheArtist
    @J.A.WilsonTheArtist Před 4 lety +59

    0:25 Evil Look in his eyes

  • @SteveH297
    @SteveH297 Před 5 lety +56

    If me or my friends get sexual abused by someone I know I would’ve also tell my parents, teachers or counselors about it but if it’s someone I don’t know I would’ve taken a picture of it and showed it to the police and tell them about what they did after I reported the sex offender I would’ve get a restraining order. No kid under the adult age is ready for sex, pregnancy or anything sexual abuse related this is not a joke you can get serious consequences for it such as jail time or execution.

  • @diana1730
    @diana1730 Před 5 lety +44

    this made me wanna cry 😢

  • @Luna-yj3it
    @Luna-yj3it Před rokem +19

    Sweet angel im sorry that happened to you. You are an amazing person and hope you're doing better

  • @jerrybirdwell874
    @jerrybirdwell874 Před 5 lety +67

    This happens to me so your not the only one🙁😞

    • @Fofasinghhdk
      @Fofasinghhdk Před 5 lety +6

      Jerry Birdwell really? What happened?

    • @berrygacha8536
      @berrygacha8536 Před 4 lety +20

      Mee too. My benchmate touched my butt and I swear, I was so uncomfortable. He was 11 and I was only ten years old. I tell my teacher and she suspended him for a month. But I still have anxiety attack when I was around him.😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞

    • @sugarmoon6100
      @sugarmoon6100 Před 4 lety +6

      @@berrygacha8536 it wasn't TOO bad but still it may have escalade if you didn't tell anyone so you made the right choice

    • @marianojimenez1245
      @marianojimenez1245 Před 4 lety +2

      dont worry it happened to me to. your not the only one too.

    • @lennycat_114
      @lennycat_114 Před 4 lety +5

      I was abused when I was 6
      Why?

  • @Luna-co2bb
    @Luna-co2bb Před rokem +54

    There’s *no* way Eva wrote that whole story on the front of *one* piece of paper

  • @owllanstar625
    @owllanstar625 Před rokem +8

    That dad was so calm, I would have been behind bars with Allen in a 8 foot ditch if I had found out

  • @kloebennett
    @kloebennett Před 4 lety +162

    I have a question, If I don't feel comfortable talking to an adult, can I talk to my BFF or my best friend about the abuse?

    • @HeyItsTiWordell
      @HeyItsTiWordell Před 4 lety +74

      Yes, pls do. Telling ANYBODY is the best thing to do

    • @intensehummingofevil
      @intensehummingofevil Před 4 lety +19

      Sorry this is coming so late and I hope you're doing better now but tell anyone you trust. And maybe, you can slowly work your way up to telling an adult

    • @heatheranderson7604
      @heatheranderson7604 Před 3 lety +9

      Of course!! U can talk to whoever u feel comfortable talking to.

    • @randomvideos8722
      @randomvideos8722 Před 3 lety +3

      Yes, you can! If you feel comfortable talking to your best friend, do so!

    • @meimounahmeity8350
      @meimounahmeity8350 Před 3 lety +2

      Hell YEAH

  • @jordanmariecreese539
    @jordanmariecreese539 Před 3 lety +3

    I went through this when I was just 7 years old but I told my parents thank God I had the courage to speak up!!

    • @arii6302
      @arii6302 Před 3 lety

      I’m so proud of you❤️ You are so brave!

  • @lennycat_114
    @lennycat_114 Před 4 lety +82

    The Little rat got touched,poor thing😢

  • @ItzNoxx.
    @ItzNoxx. Před rokem +7

    The white mouse needs more credit in this story

  • @piamsayasin4811
    @piamsayasin4811 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm glad I found this channel. No victim blaming and easy to understand.

  • @meimounahmeity8350
    @meimounahmeity8350 Před 3 lety +3

    IF SOMETHING FEELS WRONG...IT IS!!
    I loved that❤

  • @imsussy8541
    @imsussy8541 Před 2 lety +43

    I don't know if it's too late but it's my driver who drives me to schools, he looks at me in a creepy way, smirks at me and it's just uncomfortable and weird, he's like a family friend to my mom she trusts him alot and he talks to me in a child like manner it's just disgusting, I tried to convince my parents to let me go on my own but they never do..I just feel uncomfortable talking to my mom bout this, she'll ask me alot of questions which will make me feel awkward..I just don't know what to do

    • @music_loverbff2682
      @music_loverbff2682 Před 2 lety +13

      You should definitely talk to your mom about this situation. Even if it might be awkward, it will benefit you in the end. It's better to tell her how you feel right away and not to wait. And I'm sure she will support and understand your reasoning. Because that does sound creepy like I know I wouldn't want to go with someone who would make me feel uncomfy.

    • @imsussy8541
      @imsussy8541 Před 2 lety +8

      @@music_loverbff2682 Tysm I'll def open up about it

    • @music_loverbff2682
      @music_loverbff2682 Před 2 lety +6

      @@imsussy8541 Your welcome. And That's amazing! Hopefully all goes well. And Ik you'll feel much better after talking about it. Have a great day/night. ❤

    • @imsussy8541
      @imsussy8541 Před 2 lety +5

      @@music_loverbff2682 Lmao I don't wann loose you 😭😭😭😭 wtf

    • @music_loverbff2682
      @music_loverbff2682 Před 2 lety +2

      @@imsussy8541 LOL

  • @vsbees937
    @vsbees937 Před 3 lety +14

    She stole a mouse.. *A MOUSE* I’d do it too, they cute

    • @mochilover9522
      @mochilover9522 Před 2 lety +1

      I bet they let her keep it as an apology for what happened 😄

  • @metanosratio
    @metanosratio Před 5 měsíci +3

    This is so HEARTBREAKING! I wish this will NEVER happen to ANYONE!😟😟😟😟🥺🥺g

  • @NekoChanSenpai
    @NekoChanSenpai Před 3 lety +33

    The CG segments are a bit creepy in an uncanny valley way.

  • @adoriax4787
    @adoriax4787 Před 3 lety +3

    No child should ever have to go through that. It makes me sob so much seeing this. :(

  • @AbsoluteDigitalPictures
    @AbsoluteDigitalPictures Před 2 lety +38

    I think the mouse would be a better tutor than mr allen

  • @AGLITCHY_
    @AGLITCHY_ Před 4 měsíci +2

    Bro this poor girl man, she should have immediately told her dad or things would have went down hill but the good thing is she still told him, bless her soul ❤❤

  • @Nikku4211
    @Nikku4211 Před 3 lety +15

    2:36 WAIT WHY DOES THE MOUSE HAVE FANGS

  • @e_man_nyc0158
    @e_man_nyc0158 Před 5 lety +101

    I remember when a teacher had sex with a male 14-year-Old 8th Grader and she got pregnant O__O

  • @Charlidmealio
    @Charlidmealio Před rokem +28

    How does an adult actually do that to a child I feel so bad for the people who have experienced this

  • @tiger_shark4742
    @tiger_shark4742 Před 2 lety +55

    2:37
    Okay, really amazing video, very inspirational and empowering to people who have dealt with these things in the past and may be dealing with it now..
    But..
    That mouse is not stuck in its cage 🤨

  • @TheNenDen
    @TheNenDen Před rokem +3

    If I had a kid I would HATE if someone did this to my kid whether boy or girl gender shouldn’t matter my baby matters more!

  • @godzillaplayz5235
    @godzillaplayz5235 Před rokem +11

    Love it! Thank you for spreading good messages like this! :D only complaint was the 3D modeling but that doesn’t have to do with anything

  • @DexxTheDragon427
    @DexxTheDragon427 Před 2 měsíci +4

    🎵hey don’t touch me there this is my Nono square🎵

  • @Ilovegamingsm
    @Ilovegamingsm Před rokem +8

    I feel bad for Eva, I was going to say THEY HAVE SEX IN THE CLASSROOM!? That tutor is a monster

  • @c.s.hetteoriginals7597
    @c.s.hetteoriginals7597 Před 4 lety +26

    She didn't see Mr. Allen again because he went to prison. Now he is "going to tutoring"

  • @flavoredsidewalk
    @flavoredsidewalk Před 3 lety +3

    That poor child. But the saddest thing is, is people go through worse...

  • @braveheartthewarriorcatajClare

    I feel so sorry for the girl! :(

  • @vikktorianwankaegooboro8454
    @vikktorianwankaegooboro8454 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I'm so sorry you had to go through all of the problem situations. Please talk to the counsellor and talk to kids helpline

  • @andybray9791
    @andybray9791 Před rokem +7

    Just shows it isn’t just strangers who abuse. What a brave person you are telling this story. Mr Alan was really a hater, unlike Mr Bergstrom from the simpsons who didn’t abuse children even tho he had no love in his life.

  • @XxShatteredSagexX
    @XxShatteredSagexX Před 2 měsíci +3

    I’d call that tutor a monster, but that’s highly offensive to monsters.

  • @cactusshell1975
    @cactusshell1975 Před rokem +6

    Dang, she got a free pet mouse. Inspiring story. 👍👍

  • @taylor_g
    @taylor_g Před 3 lety +1

    i could hear her voice quaking. it sounds so genuine!

  • @MadisonTobar989
    @MadisonTobar989 Před 5 měsíci +6

    3:45 yea and you made me cry to!😭

  • @supdream8979
    @supdream8979 Před rokem +19

    I was raped by my math teacher too back in highschool she groomed me I feel so disgusted and person I was most close to my girlfriend she left me instead of helping me 🥺

    • @hirahiro2331
      @hirahiro2331 Před rokem +7

      Damn… we’re you able to tell someone?

    • @_-ZZZ-_
      @_-ZZZ-_ Před rokem +5

      That's horrible! I hope you're doing just fine now.

    • @supdream8979
      @supdream8979 Před rokem +7

      @@hirahiro2331 I told my girlfriend in highschool and she thought I cheated on her I told her whole story but she didn't believed me I suffered from PTSD and depression cause of that event for a year that year I dropped out of that school too I told my mom after she asked Me what's wrong at first she thought I turned gay but she asked clearly cause of behavioral changes she cried alot and told my dad they both said why didn't u told us the day it happened we could had medical evidence collected and made sure that woman was arrested well support from them has kept me going I was on a razors edge to giving up and support from you Hira Hiro is amazing thank you may God bless u and keep u safe 🥺💜💜

    • @supdream8979
      @supdream8979 Před rokem +2

      @@_-ZZZ-_ thank you so much I'm so happy that kind people like u exist in this world now I'm in uni I'm doing great I have started a bussinness with my friends and life is amazing may God bless you and keep u safe too 🥺💜💜💜💜

    • @_-ZZZ-_
      @_-ZZZ-_ Před rokem +2

      @@supdream8979 thanks, I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I'm glad you're doing fine. Did the lady get arrested?

  • @user-br1yb8vn4t
    @user-br1yb8vn4t Před 5 lety +46

    So sad :(

  • @xoxo_cl0vr614
    @xoxo_cl0vr614 Před 3 lety +2

    Yo this is great to let kids know to tell others and not stay quiet love it! Keep it up

  • @oceanpp
    @oceanpp Před 8 měsíci +6

    this is why i prefer tutors with the same gender as me. Anyways, I'm glad you told your dad about mr. Allen. I hope you dont get abused ever again

  • @isabellamichael6929
    @isabellamichael6929 Před 4 lety +15

    What evil people in this world

  • @-mellowmelon-9751
    @-mellowmelon-9751 Před 4 lety +4

    i’ve never been through this...but it sounds like hell. i feel bad for anyone who had/has to go through this.

  • @Iquitytlookatmycomunityposgwhy
    @Iquitytlookatmycomunityposgwhy Před 2 měsíci +2

    1:03 that goofy person is making me laugh when I’m trying to be serious

  • @offical._.jade._.
    @offical._.jade._. Před rokem +2

    i love the animation but what a brave girl to tell this story

  • @justbored195
    @justbored195 Před 4 lety +7

    I can't even imagine how this would feel😥

  • @thedoglover5628
    @thedoglover5628 Před 3 lety +3

    No child should ever have to go through that. The mouse was so cute

  • @jazminearzadon9995
    @jazminearzadon9995 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I agree with ya’ll no child ever deserve to be mistreated badly or abused

  • @kayleeperdue2570
    @kayleeperdue2570 Před rokem +2

    We can't keep letting secrets hold us we have to be brave and not embarrassed to talk about stuff like this we have to stand up for areselfs and not all adults have a hold of us we have to break free from secrets at some point or another

  • @grinch5544
    @grinch5544 Před 3 lety +37

    Yes Sexual Abuse Is A Real Problem
    But Why Is This In My Recommended.