Kim finds that sexual abuse that can happen in a relationship online/over text and shows how to navigate a relationship where your boundaries aren't being respected.
Fun fact: did you know you can get arrested for sending anyone's nude without their consent, alot of break up couples get arrested for sending their exes nude photos to the internet.
@@waffelmcdouble7905 I have but it's just my friend (who I really adore and have feelings for) wants me to make-up with them and so I pretended like nothing happened, which sucks.
Jonathan is PISSED because thats his FRIEND, realistic and inspires other friends of abuse victims to stand up to abusers for their friend in cases like these
Okay everyone! Repeat after me: *if you’re dating someone or friends with someone you do not owe them anything sexual nor do you owe them sexual pictures of yourself. No matter how much they pressure you you don’t owe them a single thing. If you’re uncomfortable with sending them sexual things then you have EVERY right to say NO*
If you're dating someone or friends with someone, you do not owe them anything sexual nor' do you owe them sexual pictures of yourself. No matter how much they pressure you, you don't owe them a single thing. If you're uncomfortable with sending them sexual things then you have EVERY right to say NO.
However, the part where a guy ask for a picture after she isn't really into it anymore isn't really that bad to me. Like, yes absolutely being a dick don't do it, but It isn't on par with the black mailing scummy shit.
@@avarice4556 Yeah, no chief. As someone who got out of a relationship with that brand of jackass, it almost feels like they’re gaslighting you into dropping your boundaries and it’s predatory as all hell. Doesn’t matter if they share them or not, if they keep pushing after you’ve told them no, they’re a fucking creep and deserve no respect.
Once, I put an arm around a girl I liked. She said "Stop" and I immediately pulled my hand away, apologized, and never did it again. I would rather feel bad immediately, but save my self-respect than try to go on with something that another person doesn't like.
@@someguy1686 he seems special to me, all the guys I've met in my country, (no not only one, generally all guys outside my family) who didn't even get to me, I've seen them treat other girls sexual abuser-Y (not stopping when girls told them to, literally pulling their dicks out infront of them, cornering them, and the girl trying to get away/panicking) , multiple cases so to me it's like I found a sane human being finally
So was I :( at the same age, it's really terrible and sticks to your mind and you constantly comprehend it because part of you feels like it is your fault. It was terrible of people taking advantage of us at such a young age. I'm glad they made this video realistic and honest, it feels validating to know that we aren't alone
I once was in a relationship like this. The scary thing was he was 18 and knew I was 12 at the time. Please, if you are in a situation like this, ask for help.
Dude, you seriously make me believe that there is hope for humanity. There's so many pieces of shit out there that it's overwhelming! When you see so much of the shit that goes on in this world it's hard to keep the faith. I know that there's not a lot of good people anymore but you ARE one of the few that are good And it doesn't stop there for you. you actually find a way to give back by helping these victims. You're amazing
Some people thinks that "No" is a ungrateful and negative thing to say that some people don't wanna show a little negativity by themselves. But, it's for you and yes when you are is any of this situation that your "yes" would make you fall in a dangerous situation. Then say a big, confident *NO*. Because, you actually need this buddies ❤️
I appreciate your concern for your kids. It's going to be okay. Just remember to start building a foundation early and the trust is going to build with time, patience and mutual understanding. : )
I hate how the predator NEVER gets punished. I get tons of nudes on Instagram, without my consent of course, and whenevr I report them and then report the account, Instagram is like: "sorry, we have bigger problems, like covid, that wasn't important enough for a report". Every fucking time.
As someone who's still getting over being groomed and sexually abused by the internet, this makes me feel valid This now adult has photos of 13 year old me, I'm now free but always afraid and hating myself. But it's getting better...baby steps Thank you so much
im 13 currently and..the same has happened to me, it just ended a few days ago and i dont know how i got into this, i did it when i was even younger too and i stopped for a while, i feel terrible but i have practically no info on the guy so even if i do say whats happened, nithing will come from it but limited internet usage and no longer being trusted by my parents..
@@strikeforgore6626 It’s okay things happen I as well have gone thru the same thing and doesn’t have trust with my parents either. The best thing to do is figure out who has these explicit photos/videos of you so maybe you met them on discord or just messaging idk how ever you met them. Learn how to not exactly hack, but how to find peoples rl names so you can know who this person is. Once you learn how to do so ONLY USE IT FOR GOOD NOT BAD !!!! Once you have their name talk to your parents about it even if they get mad its better than keeping all your emotions inside. If you aren’t ready/comfortable talking to your parents about it then I’m not sure what to tell you..if I think of something else I’ll edit this reply ^^ edit 1: as Karen Lasmin said talking to a trusted friend, or maybe a close family member for example a cousin, an aunt/uncle and so on. Might help but NO PRESSURE once you are ready to talk about your experience with someone you trust AND KNOW will help you get thru it !! Things will get better life is a long obstacle but I know you can get through this
Ik it sounds funny but it actually happened to me over the summer, I was talking to one of my “friends” on Snapchat, we had science together that’s where we met. Then we started sending pics a week or two later, I started to feel uncomfortable and didn’t want to do it anymore, so I text him that “I miss you “ and he would actually say “send pics”
Pumpkin Sweater! Boys don’t respect boundaries, boys take what they want if you let them, or don’t stop them. That’s why we need to teach the young women not to allow boys to have their way so then they can become men or they’ll grow up to be man babies
This is gonna sound ridiculous because of where I met this dude, but I’m just gonna say it. Your comment reminded of this dude I “met” in ROBLOX. I haven’t played it in almost a year because I’m already busy with school and I want to focus on my academics and my irl friends and family (I’m about to finish school so that’s why), so I haven’t spoken to him in about 8 months (and I never told him that I wasn’t gonna be online anymore since I lost interest in playing and I don’t want him to see me online). But basically, I met him after saying that we looked like twins because our characters shared a similar appearance and I thought that he would just say “lol” or “…” and that would be the end of it since we had only just met. Was very wrong :) He said lol and then asked me how i was doing, where I’m from, etc., nothing too weird, and I gave him broad answers. I did the same, asked where he was from, and asked him the same things he asked me, just to kill time since I felt in the mood to socialize a bit. Then he friended me and I accepted it, trying to be nice and expecting him to unfriend me a few days after this convo since we literally just met and had nothing in common. Then he asked me for my Instagram, unexpectedly, but I gave him the name of my account I used to make memes with, again, just to be nice and expecting him to eventually not talk to me anymore, and then we would talk on there. I used to only talk to him once a week or every 2 weeks and the convos were dry BC WE DIDNT KNOW EACH OTHER. Weird stuff that happened not long after we met: he asked me to buy him robux for him since it was his birthday (I said no bc what I just met him and I’m not about to be doing that 😀 I even said it politely) and I think he lied to me about his age bc I could’ve sworn that he told me he was 13 or 14 when we first met but when I told him I was 16, he said he was 15 about to turn 16. I even told him that I thought he was 13 bc he said that last time, and he was like “oh no I’m about to be 16 lol”…weird. After the robux thing, I became skeptical about him bc no person would do that unless if they were like 10 or 9 years old. I let it slide even tho it left me dumbfounded and a bit ticked off 😅Time passed by, and I had some weeks where I would talk to him every 3 days or 4 days in a week, and I slowly got to know him. He seemed to be the type of kid who would get into trouble a lot and he would cuss a lot, and it’s funny because he seemed to be a nice person at first, like I literally thought that he was younger than me by like 6 or 7 years, so I thought he was 10 bc of the way he he used to type. And he might be but idek bc of the other things he’s done Ok let’s get to the weirdest part(s): So, one day he opened up to me about how his uncle died and that he loved him so much and that he was so upset. I comforted him and I felt bad. I tried my best to send him the best messages to make him feel better, it took me so long to write my messages, but I thought it was worth it and I felt like a sister to him just doing this. Then, literally not long after he talked about this, he asked for a pic of myself. He’s done it several times. Another example was when he told me he broke up with his gf because she cheated and then asked for a foot pic to cheer him up and put the “;)” face. Stupid me still apologized and politely said no, while also letting him know that I was starting to get skeptical with his stories since he always ended up asking for a pic 🙃 and I always felt stupid afterwards for even showing empathy for his gimmicks only to find out that he was trying to get me to send him pictures. He’s probably joking around and trying to blackmail me, but I haven’t sent him any pics of me and never will. O yeah, he’s told me he has a foot fetish and he would always ask me if I wear heels and to show him my shoes “to get to know me better”. I’ve said no, bc I knew how stupid and weird that was, he apologizes, but he still asks for pics later on. Trolled him the first time he asked for foot pics with a pic of Soos’ feet from Gravity Falls and he goes “hah” “I was being srs”. he’s also asked me if I think he’s weird, I was being nice for the millionth time and said really stupid cheesy crap, “everybodys weird in their own way😄 blah blah “ and he didn’t react to my answer and talked about something else. He did that a lot, ignore what I said and ask about a completely other thing or say something random and act like nothing happened. Like this other time, he probably lied to me and told me a sob story after another 3 sob stories and I tried giving him advise and comfort, and he ignored all of it and talked about something else. Other weird things he’s done is ask for my password on ROBLOX just to change my characters outfit (didn’t give it to him ofc) and he’s sent me sexual pictures like twice and I think he deleted one of them from the chat on Instagram. I’ve never said anything to offend him and I’ve always told him to stop asking me for pictures of any kind because I’m not comfortable with doing that (and I don’t trust this dude at all 😭) but he still asked me for pics in the future. Wow that was a lot sorry😅😅😅 I’ve only told one person about this and writing this felt good. But yeah I haven’t posted on that Instagram account bc I don’t want him bothering me about me ignoring him even though I want to. I restricted him on Instagram btw and the latest messages are him saying hey hey heyyy hey “are you ok?”, all on diff days and a meme. I also haven’t logged into that ROBLOX account bc I don’t want him to bother me. But I haven’t blocked him bc I kinda feel bad if I do that after telling him that I was there for him if he needed a friend to speak to when he was having hard times (but now I don’t even know how accurate all of those sob stories were) and I’m paranoid that he’s gonna try hunting me down and confront me about it on other accounts. He’s a part of this hacker club and earlier, he’s told me his friends are hackers and ngl, I’m paranoid that he’s gonna have them do something to me out of spite 🙂 I know that this could be a complete lie since people like pretending to be hackers and he’s already tricked me way too many times, but I’m still nervous that they’ll do something to me. He’s joked about knowing my IP address out of nowhere if that says anything. Alright I’m done blabbering, sorry about this crazy long comment. But I’m curious what do you guys think?
Let me just say this: If you get with someone, guy _or_ girl, and you always feel pressured to send things you're not comfortable with, and then they get upset that you don't send anything, that's on them. They're not worth the time.
i was in a relationship like this and i can still barely comprehend how bad it actually was. my brain tricks me into thinking im just being dramatic, but these kind of videos help me realize the reality of my situation. it hurts, a lot, but i need it.
Honestly I was in a situation similar to this aswell and I won’t lie, I do feel like we can’t say that something is worse or better in these situations because at the end of the day it’s what the victim of what happened is feeling after and the affects that still linger with it. I hope you’re doing better though and get the help you need.
This happened to me at a young age and has caused me to have ptsd that still affects me even after therapy, I’m so glad there are videos like this that spread awareness.
Yeah, cause that’s what people are taught. To blame the victim when it’s entirely the perpetrators fault. The don’t give any punishment to the perpetrator what so ever and they always blame the victim. And they usually only victim-blame the female victims. A lot of the time when a boy/man gets harassed everyone is supportive and telling him it’s not his fault (cause it isn’t) but when a girl/woman opens up about it they always blame her.
@@dragonfander8135 Actually, my real life experience tells me the opposite. When a girl says "rape" the community supports her. When a boy or man says it, people say "bullshit" and despise him. When a woman says "harassment" (especially "sexual harassment") the man is convicted before trial. When a man says it, people laugh at him, even in the face of evidence. Jokes like "Man, I wish that would happen to me". A SNL skit was even done about a 13 year old boy that was raped by his female teacher. It was a joke. Do you understand? Victim blame? In our society, men can't even be victims. Men are always the perpetrator.
@@kennethteitelbaum6998 my comment is kinda old. I don't even remember what I said but I've actually noticed that people are quick to tell men that “you can't be raped/harassed, you're a man” and “you should have enjoyed it” but they're quick to tell women, “you were asking for it” “it's your fault” “you're overreacting”. The community doesn't take men or women seriously. And the reason men are accused more is that a perpetrator is usually a man. Even in cases where men were assaulted. Not saying women don't rape, cause they do. Also, I've never really heard of anyone convicted for harassment alone, man or woman. Rapists are barely convicted too, also rape is way underreported. And no one’s convicted before a trial. That just doesn't happen
ALSO: If you are one of the friends of a person who is asking for, or showing people other people's nudes CALL. THEM. OUT. stand up for the person whos powerless in that situation. As somebody whos personally witnessed my brother's friends, or even just people at school just go along with it and not do literally anything to show the predator they are being a predator... it makes me sick.
@@fjfhdhdhdhdychiuovjoihcyxt3422Interestingly enough I had something similar happen to me but it was from a young person demanding something from me. I didn't give an inch tho, but the way they spoke made me wonder how many others obliged. It honestly feels like in the future there's going to be far more government institutions on platforms like Discord, Facebook, Instagram, and any and every social media possible especially ones like KiK. Stuff like this happens all the time and in much more egregious fashions.
my teacher showed this video in our class and everyone was laughing at it..each person was busy gossiping and laughing about the video...i didn't listened to that video as i was busy doing my assignments but today i got it's recommendation and came to know how important it is..we are immature sorry :(
Hahah lol true. I once pretending to be a predator on discord, well its so weird ( i know, Well actually at first, I though I would met some youtuber who will pretend to be underage girl , soo thats why ykk) and some kids these days are so smart, as long as im asking for "pic" they immediatly block me, which i'm proud. But some kids trolling me by asking me to send a d**/k picture of me (Bc they thought I was an actual discord pedo), funny thing is I dont even have one (i'm a girl) and I troll them back with a picture of an actual c * (Its a chicken).
This channel has come a long way:D I’ve always liked this channel, it helped me talk about my abuse story. I felt alone, I used all the advice of sexual abuse and eventually got the justice I needed. Thank you, I have and always will guys in notification.❤️
people who don't have any empathy for hard working individuals. I LOVE what he said... there's no room for hate, but that doesn't mean you have to like them, either. I am SO GLAD you showed up *JOHNSON SPY* in the nick of time to remove my videos and also image’s from their system, This is why I watch your videos, recommendations and I couldn't love what you do more than I do. Thank you for protecting innocent people. Thank you for reporting criminals. Thank you for doing what all of us would do if we could. Keep fighting!!! Much love.
I love how they actually explained that what some people watching are doing might be abuse, because it’s not like every abuser realizes how manipulative they’re being. That’s not an excuse, but it might help if they actually see what they’re doing is wrong.
I'm glad that they got a teen for this! (I'm assuming) bc people forget that teens are minors and that child abuse expands to teens as well! Really glad this is up :)
Thank you for spreading awareness on this, I realized I actually have gone through this when I was 13, a guy named Jonathan acted just like this, along with my ex, and some other creeps
i like how this video doesn't shame people for having online relationships, just encourages kids/teens to be safe while using online spaces. i guess it's only natural seeing how much the internet is used now, but growing up i remember just being discouraged from using the internet entirely, and being scolded for talking to people online. since i was a teenager, i wasn't going to listen to it! this is how educating children/teens about the dangers SHOULD be like!
I once was in a relationship like this, I was 11, and he was 18. When he asked to call, that’s when he first asked me. I was so scared and clueless but I left the call, and blocked him on all social media. I was left shaking in fear, and I never opened up about this to anyone. Not even my parents.
I’m 13, he’s 33. I want to stop, I know I can block him, I know I can end this but I’ve grown attached and it’s messed up and I want to be normal again :(
@@joemybeloved3705 GIRL THIRTY-THREE!!!???? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I know its hard but please PLEASE PLEASE get the strength to leave. he is an adult with a child. he is not someone u should be with and def not someone that is gonna be with u for the rest of ur life. he needs to go to jail!! And imagine if your parents found out😭😭 ive been through a situation like this when i was 5-6 and some guy asked for my number on a game and asked for me to send him pictures of me touching myself. i thought it was normal because ive experienced this all throught out my younger childhood and it didnt stop till middle school (im in high school now) I now feel like thats my safe space yk but its REALLY bad. U DEF DONT NEED TO BE WITH A OLD MAN LIKE THAT!!! DUDE IS BASICALLLY 99 YEARS OLD!!!!!
@@joemybeloved3705 omg please leave him, the relationship you have with that 33 y/o guy will eventually bring damage to your own self. i know it's hard but u will feel so much better after getting out of that relationship
This exact same thing happened to me when I met someone I trusted online. I was around 16, every time we would chat the first thing he would ask was for pictures, one time he asked me to take a selfie without my shirt on. Please be careful with who you talk to, you may never know what they’ll do.
In 7th grade, one of my classmates posted his girlfriends nudes on Snap Chat. The school punished him, he got suspended for the rest of the year and he's on some list. In the court of public opinion though... everyone I spoke to right after the incident was blaming her. "She shouldn't have sent him the nudes" Yeah, right, she shouldn't have but that never gave him the right to post them! It was 7th grade though and I assumed that no one really understood the gravity of what he had done. The next year he came back to school and it was like nothing had changed. I was the only person I knew who was creeped out by him. When I asked my friend why she was okay being around and talking with him she just told me "It's been a year- he's changed." He had not changed. He felt no remorse. In fact, he enjoyed bragging about it. However, most everyone I talked to echoed her sentiment. Everyone's forgotten about him but the girl is still teased mercilessly. I just assumed, again, that my classmates didn't understand the full magnitude of how he violated her. The year after, I joined the Cross Country team. I was running with one of my team mates and we passed her. I waved, she didn't. As soon as we were out of earshot, my team mate immediately began talking about all that went on in 7th grade, again placing the blame solely on the girl and absolutely none on him. I've realized that the victim blaming mentality in this situation is never going to change unless we educate ourselves. If this was any other form of sexual abuse- the conversation would be completely different. It's disgusting. ALSO: If anyone wants/needs/knows someone who needs to watch a really well done and extremely disturbing video on the danger of online relationships- look up Kayleigh's Love Story. It was made after a small town teenager was murdered. Online grooming factored heavily into the case. It's extremely dark but is very emotionally moving and really gets its point across. It's a completely different kind of online sexual abuse than this video but is still important.
Did we go to the same school? You talking about a girl named Courtney and she dated a Tristan? Because that sounds extremely similar to a girl in my class tbh. Although, maybe not, she _was_ kind of, uh, "the town bicycle", let's just say.
@@TheRealBlazingDiamond No, it's not the same school. The girl's named Jayden and the boy Talon. I assume her's is a rather a common experience among girls who had their nudes leaked.
I’m obsessed with these.. I love that they have all the characters in each others videos or in the background.. it really emphasizes that things like this happen to everyone.. ESPECIALLY people you know.. and that you can talk to them about it..
Personally I think once someone you met online starts asking for pics you tell them no but when they start asking constantly then you should block them because it’s your choice and people should respect your choice
I was in a relationship quite like that. It was online, met him through my online school and well.. it went on for 5 - 6 years. I am happy though that I was finally able to be free from what seems like a cage that I could never escape. (I love your videos, Love the channel. Just found it today!)
How to out creep the creep. "Send pics" "No u" Or if you are close close "Send pics" "Why don't you come and see it in person ;)" Sorry these came up in my mind when I watched it.
Don't worry. Not only is outcreeping a creep pretty effective and fun, but humor is a healthy and natural coping mechanism for mental stress. Why do you think the best comedians are usually fucked in the head?
I relate to this a lot. There was this guy that I thought was a new friend to have. I even met him irl once. He wanted me to send pics and he would ask a lot. Until I had a breaking point. I feel ashamed for sending pics. But now he doesn't talk to me, and I don't talk to him either. I hate it when you get pressured and too weak to just say "no"
Man, this hit me home so goddamn much. Get ready for a ramble in this 'cause I have so much to unload. I was groomed and sexually abused online, by someone who I considered close. I was 16, and he was 18. We never talked in person, as he lived in Canada and I lived in the US. We were close. We had like... this fatherly and daughterly relationship, one to where that I could consider him as one of my best friends of all time, but due to some things happening to my mental state, I was vulnerable. I gained feelings for him after going through a breakup that meant the most to me -- which I *thought* it was before. He was an emotional rebound, and that I'll admit. And that's when things went downhill. We weren't in a relationship, but it sure as hell felt like one. When I confessed to him, he claimed that he didn't have feelings for me, but he 'felt' something towards me, and wanted to be *friends with benefits.* I had to say no. I HAD TO SAY IT. But I didn't. It was normal... right? No. It wasn't. I was used, and he claimed that he didn't want to make me feel uncomfortable, but I was anyways. In my gut, I knew it was wrong. But I couldn't say anything -- nobody would believe me. We would always do these... voice calls on Discord, and I had to practically act like as if I was incredibly turned on. He would also make me say *"I love you"* to him a lot. He only said it back if he felt like it. It was... awful. Horrendous. I unfortunately sent pictures to him too, and it was for 'body positivity' even though that shit is incredibly false. Now, 2 years later, he's finally exposed for the shit he's done and is now labeled as a pedo from my peers. He's groomed other girls, and I'm fairly certain that I was the first. Or the second. Either way, I felt so fucking disgusted with myself, that I couldn't see myself with anyone anymore. Currently, I'm together with someone who loves me for who I am. I've been dating her for 1 year and 5 months now! I'm not revealing names in this, but please be careful about who you talk towards online. Don't trust *anyone.*
I am ecstatic to express my deepest appreciation for the profound compassion and empathy shown by Nck mythss1 during my sextortion journey. Their unwavering commitment to assisting me and providing a safe and understanding environment has brought immense happiness into my life. Thank you, Nck mythss1, for being my guiding light and filling my heart with joy.
I once was sexual abused too by my online ex. It was like going thru hell and deep sadness. Thank God my mom found out and took my phone and threw it on the floor so it broke. I felt at first really pissed off because of her, but then after getting calmed down I was really happy! Thank you to those protective mothers and fathers out there ❤
Don't show your body to others. Cover your body like you cover your phone to protect from accidents. Share everything with your mother... Never get too attached before knowing
Yeah right, its the victim's fault for wearing what they like to wear. Its their fault if some horny men start asking them for nudes. Yep, cover yourself from top to bottom. Let's see how it will change the situation. And no, not everyone's mothers are as kind as yours. The only point I agree with is not to get attached with people before knowing. Once they start making my uncomfortable, confront them about it. Even if its a relative or someone you know and are close to. Learn to stand you for yourself.
To every girl who is watching this. Please immediately block all contacts with someone who aaja you irrelevant and sexual things. I have been through this. And one more thing it is possible that you also might have went through the flow sometimes but it doesn't give someone the permission to keep abusing you.
If someone does keep asking for pics , I recommend reporting them to the police Edit : Y’all what I’m saying is if they keep pressuring you to send pics , then block them. I understand what you are saying , but what I’m saying is my opinion
my friend got sexually harassed over text by her friend. the teachers and counselors all dismissed it since they’re both the same age, and that the abusers family was friends with the principal. even her parents didn’t trust her because they thought it was her fault for getting herself into that.
i took advantage of someone when i was young, i regret it every single day of my life. i didn't even realize what i was doing, they never expressed it and i thought they were totally fine. i didnt force her, if she told me i really wouldnt have done anything, i would have 100% dropped it. but i cant blame her, i know it was me. i just wish i hadnt accidentally given her that trauma, i wish i noticed
@@alexharo7925 i really didnt mean to, this was many years ago and i never realized it was happening. i am very ashamed and i hate myself every day for this, im not walking off scott free trust me. i know what ive done.
Thank you for this. I wish I'd had this when I was being exploited online a few years ago. I've struggled with feeling like it was my fault ever since. I really hope this helps somebody who might be in that situation now. It is NOT YOUR FAULT. Get out as soon as you can. Tell your parents. It is so much worse to keep going along with it. You are okay. You are loved.
these videos r old but this is my new comfort channel, i was raped when i was 5 so seeing these cute animations of ppl speaking against sexual abuse rlly makes me happy!
Just some advice : • Stay away from online dating stuffs • Date only if you can meet with your partner irl regularly • Before dating, try to get to know them It would be the best if you don't date and focus on yourself for now. But if you've graduated college and currently like someone, tell your parents so that they can speak to their parents and arrange your marriage if possible. Still, it's all upto you, just try not to take steps which might lead to harmful circumstances
This is the same thing I’m saying. I’m not victim blaming or anything but a lot of these situations that I hear about could have been prevented if people would’ve been a bit more smart and realized that they don’t have to send anything and that the choice is still theirs. Online dating and sending nudes is very dangerous and that’s why I completely avoid it. Creeps perverts groomers and child molesters hide behind those funny little icons and fake names.
This. All of this. I just got out of a horrible online relationship and I wish I had listened to this advice a year ago but I listened to my feelings instead. Every day I wish I hadn't.
1:55 this moment was terrifying. Took me 6 months to be free. No matter what I did to avoid it, he kept finding new ways to get my attention. It felt worse then death and i didnt want to die. Similar to this videos story. He even showed one to my bestie. To convince them to disappear. We escaped together. A memory and a monster we will never forget. Watching this made me feel a little better. But it also brought back the anxiety I had. Its a terrifying situation, and I try to help others in similar. Talking about it is important. Those monsters wont win. We are stronger than that.
I am a person who had suffered through this and I started online dating when I was 10. The guy was 15, I didn’t know that was him being a creep. He asked for pictures A LOT and then it soon turned to the fact of when I was 12, I had enough and changed my username, my email, etc. and blocked him out of my life. Just because a stranger seems nice to you at first doesn’t mean they’ll be your soulmate. Don’t talk to strangers online no matter what. Even if they make you feel happy, it can turn terrible.
JOHNATHAN IS GOATED. He’s a great friend and everyone needs a friend like him. Especially the ones who have had this happen. I’m so sorry for that and I hope you’re doing well or better at least. ♥️
Did anyone get down a rabbit hole of these videos and the party she talked about was in 2 other videos this is all happening in the same universe which shows that what this channel is talking about can happen to anyone! Be careful!
3:46 "That's disgusting." Agreed, it is disgusting, and never wanna do that crap. I can relate to Kim in this situation because I had a boyfriend of mine who keeps forcing me to send pics of my foot multiple times and it was completely unnecessary and repetitive, I'm not sure if he had a foot fetish or something. I already have a newer boyfriend but at least he doesn't have any fetish or kink, or never forces me to send pictures of any body part of mine.
@@ksmart1235 Sorry this is late. But. No, it wasn’t wrong. If you weren’t comfortable with it then absolutely not. If he asked for your consent, then thats a different story. Make sure to always share your boundaries with people, and let them know right off the bat you arent who they’re wanting. Plus.. if he’s asking for pictures of feet of all things he has a lot more problems- Even if it is a natural thing, it is not like a man nor a woman can’t control themselves. They should always take no for an answer, and should always expect that you either say yes OR no instead of setting their mind on you saying yes. That being said, even if it is natural, some people dont feel that sexual attraction at all. Im asexual, I’ve never desired sex from anyone nor do I ever plan to, and I’ve been in healthy relationships that didnt involve that kind of intimacy at all. Really, its all about you two sharing what you’re comfortable with, and usually I get it done right off the bat just to get any questions out of the way before it gets a little awkward. If you aren’t ready but think you may be one day, tell them that you’ll keep things in mind, and may want the same thing in the future, but for now, you want to think things over and just spend some time with him in other ways to ensure you’re comfortable when you are, if ever, ready to take that step. If he leaves you because you aren’t on the same page, then that is not your fault. Relationships are about mutual understandings, and if he cant respect a boundary or meet a medium then perhaps its best he leaves and finds someone who is ready, or if he likes you well enough, he may stick around to see how you feel later and spend different forms of time with you! Its always okay to say no, and zero amount of horomones can make it okay for somebody to pressure you into something you’ve made it clear you don’t want to do. But its also a red flag if youre looking for a serious relationship and they start asking for sexual favors right away. That would just tell you that they were probably looking for someone they could mess around with rather than build a bond with and get to know. To me, at least, sex is more of an activity you guys can share together if you wish to incorporate that into your relationship eventually. It shouldn’t be one-sided by any means, both parties should be consenting adults who both want to participate.
This is a true thing that happened to me, I broke up with him start after I got more uncomfortable so I decided to stay out of reach from he but he kept asking for pics only and doesn’t look like he cared anymore. Warning, try not to date online sometimes it can turn out bad but the thing is, try dating when your older not 10 or 12 still too young maybe try high school when you get to know better people to understand them well enough to trust them :)
Sometimes I wonder if things like this have happen to me. I had this guy friend who would always talk about how pretty I was. We were in the same grade. I have to admit, I had a crush on him at the time, but it soon got uncomfortable. The compliments turned into touching, the touching to kissing, and everything felt so scary. I remember we were hanging out on the blacktop but all of a sudden I had ended up in his lap. Soon I started to realize this wasn’t ok. He would touch me and I didn’t like it. Soon we had to break up our relationship. I wouldn’t call it abuse, because we didn’t really do anything, but it was definitely a scary place to be in.
Thanks for sharing. Me personally, whenever a person compliments on someone’s appearance especially coming from the opposite sex, that should be a red flag in itself. There is exceptions but there is a very higher likely chance of that person’s self control to be shaky and can’t resist temptation later down the line. I have experienced this time and time again and I would always choose to never be near or get close to these types of people every chance I can get. Things like strangers on the street complimenting me or even to the level of sexual harassment I had no control of. our gut feeling/intuitions will always help us direct and keep us safe when we are on our own.
@@jaky411 I don't think that's a healthy habit. I understand you've had negative experiences in the past regards people touching you or possibly even worse, but just thinking that someone giving light compliments towards your appearance as an indication that they'll R* you out of lust doesn't seem healthy to me, it seems potentially problematic and even chances that you could miss out on potentially great people(who don't all have to be your significant other) just because they say you look attractive.
@@avarice4556 It was more of an uncomfortable feeling and it just got worse the more a tried to go along with it. Even when I asked him to stop he would still do it and I guess I thought that if I never stopped hanging out with him, things would get too intense. However, I do believe that people can change and he's probably a much better person now.
I remember suggesting my story of online sexual assault (a man pressured me into sending nude pics when I was f ing 9) to a blog who had been posting #metoo stories. they declined it. like, I get it, sure, it's not as traumatic as other people's stories. but it actually made me feel shitty, as if it's nothing. like nothing bad happened to me. like it's not assault. not to mention they made the representation sexual assault a bit less representative..
Yeah I don't know why people do this... Their logic is like: "oh you got physically damaged? Abuse ... only psychologically damaged? No, it's not abuse" and the worst part is when they make you think you are being exaggerated or that you don't have the right to complain. Asking for/sending nudes to a person who says no is abuse too
Whenever I get sexually harassed on the internet, I always try to mute them or just leave the call. I'm only 13 (when I'm posting this) so hearing things from people just make me sad, embarrassed, and all I want to do is cry. Watching these types of videos reminds me that you can call them out and ask them to please stop. Unfortunately, I never had the courage to do this, instead I would just laugh it off as a joke. But the words they say will always stay in my mind forever. Also watching these kind of videos makes me not feel alone. I also don't have any friends, we kind of grew apart over covid because we never saw each other. I've always felt too embarrassed to ask my own mom for help on how to deal with people like this. So now I feel all alone. The only reason I play videogames is for the fun of it, but people like this, takes the fun out of it. I hope one day the world will change and realize that its not okay for kids to go through this.
I'm sorry you've dealt with harassment and that you and your friends have grown apart. That happens sometimes unfortunately, but you'll have a chance to make more, you're still young. Anyhow, I just wanted to say although it'd be an awkward conversation. You shouldn't hold back on asking your mom on how to handle sexual harassment. It's nothing to be ashamed of, it's good that you want to learn how to protect yourself. A word of advice from me is to learn how to set down boundaries. Like you said you can mute or block people. I'd also refrain from sharing your age online. That can make you a target in some instances.
Whenever people try to get me to send pics or whatever I just block them or if I’m on Omegle or something I just end it. Even though it’s not your fault if it happens to you still nobody’s forcing you to send them and it’s always up to you whether you do it or not. The block button exists and so does the police station.
This feels like an animation of one stage in my life I still feel so ashamed of. Even when I was fifteen years old I think I was an easy victim of manipulation because of my low self-esteem and that kind of person don't show how they really are until it seems to be too late... They really gain your trust slowly and act sweet like a dream but all turns to be a nightmare where you feel everything is your own fault. It's a hard hit when you realize that someone who says "I love you" is only using you and will treat and throw you away like trash if you say no.
Your situation are same like mine :( i thought he is really the one yet i always give everything for him cause i love him and he said he love me too :(( we've online dating for a year but then he dissapeared. I was so dumb i'm so immature that time for sharing my pics. I really hope he not doing anything with my pics tho,,I can't say no cause i love him and he said he will not talk to me if i Don't share any pics,, he never share me what his face looks like :< but anyways i hope you're doing okay :)) i hope you not stressed yourself out 👉👈
I like this animation since I've been in two online relationships before. The first one was where the guy was pressuring me into sending sexual messages and pictures and stuff. I did because I didn't want to disappoint him or make him upset with me. After talking to a random person online about it, they told me how that was actually a very bad thing and explained to me why and such. I broke it off with that guy before things got very far, but I was pretty young for that kind of thing, so it made me feel extremely uncomfortable at the time. This guy also tried to guilt-trip me into going back to him, constantly telling me about how sad he was that I was leaving. For about a year this guy would send me messages on holidays wishing me the best in my life when I had told him repeatedly that I disliked this. The second guy is one I'm still with now. We already made sexual jokes and stuff before we got together, so eventually flirting turned into me asking him if he wanted pictures since it was the only way I knew how to make a guy happy. He accepted, not knowing that I was still pretty uncomfortable with it. He wasn't pressuring me in the slightest, only having me send stuff since I offered. Recently, over two years into our relationship, I told him that I was and still am slightly uncomfortable with it. He immediately told me to stop and wait until I was ready. People, the second scenario here is the kind of relationship you should be in. Not the first.
Nobody deserves this. No matter what happens I will continue to fight for those who need it. Please, to women and men, your value does not come from your sexual value or attractiveness, but the beautiful person you were meant to be on the onside. I love you all and pray for you
I’m so glad this video and this series exists. I was sexually manipulated online when I was 14. Luckily he didn’t post anything cause I only sent him one of me in just a shirt, nothing too revealing, but he would pressure me and manipulate me a lot, asking me for more, more more. If I didn’t, he would ask me if I didn’t love him or even threaten to take his own life. And I was scared of what he would do if I left him. I’ve never met him in person but he still caused so much damage to me and my life. People tell me it’s not the same as getting physically sexually abused or that what I went through isn’t as bad as other’s experiences... What I went through still impacts me to this day. I have trust issues, social anxiety and low self confidence in my body. I wish they would show these videos in school. The animation is amazing for one (sorry, art nerd here), the way they explain things and the storylines, it’s a good thing to spread awareness with and talk about to those who might not fully understand.
I suffered from the same thing.. exactly same.. he would threaten me that he'll suicide if I didn't do what he asked . I was so scared.. those things still haunt me
Girl i experienced the same thing & it did give me literal panic attacks depression for non stop 2 yrs..he manupulated me into thinking im less worthy ..in the 1st yr ..he showed his best version from 1st 2 months than he showed his true colors but its too late to leave him..bcoz i fell in love its my early 20's..he started to ask me half nudes ..i was trapped ..there is a feeling of it was wrong but still i dont want to loose him..i didn't share it to anybody..i tried to tell him so many ways that i dont like it..but day by day he manupulated me to do that constantly..after 1 yr i took stand for myself & steeped away from relation..he came back to me 3 times..i tracked his pattern..1st he showed his gentleman sides then when hes realising that i've gotten into him he stratrd to show again his old pattern ..& if i refuse to give he just strted to act like im no one to one ..sometimes he says disrespectful things to me which is unbearable ..then early of 2023 when he came back to me again i showed no interest on him he came to realise im not going to manupulated by him no more..so he tried his old tictacs to know if i had feelings for him..when he fully get to know i lost interest he tried to provoke me by sending & unsending massages to get a reaction ...but i blocked him after that..& he never showed up..thank to god that i didn't entertained him any longer..thank god for giving me the stregnth that i moved out myself from it by my own...i felt lot of guilt & that thing destroyed my image..bcoz im that girl who didn't lock eyes on the roads to anyone..& he made me do that..ghoshh hes ugly aff tbh..but his words manupulation did that to me..so be aware of this shitt..take time to know pepoles real intention towards you..dont jump on anything..now im out of this trauma ...bcoz its not my fault ...its just their fault they took advantage of emotions & innocence..he। will get his karma for sure..
Fun fact: did you know you can get arrested for sending anyone's nude without their consent, alot of break up couples get arrested for sending their exes nude photos to the internet.
Yep, it’s called Revenge Porn and it’s illegal in a lot of places, but unfortunately not everywhere. Hopefully one day it will be.
@@enharmonics yep!
Good to know, my fake friend sent my old school my photos. He also, kinda touched me in a way I didnt like but continued...
@@bunnyx3246 I hope you recover from this incident
@@waffelmcdouble7905 I have but it's just my friend (who I really adore and have feelings for) wants me to make-up with them and so I pretended like nothing happened, which sucks.
“You’re acting like a predator.” Hello my name is Chirs hansen and this is how to catch a predator.
That’s a coincidence that I found you here lol
didn't chris hansen literally say something about kids/babies being hot
Spine Squisher where? Send proof
y e s
Spine Squisher I think your confusing Shane with Chris ..
Jonathan is PISSED because thats his FRIEND, realistic and inspires other friends of abuse victims to stand up to abusers for their friend in cases like these
Jonathan's a good friend.
Jonathan is good person
Jon a than
Jonathon is a legend
Jonathan is a great person
Saying NO *protects* you almost all situations in your life !
I said no to mom and am in heaven
You r right dear..
But it is much difficult to say no...to a person whom you trust..
But we should learn to say no....👍
*Kidnapper:* No "No" power can stop me!!
*Moms:* ... *whoops your butt to heaven*
school shooter: points gun at you
'NO'
school shooter: understandable have a nice day
Not really some people don’t give a shit
Jonathon: “Sorry for interrupting.”
Nono, you got a point. Continue.
666th like aaaa
jonathan
Exactly!
You sound like Kronk from Emperors New Groove😂
period purr
Okay everyone! Repeat after me:
*if you’re dating someone or friends with someone you do not owe them anything sexual nor do you owe them sexual pictures of yourself. No matter how much they pressure you you don’t owe them a single thing. If you’re uncomfortable with sending them sexual things then you have EVERY right to say NO*
Thank you
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 preach
If you're dating someone or friends with someone, you do not owe them anything sexual nor' do you owe them sexual pictures of yourself. No matter how much they pressure you, you don't owe them a single thing. If you're uncomfortable with sending them sexual things then you have EVERY right to say NO.
Book of revelations
👏👏👏👏
Her: "Miss you."
Him: *"P I C S ?"*
@@avarice4556 what?
@@avarice4556 say what
@@avarice4556 wtf?
@@avarice4556 huh
@@avarice4556 What’s that supposed to mean...?
As a guy myself, i feel like girls should never be forced into uncomfortable situations. If they say no, then it's a no
As a female. The gender DOES NOT MATTER. If your being sexually abused then you are. There are male victims too.
@diakai808 theres one about this same topic, but its a man.
Change your language king!! Not just girls. NOBODY should have their no disrespected.
Damn, whoever haves you better not cheat.
W🫡
We need more people like Jonathan. Also he hit us with the “that’s DiSgusTiN”
fr also jon is a nice voice actor
Would have been nice to call us a piece a of shit while he was at it
He seems rly sweet and i wanna be his friend
@AxelSCUDERIA me too. There's no one quite like him. I like Willow too. She is underrated.
We love Johnathan.
Not gonna lie the texts from the boyfriend felt so realistic to modern predators in our society
However, the part where a guy ask for a picture after she isn't really into it anymore isn't really that bad to me. Like, yes absolutely being a dick don't do it, but It isn't on par with the black mailing scummy shit.
@@avarice4556 It’s all bad, no means no leave it at that 😶
@@avarice4556 Yeah, no chief. As someone who got out of a relationship with that brand of jackass, it almost feels like they’re gaslighting you into dropping your boundaries and it’s predatory as all hell. Doesn’t matter if they share them or not, if they keep pushing after you’ve told them no, they’re a fucking creep and deserve no respect.
That's not even a predator tf.
@@chrisprilloisebola Wdym
Once, I put an arm around a girl I liked. She said "Stop" and I immediately pulled my hand away, apologized, and never did it again. I would rather feel bad immediately, but save my self-respect than try to go on with something that another person doesn't like.
Thank you for doing that. It’s sad that we don’t have a lot of people out there like you :(
@@Avalynn1212 I'm different from a lot of people in a lot of ways
@@MasterOfViewership different from a lot of people? No... It's what any rational person would do. You aren't special, chief.
@@someguy1686 Never said I was special. read the comment
@@someguy1686 he seems special to me, all the guys I've met in my country, (no not only one, generally all guys outside my family) who didn't even get to me, I've seen them treat other girls sexual abuser-Y (not stopping when girls told them to, literally pulling their dicks out infront of them, cornering them, and the girl trying to get away/panicking) , multiple cases so to me it's like I found a sane human being finally
Thank you. I was sexually harassed/abused online starting when I was **8**. Nobody deserves this treatment. Thank you.
So was I :( at the same age, it's really terrible and sticks to your mind and you constantly comprehend it because part of you feels like it is your fault. It was terrible of people taking advantage of us at such a young age. I'm glad they made this video realistic and honest, it feels validating to know that we aren't alone
Poor you guys! I hope your doing good
8!!!! Pls block the person immediately and tell it to ur family members or friends they can help you get better Be safe
@@hellol8744 Pls tell your family members or friends they will help you there's a lot of pedo out there so be safe always
I understand. I was 13. 8 years of hell
Spoiler: his name is Kevin, he shows up in a previous video. Yes, these videos have LORE.
Olu Fasoro we don’t like Kevin
what do you mean?
I'VE BEEN BINGING THESE VIDEOS AND THE LORE IS SO GOOD
@@cowboy2006 we don’t like Andrew either
What LORE means ?
Johnathan is a real one, we love to see it
@@iloverodwaveee wdym.
@@iloverodwaveee what
@@iloverodwaveee what??
@@iloverodwaveee I.
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I once was in a relationship like this. The scary thing was he was 18 and knew I was 12 at the time. Please, if you are in a situation like this, ask for help.
Dang.. I feel bad next time that happens just send a random meme picture or something
I’m so sorry I am proud u overcame that and I hope you got the help you needed
I was 12 too and he was more than 18.I regret ....
Same situation...
@@avarice4556 enjoyed? dude you okay?
Dude, you seriously make me believe that there is hope for humanity. There's so many pieces of shit out there that it's overwhelming! When you see so much of the shit that goes on in this world it's hard to keep the faith. I know that there's not a lot of good people anymore but you ARE one of the few that are good And it doesn't stop there for you. you actually find a way to give back by helping these victims. You're amazing
I never asked
@@n.e.r.d.2213no one was talk to you tho
@@n.e.r.d.2213no one asked you tho
Or you could just not be a dumbass and tell them to fuck off
Damm
👏🏽Get. 👏🏽A. 👏🏽Friend.
👏🏽Like. 👏🏽Johnathan
He's a straight up *GOD*
Dude really hit us with "That's disgusting!" And I respect him for that
Or be a friend like jonathan
@@sajithass9853 YAAAAZZZ
So true!!!
@@sajithass9853 Period💅🏽
Yass we stan
There's this saying I always like to keep in mind. "If they can't take no, it's time to go."
Ima keep that in mind
YUP TIME TO GO PPL THT LOVE YOU DONT PRESSURE YOU INTO THINGS YOU DO NOT WANT TO DO
I love how some of the stories are connected
All of them are actually haha
I like the characters and world they’re creating, even though I know this isn’t a show and is a serious subject
I'm surprised 2 protagonist learned a lesson
@potemkin a
Yes
You’ve either gotten groomed, or you’ve groomed someone.
Some people thinks that "No" is a ungrateful and negative thing to say that some people don't wanna show a little negativity by themselves. But, it's for you and yes when you are is any of this situation that your "yes" would make you fall in a dangerous situation. Then say a big, confident *NO*. Because, you actually need this buddies ❤️
The voice acting is soooooo good
It really is
If I'm not wrong, I think the voice is from Sarah-Nicole Robles
*If I'm not wrong*
@@NicroxzFN200 ok
@@NicroxzFN200 how you knew it was her 🧐
@@cannonmusicblast5027 --cof cof The Owl House cof cof--
lmao
I hope my daughters feel comfortable enough to talk to me when they need help like this when they grow up.
You sound so much like my mom that you’ve inspired me to open up to her. Thank you.
About anxiety and stress I mean. Not this stuff. Sorry.
I appreciate your concern for your kids. It's going to be okay. Just remember to start building a foundation early and the trust is going to build with time, patience and mutual understanding. : )
Same, when I'll have kids I hope they will trust me enough to tell me if something's bad happening
Aw they must be lucky to have someone to listen to em :')
I like how all of these stories are interconnected with the same characters.
Facts dude. That’s pure effort. They got like a canon storyline lmao
I hate how the predator NEVER gets punished. I get tons of nudes on Instagram, without my consent of course, and whenevr I report them and then report the account, Instagram is like: "sorry, we have bigger problems, like covid, that wasn't important enough for a report". Every fucking time.
That happened to me on instagram
@@j3ss.issillyyy I think it happened to tons of people. And yet nobody seems to notice that
If someone asks for a pic just send a pic of yourself not naked
@@minor101 what?
@@minor101 hope you're kidding
As someone who's still getting over being groomed and sexually abused by the internet, this makes me feel valid
This now adult has photos of 13 year old me, I'm now free but always afraid and hating myself. But it's getting better...baby steps
Thank you so much
I hope you get through this💜
I’m so proud of you . You can get through this.
Thank you for the kind words, I'm working on myself everyday ❤
im 13 currently and..the same has happened to me, it just ended a few days ago and i dont know how i got into this, i did it when i was even younger too and i stopped for a while, i feel terrible but i have practically no info on the guy so even if i do say whats happened, nithing will come from it but limited internet usage and no longer being trusted by my parents..
@@strikeforgore6626 It’s okay things happen I as well have gone thru the same thing and doesn’t have trust with my parents either. The best thing to do is figure out who has these explicit photos/videos of you so maybe you met them on discord or just messaging idk how ever you met them. Learn how to not exactly hack, but how to find peoples rl names so you can know who this person is. Once you learn how to do so ONLY USE IT FOR GOOD NOT BAD !!!! Once you have their name talk to your parents about it even if they get mad its better than keeping all your emotions inside. If you aren’t ready/comfortable talking to your parents about it then I’m not sure what to tell you..if I think of something else I’ll edit this reply ^^
edit 1: as Karen Lasmin said talking to a trusted friend, or maybe a close family member for example a cousin, an aunt/uncle and so on. Might help but NO PRESSURE once you are ready to talk about your experience with someone you trust AND KNOW will help you get thru it !! Things will get better life is a long obstacle but I know you can get through this
"I miss you"
"where are my pics?"
I'M SORRY BUT LMFAO
@instant positive who said anything abt cyberbullying??
@@obeseburger6830 I think they meant abuse/harassment
LMAOOOO
Ik it sounds funny but it actually happened to me over the summer, I was talking to one of my “friends” on Snapchat, we had science together that’s where we met. Then we started sending pics a week or two later, I started to feel uncomfortable and didn’t want to do it anymore, so I text him that “I miss you “ and he would actually say “send pics”
LMAOOOIAIUAHAHJIHIJA
Okay but the reveal that the kissing at the "concert" was non-consentual which is why Kim was able to relate to Willow is actually really clever
A neat thing someone said in a comment is that all of these videos seem to have a connection
what the heck is wrong with people
if he really loved her he would respect her boundaries
Well he didn't love her, he is an abuser.
He’s a boy
@@CaptainChapin What's that supposed to mean???
Pumpkin Sweater! Boys don’t respect boundaries, boys take what they want if you let them, or don’t stop them. That’s why we need to teach the young women not to allow boys to have their way so then they can become men or they’ll grow up to be man babies
Rachel Roth Had me in the first half ngl
⠀ "Miss u!"
"where are my pics?"
"Do you even care about me?"
"pics?"
-Kevin, Speech 0
Ngl kevins grammar kinda sucks
Yeah he spent to much time to upgrade his electronics stat he forgot to upgrade his speech stats
he has lower social skills than me
and that's something to say
Intelligence stat: 0
@@helpme6196 no, intelligence stat: -10
"Do u even care about Me?"
"Pics?"
"Do u care y or n?"
"Hurr durr send piiics!"
The most common one "So, no head?"
"What you care about then?me or pics"
"No u...only bobs and vegene"
😂😂😂😂😂
@@deadpool0168 lololol
This is gonna sound ridiculous because of where I met this dude, but I’m just gonna say it. Your comment reminded of this dude I “met” in ROBLOX. I haven’t played it in almost a year because I’m already busy with school and I want to focus on my academics and my irl friends and family (I’m about to finish school so that’s why), so I haven’t spoken to him in about 8 months (and I never told him that I wasn’t gonna be online anymore since I lost interest in playing and I don’t want him to see me online). But basically, I met him after saying that we looked like twins because our characters shared a similar appearance and I thought that he would just say “lol” or “…” and that would be the end of it since we had only just met. Was very wrong :) He said lol and then asked me how i was doing, where I’m from, etc., nothing too weird, and I gave him broad answers. I did the same, asked where he was from, and asked him the same things he asked me, just to kill time since I felt in the mood to socialize a bit. Then he friended me and I accepted it, trying to be nice and expecting him to unfriend me a few days after this convo since we literally just met and had nothing in common. Then he asked me for my Instagram, unexpectedly, but I gave him the name of my account I used to make memes with, again, just to be nice and expecting him to eventually not talk to me anymore, and then we would talk on there. I used to only talk to him once a week or every 2 weeks and the convos were dry BC WE DIDNT KNOW EACH OTHER. Weird stuff that happened not long after we met: he asked me to buy him robux for him since it was his birthday (I said no bc what I just met him and I’m not about to be doing that 😀 I even said it politely) and I think he lied to me about his age bc I could’ve sworn that he told me he was 13 or 14 when we first met but when I told him I was 16, he said he was 15 about to turn 16. I even told him that I thought he was 13 bc he said that last time, and he was like “oh no I’m about to be 16 lol”…weird. After the robux thing, I became skeptical about him bc no person would do that unless if they were like 10 or 9 years old. I let it slide even tho it left me dumbfounded and a bit ticked off 😅Time passed by, and I had some weeks where I would talk to him every 3 days or 4 days in a week, and I slowly got to know him. He seemed to be the type of kid who would get into trouble a lot and he would cuss a lot, and it’s funny because he seemed to be a nice person at first, like I literally thought that he was younger than me by like 6 or 7 years, so I thought he was 10 bc of the way he he used to type. And he might be but idek bc of the other things he’s done
Ok let’s get to the weirdest part(s): So, one day he opened up to me about how his uncle died and that he loved him so much and that he was so upset. I comforted him and I felt bad. I tried my best to send him the best messages to make him feel better, it took me so long to write my messages, but I thought it was worth it and I felt like a sister to him just doing this. Then, literally not long after he talked about this, he asked for a pic of myself. He’s done it several times. Another example was when he told me he broke up with his gf because she cheated and then asked for a foot pic to cheer him up and put the “;)” face. Stupid me still apologized and politely said no, while also letting him know that I was starting to get skeptical with his stories since he always ended up asking for a pic 🙃 and I always felt stupid afterwards for even showing empathy for his gimmicks only to find out that he was trying to get me to send him pictures. He’s probably joking around and trying to blackmail me, but I haven’t sent him any pics of me and never will. O yeah, he’s told me he has a foot fetish and he would always ask me if I wear heels and to show him my shoes “to get to know me better”. I’ve said no, bc I knew how stupid and weird that was, he apologizes, but he still asks for pics later on. Trolled him the first time he asked for foot pics with a pic of Soos’ feet from Gravity Falls and he goes “hah” “I was being srs”. he’s also asked me if I think he’s weird, I was being nice for the millionth time and said really stupid cheesy crap, “everybodys weird in their own way😄 blah blah “ and he didn’t react to my answer and talked about something else. He did that a lot, ignore what I said and ask about a completely other thing or say something random and act like nothing happened. Like this other time, he probably lied to me and told me a sob story after another 3 sob stories and I tried giving him advise and comfort, and he ignored all of it and talked about something else.
Other weird things he’s done is ask for my password on ROBLOX just to change my characters outfit (didn’t give it to him ofc) and he’s sent me sexual pictures like twice and I think he deleted one of them from the chat on Instagram. I’ve never said anything to offend him and I’ve always told him to stop asking me for pictures of any kind because I’m not comfortable with doing that (and I don’t trust this dude at all 😭) but he still asked me for pics in the future.
Wow that was a lot sorry😅😅😅 I’ve only told one person about this and writing this felt good. But yeah I haven’t posted on that Instagram account bc I don’t want him bothering me about me ignoring him even though I want to. I restricted him on Instagram btw and the latest messages are him saying hey hey heyyy hey “are you ok?”, all on diff days and a meme. I also haven’t logged into that ROBLOX account bc I don’t want him to bother me. But I haven’t blocked him bc I kinda feel bad if I do that after telling him that I was there for him if he needed a friend to speak to when he was having hard times (but now I don’t even know how accurate all of those sob stories were) and I’m paranoid that he’s gonna try hunting me down and confront me about it on other accounts. He’s a part of this hacker club and earlier, he’s told me his friends are hackers and ngl, I’m paranoid that he’s gonna have them do something to me out of spite 🙂 I know that this could be a complete lie since people like pretending to be hackers and he’s already tricked me way too many times, but I’m still nervous that they’ll do something to me. He’s joked about knowing my IP address out of nowhere if that says anything.
Alright I’m done blabbering, sorry about this crazy long comment. But I’m curious what do you guys think?
@@thirtyonepigeons9539 wow that story is insane
Let me just say this:
If you get with someone, guy _or_ girl, and you always feel pressured to send things you're not comfortable with, and then they get upset that you don't send anything, that's on them. They're not worth the time.
Exactly
Yeah your right!
Agreed
When you ask a girl for a nude, it breaks her heart, she starts questioning her decisions and probably loses interest in you., so don't be that guy.
I'm the opposite
Exactly u are 100 % right
@@iwjfhaifn2950 you've got poor taste in men.
@@iwjfhaifn2950 there's something wrong with you then
@@iwjfhaifn2950 pls be nice and clean.
i was in a relationship like this and i can still barely comprehend how bad it actually was. my brain tricks me into thinking im just being dramatic, but these kind of videos help me realize the reality of my situation. it hurts, a lot, but i need it.
Hahahaha your fault
@@alkulian not even a good troll
Honestly I was in a situation similar to this aswell and I won’t lie, I do feel like we can’t say that something is worse or better in these situations because at the end of the day it’s what the victim of what happened is feeling after and the affects that still linger with it. I hope you’re doing better though and get the help you need.
@@MixedUpNuggs yeah you're totally right. idk why i phrased it that way, i was just stuck in my head. thank you though ♡ i hope you're doing amazing
@@gabbytorres9724 No no it’s fine, I just never want people to feel as though they didn’t really go through anything. And thank you✨
This happened to me at a young age and has caused me to have ptsd that still affects me even after therapy, I’m so glad there are videos like this that spread awareness.
Womp womp
@@Hsjsjhsjsnbhzbs sorry but how the heck is that an appropriate response?!
@@Hsjsjhsjsnbhzbs2 year old
@@-Ray_Moon- I’m sorry you had to go through that,remember that every day is a new day. You’ve got this 😊
@@beckys.8897 thank you :)
What I hate about these types of situations is that when you try to tell a parent they make it like it’s your fault in the first place
Yeah, cause that’s what people are taught. To blame the victim when it’s entirely the perpetrators fault. The don’t give any punishment to the perpetrator what so ever and they always blame the victim. And they usually only victim-blame the female victims. A lot of the time when a boy/man gets harassed everyone is supportive and telling him it’s not his fault (cause it isn’t) but when a girl/woman opens up about it they always blame her.
Yeah even if you were a child and that person was a fully grown ass adult
Yes that's why I don't tell my situation on my family only n my friends
@@dragonfander8135 Actually, my real life experience tells me the opposite. When a girl says "rape" the community supports her. When a boy or man says it, people say "bullshit" and despise him.
When a woman says "harassment" (especially "sexual harassment") the man is convicted before trial. When a man says it, people laugh at him, even in the face of evidence. Jokes like "Man, I wish that would happen to me". A SNL skit was even done about a 13 year old boy that was raped by his female teacher. It was a joke. Do you understand?
Victim blame? In our society, men can't even be victims. Men are always the perpetrator.
@@kennethteitelbaum6998 my comment is kinda old. I don't even remember what I said but I've actually noticed that people are quick to tell men that “you can't be raped/harassed, you're a man” and “you should have enjoyed it” but they're quick to tell women, “you were asking for it” “it's your fault” “you're overreacting”. The community doesn't take men or women seriously. And the reason men are accused more is that a perpetrator is usually a man. Even in cases where men were assaulted. Not saying women don't rape, cause they do. Also, I've never really heard of anyone convicted for harassment alone, man or woman. Rapists are barely convicted too, also rape is way underreported. And no one’s convicted before a trial. That just doesn't happen
There is no one to trust! In my situation, I ended up with broken trust by them. And they take the advantage of being vulnerable.
Agreed. Shows no one can be trusted. Sometimes it's best to have trust issues.
@med with a disease What do you mean?
med with a disease
Too late I already have trust issues
@ŇøHă Ģ. Yeah. Mainly cause they can be a catfish!
ALSO: If you are one of the friends of a person who is asking for, or showing people other people's nudes CALL. THEM. OUT. stand up for the person whos powerless in that situation. As somebody whos personally witnessed my brother's friends, or even just people at school just go along with it and not do literally anything to show the predator they are being a predator... it makes me sick.
i pretended to be a teen on discord and...
SOOOO MANY MEN TRIED TO HOOK ME
@@fjfhdhdhdhdychiuovjoihcyxt3422Interestingly enough I had something similar happen to me but it was from a young person demanding something from me. I didn't give an inch tho, but the way they spoke made me wonder how many others obliged. It honestly feels like in the future there's going to be far more government institutions on platforms like Discord, Facebook, Instagram, and any and every social media possible especially ones like KiK. Stuff like this happens all the time and in much more egregious fashions.
Yes, expose the predators.
my teacher showed this video in our class and everyone was laughing at it..each person was busy gossiping and laughing about the video...i didn't listened to that video as i was busy doing my assignments but today i got it's recommendation and came to know how important it is..we are immature sorry :(
Kim’s boyfriend should go to discord it’s a predators haven
LMFAOOA fr
Discord and Twitter are predators Haven
Hahah lol true. I once pretending to be a predator on discord, well its so weird ( i know, Well actually at first, I though I would met some youtuber who will pretend to be underage girl , soo thats why ykk) and some kids these days are so smart, as long as im asking for "pic" they immediatly block me, which i'm proud. But some kids trolling me by asking me to send a d**/k picture of me (Bc they thought I was an actual discord pedo), funny thing is I dont even have one (i'm a girl) and I troll them back with a picture of an actual c * (Its a chicken).
That dude would make the perfect Discord Moderator.
Well, honestly, they shouldnʼt even go anywhere at all. We donʼt want them affecting innocent lives. They shouldnʼt exist in the first place.
POV : A good guy should always respect his partner’s choice .
We stan Jonathan in this household. He seems like a cool friend I'm not gonna lie.
This Is sad since this happens so much. Its so disgusting how people do this. I feel so sorry for everyone that's been sexually abused online.
I remember this actually happening to me, for about a year. I did leave the man, and I’m happy I did
Good 4 u! Ur so strong!
Same!
I get it. It's hard to leave the person right there and then.
That’s a amazing
Almost happened to me, and it was hard for me to leave, but I’m so so so happy I did.
This channel has come a long way:D I’ve always liked this channel, it helped me talk about my abuse story. I felt alone, I used all the advice of sexual abuse and eventually got the justice I needed. Thank you, I have and always will guys in notification.❤️
Same
Hi
Same ❤
When it comes to child predators sending them NSFW photos is like giving them drugs
Mhm.
I would rather drugs at this point
people who don't have any empathy for hard working individuals. I LOVE what he said... there's no room for hate, but that doesn't mean you have to like them, either. I am SO GLAD you showed up *JOHNSON SPY* in the nick of time to remove my videos and also image’s from their system, This is why I watch your videos, recommendations and I couldn't love what you do more than I do. Thank you for protecting innocent people. Thank you for reporting criminals. Thank you for doing what all of us would do if we could. Keep fighting!!! Much love.
I love how they actually explained that what some people watching are doing might be abuse, because it’s not like every abuser realizes how manipulative they’re being. That’s not an excuse, but it might help if they actually see what they’re doing is wrong.
I'm glad that they got a teen for this! (I'm assuming) bc people forget that teens are minors and that child abuse expands to teens as well! Really glad this is up :)
Me too, people usually normalize this situation when it's about a teen in my country
@Tiger Bear cuz they are? it’s nature lol
Ayo can we get some love for protective Jonathan
Facts
Yes we can. Yes.
Thank you for spreading awareness on this, I realized I actually have gone through this when I was 13, a guy named Jonathan acted just like this, along with my ex, and some other creeps
Relatable
Don't say sorry for interrupt, we need to teach not to abuse and not to be abused, thanks for the interruption 3:34
i like how this video doesn't shame people for having online relationships, just encourages kids/teens to be safe while using online spaces. i guess it's only natural seeing how much the internet is used now, but growing up i remember just being discouraged from using the internet entirely, and being scolded for talking to people online. since i was a teenager, i wasn't going to listen to it! this is how educating children/teens about the dangers SHOULD be like!
I once was in a relationship like this, I was 11, and he was 18. When he asked to call, that’s when he first asked me. I was so scared and clueless but I left the call, and blocked him on all social media. I was left shaking in fear, and I never opened up about this to anyone. Not even my parents.
Thank you for recognizing your worth and blocking him on time! Could have been much worse
I’m 13, he’s 33. I want to stop, I know I can block him, I know I can end this but I’ve grown attached and it’s messed up and I want to be normal again :(
@@joemybeloved3705 GIRL THIRTY-THREE!!!???? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I know its hard but please PLEASE PLEASE get the strength to leave. he is an adult with a child. he is not someone u should be with and def not someone that is gonna be with u for the rest of ur life. he needs to go to jail!! And imagine if your parents found out😭😭 ive been through a situation like this when i was 5-6 and some guy asked for my number on a game and asked for me to send him pictures of me touching myself. i thought it was normal because ive experienced this all throught out my younger childhood and it didnt stop till middle school (im in high school now) I now feel like thats my safe space yk but its REALLY bad. U DEF DONT NEED TO BE WITH A OLD MAN LIKE THAT!!! DUDE IS BASICALLLY 99 YEARS OLD!!!!!
@@joemybeloved3705 im not judging you btw, i just dont want u to have to deal with everything thats coming...
@@joemybeloved3705 omg please leave him, the relationship you have with that 33 y/o guy will eventually bring damage to your own self. i know it's hard but u will feel so much better after getting out of that relationship
I love how the videos are all linked together
I never thought I would enjoy watching something educational without being in school
This exact same thing happened to me when I met someone I trusted online. I was around 16, every time we would chat the first thing he would ask was for pictures, one time he asked me to take a selfie without my shirt on. Please be careful with who you talk to, you may never know what they’ll do.
I like how this video frames online relationships as any normal relationship. Just like real life ones, they can be abusive.
Her:Miss u!!
Him:where are my pics.
Her:Do you even care about me??
Him:pics??
In 7th grade, one of my classmates posted his girlfriends nudes on Snap Chat. The school punished him, he got suspended for the rest of the year and he's on some list. In the court of public opinion though... everyone I spoke to right after the incident was blaming her. "She shouldn't have sent him the nudes" Yeah, right, she shouldn't have but that never gave him the right to post them! It was 7th grade though and I assumed that no one really understood the gravity of what he had done. The next year he came back to school and it was like nothing had changed. I was the only person I knew who was creeped out by him. When I asked my friend why she was okay being around and talking with him she just told me "It's been a year- he's changed." He had not changed. He felt no remorse. In fact, he enjoyed bragging about it. However, most everyone I talked to echoed her sentiment. Everyone's forgotten about him but the girl is still teased mercilessly. I just assumed, again, that my classmates didn't understand the full magnitude of how he violated her. The year after, I joined the Cross Country team. I was running with one of my team mates and we passed her. I waved, she didn't. As soon as we were out of earshot, my team mate immediately began talking about all that went on in 7th grade, again placing the blame solely on the girl and absolutely none on him. I've realized that the victim blaming mentality in this situation is never going to change unless we educate ourselves. If this was any other form of sexual abuse- the conversation would be completely different. It's disgusting.
ALSO: If anyone wants/needs/knows someone who needs to watch a really well done and extremely disturbing video on the danger of online relationships- look up Kayleigh's Love Story. It was made after a small town teenager was murdered. Online grooming factored heavily into the case. It's extremely dark but is very emotionally moving and really gets its point across. It's a completely different kind of online sexual abuse than this video but is still important.
Did we go to the same school? You talking about a girl named Courtney and she dated a Tristan? Because that sounds extremely similar to a girl in my class tbh.
Although, maybe not, she _was_ kind of, uh, "the town bicycle", let's just say.
@@TheRealBlazingDiamond No, it's not the same school. The girl's named Jayden and the boy Talon.
I assume her's is a rather a common experience among girls who had their nudes leaked.
but this girl is really her own fault
I wonder how will the society react if such things happened now.
@@crxtube187 the society is getting worse day by day, only we are left :'(
02:33 this is why I don’t show a face reveal on any of my socials. You never know what people can do with them.
Same
Same
3:28 Can we talk about this line please?? I thought he was going to say, "That's not cool." Or "not chill." But they really didn't sugar coat it. 👏🏾👏🏾
I’m obsessed with these.. I love that they have all the characters in each others videos or in the background.. it really emphasizes that things like this happen to everyone.. ESPECIALLY people you know.. and that you can talk to them about it..
2:09 The guy wasn't even worthy of breaking a phone
R.i.p phone
I love how all these stories are connected somehow.
Personally I think once someone you met online starts asking for pics you tell them no but when they start asking constantly then you should block them because it’s your choice and people should respect your choice
I was in a relationship quite like that. It was online, met him through my online school and well.. it went on for 5 - 6 years. I am happy though that I was finally able to be free from what seems like a cage that I could never escape. (I love your videos, Love the channel. Just found it today!)
It hurts me so much that this happens to people, the animation is absolutely GORGEOUS and the voice acting
How to out creep the creep.
"Send pics"
"No u"
Or if you are close close
"Send pics"
"Why don't you come and see it in person ;)"
Sorry these came up in my mind when I watched it.
That’s actually dan
That’s actually big brain time
Don't worry. Not only is outcreeping a creep pretty effective and fun, but humor is a healthy and natural coping mechanism for mental stress. Why do you think the best comedians are usually fucked in the head?
Thats not creepy theyd enjoy it
Say come over to see it yourself. Wait for them in your room with a baseball bat.
I relate to this a lot. There was this guy that I thought was a new friend to have. I even met him irl once. He wanted me to send pics and he would ask a lot. Until I had a breaking point. I feel ashamed for sending pics. But now he doesn't talk to me, and I don't talk to him either. I hate it when you get pressured and too weak to just say "no"
Man, this hit me home so goddamn much. Get ready for a ramble in this 'cause I have so much to unload.
I was groomed and sexually abused online, by someone who I considered close. I was 16, and he was 18. We never talked in person, as he lived in Canada and I lived in the US. We were close. We had like... this fatherly and daughterly relationship, one to where that I could consider him as one of my best friends of all time, but due to some things happening to my mental state, I was vulnerable. I gained feelings for him after going through a breakup that meant the most to me -- which I *thought* it was before. He was an emotional rebound, and that I'll admit.
And that's when things went downhill.
We weren't in a relationship, but it sure as hell felt like one. When I confessed to him, he claimed that he didn't have feelings for me, but he 'felt' something towards me, and wanted to be *friends with benefits.*
I had to say no. I HAD TO SAY IT. But I didn't.
It was normal... right?
No. It wasn't.
I was used, and he claimed that he didn't want to make me feel uncomfortable, but I was anyways. In my gut, I knew it was wrong. But I couldn't say anything -- nobody would believe me. We would always do these... voice calls on Discord, and I had to practically act like as if I was incredibly turned on.
He would also make me say *"I love you"* to him a lot. He only said it back if he felt like it.
It was... awful. Horrendous. I unfortunately sent pictures to him too, and it was for 'body positivity' even though that shit is incredibly false.
Now, 2 years later, he's finally exposed for the shit he's done and is now labeled as a pedo from my peers. He's groomed other girls, and I'm fairly certain that I was the first. Or the second.
Either way, I felt so fucking disgusted with myself, that I couldn't see myself with anyone anymore.
Currently, I'm together with someone who loves me for who I am. I've been dating her for 1 year and 5 months now!
I'm not revealing names in this, but please be careful about who you talk towards online. Don't trust *anyone.*
I am ecstatic to express my deepest appreciation for the profound compassion and empathy shown by Nck mythss1 during my sextortion journey. Their unwavering commitment to assisting me and providing a safe and understanding environment has brought immense happiness into my life. Thank you, Nck mythss1, for being my guiding light and filling my heart with joy.
I once was sexual abused too by my online ex. It was like going thru hell and deep sadness. Thank God my mom found out and took my phone and threw it on the floor so it broke. I felt at first really pissed off because of her, but then after getting calmed down I was really happy!
Thank you to those protective mothers and fathers out there ❤
Don't show your body to others. Cover your body like you cover your phone to protect from accidents. Share everything with your mother...
Never get too attached before knowing
It’s still not her fault
Yeah right, its the victim's fault for wearing what they like to wear. Its their fault if some horny men start asking them for nudes. Yep, cover yourself from top to bottom. Let's see how it will change the situation. And no, not everyone's mothers are as kind as yours. The only point I agree with is not to get attached with people before knowing. Once they start making my uncomfortable, confront them about it. Even if its a relative or someone you know and are close to. Learn to stand you for yourself.
just show it to whom you trust, and not some random dude on the internet
To every girl who is watching this. Please immediately block all contacts with someone who aaja you irrelevant and sexual things. I have been through this. And one more thing it is possible that you also might have went through the flow sometimes but it doesn't give someone the permission to keep abusing you.
asks*
Thank you for reassuring me that guys harassing you about sex and pictures is abusive.
I really Hope high schools show this to the students
If someone does keep asking for pics , I recommend reporting them to the police
Edit : Y’all what I’m saying is if they keep pressuring you to send pics , then block them. I understand what you are saying , but what I’m saying is my opinion
As far as I’m aware it’s not a crime, but you do you.
Mr. L may I ask how is this not a crime?
Amy Katy214 Texting someone for nudes is not a crime as long as the person isn’t underaged, it’s just creepy.
Mr. L ah now that makes sense , you got a good point
Mr. L I believe leaking them can get you a charge tho
But I don’t really know
my friend got sexually harassed over text by her friend. the teachers and counselors all dismissed it since they’re both the same age, and that the abusers family was friends with the principal. even her parents didn’t trust her because they thought it was her fault for getting herself into that.
I've made this mistake before. I felt guilty for months after until I got over it. But just know, you will get over your guilt. Just know I love you.
I have come across but I didn't share any of my pics luckily. But I feel we all can stay strong
Thank you. It helped me a lot but still I'm scared.
@@saturninesoul7752 you don't have to. As long as you believe that you are strong you don't have to get scared
@@jeslinepinto8050 Thank you!! Hugs for everyone!
Yes same I also did it but now I'm
Never doing it never one Arabic guy forced me to send more so I blocked him 😥😔
i took advantage of someone when i was young, i regret it every single day of my life. i didn't even realize what i was doing, they never expressed it and i thought they were totally fine. i didnt force her, if she told me i really wouldnt have done anything, i would have 100% dropped it. but i cant blame her, i know it was me. i just wish i hadnt accidentally given her that trauma, i wish i noticed
You're a sick and disgusting creep and a fucking pervert, you should be ashamed of yourself!
He/ she clearly said " when i was young" did you skip that part ?
@@alexharo7925 i really didnt mean to, this was many years ago and i never realized it was happening. i am very ashamed and i hate myself every day for this, im not walking off scott free trust me. i know what ive done.
@@bigz1289 Still it doesn't change the fact what he or she did at the time
@@catboychemicals6630 Even so it scarred the person who had feelings and you can't undo that shit!
Thank you for this. I wish I'd had this when I was being exploited online a few years ago. I've struggled with feeling like it was my fault ever since. I really hope this helps somebody who might be in that situation now. It is NOT YOUR FAULT. Get out as soon as you can. Tell your parents. It is so much worse to keep going along with it. You are okay. You are loved.
these videos r old but this is my new comfort channel, i was raped when i was 5 so seeing these cute animations of ppl speaking against sexual abuse rlly makes me happy!
Aww poor u 😢 😞
May the universe be merciful to your soul, for you have gone through enough.
Just some advice :
• Stay away from online dating stuffs
• Date only if you can meet with your partner irl regularly
• Before dating, try to get to know them
It would be the best if you don't date and focus on yourself for now. But if you've graduated college and currently like someone, tell your parents so that they can speak to their parents and arrange your marriage if possible. Still, it's all upto you, just try not to take steps which might lead to harmful circumstances
This is the same thing I’m saying. I’m not victim blaming or anything but a lot of these situations that I hear about could have been prevented if people would’ve been a bit more smart and realized that they don’t have to send anything and that the choice is still theirs. Online dating and sending nudes is very dangerous and that’s why I completely avoid it. Creeps perverts groomers and child molesters hide behind those funny little icons and fake names.
This. All of this. I just got out of a horrible online relationship and I wish I had listened to this advice a year ago but I listened to my feelings instead. Every day I wish I hadn't.
@@blackqweenmars That's why video calls exist
I agree. 👍🏾
thats great advice!!!!!
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1:55 this moment was terrifying. Took me 6 months to be free. No matter what I did to avoid it, he kept finding new ways to get my attention. It felt worse then death and i didnt want to die. Similar to this videos story. He even showed one to my bestie. To convince them to disappear. We escaped together. A memory and a monster we will never forget. Watching this made me feel a little better. But it also brought back the anxiety I had. Its a terrifying situation, and I try to help others in similar. Talking about it is important. Those monsters wont win. We are stronger than that.
I am a person who had suffered through this and I started online dating when I was 10. The guy was 15, I didn’t know that was him being a creep. He asked for pictures A LOT and then it soon turned to the fact of when I was 12, I had enough and changed my username, my email, etc. and blocked him out of my life. Just because a stranger seems nice to you at first doesn’t mean they’ll be your soulmate. Don’t talk to strangers online no matter what. Even if they make you feel happy, it can turn terrible.
JOHNATHAN IS GOATED.
He’s a great friend and everyone needs a friend like him. Especially the ones who have had this happen.
I’m so sorry for that and I hope you’re doing well or better at least. ♥️
Did anyone get down a rabbit hole of these videos and the party she talked about was in 2 other videos this is all happening in the same universe which shows that what this channel is talking about can happen to anyone! Be careful!
the pic culture
1:32
"Miss u!"
"Where are my pics?"
"Do you even care about me?"
"Pics?"
ew just...
Ew
He’s like:PICS THAN QUESTION AWNSERING
Tbh just ghost him and never talk to him again
3:46 "That's disgusting."
Agreed, it is disgusting, and never wanna do that crap. I can relate to Kim in this situation because I had a boyfriend of mine who keeps forcing me to send pics of my foot multiple times and it was completely unnecessary and repetitive, I'm not sure if he had a foot fetish or something. I already have a newer boyfriend but at least he doesn't have any fetish or kink, or never forces me to send pictures of any body part of mine.
i mean asking pics isn't a bad thing tho if ur girl is okay
@@ibegtosaythat I'm a female and sometimes I do ask for pics from my new boyfriend, but not some of his body parts.
@@ksmart1235 but boys wants to see his girl's body parts even if they have had sex , its natural
@@ibegtosaythat I didn't know that, was it still bad I broken up with my ex about that?
@@ksmart1235 Sorry this is late. But. No, it wasn’t wrong. If you weren’t comfortable with it then absolutely not. If he asked for your consent, then thats a different story. Make sure to always share your boundaries with people, and let them know right off the bat you arent who they’re wanting.
Plus.. if he’s asking for pictures of feet of all things he has a lot more problems-
Even if it is a natural thing, it is not like a man nor a woman can’t control themselves. They should always take no for an answer, and should always expect that you either say yes OR no instead of setting their mind on you saying yes. That being said, even if it is natural, some people dont feel that sexual attraction at all. Im asexual, I’ve never desired sex from anyone nor do I ever plan to, and I’ve been in healthy relationships that didnt involve that kind of intimacy at all. Really, its all about you two sharing what you’re comfortable with, and usually I get it done right off the bat just to get any questions out of the way before it gets a little awkward. If you aren’t ready but think you may be one day, tell them that you’ll keep things in mind, and may want the same thing in the future, but for now, you want to think things over and just spend some time with him in other ways to ensure you’re comfortable when you are, if ever, ready to take that step. If he leaves you because you aren’t on the same page, then that is not your fault. Relationships are about mutual understandings, and if he cant respect a boundary or meet a medium then perhaps its best he leaves and finds someone who is ready, or if he likes you well enough, he may stick around to see how you feel later and spend different forms of time with you!
Its always okay to say no, and zero amount of horomones can make it okay for somebody to pressure you into something you’ve made it clear you don’t want to do. But its also a red flag if youre looking for a serious relationship and they start asking for sexual favors right away. That would just tell you that they were probably looking for someone they could mess around with rather than build a bond with and get to know. To me, at least, sex is more of an activity you guys can share together if you wish to incorporate that into your relationship eventually. It shouldn’t be one-sided by any means, both parties should be consenting adults who both want to participate.
This is a true thing that happened to me, I broke up with him start after I got more uncomfortable so I decided to stay out of reach from he but he kept asking for pics only and doesn’t look like he cared anymore. Warning, try not to date online sometimes it can turn out bad but the thing is, try dating when your older not 10 or 12 still too young maybe try high school when you get to know better people to understand them well enough to trust them :)
1:25
Fun Fact: The party they went to is where her friend, the girl sitting next to her in the theater, was sexually assaulted by some random guy
Oh my god I fell for her when I was 15 I was assaulted
we know bro, they’re episodes. we watch them in chronological order.
Sometimes I wonder if things like this have happen to me. I had this guy friend who would always talk about how pretty I was. We were in the same grade. I have to admit, I had a crush on him at the time, but it soon got uncomfortable. The compliments turned into touching, the touching to kissing, and everything felt so scary. I remember we were hanging out on the blacktop but all of a sudden I had ended up in his lap. Soon I started to realize this wasn’t ok. He would touch me and I didn’t like it. Soon we had to break up our relationship. I wouldn’t call it abuse, because we didn’t really do anything, but it was definitely a scary place to be in.
Thanks for sharing. Me personally, whenever a person compliments on someone’s appearance especially coming from the opposite sex, that should be a red flag in itself. There is exceptions but there is a very higher likely chance of that person’s self control to be shaky and can’t resist temptation later down the line. I have experienced this time and time again and I would always choose to never be near or get close to these types of people every chance I can get. Things like strangers on the street complimenting me or even to the level of sexual harassment I had no control of. our gut feeling/intuitions will always help us direct and keep us safe when we are on our own.
I wish I knew how to @ you, but why exactly did that stuff scare you @Gumdrop-Roblox ?
@@jaky411 I don't think that's a healthy habit. I understand you've had negative experiences in the past regards people touching you or possibly even worse, but just thinking that someone giving light compliments towards your appearance as an indication that they'll R* you out of lust doesn't seem healthy to me, it seems potentially problematic and even chances that you could miss out on potentially great people(who don't all have to be your significant other) just because they say you look attractive.
@@avarice4556 It was more of an uncomfortable feeling and it just got worse the more a tried to go along with it. Even when I asked him to stop he would still do it and I guess I thought that if I never stopped hanging out with him, things would get too intense. However, I do believe that people can change and he's probably a much better person now.
Why are girls so uncomfortable with physical touch?
I remember suggesting my story of online sexual assault (a man pressured me into sending nude pics when I was f ing 9) to a blog who had been posting #metoo stories. they declined it.
like, I get it, sure, it's not as traumatic as other people's stories. but it actually made me feel shitty, as if it's nothing. like nothing bad happened to me. like it's not assault.
not to mention they made the representation sexual assault a bit less representative..
Elia Simons I’m sorry,but that blog post or whatever can fuck off. I hope you’re getting the therapy you needed and that you’re doing better. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Yeah I don't know why people do this... Their logic is like: "oh you got physically damaged? Abuse ... only psychologically damaged? No, it's not abuse" and the worst part is when they make you think you are being exaggerated or that you don't have the right to complain. Asking for/sending nudes to a person who says no is abuse too
Why would you send pics to a grown MAN when you’re NINE years old. ?
wym??? this is super wrong! I have no idea why they wouldnt have accepted it!!! I would feel super violated i am so sorry this happened to you :(
blissfully
then that’s your fault.
Whenever I get sexually harassed on the internet, I always try to mute them or just leave the call. I'm only 13 (when I'm posting this) so hearing things from people just make me sad, embarrassed, and all I want to do is cry. Watching these types of videos reminds me that you can call them out and ask them to please stop. Unfortunately, I never had the courage to do this, instead I would just laugh it off as a joke. But the words they say will always stay in my mind forever. Also watching these kind of videos makes me not feel alone. I also don't have any friends, we kind of grew apart over covid because we never saw each other. I've always felt too embarrassed to ask my own mom for help on how to deal with people like this. So now I feel all alone. The only reason I play videogames is for the fun of it, but people like this, takes the fun out of it. I hope one day the world will change and realize that its not okay for kids to go through this.
I'm sorry you've dealt with harassment and that you and your friends have grown apart. That happens sometimes unfortunately, but you'll have a chance to make more, you're still young.
Anyhow, I just wanted to say although it'd be an awkward conversation. You shouldn't hold back on asking your mom on how to handle sexual harassment. It's nothing to be ashamed of, it's good that you want to learn how to protect yourself.
A word of advice from me is to learn how to set down boundaries. Like you said you can mute or block people. I'd also refrain from sharing your age online. That can make you a target in some instances.
That is just SICK! WE'RE JUST KIDS
Whenever people try to get me to send pics or whatever I just block them or if I’m on Omegle or something I just end it. Even though it’s not your fault if it happens to you still nobody’s forcing you to send them and it’s always up to you whether you do it or not. The block button exists and so does the police station.
This feels like an animation of one stage in my life I still feel so ashamed of. Even when I was fifteen years old I think I was an easy victim of manipulation because of my low self-esteem and that kind of person don't show how they really are until it seems to be too late... They really gain your trust slowly and act sweet like a dream but all turns to be a nightmare where you feel everything is your own fault. It's a hard hit when you realize that someone who says "I love you" is only using you and will treat and throw you away like trash if you say no.
Your situation are same like mine :( i thought he is really the one yet i always give everything for him cause i love him and he said he love me too :(( we've online dating for a year but then he dissapeared. I was so dumb i'm so immature that time for sharing my pics. I really hope he not doing anything with my pics tho,,I can't say no cause i love him and he said he will not talk to me if i Don't share any pics,, he never share me what his face looks like :< but anyways i hope you're doing okay :)) i hope you not stressed yourself out 👉👈
I like this animation since I've been in two online relationships before. The first one was where the guy was pressuring me into sending sexual messages and pictures and stuff. I did because I didn't want to disappoint him or make him upset with me. After talking to a random person online about it, they told me how that was actually a very bad thing and explained to me why and such. I broke it off with that guy before things got very far, but I was pretty young for that kind of thing, so it made me feel extremely uncomfortable at the time. This guy also tried to guilt-trip me into going back to him, constantly telling me about how sad he was that I was leaving. For about a year this guy would send me messages on holidays wishing me the best in my life when I had told him repeatedly that I disliked this. The second guy is one I'm still with now. We already made sexual jokes and stuff before we got together, so eventually flirting turned into me asking him if he wanted pictures since it was the only way I knew how to make a guy happy. He accepted, not knowing that I was still pretty uncomfortable with it. He wasn't pressuring me in the slightest, only having me send stuff since I offered. Recently, over two years into our relationship, I told him that I was and still am slightly uncomfortable with it. He immediately told me to stop and wait until I was ready. People, the second scenario here is the kind of relationship you should be in. Not the first.
Just stay alert and safe is what i wish for u💜
@@hobispreciouseusmile Thank you. Because I now know what a healthy relationship looks like things are going a lot better for me now.
@@graciemadelinerose9728 :) 💜
Fellas get you a guy like the second one.
Nobody deserves this. No matter what happens I will continue to fight for those who need it. Please, to women and men, your value does not come from your sexual value or attractiveness, but the beautiful person you were meant to be on the onside. I love you all and pray for you
I’m so glad this video and this series exists. I was sexually manipulated online when I was 14. Luckily he didn’t post anything cause I only sent him one of me in just a shirt, nothing too revealing, but he would pressure me and manipulate me a lot, asking me for more, more more. If I didn’t, he would ask me if I didn’t love him or even threaten to take his own life. And I was scared of what he would do if I left him. I’ve never met him in person but he still caused so much damage to me and my life. People tell me it’s not the same as getting physically sexually abused or that what I went through isn’t as bad as other’s experiences... What I went through still impacts me to this day. I have trust issues, social anxiety and low self confidence in my body. I wish they would show these videos in school. The animation is amazing for one (sorry, art nerd here), the way they explain things and the storylines, it’s a good thing to spread awareness with and talk about to those who might not fully understand.
Im in a similar situation now and im 17 year old...what should i do? And i feel exactly how you feel. Would love to hear your advice
I suffered from the same thing.. exactly same.. he would threaten me that he'll suicide if I didn't do what he asked . I was so scared.. those things still haunt me
Girl i experienced the same thing & it did give me literal panic attacks depression for non stop 2 yrs..he manupulated me into thinking im less worthy ..in the 1st yr ..he showed his best version from 1st 2 months than he showed his true colors but its too late to leave him..bcoz i fell in love its my early 20's..he started to ask me half nudes ..i was trapped ..there is a feeling of it was wrong but still i dont want to loose him..i didn't share it to anybody..i tried to tell him so many ways that i dont like it..but day by day he manupulated me to do that constantly..after 1 yr i took stand for myself & steeped away from relation..he came back to me 3 times..i tracked his pattern..1st he showed his gentleman sides then when hes realising that i've gotten into him he stratrd to show again his old pattern ..& if i refuse to give he just strted to act like im no one to one ..sometimes he says disrespectful things to me which is unbearable ..then early of 2023 when he came back to me again i showed no interest on him he came to realise im not going to manupulated by him no more..so he tried his old tictacs to know if i had feelings for him..when he fully get to know i lost interest he tried to provoke me by sending & unsending massages to get a reaction ...but i blocked him after that..& he never showed up..thank to god that i didn't entertained him any longer..thank god for giving me the stregnth that i moved out myself from it by my own...i felt lot of guilt & that thing destroyed my image..bcoz im that girl who didn't lock eyes on the roads to anyone..& he made me do that..ghoshh hes ugly aff tbh..but his words manupulation did that to me..so be aware of this shitt..take time to know pepoles real intention towards you..dont jump on anything..now im out of this trauma ...bcoz its not my fault ...its just their fault they took advantage of emotions & innocence..he। will get his karma for sure..
Kim: *calls Kevin*
Kevin: ʰᵉˡˡᵒ⁻
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wtf how did you write kevin like that
@@yakinyamaddi He's from russia, that's how
@@kriswell. no seriously how
@@yakinyamaddi he uses a cursed text generator, you can just look it up on google
@@yakinyamaddi it's zalgo
I feel that this video should be played in all schools.