I Love China, BUT Would I Raise a Kid Here? || 我会在中国养一个孩子吗？
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- čas přidán 7. 05. 2024
- In this video I share my thoughts on where I will raise my future children and why.
Let me know your views on where you are/want to raise a family?
#china #livinginchina #economy #kids
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I live in US. I don't let my kid go to a local park himself. Your apartment for $300 USD is insanely cheap. In US, it would be $2000 USD.
其实差不多，中国一般月薪5000元，房租大概1000。发达地区能收入10000元，但是房租会3000以上。
Agree
I LOVE China ,is The best country in the world now 🇨🇳🫰🫰🫰❤️❤️❤️!
It's really a good place for living, glad you like it.
欢迎来中国旅行
China is a very safe country, it is very good place for you rising your kids in China.
I am a typical Chinese software engineer in Shanghai.China ，My monthly salary is 23k RMB，With this salary, one can live very comfortably in China, but in Europe and the United States, everything requires more money, which is terrible.
In the US access to hospital is impossible if u don't have health insurance n u have to fend for yourself . Death is inevitable n the deceased may have to pay to cover the cost of burial which is unaffordable. In the end passers by not related will just dig a hole n throw the body into the hole without prayers
do the average software engineer in China tied to 996 schedule?
@@andia968 nope ，never 996 for me
@@China_love_Palestine 965?
But, you would earn a LOT more than that in UK. Our neighbout is a typical software engineer , not high level, and he earns 60k annually. They live well.
I am in GuangZhou. I understand you don't want to put your kid under too much pressure. In fact, the pressure of the child mainly comes from the parents. If the parents can deal with the relationship with the child wisely, this is not a problem. Children can grow faster in a stressful environment, as long as the pressure is within the right range.It's up to the parents.
Safety is the most important thing in raising a child. And guess what, China's respective department in charge of this has this a priority at heart! ❤❤🥰
The first time I felt my life was in danger was during military training at school. Of course, it was not a true danger to life but it was the closest one. In China, security issues are the least to worry about.😂
If you're not interested in politics and just want to be an ordinary worker, living in China offers a top-notch experience.
看了很多你分享的视频，很认同你的观点，客观理性。在中国，我们不用担心安全问题，孩子3，4年级就自己乘地铁去上学了。我在深圳，欢迎来玩。
姐姐，你发音很适合我这种英语不好的人学习，我太喜欢了，希望你可以坚持，感谢🙏❤❤❤❤
You can still live in China even your kid grows after 7 years old. You can choose international school, their educational system is different than domestic school, will be much closer to your ideal way.
Thanks for sharing. It makes sense the way you put it. It is because China is making a lot of things, therefore, it is cheaper to live there. Crimes, yes, in the US it is pretty scary now. I don't know how things will transform here, it is depressing!
在中国夜晚来临，你不用担心安全，你只需担心自己会不会变胖😂
Totally agree
You should start a school or a learning center for children of native English-speaker foreigners living in China. You have the correct mind set and abilities in teaching children.
她来到中国因受到中国的氛围而改变！不管那国人！心存一点善念的人！都会变成开心果！这是因为有参照国！
good idea bro
北上广深那些地方国际学习大把
Oeeee that can be something! Thanks for the idea 💡
@@lizzyinchina
You mom can help you with it.
There are always people who attack China with the lack of internet freedom, but the reality is that in China, if you want to know the world as an adult, you can browse the world network at any time, and no one will stop you. The only requirement is that you don't publicize those extreme contents.
Of course China is the best to raise a kid, frankly I m into 60, I wish to have enough money to grow old and retire and die in China.😅😊
I like that my kid is safe, good education and so on. I agree with you about getting goid grades 100 or 90 % all the time. My son personally, I don't even bother to check on his grade as long as he maintain a above average grade and enjoy the part of being a teenager. He once asked me if I will force him to be a Doctor, my reply, no. Do whatever you like and enjoy your youth, but remembet, nobody succeed in life without proper education. So in other words I force him to go to college, right now. He had no say about that...😂😂😂😂
Pingduoduo is traded under the name of Temu in the UK and I have been buying inexpensive things from them in the past year rather than Amazon. Temu is generally at least 1/3 cheaper than amazon.
Amazon and the US government own Europe. Amazon makes billions paying zero taxes. The USA is also the head of NATO and the EU. When the US says jump, you ask "How high"
实惠才是每一位最好需求
You're very perceptive indeed.
Hit the nail on the head on both the positive and negatives!
非常正理的你，很適合做好媽媽，祝你在中國生活愉快😊
We love china 😘
Nice one Lizzy I like he way you speak up and smash the western media lies Thank you
现在中国正的越来越安全，我家离学校非常近，10分钟的路程，十几年前我还是小学生，我就独自上下学了。现在的情况只会变得更好。
其实在中国最大的危险来自于交通事故和意外伤害，而不是暴力犯罪😂
@@japanese-songs 很多年前酒驾毒驾是造成死亡的最大推手，这些年好多了
Thank you for your sharing on the topic🙏
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for sharing your perspective Lizzy!
孕期的检查费用是免费的，但政府提供的是一些基础检查，如果有人需要额外的检查，例如高龄产妇的项目，孕期的意外并发症等等，是需要自己付费的。但总的来说费用非常低廉
还有津贴，比如上海公司正常缴纳社保，可以拿到几万到不超过20万的津贴，以及3个月+的法定产假，而且在孕产期企业不可辞退员工
@@ghostheaven3个月这么少？我嫂子在广州一家医院做护工的有8个月产假。
@@johnnydeng3488人心难满足！
😂😂人呀！最贪心！怪不得朱元章说，我都把贪官剥皮做稻草人了，放在公堂下一任官史旁！为什么每天还要处置那么多贪污官史！他忘了人性的贪得无厌！有了一元想要十元！有了十万想要千万或无穷尽的钱！人们恨贪污不是真恨！而是恨没分到一杯而巳！
浙江是6个月，每个省不一样的
Yes! If there is one major area that China should definitely improve in, is sports! Especially starting from a young age.
Respected 👍
It cannot be denied that the success of Chinese society has a lot to do with the fact that generations of children have been immersed in homework.
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You are totally correct … hi from France ❤😊
Thank you so much my sister one love one heart one China please love each other
you are so lucky family.
Salamat po Lizzy 🥰 💞💝
It depends on how you want to raise your kids. The competition in China or any part of Asia is intense for young kids. It is like a pressure cooker. However, if your kids can withstand this challenge, they will excel. There is no easy way to the road to success.
True dude. Every coin has two sides
Excellent video on living in China. It is like night and day compared between China and the West govern their country.
I'm fist. thank you and wellcome to china.🎉🎉
And I'm palm! Cheers.
This is your life and your wellbeing of your kids, so you are entitled to your own opinion.
love lizzy, from usa
It's very sad Lizzy, the waiting list in Canada nowadays is very long it takes at least six months or a year or more to see a specialist
In China, you can see the doctor in the day you feel not good
Can't agree more.
Say very well
Good video Liz.
如果在小城市有个不错的收入，那生活会非常舒适
lol those fishing images before the video starts might make others scared but to me I just see strong military make home safe
i already do. my daughter is 10. she is going to public primary school.
a few things:
1) Temu is the global version of pinduoduo, of cos stuff there are more expensive in general.
2) IG/FB isn't even the problem in internet, those aren't even popular for the young now. It's Tik Tok (douyin). Douyin can be toxic but surely not as much as Tik Tok. The bottom line, like it or not, China government have censorship on the internet content and there also regulation in law for how long non-adult can use social media and online gaming.
3) to be fair, China have as many catfish on internet as other places.
Here in Southern California, the 9mm hand gun always take a walk with us in the evening and this is in a neighborhood considered to be fairly "safe". Even that, we do not allow our kids outside the house without an adult supervision.
i will cosider moving to china,
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️
I think Russia is between. For special interesses special schools.(Sport or music)
Homeschooling is possible too.
支持主播的想法，虽然在中国生活和安全都有保障，但中国的填鸭式教育确实值得诟病，孩子应该在轻松的环境中长大，中国的学校压力太大了
填鴨式教育雖不完美,快樂式教育也未必都是好的,不同的教育內容、不同的人適用的教育方式也不相同。另外,父母的觀念也深刻影響孩子的心理狀態。若父母是為只著眼於成績高低,孩子的壓力卻實很大,若父母以孩子的品德和身心健康為前提要求孩子努力上進,適度的壓力是有益的。
别扯淡了😂
存在这种想法你应该去调查一下美国精英阶层和平民阶层对教育的看法。
International schools in China are not so stuffed with books. Grades oriented education is only applied to local kids who go to a local school not an international one. And if your kids want to go to a Chinese University, just remember don't give him a Chinese nationality. A foreign passport makes it really easy to get in a brand university in China.
Absolutely agree with you 👍 😊
All the positives things you commented, are the result of a great education system.
Stay in China and raise your kids here Lizzy. 😊
Of course 😂
In order to have your wish of raising a kid In China become a reality… it’s time to go a courting. Perhaps your camera woman, Emma, has an Elder single brother? 😅😂🤣 Just Kidding.
As Always, Your Video is Interesting. Especially the very passionate way you get your points across.
Take Care & Stay Safe.
Yep Chinese children are really stressful, when they are in senior school they always study for 14h per day and sleep 6h, because Chinese university have higher bar for Chinese Student. Actually as foreigner in China its way easier than native to enter great university. You can learn in International school and apply university all over the world to avoid compete with millions of Chinese students in GaoKao. Luckily I have graduted and i hope to raise kid in somewhere more relax. As native i hope to explore some other country lol.
沒經歷過就不會知道癥結點兒！她一直強調的第一要件？！是*生命安全*,及學習環境！近朱者赤，近墨者黑的道理，成年人都不好掌控的完美了更遑論孩童！！（用簡單的比喻來總結！如果危險只是破皮跌倒的傷害？那就不用擔心，的確讓孩子必須經歷過程！假使你願意賭？好不容易養大培養的孩子，每天都有機會因歸程、踏青、公園放鬆運動中被槍擊、搶劫而喪命？妳就放心選擇想去的國外養孩子吧！ps. 當然如果你家財萬貫，的確可以減少出事兒率！但毒品防不了！有錢人只是更容易接觸吸更高階的毒品
I've been so lucky that my mother never asked me to be the best or even "better than the average". Always had a lot of freedom how to organize my time, and as a fact my studies went not that bad I'd say! Well actually my math teacher was shocked about my low math mark saying that I am a Chinese so I must be good at it. Sorry teacher, I am Chinese but not good in math! Somehow I was even proud to be kinda different 😂But I was good in all languages at least, which some of my Chinese friends were jealous of me.. but they were good at math c'mon!!
nice..
欢迎博主来广东-广州和深圳
I agree with everything except for drug free policy. All drugs should be legalized to be taken off from the black market and regulated by govt.
You pinned it right on the dot. Australia is not a good choice.
The best is in China.
I would raise kids there for sure. Super safe, so many beautiful parks for children, so many amenities for kids on every corner.
But what I don't stand is education in China where children in public schools don't have childhood at all. There is constant pressure do learn more and more and every minute of free time after school kids use for extra math, science, language classes. I dont want that for my kid.
Then there is another option if you live in bigger cities and that is private school. But they are crazy overpriced in China. Like the average one is more than 30k euros per year...at that is the school where you have at best mediocre teachers. In Dubai best of the best private school cost less than 25k euros and teachers are absolutely amazing(so you know what you are paying for). Swiss International Scientific School in Dubai is less that 100k dirham(25k euros) and kids are learning French, German and of course their science class is top notch.
Good culture to rise children in china...filial pity🙏👍
As you have emphasized, children need a balanced lifestyle for development. If a child is not going to survive in the "rat race elitist" environment in China of 1.4 billion(?) the child can still be educated in China and not necessarily excel in academic studies and exams but engage in physical and sporting activities as well. When the child grows up, if he/she cannot gain entrance into a higher educational institution in China, they can always enrol in one in another country. Emphasis must be explained to the child that excelling in academic studies is not necessary nor the ultimate objective but a rounded education and self development. Living in an environment like China enables the child to be exposed to the prowess of the country's people's ability to innovate, resilient and competitiveness and industriousness to continuously improve and catch up and stay ahead. These are good attributes for children to be exposed to and inculcate.
Completely agree. This is the approach that I would take as well.
I also agree, there are too many people in China. Too many college students.😢
喜欢户外活动完全可以搬到内蒙古，那里挺重视运动的😂
coming from a guy who had my education in china from 6 to 18, dont do it, u dont want your kid to do hw til 12 am at 9th grade, its not worth competing for one spot in college for that, i fact if your foreigner, you have it easy to go to top chinese universities, and you guys should be grateful of that
👍👍👍👏👏👏
现在几乎不存在绑架儿童，那时很久以前发生的事情，以前实行一个孩子政策，人们法制观念淡泊！
现在的人都不想要孩子，谁会去绑架呢
Why tanks in the preview image? 😅
Siberia is Russia
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I love what you said about china and how great it is , but i have to inform you that marijuana is not a gateway drug that is just biased rumors. marijuana and hemp actually are used to get people off addictive drugs etc and marijuana does the same thing that causes you not to smoke too much weed as well.
所以为什么要吸大麻呢！
💪💪👍👍✌✌Bravo
❤❤❤POWER TO THE PEOPLE ❤❤❤
I am currently living in Vancouver, trying to get PR. And I am kind of regret being here. Everything is much much worse than Shanghai. Totally different world.
Yes, try Chinese baby formula, you will know 😂
生产免费应该是不同地方吧
你好，请问你有TikTok吗？
U.S. HAS THE MOST EXPENSIVE MEDICAL INSURANCE IN THE WORLD
but the quality is questionable haha
My friends and I cannot afford insurance here in the US.
Australia has the most competitive secondary graduation examination of two years, of all countries. Very competitive. And yes , most of high scorers that are rising criteria are Chinese students. But it is not a bad thing. It does not affect daily life as you are imagining. My children are now 31 and 35 having their children, finished degrees in sciences, played piano and had plenty of outside and friendship time, even worked long hours for pocket money. I see china has a lot of kids on playgrounds and amazing sport facilities in schools. I think you are making an exaggeration of how schooling is from the point of a parent view , not your job position. It is all normal. It just goes a day at a time and it is normal. And kids do like education as well, it is not something they resist as unpleasant experience. So what I want to say basically is that you are more scared of parenting a school kid than what it ever gets so overwhelming.
Your English pronunciation is such great
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这姐们应该入党…哈哈
你生活在中国那座城市
what I observe is a kid raised in China can easily adopt life in the west, kids raised in the west can hardly move to' China when they grow up. And there is a big gang in China, why it is so save.
因为吃苦的记忆从未遗忘
Yes Chinese children need to do more sports and outdoor activities. Education is important but health and mental too.
first you need to have a kid😂😂😂
english please .. me and my .... no my family and i.. would be correct...
在中国 要是有农村户籍是 很好的事情。😊😊😊
If you teach in China, you should know kidnapping and selling kids to poor villages is very common in China. That is why every child needs to be picked up by grand parents as parents are busy working 996, to keep them away from kids smugglers.
你没事吧，现在城市里偷东西都几乎不可能发生了，你还说拐卖小孩？
@@stopfighting886 那是啊 大家都躺平的躺平 自杀的自杀 偷东西都懒得了 😂
先胡说，被国人揭穿了就开始顾左右而言他。你没事吧？@@shawnyun
In the USA when you say the same thing to ppl, the only response you get is they tell you you have no balls you worry to much you afraid of everything
lizzy有几个观念搞错，1，你之所以说中国的物价便宜，你是拿西方的收入来对比，中国大部分人的收入比不上西方。2，在中国如果你没有社保去看病是很贵的，但是如果你有社保，大概可以报销7成，就是只需要付30%的钱。
你对比收入有意思吗, 美国人赚三千美金他们的物价也是美元, 中国人赚3000人民币消费的也是人民币物价, 美国人10美金买蔬菜我们10元买蔬菜有何不同? 当然3000美金拿到中国花那应该是很香
还有, 在美国即使你有医保但私人负担的那部分医疗费也会让你破产, 就做简单的检查比如血检和做CT你支付得账单就达800多美金。美国副统那女的都不公开说了吗50%的美国人兜里没有400美金
你一个台湾人凭什么说她那样居住在大陆的人不了解中国？中国城镇居民绝大多数有医保，农村则有农村医保，因此你说的没有医保只是没有在中国居住工作过的人而已，绝非社会大多数。即使如此，如果不是重大疾病和需要长期医护，他们的医疗费用也明显低于欧美没有医保的人。
随便一个老外来中国上班也上万工资😂，不要和3000比，还有中国小区确实不分国籍危险程度，她的重点是安全。
你太幼稚糊涂了，搞不明白什么叫购买力。我住了高收入几个国家，非常遗憾，物价飞涨的速度远远高于薪水可承受的范围。有些国家一颗生菜或者花菜售价$10，而在中国只需要$0.5甚至更低。
What if your kid turns out to be geeky?
Can I migrate to your employer's country China from Australia as nearly one million peoplle from China have migrated to Australia ?
Hey I'm Chinese Australian and I think its important you go to China and see for yourself before you pass judgement. I get how the media likes to only focus on the negatives but as someone who's seen both I can attest that a lot of the positives are true, and a lot of the negatives are exaggerated (but still hold some ground as well).
It's important that we don't just let the media decide how we think.
百万？？多少年的数据？😂。实际上，鼓励他们移民，因为显示的教育比中国共产党的教育效果更好😂
拼多多😂
Be honest，please still be careful when you and your children in the park.
Sometimes there will be a little children be stolen. The Chinese government has do a lot to aviod this.
But you are right. China is the most safe country in the world.
Most Chinese are nice. We also hate the bad Chinese guys.
Welcome and enjoy your life in China.
确实，什么事情都不是绝对的，中国人口多，也有坏人，只是相对来说比较安全，出门还是要注意防范。
Hello Lizzy,
All are good 😂🎉😊
But
The bad thing living in China is the wages is not good enough to spend outside China 😅.
Also , China is a family centre and loads of people everywhere day time and night time . If you are anxious people around you it might not suit you .
All the best !
Really?
If what you claim is true, then why there are so many Chinese visitors around the world across different countries with high spending powers?
As you know China having 1.4 billions population, it is normally to see many people
I completely agree with your view points
I don't understand why you say Western parks aren't safe ? Weird .
Are you sarcastic or serious? 😂
@@lizzyinchina hi, I'm deadly serious. I live in North Yorkshire UK and our local parks are pretty, quiet, well cared for and well used. They all host lively events during the different seasons , and have cafes, bowling green, tennis etc etc. Gorgeous.
I too am really interested in China and its achievements over the last 40 years. I just did a trip visiting Beijing , Chengdu and Lhasa. It was AMAZING .....e loved it. It felt safe, tand felt it was tidy, very cheap (!) And cohesive. BUT I am now home enjoying my garden, english pubs, and all the culture and historic city architecture which the uk has to offer.
However, I do envy the chinese in their chance to be part of a society/ country which is growing and not deteriorating as Europe surely is currently.
For the moment I am happy in my North Yorkshire bubble . Last night we cycled along BEAUTIFUL lush green country lanes, and then ate dinner ( a LOT more expensive than China) in a 17th century pub, came back via the cathedral.
Perfect.
You should visit !
In the mean time enjoy all China has to offer.
I agree , it's good.
Hi, I'm serious! In the UK my local parks are, Valley gardens Harrogate, Bebra gardens Knaresborough and Ripon Spa gardens. Look them up. We have many seasonal events, the facilities are brilliant and varied, and all safe . As a family we spent many happy hours in these parks, and they are beautiful all set in historic settings.
I've just done a trip to China , Beijing, Chengdu and Lhasa. We loved the tidiness, the people, ( especially the people) the scenery . The Chinese should be VERY proud of what they've achieved.its astonishing. I am fascinated by China and over the last 4 years have read 112 books on modern China, and I just ordered 4 more !
However, on my return to the UK I did enjoy my cycle ride to a 17th C pub last night, passing the cathedral on route, then finishing off with wine in my garden summer house.
I found the endless tower blocks quite depressing in China, and felt that in China, parks are essential because of that. I really enjoyed watching all the dance groups in parks tho, if I lived in China I would certainly be part of that !!
Enjoy China. 😊