Advice for 28-30 year olds
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- čas přidán 3. 08. 2023
- You’ve just started your life. It’s so sad that our culture has decided that everything has to be figured out at such a young age. This way of thinking has imposed a lot of self doubt and anxiety in the system and I’m passionate to at least start a dialog around how absurd it is to think that at the 20-25% mark of one’s life, especially after they have been in the modern education system for most of their lives, that they should somehow have “life” figured out.
The pressure from your parents (many don’t have their lives figured out too) or from friends or society (most are unhappy and don’t have it figured out either) is unacceptable.
Simple question, are you happy? Are you self aware about what would make you happy? Are you coming along in the process of not letting other people’s opinions dictate your actions?
I am super passionate around communicating observations and this one, this one sticks to me like glue. Go on your own timeline, it’s your timeline, not anyone else’s.
Please tag 13 people in the comments, ok 1, one person who could really benefit from it!
I love you ❤️ now go love yourself.
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Thank you for this. We 25-30 yr olds needed to hear this
Me have 43 and feel so good every day 😊😊😊
As someone who’s turning 28 this month, I needed to hear this!
Eyyy 28 gang
@@lightupdarkness 😜
Happy 28th Birthday 🥳
@@MHawk-xt7vq Thank you!
im 28 and i was really freaking tf out for so long and this made me take a step back and think: well shit, maybe im not losing after all. im just getting started.
Yes you are. Let me tell you enjoy every year coming up. I cant explain to you how fast 20 years fly by. Actually think of it like this you prob graduated high school 10 yrs ago already. Yea fast like that. What this man is saying is so true!!!
Snap out of it. You've been socially engineered to believe that you're 'running out of time'.
Let me ask you a very simple question.
We have 2 individuals. Individual A and individual B. Individual B is wiser and more experienced than individual A. Individual B is 28 years old while individual A is 18 years old.
Which of those 2 individuals is objectively more equipped to succeed in life?
I was fortunate enough to make one of my biggest dreams come true at a considerably young age but I do consciously understand that if I was able to do it back then, I could certainly do it later on as well having more experience and wisdom in life.
You need to decide what you really want in life and then make it happen. Your genuine intention is going to be the seed that allows your dream flower to flourish.
Just turned 30. I haven't figured out...or maybe I have and just don't realize it yet. 😅
Just take it as it comes and live your life.
Hmm great observation from ur perspective I would like to ask why but then again that’s none of my business so good luck with ur life
Exactly this! 😊 Even after 30 or 40 etc. And it’s ok! Figure it out at your own pace and terms!
28 dropped on me after 3 years of COVID
3 years that I will for ever feel like were stolen from me
I moved back to my home country , left university, my business progress crushed
and there I am no longer 25 I was 28.
I still don't have the answers, a year later it's getting better but I do believe what I didn't do in my 20's is gone I will not catch up partying or backpacking at 30
So I believe a good relationship a happy family, is the real feeling of content and figuring it out
i just turned 28, two days ago and I watched your videos before on this topic so I'm not panicking. thank you Garry for guiding us. ❤️❤️
i panicked at 23 and now i realized how stupid i was haha, after 28 i'm 30 as of 1 week ago and I actually realized nothing was wrong with it, I havent worried at all in 2 years and its super young, Ask a 54 year old if 30 is old they will laugh in your face, 45 is middle age, you still have FIFTEEN YEARS till just simple middle age and bioligcally its the true prime, The t levels only drop a little to regulate, everythign about 30 is greatly exageratd thanks to hollywood and the whole number sparks an alarm in the brain, If 30 still had a 2 in the number no one would care
Patient Pig 😎
Daily Positivity Energy! Thanks Gary!
THANK YOU FOR THAT ❤
I turned 28 in May and I'm still not where I want to be in life. I want to finish college, I want to study abroad and live in other countries, experience different cultures but I've been scared because 30 is so much closer now than it was at 27 lol
I really needed to hear that it's okay to not have things figured out and that I still have time to do anything I want.
Thank you
I turn 30 years old this November and I feel that I am a complete waste.
No need to live more, enough for me.
Needed this, 28 and definitely been feeling anxious about not having it figured out
I’m trying to process what he saying I got a decent plan to get myself back together and get to where I actually want in life but I’ll get so mad upset sometimes being 28 because of the “wasted” time I spent learning would’ve been nice to had just know but you gotta grow right 😅
It’s ok, the goal is to keep building towards a peaceful life. Stay on track and don’t worry about the past. Worry about your future in front of you.
@@niomilove2017 thanks you’re right
Im 26 & panicking😂
U should be panicking im makin million under ur age
@@Andhapaisa-mm6zp okay, here's a 🍪
@@Andhapaisa-mm6zp okay here's a 🍪
@@Andhapaisa-mm6zpnoto everyone is as fortunate as u 😂
Thank you, I needed this
Thank you Gary! ❤
Thank you so much ❤
I needed this
I’m filled with so much guilt & shame that I haven’t figured it out yet. All my peers are at a stage in life where they’re secure professionally and are getting married, and I’m absolutely nowhere as compared. Daily reminder: be kind to myself.
I turn 28 on Monday! This was a great vid to come on my feed
Thank you so much... Gary your contents help me get peace of mind. I'm in Nigeria where everyone is competing and young people are scamming for a living. Thank you Gary
As an 18 some what mature year old watching this brings me hope ❤
30 and still haven’t figured it out.
Thanks Gary 🔥
Thanks..i really need to hear this really bad..
I’m 28 I thought it was all over. I had stop caring, and I haven’t regret my experiences. But I came to a point where I don’t think I can start again at 28
I love this
Thanks 👍
So perfect for my ears and ego rn. 28 constantly feeling a sort of midlife crisis bcuz life is shi rn
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I was bullied at 22 that I was going to be homeless from a toxic old school friend, Now 28 still lost with everything. Whenever I tried to convey something like this to him, I would be told if you think that. He would invalidate anything I said because I wasn't working
28 today. Thanks!
im 37, and I feel like I lost everything I had. Need to refocus for a life change
LOOVE HIM
This inspired me beyond words, thanks Gary ❤
Tip my hat to u sir im 28 i was scared 😅
My Neck, My Back, My Knees, My Eyes, My Hair😂 its happening😮
I'm 28 and I was starring at my pc wondering what the fuck I'm doing with my life right now... and then I got this :)
I had some succes in my life but my last two years were pretty rough...I'll keep going...
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Facts
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23-38 best years in life 😊😊😊
Im 27 have my degree in graphic design and still havnt figured it out. I feel like my degree is practically useless where i am currently. So here i am making $2 less an hour doing front desk as a dead end job.
I'm 33 and feel like logging out of life. Crazy inflation, dead end job and no where near where I wanna be. Feels depressing.....
Atleast you got a job brother
@@MohamedAmin-zz8wo that's true and now that I'm thinking about it. It's time for me to shut off the distractions and put in the work.
@@swinvesting6071 I turn 34 in a few weeks I'm going to school for nursing you got this my man
@@swinvesting6071I showed this comment to my dad who is 50 years old and he laughed tremendously and when I asked him why he responded with he is still learning and maturing and grasping the way through life .
@@johanruiz3422 facts. And kudos to your Pops. I had a moment where I got down on myself. I'm ahead of alot of people but I put so much pressure on myself to be super successful. With that said, hope you having a great day bruv.
I’m a lil nervous not gonna lie but thanks 😂
I'm 42 and don't have anything "figured out" yet.
All i need is a house and to be able to comfortably pay my bills and im set
Biologically its super young and is when the body actually barely stops devoloping, For men their real life starts, Their brain is fully developed, bones barely finished, testosterone is actually better, not higher, but better suited for the body for muscle, the body regulates and thats why it slightly drops by 1 percent each year and that can happen way later in your 30's , My t levels are exactly the same as when i was 20, had to get tested when i had seizures at 24 and 29 , granted i'm an outlier, mine is 1435 which is SUPER rare and too high, and at 29 it was just from getting no sleep mine was 1,200 , same fluctuatios at 24, YOU ARE FINE! ALSO fourty five is true middle age look it up, It was never 30 lol that was hollywood
I’m 34 still
Trying to figure it out!
😢
Im 28 bout to be 29 and i swear im losing my mind
I love how he has to read
But I want to win in the first leg
Turning 28 in February 😢😢 I haven't figured it out at all
Im 28 turning 29 in July. Trust me we are good. Ive had cars, houses, got a 8 year old daughter, lost them all & got them all back probably like 3 times already over and over. Lol 😂 we are at the age that if we got at least a car and house we are doing great. I mean we are only 28. Still young in our twenties
Ok Gary Vee.
What about 57 yr olds 😢
You’re fineee. All in the mind. Just smile 😃
👏👏👏👏👏
Advice for 40-50 ?????🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯😳
Who is this
And yours nft community?
You're supposed to have it figured out by 25
Man I’m 19 trying to figure out what career I want to go In it sucks
Wait till you’re in your 60’s. The stuff you figured out back in the day, was aligned with where you were at ‘then’. Old-fart-understanding needs a reset and a complete reappraisal! As it should 👍🫣😆
Absolutely! Im 28 & i love your take on life!
I’m 28 and god has given me all those things by his grace 🫶🏽 so it’s not too early I think it’s just right