My Wife Went into Labor so I went to Bed
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What do you mean by more intimately? Sounds creepy as fuck.
@@fezs9027 bruh 💀
@@siobhanfogarty7729 I find his demeanor very creepy and the way he pontificates; very sanctimonious and wild sweeping generalizations.... The kid totally gets on my tits .
@@fezs9027 I’ve been wanting to say that for so long 😂
@@DillanLynn I've watched a fair few videos & all I can say is this guy just wants fanny and whole lot of it & is using religion as a tool to further propagate his own agenda ; kids a poor manz Andrew tate ; actually that's insulting Andrew tate .
If he is giving examples of husband types not to marry, he’s a good example himself.
Like I can't agree more
Nah
men are no longer slaves to women, and you're crying. too bad, your empire fell.
He doesn’t have to be there it’s pointless as long as she has doctors there
@@YungPhilosopher Quite a stupid statement even for a troll like yourself.
Lol, he’s all about “provider protecter” role of men but he ditched his wife at her most vulnerable moment. No wonder he’s divorced. How the hell is he given a platform to speak about marriage?
So true.
Its concerning that he thinks that type of behaviour is acceptable 😮...
I agree,
I do agree with some of his points with regards to men, but he professes all those qualities of providing protecting, being a man.
Man couldn't even wake up for the birth of his child. All those qualities went out the window for BOTH now, didn't they?
He's got two wives currently if I'm not mistaken.
Seriously 😳
He is DEFINITELY the type of husband you SHOULD NOT MARRY. WTF
He's the kind of man that proves he's manliness to women only
@@samerajackson639 i mean he was one of the strongest powerlifters in his town
duck yooo😭😭
@@ogduck461 "there's always a faster gun just yonder that hill".... Don't mean he should get respect for it
I’m so sorry for his wife
The fact that he is so proud of himself while narrating this , is so sickening.
This guy is really terrible.. and for a Muslim to have terrible akhlaaq(character) .. n for him to be proud of it!!!! it’s disgusting.. I pray for his wife n kid..
n pray he gets some sense. Something is seriously wrong with him
Well, it's his third wife, too 😮
Are u seriuos. We can only pray for his wife and children
Sickening
Look at the other men laughing and enjoying
He's a walking red flag.
Oh please! If you've had a couple of babies you know as a woman there is nothing these guys can do to help 😅😅😅
@@manashaisaac1145 hes litterly theres to witness his child being born
@@braincorrupt4778 for what purpose
@@manashaisaac1145 He's an absolute halfwit.
Literally 😂
I hope she wakes up and gets a husband that really cares for her.
Ameeeen
@159awesomedudewhy do you have to go in the labour room? Why not take her to the hospital and stay in the lobby? You boys are full of excuses because as men you are failures. A real man would have no excuse. I hope when he gets sick, she calls the ambulance and tells him he can handle it on his own habibi😂
@159awesomedudewell who put her in that situation in the first place??
@heisenburger real men don’t complain about that
No self respecting muslim man would marry a single mother
Ew. He's disgusting. Why any woman would put up with that level of narcissism is beyond me. I'm so so grateful for my husband.
Nice, loving and caring guys get cheated on for guys like him, imagine loving and caring for ur wife during labour only to raise her boyfriend's child without u knowing
@@omarmassoud6275 He obviously chose the wrong woman. Works both ways
@@rebeccaj6772 women get tricked into raising their husband's girlfriends child💀💀💀that is new
@@omarmassoud6275 obviously not. Picking the wrong person 🙄
How can any self-respecting man publicly admit to abandoning his wife when she needs him most?
Imagine his wife doing same while he, God forbid, having an heart attack.
Called an ambulance, Marshallah u got this, put on white noise..... Couple of hours later, he was OK... Allaha...
God save noble women from men like these.
honestly why i should care if anyone is near me while having a heart attack. i would just make dua, at that point my friends or my wife are useless and only my good deeds that i made are useful. in this case is better if a woman (like my mother or her mother) stays there because they know the pain and they can help her better than me.
Labour is not heart attack.
Amin
@@bayekofsiwa365 a lot of things could go wrong even in labor and delivery.
@@LearnTawhid yes Allah is the one who should help the husband. The wife is not the doctor, therefore she should go sleep and leave it all to Allah. She being there is not going to save him.
That brother is not right in the head. No way would I abandon my wife when she is in any discomfort let alone when she was giving birth.
❤❤
This is one of the times where needs him the most...really worthless dude
Tradition man , that's what their ancestors did
@@londaqhubekani8275 the Meccan pagans were also doing as their forefathers/ancestors did. Doesnt mean they were right.
@@londaqhubekani8275 Our ancestors also had slaves, does that make slavery right?
The worst part about social media is that everyone has a platform..
I'd happily die single before ever being with a man like this ✨
make sure you marry someone that loves you, thats all im gonna say.
True. Like I would want to be there ahen my child is born and support my partner
@@The_Memorial 'support'
women wanna make everything about them, its not that he doesn’t love her but looks like he doesn’t care about his children
I look at it more as lack of respect and care than love... equally disturbing though
@abdullah shahj Allah is watcching
This guy got some screw lose in his head.
Ok Bambi
He reminds me of andrew tate
@@Soulxxxreaper Andrew tate has logic. But they have understood islam very immaturely. You have to take care of your wife specially when She's about to give birth to your offspring. I dont know if he read our prophet's (SAW) life or Allah's orders.
@@hereisbamboothat’s what doctors are for
That's Islam for U, don't be an Islamophobe
He should not marry anyone's precious daughter he don't deserve it
This comment section is where everyone of every race and religion has come together to condemn this despicable behaviour.
Mahdi: A woman must cater to her husband's every need.
Also Mahdi: can't provide even the most basic form of emotional support to his wife.
Roasted. 🍗
Thought you dont need no man? What's you're beef
@@kharnage99 First of all it's *your. Second of all, why do speak like you know me 💀 Thirdly, I have never uttered "I don't need a man" in my life.
Can't even call out a man when he's wrong without some butthurt boy having to insinuate that I adhere to feminist ideologies.
@kharnage99 clearly we don't.. he went to sleep and she had the baby without his help.
@@celialovell9079 Exactly. Everyone's happy
The type of man that I don't want my daughters to marry, or my son to be like.
Don't you want a Religious strong decisive who protects and Provides for your Daughters rather than a fat undisciplined plays Ps5 all day long ????
My husband is Muslim, doesn’t like blood and gore etc however he sees it as his responsibility to look after and be there for his wife in her time of need. And when you’re in labour, that’s when you need that support system. He was there in the room with me every step of the way, I had an emergency section, he was in theatre with me. Even when my heart started to slow and the machines were blaring and the doctors fought to stabilise me. He held my hand with one hand and the baby in the other. My baby was taken to NICU. My husband went to and from NICU feeding, changing and looking after our baby and when he wasn’t there he slept beside me on the cold tiled floor of the hospital as i lay fighting for my life. THAT’S what a man should be doing especially a Muslim man.
I hope on your day of judgment when you face ALLAH G and he questions you on your decisions, that you have a good enough answer to tell him.
How can I make this man's videos NOT appear in my feed?
On the side of his video, click the three dots and click "donot reccomend channel". This is on yourube
Same! They just randomly started appearing
You do realise there is a do not recommend this channel option right?
@@ItzOnlyCrisiswhere
This is where i use the "dont recommenfd channel button". May Allah guide you to have empathy.
It was a joke, his wife requested for him not to be there at his birth, due to a common Islamic custom
@@S12359
Why do u keep saying Islamic tradition as a cover for such behaviour. Its simply not true.
@@S12359 mmm idk about that one boss
@@S12359 islamic custom??? thats not an islamic custom dont lie.
@@S12359no one would ask him to be in the delivery room and watch the process, but he could at least drive her to the hospital and make a dua for her and their baby, but he chose to sleep. May Allah guide him and men who share this mindset
He doesn’t love her. He’s just trying to look all cool in front of the guys. That’s ugly. Usually I agree with a lot he says but this, this is vile. Your own child coming from God. Sad and utterly disgusting.
Wait what's he even explaining? I can't understand this part of English
A real man will never do this… only a cowardly excuse for a mam
It's the third one, who admitted that she did it to get back his ex wife. She said his other wife insulted her and at that time they didn't have anything going on, she is lying the ex wife picked on her womanly intuition. She agrees with his idiocy and encourages this behavior. just watch their podcast it will make sense.
True. I stopped following him after what he said about his wife when she was going to give birth to HIS child. And Masha'Allah, I'm thankful that my husband was completely by my side during childbirths, and he even recited Quran to calm me.
100% agree with you
I know young men are looking for a role model, but this is not him guys. If you want your wife or woman to respect you, you have to show her care and consideration. She is after all risking her own life. She deserves better treatment than that.
This is a prime example of a MAN
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That you should not marry.
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I cannot even think of doing something like that if I decide to get married.
Honestly, this makes me feel so proud of my father. He treated all seven of his children so well. He was kind, gentle, masculine and there for all of our births. Till this day, in his old age, he remembers how each us were born and speaks so fondly of my mother. Subhanallah, I couldn't imagine having such a selfish husband like the man in this video.
Alhammdulillah, alhammdulillah, alhammdulillah for my husband. He'd never do such a thing.
سلام عليكم..
Yes me too ..
My husband also was present together with 3 of my kids .
And he is Masculinity but realised I needed support without my family .
Your husband will just end up being disgust, why does he have to be in the room? If he wants to cool but if not I see no harm in him sitting outside the room waiting till he gets the green light n walks in.
Alhamdolillah. Your dad is a true true man
@@dizz1934 I highly doubt that a honorable husband would feel disgusted at the birth of their child. That's completely dishonoring the rahma that Allah has given the father to even be able to have a child.
Honestly, I see no problem if the husband wants to be outside-and that his wife is okay with that. But life is a blessing and a precious thing and shouldn't be discussed with such callousness like the guy jokes and speaks in this video.
@@helmi9359 Not only that, why would u want him to see all the blood n her screaming in that state. That man will always hv flashbacks whn he sees her.
I wont lie this guy is making all women out there grateful for their husbands 😂
that is true... i had 4 kids and my husband was always with me ❤
Or for being single....lol
@@boparks3204this is definitley helping the single ones to stay that way.
@@boparks3204 I guess but overall not having him as partner lol
I’m grateful everyday Alxamdulillah!
Absolutely disgusting. Dying in childbirth is common. With this he showed her with perfect clarity that he does not care whether she lives or dies. I just hope she sees it for what it is
Yesssss
I literally screamed I was going to die during my contraction storm
During pregnancy and birth is when a women needs her husband the most.
Yessss its the closest thing next to death
This guy is so helpful.
To know what NOT to do.
😂😂😂😂😂
Hes right
If i was married and my husband just abandoned me like that during my most vulnerable moment, the momant that I need him the most, i would honestly never want to see him again. Even dogs are treated better than that
Same he is a jerk and you know what best thing we can do is not giving him attention cause he doesn't deserve it
Yeah bruh indeed
I’ve never had a kid but what do you want him to do Labor can take hours like you just want him to sit in the hospital and watch you be in pain I mean nothing wrong with catching a little nap as long as he’s there when the baby is about to come
@@Xxxx-pb4fe r u kidding me showing ur wife that you support her by taking a nap
I m sorry to say that but we as a society have lost our real manners man arent taking their whole responsability and women trying to compete with man ..... we r finished
I doubt our prophet will act the same
ربي يهدينا
@@Xxxx-pb4fe yes, he needs to be there to hold my hand through the contractions and provide emotional support. He can sleep at the hospital
Keep your eyes peeled and ears open. Brother is a great example of what NOT to become
So what I heard is: ``I wasn't able to provide for the basic emotional needs of my wife, I wasn't strong enough to stand by her while she was giving birth and I think it's hilarious''
This breaks my heart for his wife and son. I truly hope she’s doing well.
Why? Where’s the problem
@@sieg6635 Him abandoning them is the problem. He valued his sleep more than his wife being on the verge of death and his baby literally being put on earth.
@@ewaja2727 Talk about being dramatic. You realize the wife and child are both in good care in the hospital with doctors right? Can’t get any safer than that. There was no point in him being there logically since he wouldn’t be of any use. He’s not a doctor, so there’s nothing he can do.
Also you can’t say she was on the verge of death since only a handful of women die from birth each year. The percentage is very low.
And yes, sleep is a valuable thing.
Good sleep improves your brain performance, mood, and health which is definitely something he needs for taking care of a wife and child.
Btw I think he was just joking about doing that.
@@sieg6635 If you only knew about the injustice women face during childbirth then you would understand why I expect my man, the one responsible for my protection, to be there. And yes, she was in relatively safe hands and not every woman dies, but childbirth is still a near death experience
for every woman. If you would know that your loved one would die, you would spend every last second with them. Why not be there just in case it really does happen, better safe than sorry eh?
And logically, he could’ve been of any use if she were to face a problem with the midwife because childbirth can be traumatic af. Having a husband there to emotionally support is useful.
Yes, sleep is important for taking care of his child. But he couldn’t skip one night? How do you expect women to be able to raise the child with endless nights without sleep? Do better.
@@ewaja2727 did not read + cope + don’t care because you’re wrong.
He is the example of what not to go for in a husband
Don't worry he's not into white non Muslim girl so you good 😊
When I was married and having our child he dropped me off at the hospital and said he had to go home and sleep so he could go to work the next day. It was 10pm at night. By 7am the baby was coming and I called him. He got there just in time to see the delivery and then he left. It was so weird. I never thought in a million years he would do that. I couldn’t even process it all. I just focused on my son. Obviously we aren’t married anymore due to the numerous red flags during the marriage.
Omg this breaks my heart 😢😢😢😢
He is directly and indirectly harming his children by his behavior and he is proud of it.
A real psychopath...
I was there holding my wife's hand in her moments of pain for every one of our 3 children. It's the least that I can do to show appreciation to her enormous sacrifices to bring forth new joys in my life
May Allah bless your family brother
What an awful, untrustworthy husband! I can't imagine being left alone during labour.
I have four children and each time I went into labour my husband remained next to me. One time, I nearly died and the doctors all came rushing and he promised never to leave my side. I remained in hospital for three weeks after and he came to see me every morning, noon and night. And when he wasn't near he made sure to call me. I literally had to beg him to not worry anymore. He never abandoned me and I was completely secure in his love for me.
That’s REAL love and that’s the husband that every wife deserves soo happy for u sis ❤️❤️
And his children phone an ambulance when he is an old man suffering and go back to bed.
Hope his kids evolve more than him for everyone’s sakes 😂
NEXT VIDEO: “Robbers came in the middle of the night, I rolled over”
Labor is to women what war is to men: never closer to death. The fact that he could just go to bed while she may not even make it out of labor… just… no words. If she hadn’t made it out, alive, he would have to accept that he purposefully slept while she battled for her life and died. This is despicable.
Exactly. How could he even sleep when his loved ones are going through one of life's greatest trials and with potential catastrophe hangs over them?
As a Muslim man myself, i do find this weird. Maybe he said this as a joke Idk. I stayed up all night when my cat was giving birth 😂 I wonder what I’d do if my wife was in labour. Thats crazy
Where tf did that saying come from? Cuz that shi is stupid ash
War and birth a nothing alike
Have you ever had a stomach virus? Stfu
You missed one of the most beautiful parts of life brotha, and being there for your lady is one of the most alpha things you can do,
The beautiful part is seeing baby.
It was a joke, his wife requested for him not to be there at his birth, due to a common Islamic custom
I hope you’re joking
@@nxronite9994 why would he be
@@wawaweewa9159 you can see the baby another day?
he seems so proud of leaving HIS wife when she was giving birth to HIS baby
the best of those are those who are good to their wives
what about the ones who are loyal to their husbands?
My husband never left my side during all three of our children’s births. He walked with me, rubbed my back while I was dilating. Fed me ice chips while I was on the bed in hospital labouring, held my hand while I was pushing his babies out of my body. His love for me really shined through. I can’t imagine not having him there to share in the pain and excitement of what we both created together. Mahdi is a poor example of a man. Heartless!
What Allah created for you both*
And since then you been so tired you havnt even cooked a meal for him 😂😂😂
@@kharnage99 Usually, it's recommended to cook a lot in advance prior labour as after birth, the priority is the new born really!
I would never abandon my wife like that
It's a joke habibi relax
@@jamaalshaikh122 it wasn’t a joke he actually did it
@@zulehabaruti2027 really, do you know him personally
@@jamaalshaikh122 why, do you know him personally?
Good for you, but abandon is a bit harsh, he had to sleep
This is exactly why you should choose wisely when you choose your spouse. Avoid this toxicity
Treats his wife like cattle.
What a horrific superiority complex is this.
He doesn't deserve even 1 wife.
I'm Muslim as well and my husband has been by my side through all my pregnancies, each damn c section he was there.
You should leave him he may be gay
@justinx9892Or he is a real man...btw you were joking right?
My husband is Muslim and he was right there suited up to hold his son as soon as our baby was born. I’m not Muslim but my husband is really a good person if what my friends tell me about their husbands is true.
@@HLM.12very good question man, it's very hard to tell if he's joking
@@Kimpa222 are you being sarcastic? my humour is broken🫤
I sort of dismissed this at first because that’s what my dad did when my mom went into labor. But only because he had to work and provide for us. He still called the hospital to check in (cell phones weren't a thing then). My heart sank when he said he put on the “waves” in order to not be disturbed. I’m currently taking a class on pregnancy and it is one of the most high risk conditions a woman can experience where so many things could go wrong in a blink of an eye (even if it’s a healthy pregnancy otherwise). It boggles my mind that he was not one bit concerned for the well being of both his wife and infant. I pray he gains some empathy.
He makes a baby but doesn’t want anything to do with the labour. He is a representation of what NOT to go near!
He already humiliated her the day that it happened and now he goes on a podcast and repeats a horrendous story like this to make people laugh at how neglectful he is to his own household. Ouch.
that breaks my heart for that women, couldn’t have the man she loved most next to her while she’s going through the worst pain of her life.
Maybe she doesn’t love him. And couldn’t care less if he were there.
She deserves him and she knew what she was getting into with this guy
@@fitnessfanatic1450 I doubt if this woman chose him at all. Arranged marriage and all! But it shows his true colours! He is a weak man who doesn't care for wife or child.
If she didn't love him, he wouldn't have known about the pregnancy or she would have gotten an abortion
My dad didnt come to my birth because hes a wimp. I was there for all 3 of my children. One natural birth, one emergency c section and one planned c section... Its what us real men do...
I'm sure your wife appreciates you and gives you intimacy whenever you want..😂😂
Bro called his father a wimp 🤣
Hope you said this to his face as well
@@LearnTawhid brother come on, you can make dua in the delivery room.. think of the reward of supporting your wife in this time, the protection you give her if a male doctor needs to come in, or protection you give her if she needs medical intervention if she's struggling to give birth and she's not of sound mind to talk to the midwives or doctors..
@عبدالفتاح الصوماليabdalfatah a-somali an epidural is usually always given by a male doctor, a c section is usually always done by a male doctor, and the reward is pretty self explained for comfort to your wife and being apart of an experience that was started with both a husband and wife.. Allah has given rights to a man for his needs and a woman for hers alhamdulillah emotional support is the most important thing for a woman.. Ameen.. may Allah reward the husbands who put their wives feelings before theirs Ameen..
@عبدالفتاح الصوماليabdalfatah a-somali so Allah tells a husband not to be there for his wife.. why is the comfort of other women more important than your wife's.. why would the other women even be uncomfortable with a husband being there with his wife.. its definitely not haram for a husband to be there, but its a comfort for a wife and makes us feel cared for.. Allah knows our intentions Alhamdulillah selfishness isn't loved by Allah
He starts having a heart attack
His wife “you got this babe” and she goes to bed .
This is the kind of husband that doesn't deserve to be there when his wife is conceiveng the baby.
This is not the Etiquette of a muslim.
It was a joke, his wife requested for him not to be there at his birth, due to a common Islamic custom
You shouldn't joke about neglecting your wife@@S12359
He thinks He will be rewarded for this.... wait for the day of Judgment 😂
It was a joke, his wife requested for him not to be there at his birth, due to a common Islamic custom
Yes I’m sure majority of the men in the past who were not there to see a child being pushed out of a women are going to be punished. Maybe you should wait as well.
@@nxronite9994 It's a different scenario if the men are away because of circumstances. But to joke about it so callously shows a lack of respect towards Allah's rahmah and creation.
This guy is all what we shouldn't be
😂😂😂😂😂! Dam, he a savage!!
One thing to not be inside the delivery room, and another to peacefully sleeping while ur wife is going through one of the most excruciating painful moments of her life. Lmao
I wish I could experience birth to show women it ain’t no biggie
@@benygames7399 you're kidding me right??? Some women's vaginas literally *RIP* while giving birth. Imagine trying to push a watermelon out of your body. Child birth is extremely painful.
Even if his wife died in labour or from giving birth. For him, no problem. Next!
@@benygames7399 Abu Burdah reported: Ibn Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, watched a Yemeni man circling the House while carrying his mother on his back, saying, “I am her humble camel. If her mount is scared, I am not scared.” Then he said, “O Ibn Umar, do you think I have repaid her?” Ibn Umar said, “No, not even for a single pang of pregnancy.”
Source: al-Adab al-Mufrad 10
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
@@GoPrayDontDelay I don’t believe in that so it doesn’t pertain to anything
I hope he's joking. If not, then that's effed up. That's your wife and child. You should be there for them. Especially in that special moment.
And do what exactly? Other than stand outside for 5 hours "waiting"? 😂
Seriously though, 2 of my children were born in the US. I was in the room with her since being dispatched from the triage til birth for over 20 hours. I had absolutely no role being there other than she staring at me on the couch. 1 child was born in my Muslim home country. No mens allowed anywhere near the ward. What benefit is me just sitting on a chair for 6-8 hours?
@@imgonnaruletheworld a husband should be there for his WIFE when she's giving birth. The men in my family was, my friends boyfriends and husbands was. In my opinion, if you help make the baby, then you need to be in that delivery room with her. Anything could happen in those times.
@@imgonnaruletheworld I'm American, I'm not from a Muslim country. So if I'm in the delivery room. I expect him to be there with me.
@@elizabethbailey5731 r/wooooosh
@@imgonnaruletheworld Yes, be there and support her even if it means standing outside while she’s gives birth or being the delivery to hold her hand.
Some women die while in delivery. Imagine taking a nap while your wife passed away. Heartless, SubhanAllah! Some people need a soul, they seem so careless.
So, the wife puts on Ocean wave on her IPHONE while he is having a stroke. He's got this!!!!
The sister’s look on her face was priceless 😂😂😂
You can tell how patient his wife is and no wonder few women left him 😅
MARRIAGE IS ABOUT LOVE COMPASSION AND EMPATHY. you can't just be breeding and moving on to other wives. If you truly are a man of religion practice actually LOVING AND CARING for your wives like the prophet (pbuh) did. May allah guide you
May Allah guide him to the right way of thinking. If prophet Muhammad PBUH had his wife in labour he would not be sleeping ignorantly like that. Its so telling about his entitlement that he treats his wives this way. Ya Allah please do not let my sons grow up with this guy’s mindset ya rabb
My worst fear is losing my wife in labor.
That won't happen i assure you
@@k1n9_ you cannot, with what power?
Only God gives guarantee man. I'm not religious but even I know that
God gave men, science and science says that most deliveries killed women because doctors weren’t washing their hands, and so they were dying of infections that were easily prevented
At what stage of labor?
Nahhh I’m gonna be there for all my kids when they’re being born. It’s a miraculous thing to see and of course I’m gonna support my wife thru the process. Just had my 1st born 7 months ago and it was a true blessing to be there and support her and watch my son coming into the world.
So you were sleeping while your WIFE was giving birth to YOUR child
That sound disgusting
Your wife is almost dying 😢 he needs doctor
I hope that story isn't true because if it is, that's a really sad and dishonourable way to go about it honestly
I also really really hope that that isn’t true
This guy is soo evil I feel bad for all his wives and that poor kid yet he call himself a high value man when he's barely a man
As a man i would not want to be in the same room where she gives birth BUT
I will never agree with this dude
He should never dare to call himself a husband nor a father Bcoz he dont give a fuck about his wife nor his child.
@@zeekeleton don’t make big claims pal, some men just play tough socially you know
@@hamzawiblue3157 I'm making big claims? Would a man with values act like this on socials ? I suppose not he's toxic
My Muslim husband would be so embarrassed to hear this. No surprise though he’s just a better man than this boy.
It was a joke, his wife requested for him not to be there at his birth, due to a common Islamic custom
@@S12359 there is no Islamic tradition where the father isn’t there for the birth of his children
@@whitneyharris8462 oh damn, my bad sorry
His wife did ask her not to be there tho, as he explains later on in the interview
@@whitneyharris8462 and there’s no Islamic tradition where the father is there seeing his wife pushing out a baby. He is supposed to be present at the hospital or home at least depending on where the delivery happens
@@nxronite9994 I never said there was?
They yap abt a wife's responsibility in Islam....what abt a Husband's responsibility?....Allah swt is very clear on both. Such hypocrite men. May Allah protect us from such men. Ameen
He is giving the worst image on muslim men realllly.. i just wanna say that there is NO muslim men treat his women as such (coming frome a muslim women) he's an exception
This is the kind of man you as a mother and parent warn your daughters about 😢
His advices are great on what type of men you shouldn't settle down for. Glad he's doing this. 😊
Not only did he abandon his wife, he abandoned his child at the first instance of it coming into the world. Trash man.
If he’s joking this is hilarious if he is being for real this guys a monster lmao
He is the perfect example of why I don’t involve myself with men
Girl just bleed them out for their money and leave them.
Not all men are the same. Also this brother did go to hospital during the child birth of some of his children,
الحَمدُ لله
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الحَمدُ لله على كل حال
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@@fiddah yea, you are right…not all men are the same and not all women are the same, but, he is a prime example of the reason why some women like myself don’t want to get involve with men…he is showing that characteristic openly and publicly especially on this platform 🙂
He’s joking lmao I’m one of those macho macho conservative Arab husbands and even I go in the delivery room 😂
😂😂😂
He might not be joking, its too risky to take a chance with that mindset. You might end up paying a dear price.
@@lancer4709 brother my wife drives a Range Rover and walks around in her 1200 shoes in my 5000 square foot house like butter doesn’t melt in her mouth. It’s a two way road, you give your woman the world and you treat her with dignity and she will have no issue being submissive. The issue nowadays is Men dont act like men and have their women work jobs and struggle and STILL be moms, that’s blasphemy to me.
Is he, though, mohammed? *Is he?*
@@moe3005i thought muslims were supposed to be modest
And if he cought a flu he will look for his wife, what a disgusting man
Why arent other men of the couch telling where he is wrong?
Wow I feel sorry for his wife! My husband is so generous with his affection towards me, he also provides cooks & cleans
At the time our child was born I was working as a 911 police emergency call taker and I told them I'm leaving when I found out my wife was close. I didn't care. Alhamdulillaah I wouldn't have missed our lil guy coming into the world except by kidnapping or death. What a n'imah, Alhamdulillaah.
My father may Allah grant him janna.he used to say “ when a man is far from the rahma of Allah swt he will punish his household”
This is true for many men. Allah has too the raham from their heart like this man.
No man nor Muslim would think this is ok
Who did the adhan on the baby's ear? Some other man?
It was a joke, his wife requested for him not to be there at his birth, due to a common Islamic custom
Hopefully the child will grow up and leave Islam. His dad is a perfect example of a disgusting religion.
@Ashley McKenna islam is perfect, people are not, instead of mindlessly blaming stuff without putting your brain into use, do something good and maybe learn about it.
@@S12359 There is no Islamic tradition which says the husband puts on background ASMR and goes to sleep while the wife is giving birth.
@@ashleymckenna683 if you are seriously thinking 1400 years ago they made a rule stating men should put static white noise on their phone whilst the wife is giving birth, you have other problems😂
Islam is perfect
It's idiots like this that are not
This is a very good reason to get to know someone before you marry them. This is absolutely terrible to do to a woman even if you don’t love them
He’s a horrible example of a good Muslim husband.. May Allah have mercy on his wife
The ultimate characteristics of a narcissist
Alhamdulillah for my spouse, alhamdulillah. Never ever has he left me to have my babies alone. A wife will automatically do everything for her husband if he treats her well. There's a balance in everything. Going around with that kind of attitude, I pray your wife's wellbeing. You will be answerable to Allah
Yo that sister is in disbelief. Lol.
I know it is New testament, but "What, could ye not watch with me one hour?" came to mind
This is so funny 😂😂😂😂 “Allah be with you” and just goes to bed 😂
I had an unassisted natural pool birth with dim lighting and Quran playing in the background. I was the first to hold my baby and pull her out of the water and it was an incredibly empowering experience that my husband and mother were very glad to have witnessed. I still remember the look of awe on both their faces and my mother still goes on about how it was the most beautiful birth she's ever witnessed. For those worried about being 'exposed' a pool birth is a good option as you are submerged and no one sees anything.
I only had one midwife present besides my husband and mother incase of emergencies and to guide me through it.
I couldn't imagine doing that without my husband being there to hold my hand, massage my shoulders or lower back and giving me encouragement throughout. It also definitely gives the man a newfound respect for his wife and mother to witness what women go through bringing their children into the world.
Can I ask how does the baby not drown in the pool as I don't know anything about this
@@gaganhayer6530 Because they have been living in liquid since conception. Their oxygen is provided through the umbilical cord which continues to supply blood and oxygen for a short time after birth. Being born into warm water lets the baby get used to the sudden open space and light without also suddenly being heavy, cold, and having to learn to breath all at once. It's a gentler introduction to the outside world. Once they hit the open air, they’ll take their first breath just fine.
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The baby is still connected to ur umbilical cord and it's been living in water for 9 months
This is sickening
If he actually did that he’s a horrible, selfish human being.
As a muslim woman with a very supportive and caring muslim husband, i would like to deny what he's saying, most muslim men are very caring and they fear for their women and children, of course there are many neglectant ones but in general islam teaches men to treat women with utmost care and to support them in all aspects of life
andyet most women go to Hell for ungratefulness to their husbands