Female Rage
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- čas přidán 19. 12. 2022
- "angry women burn brighter than the sun." - Soraya Chemaly
shows/movies in order:
1. pearl
2. black swan
3. orphan
4. euphoria
5. pearl (again)
6. jennifer's body
7. fleabag
8. thirteen
9. i, tonya with little women voiceover
10. dont worry, darling
11. greys anatomy
12. euphoria (again)
13. grey's anatomy
14. shameless
15. grey's anatomy
16. euphoria - Zábava
yo! just a few things:
1. i’m seeing lots of ppl (presumably men) getting pretty aggressive in these comments. probably because oh my god! a woman! has made content geared towards other women! where are the men supposed to voice their opinions? probably somewhere else. i’m deleting all those comments because f*ck off.
2. more importantly, lots of people are pointing out (rightfully so) the lack of woc representative here. i made this video based on shows and movies that i have watched and for sure i should’ve included more representation but race wasn’t at the forefront of my mind when i was making this. i was just going off of stuff i’ve seen. i’m a woman of colour myself and of course we feel rage all the same as white women. who knows, maybe i’ll make another video based on woc rage.
whenever u get the time to make another one, bulbul is an indian movie abt a women who eats men. it has cool looking scenes to include
Absolute slay response 💅 Pop off 🥰
Slayed fr
thank you for this comment
Ugh men are so sensitive
female rage and male sadness is pretty rare in entertainment, because of gender roles and stereotypes. woman are told not to be angry and men are told not to be sad. it’s really therapeutic to see it let out on the screen
Honestly I think male sadness is very common in media. Maybe because I avoid some mainstream stuff like Marvel, that reinforces my impression. But yeah I'd say male tears are waaay more common than female rage (e.g. the last thing I watched had Pedro Pascal breaking down in tears in TLOU ep 6, but I don't know if Ellie's outburst counts as female rage).
I have been told to express my emotions more countless times from, at most, age 11. It's weird hearing people say "men are told not to be sad" more often than "men shouldn't be sad". I will say my dad hated it when I cried, but he also hated it when my mum cried so I think that was less of a gender thing and more of a him-thing.
While thinking about this, I noticed that people expect me to be more angry than I am basically all the time. My therapist was once telling me how I could deal with my anger by punching pillows, it was honestly one of the silliest things I've ever heard. To this day, I don't know what made her think I'd be angry.
@@YodasPapa Great comment.
@@YodasPapa using context clues imma assume ur a guy, and yes while thanks to ppl making shit phrases such as that less acceptable to say the overall notion that men can’t cry is very much still there. Just more subconscious.
@@YodasPapa this is a late reply, i apologize. but maybe i don't enough consume enough media to see male sadness. but yes, i agree with you that female rage is something i don't see often.
this is will personal... but my dad was very stoic and very rarely showed emotion, and he told me it was to be a "good man" but i could tell deeper down he had a lot of inner turmoil and repressed emotions. meanwhile, my mother was a very angry person. she would rather lash out at me and everyone else instead of just crying because she didn't want to be seen as weak.
i think that really shaped me to never show my vulnerability, my weakness and most of all my anger. i have so much anger and it's cathartic seeing women let out their anger, it's something i can't do myself. but at the same time, it scares me because i was raised to believe that anger is destructive.
i think it's beneficial to see people who's gender you share on the screen expressing a range of emotions. i've noticed in therapy too where depression in women is displayed as sadness and depression in men is displayed as anger.
Boy's Dont Cry (Except When They Do) by Pop Culture Detective is a great video
Female rage calms my soul idk why
I think it validates our own feelings of rage when we're not allowed to express them
I understand what you mean! When I watched it I felt good in a way I think its because I'm not the only one with that rage, that it's a part of us all but we women aren't allowed to show our emotions
( don't come attack me if I said something wrong, english isnt my main language)
@@girlhighonheroin3617 yeah exactly. I guess deep down we wish we could let this anger out to feel the calmness after expressing all the rage we’ve been supressing
@@Stormie1886 You're right! I do feel that way
Same
There’s something I love about female rage in shows. Not trying to be pretty, not being delicate or loving, not talking about guys, just so raw and real. Mens rage will never compete.
It's not a competition just enjoy the vid and go
Umm......I don't know what you mean, most of the actresses playing this characters are 'pretty' so they can romantize 'mental illnesses', I have mental illnesses, I watched The Black Swan and I love it and I would not dare to watch it right now, so Pearl won't go in my list any time soon.
@@Teaquamarine I know, I don't wish mental illnesses on anyone.
@@p.s.csdeaky8530 just bc an actress is pretty doesn’t mean the film is romanticizing mental illness. mia goth does not play pearl pretty during her rages, that’s for sure. she’s screeching like a banshee, her face is bright red, and her eyes don’t look all together. as someone with bpd who gets rages like that, she played it very well.
No way you just made this into a competition 😐
Man screams, he's angry, totally justified
Woman screams, she's overreacting...
Exactly now male crying it's emotional when it's women
Those insecure male who doesn't get any girls says shit about her
or she's "crazy" for acting the exact same way that the man did.
Never seen this shit in my life
@@vampiszoonis9691See it every where on the internet. Don't know how you missed it.
@@vampiszoonis9691 I don't know what ur triggered for, I've seen u under multiple comments. U r definitely lying, we all have seen women being called drama queens, "shes overreacting", and "it's probably that time of the month" whenever a woman shows emotions, in the 19s women showing emotions or raging was considered a diagnosable physical illness i.e female hysteria, maybe get a little educated and consider the other side as well instead of getting all offended and denying it, if the roles were reversed I'm 100% you would've had a different reaction.
Oh God I have been imagining livid scenarios of me beating the shit out of people or smashing things and having a proper, cinematic meltdown since I can remember. Even screaming the loudest scream my lungs can push seems like a comforting idea. So many years of muffled sobs, muffled anger, muffled voice. So many years of grinding my teeth into marble, clenching my fists into bruises and just gulping down my anger like hot lava.
i think i speak for many women when i say this is the most relatable piece of writing i’ve ever read
I felt this deeply
I feel you.
this is me
Si un hombre diría eso sería tratado como un violento
I hate when people bring up the men crying thing when we talk about this. "What about men?" What about them? That's a separate issue. We're talking about women here.
Exactly.. why do they always make everything about them. On a video about men’s issues (there are a TON of them, and half of them are belittling women as well) I don’t comment.
@@Screech911 OMG have you seen Clara Dao's video's comments? like, there's a group of man that looks like just wants to be right about everything. She makes videos about sexism with man and woman, and they like rage on both??
Exactly!!!! Like come on
Dumb
Men set the system up, Who told men men arent allowed to Cry, MEN. 🙏🙏
I saw a comment that said women flipping out in anger and men crying are equivalent. Men crying is looked down upon as it's (wrongly) viewed as weak, Whereas if a woman explodes in anger it's trivialized and we're "making a big deal out of nothing." I hope some men would realize that when a woman finally shows her anger over a seemingly small thing, it wasn't just that, that was just the cherry on top. It was many things and she let the rage build up over time
or they're just a junkie
Nah they are not same, some comments say they don't care about when men shout, while if a woman cries everyone is like 😭😨
So not the same thing, plus people don't take man who cry seriously so yall just crying about bs
@@vampiszoonis9691 you quite literally proved my point
@@babynyxe4784 A lot of men only cry when the most horrible thing has happened. Same with women being angry. Why compare them???
@@vampiszoonis9691 women's anger isn't taken seriously either, that's the whole point of OP's comment. Women are seen as hysterical, melodramatic or "crazy" when they shout or show anger in general. They're made fun of, laughed at. Because "it's just a woman, what's she gonna do?"
Female rage in films always give me the shivers, it's scary when a man shouts but it's just noise. When a woman shouts, it's raw emotion, all those bottled up feelings exploding out. It's amazing. sad, tragic and beautiful all at the same time.
Wow. Spot on.
that's so wrong to say. when men are in pain and shout its just noise? what the heck? evryone deserves to be heard its not just a noise.
@@jaydahrose1974 it’s not wrong, I’m allowed my opinion. 9/10 when a man shouts it is just noise, it’s aggression. Of course men get sad, mad, upset, depressed etc I’m not discounting that they have every right to be as emotional as women, my point is, most of the time (not all the time) when a man shouts it is just noise and anger. Women, it’s frustration. But that’s my opinion I’m not trying to have a debate here it’s a CZcams comment section.
@@rivers0ng anger and frustration are the same exact thing. both men and women feel the same exact emotions as each other, i don't really understand what kind of point you're trying to bring up here but i'm assuming when you see men releasing their emotions in shows/movies, it isn't as good as how the women do it.
yeahh i don't really agree with that, i guess it all depends on how well the actor plays it and the writing.
i believe you just haven't seen alot of shows and movies that show men having all these different kinds of emotions other than anger.
@@leku_0z579 I think what she means is that in society women "arent supposed to" yell and get mad. Yes men "arent supposed to cry" in society that's why it's often seen as moving when a man cries cause they've taught themselves their whole lives to not cry, "be a man". This same way women have taught themselves to keep their anger in and "be a lady". So when we see female rage you know it really means something, it's full of pungent bottled up emotion. It takes a lot for a man to cry stereotypically the same way it takes lot for a woman to flip out. Obviously all emotions are valid everyone is meant to have feelings and I hope our world is working towards that mindset but for now when we see female rage its much more impactful than male rage because it's been bottled up. Its not necessarily trying to take control but to be heard. Where as when a man flips out it can be more controlling. Female rage is women saying I'm at my limit please work with me the same way a man crying can be depicted.
This is the best and smoothest compilation of female rage that I've ever seen. Well done!
Yes, and the realll RAW female rage not the fake female rage people think women have.
same! some that claim to be these very technical things are just not well done and don't represent the theme well
@@luisabolado For sure!! 🩷🩷🩷
@@Ks-101 well thank you for calling me pretty. But honestly, all women of color have been portrayed with just sitting around and having no reaction or raw emotion to things.
I second, this gave me all the feels
I feel like female rage is such a beautifully tragic aspect of femininity and I don’t know how to explain it. Female rage is so often caused by letting emotions build up until they explode and i guess there’s just something so relieving about watching a woman snap and let all of that go.
theres nothing relieving about seeing a woman or someone in general angry. from a psychological point of view female and male rage dont exist and women being angry have nothing to do with femininity especially because all these women are angry because of different reasons. makes no sense.
Males do that too. You just never get to see it
@barbarabarisano8121 you completely missed the point of this whole video and all the comments
@@barbarabarisano8121 seeing a character in a movie release emotions can be in a way therapeutic for viewers, like the character is a vehicle through which their own emotions can be mirrored and expressed, separately from the viewer. it makes perfect sense when you think about it even a little bit
you must not have grown up being a girl suppressing her anger, like most of us other girls have, for us it is very relieving to watch women break out in total anger on screen (like we never could) @@barbarabarisano8121
there is such a soothing and bittersweet feeling from seeing women stand up for themselves and let out raw unfiltered rage after never having that opportunity to really let it all out… almost like they’re yelling for me. I don’t care for men shouting on TV, even if I like their character, it’s just scary and obnoxious. But seeing a woman yell is like therapy of some sort
When man shouts he's "expressive", when woman shouts she's "hysterical" :(
@@GhostInTheCogs she literally just said she doesn't care when a men yells. And for the record, if a man yells, he gets arrested in the real world. If you live somewhere where men see you as hysterical I'm sorry. When I saw a girl crying twice I comforted them. One was great and the other I opened up to about my grief and she left. I'm not complaining about women not caring about mens' emotions because others experience it far worse. I'm just saying in the real world, people see a man raise their voice, they call the cops. If a woman does it then they assume there is a good reason. Also these women are all amazing actresses I love their performance. Idk maybe I'm sensitive but it seems mean to just say mens' emotions don't matter. I think it depends on the script and how much they repress it. When a woman represses it, she's forced to but when a man does, he's toxic? Then when he lets out anger he's also toxic but when she does, she's empowered?
I'm not here to dismiss anyone's feelings or anything, I get it. But I don't get why men have to even be discussed.
Damn the double standards are crazy…
@@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 Ok damn not reading all that, i said one thing and you understood it completely different. Ig that's internet for you.
@@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 me when i lie
"i'm so sick of people saying that love is just all a woman's fit for." Jesus christ... that is so powerful. Like hearing all this about women needing to be caretakers and mothers and maids and cooks n shit makes me mad. But that line? It's heartbreaking. If a man doesn't show love, thats fine. That's what they do. But if a woman doesnt, there's something wrong with her. She's a monster.
All people of all genders should show love. Men not showing love because "that's what they do" is a complete load of horseshit. That's not what they do-- that's what indoctrination has done to them. When you are denied love all of your life, when you are told that you are not allowed to cry, not allowed to hug and kiss the people you love, that you must condense every emotion to make it socially acceptable... that is what creates VICTIMS.
This is so real
It was cathartic to hear
So sad to hear.
So you wanna be just like us? Whats with the fact that yall call us predators all the time. Toxic.
And you wanna be just like that?
wtf this made me feel validated for my anger idk why 😭
It depends on why you’re angry
@@imparcialmente if you’re angry all the time or randomly over nothing, then there is something wrong with your mental. You should probably speak to someone, weather that’s a therapist or a close friend you trust, to talk to, cause being angry all the time is not normal or healthy
@@AlienFromJupiter777 anger issue, maybe some black magic. 💀
To everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus.
To everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve.
To everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. When you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time.
To everyone who is creating, you got this. Your art is amazing. Remain in your flow and get stuff done!
-Not mine, but pass it around babes
Thank you so much..
This is means a lot to so so much people
We pray for your wellbeing!
❤️❤️❤️
Thank you jesus
aww ty for sharing this to people
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i'm getting lots of comments about what movies & shows i used, so here they are in order:
1. pearl
2. black swan
3. orphan
4. euphoria
5. pearl (again)
6. jennifer's body
7. fleabag
8. thirteen
9. i, tonya with little women voiceover
10. dont worry, darling
11. greys anatomy
12. euphoria (again)
13. grey's anatomy
14. shameless
15. grey's anatomy
16. euphoria
you forgot orphan :)
Ginny and Georgia?
i love you
You didn’t mention Orphan
Thank you thank you for this. Usually they don't even post a list
As someone who's never let any of the anger outside and used self harm as a coping mechanism, this was quite therapeutic to watch
Oh, honey. We are in the same boat🫂
Are you, me?
OnG ! I feel heard 🙃
I am here for you
I for once just wish to let all this internalized anger, frustration and sadness out into the world instead of bottling it up like everyone expects you to. But after all those years, it feels so wrong and difficult to do so
Maaan Fiona's bit rlly hit the hardest. The mixture of bitter truth and bottled rage was so realistic.
They don’t want us to be angry, because it connects us to our power. Don’t forget your power.
Exactly don't fall for this society who wants to be suppressed
what power? swinging your arms around and screaming doesn't seem really powerfull tbh
@@chiefsosaya7869 dragging you in a basement and hitting you with a bat , that's more a men way is it? Abuse , always violence
When you’re angry, it means you don’t accept things as they are anymore. This causes change, transformative change. It has the ability to break women free from exploitative and abusive situations of every sort, from old ways of thinking and being that do not serve us. It’s powerful.
@@chiefsosaya7869 Bro, you are everything you dont want in your life. Go to bed and try again.
3:46 “I was nine! Nine, and taking care of you.”
“She didn’t love me. She didn’t love you. She didn’t give a shit about anyone but herself.”
Hits different when you grew up in a domestic abuse home and were adultified as a child. I feel like I’m realizing my own mother doesn’t love me all over again. Lol. I’m just rewatching this over and over and crying.
❤
My love to you dear, ur so so strong 🌸✨️
what show is it called
@@clarataube4988 Shameless the American version there's also a British version by the same name.
@@TheBluefairy81 Thxs so much! :)
i love all of the complex character arcs you put in here, as someone who knows all the references it’s even easy for someone who doesn’t to understand and also recognize the rage in these scenes i wish there was more women in film being angry it’s such a taboo thing that we are told we can’t be
i literally had a whole female rage meltdown last night and this was very comforting to see pop up in my recc
edit: more in depth, i tore shit apart, i swung into my punching back so hard i might've torn a bicep muscle, but it ended up helping me relieve all that stress and just screaming it out was probably the best thing i could've done. channel your anger into action is the best thing to do for when this stuff happens;
i hope whoever experienced this feels any better, but stay safe since i know during these moments you might not think.
me too!!!
Hope you feel better today
You got this girl!!
Same
you got this, don't surrender
@Jocelyn Davis got a CZcams psychologist over here, love all your little comments.
All these comments about how special and touching female rage is...
It's true, but that is the problem.
Women are raised to never show anger and to sit still and be pretty and are told that its not lady like to show rage, they can shed a tear and be quiet but when they scream they're hysterical and crazy.
It shouldnt be special or giving shivers to see female rage, it should be just as normal as a man is showing his anger.
@@segginetahi what? Ive seen quite the opposite, I've seen men show emotions but whenever a woman rages, even tho its less aggressive than when a man rages, its more like letting out all the feelings she bottled up, people act like shes crazy, if a man does it everyone says "men will be men"
@@bruhno1545 but thats not what he wrote? He was talking about crying lol, and even If he were to talk about rage it's still wrong because men are literally taught to never show emotion
100% agreed. The problem is that both women and men are so poorly written and meant to fit society’s standards, that when women are actually portrayed as angry it’s treated like it’s special. It shouldn’t be special. Same with men crying, especially since a lot of men are naturally born unable to be “masculine” like being physically disabled or autistic and overwhelmed more often. And also when men are written as angry that’s that, the writers don’t put much thought even though men 100% have valid reasons to be mad at the standards placed on them too.
Also side note especially continuing on the disabled point, the lack of representation as well that is why men aren’t portrayed as sad more often and women angry. I’m autistic & adhd myself as a girl and I have a way harder time controlling my anger and have been told I act like a man sometimes bc of it.
@@bruhno1545 Where I lived very often when a man raged they were immediately considered a "danger" and psychopath, a danger to society which women would not be since they were not considered that dangerous - this is also important to take into consideration
@@wladynoszkapitany8277 It won't be taken into consideration because acknowledging it will shatter the "women are victim class, men are oppressor class" narrative.
Watching these clips makes me feel weirdly calm knowing that I've never had to feel this much rage in my life
Really? Never? Not even bottled up?
@@MELLMAO Never. Never at all. I have never felt anything this passionately ever before. While the people are talking about how they find this comforting because it validates their feelings, I'm just fascinated. Because I've never experienced anything like this.
@@Nezoo1306 that’s a good thing? That’s good for you i think, the things that cause this kind of rage can be 😬
sorry for the rant but the only time ive ever felt this type of rage, the type that makes u feel so overwhelmed with anger is once, my dad and i got into a screaming argument. my grandpa was dying from cancer and had dementia, my other grandpa was dying from a disease that was basically slowly killing him. he couldnt talk or walk. i was struggling really bad with mental health issues at this time, anxiety and an eating disorder, and barely left my room. he told me that i didnt care that my grandparents were dying because i spent so much time by myself and "not enough with them". even tho i saw them quite often despite the distance. he also started talking shit about my mom not getting a job, how she was lazy etc, even though she was full time taking care of my grandpa. i completely lost it. he had no idea what i was going through or my mom, he wasnt there through any of it, he lives in a different fucking country 4000 miles away ffs. and i just fucking lost it ive never started screaming at someone before.
@@eliza._c valid
as a man i really love videos like this, and this is why i love shows like shameless so much it shows the raw emotions of everyone in a realistic way, thank you for posting this
the comments are the real one 😂
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I found comfort in female rage after countless creepy men catcalling me, touching me, and doubting me.
this was insane and beautiful, the way that you can feel the actresses anger without even knowing the context nor the show is amazing, great job!!
this is tragically beautiful, not in a romanticizing mental illnesses in women way, but in a getting relieved by seeing people let it all out, all the pain bottled up inside
"female rage is better!" "no male rage is stronger" bruh, it dosen't matter human rage is something and something everyone should respect of each other no matter race gender or religion.
men crying an women screaming hit different
fr
dang why am i crying this was so good lol
I've said it before but I seriously don't know why there's something about female rage, anger, deep sadness and trauma that truly scares me. When men show it, when a father is being a horrible person, when a guy is punching the wall, I see it and I feel bad for them but it doesn't really impact me as much as with women.
Just last week I read a manga about a mentally ill mother that left me hollow and with my stomach hurting. I was very disturbed and I didn't even know why because I've read about abusive, bad fathers before so why did I feel so much fear and sorrow about it now being a mother?
I think at the end of the day it all comes down to how we are taught what emotions should go to what gender. We are taught that men can go crazy from all the hardwork but women have to stay perfect and only cry and shed pretty tears but never shout. Never rage.
manga sauce
It’s because you care more about women. That’s why
@@joenuts5167 or… maybe it’s because they’ve been most impacted by men’s rage? constantly? throughout their life? men rage and wars are fought, men rage and empires topple my guy. women rage and “bitches be crazy”. they just mean it’s therapeutic and cathartic to see unbridled emotions, regardless of their being acted, because it’s nice to see fury without fear of judgement. there is no comparison of “what gender i like more”, as an adult try to have a little bit more nuance than that.
@@joenuts5167 Way to derail the argument. Must have failed school if this is the reading comprehension you show.
@@joenuts5167 probably cause we women💀
oh an also zendaya’s acting. wow. she did such an incomparably superb job in euphoria. i’m so glad that show exists JUST bc of how much it showcases Zendaya’s acting ability
the way this calms my soul omg. feminine rage is such a real and raw naked emotion to explode
There is something so satisfying about that moment when you are in pure female rage. Like it just feels like you have reached a peak and you can just let go. Rue’s scene with her mother just gives me the chills. It’s so real. Zendaya portrayed pure rage beautifully
i hate being a woman, its awesome.
ur encapsulating my life rn
seeing female rage finally depicted in movies is so refreshing. it makes me feel understood and at peace and im sure its done that for alot of other people too. a lot of times movies are written from the male gaze of what a woman is/is "supposed to be" and idk its just so nice to see female rage/anger actually depicted for once in film history
I love how in the clip of Fiona and Frank she yells at Frank and tells him that Monica left her to take care of HIM. she never mentions the kids, how much of a burden the kids were on her and her freedom. she never blames the kids for having to take care of them, she makes sure Frank knows that HE was the real burden. I just love that scene so much
I hate that I feel them all in a way.
This is me before my period, I feel like I hold a lot of things just for the sake of everyone’s happiness but pms gets me every time. I feel so bad when I am at this state, because I was taught to love the soft version of me and never pay attention to my own true feelings. As I am growing older, I am learning more about myself and I know I need to prioritize all of my emotions.
oh sis, I feel ya sooo bad. I don't hold it anymore tho, don't let them hold you...be feral
You should try hormonal birth control man
lol I don’t
As a man, the scene in black swan and the menu was the epitome of female rage.
i fear that one day i will do something bad and no one will understand why
tbh
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you sound like a school shooter
I'll understand but hold yourself accountable girlie you can control yourself intergate your shadow and you'll enjoy living
Toni Colette's outburst from the movie Hereditary is still my favourite 'female rage' shown on screen. It is so raw and unfiltered.
l feel homicidal after just a day of staying at home with my family, go on the internet for some relief, only to hear a bunch of men say, "Women overreact so much", go to sleep then repeat. If I were to have it my way, us women would have an echo chamber to scream into whenever we're angry.
Bro I know, I've been homeschooled for 6 year trust me I KNOW. And with people who don't let me express negative emotion because it's, you guessed it: unladylike. I'm expected for six years of my life to NEVER show negative emotion because my feelings are invalid if they are negative... wut? Yes, where is the echo chamber petition please 🙏
I feel you. I'm finally moving away from home in 5 days. I hope I can finally breathe.
Npc life, get therapy
@@vampiszoonis9691 therapy's for losers. You pay just to have someone to talk to.
@@vampiszoonis9691 wtf
He told me that he loved me, I trusted him, he told me that he was only talking to me, I trusted him, I acted like everything was okay with the fact that he wasn’t answering and probably talking to other girls, he used me for my body, I saw on his phone that night all the conversations with multiples women, he lied so much, he told me he loved me, he told me so much things i don’t even have the word for explaining what had happened after but girl leave please listen to the other woman
I study political science in college and it is part of our curriculum to study how our society structures gender roles and how those impact our individual paths. When it comes to women, they are pressured from a young age to conform their entire sense self based on how others see them. Girls' clothes, even as toddlers, are meant to restrict the body while boys clothes are meant to feel comfortable. They are taught to be quieter, to be more docile, more loving, more caring of others, while boys are taught to be curious, competitive, independent. When girls grow up, they are rewarded by the school system for these expected attributes : you do better at school if you listen to adults, do your homework, do what's expected of you, etc. So they get better grades and are better students. But after high school, women are expected to give up on their studies, or to study for a very short time so they can move on to become mothers and take care of their children and the housework - whether they have a job or not ! Women need to be "pure", they can only be intimate with someone who they are genuinely in love with, they need to be beautiful and take care of their appearance; but if they do that too much, they are called vain, superficial, ditzy, etc. So even though women are molded their entire life to be society's idea of "woman", they can't be "woman" too much or else they get punished by it, because woman in this world is a bad thing. We read an amazing study on this which concluded "Men must live up to their sex, Women must escape it".
So it's no surprise that this generation of women and feminism feels so identified to the concept of female rage. After all of the pain it is to be a woman, all the heartache and all the violence we go through, we are still told it's our fault, we need to be more careful, it's how things are "naturally" supposed to be, we have to put up with it. For how many years have men mocked and denigrated the concept of the "crazy" woman, the angry woman, the hysterical woman, the bitter woman? They have made this image their toy and for so, so long women have been afraid of this archetype that they've tried to move away from it by making themselves even quieter and more docile, who even knew that was possible ? So to see books, movies, tv shows, and internet culture reapproppriate what was always ours to begin with, *female rage* fills me up with joy.
This was so well articulated.
Everything you said is the exact truth.
@Jocelyn Davis Notice how the comment you’re answering to has not mentionned men’s condition, except when saying “men must live up to their sex”, as it is what society is expecting them to. What OP said does not contradict your portrayal of men’s condition. Patriarchy is actually hurtful to both men and women, there is no need to undervalue one or the other. Men would actually benefit from not trying to be manly all the time, and should not negate their femininity. That’s the behavior that we label as “toxic”. The idea of masculinity is toxic when it dismisses any emotion viewed as feminine, which leads to the ideas you just described.
@Jocelyn Davis I agree on the fact that I’ve seen a lot of sexism in the comments, so I’m kinda surprised this is the comment you decided to answer to. But the main comments that make men’s anger be always less than, have been addressed, which I was satisfied with.
@Jocelyn Davis "Women suffering more than men is simply untrue" ? I'm sorry, do you live in a separate dimension ?
Joyce Buyers is also a perfect example
Funny, I saw multiple comment about how "men yell = rage" vs "women yell = overreacting" what some people fail to realise is that man use yelling as a mean to an end, it is a solution for a problem. While, when female yell, it's a last resort. It feels more real and sincere to us when a female rage because it is not the easy path to a solution, it is the very last path to take when you have nothing else you can use.
I made a generality, doesn't mean every woman are like this. I've seen male's rage/ outburst feels as real as female cold glare. The point to remember is sincerity.
I just remember that my mother always tell me that when I cried, she felt herself cry too because she knew that when I cried, it wasn't because something small, it was always for a good reason and that it was real.
And I think there is a truth in there. Women are told to contain/ restraint/ to show calmness and emotional mastery, while men are told to be strong/ to control themselves. It results in diffferent behaviour that shows recurring pattern in male vs female behaviour, so when the bubble burst and it is true, it really touch us to the core. I love this so much !!
“They think we needed them and their validation…”
Who
@@segginetahi i did
This is so cathartic and relieves my own pain and anger for a short while. Our emotions are not unreasonable and they deserve to be expressed and processed. I've been daydreaming about just losing it completely and I just wish I could let it loose somewhere safe.
emmy rossum as fiona will always be unmatched. her acting never felt fake.
I had no idea how to keep watching the show without her, it was like "critical piece missing, cannot complete puzzle".
The performances by Emmy Rossum, Margot Robbie, Isabelle Fuhrman, Natalie Portman, Phoebe Waller-Bridge, and Zendaya had me on the edge of my seat. Those are some of my most favorite performances by female actors.
Edit: another good one was Lucy Liu in Kill Bill. All of the actresses in those films were great at portraying feminine rage but one of the scenes that stuck with me was O-Ren calmly threatening her yakuza subordinates with a beheading after having so gracefully beheading Boss Tanaka for using her heritage as a negative in front of the others and gradually becoming for enraged as she got to the end of that whole speech was so. Good.
I agree with you
UMM HELLOOOO WHAT ABOUT MIA GOTH SHE ACTED HER AZZ OFF WITH PEARL
Add Sandra Oh; she can act her ass off.
@@youdecidewhatmynameis3549 100%, she’s amazing
Yes, I can agree with that
the movie Pearl reminds me so much of Carrie
It feels so good to watch this. All my worst moments compiled together. This is my therapy.
Pearl saying perfect then the “I was perfect” was so smooth ong
I don’t hate being a woman, but i hate how women were always seen as. Always have to stay young, cute, perfect, ethereal for men, always dependent on their husband (if no, then their dad). I freaking hate it. Why people back then were so dumb to the point where they would treat women so badly? Like theyre fragile, weak, and just a love desire side for a man main character?????
yes exactly
this was so amazing, well done. ♡
I know that I could never be perfect, the harder I tried the more I realized no one is ever perfect there is always a reason that someone that looks so perfect is not, and they tried so hard to deny it, so don't be hard on yourself take a break to live your life when you're still young if not u will regret it when you're older. But remember no one is ever perfect.
This is one of the best editing jobs I've seen in a while. You encapsulated the subject perfectly. I feel like I just watched an art house video. Amazing.
I've seen better editing
Women rage its scary but beautiful at the same time.
Female rage is terrifying, more scary than when men show it, and maybe it’s because women aren’t known to get as angry as men (in stereotypes and shit) so it is kind of shocking when we finally burst, it’s hold so much emotion that has been held in and that is why it’s so scary.
can you guys appreciate the female rage rather than comparing it to men's ? emotions shouldn't be a competition
Well-said.
Girlhood is the purest thing
I'm so in love with this
im crying again
3:07 the scene with rue and jules makes my heart drop everytime
as hard as it is being a woman i’m so glad i am one
Right
Same 🥰
Say it all the time, being a woman is a vibe...and I mean that.
@@lil.ms.j7156 the vibe is pretty great i can’t lie
Good for you mate
The thing I find interesting about rage is that it's the one emotion men feel they can express, but it's the one emotion that women feel they can't express. Men rage because they have other emotions they can't or won't share. Women rage because they've been bottling it for so long, but finally can't hold it back anymore. They have to release it. Sort of like, men would rather scream instead of cry, but women cry until they finally scream.
This was perfectly said
No, actually. You should really read into male abusers and the book 'Why Does He Do That'. Angry and abusive men don't do so because of pent up sadness, like women are taught. They do it because they see women simply inferior, and that abusing them is justified. That's it. Emotional therapy and healing 'past wounds' of abusive men has never been successful in rehabilitation. That angry men are just actually sad is a lie that had been fed to women for thousands of years to make us empathize with those who are killing and abusing us. Please do not continue this lie.
@@kathryn8543If you could read then maybe you would have figured that OP referred to men in general, not abusive men specifically. 💀💀💀💀
Let OP cook.
@@kathryn8543 Well said.
It’s more of a frustrated exhausted type anger
I would have loooved to see a clip from ‘Girl, Interrupted’ in here, that would have been the cherry on top. Specifically one of Angelina Jolie’s scenes
girlhood is coming back every few months to watch this video again and cry
Everytime I scream, everytime I want to express how I feel, they say that I'm overreacting, that I'm a pick-me who wants attention. This video made me cry, thank you for this compilation, it makes me happy to see women express their rage (even if these women are from movies or series).
Please excuse me, my english is not very good I'm french.
@Ariane Yeah
@@nioostudio5032 Many of my friends are considered "psychopaths" and a "danger to society" whenever they rage and express negative emotions even though they only do the same as in this video xD
I hope you will be understood some day, wish you all the best!
Often times people understand it much better when it's expressed rationally and calmly
@@wladynoszkapitany8277 Thank you so much ♥
behind all that rage portrayed in this video, there isn an overwhelming sadness and devastation - that's what tears me apart as a woman.
I'm at a certain point in confusion where I don't know if I should be mad at him or just sad with myself. Perhaps I'm just frustrated, or disappointed. I don't comprehend, however, at what direction these feelings are aimed. Am I angry at him for giving me false hope or at myself for believing I could have the unattainable? If not even she could have his love to keep, then why would I have it?
I can't quite put my finger on what exactly I felt during that moment, but I believe it was triggered by his sweet words. He knows how to handle those very well, and that caught me completely off guard. It only took me a few compliments and an intimate scenario to get absolutely attached to the core of that guy. I kept wishing he would love me like he once loved her. He said he adored every single thing about her. Why would she ever break his precious heart? Although I'm positive she was a sweet lady, I can't help but envy what she had. She had all of him and she wasted it all away. I wish he would hold me close to his heartbeats and caress my hair until I fall asleep, until I melt into his soul. If I could cuddle up with him every night, I'd never want to wake up. I'd forever be his
That is a huge deal of a feeling, because, at least for me, that feeling is felt the worst when we know and realize that it is just daydreaming, and that prolly it would never be like that... i wonder about such scenario much of the time, and i know, it's horrible...
I don't know if false hope like you said is really a real thing, because sometimes, we create a vision for ourselves attached to the scenarios that we create, and turn it into plausible truths, but that doesn't mean that they aren't lies you see?
However, don't blame yourself for that "angry" and "idealistic" feeling, it will eventually look like a cloud on the infinite plain of life, and you will not have to worry about it in the coming times, your heart just twisted you, and now you will slowly realize what it made to you.
THIS TEXT IS HUGELY CONFUSING, AND I'M SORRY hhagcgdhfbYEFYU, but i hope that you understand what i am saying... if you have any questions, you can ask, i really think i understand your situation, and i know that it is really heartbreaking...
he was unattainable and you had the arrogance to believe that you deserved a man with many options. humble yourself and work on yourself, and what you truly deserve and worthy of will show itself to you. yet, the question is, will you remain blind in your arrogance ?
Being angry all the time is getting tiring.
i feel like men rage is like being mad at someone or something and blaming that thing. but female rage is like being mad at yourself mostly and blaming yourself and its like a war against yourself :( or at least thats how i feel loool
Very real. That's how I feel
rio movie:" You're right, it's not my fault, IT"S YOUR FAULT" 😂
I think euphoria does female rage so gooooooddd, like I felt the emotion when zendaya was yelling. Kudos to her!!
Def look into female gamer rage, it also is good.
You into underage does too, right Bojack?
@@vampiszoonis9691 absolutely no words..
The one from Black Swan made me feel man…, Black Swan is definitely my favorite movie 💖
LOOOOK ATCHA !!! It's the Perfectionist's call.
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"
I feed on this video. It's my inner voice. Every time I hear it a different sentence sticks to me, resonates with me, tells me of my turmoil and tells me it's not okay to be treated like this.
I feel like everyone woman knows this feeling, just pure frustration and feeling helpless
this is a compilation of awesomely powerful women rage, why are people talking about men rage in the comments? this is not about men, can we stop making everything that women do of feel or live, be related to the existance of men? for once?
1:04 please I’m a starrrrrr
It’s really so “human” of us
this makes me happy because I feel the rage I never got to show to people who ruined my life and took everything I cared about away. this is my therapy, my anger I could NEVER express.
this is the best video ive seen in my whole life.
I’m a transgender man, but watching these really brings up lots of pain and rage I still drag with me from my days as a girl. Emotions and pain I wished I could have expressed, but I was always told to just be pretty and smile instead…
I'm curious, do you find it easier to express them now? I personally think as boys grow older, they are not able to express as many emotions either to avoid being looked as weak. It explains why many men are described as stoic, and my thought comes from personal experiences as well.
You are still a woman just delusional . No such a thing as transgender man
I absolutely agree. I’m with you on that
This video is my Roman Empire
this video is my therapy
There's something extremely powerful about female rage, it's not a positive force but it's a very visceral feeling that all of us feel, men and women alike, the way women can display the rage hits you deeper than anything.
"She was never here. She didn't love me. She didn't love you. She didn't give a shit about anyone but herself."
Fiona and Shameless will always rip me apart with the Monica relationship. When you have to come to terms with your mother, your god, being so uninvolved in your life.. it only ever seems to hurt.
there's those that get it and those that dont.
1:03 She doesn't get the flowers she deserves...maam can act.
thanks for making this -i love you
God, being mad when you're a girl is so frustrating because you've been trying so hard to keep it all in so you don't get judged for being a "typical, sensitive woman" and this is the shit you get for it. Women's anger is also patronized. Seen as fleeting and inconsequential. You're just the crazy ex girlfriend or nagging, bossy wife. Not a real problem.
But, man, it feels so damn cathartic to be angry. After all the moments where you silently walk away in defeat, knowing that they wouldn't have taken you seriously if you'd blown up, this is what makes it worth it. Finally letting everyone around you know how you really think, and that you don't care anymore what they think of you.
i love female rage so much. in that moment, the women don’t care about being beautiful, not focused on being gentle or caring or loving , but just letting themselves FEEL. Feeling the anger shamelessly. Female rage is beautiful.
“Oh! How I feel trapped between rage and control!
Constricting! Pathetic! Pathetic!”
I LOVE female rage, is so raw, so strong. And Thirteen was the movie that ignited that liking in me when I was young.
As a woman, my rage used to control me; now I am lord and master over it.