A saleslady should never do or say anything like that unless the customer asks her to. Saying something like "the areas you're not comfortable with" is clearly embarrassing.
I really doubt the girl was trying to be disrespectful, she just seemed to be in a zoned out look/thought of “we have something that may fit what you desire (that is if you don’t think that dress appeals to your body shape)”. Fashion is extravagantly all over the place these days, you’ll have young girls wearing those moo moo dresses as a thing that will become a trend.
@@user-hj6zi8sn5e Agreed. The friend really did say that the sales lady did nothing wrong and the sales lady didn’t do anything wrong she listen to her concerns and then try to address the concerns that’s all that happened.
@@ltahoe9257She was trying to take the initiative and help a customer who clearly didn't 100% like how she looked in the dress. Why not try to help the woman find something she truly felt comfortable in instead of letting her buy a dress that she may later decide to return?
@@melindoranightsilver9298 there's absolutely nothing wrong with taking initiative and helping a customer, it's how she did it. Next time, try it out when a stranger asks you a question and walk away. Most people would feel obliged to respond.
@@ltahoe9257 The episode explored 3 of the 4 options a person has when buying something they like but doesn't quite fit you right. Either you: buy it in a larger size-and if need be alter it so it fits better (or get someone to do it for you), don't buy it and get something else, lose the weight in whatever problem area you have, or just be confident in your body and wear it anyway if you have just one issue. The entire episode was about her trying to lose the weight, realizing it wasn't as easy as it was when she was younger and finally understanding that she could accept herself as she was. As for the salesperson, I think even if she had said something before walking away, Charlotte still would have gotten mad. I remember Charlotte's ballerina wardrobe from Sex and the city and that black and pink dress wasn't it. Even her friend said the woman had done nothing wrong.
The writing in this show has strong boomer energy. Especially with the snarky sales girl trope - like just stop it lmao that girl hit her vape pen and just tryna make shift
She wasn’t snarky. She was perfectly normal and helpful if direct. The scene was about Charlotte’s insecurities and seeing judgment that’s not there. They actually did a 180 on the snarky sales girl trope and made her the sympathetic character in this moment.
saying you're 25 is much quicker than saying you are young, slim and beautiful... and is also subtle way of throw shade saying you are nothing but youth, she don't want to say any compliment like you are young and slims...
That dress really didn't look good on Charlotte. Her super chic friend dressed really nice should have suggested her something different before the shop assistant ever stepped in. In the original SATC Charlotte dressed nice, not extravagant and not silly - she had a conservative rather elegant style (yes, a bit boring compared to the other three). They're changing history now.
Right?! In which world is that abortion of a dress "a modern version of what I wore in the gallery back in the day"??? Charlotte was all old money and dark academia, this makes absolutely no sense.
Poor Charlotte, having issues dealing with the fact she's over 50 now and cannot wear tight outfits like a 25 year old anymore. Age catches up to us all, and no one can remain the queen bee forever ..
@@samanthalong4801 I'm 46 looking the same as in my 20's only bigger receding hairline and 5 pounds on the waist I need to get rid of. But guess what: I don't try to wear tight t-shirts like I could in my 20's nor freak out upon realizing it. Charlotte looks great for her age (those legs and butt are any real man's treasure), her freaking out like this is sad and actually forced (she was worried about her tighs in the series, not her belly). I actually know a 47 year old mom with adult daughters who looks body wise very similar to Kristin Davis: down to the extended belly, and still she's way hotter than most 20 year olds around (she hits the gym every day in the morning around my time there, obviously decades of discipline and self control have paid off). Charlotte knows that as well, should act like it (it's not like Harry's growing younger or taller or slender or regrowing a full mane of hair).
Well, as a fashion designer I must say, dress according to your age and character! maybe Charlotte needs to be more comfortable with her age not the dress nor her body! clothes are out there to make you look more beautiful and more comfortable. you don't like it, don't buy it! try something else. Also, sometimes the shade or the pattern of the fabric can shift the focus from your insecurities to your beautiful futures. or give you a more posh look! All black with pink... looks like 90 year old Barbie!
She’s literally telling her that she’s uncomfortable with her stomach that’s like when I was in Tulum this girl got a pillow because I was being so self-conscious but it’s not like she was like calling me fat she knew that I was really self-conscious she was just like being nice it’s literally not a big deal and now I feel really bad Like I owe her money because she did all these photo shoots and stuff but I don’t know what to do
well that's the sales girl fault for saying the dress too young for her. while in this scene, Charlotte is the C here. unlike Samantha, Charlotte is wondering all day about the outfit. the sale girl ain't got all day for this mumbling.
The writers of AJLT never bothered to watch the original series or movies. It's obvious during most of the scenes and the fan fiction garbage that Miranda is gay.
Like if I tell someone that I’m self-conscious of my stomach like and they try to help me hide it that’s nice that’s not mean that’s being helpful that’s like if I say I have a pimple and you offer me concealer or if I have some thing on my teeth if I have like lipstick on my teeth or a seed in my teeth
A sales person was totally wrong. Charlotte didn't ask for a different style, she was asking for reassurance. A professional sales assistant would have known what to say. And Charlotte's friend was as bad as the sales person. The dress is very Charlotte. And a bit of tummy didn't ruin anything.
Samantha didn't do the same thing. The sales assistant actually DID shame Samantha, Samantha looked fabulous in the dress and was only insecure for a SECOND when Miley stood next to her, and then it was all good.
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I don't think the staff was intentionally mean. She spotted Charlotte wasn't comfortable with her waistline and tried to solve the problem.
She walked away without a word. That's hardly a professional service.
“You’re 25, that’s your crime.” What a line.
So true. "You'll understand one day. Promise!" 🤣😂🤣
That’s embarrassing
@@TityretupatulaeMore like factual.
Wow that sucks
the sales women done no wrong here, she gave Charlotte a kick or else she will be stand there wondering the outfit is right or wrong all day.
A customer is allowed to stand there all day of that's what she needs.
Shamed? More like charlotte is overly sensitive. But she always was
Exactly. Last century she would have worn a corset
A saleslady should never do or say anything like that unless the customer asks her to. Saying something like "the areas you're not comfortable with" is clearly embarrassing.
Agree
I really doubt the girl was trying to be disrespectful, she just seemed to be in a zoned out look/thought of “we have something that may fit what you desire (that is if you don’t think that dress appeals to your body shape)”. Fashion is extravagantly all over the place these days, you’ll have young girls wearing those moo moo dresses as a thing that will become a trend.
She wasn’t zoning out she was listening to her concerns and went and found things that fit what she was saying she needed.
The sales clerk should have communicated that she’d be right back, acknowledging Charlotte.
aww the sales assistant was just trying to help :(
She wasn’t shamed. She was being overly sensitive and the sales lady was just doing her job.
No, she was being a jerk. Just look at the look on her face
@@user-hj6zi8sn5e no she wasn’t even charlotte’s friend pointed out the girl did nothing wrong
@@user-hj6zi8sn5e Agreed. The friend really did say that the sales lady did nothing wrong and the sales lady didn’t do anything wrong she listen to her concerns and then try to address the concerns that’s all that happened.
@@user-hj6zi8sn5e I am totally with you.. when someone asks you something you say something back... if you walk away, you´re just rude.
🙄 Charlotte didn’t like the fit of the dress so the employee found her dresses with different cuts and Charlotte had a hissy fit.
A simple "Let me see if I can find some alternative dresses to that" would have sufficed instead of walking away when being asked something.
@@ltahoe9257She was trying to take the initiative and help a customer who clearly didn't 100% like how she looked in the dress. Why not try to help the woman find something she truly felt comfortable in instead of letting her buy a dress that she may later decide to return?
@@melindoranightsilver9298 there's absolutely nothing wrong with taking initiative and helping a customer, it's how she did it. Next time, try it out when a stranger asks you a question and walk away. Most people would feel obliged to respond.
@@ltahoe9257 The episode explored 3 of the 4 options a person has when buying something they like but doesn't quite fit you right.
Either you: buy it in a larger size-and if need be alter it so it fits better (or get someone to do it for you), don't buy it and get something else, lose the weight in whatever problem area you have, or just be confident in your body and wear it anyway if you have just one issue.
The entire episode was about her trying to lose the weight, realizing it wasn't as easy as it was when she was younger and finally understanding that she could accept herself as she was.
As for the salesperson, I think even if she had said something before walking away, Charlotte still would have gotten mad. I remember Charlotte's ballerina wardrobe from Sex and the city and that black and pink dress wasn't it. Even her friend said the woman had done nothing wrong.
The writing in this show has strong boomer energy. Especially with the snarky sales girl trope - like just stop it lmao that girl hit her vape pen and just tryna make shift
She wasn’t snarky. She was perfectly normal and helpful if direct. The scene was about Charlotte’s insecurities and seeing judgment that’s not there. They actually did a 180 on the snarky sales girl trope and made her the sympathetic character in this moment.
Actually, the 25 year old was about the same size as Charlotte. The pants weren't doing her any favors.
but she not the one complaining. also she is 25.
But there is women in their 20s that have that issue. Even in their teens. “You”re 25 , that’s your crime “ . Really?
saying you're 25 is much quicker than saying you are young, slim and beautiful...
and is also subtle way of throw shade saying you are nothing but youth, she don't want to say any compliment like you are young and slims...
You’d think she’d be more concerned about her trout pout and fillers 😂
That's the actress, not the character...
That dress really didn't look good on Charlotte. Her super chic friend dressed really nice should have suggested her something different before the shop assistant ever stepped in. In the original SATC Charlotte dressed nice, not extravagant and not silly - she had a conservative rather elegant style (yes, a bit boring compared to the other three). They're changing history now.
Right?! In which world is that abortion of a dress "a modern version of what I wore in the gallery back in the day"??? Charlotte was all old money and dark academia, this makes absolutely no sense.
Her face the filler I just can't
Considering how good looking she would be without that shit in her face
Tbh it’s giving an old face lift gone wrong. Think Courtney Cox..
Charlotte was the bigger C in this scene
Poor Charlotte, having issues dealing with the fact she's over 50 now and cannot wear tight outfits like a 25 year old anymore.
Age catches up to us all, and no one can remain the queen bee forever ..
I wonder how old you look like talking like that.
@@samanthalong4801 I'm 46 looking the same as in my 20's only bigger receding hairline and 5 pounds on the waist I need to get rid of.
But guess what: I don't try to wear tight t-shirts like I could in my 20's nor freak out upon realizing it.
Charlotte looks great for her age (those legs and butt are any real man's treasure), her freaking out like this is sad and actually forced (she was worried about her tighs in the series, not her belly).
I actually know a 47 year old mom with adult daughters who looks body wise very similar to Kristin Davis: down to the extended belly, and still she's way hotter than most 20 year olds around (she hits the gym every day in the morning around my time there, obviously decades of discipline and self control have paid off).
Charlotte knows that as well, should act like it (it's not like Harry's growing younger or taller or slender or regrowing a full mane of hair).
1:05 'You're 25, that's your crime."
Charlotte isn't even fat
Jesus she’s had so much word done.
What a terrible approach depicting women of all ages. However, that has always been the problem with the show.
The dress is terrible
Sure, is!...For, ANYONE. Some clothing is just, hideous.🤷🏾♀
So is her face.
Well, as a fashion designer I must say, dress according to your age and character! maybe Charlotte needs to be more comfortable with her age not the dress nor her body! clothes are out there to make you look more beautiful and more comfortable. you don't like it, don't buy it! try something else. Also, sometimes the shade or the pattern of the fabric can shift the focus from your insecurities to your beautiful futures. or give you a more posh look! All black with pink... looks like 90 year old Barbie!
Goes shopping for a work outfit, proceeds to get the same thing she's been wearing all season 🙄
Charlotte is married with kids and wealthy, what does she have to worry about? First world problems.
I love their relationship
The dress on the right was so pretty, with that collar.
Her friend is so agreeable
The belt accentuates top
and bottom
She didnt shame her
She’s literally telling her that she’s uncomfortable with her stomach that’s like when I was in Tulum this girl got a pillow because I was being so self-conscious but it’s not like she was like calling me fat she knew that I was really self-conscious she was just like being nice it’s literally not a big deal and now I feel really bad Like I owe her money because she did all these photo shoots and stuff but I don’t know what to do
Okkk, never thought Charlotte was going to become one of those ladies,,, the whole cast turned really weird and unhappy, yuck
This happened before with Samantha
Yeah Samantha and the “young” dress lol.
And Sam was kind and generous and a complete lady to that beastly little girl because she deserved a far worse tongue-lashing than she gave her
well that's the sales girl fault for saying the dress too young for her.
while in this scene, Charlotte is the C here. unlike Samantha, Charlotte is wondering all day about the outfit. the sale girl ain't got all day for this mumbling.
The writers of AJLT never bothered to watch the original series or movies. It's obvious during most of the scenes and the fan fiction garbage that Miranda is gay.
Yup girl just doing her job
it's very sad how her face looks now.shewas natural beauty, she didn't need all this face surgery.
She was being nice.What??
Like if I tell someone that I’m self-conscious of my stomach like and they try to help me hide it that’s nice that’s not mean that’s being helpful that’s like if I say I have a pimple and you offer me concealer or if I have some thing on my teeth if I have like lipstick on my teeth or a seed in my teeth
Charlotte was never like this in the original show
Who writes this crap?
Okay, I haven't been watching these people since the first movie, so...what tf happened to Charlottes face?!
This may be the worst show ever
That outfit was awful!!!!
A sales person was totally wrong.
Charlotte didn't ask for a different style, she was asking for reassurance.
A professional sales assistant would have known what to say.
And Charlotte's friend was as bad as the sales person.
The dress is very Charlotte. And a bit of tummy didn't ruin anything.
Thank you!!!
Samantha did the same thing! She was 50 and wore the same dress Mylie Cyrus wore. So what? When you get old you can get sensitive.
But the difference is that Samantha looked good like Miley did and actually, better and best than anyone else who wore this dress.
Samantha didn't do the same thing. The sales assistant actually DID shame Samantha, Samantha looked fabulous in the dress and was only insecure for a SECOND when Miley stood next to her, and then it was all good.
Mmm, That's not the only crime. If I were the friend sitting there, I would say, 'You heard her? Why don't you go take those moomoos back?"