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  • @therealevilmudbug
    @therealevilmudbug Před rokem +653

    Society: "Don't be poor"
    Society: *Is designed to steal all your monies*

    • @bdsmgaming3627
      @bdsmgaming3627 Před rokem +76

      You're confused but you got the spirit! Our governments are wasting 15-29% of our income on useless things

    • @deltaruneman
      @deltaruneman Před rokem +15

      @@bdsmgaming3627 serious

    • @Exiga445
      @Exiga445 Před rokem

      ​@@bdsmgaming3627 Well it's the government who run society

    • @franze4
      @franze4 Před rokem

      our government steals our money by making us pay taxes just to nuke poor underdeveloped countries🦅🦅🦅🇱🇷

    • @deltaruneman
      @deltaruneman Před rokem +7

      Why tf did I say that

  • @nillypc42
    @nillypc42 Před rokem +2442

    A new Tommy video is either about a relatable subject or about topics that matter for the collective minds of society to listen to.

  • @Sauce_packet74
    @Sauce_packet74 Před rokem +2429

    We all know all that pressure goes away when tommy posts

  • @thatverseguy
    @thatverseguy Před rokem +1390

    This video is straight facts. A nice balance of pressures is a good thing, too much of it does no help to anyone but people still need to remember the real world is not nice like that. You can get anywhere if you put your mind to it, just remember to be a respectable human being along the whole way.

  • @louis3586
    @louis3586 Před rokem +286

    honestly community college is underrated. yeah it sucks that you feel distant from everyone but it’s better than going to an expensive university and being in debt before you even get out

  • @Mari_sUniverse
    @Mari_sUniverse Před rokem +259

    Facts. And I'll prove it. I'm a psychologist right. So for my final year project, I conducted a study on social pressure and depression amongst Gen Z. It was conducted with members of the Gen Z age cohort in college and high school.
    The results showed that kids in public schools (Nigerian public schools) faced little to no pressure in life and so they were more care free and happier compared to their private school counterparts. Private school kids were so depressed, I actually cried while looking at their responses to the questionnaire.
    College students was another ball game all together. Almost everyone was depressed. All because of the pressure they were facing. Mostly from their parents and society. The expectations were so high that some people lost hope in themselves.
    Societal pressure is no joke and should honestly be talked about more.

    • @briann3211
      @briann3211 Před rokem +21

      Bro those are straight facts, when I lived in Honduras, I studied in a private school and even tho we were in a private school, i feel like my classmates and myself had way more social pressure than Kids that went to public school, most of the Kids that went to public school were just chilling after school meanwhile us private school Kids were all fucking stressed out because of the amount of useless homework that those teachers gave us.

    • @bigpapi6688
      @bigpapi6688 Před rokem +5

      I’m a freshman in college, and while my parents are amazing and I have no qualms with how they’ve raised me at all, society in general is fucked. My car broke down and I legitimately thought I’d have to drop out and move back home because the price to get a new engine was more than I spent on the car in the first place a couple years ago. And it’s a decent car! I bought it in 2018, it’s a 2014 Mustang, and that four year old sports car was cheaper than an engine is now. You used to be able to buy a new car in cash with a part time job. Luckily my mom let me borrow one of her old cars and offered to buy the engine if I pay her back and move home to work over the summer. Every major issue I’ve had since moving out has either been solved by my parents or they’ve given me a plan on how to fix it. But God forbid if I wasn’t born with great parents, society doesn’t care like your parents do, and unfortunately some kids my age are already on their own

    • @Arknjoyer
      @Arknjoyer Před 11 měsíci +2

      Yeah and I'm a millionaire.....not

    • @idaoii
      @idaoii Před 4 měsíci

      Can I get a tldr

    • @Bobbiez_editz
      @Bobbiez_editz Před 3 měsíci +1

      Exactly i live in nigeria, and im currently is ss2 and my teachers just keep stressing the fuck out of me

  • @pplord3170
    @pplord3170 Před rokem +88

    Bro it’s especially the foreign parents who think without going to college you’re going to live a crappy life

    • @ernie9538
      @ernie9538 Před rokem +3

      Ong

    • @ernie9538
      @ernie9538 Před rokem +1

      @Truth Seeker You are forgetting about traits

    • @Rowboating
      @Rowboating Před rokem +4

      @@ernie9538 Trades are great, but a majority of people aren’t suited for them and it requires a lot of hard work and manual labour. So, it rules out a good chunk of people. But if people want to go ahead, then sure

    • @ChurchofUnitologyOfficial
      @ChurchofUnitologyOfficial Před rokem +6

      I think it's mainly because a lot of foreign parents are from either a.) wartorn or poverty-stricken countries where education is valued but inaccessible, or b.) countries like China or Japan where going to college is seen as the only way to go about having a happy, decent future.

  • @omri9982
    @omri9982 Před rokem +85

    Society expects too much of people, it’s no wonder so many people are constantly busy and have no time for themselves.

    • @nelsama0881
      @nelsama0881 Před rokem +8

      Absolutly, and if you say "f*ck it, I dont want to do that" then you are the biggest monster similair in threat to the collosal titan from Attack on Titan just because in their eyes you are a brat or something.

  • @grandpacereal1549
    @grandpacereal1549 Před rokem +482

    Parents/Adults really think that when you reach a certain age, you have to be this amazing social butterfly that always goes out and socializes with everyone because every event is soooo interesting and we need participate in all and every event there is!!
    Ugh.

    • @joeltaylorthethird5443
      @joeltaylorthethird5443 Před rokem +62

      im not really defending them but we are two completly diff generation, especially if they were born in a 3 or 4 world country

    • @amaze_z1953
      @amaze_z1953 Před rokem +19

      Your parents want you to have a fulfilling life though

    • @cometcal7387
      @cometcal7387 Před rokem +40

      @Truth Seeker sounds tiring ngl
      plus not everyone has to be that so-called "social butterfly"

    • @grandpacereal1549
      @grandpacereal1549 Před rokem +57

      @@amaze_z1953 how do they know what a fulfilling life would look like for me?

    • @projectx7453
      @projectx7453 Před rokem

      F

  • @alyscoffeeguy
    @alyscoffeeguy Před rokem +581

    My mom always pressured me in to doing sports. She wanted me to be like my sisters. So she made me do gymnastics, cheerleadeing, and track. I didn't wanna do any of them, but I selted with track since I was a good sprinter. I didn't wanna tell her that I didn't wanna do sports, but I was scared she make to be my fault that I was the problem. So I just never said anything. Now she's been less pushy, but still trying to make me do sports.

    • @JohnBillow
      @JohnBillow Před rokem +81

      You might have to let her know at some point

    • @harshmalhari8519
      @harshmalhari8519 Před rokem +66

      My mom was like that too. I loved playing sports, but school team sports made sports not fun.

    • @ElectrikStatik900
      @ElectrikStatik900 Před rokem +48

      @@JohnBillow I agree, they need to be able to decide their own life.

    • @hatman9609
      @hatman9609 Před rokem +30

      @@imnotalwaysright84you should be 18 when you start looking for a wife, you don’t need to get married that early

    • @gimmeyourrights8292
      @gimmeyourrights8292 Před rokem +26

      ​@ImNotalwaysRight 23 more like.

  • @KoreaMoment
    @KoreaMoment Před rokem +656

    Came in looking for memes, came out with a newfound faith in humanity. (or at least confirmation that there are at least decent people left here) good job man.

  • @jeremymunene5304
    @jeremymunene5304 Před rokem +142

    It's also quite sad how we treat each other like robots and expect one another to go through the same patterns of behaviour and all of a sudden be happy. Without actually looking at what this individual really needs mentally, physically, spirituality and so on, like any human being should. But at least we are recognizing these cycles now and can change them.

  • @gimmeyourrights8292
    @gimmeyourrights8292 Před rokem +241

    I'm 19 too and there is a goal that I'm pushing to achieve but the problem is actually finding the motivation to work through it.

    • @Tr1xx
      @Tr1xx Před rokem +28

      I'm 19 too and my only goal is to graduate community College with a computer science degree

    • @evanmaldonado9799
      @evanmaldonado9799 Před rokem +16

      keep going king, you’ve got this

    • @femboydoja3760
      @femboydoja3760 Před rokem +12

      I just turned 20 and idk if I should start college

    • @T-Trux
      @T-Trux Před rokem +6

      @@Tr1xx same but for an engineering degree

    • @iskandaramanbinazlan3234
      @iskandaramanbinazlan3234 Před rokem +4

      I am 19 too
      I feeling the same way too

  • @tobyspeight193
    @tobyspeight193 Před rokem +36

    The worst type of societal pressure is relationship pressure..
    In the media, in public etc all you ever see are people in loving relationships while your always alone which makes you feel left out and unloved

  • @daveholechko874
    @daveholechko874 Před rokem +216

    I did community college for two years honestly the best decision of my life smaller class rooms, Learning skills you may of not been able to learn because the high school itself was on crack. Plus being someone who was a little bit slower than everyone. It taught me the basis of how to do college based papers and finishing them five weeks before the actual due date giving me amply time to edit the paper and getting an easy A in the classes. Now that I have transferred to an actual University all the year two and freshman look for me to advice. While at the same time the professor love having conversations with me.

    • @mushroompot8931
      @mushroompot8931 Před rokem +32

      I'm really proud of you man! You kept it slow and steady instead of pushing yourself witch could have lead to a burnout.

    • @cubycube9924
      @cubycube9924 Před 5 měsíci

      Me personally I learn things crazy fast which also demotivates me from doing anything💀

  • @jbeezy31
    @jbeezy31 Před rokem +146

    Ive felt so pressured in my life that I’ve been wearing a mask for over a 1 year in middle school because I get judged for how I look and other things like that. Seeing someone agree with what I’ve had to deal with and not put a random.

    • @johndalasfox6077
      @johndalasfox6077 Před rokem +5

      Pressure makes diamonds

    • @deprecated8036
      @deprecated8036 Před rokem +6

      @@johndalasfox6077 Nah bruh it takes more than just pressure

    • @PumpyGT
      @PumpyGT Před rokem +1

      @@johndalasfox6077 Balance is the key

    • @bdsmgaming3627
      @bdsmgaming3627 Před rokem +5

      @@johndalasfox6077 or pressure sometimes just crushes you, best thing to do is to ignore them and focus on maxing yourself

    • @PaulBorobia1619
      @PaulBorobia1619 Před 4 měsíci

      Don't wear a mask

  • @Jaydens.Motivation
    @Jaydens.Motivation Před rokem +228

    In my senior year of high school. There was these people that would help us with college, and they would never take no for an answer. I was debating about college until they just ruined it for me.

  • @angryboi595
    @angryboi595 Před rokem +54

    The fact I’m 13 and already worrying about what I’m gonna do past 18 because all my teachers stress me and pressure me on college and my future because they expect me to be super successful or I’ll be homeless and bad if I don’t do college is crazy, even my mother talks about how I’m gonna do my future and discuss to me about how I’m gonna solve money issues, LIKE IM 13, IM TOO YOUNG TOO BE THINKING ABOUT THAT! At least tell me about that shit when I’m 15, I’m basically still a child, I only turned 13 a month ago so I’m very early in teenage age, I should not be thinking about this yet people like to pressure this shit on me! This video genuinely helped me

    • @hoovy1163
      @hoovy1163 Před rokem +15

      "why are they all so depressed? it must be the phones!"

    • @Malyt538
      @Malyt538 Před rokem +8

      @@hoovy1163exactly and then they wonder why some people end up committing suicide and shit the amount of pressure that’s put on people in society is ridiculous

    • @RachelRosewood
      @RachelRosewood Před rokem +4

      I'm 16 and not really liking living with the stress of the future and what I'm going to do. This is not a happy funny moment I'm living rn☹️

    • @nelsama0881
      @nelsama0881 Před rokem +1

      I feel sorry for you! I had that pressure in my school too and hated it to it's guts...

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Před rokem +1

      lol I'm 17 and still have no idea what to do

  • @grengrenhuskey
    @grengrenhuskey Před rokem +45

    Trade school is probably the best alternative to college. In my electrical school, you could tell the teacher you were gonna be late and he’d wait on you cuz he understands that life gets in the way. He cuts all bullshit, talks very directly and plainly, and cracks jokes. He even told us about good plans for the future (like Solar being the future, or how much HVAC pays), sometimes we’d even get out early if he finishes the teaching for the day faster than expected. Best teacher I’ve had.

  • @Batman-tl3gh
    @Batman-tl3gh Před rokem +70

    When I stop following what society wants I started to become better than society desire. I don't get why this world wants you to be like a God but that's not you, just be who you want to be and don't listen to what others said on who you should be. Don't let them think for you , think for yourself.

    • @writemeontele_gramLetsdig1836
      @writemeontele_gramLetsdig1836 Před rokem

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  • @zombiekidcrazy
    @zombiekidcrazy Před rokem +43

    My friends are pressuring me to make an Instagram to get girls. Quite honestly, I think it's pointless. Why do I need to show off my life to others just so that they could see the type of person I am? Isn't the point of social media to curate your profile and show your life at its highest point? I don't think it would even come close to showing who you really are. And why would I want to look at other peoples lives? So that I can feel shitty about my own? No thanks.

    • @maxgoldstein7202
      @maxgoldstein7202 Před rokem +8

      Yeah don't do it. Social media was a fucking BLIGHT on my mental health for quite a handful of years.

    • @TheyWantMeGone69
      @TheyWantMeGone69 Před rokem +5

      Hit the nail right on the head.

    • @Malyt538
      @Malyt538 Před rokem

      Love seeing comments like this don’t do it don’t install it the app is completely fucking pointless and you will regret doing so good job kid.

  • @jeremymunene5304
    @jeremymunene5304 Před rokem +37

    The pressure never stops, but I always remember life is not guaranteed. I could die tomorrow, so I live for today, and do as I want. Not saying I don't plan for the next year's or work hard, but I make sure I do it for myself first and foremost.

    • @parnellomello
      @parnellomello Před rokem +1

      Don't use this excuse.. you'll regret it a lot later down the line with this mindset🤦

  • @randybudderknubs5152
    @randybudderknubs5152 Před rokem +25

    I'm a senior and I'm failing school. Thanks for making this video. It reminds me that my life isn't chosen by a letter on a paper.

  • @reformedorthodoxmunmanquara

    College is an overhyped scam. Nobody will convince me to go to college. I’ll be a dumbass if it means I don’t go to college. Also thank you for the preach at the end, very motivational

    • @robertgardner05
      @robertgardner05 Před rokem +21

      what are you planning on doing instead?

    • @funnyman4744
      @funnyman4744 Před rokem +88

      Okay, just go to trade school, a boot camp, or get a degree in something literally any other way. If you have a business opportunity that you are passionate about, getting a certification in a topic related to it/it will help you massively.

    • @Duhgel
      @Duhgel Před rokem +40

      I would rather do no more school, fuck that shit

    • @gamercentral2417
      @gamercentral2417 Před rokem +91

      @@Duhgel nah you actually need school

    • @dominothealphaandomega5512
      @dominothealphaandomega5512 Před rokem +7

      @@robertgardner05 I myself am planning to Become an Author, A Web Author. A private Author, I’m pretty sure that I won’t need some Degree for That

  • @ninyaninjabrifsanovichthes45

    As a history major in college, I can attest that what you do is infinitely more useful than any historian that has ever lived.

  • @-1000_damage
    @-1000_damage Před rokem +32

    I hate being pressured into doing shit I probably couldn’t care less about but because my peers won’t stfu about it, I do it just so they can add more shit for me to do to satisfy whatever they see me as in their head and if I don’t do it I’m a disappointment and an outcast I just want the simple life I don’t care about fame, I hate people.

    • @TheyWantMeGone69
      @TheyWantMeGone69 Před rokem +6

      Peers....smh hate that word. It's looming over us trying to suggest that it means friends when it doesn't.

  • @salmonsimon431
    @salmonsimon431 Před rokem +135

    Also some may say: Go and study something that you like and love. And all I can say is, no. Don't do that. Think twice. Because there's a difference between liking something and being good at something. Others might be born with both. And some of us not. Like my case, I persuade IT diploma because I like computers and want to make games and stuff, but once I start studying it, it's tedious, boring and hard to catch up as hell especially when you're weak at maths. Coding? Oh boy you better have chips installed in your brain because at my place, we'll have paper test and you need to write string of codes down on paper. Glad that sem is over.
    But what im trying to say is, try to do something that you are good at, you may not like it as much as the other thing but in life, just because you liked something doesn't mean you can be good at it or can handle it. Without realizing you might actually be good at what you hate or has least interest on can because of that you get the upper hand, like a cheat code to boost your way up and somehow make bucks. Remember don't blindly follow what you like instead learn to judge yourself in a healthy way and and decide which subjects fit you and the least pain in the ass for you to handle. It's okey to think about the future but don't go overboard with it like thinking what job you'll get etc. The beard will COME, you just need to set your priorities straight in what you're currently facing. In the beginning you might hate it, but you'll grow to love it. And the opposite, in the beginning you might love it, but you'll grow to hate it.
    Plan smart, not plan hard. Keep being the best version of yourself Kings and Queens.

    • @sambenham1945
      @sambenham1945 Před rokem +7

      Read this in Tommy’s voice for some reason

    • @kaikem8649
      @kaikem8649 Před rokem +7

      go study what you like and love means that you study in what you like doing. if you want to make video games and you go into the IT field without learning what the IT field is about, then how do you expect everything to go your ways?

    • @krsmanjovanovic8607
      @krsmanjovanovic8607 Před rokem +3

      @@kaikem8649 exactly, I am an artist and I know that in order to be good at drawing whatever I want I have to practice a lot everyday and do boring line drawing excercises on begining of each session, but I do it because I love to draw, its like a relationship

    • @kittypeanut4102
      @kittypeanut4102 Před rokem +3

      @ImNotalwaysRight no. You should start thinking about your happiness and how do you want to live.

    • @jellybeanie151
      @jellybeanie151 Před rokem +1

      Good advice but some people may be different. I believe you can like something enough to grow to be skilled somewhere but it requires a *huge* amount of persistence and vigilance. It would be better to try out related tasks/internships/whatever to gauge if you would want to do something for life rather than weighing options. The problem with the pressure of career paths is the stress on thinking, when really its better to be doing and proving what works and what doesn't for us.

  • @Xenowave
    @Xenowave Před rokem +30

    4:50 Yeah, community college is an absolute W. I took 2 years of community college and got my associates--then transferred to university to finish my bachelors. I must have saved about $40k in loans by NOT going to university all 4 years. And the funniest thing to me is that I feel like I got a better quality of education at my community college than my university. 😵‍💫

  • @n64briel
    @n64briel Před rokem +8

    The "kids are trying to act too grown up nowadays" had the most impact on me ive ever had, I just stopped doing what i like, i stopped showiing my real emotions and try to act thougher and say innaproppiatte things like my other homies all just to fit in.

  • @patriotic_car5944
    @patriotic_car5944 Před rokem +10

    I am a proud Android user

  • @MexicanBrodies
    @MexicanBrodies Před rokem +101

    Tommy, idk why but your videos make me laugh so much. Thank you

  • @RaymartPlayz
    @RaymartPlayz Před rokem +9

    Remember, if you fall in life, stand up, brush yourself up, never give up, and say "Fuck it we ball."

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      @writemeontele_gramLetsdig1836 Před rokem

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  • @Success3012A
    @Success3012A Před rokem +16

    *Society explaining why cheaper devices with better usability andmore functions are inferior to expensive phones that are the same as 4 year old phones*

  • @TitanTubs
    @TitanTubs Před rokem +24

    Strive for the crap you want. In all things it better to hope than dispair. Don't be constantly looking for others for their opinions / validation

  • @HassleHoffer372
    @HassleHoffer372 Před rokem +13

    That kid eating his booger literally traumatised me

    • @gina-zb9ye
      @gina-zb9ye Před rokem +1

      LITERALLY LIKE WHY WAS HE STARING SO MENACINGLY 😂

  • @slimetino
    @slimetino Před rokem +99

    When you mentioned time I really became grateful for this channel and life in general thank you tommy I hope we all grow into the better version of ourselves.

  • @Rainjojo
    @Rainjojo Před rokem +8

    I’ve learned that succumbing to pressure leads to failure- even when you conform with the “norm” people will always find something to judge because they’re miserable with their own lives.
    You go to college but realized your certain career could’ve been taught online or for a school with lower tuition, but stayed for the sake of reputation which no one cares about in the actual job industry. You earn a job but don’t make time to enjoy your own hobbies now that people are asking you to get a date, get out more, or when you’ll be married.
    Then you spend tons of money on marriage only to see the relationship fall out and now you’re a divorced parent with kids and have to work 10x more to pay off your eternal debts you “thought” were necessary for survival. Such an unfulfilling life I wouldn’t wanna see myself into :/

  • @KingOfTheMonsters07
    @KingOfTheMonsters07 Před rokem +23

    We truly live in a society.

  • @TheSarcasticHuman
    @TheSarcasticHuman Před rokem +17

    Shoutout to all the parents for knowing we're guaranteed to suffer in this life and still gave birth to us that's some real shit 💯🔥

  • @samocali
    @samocali Před rokem +57

    Such a great message to spread. More people need to hear this :)

  • @RawanTalks
    @RawanTalks Před rokem +8

    me being a senior and I still don’t know what I want to study in college is stressing me out and makes me have breakdowns every now and then💀

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      @writemeontele_gramLetsdig1836 Před rokem

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    • @niggasgang8784
      @niggasgang8784 Před rokem

      You good

  • @shantoyraffington5459
    @shantoyraffington5459 Před rokem +7

    0:14 made me break down in tears bro

  • @sunablast
    @sunablast Před rokem +13

    3:38 LOL!!!!!!!!

  • @materG360
    @materG360 Před rokem +28

    Well said Tommy I’m only 23 & I ain’t got shit figured out but I got faith in my longevity ik imma run it up real soon 🙏🏾

  • @A_Cosmo_Naut
    @A_Cosmo_Naut Před rokem +11

    "Low-key speaking facts fr"
    -Martin Luther King Jr

  • @Mr_Tux794
    @Mr_Tux794 Před rokem +15

    We truly do live in a society

  • @littlestewart
    @littlestewart Před rokem +7

    7:55 bro just spittin it, nah politicians are too crazy they be gone in the next 10 years and leave with some shit snd war fighting each others.

    • @Tr1xx
      @Tr1xx Před rokem

      Fr, I hate both sides of political. They both spew bullshit

  • @blackqweenmars
    @blackqweenmars Před rokem +12

    I’m not pressure too much by others but I’m pressured a lot by myself based on what I feel I should be doing. Pressure can be a good thing but it can be pretty stressful too. I feel like I’m boring and that I should be better but I’m not doing enough and I constantly compare myself to others and I take everything like a challenge. I challenge myself to be superior other people which is a good thing because I’m working on myself and making myself better but also a not so good thing.

  • @dozerjohn
    @dozerjohn Před rokem +6

    I am 39 years old and this dude is spitting straight facts, boomers have zero clue what young folk got to deal with days and I get into arguments with them all the time, next time I will just send this video hahaha

  • @Young_Astronomer
    @Young_Astronomer Před rokem +50

    Honestly when Tommy uploads it just makes our days better, bro's content is so frickin entertaining, Bro could make an episode about how he hates wind and it will be so fun.

  • @am5411803
    @am5411803 Před rokem +11

    5:38 calm down man you contribute for our entertainment

  • @evanmaldonado9799
    @evanmaldonado9799 Před rokem +7

    Man, what you’re talking about is exactly what’s been on my mind these days.

  • @venepskeuten9206
    @venepskeuten9206 Před rokem +5

    Fella's always make ur own choices. Within the constraints that life places on ya'll of course.
    Don't worry to much about greatness and shit. Barely anyone is lucky enough to reach it. Just focus on gaining/maintaining what you need and finding a semblance of peace/satisfaction in life.
    Those are my expectations for you.
    Have a good one and always remember:
    Everyone is a loser even if they don't admit to it. Except for my local homeless guy bertus. He's cool.

  • @faeyzaihsanulfikri9975
    @faeyzaihsanulfikri9975 Před rokem +7

    This is extremely relatable sometimes we just want to freeze time just so we can enjoy life without worrying about a single thing

  • @femboydoja3760
    @femboydoja3760 Před rokem +9

    2 years ago I had a break down that I didn't get accepted into a college and all my friends were already ahead of me.. I was the youngest of my classmates back in 2020
    Rn I'm saving money and Appling to several colleges in case one doesn't work out and FAFSA, I'm 20 and Im gonna be okay, met this 23yo girl from Romania who is a freshman and helped me quite a bit
    I like to head to uni btw :3

  • @zackanderson7440
    @zackanderson7440 Před rokem +9

    due to me getting sick when i was reaching around 18, I now have guardianship to help me until i can deal with all this. thanks mom and dad!

  • @bestbuy4436
    @bestbuy4436 Před rokem +6

    That booger kid in the beginning caught me so off guard

  • @lautarogroel2547
    @lautarogroel2547 Před rokem +17

    The motivational speaker we didn't know we needed

  • @sharkpunchingmansharkpunch5129

    1:16 Green is just a better color than blue. Why would you want to downgrade to a worse color?

  • @Pxrfxct007
    @Pxrfxct007 Před rokem +18

    Dis man extremely underated, he deserves more subs

  • @aterix_1193
    @aterix_1193 Před rokem +5

    Like my parents forced me to grow up fast now that i have a year left to decide wtf i want to do and i feel like i didnt enjoy my childhood enough

  • @luana.cvsjsy
    @luana.cvsjsy Před rokem +19

    When Tommy posts you already know it's gonna be a good day

  • @khumokwezimashapa2245
    @khumokwezimashapa2245 Před rokem +7

    I dealt with these pressures in a... very dark way. It works, but at the cost of people questioning my sanity

  • @jaziecult
    @jaziecult Před rokem +10

    dude everytime you upload. stuff that happens in my life disappears for how long your video is, it's just relatable. thanks tommy!

  • @flolfiest
    @flolfiest Před rokem +6

    This video is great despite crashing my mood with the college talk.

  • @gideonadug3916
    @gideonadug3916 Před rokem +7

    5:33 Woah woah woah CZcamsrs aren't useless to society. Depending one how they use their platform they can teach people how to act and rase awareness of whats happening.

  • @micahmoore2466
    @micahmoore2466 Před rokem +5

    6:09 caught me off guard

  • @lil_flaw__
    @lil_flaw__ Před rokem +4

    idk why, but the title makes me think about the r/im14andthisisdeep subreddit and the "we live in a society" shit

  • @mango_c00kie67
    @mango_c00kie67 Před rokem +8

    ive reached a point where sleeping 3 hours for grades and other stuff is almost daily and i live only to see the next weekend, vacation/break or even just the next day

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      @writemeontele_gramLetsdig1836 Před rokem

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    • @G59forlife.
      @G59forlife. Před rokem

      Same except I sleep 5 hours because of insomnia

  • @splitsee2526
    @splitsee2526 Před rokem +8

    I am 15 and I quit middle school in 8th grade (also has autism) ever since I quit I have gotten hate from everyone that wasn't my parents, my brother says that I am not gonna make it in life before 20
    This video really did make me think hard about it and I realised that I need no worries besides my health, it is the most important thing in the world, then Homeschool and then CZcams/Gaming
    This video gave me hope to do this and not be super rich but atleast get good enough cash for my life

    • @Dukdits
      @Dukdits Před rokem

      Wtf stop lying bro you literally make no sense

    • @lulonke3
      @lulonke3 Před rokem +5

      nah bro go to school you're legit 15

    • @bruurb786
      @bruurb786 Před 4 měsíci

      im 15 and i must question how and why you even came to this point and what even are your plans for the future

    • @splitsee2526
      @splitsee2526 Před 4 měsíci

      @@bruurb786 idk

    • @bruurb786
      @bruurb786 Před 4 měsíci

      @@splitsee2526 bruh its been a year you still dont know😭😭😭

  • @idiotnyn
    @idiotnyn Před rokem +7

    2:30 based, prison industrial complex isn't talked about enough

  • @ramadongordany3739
    @ramadongordany3739 Před rokem +5

    That pacer test had me like sonic and pushing down everyone that didn't hit 70

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      @writemeontele_gramLetsdig1836 Před rokem

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  • @josephlester7068
    @josephlester7068 Před rokem +4

    as a person whos future who wants to be a doctor in the future, im probs never even gonna be a doctor cause i suck at society and then ill be a fat discord moderator.

  • @toko8480
    @toko8480 Před rokem +6

    Tommy’s Joker Arc begins

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  • @ROBZofficial
    @ROBZofficial Před rokem +2

    Bro this video could not have been recommended to me at a better time in my life. I've been feeling really under the weather and depressed lately because I've been stressed out as FUCK by pretty much all the things you talked about in this video and more. Watching this let me take a step back from everything and just have a good laugh about it all, and now I feel better already :) genuinely thank you bro for making this, it's nice to be able to relate to and feel validated by somebody who's walking the same general path I am in this life.

  • @TheClassyDuck
    @TheClassyDuck Před rokem +2

    Whenever I saw the tiltle society expectations I immediately of all of those stupid joker things that are like "society doesn't except me" what has the internet done to me

  • @AMhockey
    @AMhockey Před rokem +3

    I cant even explain how relatable the part about google duo was.

  • @Abyssxll
    @Abyssxll Před rokem +6

    i wonder what his search history looks like after the phenomenal amount of images in the video

  • @delta4429
    @delta4429 Před rokem +2

    A whole video about society without a single joker reference.
    Respect

  • @patrickgilhuly06
    @patrickgilhuly06 Před rokem +2

    “Your classmates see your hard. Your homies sees your hard. Your crush sees your hard. Your teacher sees your hard. Life is hard.” 😂 Speaking as a high school sophomore, that’s pretty much middle school in a nutshell

  • @ukukyyg
    @ukukyyg Před rokem +3

    It’s not society’s fault it’s a person who doesn’t wish to do something and work hard

  • @nightwatch3889
    @nightwatch3889 Před rokem +6

    You're one of the most entertaining CZcamsrs on the platform, keep up the good work.

  • @ShadowIscat
    @ShadowIscat Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this upload, there are some really true and relatable topics mentioned here.

  • @axelsgf
    @axelsgf Před rokem +2

    Felt so pressured and stressed out during HS i ended up dropping out and ppl instantly look at me like a ant like dayum idgaf its my choice not yours mfs act like im gonna end up as a homeless dr*g addict we all have our own paths i just turned 18 i still got a whole life ahead to worry abt

  • @LoneE.
    @LoneE. Před rokem +3

    thanks bro I needeed this rn

  • @Anoneko1720_
    @Anoneko1720_ Před rokem +4

    I can unwind know hearing Tommy talk about society

  • @nicoles_handle
    @nicoles_handle Před rokem +5

    really enjoy your channel. other commentary channels just get into doom posting territory, and yours just feels fun

  • @blakecox2179
    @blakecox2179 Před rokem +10

    This man is spitting facts!

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  • @corndawgtabrocker6969
    @corndawgtabrocker6969 Před rokem +4

    Tommy speaking the straightest facts I've ever seen

  • @Mr.Demon676
    @Mr.Demon676 Před rokem +3

    8:27 is so relateable my friend thinks hes gonna me a millionare by making roblox games and when hes doing that he sometimes doesnt even talk to me

  • @heatseeker3725
    @heatseeker3725 Před rokem +2

    Your vids are so relatable bruv, love your content my man 💪🏾

  • @ChickenJoe788
    @ChickenJoe788 Před rokem +1

    This is actually a very good and relatable topic to talk about, thank you very much Tommy

  • @SkepticSkepto
    @SkepticSkepto Před rokem +4

    Damn, to be honest I only go to college because no one else in my family had the chance to. I kinda just hope and pray that I get the future I want

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  • @blueryai
    @blueryai Před rokem +8

    W millionaire

  • @1REDGOBLIN
    @1REDGOBLIN Před rokem +1

    Dude im downbad rn ( flu, seasonal depression and mdma crash combined) and this video really helped me, thanks man.

  • @baconboy6333
    @baconboy6333 Před rokem +2

    If I could absorb all the stress that my favorite CZcamsrs have and replace it with my happiness, I would be completely sad. No friends, no happiness, and just tired.

  • @gandalainsley6467
    @gandalainsley6467 Před rokem +3

    Why did you put that bugger eating part? You traumatized me.

  • @durak4371
    @durak4371 Před rokem +5

    8:35 i was worried about money at young age because i grew up with a single mother with minimum wage in fkin Mongolia(very poor country) to add insult to injury i grew up in a time where mongolia was at its poorest

  • @lyrichg8298
    @lyrichg8298 Před rokem +2

    This man has got to be the most sane person on youtube rn

  • @supermoralesbros
    @supermoralesbros Před rokem +1

    congrats for hitting 300k tommy. It's been a great year for the channel