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Shows:
0:00-0:14 Emmerdale (Lachlan/Alicia images, Moira voice over)
0:15-0:22 13 Reasons Why (Jessica/Justin)
0:23-0:42 Emmerdale (Lee/Victoria)
0:43-0:53 Mr Robot
0:23-1:07 Emmerdale (Aaron)
1:07-1:16 Emmerdale (Victoria/Moira)
1:17-1:23 Emmerdale (Aaron)
1:24-1:39 13 Reasons Why (Bryce)
1:40-2:04 Emmerdale (Lee/Robert)
2:04-2:08 Emmerdale (Aaron)
2:09-2:25 Sweet/Viscous (Jules/Nate)
2:26-2:40 Emmerdale (Chas/Gordon)
2:41-2:58 Lauren (Lauren Weil)
2:59-3:01 Emmerdale (Victoria)
3:02-3:19 13 Reasons Why (Bryce/Nora)
3:20-3:28 Emmerdale (Lachlan/Alicia)
3:29-3:46 Unbelievable
3:47-4:09 Eastenders (Gray/Chantelle)
4:10-4:43 Eastenders (Whitney/Bianca/Tony)
4:44-5:17 Emmerdale (Aaron/Chas/Robert)
5:18-5:23 13 Reasons Why (Bryce/Olivia)
5:24-6:19 Emmerdale (Aaron/Chas)
6:20-6:33 13 Reasons Why (Bryce)
6:34-6:54 Emmerdale (Lachlan/Alicia)
6:55-7:46 Emmerdale (Aaron/Chas)
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Thanks everyone for watching this
I didn’t expect this many views so now I’ve added the names of the shows to the description
Watching this Robert does not belong in jail
Where is it
@@brooklynlaughlin3401 where is what?
@@brooklynlaughlin3401 the time stamps a literary in the description. Just click on the title of the video and the description will show up.
That was so touchable...
The guy wasn't even sorry when he got the girl pregnant. In fact he was proud that he ruined her. I have words for him I can not use
Well I got hands and I know just how to use them.
@@vivianv4532 Me too
@qwerty JC what show is it
The rapists seriously disgusts me
@@alexiscother2195 yes me too tell me wich show is
i like that it shows guy and girl victims
thank you, I thought that was an important point to make
@@misc.mp4 It is. Rape isn’t just for one gender.
@@misc.mp4 I love that you made it like this, too. Not enough people are talking about the male victims
@Lauren Patrick Men are the ones who get called liars which is why as soon as a women accuses him of rape, he’s put in handcuffs. A lot of people are against the “It’s what you wear!” saying so women rarely get blamed nowadays.
@Lauren Patrick But MOST girls are believed because they’re... well girls. We live in a society where the victim is always believed.
guys, when a girl is being nice to you and then you force yourself on her, and she says no, she wasn't leading you on
Yeah
True! 💔😫😭 In Sha Allah, we will all recover one day and those sick bastards will all rot in hell! Ameen! 💔🤲🏽
@@jugalpradhan8366 what
@@notokayinmannyways2085 😂🤣i am a man sis why are u shocked about it
@@jugalpradhan8366 we ain't talking about all men rn so that comment was irrelevant
Rape is the worst possible crime because there is absolutely nothing that could ever justify it. It's worse than killing somebody because it wrecks them for life, and with that everyone around them. Most victims don't even try to report it, because they know it will be fruitless, that nobody will believe them. Police treat victims like criminals, courts hardly ever convict and the sentences are laughable. And what you see in fiction, the rapists apologizing and "feeling bad" is exactly that - fiction. These people know better, and they have much more control than we give them credit for. It's a terrible crime, commited by heideous people that go unpunished. It's disgusting.
Only 7% of people found GUILTY of rape serve any prison time. That is a global statistic, and honestly it makes me want to cry. It truly is the worst crime.
@@BerserkerJay237 All your comment is disgusting. All you is disgusting
Bg Os if that's all you've got to say I guess you're unable to refute my points. How am I disgusting? I like you think rape is disgusting. In highschool there was a guy who attempted to rape a very good friend of mine, minutes after I found that out I had broken half the bones in his face. When it comes to fighting I had honour, but with this guy I just grabbed him, threw him on the ground and started punching his head in until I was pulled off. But as much as I wanted to kill him he didn't deserve to die. I'll say it again I hate rape, but I'm not going to pretend that it's a crime that goes unpunished or that it's as bad as murder because neither is true.
@@BerserkerJay237 I am unable to refute your points? Despite addressing every one of them? I think your reading comprehension might not be the best.
You say rape doesn't go unpunished. Please, spend 5 minutes of your time reading the actual statistics before you make a claim that's complete bs.
And about your anecdote, while it doesn't add to any of the points raised, I'm glad that was your response, although I assure you you're in the minority of people who would get involved instead of brushing it off or pretending it didn't happen.
Dagmara Sajdak Correct me if I'm wrong but I said that to the person who responded with nothing but calling me disgusting. My reading comprehension? 😂 obviously there's plenty of people who get away with rape, the system now allows it so that a woman saying she was raped is enough that the police will automatically arrest and hold the man she is accusing but they can't convict without actual evidence. If there isn't any evidence then they can't convict its that simple surely you can understand that or are you one of these feminists who thinks "believe all women" and that a woman regretting sex has been raped and only a woman's word is relevant for a conviction. Cause anyone who thinks that way is a piece of shit. By the way I'm aware most people wouldn't get involved but that's because people have their own problems and are scared of what will happen if they get involved, it's not because they don't care.
The part where they told that women that there was no physical evidence of anyone in her apartment that night hit me hard because when I was raped and when I went to get a rape kit they refused to do it and said the blood was from my period but now four years later when I got pregnant with a man I loved after having three losses when they did the ultrasound they asked me if I had been sexually assaulted before because I had scarring consistent with rape and when I told them about what happened they were horrified about it and they told me that scarring is the reason I've lost so many pregnancies and the only way I could maintain this pregnancy was through bed and pelvic rest and I blamed myself for everyloss because I thought I had bad genetics or I did something wrong but what that man did to me left me nearly infertile and it could've been prevented if they had done the rape kit and treated the lacerations that night and it's hard to not be angry about this I never even told my boyfriend that this is why this keeps happening because I don't know if I have the strength to tell him that until our baby is born at a safe time we could loose the baby because of what a stranger did to me and no one believed me so I couldn't get proper treatment to attempt to prevent it
My opinion is irrelevant ,but i think u should tell ur husband cuz the Truth will come sooner or later , and it's better if it coming from u
I cant imagine what you have been through, and you dont have to take my opinion but speaking up, may bring you to heal, healing can start when someone bears witness to how you feel. I hope all the best comes your way. Your a survivor, never forget it.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this that this left such a mark. I pray the baby gets born safely and is a healthy bundle of Joy
I’m so, so sorry. That sounds horrific. You are so do strong
I'm so so sorry for what's been happening to you, but it isn't your fault that these awful things happened to you. I think you should let your partner in on it so they can support you as you go through this. Keeping secrets like that might create distance between you two
*”Your right, the rape DIDN’T kill me, it just broke me down to so bad, into someone so small and little, that I killed myself over and over again every day, suffocating the feeling of it being my fault, I could never do it my self, so I did it mentally, so NO the rape never killed me, it just made me wish I was dead”*
*A conversation in front of my entire math class after people found out about me and my father and people made comments about it not being that bad*
I'm so sorry, that you had to go through that. Just know that everything will get better.
I'm so, so, so sorry that that had to happen in your life. It's in too many people's. Always know you have someone who can help. Or talk. Or love. Keep being the strong person you are.
I’m so sorry that happened to you and I think people who think it’s not that back shouldn’t have an opinion on it bc they never went through it so they don’t know they don’t even know so I think they shouldn’t say anything at all if they don’t think it’s wrong again I hope you re okay and safe and doing well and again I’m so sorry that this happened to you !
Bad*
My sister has experienced this....
I hate that this is all true and yet the authority's still don't believe them.
I'm a man and I'll admit it it happens way to much in society, it shouldn't ever happen in the first place it's barbaric behavior.
@@gavinwilliams8971 thank you
Well, blame all the womens that lie about bein rapped to sent the guy they don't like to jail.
@@GniinG Happens less than women actually being raped.
@@sydthesquid1527 It may happen less, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Just so you know.
Not all men, but enough to not know who the good men are.
This comment is pure gold
😭
@mar shut up
@mar stfu
@mar facts
I’m soooo glad that they included men in this.
edit - just in case. I didn't mean that men can't be victims as well, I was saying that male victims are usually overlooked or ignored, so I was glad that they were being represented
Same
Me too.
Same
men also get abused and raped they r humans we all r humans and rapists has nothing to do with genders
@@ashimachoujjar3025 That's very true, but I think people are just happy that shows are pointing that out. A female can be the victim but it can also be the abuser. The exact same as a man. Many societies completely disregard male victims, specially if the abuser is a woman. Abuse is still abuse it doesn't matter who committed the crime
i cried throughout this entire video and i can't even imagine anything like this happening to me so for the people who have gone through this, i am so fucking sorry.
Yea, i cried the whole time as well
🥺 I’m also deeply sorry to people who have been through this. I hope I never will. It’s just horrible that this happens...
I’m scared...
Thank u
Your weak
I was sexualy assaulted in a party. No one believed me. My friends next day told me it's my fault cause I was drinking and it gave the impression that I was interested. It broke me. I was depressed for a year. That incident and those so called friends not believing me broke my heart. Now, with therapy and finding peace in meditation, I have overcome that difficult time but sometimes it still pinches.
Im glad u doing better hi well I believe u and u have lots of people 😁
@@gracelynzo3298 ✨🤗
As a person who understands you and has gone through that. Know it was never your fault, I’m so glad you are have overcome it. Wish you the best
@@mideygar3766 🤗✨ god bless you
I'm glad you overcome that point but I'm more angry at the fact that your "friends" said that.
not all men but i was 10 years old when it happened.
i was wearing shorts and a t-shirt that evening. i was at a fifth grade graduation party in a bounce house. not all men but it happened in the one place where it should be safe for a child, school. my friends took me to the principal to say I'd been groped, but the principal said it was an accident.
not all men but i was a child.
This alone has me crying. I’m so sorry this happened to you
It wasn't your fault and most certainly not an accident. He is an adult, he know what's right and what's wrong. You were a CHILD. Your principal is messed up and is completely wrong.
@mar men always say its not all of them, so they're saying it's not all men that do it.
@mar men always make excuses for each other by saying "not all men" so theyre saying "yeah it's not all men but it still happens" and giving examples of when it happened to them when they were just a child. it's supposed to prove that "not all men" is a stupid thing to say and it's not relevant to the conversation
😭😭😭😭😭😭 I don't have anything to say love. Please stay strong. 🥺❤️
i’m not crying just because this is sad, i’m crying because i’m one of them.
I'm sorry for what happened stay strong in you're strong enough
@@gloria7237 stay strong dear!! I'm sorry for uuu :(
@@loversundertwotrees1115 Thanks I appreciate it 💕💕
it is very strong for you to right it down.we are with you.we will always be with you.just remember we dont feel pity.just support and hugs from miles away.
Same and I hate it so much ugh now I wanna cry
“you were a child, a little girl” I started crying uncontrollably when I heard this. Because I too was a little girl when my own cousin started to sexually assault me. He did it for years and I didn’t say anything bc I was manipulated to think that I was not raped, that “it was just a joke”. I grew up feeling ashamed and guilty until I realised what really happened to me.
thank you for this video, I think it’s really powerful!
thats disgusting. im sorry dear. are you ok now?
Just be happy and not feel disgusting you didn't did anything wrong the other person should feel these things 🥺 just be happy pls
@@anchalshukla428 you don't know how much these words mean to me. thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@@you_deserve_the_world I am so sorry for everything. I want you to know that you are strong and brave. Keep dreaming for your life. We are with you and you deserve the best in the world ❤
@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 thank you so much for your kind words. after so many years of abuse and my own family gaslighting me it feels so unbelievably amazing to read them. seriously thank you.
I feel so bad for laughing but at 0:46 the subtitles “ you’re a cheese nobody likes a cheese”
😂I didn't realise that haha, all sorted now
I think he said “tease” idk 🤷♀️
@@cuicken9696 yea ik the subtitles were tripping but it’s fixed now
Actually it was at 0:42
@@leighrussell2221 I got the timing wrong
I emphasized so much with this. What happened to me as a child broke me inside. The fact that I had to meet my abuser every single day as a child, that I still have to see his photos on the wall of my house, that my mother and my father still talk to him and are proud of him and hug him and love him, it breaks me. My brother didn’t just hurt me, to me it was murder. Because I spent two decades feeling dead inside and I don’t think I’ll ever stop, I don’t think I’ll ever feel good, I don’t even remember what feeling good feels like. And I so wished my mother and father could have helped me fight this pain, but they chose otherwise. They chose that “everybody makes mistakes”, they chose that I was fine, they chose he was a good person. And it breaks my heart how they completely ignored the situation and left me alone when all I needed was their support. I feel so empty.
How do you keep on fighting when you feel so lost and overwhelmed? I tried my best fighting to survive, fighting to live a normal life, fighting to get help and nobody can help me. Why is that? Why can't a judge see how hard it must have been for a 22-year-old girl to go to a lawyer and fight against her own family? I was all alone for the entire time. But they don't care how long it can take to be able to do that, they only care that I didn't do that before and now I should accept my case is expired? Why did they make me go through so much pain again to not give me any justice? I deserve justice. I am broken, dealing with flashbacks, ED, self-harm, severe mood swings and today I had great news: I probably have PTSD too. I was 5 when it started and 12 when it ended and the laws expected me to say something back then? I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT WAS HAPPENING. It took me so long to admit to myself and my unsupported family actually let ME be ashamed of what happened to me. I asked my mother to see a lawyer when I was 15. Yet she is not blamed, cause all she was trying to do was protect her son, but I am blamed for not suing him sooner? WHO WAS PROTECTING ME? WHO IS PROTECTING ME? NOBODY.
some days I don't even know if I can take this any longer. WILL I EVER HAVE JUSTICE?
PS: I've seen how many people emphasized with me and wanted to share their stories. I know it's hard to live like this, especially when it seems like nobody understands, it becomes very lonely. So I will leave my ig here and you can contact me if you need someone to talk to. I know it might seem weird, but it also seems the right thing to do on my side
My Instagram is:
martina_asta_99
the profile photo is a couple and there's a blue sky behind us and the green of a tree.
Thank you all for sharing ❤
Omg I’m so sorry. Your parents should have helped you and that’s horrible that they didn’t. Nobody ever deserves abuse but we all deserve love and support because that’s what helps us live when we know we have someone who is safe and that we can go to them for help and support. Again I’m sorry you had to go through all of that. Hope you are well and reach out for help soon because you can’t keep that to yourself it will kill you inside. My name is bekka and you can talk to me if you would like but if not that is totally fine because I can’t understand what you went through
@@m3rlins_b3ard thank you so much, I actually need a friend really bad right now. Can I contact you anyway? (But just know I don't want you to feel forced, if you were saying that to just be nice it's fine, I totally understand. If you think talking to me could make you feel uncomfortable in any way, just don't it's okay)
@@m3rlins_b3ard Second this, we are here for you
@@misc.mp4 yes definitely 🙌
@@martinaasta yes of course you can but just to warn u I’m only 12 so I dunno how tho😌😫
What makes me sick is the fact that people always blame victims because they don't tell someone the day it happened it's sad
Yeah like, when does someone go through something tragic and tell someone right away? If you lose a family member you don't usually tell anyone at first but process it and then talk about it when you're ready to open up. It takes time to open up about abuse. Unfortunately I know this
That rapped man actor is a very good actor BTW.
agreed
It shows how much he cares. Idk if he went though it himself or not, but the fact that he made me tear up- it show he cares for the pain that others face.
@@Ghostrident and you happen to find it funny, is it?
@@slothkid3431 I'm kinda confused because idk if his dad is straight or bisexual because he has a wife and he raped his son, wtf does that mean that doesn't even make sense just bs.
@@misc.mp4 can u help me find the show please?
Not all men , but she’s still going to put her keys between her knuckles if you get to close to her not all men , but she’s still going to call someone when she walks home alone , not all men but every woman , not all men but enough men , and if it’s not all men then why is it still going on?!!
not only that, but now many of them play the victims, and every time a victim mentions getting raped they throw a "but many men get accused wrongfully of rape", disregarding the problem mentioned. The sad truth is that they don't give a shit about people getting raped, they just mention that to appear better wherever it conveniences them. The famous sentence "women lie and accuse men wrongfully" is the reason my friend wasn't believed because she didn't have enough proof. They say they get accused wrongfully and then their life gets destroyed when in fact none of them ever gets caught and punished unless there's solid proof. Honestly gotta love the hypocrisy. Sure not all men, but like it or not, plenty of them. In fact most rape cases towards both genders are from men.
@@floweryunicorn8888 so should we believe everyone? This "men get falsely accused" thing is used cause lots of girls were accusing men after sex. They just changed their mind.
I’ve searched it up and it says that only 20% of women get raped in the world. And if every women gets raped, then does that make me a man? Cause I’m a girl but I’ve never been raped in my life.
@@PaleCaretaker only about 6 percent of accusations are actually false
@@PaleCaretaker men barely get falsely accused. You're worrying more about false accusations that barely happen to a lot of women being sexually assaulted. Plus if someone goes to jail after being falsely accused with no evidence, that's the justice systems fault.
and When it happens the first questions you get asked are
" what were you wearing?"
" Did you lead him on?"
" Did you say no?"
" Did you tease him?"
Its not fair! to blame the victim!
For me none of thos would apply i was either a child or was sleeping no matter what none of thos questions would apply and if someone were to say otherwise i would slap them
Edit: and yet i was still raped
Ikr 🥲
That’s the reason I’m afraid of getting into another relationship. I trust them enough to tell them about my experiences. I fucking hate the idea of victim blaming. It wasn’t their fault. Why can’t people understand that? I had an LDR and I told him. The one thing I appreciated about me telling him was that he didn’t victim blame me at all. We broke up a few months later, but I still appreciate him for that. Sorry for all this trauma dumping but I at least feel better
the worst part of being rape is when they're too young, too innocent to know they're being raped💔
People are so sick I wish all of them could get harsh punishments hanging or whatever rapists should be more highly punished
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 maybe they could get rape? so they know how it feels?
I didn't even know I was hurt until I was like 16. By then I didn't even fight it anymore. If I fought it would hurt more. I thought I deserve it. I thought it was my fault. And than I was in relationships because if you give your body, they will love you but that NOT love. It was NEVER your fault no matter what!!
This is heartwrenching
Survivors come in all shapes, sizes, colors, genders, non-genders, sexual orientations, ages, etc. I'm glad that there are various representations of survivors in this video.
The rapists saying sorry means nothing unless they are put in jail for their crimes. Odds are, they will rape again. It's not always only about sexual gratification, it can also be about power over another person, any person.
I Knew some woke person would enter the comment section. The fact is there are only two genders. The others you mentioned are just feelings that conflict with the truth. Your feelings, thoughts, and opinions are subjective. Truth is always objective. Guard your heart.
One thing all rape survivors have in common though is that they’re strong, beautiful, and never at fault. ❤
This hit me hard. I was raped, sodomized, and almost murdered. The police interrogated me for over six hours in a hospital room. I was afraid to give names and numbers because he was a gang member.
That was over 19 years ago and I still have PTSD from it.
I am so sorry for what happened. I want you to know you are strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I wish you the best because you deserve the best ❤
I hope the sicko that did it got arrested or get what they deserved. They need to make harsher punishments for rape
May you got the life and respect you deserve i will pray
I am so incredibly sorry ❤️
It is never too late to give hsi nakmes, numbers, spread tehir faces, names and numbers in social medi. sites , forums to spoil their reputation and punish them
It's never really over though, we still live with it everyday.
True😶
The fear when you know that person is coming who hurt you sexually ..
The fear goes to feet to the spine and bones ..
But lips are still sealed ..
And all of this stuck in my body ..
It's so heartbreaking ..
I wish nobody had to go through this as I did
I’m so sorry. You are so strong
Im so sorry for what you have endured. Plz stay strong, your a survivor, continue to be and soon I hope you find a path to healing.
@@imaginebella2692 thank you keep up the good work
@@ayishaha4171 thank you 👍
My abuser passed recently and he had been out of my life for over 15 years before that. Yet at 40 years old I still have nightmares. He was my stepfather, I was very young. It kind of stopped when my mother had my brother. He was 67 when he died. I was still scared he would come back. That was what the worst for me. I buried everything in my memories, but I could never bury the fear.
even murder can be justifiable at times. i can see myself feeling sympathy for a murderer but never a rapist. rape is the lowest of the low. it’s pure fucking evil.
All I did was take a shower without closing the bathroom door. He never asked.
I'm sorry that happened to you
@@bensmith8957 thank you. It devastated me but it didn't destroy me. 🌼
Thats good. Stay strong
Was this recent or along time ago
I can tell you the exact date and time, but it's private so pardon me. It was 6 years ago. One never forgets the date.
Why am i still watching this even though i know it is hurting me inside and will bring back the memory at that fucking night
I'm so sorry
I was saying the same to myself while making it
You just want to cry so just cry. And take care
im sorry love
This is so emotional and heart-wrenchingly relatable. Thank you for making such a painfully, beautiful video raising awareness about such an important topic.
thank you for watching :)
Video brought tears to my eyes, it's crazy how people have the guts to victim blame after what rape victims pass through.
if they say "no", THEY SAY NO
Rape is the worst thing you could ever do to someone. Add the fact that most rapist never get the jail time the deserve and the fact that some people always find a way to blame the victim it sucks! Also the fact that unlike murder it doesn’t leave behind much evidence. I’m sorry to anyone who’s been sexually assaulted. Don’t ever stop fighting because one day you and the person who did that to you will get what you both deserve.
You might aswell ads kdramas where every guy kisses the girl with 0 consent even when she's tries to push back
And everybody thinks it's romantic
@@swinerazor4075 exactly, there's nothing romantic in it
Not only in kdrama but also in cdrama and thai drama
More in thai drama its disturbing
Thank you for saying that, not only Kdramas especially Thai and Cdramas. And I can't believe people romanticized it. I feel gross at such events.
The fact that this story hit rock bottom for me and again made me realize that what a shit this world is and what me and people like me have gone through. We all need a group hug and praying that no one ever has to go through something like this.
I am so sorry. I hope you are doing better. You are so brave and strong. Wish you the best ❤
This video just shows that this really happens and not just to girls but guys too and society needs to grow up and realize that it isn't a joke and that it needs to be talked about more because it's not talked about enough and the more that people ignore it the people think they can get away with it. I am 15 and I know how messed up life is because I have seen so many people coming out with their story
Just know that if you know someone or you yourself has gone through this that it is not your fault and that you are strong and to never give up.
This comment section full of men supporting the victims, speaking out for the silenced victims, trying to make a change is the most heartwarming thing I have seen today and made me feel protected. Thanks 👍🏿
Respect 👏, have a good day.
The fact that this world can be so cruel and unpredictable that it makes people petrified to wear clothes that they feel confident in, just to be torn down and broken by others is absolutely disgusting.
It is amazing how it shows male and female victims without trying to counsel out the females as people do
Why do I do this to myself????????????
That’s what I’m saying!
It’s a simple phrase “no means no”
Yet some people fail to understand it, why do they not understand that what they are going to do to us will haunt and taunt us for the rest of our lives emotionally, mentally and physically bringing us down day by day, letting us crash and burn....and yet they still do it....
“It’s not something you see on the news…
It’s been happening in THIS house…
It’s been happening right NOW, and it’s been happening to YOU!”
The justice system for people that are raped, men or women, is just totally fucked.
Yup and it just got even more fucked too... way to sad for me to even think about
No means no, but silence doesn’t mean yes either
Tee Noir has a video talking about the characters of Grand Army and wen she talked about Joey she talks about that. People act as if is always a yes until the girl says no, but it’s the opposite. Until the person kisses you back, says it’s okay, it’s a no. Until she says yes, it’s a no. If you keep doing it despite of that, it’s rape
It's different for everyone, but for me I never felt like I lost something. Like something was taken from me, and I think that's because I was so young. It completely changed me, the way I think and behave and I know I should hate that I'm different because of it but I don't because I know that I wouldn't have lasted as long in life as I used to be. But for me it was such a long time ago, and the man is dead now so maybe that makes a difference. Don't get me wrong I'm not glad it happened but I can't look back and only feel pain and anger anymore. It's different for everyone.
I've honestly been thinking about this alot the past day and I guess the best way to describe it is this, he didn't take anything from me. None of me belongs to him nor did it ever. I have all of me and while my parts might be alittle out of place, bent and mixed up I'm still me. I hate him for what he did because I was a child who trusted him and he took advantage of that. I hate him for the way I will always look at people now and the struggle I have with intimacy. But he didn't take any part of me, he might have tried but I continue to talk to people. I hug my friends and go out and flirt and I try. I don't let it define me. It impacted me but it's not me. I'm me. He can never change that.
@@audmickey1307 im so proud of you love. you're YOU and he, a piece of trash, cant take anything from you. keep going. God bless
i was raped two years ago, he was my first boyfriend. When i told him to stop because i did’t like and also because of the pysichal pain, he told me that i was a slut and that in reality i was enjoying it. He really broke my heart and my faith in men
I am so sorry for what happened to you... you are so strong and brave, sharing your story it takes a lot of courage and I wish you the best because you deserve the best❤.
I love how you also included men in this video because it does happen to both men and women
People/police officers/judges always blame the raped victim for not saying anything but for all they know, the reason they didn’t say anything was because they were being forced not to. It is 100% possible that the rapist was threatening to hurt the victim if they told anyone. Ever think of that judge?
Cohersion is the underlying factor there its insideous . Its a trap and its a huge one too. Its also a subconcious rape of the mind too.
If this horrible thing is happened to you, I am truly deeply madly sorry my whole soul is supporting you, I wish you the best, I wish you to live your life and DON'T LET YOU RUIN BY STUPID, HORRIBLE, INHUMAN PEOPLE
You're strong, beautiful and nobody has the permission to let you think otherwise
I love you again and again ❤️💖💟✨
Getting raped.. traumatizes people. And I was one of them. I was so young and it continued for many years, now I'm scared around men, so yes, I want to fuck him up just like the video said. Some people have no idea how scary it is to deal with this problem because you can't get the moments out of your head, you will never forget but it takes time to recover. For those of you out there dealing with this shit, just know that you are not alone, we're all dealing with this the same way you are. Even if you can't forget, you can make new memories and tell yourself "I'm better than that asshole". You all are amazing people and it's sad to see what society has turned into at some points, but sometimes you just need to look on the bright side.
I can't imagine the pain you've went through......I am so sorry for what this world has given to you😢....But you are strong....you too are amzing.... Stay strong.. we'll always be with you♥️
Just like the video, I wish every survivor's story ended with them getting justice. Sadly, that doesn't happen for many of us. You live through it each day, suffering alone, while your abuser is out there somewhere living a free life.
you ok dear?
🥺I swear I'm not crying
It’s ok to cry 😢
"No MEANS NO"
“You’re a tease. Nobody likes a tease” I knew this video would trigger me before I clicked it but this is almost exactly what a guy I used to see would tell me. We did have a sexual relationship for a while but I started to put up more boundaries and it irritated him. He would say I was teasing him but really, I just refused to engage in any sexual activity with him. I had to push him off me a few times before he finally realized I wasn’t going to have sex with him anymore and now he’s blocked.
It's just abuse and traumatizing.
I'm glad I got help , late but still help.
I was 14 it last to 15.
Now I'm 18
Your amazingly strong and I’m truly sorry you had to go through that
I’m sorry that it happened to you, but I admire how strong you are
That one year must feel like hell
I was sexually assaulted by a man in my family multiple times when i was only 12 years old. I’m 15 now and still haven’t told a single soul. It has destroyed my insides, not being able to tell anyone. Keeping it inside for years is killing me. I can’t tell anyone. I don’t think I ever will be able to either.
I'm sorry that happened to you
That’s horrible. I’m sorry that it happened to you, and while I think telling someone would help, I understand that in your situation it must be super hard. Take your time. Just know that no one has a right to blame you if you decide to tell them. None of this is your fault❤️
@@moonlightshadow6743 wow. This just made me cry. I appreciate that more than you know.
This edit is so beautiful. I was crying through it because I could resonate with it. I was raped by someone I thought I could trust and was my friend when I was very young. It went on for four years and he manipulated me into thinking it was normal. So even though it hurt I convinced myself it was normal. When I realized that it wasn't alright, I started hating myself. Almost every speech I've heard since then asks people to be certain ways to avoid getting sexually assaulted and in my case, I couldn't even say no. The guilt and the shame were overbearing, and I fell into depression and had suicidal tendencies. I couldn't tell anyone and so for nearly a decade I had no therapy, and they blamed all my mental health issues as me being irresponsible or not having control over myself. After 2 years of therapy, even though I am not suicidal right now I still have a lot of issues but people expect you to get over it. My family thinks that I have let it affect me too much already and I should take control of my life. It doesn't work like that. The self-hatred has often led me to put myself in vulnerable situations where I could get hurt further because it felt like I deserved it even though I know I didn't do anything wrong.
I can't even go to court because it would his word against mine. And the statements from memories when I was 3 to 7 years old would easily be thrown aside as "false memory" or not strong enough evidence. The system is messed up and society will continue to victim blame.
Oh god 😢im so sorry u never deserved that and know it wasn’t ur fault. It never will be ur fault and ur right. Society will make u blame urself when in the end it’s the person who did this to u who is to blame. I hope you find a way to heal from that experience and wish u the best 🙂 💜
The fact that judges say they’re is no evidence of the victim being raped even while the victim
-has bruised
-signs of struggle at the crime scene
-has complaints of neighbors of screaming
-etc
And they STILL say
Kids just being kids
She was leading him on
Her clothes were so revealing, she should of expected it
Men can’t be victims
Why would a parent do that to they’re kid? The kids making up stories
*Is utterly disgusting and disappointing*
The worst thing to do, is to give in after saying no repeatedly. After telling them stop. They are still in the wrong, even after you give up saying no because they won't stop. But the sad thing is you will only blame yourself. When they promise not to do anything, but then they "can't help themselves" and they are "Sorry for breaking their promise." That's when you leave. Leave when their promise becomes a sorry. Leave when they refuse to stop after you tell them no. SA and R are life changing, and people don't see how traumatic it really is. If someone you know is near if this happens to you, tell them that night. Make sure you stop it before it's too late. His friends and my brother were downstairs. But I thought I loved him, so after countless times, I gave up and gave in. Please don't do what I did.
As a SA Victim, I was broken and so lost for so long. I reached out, I got a therapist, I'm on meds life is getting a little bit better everyday.
They always told me it was my fault because I was wearing a dress. My innocence was taken from me. I remember the day the jury and judge said it wasn’t fair for him to face punishment for one little mistake, I mean after all I was just so beautiful he couldn’t hold back.
That's why I hate this society
They always blames girls
Please be strong. we women know other women's pain
why is it so comforting to know im not the only one am i wrong to feel comforted by these videos
If this has happened to you I am so sorry. TRUST ME IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. IT WAS THE FAULT OF WHOEVER DID THAT TO YOU
This is just outrageous! How could a human do this to anyone. It's truly heartbreaking that women and even men are getting treated like this, and the way they say you were naughty or a "tease". This video made me cry because no matter what we say or what we do no one listens. No matter how many songs, or how many movies, or how many protests, we still have to be hurt and for what! We go to the police, we go to our teachers, but they do absolutely nothing to fucking help us. It is disgusting how anyone can do something like this, it truly breaks my heart. And we say that boys will be boys and act like every single thing is completely normal, that this is just something people do! It makes me sick and it's disgusting.
This need more viewers, its amazing and heartbreaking edit
thank you
"the fact that you thought it was sex for one second is disgusting" yes...
this hit hard
I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more
no one knows about it. it happened while i was in relationship with another man. i was so scared to tell him about scared that he will say that was my fault
i really dreaming about someone tell me "i believe u". That I was the victim.
i can't stop crying, I don't know how i can live with this
I believe u that you are still a victim
I am not gonna give you false hopes of saying that become strong and achieve dream and forget everything
As nobody can forget the bad things and here it's rape
But i would say just wash your face every time you remember those things
And say in mirror that it wasn't your fault. It was him
2:36 is badass
yesssssss love her
Thank you so much for showing that men can also be harassed, can also be raped, can also be forced into sex without their consent, it’s time people acknowledge this & I wish victims strength coz I know how it feels when your dignity is taken away from you piece by piece and your body and soul doesn’t feel like it belongs to you, that’s the worst feeling anyone can ever feel
I am so sorry for everything... I want you to know you are brave and strong. Wish you the best.
“Guess who’s not too afraid to fight back now.”
This. I can’t be the only one willing to catch charges to put people like this below ground.
I love how it shows female and male man can get raped too and I feel like that should be a more common conversation then people saying “that would never happen because their man they can’t get raped” yes they can
What is wrong with the People who disliked this is a good video AND I CAN'T BELIVE THAT THERE ARE STILL SOME PEOPLE THAT STILL NOT CARE ABOUT RAPING!
i cried at the end when the man finally got justice, i could see the pain in his eyes and like something had been lifted of his shoulders.
The things that men face is not talked about a lot, like how they are painted as the monsters, or how they are treated unfairly, or how they are not taken seriously when it comes to abusive relationships, they’re told to just suck it up and hide their emotions and be a man. It’s really not talked about a lot, and as a feminist I really would like the topic to be spread out more because I want equality for everyone. Thank you for including men in this.
Good to see people like u. In India men are painted as monsters.
3:16 that scene RIPPED my soul apart. the AUDACITY he has to say it to her eyes without any remorse. such a monster.
I was sexually abused by my own brother for 7 years. From when I was 4 till I was 11. And I cannot recover from it no matter how hard I try.
I'm sorry that happened to you
How old are you now, have you ever told anyone?
@@bensmith8957 thanks for caring. :)
I'm 19 and no I haven't exactly told anyone. My parents know it but they did nothing about it.
@@its.diot08 was your brother young at the time too?
@@its.diot08 your parents should have at least tried to get you a therapist to see
This is gutwrenching but also so important to talk about! Thank you for creating this
Thank you for watching :)
I LOVE how you showed girls and guys both victims, cause sexual assault is considered mostly to be happened to women only, but men go through that too. And it's absolutely heartbreaking and infuriating how many times the victims don't get justice.
Praying for everyone who had to go through this ❤
What really hurts is when your “best friends” ex puts his hands on your thighs and you say no. and he is hestitant to stop until you have to say no louder. but then he slams you to a wall and kissed you. and when you have to push them off with all of your power. and when you tell your “best friend” about it all she cares to ask you is “did you kiss back?” and it makes you cry everytime you think about it. And everytime you see your “best friend” you feel like crying because she doesn’t really care. She doesn’t care that her “best friend” was just sexually assaulted by her ex. She doesn’t even care to protect me. (*disclamer* i’m okay now. It happens a awhile ago but it still hurts knowing my best friend would say that and hurt me like she did). I wish that no one would have to go through this. Getting raped or assulated happens no matter what you wear. People need to know that no means no. Women and Men when we say no it means no. I’m so sorry for anyone if that has happened to you. You are amazing, you are so powerful, and you are so strong.
1 like = 1 more ounce of power that goes to someone that has been hurt.
Why the hell would anyone say that?! I'm sorry if its offensive but I hope your best friend gets what she deserves for not helping you and may you be helped and healed, fellow human 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@Alex-fk4lf thank you so much! well i told her at the time boyfriend or thing what he and what she said and he broke up with her or ended what they were doing because I am like his little sister. Thank you so much for your kind words. it means alot
@@kayleemcconnell5222 Its fine! My ex (who was and still my best friend) was raped by her uncle and she was scared to tell her family, and it also hurts me to know that people are getting raped, men or women. So I tried to help the raped victims, its all that I can do 😊
@@Alex-fk4lf I love that you help people out! It feels like no one cares anymore. When this happened to me I felt like no one cared that this had just happened to me.
@@kayleemcconnell5222 just know you're not alone on this okay! Someone will always be there to help you one day
thank you for making this i feel not alone now.
i was a child when it's happened, 5yo or something. the boy was about 4-5 years older, my mom was working all the time so that boy was the one who babysit me. he was my only friend and he made little me believe that it is just how friendship works. he sexually abused me every day. i then moved to another city and find friends my age (around 10-12). half of them used me. i was never saying yes or no. i was just thinking that this is how friendship works. i still feel so fake to call everything that happened to me a sexual abuse cause they were all kids too and i never really said no. it feels so stupid and not important.
It is important, first of all I want you to know that it is not your fault, secondly you are so brave to share your story and I hope you are doing ok, you deserve the best ❤
I agree that it is good you put male and female victims as well.
I remember watching a show and a teen male was getting SA at work by a much older women, he pointed it out and she responded with 'it doesn't count when it's a dude'
i cried so many times during this..
" i didnt know what was happening just that it hurt and it was wrong" oh dear GODS I've never related more
aw they really put the shows in the description :') tysm!
I have never had this happen to me but to anyone who has had it happen. You are strong, it wasn’t your fault, you are loved, and you deserve a lot better, no matter your gender, sexuality, race, or religion.
Okay I cried for like 1 hour after watching this
I-
I never thought..
I didn’t realise how hard this was for people...
I’m so sorry for everyone who had to go through this
Thats really painful and it stays with you for lifetime please be helpful to people going through this its really hard to live after this :(
I hope you are ok 💜.
2:30 was strong this video hit me so hard that this is the world we live in is so sad
best mum ever
My bestfriend was the most prettiest, kindest and bubbly girl I ever knew. She was nothing but a happy virus with a always smiling face but only till one day we got a call from hospital. And the girl lying on that bed was completelydifferent from who I knew. She was just staring at the ceiling like no life was there.. I don't even wanna remember the picture I saw that day...she lost herself.. From then on she was no longer that bubbly and smiley girl but literally begging us to let her go. She used to be a daddy's girl but now she even flinched every time their hand would touched. That dad is too no longer the positive man we knew.. the whole perfect family was broken in to pieces bcs of xxxxxx....It rly fvcking hurt to see her like that..
I too was raped. I didnt even know it affected me so bad until i actually left. It got so bad to the point that rather than blaming him, i was blaming myself for letting it happen. He manipulated me for so many years that i got used to saying it was my fault.
The fact that this can happen anywhere at anytime to anyone is genuinely devastating. If you have ever been through this, I am so so so sorry.
It's so sad that the society questions the victim not the criminal
Hey,I have read many of your stories in the comment section.....I am so sorry for what you girls and guys have went through....I cannot imagine the pain y'all have went through😢But remember you have done nothing wrong,no one can blame you....Stay strong, you'll meet someone who understands you and supports you throughout your lifetime ♥️If anyone needs to talk...this comment section is all about that.... we'll be with you... alwayss♥️
Lastly,I am so sorry for what this f*cking world has given to y'all 🙁Stay strong♥️
3:30 hit hard I got asked sexual questions and touched inappropriately by my cousin when I was 13 and he was 18, he never got in trouble what so ever cause there was no actual hard evidence cause it was on Snapchat and snap deletes everything it’s such a crushing feeling to be told that cause it already takes so so much courage to speak up about it. It’s a pain I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy 💔
This is heartbreaking. 🥺💔
(And thank you for adding where every scene and voice was from in the description)
I got rap3d by one of my classmates when I was just 13 (he was 17 that time), he did it in the bathroom of the last floor of the school when nobody was there. I told my mother about it and instead of helping me she just pushed me further aside, I told the director about what he did to me and he didn't believe me either and told me he I was just saying it because of "jealousy" and he even threatened me that if I said that kind of thing again he would expel me from school for "liar", I was alone, no one belived me and it really hurted me.. I had to stay with that pain for a long time.
I am so sorry for what you went through... I believe you. I'm a boy and I haven't been in a situation as you did but I understand the gravity of the situation. Your mum... and the director... I'm sorry it must have been so painful for you. I want you to know that you are so strong and so brave, sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I hope you are doing better, if not remember that you are amazing.