How To Get Men To Commit

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  • čas přidán 6. 04. 2014
  • www.davidwygant.com/women
    One of the things women ask me all the time is, "How do I get him to commit to me? What makes men want to commit? How do I know if he wants to settle down?"
    In this frank and revealing video, David Wygant (yours truly) and Patti Stanger "The Millionaire Matchmaker" introduce you to one of the most powerful relationship techniques ever released.
    This technique is gauranteed to seperate the men from the boys, and will have the right men fighting to get down to the nearest jewellery store to buy you THAT ring.
    It's a surprising "tactic" but one that Patti has never seen fail. You don't want to miss it. Once you've seen this video head over to www.davidwygant.com/women and pick up your free 27 minute video called, "How to Talk Men" and never wonder what he's thinking and feeling again. For FREE Advice, Click HERE: www.davidwygant.com/women/free...
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Komentáře • 54

  • @rondalake8847
    @rondalake8847 Před 10 lety +6

    I agree Patti, it's just disrespectful of these guys to NOT ask you. It's not even about marriage. It is about being respected. I mean, its not like we can't move it up and find a guy who's serious about us.

  • @jprimo2249
    @jprimo2249 Před 9 lety +6

    I absolutely love Patti and her advice for women. I myself have wasted so much time invested and loved these men that would not commit and tragically became very hurt.
    We women are emotional types thus need this guidance before someone else gets hurt. I'm over 60 and still learning, but I'm learning! Thank-you Patti & David!

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama5186 Před 4 lety +2

    Man oh man is she smart!

  • @maribelcarranza8069
    @maribelcarranza8069 Před 9 lety +6

    Best advice i've heard.

  • @wenusctis
    @wenusctis Před 9 lety +1

    Loved this tip!

  • @algala25
    @algala25 Před 8 lety +3

    Best video ever!!

  • @nareththoeun5136
    @nareththoeun5136 Před 3 lety

    I like all your shows.

  • @kirk1007
    @kirk1007 Před 3 lety

    Yall are SPOT ON In my opinion. But one thing I will ADD do not get taken for granted in the first place by making him a home etc

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ Před 9 lety +13

    Damn! She's 52?!

  • @josiesfitness8385
    @josiesfitness8385 Před 7 lety +1

    Dame so true you go girl and i love your necklace

  • @onangelwings462
    @onangelwings462 Před 6 lety +1

    I don't even think I want to get married again, who knows... now a day's you can't even find a real man that will just be in a real relationship without playing games and just be in a flippin real great relationship with ONE woman. I've never ever had this much trouble with men in my life.

  • @cryptomieko
    @cryptomieko Před 8 lety +2

    Hahaha hilarious and great advice! Love you guys! One thing...your intro music IS WAY TOO LOUD, please make it softer!

  • @TheOscarzepeda
    @TheOscarzepeda Před 8 lety +7

    Nama-freakin-ste !!!!! Love it !!!!!!!!

  • @barbilove1698
    @barbilove1698 Před 5 lety +3

    How can he be "the one" when he is USING YOU?!

    • @kirk1007
      @kirk1007 Před 3 lety

      I think it is often more of a case that we women.give too many husband's perks to a man and get taken for granted

  • @blurglide
    @blurglide Před 10 lety +3

    My God....I would so drop a woman who ordered me to buy a ring with that smarmy attitude...just as readily as you'd drop a guy who insists he want's to start fucking other women with a similar attitude. What a recipe for an unhealthy relationship- your attraction for him will plummet when he capitulates. You know how my girl got me to commit (not married...just dating exclusively for the first time in a long time)? By being better than the rest of the girls...independent, funny, beautiful, active, etc. After about four months she said she wanted to be exclusive or she was going to have to step back so she wasn't so emotionally invested, and she kind of went cold. I thought about it long and hard (like two weeks), and agreed because I valued her more than my promiscuity. I traded something I valued less for something I valued more. I think in a sense she valued me more as I was the first guy in a long time who wasn't busting her door down in hot pursuit. She knows I'm a man with a lot of options, just as she is a woman with a lot of options, and in the end I'm choosing her above all the others- not settling. What she did was not different in concept than what this woman is recommending, but in execution it couldn't be any further apart.

    • @CellGames2006
      @CellGames2006 Před 10 lety

      Interesting. So you say it was this girl who brought up the commitment part. Would you have been okay being as you were? or would you have brought up that you wanted to be exclusive?

    • @blurglide
      @blurglide Před 10 lety

      I would've preferred to be promiscuous but spend most of my time with her. She was better than the rest, but variety provides a different kind of satisfaction. That said, I wanted to spend most of my time with her, so I valued that more than my promiscuity. Still with her.

    • @CellGames2006
      @CellGames2006 Před 10 lety

      So staying single would have meant killing off over 50% of the time you loved so you considered it better to drop being single because it only affects the smaller half? Thanks. So that's what it takes...

    • @blurglide
      @blurglide Před 10 lety

      That makes zero sense. WTF are you trying to say?

    • @ishasingh8529
      @ishasingh8529 Před 7 lety

      I hate relationship

  • @L2design
    @L2design Před 9 lety +1

    LOVE YA PATTI! Great tips. I'm hoping to find my prince :D

  • @amelac9524
    @amelac9524 Před 6 lety

    what if you have a ring and been engage for 2 years but still no wedding date? what are your ladies thoughts on this

  • @hailiewalla3144
    @hailiewalla3144 Před 8 lety +1

    how do u get a guy to change from not being interested in marriage to want it?

  • @LourdesMartinez-kz3um
    @LourdesMartinez-kz3um Před 8 lety +2

    PATTYyyY!!!...let the man share his perspective, might learn something from a man point of view, otherwise why he's on this video for, other than that, I love her show.

  • @CellGames2006
    @CellGames2006 Před 10 lety +3

    All I heard was "blahblahblah ... hunter-gatherer ... blahblahblah... doesn't have to be a diamond, could be an amethyst".

  • @wyniedrew6868
    @wyniedrew6868 Před 8 lety

    I definitely agree with what the others are commenting about Konevita Jelken’s site. After googling her and reading what she had to say, something clicked within me, and I’ve never been the same since with my man at my side.

  • @psan62js
    @psan62js Před 6 lety

    I did that exactly what you say and he left me for 2 years then rinse and repeat the next 3 years and now I want to just leave it as now he says he is too busy......and he is 58

  • @thegamingshow4261
    @thegamingshow4261 Před 7 lety

    What do you say to a women when she says to be classy. Does that mean she's done talking to you.

  • @brittneydonner4604
    @brittneydonner4604 Před 6 lety

    There's so much crazy talk (not this video) on the net about relationships it gets confusing and disheartening sometimes. Can’t pinpoint exactly what it is that works so well by reading Nelly Bentlonar's Commitment paper to "wake him up" and make him love you like no other.... but to each her own :)

  • @romeohabbi3593
    @romeohabbi3593 Před 9 lety +5

    All I hear is what the women want not what the woman and the man want together.

    • @msexlexi1606
      @msexlexi1606 Před 7 lety +1

      romeo habbi, there are coaches devoted to what men want, and also some for both together. You're just listening to the wrong ones, but it goes to show, you see what you want, even if it's too prove a negative point.

  • @1963zinnia
    @1963zinnia Před 6 lety

    Patti is not a team player! She should let him talk and not cut him short!

  • @YksiSuomalainen
    @YksiSuomalainen Před 9 lety +4

    No. This is just bat shit crazy. This is extortion. If a woman tries to play these mind games with you just leave her. She will do this again and again and again later on and it will be a living hell. Better to just get a new sane woman.

    • @aldfjak
      @aldfjak Před 7 lety +1

      if you are a guy and can't commit within a year then you are not serious in the first place and should have never entered into a serious relationship. I actually think it is sound advice because i see too many crappy relationships where the people aren't happy but they stay together just cause when there is someone 100% better for them out there

  • @internetgirl100
    @internetgirl100 Před 6 lety +3

    If you need to do these things to force a man to marry you, the marriage will not last. He is going to resent you and use it against you for the rest of your life.

    • @drbassface
      @drbassface Před 6 lety

      internetgirl100 YES! My now ex Wife read a book called Jow to marry the man of your choice.
      She Love bombed me and Sex bombed me.
      Not one argument until after the marriage. Then she completely changed from my Lover into “trying” to be my “Boss”.
      You are right...when she actually showed me this book...it all made sense, and damn straight...I resented being duped and tricked into locked my myself into a Loveless and sexless and affection less life with her....
      Even after 10 years of counseling she still thought kindness was not important.
      MGTOW is becoming the new norm due to this deception.

  • @Jen_l_g
    @Jen_l_g Před 8 lety +5

    These sneaky games are the reason some women will never marry.

    • @Queensofafrica8
      @Queensofafrica8 Před 7 lety +6

      It's not sneaky
      The saying goes "you never miss the water until the well runs dry"
      Men get comfortable
      If they see that they lost the love of their life, they might step up
      If they don't, they aren't worth it
      People never know the value of something until they don't have it anymore!!!!

  • @barbilove1698
    @barbilove1698 Před 5 lety +1

    I do not like this guy 😪👎

  • @coolkech
    @coolkech Před 10 lety +1

    She talks to much and wouldn't let David talk annoying

  • @ashwoods21
    @ashwoods21 Před 9 lety +2

    Why do they need to get married. It's too risky for men to get married these days. Marriage involves money and love. When the love is gone money is the only thing that is left and women will take you to the cleaners. The family courts will probably take the kids away too. Men only seeing them every other weekend. DONT GET MARRIED MEN PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DONT DO IT.

    • @aldfjak
      @aldfjak Před 7 lety +5

      then tell the women upfront that you never want to get married. don't string her along!