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Emotional Support Demon for my significant other? No. Emotional Support Demon IS my significant other
That’s the right idea
Get them another one as a friend
Looks like we have a fellow plushie fucker here.
@user-qr9iz3nk4v I'm in a polygamous relationship with seven Emotional Support Demons
real !
The rules for pranking:
Rule 1: Don't hurt anyone, (that includes you and psychological harm).
Rule 2: Don't break anything.
Rule 3: Be ready, willing and able to clean up after yourself.
Oh, and most importantly:
Rule 0: The perfect prank results in the victim having trouble telling the story a week later because they are laughing too hard.
Best office prank I ever pulled was against an office prankster. She liked to tape paper over the laser eyes of mice, so I did it to her mouse, then unplugged it. Hilarity did ensue.
Read it as parking. 1-3 seems relevant, but as for #0,, I don't think parking should have victims😅
@@NataniahuahuThe poor car’s a victim
Pranking should confuse not abuse 😌
@@Nataniahuahu We all know you can see the toddler behind your car. He's practically asking for it, just sitting there. Youre doing him a favor. Do it. Go in reverse. No one is watching.
I had a bio teacher list off the characteristics of amphibians and say that they never have claws. I had pet African CLAWED frogs at the time and said that sometimes they do using my pets are an example. The teacher proceeded to double down and try shaming me in front of the class. Guess who brought their pet frogs to class to prove a point. 🙋♀️🐸
:D I love those funky little guys
That's the most beautiful story I've heard this morning! 💙💙
you are genuinely so cool
"Your wrong, frogs don't have claws-"
*FROG* With claws: Ribbit... but with claws
Claws are definitely *rare* in amphibians, but very few things in nature are entirely inclusive or exclusive. I really don't understand how a biology teacher could ignore that concept...
SA is NOT about sex. It's about POWER. As a survivor of years of SA from two different men, I can tell you that what you wear or look like has NOTHING to do with it. This evil creature's comment is called victim blaming, and too many people (of all genders and ages) have this horrible mindset. We need some kind of post search history so we can find comments like these when looking people up before dating or hiring them.
As a man, I can confirm sex plays a role. You have to be attracted to the opposite sex to be interested. The power aspect is part of the arousal albeit twisted, but still sex related. I don't have sex drive so I don't even think about women. I focus on hobbies. Not gay btw. My male friends are baffled by my condition.
He is not evil, just naive. He is not a woman so stop pretending he is.
Evil creature? I’m also a sa victim but by calling him a creature you are dehumanizing him. Hurting someone who hurts you just creates more hurt. Think about that before commenting about someone who generally is on the very side of reason and defending woman. He is either naive or misspoke. Also sometimes sa is about sex, rarely but there it is. Hope you have a nice day.
100%. The ratty pajamas I was wearing on a skinny prepubecent body were NOT sexy at all. The disgusting freak went to jail, apparently they have to keep them separate because not even murderers and theives will be friends with pedos. According to records he got his butt kicked every day.
Yes, It's certainly about power and domination but it's also unquestionably about sex. No, it's not about what you were wearing. But it's still about sex. And it's no wonder with the amount of porn sick people out there today.
When I was 17 I was waiting for my boyfriend out the front of a MacDonald's (a convenient landmark) at about 9 pm. I was wearing a full length skirt, a t-shirt and a full length light weight duster jacket. A guy who was at least in his 30s asked me "how much for an hour?" because he was convinced I was a prostitute. I felt so unsafe and so self conscious, he made that assumption despite the fact that I was mostly covered. It doesn't matter how a girl or woman dresses men will always find a reason to blame them for the actions of bad men.
That's f****** terrifying Jesus Christ.
Well clearly you should have just worn one of these islamic fully body coverings. That would have protected you!/s
Jk women get harrassed there to, If not more. Its almost like the amount of power men have over women, like dictating them what to wear, directly correlates with abuse...
Ugh, I remember one time I was walking to the convince store when I was 16, and a guy started following me to the store. He kept asking questions, where was I going, do I live around here, do I have a boyfriend. He wouldn't leave me alone, and he only stopped when we got to the store. I stayed in there for an hour and went a different route home
It's never about dressing modestly or covering up. Women were assaulted when they wore layers upon layers of petticoats and dresses, women were assaulted when they wore gowns with multiple layers of undergarments. Some people are just awful, and telling women to cover up because of them has never and will never work. The only people who say otherwise are ignorant at best and actively deceptive at worst.
Similar happened to a friend wearing a knee-length skirted suit carrying a briefcase. She was waiting for a light to change to cross the street to her office.
If a guy asked me if I was on my period in that situation, I would reply: "Yes, I woke up in a pool of my own blood. Do you want to end this day by lying in yours?"
Amazing! I will definitely use this next time.
I usually try to actually explain to people that they shouldn't do that, but sometimes I get bored of educating them.
or use "its not my blood , its yours"
@@sheersternfeld1914 same, that's why I started using it 😁 always shuts them up 😜
That's pretty badass
@@aliceramdom.s haha true!!!
30:07 People who think charity "isn't fair" are usually people who don't realise how much of an unfair advantage they started with as an accident of birth.
I personally view charities as a byproduct of our toxic system.
Actual, non-scam charities are objectively good. Period.
Money is used to help people who do not have the money themselves. How could this be bad?
The problem i have with charities though, is that they are just a drop of water on scorching hot asphalt.
They do not fight the root cause of, for example, homelessness: unjust distribution of housing ressources caused by the profit-incentive of capitalism.
Sometimes charities are even used to wave away systemic problems
"Oh how can there be a problem with healthcare? Mr Beast donated 1000 eye surgeries. Bless be"
If capitalism actually worked, charities wouldn't exist.
If charities actually worked, poverty (or at least homelessness) wouldn't exist. Because benelovent billionaires is all it needs.
That being said: if you can, donate to a charity that you looked into and that you trust.
Charities do not solve our issues. They are just a bandaid.
But bandaids are important to keep you going until you find a real cure.
That was my TED-Talk,
thank you for listening.
IKR? Like I wish we all had fair wages and we didnt need charity
Hot take: I think charity is unfair.
Here is why. Charity is based upon the goodwill of people to help those who need a pickmeup. I stand with the idea that it should NOT be based upon the goodwill of some people, but should be a fundamental pillar of society. Meaning our taxes should be used via programs and support to help people.
Haveing it based upon goodwill is leaving help in the hands of (private) people, who have
a) no obligation - which means it can stop at any time
b) implicit or explicit biases often favouring people of their own group - which in the past was highyl racist, classist or based on religion
c) potential political agendas (think of missionaries who use/d charity as a system of opression as in forceing people into dependencies)
I think the very notion of charity within a society is unfair, because often it does increase some devide between social groups.
So I think while personal charity can be a good thing (meaning spending ones time or money to help a person), systematic reliance on cherity is highly unfair.
Note: I say that fully acknowlageing that I am part of a system which uses charity of peolple (volunteered time) to support a wide-spread firefighting system, of which I am part of.
@@alberich3099 That's not a hot take, that's literally the popular public opinion
@@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 but then why do so many people agree with the oritinal comment that "charity isn't fair" is such a bad take? Something you said "I know right" to as well?
23:24 I once saw a series of photos of women holding a sign that read something along the lines of: "this is what I was wearing when it happened. Tell me I asked for it" while wearing the clothes they were wearing while assaulted. There were women wearing long skirt/dresses, baggy pants, sweat pants and hoodies with slides, work uniforms, etc but I think the worst one I remember was the girl wearing a nightgown that looked like one a child would wear to bed, fuzzy slippers, and holding a teddy bear.
There's also a woman who made an exhibit of the clothes people were wearing when they were assualted... there were what looked like toddler clothes...
Sorry, chief, it didn't look like it.... they were kids' clothes
Yup. And the ones that get assaulted while wearing sexy dresses and lots of makeup... are usually Men/AMAB. It's all just heartbreaking.
this is so heartbreaking
I think The Click showed and discussed that art exhibit in another video.
11:09 "Bought a house at 19. What y'all buying?"
Not your bullshit, that's for sure.
I saw one where a girl boasted of having bought a house at 24. It turned out she had lived at home without paying for anything at all, she had an allowance from her parents, worked full time but didn't pay for food, toiletries,didn't contribute towards bills, didn't pay rent and her grandparents had given her the deposit for the house. When called out on it she said other people could do the same as her. Most people's parents could not afford to keep their kids at home that long whilst paying for everything, most people are not just handed thousands for a deposit and some of us were placed in care so had to go to work to be able to rent a room from the age of 16 because otherwise we'd be homeless on the street, there's no leftover money after food, bills and rent to save for a deposit!
😂😂😂
Unless their parents are rich.
@@Invisble748 But then it's not THEM buying the house, but their parents. Which is the whole point. You don't get to flex how YOU bought a house when it's your parents' money that was used.
"What do you think a pronoun is?" "A noun that lost its amateur status." -- _Calvin and Hobbes,_ February 24, 1986
These days, the conversation would be about pro-noun and pro-verb.
a noun that often fights against noobnouns and hackernouns
C&H is iconic! So, so, so, sooooo many great lines!
"I'm easily wiled by a woman in a swimsuit." - _Calvin and Hobbes,_ July 17th, 1987.
Just this week I thought about to read the albums again. (When a friend of mine said children don’t read comics anymore)
Some people would be like "I don't want doctors to find a cure for cancer because I don't have cancer, and I wouldn't get anything! That's no fair!"
33:33 why is this bi hate so weirdly identical coming from both in and outside of the lgbtq community, “You're not bi, you're just straight/gay, stop pretending!” is something homophobes and homosexuals have told me, sometimes even with the same "you just want to be included" or "they just brainwased you to think you like it" reasoning to back it up.
That seems allways so bizarre to me.
It's because the gay community was for the longest time skeptical of the "straight-passing," from the perspective that you can't really be an ally in a freedom movement if you can't fully comprehend the stakes.
@@NieroshaiTheSable do you agree with this nonsense? i hope not mate.
because i can assure you
we being forced into the closet is not less painful for us that is for other members of the community.
Even claiming that we can't understand the monosexual experience is no excuse for making people who have the same trauma of hiding who they are or being shamed and ostracized ect, feel unwelcome again, no matter how they justify it.
I honestly just stay away from the majority of the community and stay with the small ones i relate to
Yep. Or for me, because I ended up marrying a man, that means I was just "having a phase". Obviously I was never really queer 🙄
Like, no I'm definitely still attracted to women, I'm just monogamous with a man. Guess what, I can still be attracted to one sex while being in a relationship with someone of the other.
Or the "omg CHOOSE ONE" line. Did you choose who you are attracted to? No? Then why do I have to choose? 🤦♀
I mean i also don't sleep with vaccinated women i just also don't sleep with non vaccinated women.
_ meanwhile most women (under30 though they can go older) are vaccinated to avoid uterine cancer _
🤔 🌈 ♥
Me too fr fr 🏳️🌈
me too (I wanted to join the comments posting pride flags but there’s no Ace one)
@@lilharm🖤🩶💜🤍
Whenever someone brings up the clothes a SA victim was wearing, I would ask them to google "What she was wearing". It will take you to a page with pictures of the clothes SA victims were wearing at the time they were attacked. Spoiler: most if not all of those clothes were totally normal everyday clothes.
the saddest ones are the little kid clothes. I saw one 'what she was wearing' that was just a little diaper, and the rage and sadness has never left me
Oh you mean the what were they wearing exhibit?
In particular, I remember one picture where the survivor-holding up a sign reading "this is what I was wearing; tell me I was asking for it, I dare you" just to hammer it in-was in semi-fitted jeans and a baggy T-shirt. Oh; and he was male.
It's just an excuse grapists use to shift blame. It's bullsh. Like the "she was too ugly to assault" line failed presidents use nowadays
...I was in a diaper the first time.
Funny story from my sister (who is a surgeon) that relates to your Spotify story:
She had left herself signed in on the computer for one of the operating rooms, since usually people will sign themselves in and play whatever music. One time, whoever was operating did not sign themselves in and instead just played music while logged in as her. However, she was out running at the time and got annoyed at her songs constantly changing, so she played Never Gonna Give You Up every time they tried to change it, REPEATEDLY.
And that's how my sister Rick Rolled an operating room.
That's so funny 🤣 Thank you for sharing the story!
One time, my cousin answered the door to two Mormons, and she was like, "I don't have time. I am taking care of my three kids by myself right now, and I'm in the middle of cleaning my disaster of a home." And i think she just trauma dumped on them. So they volunteered to help clean her home, and she took them up on it. She chilled with her kids while pretending to listen to them while they cleaned her home.
Rando men’s rights activist: I don’t sleep with vaccinated women!!!
Me, a vaccinated woman: Promise?
Same!
Same!
I glady get vaccinated if it means I won't get an std. Vaccines > stds.
I need to be vaccinated.
That’s the real way to fix anti vaxers
Whenever people argue about the way others dress up caused them to get r-worded, I always have the primal urge to scream "WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN THEN, KEVIN?"
Or the nuns in literal habits, or all the women in ultra-conservative circles wearing shapeless high-necked maxi dresses?
A policewoman told us that rapists rarely remember what their victims were wearing.
@@janel.8921 Of course not. Because they're not interested in the clothing unless it fits with their excuses
@@girl1213, if I remember correctly, studies and interviews with rapists in prisons show that rapists will prefer clothes that are easy to rip off (makes sense). That means baggy clothes, sweatpants, things of that nature. Anything deemed "sexy" will usually be tight fitting to show off curves and thus more difficult to remove quickly and therefore the _opposite_ of what a rapist would prefer their victim wears. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@"Rapists hate this one weird trick!" 💀🤬🤮
The whole framing device of the Movie "Titanic" is that a documemtary crew CONTACTED ROSE TO TALK ABOUT HER TIME ON THE SHIP.
Wtf else would she be thinking about??
(Not even mentioning the fact that it is DISTINCTLY possible to be in a loveless 70-year marriage, given that *IT WAS 1912*.)
Other way around. She contacted them because they found her commissioned art piece while they were looking for "The Heart of the Ocean" diamond.
She knew they were looking for it, but her personal goal was to "bury" the diamond in the sea because for her, it's monetary vale meant nothing since being rich didn't make her happy and it certainly wouldn't make any of them happy either.
That was the whole point of her story in the end: there are more important things in life then money because the things worth having are fleeting, and if you don't value it, you'll regret it when you lose it.
Caledon and Ruth, Rose's fiancé and mother, certainly learned that the hard way. They both lost Rose for their treatment of her, and Caledon took his own life when he lost his fortune.
Also, of course, she’d still be thinking about Jack considering her brief affair with him would probably be one of the most traumatic moments of her life because she was on the FUCKIG TITANIC
Also, the whole point of Rose's story is that, thanks to Jack, she did NOT get trapped in a loveless marriage
As a bi-romantic, I facepalmed so hard on the bisexuality post. Like even though I am more attracted to women over men that still counts as being bi. Saying someone is a straight bisexuality just makes me think of the arguments I used to hear from people who said that bi wasn't a real thing because if you ended up with a man you were straight & if u ended up with a woman ur gay. It's just trying to erase bi people & act like we're just indecisive because there are unfortunately people who pretend to be lgbtq+ to be creeps
Our brains like to categorize things. I'll be honest years ago before I did my own research I also used to think bisexuality wasn't real. It was ignorance more than anything as I had never really thought too deeply into it and just kind of parroted what I'd heard others say as it made sense to me at the time. Being monosexual myself it was just super hard to wrap my head around it because I just didn't have that experience. I used to try and understand things through trying to put myself in another persons shoes, so Id try and imagine being attracted to both sexes, and of course I couldn't because in my experience being attracted to only one sex it cancels out the other. Now I realise that you don't have to understand emotionally to understand that someone else has those feelings and experiences...hope that makes sense.
Now, imagine having to explain that you actually never fall in love (aromantic) and never feel smexy attraction (asexual). :D
Everyone will think you're sick, crazy, lying, depressed, or that you just "haven't found the right one yet".
@grenade8572 ooof. Yeah, unfortunately, some people can't wrap their heads around someone who has both little to no romantic attraction & little to no sexual attraction. I think part of the issue is that society as a whole tries to push people into at least getting married but also usually having kids too & the other part is a lack of education for relationships beyond just monosexual, cis, and straight relationships. At least it was when I was growing up
@grenade8572 Yeah, it makes sense. The vast majority of our views tend to steam from our own perspective & experience. It can be hard at times to understand some things, especially if you yourself don't have the experience. The important part that you absolutely hit the nail on the head with is that you don't need to understand the emotions to understand the feelings someone has. The same appliesto experiences, too, as you don't need to have experienced something yourself to understand the experience the other person had or is going through
You know, for some straight men that are incredibly desperate for a relationship, you’d think they’d be a little bit smarter than to insult ALL women with a single sentence. But nooooo….
I bet some of those men can't even aim when they make water.
But that's the point right? They do stuff they know will turn any sane person away, and then complain how that's all the womens fault. They don't want a relationship anymore, they just want to be petty and be the victim.
Lol, the way you guys complain is why guys don't want you.
@ann18o96 I completely agree. It’s so frustrating to hear them say things like ‘men are fueled by logic, not emotions’ while doing the most illogical and emotionally unhinged poop the world has ever seen. But if you point out the hypocrisy, you’re ‘projecting’ or a ‘brainwashed npc’. Absolutely zero self reflection.
@@charlesgentry3758 Considering that I’m happily married to a straight man for several years now, your comment doesn’t have a whole lot of bite to it. And my husband also can’t understand the ‘logic’ a lot of these guys spew. You’re definitely giving ‘they must be sour grapes’ energy.
25:00 "You'll stop being gay if we abuse you enough" brought to you by the same people who assert that "You turned out gay because of abuse!" But also "Stop playing the victim!" Yeah, they don't care. And they don't realize that they are telling on themselves.
Up until around the 1950's-'60's the mentally ill were abused. I dunno what the rationale was in the so-called "Age of Enlightenment", but back in ancient times and the Middle Ages, they thought mental illness was caused by demons. So they figured if they tortured the body enough, the demon would leave. I guess it didn't occur to them that most demons are probably masochists.
Women: “Can we be treated like people who have autonomy over ourselves, please? We’re not objects.”
That last guy: “But what if I treat you like a VALUABLE object?”
Women: *WE ARE NOT OBJECTS!*
That last guy:
Put me in a glass case in a cool, dimly lit and well-ventilated basement.
Freedom is something you take by yourself, by definition, not something you ask for.
@@slq4358
Or... freedom is something we as a society protect and culture, recognizing that respecting the freedom of others is a public good.
Because the moment a group tries to take their own freedom, they are often labeled as "brainwashed radicals" by the side that doesn't want them to have their freedom.
@@themisfitowl2595 the second part of your comment disproves the first part. Society itself is a cage based on polarities that are at constant war with each other. But Idk what this has to do with my comment, my point was that women, people, don't have to ask for freedom, they have to take it by themselves. And face whatever happens: worthless males getting angry, brainwashed and repressed women being jealous, people trying to use morality and other nonsense arguments to re-cage women. All this is to be expected and faced, but no one can hand you freedom, by definition.
Normally by the time a child gets removed by Social Services, they've already tried supporting the birthparents and it wasn't working. My cousin is a teacher at what used to be called a "reform school"; his students are in foster homes or collective homes. For many of them it's the first time they've been under the direct authority of an adult who doesn't expect to be respected on account of their authority, a lot of them are used to adult relatives who will say "I'm gonna slap the hell out of you" after they've already shot that slap.
“Dear women”
Hell no I’m becoming trans.
As a transfem how do I go back without hating myself help
@@irxosm1you can’t go back, but with this one tool, you can shut them up permanently
It’s called: a gun
@@denosoor1515With the Brand-new
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3things will shut them up
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EDIT: not the binder you transmascs are thinking about right now
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A woman in labor yells, "Shouldn't, Wouldn't, Couldn't, Don't, Can't"
The Doctor told her husband, "Don't worry, those are just Contractions"
Y'all'd've
That was amazing. I tip my hat to you, Oh Captain my Captain. 😂
@@zeldaenby224 Why did this get me?
Nice
Thank you I love jokes!
5:09 I’m so honored!! This is the best and most accurate award I’ve ever received
IDK it feels kinda undeserved since I didnt do any gaying. I am not worthy
I remember when I first saw that last 'gotcha' story, I was wondering if the dad realized that by his logic he was lovingly suggesting that his daughter not go out of the house without a full suit of armor. After all, that's how the phone case works. It's not cloth wrapped around the phone to keep the bad people from wanting to attack it; it's a hard covering that's meant to protect it from being scratched up when it's banged around through normal wear and tear.
If the writer really wanted to draw a human application from the cell phone case, a far more accurate one would be that it's a good idea to wear a helmet while bicycling; or safety gear when playing contact sports.
As a Bisexual woman dating a man, the take that was like "They are lonely straight (White) people who want to force their way into queer spaces" made me feel physically Ill and SOOO angry.
I'm aromantic (while not ace) and I've seen a few wander and think our "lifestyle" is for them 🤢
A bisexual person doesn't even need to call themselves queer ( a horrible term ) as they are simply bisexual. It makes me, as a bisexual woman, really annoyed that many heterosexual people put us down as just promiscuous and some other LGT people think we are faking it. It's especially galling when a lot of people who call themselves queer these days don't specify in what way they are different because that means anyone can say it and it has no meaning. I don't believe in Queer or the N word as reclaimed words because they are historically slurs and you cannot reclaim what was never yours in the first place. People have been murdered while those slurs were ringing in their ears. I'd prefer both those words to just die out. There's also the rhyming phrase, "Bi now, gay later" ( like buy now, pay later ) which implies being bisexual is just a soft way to come out as gay or a stepping stone to it. My understanding is that this phrase originated in the gay male community.
Being ace and being told “you’re not really queer, you’re just not having sex.” Like… what? 😮
just like trans men into womens spaces
@@Worldbuilder eh, I'll still take that one over having someone "explain" to me that saying I'm ace is the same thing as forcing someone to watch hardcore porn because apparently asexuality is a massive sexual fetish. Like yes, the sexual fetish of no sexual.
Dear Women, your value is worth more than these men can comprehend. If he’s trying to put you down, he is lacking something. Confident men don’t worry about anyone else’s business.
Thanks. I really needed to hear this ❤
imo the same thing applies to basically anyone too
She is not going to sleep with you over a youtube comment
@@lacucaracha111111Belittling women down to just their sex appeal and viewing them as lesser beings won't make woman want to go near you.
@@lacucaracha111111 of course your name is "the cockroach" lmao.
Ozempic is not just a "thing to get thin", it's a medication for diabetes. I know bc my mom *IS* diabetic and need that to survive, and since people started using it to get thin my mom's live has been hell bc it is always either out of stock or really expensive.
There's no way that shit is healthy and I hope everyone who is taking it with that goal without medical advice suffer the consequences
So my iPhone case is mostly clear. My screen protector is 100% clear.
By his dad-analogy, it doesn’t matter if we’re running around wearing clear plastic jumpsuits, as long as we’re wearing SOMETHING… 🤣
For Titanic, I feel like Rose remembers Jack so fondly because he saved her from ending her life, and helped her be free of her family's expectation. He did not just railed her, he changed the course of her life in a way she can only be grateful for.
If Jack survived, maybe their love would nit have lasted long. After all, he doesn't seem like the type of guy to settle IMHO. But that's not the point. He saved her from suicide and from a life without happiness and that is what matters
Didn't she end up having to marry the man her family picked anyway? A loveless marriage. Even with children... would make me long for the firey romance even if he had been poor.
@@tandlsmith7829 No. That man was convinced she died with the sinking. Rose never approached him on the rescue ship. And after he chased her through the ship with a gun, I don't blame her. She only read about what happened to him: he was one of the many rich folk who committed suicide following the loss of fortune due to the Great Depression. He was married, yes, but not to Rose.
She had gone off under a new identity (she look Jack's last name) and lived her life the way she wanted until she found a humble man to settle down with and that's why she has a granddaughter. She never told him the truth because the people who emotionally didn't care about her in the way she deserved were still around (her mother and her ex-fiancé) and she didn't want him to think she had to be reunited with them.
She found her happiness because Jack told her to live her life the way she wanted to before he froze to death. She owed him that much in her eyes.
You got a Point there, IT was Not a great Lovestory AS in a strong Love or a hrwlathy Love or whatever, they barely knew eachother. In a way Jack was roses manic pixie Dreams girl, someone that taught her Something about herself and have her aid in finding the resolve to Go for what she wants. He Had such a hige impact in her life Not inspire, but because of the little time they spend with eachother, He did Not have the time to Ruin IT, so basically she got the best Out of IT. Maybe they could have been a big Lovestory of He survived, maybe IT would have all collapsed very quckly, but Not even the fact they did Not know eachother well enough to actually BE in Love with eachother does Not Change, that He Had a hige impact in her life
@@girl1213 Ahh It's been a long time since I watched it. You're right. And in fact, she chased her dreams for years before she married her husband. And most of her life she did the things she and Jack had planned on doing.
@@tandlsmith7829 Yeah, to me, neither of them wanted to get married because they wanted to do things first. Had Jack survived they probably would have married after fulfilling their dreams.
People getting mad about you helping homeless people is insane to me. I used to work at a gas station and whenever i had the money i would always buy this guy dinner and my manager would make fun of me for helping a homeess disabled veteran...
It's messed up. They think you're "encouraging" it like it's some kind of choice. Some municipalities have laws against this as well, claiming sanitation and safety concerns. So the system creates the problem of homelessness, then faults you for trying to address it.
@@FrozEnbyWolf150 This! First they don't attend to ppl, then they take MONEY to build rails in the middle of public benches so homeless ppl can't sleep there. First time I learnt about that BS I was so mad, I couldn't. I've also to proceed telling the story to everyone around whenever I saw one of these and being VERY clear on who's the enemy to all of society in that context. And it ain't homeless ppl. It's countries and communities ruled by jerks with too little social understanding while having too much power and listening too much to people without a single drop of decency in them.
People leaving all the rules in place that create homelessness, simultaneously allow the existence of almost whole cities of housings that stand empty for a majority of the year, give money to people who screwed up businesses and make ppl homeless INSTEAD of giving it to ppl so they could thrive and actually find new jobs and form new businesses. The list goes on and on.
Simply put. The world needs more people like you. And less lik your manager.
It comes from the "what about me?" attitude.
Today's job market makes it difficult to get houses and apartments even when you're doing everything right, so seeing the homeless get something you yourself are working so hard for stirs up feelings of resentment and jealousy. It's not an excuse to act like idiots, but it does provide explination.
It's easy to get angry at other people for getting lucky breaks because their circumstances happen to be different from yours. It hurts that despite your best efforts you are still overlooked on getting a lucky break, like getting your own house. And when people feel hurt, they get angry because that's what anger does: it protects you from feeling sad and hurt, for feeling vulnerable and unsafe.
Oh sure, there are indeed entitled people out there who want everything handed to them for nothing, but the truth is everyone feels entitled to something: and for many, it's having their own home. Some are just more self-aware of how toxic entitlement can be then others. I don't think everyone is a Karen or Kevin, but...we all want something, and the world isn't a fair place, so we don't always get it. And that's just...sad and scary, you know?
Absolutely! It's honestly a result of how we as a society view them. Society views homeless people less like people who are victims of hardships and more like people who've brought misfortune upon themselves by not being good enough. It really sucks because the average person is closer to being homeless than they are to becoming rich. For everyone who views homeless people as lesser, it takes them falling into the 6-foot pit that is homelessness for them to realise they were wrong.
The reason I refer to it as a six-foot pit is that once you're in it, it's hard to get out of it. You could be carefully walking down the path, making sure there were no holes in it, only for the ground around you to crumble when you take your next step. It's easy to become homeless, and it only becomes easier as the years go on, but it's a mission and a half to get out of it.
My primary teacher hated me because she said Antarctica didn't exist but my stubborn 9 yo self argued until she had to remove me from the classroom 😂 so I am not surprised that teacher believe penguins are mammals
I want everyone who has ever wondered "What was she wearing?" to see those photos of the clothing hung up with the victim's stories. In which literally everyone there had either a totally normal outfit, or was wearing a literal diaper.
Wanting to date un-vaccinated ppl is very normal - I just don't want long-term commitment
Under appreciated comment
Omg
The dark humor to this makes me lol but I really didn't want to be the first person to admit it.
Hah!! Ps- doing that clip I thought the best comeback to somebody saying something like that would be to cheerfully say, "oh I didn't know you were gay, right on!".
"How did we as a species survive without them?"
Well, our ancestors had dozens of kids so at least one survived to have a dozen more. 👀
Yeah, can you imagine having 7 to 12 children just to hope that one of them would survive to adulthood and have children of their own? Species survival depending on flooding the environment with babies just so one of them can survive to reproduce the next generation is a good species survival strategy. Just look at insects. They've been doing it for millions of years.
And I'm NOT going into how young some of them actually were when they actually started having babies.
To be fair, we humans are defenitely not build for mass-reproduction. The way human pregnancy's progress alone is super dangerous to the mom and inefficent, never mind how helpless newborns are, how long it takes until they are not a danger to themselves and the amount of children born at a time are quite different from mammals (and any other animal) that mass-reproduce.
Like, I swear human populations grew and survived so long on pure spite.
@@lexa2310 I definitely believe that. A branch of my favorite has a knack for living well into our 90s despite being sickly and having a tendency to get cancer, and I believe that side of the family lives so long despite being sickly is because we're too stubborn to just keel over, lol. The amount of older relatives I have that lived through the days of asbestos and polio is interesting. 😆
Basically they got lucky with better immune systems
did the math for the lady with 622 grandkids
106 grandchildren, 222 great-grandchildren, 234 great-great-grandchildren and 37 great-great-great-grandchildren
The old lady had 13 kids in total, all who had large families(8 to 9 kids), however of the 106 grandkids had 2 to 3 kids each and the great grandkids 1-2 each, only 37 of the last generation have had children
I was an intern at the department of family and children services. We did give families support and resources. There were children taken from families... that wasn't the reason... it was usually drug/alcohol related. Even then there was a rehab program that aimed to rebuild the family unit, success was hit or miss.
Fun fact if we had vaccines earlier in there would be less autoimmune disease around today, the relentless plagues lead to the most active immune systems getting selected for, and when you combine the most active you get even more active ones and eventually hyperactive ones that attack the hoast. So those plagues are literally still causing death and suffering today
Another fact, much of the risk of the current one comes from the immune system overreacting and attacking the host, e.g. the cascade effect. This is why you don't necessarily want a "strong" immune system, but a smart one that knows what it's doing.
@@FrozEnbyWolf150 Brawn is no good without Brains.
@@FrozEnbyWolf150
Not really, it's just kind of random luck.
Some people will hhave a very strong reaction to the flu, which can kill them. For others, a little under thhe weather, and that goes for all infections.
Brains and brawn are all good and shit until the enemy brings out a motherfucking nuclear bomb
@@FrozEnbyWolf150thank you! I can‘t count the number of people I tried to explain this to, as someone with a „strong“, reactive immune system that just gives me allergies and auto immune stuff 🙄
@@FrozEnbyWolf150Yeah. I consider myself lucky I got one relatively easy to treat autoimmune disease and not the dozens of strange allergies my sister has together with a suspected mild form of the same illness.
The adhd one I'm sure they heard that it is considered "neurodivergent" and they heard that for autism and assumed it was the same but neurodivergence is an umbrella term that includes conditions like autism and adhd.
Not only these two. Theoretically any mental health 0roblem can be considere neuro divergent, as its a term that comes from: neuro (psique) divergent (that diverges from the habitual/normal ripe)
@@gabrielneves6602 True, but I've never seen it to mean any mental health issue, just differences in brain structure like Autism and ADHD in particular. Also worth mentioning that while mental health issues often accompany Autism, it is not in & of itself a mental health disorder, but is actually considered a developmental condition. Honestly that could in many ways describe ADHD as well, but that's where things get fuzzy.
Yeah, at one workplace I was at, me, the guy with OCD, and the person with bipolar all were giving ideas on what to do for a proposed workshop on how to cooperate with neurodivergent coworkers since that was very needed with all the arguments people there would goad us into.
AdHD and Autism can be combined (and its quite common that the symptoms are VERY SIMILAR) which that’s probably what original poster meant that comment 😅
@@ajs787 Actually within our community we DO absolutely include both and they have their distinct terminology. We do differentiated between "acquired neurodivergence" (=[complex] trauma, depression, physical brain injury, OCD, BPD, many more) and "(innate) neurodivergence" (=ADHD, Autism, depression, and more). We also - in all cases - differentiate between "not clinically relevant", "subclinical" and "clinically relevant"
- Aka there are forms of neurodivergence that are adaptive and actually thus positive (e.g. person with head injury could suddenly speak another language).
- There those which are neutral as the person is in a setting that is inclusive.
- There's the cases where it WOULD be no problem if only society was a bit more inclusive
- and then there's those cases where - regardless of it being innate or acquired - the person and/or their surroundings are suffering and help is needed
The categories for "not clinically relevant", "subclinical" and "clinically relevant" also apply to neurotypical people. Because neurotypical people also can also range from being alright, to a whole spectrum of struggles. Just that the struggle then does not proceed to manifest in permanently changed brain structures in the context of what we deem "normal"
And that is where the fun part is and how that term is inclusive!! You can argue that the majority of ppl lived with many acquired forms of neurodivergence, particularly trauma in their unconscious!! While neurodivergent ppl, regardless of our traumas, can end up more conscious due to having high pressure to work through said traumas and work through lack of accommodation. "Lack of accommodation" can actually be considered a "trauma response" for the majority of population.
You can say "neurodivergence" doesn't exist, even though different types of brains exist. "Neurodivergence" is ironically the norm. And we're ironically the people who are mostly acquiring trauma and depression due to our "deficit" in the area of "being intolerant of violence towards ourselves and tolerating external violence from others which demands we bend ourselves into societally acceptable characteristic and behaviour over our natural and honest responses to it". 🙃
22:44 What makes such a face palm moment for me is that in the movie Rose never had kids and her marriage was arranged by her parents so they could get money. Rose was upset over the loveless marriage she tried to jump into water. No one has media illiteracy anymore.
23:12 To be fair the crew on the ship specifically asked her to tell that story. They weren't interested in what she did with her family on Christmas in 1927. They wanted to know what she did with the diamond.
"Is bad nostalgia just trauma," really fucked me up, man.
It's such a under-rated line! 😅
When I was in like 2nd grade we were listing animals starting with each letter of the alphabet and I put "Tapir" for T and the teacher marked it wrong because she never heard of tapirs, apparently. And I still think about it sometimes.
Tapirs are one of the cutest animals ever! The Malayan and Brazilian tapirs are both gorgeous. I've even seen a baby Malayan tapir. So fluffy! Whenever I'm asked by someone unfamiliar with them what sort of animal they are, I say like a hairy pig with a mini elephant trunk and 3 toes like proto-horses!
in 1st grade, we had to find as many words as we could using one word. i made the word "nebula" but the teacher didnt know it was a real word :(
2nd grade, someone's mom brought in a poster board where a picture of a cheetah was labled as a leopard. I pointed out it was clearly a cheetah and everyone in the room said I was wrong because the mom with the board "would know that better" than me.
It seems to me that a teacher should consider it worthwhile to double check if something like this happens. Even years ago, it was possible to find encyclopedias in school libraries. But maybe I think this because my parents were good teachers.
Ugh, my 2nd grade teacher marked my grandma's name as misspelled. I called her Gramma. She kept telling me I was spelling grandma wrong, no matter how many times I told her I knew Gramma was my grandma, but that's just what I called her. She put grandma on my special spelling list (everyone had two words per week that they personally struggled with). After it had stayed on my list for several weeks because I kept writing her name as Gramma, I got snarky. So instead of writing my teacher's name on the paper, like Mrs Allen, (it was so papers dropped in the hallway could be more easily returned to the correct classroom) I started writing "Mrs Teacher" and she told me "You're supposed to write my name there, not my title". I just looked up at her and said "Oh? Like Gramma?" and she didn't reply, just stared at me for a few seconds and walked away. She continued to correct the name for a few weeks, until eventually she gave up and took grandma off my spelling list (which I'd been spelling correctly the entire time, yes a word I could spell spent 2.5 months on my spelling list). I went back to writing her name and she stopped marking Gramma as wrong.
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This grossed me out so much on so many levels, which is surprising because I watched a very graphic film about parasites in Biology class yesterday.
Damn
I used to work foster care, the foster parents are usually very well off financially to begin with. You have to meet so many requirements just to become a foster parent.
You don’t nearly as much money as people think, it’s usually enough to cover the majority of the food cost for a single kid. What you buy for the kid’s food is also inspected once a month along with the entirety of your home.
When people ask me if I'm on my period I explain for a week before my period I'm in a murderous rage due to PMS, then i have my period where I'm cranky because I'm bleeding to death, then then I ovulate and half the male population smells like a predator for some reason so there's maybe hm five days out of the month where I could be described as a normal human being and you JUUuust missed them.
My go to answer was
Yes, want to see?
I love this explanation. 😂 May I use it please?
Amazing 🩷🤣
My future answer will be: "Oh you mean with my removed uterus after we got my endometriosis out? I have no idea any more where in the cycle I am, love!"
And if it's a man, I'll add: "Are you though? Men go through their whole hormonal cycle within each day. So are you currently in your foul mood induced insensitive hour of your daily hormonal cycle or....? Hey, before you go, have you tried smiling a it more? They say it helps!"
I have a similar deal. I like to call it having an anti-period lol
Andrew Tate kinda reminds me of this guy named Jeffrey MacDonald who during interviews would never shut up about his sexual conquests and how much of a alpha male he was, though tate hasn't killed his own family as far as im aware
Only a matter of time.. he will definitely influence one or two of his followers to act violent against women..
Andrew Tate.The poster boy of Grindr.......
I remember Tate complaining that his mum can't come and visit him in prison, and people being like "going by what he himself said about how he treated his mum, why would she even want to?"
*yet*
I never noticed that before. But you’re absolutely right. Now I dislike him even more. Which didn’t seem possible.
Hey Click, I just want to add as a Personal trainer + Nutritionist who has ADHD. Carbs are important for short term intensive bursts of energy, it is the fastest to burn / break down and recommended for short term use (i.e in the next few hours). Although it can be good for studying, you need to make sure you eat it with protein too otherwise your brain will shut down within an hour or two when the sugar spike drops. I usually have a protein shake or piece of meat every time I eat a carb snack and it makes a world of a difference. Also fun tidbit - People with ADHD typically seek out sugar to spike their dopamine levels when under stimulated because sugar behaves in a similar way to the brain.
Another ADHD nutrition fact is that some common ADHD medications are best broken down by the same enzymes that we produce to break down protein. Having enough protein with those medications if you take them can make a HUGE difference.
4:05 this reminds me of a funny (and embarrassing story). I work out a lot a lot and both the people I worked out with (at the time) were trans men. One of them was acting a lil weird, grumpy, argumentative, ect. I as a cis guy jokingly say to them (forgetting they are trans) say "are you on your period or something?" They give me the most deadpan look and say something like "never say that to me again you hear me." I was so confused. It was clearly visible on my face as I think about what I said wrong. Then I remembered they were trans, and he was on his period. I was apologizing so much and was so embarrassed. We both laughed it off. Still one of my most embarrassing moments.
"thats not fair to people who work hard"
my guy, HOMELESSNESS is unfair to people who work hard (most homeless people actually!!!!)
People like that are blissfully ignorant of the fact that most homeless people _are_ employed, and _aren't_ on welfare.
As someone who has used charity when homeless and continues to need help occasionally the "cycle of charity" is the exact opposite of what people think it is.
Step 1: Person in need receives charity
Step 2: they get to a better place in life
Step 3: They give charity to others once in a good enough place to do so.
I get so tired of hearing about these stories about how charity shouldn't exist especially when most charities I've volunteered for are made by people trying to give back because of the charity that helped them when they were younger and we all pull each other up to a better place in life
so true-- rich people are the stingiest ones when donating to charities proportional to their incomes, whereas the biggest percentage of people are recycling like 5% of the wealth between each other to survive.
@@Ramberta Exactly! I'm disabled so I've had no choice but to use charities at times. But because I know how important these charities are every summer when my conditions let me function better I volunteer time and give what I can to these charities. I've managed to rely less and less on them over time and give more and more back to the community. Typically if you can pull one person out of desperation then you have two more hands helping you pull more people out. Problem is people are pushed down faster than we can help them up with our current system which drags everyone but the 1% down
The only argument for why charity shouldn't exist is because we should run our countries better so that people don't need charity. But while we're fighting for living wages and adequate welfare for those who can't work, we also need to keep our people alive.
@@mamasimmerplays4702 I fully agree with this argument. We shouldn't need charity. But I'm pretty sure neither of us are in a position to enact the change we want currently. So for now we keep moving forward and chipping away at it through praxis
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I’d like to point to Black Panther and to Erik Stevens and part of his quote before he died “because my ancestors knew death was better than bondage”.
16:50 Hi, yes the man with a wife and kids is clearly gay for saying hi
Adhd and autism have a lot of overlap, and it's pretty common for someone to have both if they have either,
But they're NOT the same
Honestly (as someone with AuDHD) I sometimes do wonder whether they're actually potentially part of the same, much bigger, spectrum where adhd is on one side and autism on the other (both quite big areas of the spectrum already) and the area between those sides (not in a linear spectrum btw, to be clear). But like, that's nothing more than a thought experiment/exercise, something to discuss theories on with friends on the basis of knowing that the current scientific consensus is that this is not the case, something fun to kinda think through things that do speak for this theory and those that don't (because there is things that would make sense in this theory), but it's definitely nothing to run around with and tell strangers as a fact because it's not, it's a mere unproven theory and thought experiment some people have (especially those who do have AuDHD from my experience)
My daughter and I have a potential dual diagnosis. Our experience (and inside joke) is that the adhd responds to meds, what's left over is the autism.
This. I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 6 due to being a bit disruptive. However, I wasn't diagnosed with ASD until I was 19, which is sadly the norm for most women, being diagnosed later in life.
ADHD and ASD share common letters. Maybe she dyslexic? /j
True, I have autism and ADHD. But it's common that there's an overlap with other disorders as well. My little cousin has autism and Tourette
(me losing my mind at the 'thousand c**k stare' pic)
"...makeup.. it's makeup SHE'S JUST WEARING MAKEUP"
literally that's the only difference in the eyes. my head hurts now
She's also standing straight. But yeah.
Posts like that are what I like to call the "Zero P***y Rant" ...and it's a much more telling red flag.
😂Bro's got issues... the last line makes an OK point ("...and do your part not to cause it") - if I'm interpreting correctly, he's acknowledging that it takes 2 to tango, so men shouldn't run around ruining women's "wife material" potential for other men. Still super cringe overall but a teeny bit more aware than other dudes who say similar things and don't realize, or choose to ignore, that men play an essential role in a woman's "body count" that they are so fixated on.
Is that even the same person? The 2017 pic looks 10 years younger, not older.
That Teen Pregnancy drops off after 20 years old one, reminded me of that person who was talking about coffee to me, they said they don't drink coffee in the morning, but they drink it later in the day and don't hit that 2, 3 o'clock crash, I was in my head going "Well yeah of course you don't get 2 o'clock crash if you drank coffee later in the day, because you drank coffee later in the day" They were trying to sound smarter than they were and well....
41:44 All squares are rectangles, but not all rectangles are squares. All snow leopards are big cats, but not all big cats are snow leopards. Some are Lions and leopards (Leopards and snow leopards are not the same, no matter how similar they might seem)
Ozempic is originally a diabetes medication, not a weight loss medication. The reason people think it's a weight loss medication is because it does cause weight loss by reducing your appetite, especially when you first start taking it, and people who don't need it (meaning they are only trying to quickly lose a few pounds) started taking it for weight loss specifically. I personally think that it should ONLY be prescribed to diabetic people and people suffering from obesity, at least until the supply is higher and more reliable, because currently pharmacies are sometimes running out, and diabetic people are missing doses they need. For example, within the last 6 months, my step dad missed 5 doses, 3 of which were one after the other, which caused him to feel pretty sick when he was finally able to start taking it again, because it can cause you to feel nauseous when you start taking it, and after 3 weeks of not taking it, it was like he was starting it again.
Thank you @KxNOxUTA for pointing out my comment was unintentionally disregarding a whole group of people who also need this medication.
People really need to stop taking things to lose weight
@@AiyetoroFeligrus I understand wanting to use medication when all the "normal" weight loss methods don't work, but I wish people wouldn't take things not meant for weight loss that other people might need for the intended purpose
That reminded me of a gossip about some people in need in my country (I dont want to name them in case it causes to perpetuate a false stereotype) heard someting about baby food helping increase libido. In a short amount of time the whole camp was out of baby food, which was eaten by grown man. Some over their 60s and older. They couldnt afford a house nor food. They didnt have jobs. Obviously all they needed was 'you know what'. Sorry if I couldnt translate it well. But you get the gist of it.
@@dielytra I believe you translated it very well :) , and it does sound like a similar situation.
You are actually very incorrect about an issue: obesity CAN indeed be an illness and one that can lead to illnesses, too. I absolutely get your frustration with the mismanagement of the supplies AND it's not a reason to be ableistic against ill people with the need for treatments, who's often tried all and finally found something that works for them.
Aka yes, by all means voice concerns in regards to how the shortage is problematic and how it's important that people give good consideration to when to use it and when not and how. But it's not OK to shame people for taking it when many of them are indeed needing them just as much as you do, just for another illness. Some of these people urgently need e.g. access to important surgeries which they cannot get before they're not down to a certain weight. Some ppl have trouble with breathing or their heart, yet can - by the nature of their disease - not get in the exercise to grow the muscles that'd allow them to lose weight fast enough. And withdrawal symptoms from food reduction are also absolutely no damn joke, which is basically what these meds mitigate for those patient.
I'm very sorry that the discovery of a whole new group of people - with serious conditions - being able to access help via the same meds has lead to a sudden supply problem. At the same time, that should tell you just how serious the problem is and how strongly people kept seeking help and often unsuccessfully so. An overwhelming majority of these ppl didn't ask to struggle like this - just like you. They did not asked for their society induced mental health struggles to manifest in this specific form either. They did not ask that the thing that works to be sth. that works for you, too, either. They'd gladly have had sth. work for them that wouldn't co-relate with anything for other ppl.
You can be the one who talks about the issue FOR all people needing solutions to the supply problem.
Or you can continue to shame and blame your struggles onto them, just like the ppl who were cause to their initial struggles to start with (disclaimer: not all ppl struggling with obesity do so due to mental struggles, ofcourse. There's a lot more there including "side effect of other meds")
Turns out that validly struggling yourself does not exempt you from accountability towards your own hurtful behaviours towards others. So I hope you can step up in accountability and adjust your narrative when addressing your struggles in future.
I love Darth Vader being described as having severe COPD. It makes me picture him running after toddler Leah trying breathlessly to yell to her to please stop running off with his comlink! He’s trying to run a galactic empire!
Leia. But that's a great image!
Don't forget he's still suffering from severe PTSD over abandoning his mother, losing his original mentor and father figure, having his mother die in front of him, accidentally killing his wife while trying to prevent such a thing, and finding out his replacement mentor basically duped him into destroying everything and everyone he once held dear by stroking his ego for 13 years. To the point where he completely dissociated into a second personality and only resurfaced after finding his son that he never knew survived to childbirth - and even THEN it took several years and said son's near death at the hands of the aforementioned duplicitous mentor.
There's a children's book titled "Vader's Little Princess" which is absolutely adorable.
@@lazykbys Oh, I think I’ve seen some art of that on Pinterest! I didn’t realize it was a whole book!!
At 34:57 they were just... horsing around...💀
42:14 “actually i covered it Because i didnt want it to […] decrease in value” Said no teenage about their phone ever
25:28 I went through gay cure therapy and we met a "success case" at one point and one of the things they told us was that the feelings never go away, you learn to ignore them.
So really it's celibacy conditioning then?
@@NieroshaiTheSable he had a wife and kid and from what he was saying, I doubt he was bi
23:34 there have been studies on sa victim clothing, the conclusion is that it doesn't matter what you wear. Whether you were a tube top and mini skirt or a niqab and abaya it doesn't matter.
I have to admit that wearing leather and steel armor Makes it harder to get to the naughty bits. And gives you an edge on the knee to the groin technique.
A significant number of people are s*xually assaulted after someone breaks into their home. The r-pist wouldn’t know what they were wearing until they break in, which means they made the decision before they knew what their target was wearing.
Elderly women who are dressed like a typical elderly woman get assaulted.
Nuns wearing habits have been assaulted.
Women wearing ultra-conservative clothing that cover most of their body have been assaulted.
Children dressed like children have been assaulted.
Therefore, it can’t be about the clothes.
Yep. I saw a picture of a display of outfits once, one of the outfits was just a diaper. It doesn't matter.
@@tandlsmith7829Thinking about those archaic greaves that had a spike at the top of the knee segment...😅
About the fire alarms: there has been a recent trend of fire alarms that you don’t own but that you have to rent and because you don’t own the fire alarm you are not allowed to do anything. that includes changing the batteries. i have a coworker who recently went almost insane because his alarm was almost out of batteries and when he called for a technician they said someone has time in 6 weeks.
The worst part is that apparently it is really hard to get away from a bad provider. I think it was because the coworker was renting the apartment so he isn’t allowed to decide himself, which is why the alarm provider just doesn’t care about good service
40:31 seeing he has the Louisiana state flag on him, I'm going to guess Louisiana man going off to fight Florida man.
39:57 Maybe Andrew Tatesticle is afraid of being Stabbed and the serial killer is afraid of having his day ruined by listening to Andrew say anything.
"Please, no, not that omegaverse mlm stuff again!"
The foster care system isn't a simple as "you can't take care of your kids so we're going to pay another family to do it ". Usually if that's the only problem the family will get the support they need and keep their children. The children only get taken if they find evidence of abuse or repeated neglect. Unfortunately the foster homes are often not much better, they just hide the abuse going on better.
- source, former foster kid. Been in both the foster system and the welfare system.
Yeah, usually they do absolutely everything they can to keep the Kid with their Patents, even If IT really where better If Not. Sources former Foster Kid whos mother had maybe 8 Kids, Always making a new one once the Last got to old . . . .the Last Kid I know of almost starved in her Lack of Care . . . . .I got away pretty well, my Foster Brother actually got a Horror Story . . . .Like a Lack of Money can Factor into parental becoming abusive mostly in the Form of neglecting through sheer desparation, but No Kid ends Up in Care Just because of a Lack of money
@@SingingSealRiana I'm so sorry she was like that. Unfortunately the CPS needs better oversight and clearly needed to check in on your family more often. In mine they just took the wrong person away. They should have taken away her bf. They took me instead. Even after I put him in prison they didn't let me go home where I would have been safer. She cut him out of her life immediately when she found out what he'd done, but it took speech therapy for me to be able to speak up so she wasn't the first person I told.
Yeah, I work as a courtroom secretary and we often have cases about removing parental rights. From what I see it's mostly about neglect. As long as the parents show they care about the child (with actions, not just words), CPS will try to help them in any way they can, like by helping navigate any government aid they could get, by giving them courses on child psychology, etc.
11:03 yes click yes, im so sorry you had to witness that helmet
11:32 Also, the number of articles about how to "manage your finances when you are poor" that have for premises that you have an income superior to the average income (that, in itself is already superior to the mean income) is infuriating. How to not be poor: step 1, be rich.
The fun thing about the people who complain about free EV charging or a rich person helping the homeless being unfair will, if you try to reduce inequality through political means, say "life isn't supposed to be fair" as they try to keep the status quo. As they try to maintain a system that is actively moving their own wealth upward towards a plutocratic ultrawealthy minority.
The amount of videos I've watched where the smoke detector is beeping is incredible! Sometimes I go to their channel and find a video 6 months further on, and the thing is STILL beeping!!
I often wonder how much this contributes to the increased violence in low-income households, and in dense living situations like apartments where you can hear your neighbours through the walls.
@@nikapartchevskaya I've heard that some content creators do these kinds of things on purpose in order to get more people commenting on their content. It seems to work. It's annoying, though.
17:54 I read a children's story book about a cat that did this with 6 neighbours. It ate 6x the food that it should have eaten, got fat, and taken to the vet by every neighbour. It was then made to take 6x the medicine it needed. Luckily, all the neighbours were taking the cat to the same clinic, so the veterinarian figured it out before the situation got any worse.
This woman's dating habits reminded me of this story! 🤣
Six Dinner Sid, about a black cat.
Can vouch - I have low-level autism and adhd - fun times - and they are different. There can be some cross-over similarities, but they're not the same.
I've only (about 18 mths ago) been recently diagnosed. Life now makes *so* much sense. I'm still learning, but I get it now.
33:20
This guy has the right list of priorities.
I have ADHD and with my symptoms, I would be borderline for an autism diagnosis. I often had questions about if I was autistic, and realized that my cousin who has ADHD too had the same questions
yes
Consider seeking out a a specialist (generalists tend to just go down a checklist) on the subject, people who have one are far more likely than the general population to have both. That said, there is a lot of overlap, so you could also just have the one. P.S. Look up Time Blindness (solution: put clocks in eyeline, in spots you frequent) & Maladaptive Daydreaming (solution: I'm open to suggestions) these are two symptoms I didn't run across until I researched ADHD myself, despite how much of my life they have shaped (well, them and Executive Dysfunction)
@@keigoftw I have seen a psychiatrist who told me that some symptoms are common to both desorders, but I only have ADHD in her opinion. I didn’t do tests for autism tho. I hate having a clock near me, cause the time feel really slow to me when I always have it in my face 😅
my sister has both adhd and autism, and as someone with autism i really need to seek out that adhd diagnosis bc it’s getting a bit too relatable 😭
As a textbook combination ADHD-haver, yes, we test for about 1/4 to 1/3 of Autism spectrum symptoms but it's the specific symptoms on paper that will make it pretty clear which you have. I too was suspicious til I took an actual autism test to see if I needed to go talk to someone, but there's just a lot of crossover so it's always good to check if you're concerned you need more support.
That "food digger" thing was used as a comic moment in the 70s. A throwaway gag in an episode of "Are you being served?" had a woman talk about how she couldn't afford food because she spent money on clothes. She bought clothes so guys would ask her out to dinner. And when reminded that men expect something after she said "Yeah... But they won't get it." When questioned about why they bother she said it was like a slot machine, they all wanted to try their luck.
Miss Brahms.
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How's that back pain? I only watched it in reruns and on DVD and I still feel old. I mean, I am old but like, older than that.
OMG!! I saw the first line of your post and immediately knew the show and episode you were speaking of!! FRIEND!! Kindred soul. I grew up watching reruns of "Are you Being Served." It played in America in the 90s and I really enjoyed that show. Thank you. You got me all excited.
That's funny, nearly sounds like a good idea😂😅I'd just be too scared pissing off so many men
16:33
Hi, I'm your society.
Autistic human here with suspected ADHD with a special interest in neurodivergent psychology: I can confirm that ASD and ADHD are not the same thing. However, they have extremely high comorbidity. If you are autistic, there is around a 60% chance that you also have ADHD, and if you have ADHD there is around a 15% chance you are autistic. At the same time, the overlap in lower support needs autistic people's symptoms and psychology is insanely huge with people who have ADHD, so many people argue it is hard to draw a fundamental distinction and that ADHD and ASD are slightly different manifestations of the same underlying biology if not at least extremely similar biology. They are not the same thing, but very often co-occur and present in similar ways.
As a former foster parent, I never cared for a child that wasn't abused in some way. It wasn't about the family's $$.😢
Like Money can Factor into IT and make abuser especially in Form of neglecting more likely . . . . .but yeah AS a Foster Kid, there IS a Lot of Trauma to BE had
@@SingingSealRiana I absolutely think if the $ is the issue, the families should just be helped financially.
9:44 Trevor Noah made an item once about Geert Wilders, a Dutch far right xenophobic islamophobic populist "politician", and he noticed how a lot of similar-minded politicians have really weird blonde haircuts. "It's obvious, we've been invaded by mind-controlling aliens that look like bad haircuts". Trump in the USA, Boris Johnson in the UK, Geert Wilders in the Netherlands... This Estonian guy would fit in perfectly.
If they're naturally blonde then that doesn't really add up because only 4% of the world's population are naturally blonde and most people ( including politicians of all stripes ) are brunette. But the bad haircuts? There are many many U.K politicians from both the left and right with terrible haircuts, regardless of colour, and while most are men, some of the female politicians haircuts are as bad ( including former Scottish left wing Prime Minister, Nichola Sturgeon and the right wing's Ann Widdecombe. ) But I have to say I do believe Trump is a white supremacist, a sexual predator and a misogynist. I don't think that's down to his hair, though. Lol. I'm suspicious of any white Afrikaaner politician, which is my own prejudice showing as Apartheid was still a thing when I was growing up. Yes, I'm that old.
@@cleoldbagtraallsorts3380 Trevor Noah is a comedian. This was a sketch from The Daily Show With Trevor Noah. It’s satire. I don’t think anyone actually believes their political ideas have anything to do with haircuts.
@@LanaVegana I’m moderately sure very few people believe their political ideas have anything to do with mind-controlling aliens that look like bad haircuts either.
13:23
that's such a great way to make distinctions- My classmate decided to go and prank me and my friend by hiding our phones, (my phone is my brother's hand me down and my friend's phone holds alot of memories). She recorded our reactions and I really was about to go and give her my sweet fist for even doing that to me and my friend. I got stopped of course, but I was ducking mad.
And another time, she decided to go and put trash into my backpack. A mutual friend knew about it, said nothing both of them said nothing and I only noticed it while buying something in a supermarket with the same friend that was mentioned before.
The mutual friend is 15 while the classmate is 18. She's a year older, she kept defending herself saying that it was just a prank and we'd know if she wasn't pranking us. And when I told the mutual friend about it, she laughed and said it was classmate and was kinda dissapointed that I can't take a joke.
I cut those two people out of my life along with the rest of the friend group except friend.
Because friend understood how I felt like and she told me it's okay to take a break from them, which I appreciate a lot.
Pranks are supposed to be funny and harmless. The types of pranks that leave a bitter taste in your mouth and make you spiral because you're horrified of being bullied again are not pranks, those are the starts of bullying.
16:28 FELLAS! Is it gay to say hi?
"Love is in the air!"
Me, a romance-repulsed aromantic: *visible repulsion*
"The color of love is red!"
Me: Okay...
"Just like the blood of your enemies!"
Me: Oh HECK yeah
Gotta keep everyone on board
You know... I will never understand how red is supposed to be the color of love as it's been proven to induce, or make prone, to anger (similar to orange)...
PINK I could/can understand as the color of love though.
@a_d3mon I mean pink is just really light red
My love is a feckin rainbow.
RED, THE BLOOD OF ANGRY MEN
RED, A WORLD ABOUT TO DAWN
I remember when that story about the 99 homes being built came out. I think it was somewhere in Nova Scotia. My teacher showed my class an article about it. The crazy thing is that the guy they interviewed had considered not accepting the free home, thinking that he needed to work for something himself. These houses are small, with only a heater, a bed, and a kitchenette (propane stove and running water). This isn't something that is normally available to anyone but is a very good launching-off point. Sure, it's a handout, but it's a handout that barely costs anything for the city and the owner. It's small so people are encouraged to work their way out. It's not like handing a guy on the street a million dollars, it's more like handing a guy a thousand.
According to the list at 7:35 i have the ultimate brain damage, i sleep poorly, i wear socks while i sleep, i eat while watching electronic devices and i hold my pee way too long for kind of bad reasons honestly.
42:30 I wonder how the "father" would react if someone used this argument in favor of wearing a mask to protect from C19?
Unfortunately, the story about the 14-year old shooting his older sister, only to be shot in turn by 15 year old brother is real. It happened in Florida (sigh).😢. It was an argument over Christmas 🎁.
22 year old sister died on the spot. The 11 month son she was holding was unhurt. 14-year old will recover and be tried as adult. 15-year old is charged with attempted murder.
Stood their ground, didn't they?
Holiday season will be time for melancholic despair.
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Looking forward to Brandon Herrera and Donut Operator pretending like that didn't happen.
It's always Florida
Why in the world would the 14 year old be tried as a adult when they are clearly not an adult? I really don't get this whole "tried as an adult" thing because it completely defeats the purpose of a specific justice for minors. Sorry for the off-topic rant!
Could be that the 15 yo was trying to take out the 14 yo with the gun.... wouldn't that be selfdefense?
@@olgar.6604"tried as an adult" because they have an adult comprehension of their actions, maybe?
I mean for the cover up argument, the dad is totally right and not in the way he thinks. If you're doing something, dress appropriately. A construction site? Wear some protective gear. Going for a climb? Wear some sports gear and climbing tools. A night on the town? Who tf cares? At that point I'd be more inclined to make sure my kid had a safe car and a method to call me just in case.
A phone can always be dropped and thus should always have a case to protect. We don't always do things that require protective "casings". Stop policing people's clothes outside what should be normal like wearing closed toed shoes to go climbing and stuff.
Frankly put: prowlers and predators don't actually give a damn about what the girl/woman is wearing. Women who wear the whole "cover up" *still* get sexually harassed, just ask the traditional clothed Islamic woman for example. It was never about the clothing, which is what the Dad is totally missing. It's about what's between the legs, nothing more.
Yeah, arguing for wearing practicality Things and slutshaming someone for wearing a v Neck are very different Things. I actually am in the struggle, that in my Profession, wearing Something loose IS Dangerous cause IT can Catch in one of the machines, but since ITS a Male dominated Profession drawing any Attention to being female IS Bad too and WE might get in Trouble for distracting Male collegues . . . .
The only distracting things I've seen women wear are cool shirts that I must know where they got. But that's also guys.
I just hate anything related to people demanding others dress in any way with the only reason being modesty. There are times you can tell people what to wear - weddings, funerals, (to a degree, like if you have a uniform)workplace, but that's not a matter of modesty.
@@PrideOfFantasy100 "modesty" = personal feelings
Sadly when it comes to SA I've heard it's actually the opposite of what the post said: dressing more conservatively makes you more likely to get attacked, because the men doing it know you don't want it and are looking for what they think will be an easier target, someone in the headspace of trying to make themselves safe by making themselves less visible. And I'm saying this as a woman who dresses very conservatively myself -- I'd probably be at less risk of being assaulted if I wore tight, revealing clothing and a blue buzzcut, because I'd just look more assertive and dangerous myself.
Also, any man acting like a woman is responsible for not being treated like a human being if she looks sexy is himself dehumanizing her, whether he's the one assaulting her or not. It's a statement of "Well of course they wouldn't treat you like a human -- you aren't one -- so you should avoid that kind of treatment by directing their attention away from you so you'll be a less attractive target of a subhuman." They're literally part of the problem.
23:37 this infuriates me. There was once a MeToo campaign that told women to dress in what they wore when they were SA’d. Wanna know what most of them showed up in? *SWEATPANTS AND HOODIES*
I could count on one hand the amount of women wearing something ‘slutty’ and even then that doesnt make it ok! Imagine thinking you have a right to yank someone’s hair because they didnt tie it up. Because thats the logic theyre applying to this.
42:22 she was *NOT MUTE!!!* what she actually said was:
"Dad, are you trying to tell me that if I don't have a cover on my phone, you're going to have sex with it?"
and it was *HE* who *WAS MUTE!!!*
I see you have won your own made-up argument!
Oh wait, sorry to be the first to tell you this but I forgot to switch accounts.
LMAO
My brother got marked down for a question in 4th grade because his teacher thought that Australia was only a continent and not a country.
Australasia is the continent, Australia is a country.
@@cleoldbagtraallsorts3380 No, New Zealand is on a different continental shelf from Australia (which is obviously also a country) and is its own thing. Australia is still the continent (Australasia has fallen out of use for this reason), but it gets grouped in with the broader "Oceania" which includes Australia, New Zealand, Papua New Guinea (and West Papua in Indonesia), and everything within the geographical regions of Melanesia, Micronesia, and Polynesia (which includes New Zealand).
@@cleoldbagtraallsorts3380 Australia is a continent and also a country. We're the only country in the world with a whole continent to ourselves, but that's because most of it is desert with a population density of less than 1 person per 10 square kilometres. Source: I'm Australian.
Love is in the air? well so can be mustard gas, stay safe people
I know it's a saying and all, but how can love _be in the air_ .
I thought humans don't produce pheromones so what the hell are those people sniffing to proclaim it's _love_ .
@@lexa2310 stupid saying but i guess its just generic smells people connect with love, like the smell of flowers
24:45
This sounds like the Holocaust.
19:39 As someone who has had a house fire, I would cry if someone left this on for hours. Any beeping noise puts me over the edge
I went through a rocky journey to discovering and accepting my sexuality. At no point was I interested in pushing myself into queer spaces. I just wanted to understand myself better.
13:15 THANK YOU! My brother always pulled the meanest "pranks" on me as a kid, or say some super messed up stuff, and when I got mad he'd hit me with the "it's just a prank bro," and when I took it to my parents they always told me "oh you just can't take a joke." Ah yes, because punching your sister is such a great joke.
10:35 Honestly, if my bike helmet looked like _that,_ I would walk everywhere. So . . . zero chance of a bicycle accident, yay?
4:50 the community notes somehow made it worse