True Narcissistic will do that, run away for years on some fix, or because they were cheating, then come crawling back when their fix burns out. Some narcissistic people aren't even abusive. Some are.
Long story short, he showed up to her house with a baby saying that the reason why he left was because she couldn’t provide him a baby so he got a girl pregnant. Then when he had the baby he said he realized that he wanted to be with Op. She refused to take him back and he started to get defensive. He said he could’ve taken the house and stole expensive stuff but he didn’t. She just scoffed and shut the door on him. After a while, she wanted to get him back so she figured out that he was staying with his parents(who she became close with) and told them her disappointment. Then she found out that he tried to applied to her company and since she worked her way up with executive, she was able to decline his application and spread word about his disloyalty and work ethic. So he couldn’t get any job. She also connected his old friend about him and they are all on her side. The last she heard from his parents is them asking for money to help their son. She ignored them That’s pretty much it
The rest of the story: Showed up with a baby in their arms Op asked “is that really you?” He excitedly said yes asked to come in But I refused and told him to keep standing. I didn’t know what was going on but I wasn’t going to be deceived again. “Why did you come back?” I asked His reply enraged me more than anything. “I know that you’re angry but let me explain. I did this for us and our future I was really unhappy in our marriage and needed a way out. I am sorry for what I did to you, but it had to be done I wanted a child and you could not govern that to me. And I thought that running away from you and having a child with someone else would be the solution. But once I had him , I realized I wanted to come back to you. You were still the one whom I loved in my heart. So, here I am. I want to raise this child, our child, together with you and spend the rest of our married life together happily.” I took a moment process her words then just started laughing. This man is crazy if he thought he was justified in what he did. I calmly told him. “Listen you and I are done. You betrayed me and left me our relationship ended that day . And I have moved on. I don’t know that child and probably never will. So just leave and go back to where you came from.” That was a good way to end the info off in my opinion, but he didn’t like it and began yelling at me as if his first words were a script. “What are you crazy? I am saying I am ready to spend the rest of my life with you and you are turning me away? You do realized I could have divorced you and taken this house away and with half your money. I could have taken some expensive things when I disappeared. But I didn’t do any of it and still you don’t think I deserve a second chance? Think again otherwise you’ll regret it.” I laughed and said “if you wanted to be a criminal your welcome to do so”
True Narcissistic will do that, run away for years on some fix, or because they were cheating, then come crawling back when their fix burns out. Some narcissistic people aren't even abusive. Some are.
Long story short, he showed up to her house with a baby saying that the reason why he left was because she couldn’t provide him a baby so he got a girl pregnant. Then when he had the baby he said he realized that he wanted to be with Op. She refused to take him back and he started to get defensive. He said he could’ve taken the house and stole expensive stuff but he didn’t. She just scoffed and shut the door on him. After a while, she wanted to get him back so she figured out that he was staying with his parents(who she became close with) and told them her disappointment. Then she found out that he tried to applied to her company and since she worked her way up with executive, she was able to decline his application and spread word about his disloyalty and work ethic. So he couldn’t get any job. She also connected his old friend about him and they are all on her side. The last she heard from his parents is them asking for money to help their son. She ignored them
That’s pretty much it
If I already moved on I wouldn't have been as petty as to black list him from finding work.
He just wouldn't be working at MY place of business.
You can't end it like that wtf 😡
ill look for it
@@drowninginthelakeplease 🥺🙏
@@drowninginthelake I’ll give you my left arm for the rest. I’m left handed so I’m offering a lot.
The rest of the story:
Showed up with a baby in their arms
Op asked “is that really you?”
He excitedly said yes asked to come in
But I refused and told him to keep standing. I didn’t know what was going on but I wasn’t going to be deceived again.
“Why did you come back?” I asked
His reply enraged me more than anything.
“I know that you’re angry but let me explain. I did this for us and our future I was really unhappy in our marriage and needed a way out. I am sorry for what I did to you, but it had to be done I wanted a child and you could not govern that to me. And I thought that running away from you and having a child with someone else would be the solution. But once I had him , I realized I wanted to come back to you. You were still the one whom I loved in my heart. So, here I am. I want to raise this child, our child, together with you and spend the rest of our married life together happily.”
I took a moment process her words then just started laughing. This man is crazy if he thought he was justified in what he did. I calmly told him.
“Listen you and I are done. You betrayed me and left me our relationship ended that day . And I have moved on. I don’t know that child and probably never will. So just leave and go back to where you came from.”
That was a good way to end the info off in my opinion, but he didn’t like it and began yelling at me as if his first words were a script.
“What are you crazy? I am saying I am ready to spend the rest of my life with you and you are turning me away? You do realized I could have divorced you and taken this house away and with half your money. I could have taken some expensive things when I disappeared. But I didn’t do any of it and still you don’t think I deserve a second chance? Think again otherwise you’ll regret it.”
I laughed and said “if you wanted to be a criminal your welcome to do so”
Lmk when the paragraph guy shows up
Paragraph guy!!! Where are you!!!
I need the paragraph guy, where is he??? (I’m too early ig :(
He is here now
I copied the link to this video and texted it to a random number i pulled out of a 40yr old phone book
someone tell me when the paragraph guy gets here
too early, where's the paragraph guy?
Where is the rest?
Damn, I'm too early