My Mom Talks About Her Abusive Past... | Let's Talk Pendejadas Podcast | S1E21

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  • čas přidán 27. 11. 2022
  • As Danny Grew Up he had experience a lot of the bullying and the abuse from his father and his fathers family. We dive in a little further into Dannys trauma and where it started it all... with is mother.
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Komentáře • 415

  • @IrmititsXo
    @IrmititsXo Před rokem +1275

    You guys unfortunately I wasn’t able to be apart of this episode due to being sick! I did want Danny and his mom to share this moment together and share their story! 💛💛💛

  • @diegomontano5692
    @diegomontano5692 Před rokem +268

    Can we please have a video of how your mom met her now husband. I want to know if she stopped believing in love after she left your father and how she was able to learn to really “ love “ in a romantic way to let herself open up

  • @BlueRose22
    @BlueRose22 Před rokem +370

    Can We All Agree Danny's Mom Is A REAL One For Being Such A Boss! Much Love & Respect To Her. 🌹🙏💙

  • @santosfam177
    @santosfam177 Před rokem +210

    I hope the family sees this video. Would pay to see the look on their faces

  • @dianalizzeth14
    @dianalizzeth14 Před rokem +115

    Tu mamá necesita escribir un libro. Her English is sooo good! I feel so proud of her and I cried when she was telling the story of how ur tia smacked ur little hand, it angered me. Your mom is a chingona for never giving up and becoming the women she is today!!

  • @jenniferrojas5155
    @jenniferrojas5155 Před rokem +256

    Your mom is the definition of a MAMA LUCHONA! ♥she did everything for you guys and with that it shows how much of a mujer she is y los huevos que tiene para superar todo lo que le paso. You're mom deserves EVERYTHING in life and and all the blessings that are coming her way. ❤❤❤❤

  • @karen1838
    @karen1838 Před rokem +197

    Im not even done watching and wow. Danny your mom is such an inspiration to so many young girls who been through something similar bc of how young they are. Your mom raised good kids and has blossomed into a wonderful, strong woman. Wishing your family nothing but the best ❤️

  • @jessicacastro3453
    @jessicacastro3453 Před rokem +149

    Danny I want to hear more of your mom’s stories! I love how she talks about her wanting to prosper no matter what, so inspiring!!

  • @AliciaMartinez-ll5ju
    @AliciaMartinez-ll5ju Před 8 měsíci

    Wow loved every minute of this. ❤

  • @annaaahi_
    @annaaahi_ Před rokem +19

    I’m literally crying at the way how your mom explained when’s he was pregnant w you. Her saying “siempre me sentia sola pero tu eras mio” like 😭😭❤️❤️ her story is heartfelt she deserves the world!

  • @michlow100
    @michlow100 Před rokem +42

    The end broke me when Danny said he wished he had the life and dad his brother has 😭

  • @vanessavargas9199
    @vanessavargas9199 Před rokem +34

    After hearing your moms story, it takes a strong woman to admit her wrongs despite all the abuse she was going through. She was never at fault for what others chose to do to her and how she was treated. Unfortunately, she was young and had no one to guide her. However now she’s stronger and wiser than ever!

  • @JayMeloz
    @JayMeloz Před rokem +105

    This is the podcast I didn’t know I needed but glad you made it. Thank you Danny for giving us the other prospective of your situation. 💚💚

    • @JayMeloz
      @JayMeloz Před rokem +2

      Ahy vengo otra vez! Commenting while watching. I feel like we need another redo with ur mom we jumped from ur mom defending her lil brother. To being pregnant I feel like we would enjoy the whole story based of her words.

  • @isabelbaja6075
    @isabelbaja6075 Před rokem +44

    I really loved this episode Danny! Your mom is such a strong woman and I admire women like her who have been able to persevere. Also ty for showing us such a personal & vulnerable story that has helped shaped you into the person you are today. I related to this on a deep level because my mom went through the same and as an older sister it meant a lot. Love that your bringing awareness!

  • @rachelaviles9976
    @rachelaviles9976 Před rokem +10

    Not done watching it but I’m here about to cry then I get the “with hello fresh” 😂😂😂

  • @Xoxo-xn2ff
    @Xoxo-xn2ff Před rokem +19

    This podcast left me speechless! Your mom is the baddest of them all! She’s so pretty & funny! The way she speaks about her life story is touching! Danny you have the best and strong mom! 💗💗

  • @tnt1652
    @tnt1652 Před rokem +30

    Your moms story reminds me so much of my moms.🥺

  • @hdz5166
    @hdz5166 Před rokem +43

    I truly hope these “tias/tios” regret the way they treated you guys. If they are seeing the hurt and pain you guys have had to try and heal from. Or if they have no remorse. Thank you for sharing your story it’s something that takes a lot of courage!

  • @VanessaLopez-fv2kl
    @VanessaLopez-fv2kl Před rokem +14

    I’m so excited for this episode not gonna miss it 💕

  • @jaz_93
    @jaz_93 Před rokem +23

    I could listen to your mom talk for hours she had such a soothing voice ❤️❤️

    • @sallychingas
      @sallychingas Před rokem

      I agree, I didn’t want it to end 😩 she’s so beautiful also

  • @chiqua1970
    @chiqua1970 Před rokem +25

    So much respect for your mom❤️ I’m so glad that she was able to move away from that toxic environment. Your mom really did her best❤️

  • @rubylovesit
    @rubylovesit Před rokem +14

    I love your mom! Thank her for sharing her story! Such a strong beautiful woman! ❤

  • @julianasainz1991
    @julianasainz1991 Před rokem +7

    I love how you guys are finally speaking up🥰

  • @monica_machuca
    @monica_machuca Před rokem

    Loved this!! 😍

  • @juliasierra8794
    @juliasierra8794 Před rokem +4

    Can’t wait to watch! the strongest most loving family ily guys

  • @yurikciasuarez9111
    @yurikciasuarez9111 Před rokem +1

    Loved this episode so much! ❤

  • @relirel
    @relirel Před rokem +11

    Your mom has my respect! Much love to your family. We need to break generational trauma cycles.

  • @ramonamendoza763
    @ramonamendoza763 Před rokem +71

    My respects to your mommy. She is a good example to all the women or men who are in a abusive relationship and show them that they have a choice and that they could seguir adelante solas. Love you all!!! Thank You for the moti ation so all women out there...

  • @juliagom1715
    @juliagom1715 Před rokem +5

    Im glad your momma came and spoke after your interview , i pictured her so much older idk why but she was so very young back then and still young and beautiful looking now and I know you and her are now healing and healed and making the struggles now turn into blessings ❤

  • @aguilar123l
    @aguilar123l Před rokem +6

    "Ya estamos in a judge free zone" -Danny lol Loved this episode, by far my favorite

  • @OsnapitzMitsy
    @OsnapitzMitsy Před rokem

    loved this sm!!! ❤

  • @amygiffoni3848
    @amygiffoni3848 Před rokem +11

    Omg, hearing your moms story made me cry Danny. It’s similar to my moms story and it makes me so angry that our OWN blood and family would treat our mothers like that. I was also the first born and had to learn the truth as I grew up bc my dads family would manipulate me AND they ALWAYS ask “cómo está tu mamá?”I cry seeing my mom heal her inner child now with therapy and coming to terms with her past and realizing it’s nothing SHE did bc she was just a little chamaquilla. Your mom is a strong beautiful soul and she raised you strong and with love despite her rough upbringing! Sending you love to both ❤️❤️❤️✨✨

  • @eddyquevedo7187
    @eddyquevedo7187 Před rokem +1

    love all the realness nd just all the venting that came out 🥹🥹🙏🙏🙏

  • @carmenxo4535
    @carmenxo4535 Před rokem

    i love your mom!! lol loved this episode thank you for sharing ❤

  • @ashleyyy26.
    @ashleyyy26. Před rokem

    Really loved this episode 💗. Much respect for your momma.

  • @valsd5186
    @valsd5186 Před 5 měsíci

    This impactful video is filled with learning experience and definitely worth listening to. Resilience comes to mind after listening from her perspective, nice work Danny!

  • @yadiraaaaa
    @yadiraaaaa Před rokem +10

    I just finished watching the entire video. Your mom deserves the world. Now that your at the right age Danny going on lunch dates dinner dates or gathering at her house on a week day for dinner are little muestras de cariño que le puedes dar a tu mamá. Surprising her with flowers.
    Although your upbringing was difficult it doesn’t mean the rest of your life will be that way. We choose our own path and we choose if we want to live a happy calm comfortable life. Que bonito es salir adelante. ❤️

  • @oz7646
    @oz7646 Před rokem +7

    Im not even half way and your moms life is so similar to my moms life. Bringing back memories of the stories she would tell me. Wow! Im so engaged..thank you for sharing your mom with us. ❤️

  • @helenaestrada3633
    @helenaestrada3633 Před rokem

    I loved the flow of the story - truly inspiring😢

  • @jenniferrodriguez5123
    @jenniferrodriguez5123 Před rokem +6

    this is so healing for the both of you. its so hard to talk about trauma we have as children. us as moms have such a hard job when the father is an asshole. Thanks for sharing your story. its inspiring to do this with my own kids.

  • @mayrarosales6486
    @mayrarosales6486 Před rokem +1

    Not done watching but omg I love this one. Your mom is truly amazing ❤

  • @melissavelasquez2458
    @melissavelasquez2458 Před rokem +4

    Literally cried the whole time ! Mucho respeto a la mamá de Fanny por abrirse con nosotros sobre su historia 🙏🏽🤍

  • @linettesilveira8635
    @linettesilveira8635 Před rokem +2

    Love that your mom was able to be vulnerable and tell her life story with us this is my first episode I’ve ever watched but I will definitely be checking out more thank you so much for this our parents went thru a lot

  • @Grace-jb6us
    @Grace-jb6us Před rokem

    Loved, loved, loved this podcast. Thank you for the transparency…regardless of the up’s, downs and turnarounds. You came out ahead 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @fabiv2048
    @fabiv2048 Před rokem

    This is my favorite episode 😭 💕! You both are so real, authentic, and amazing human beings ❤️.

  • @cathyvilla9345
    @cathyvilla9345 Před rokem

    I really love this ❤❤

  • @jackiee4647
    @jackiee4647 Před 3 měsíci

    Honestly this episode just made me wanna sit down and talk to my parents about their past because I never actually sat with them and ask about that part of their life and it honestly makes me very sad…

  • @l.edithx
    @l.edithx Před rokem +7

    Your mom’s story reminds me of my mom as her grandma raising her. My mom also had 4 siblings but was only close to one which he passed in August😢. My mom feels so alone now because she has no family here. She always grew alone. It’s so crazy how many people live similar lifestyles and we think we’re the only ones suffering. Her aunts used to mistreat her and my dads side didn’t like her at first. Wow the more I listen to her story the more it relates to my mom. My mom came to follow my dad to the US except she was 7 months pregnant. Such strong women that risked it all.

  • @elipimentel2742
    @elipimentel2742 Před rokem

    Queen to say the least. I have a similar story and also got a tattoo with the same saying! "I gave them life... They gave me a reason to live"

  • @HarborareaWilmas
    @HarborareaWilmas Před rokem +4

    Danny I’m so glad that you speaking about this can help so many people. I hope we all heal from the things we don’t talk about. So many people go threw this and never speak on this! Love you Danny ❤

  • @jenniferrodriguez5123

    we need part 2!!

  • @villasenormclaire
    @villasenormclaire Před rokem

    I love this Danny omggg 😍💕 go danny! I see you bestie, so proud of you!

  • @airelleibanez
    @airelleibanez Před rokem +1

    Yessss you tell them! Hahah I loved this episode! Todo a su tiempo and your time to shine is now! Love to see it🫶🏼😊

  • @aryaniperes3500
    @aryaniperes3500 Před rokem +5

    Her determination is simply admirable 💕💕 🥰🥰🥰 such a strong 💪 woman and an amazing example of a good Mom ☺️☺️☺️ Thank you for sharing 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @SqeakRs
    @SqeakRs Před rokem +1

    Your mom is a real one! ❤️‍🔥👏🏽 Y’all’s story inspired so much. Gracias a los dos por compartir sus historias ♥️💪🏽

  • @yeseniabahena217
    @yeseniabahena217 Před rokem +1

    I love this episode !!!!!

  • @yb6649
    @yb6649 Před rokem +12

    Aww your mom bought u guys new clothes before the social worker got there!! She did everything and anything did could to keep you guys, that’s why she holds her head high!! She’s a queen👑

  • @kitz_onthemoona.5348
    @kitz_onthemoona.5348 Před rokem +5

    Do a part 2 ! On how your mom met your step dad 💗

  • @hilahlove6766
    @hilahlove6766 Před rokem +5

    Wow hats off to your momma. Such a hustler, definition of no excuses. Good for her ❤ you have a good example my love

  • @ritzismynamo
    @ritzismynamo Před rokem +5

    I'm at work right now. I cant wait to be off to listen to this when I get off. So excited!!! I cant wait to hear ur moms story. She already a baddie to us. U can tell by the way she carries herself. Shes a chingona!

  • @stephaniecardenas652
    @stephaniecardenas652 Před rokem +1

    I love that you gave your mom a chance to tell her story .

  • @daisyfuentes929
    @daisyfuentes929 Před rokem +2

    Your mom is such an educated woman! I loved watching her!!!!!

  • @montesbartender9664
    @montesbartender9664 Před rokem +1

    Love this episode

  • @yasminporfirio6133
    @yasminporfirio6133 Před rokem

    Your mom is such an inspiration & she deserves the world 🥺🥺🤍!! LOVE LOVE THIS EPISODE !!

  • @Leslielopezz01
    @Leslielopezz01 Před rokem

    Your mom is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing such personal stories❤️

  • @elizabethsimental
    @elizabethsimental Před rokem +1

    We need more stories like this me and my husband were all hooked on this broadcast

  • @Karina-qw1vs
    @Karina-qw1vs Před rokem +2

    I just have 1 word for this brave Women “QUEEN 🙌!!!!!

  • @Estephwzrd
    @Estephwzrd Před rokem

    I am so hooked to this story god continue to bless you guys 💕🙏

  • @taniapinedo4905
    @taniapinedo4905 Před rokem +2

    Love rbis episode❤ your mom is so strong and loved hearing her story! She has a very soothing tone to her voice and she can talk for hours and i can hear her all day 😊 thanks for sharing your moms story! ❤ much love!

  • @nicoleruiz6424
    @nicoleruiz6424 Před rokem +1

    This could be made into such a beautiful movie 😢🥺🤍

  • @g59fifty15
    @g59fifty15 Před rokem

    New subscriber! Let me tell you everything your mom said definitely hit home for me! I am also a single parent and have felt the same mistreatment from my ex family. Al fin de el dia aqui estoy (estamos) mas fuertes y puro pa’delante con los huevos que le faltaron. 🙏🏽 💯 looking forward to future episodes! Saludos!

  • @El_Chisme530
    @El_Chisme530 Před rokem

    This is one of the best episodes so far. Your mom is a real one❤❤❤

  • @kcorralejo91
    @kcorralejo91 Před rokem +3

    Your mom is definately a MAMA LUCHONA que a pesar de todo y de todos saco a sus hijos adelante. My hats are off to her

  • @yasminecastaneda8380
    @yasminecastaneda8380 Před rokem

    Beautiful podcast ❤

  • @TheCastFam
    @TheCastFam Před rokem +3

    Adriana eres un gran ejemplo a seguir estoy segura que inspiraras a muchos con tu historia eres la verdadera definicion de una mama luchona ♥️🙌🏻

  • @xojuany
    @xojuany Před rokem +1

    Such an inspiration 🫶🏻 and wishing all you guys health and a beautiful life, May all y’alls dreams come true. All I have to say is that the people that do wrong WATCH you become better or successful.

  • @user-yk8zq8iv1d
    @user-yk8zq8iv1d Před rokem +1

    ❤ loved this episode
    I love your moms and your relationship

  • @evelynjimenez013
    @evelynjimenez013 Před rokem +7

    I admire your mom for not giving up ever not only on her babies but on herself too. She's thriving and I'm happy you are too Danny. You deserve to be happy. I believe children and partners/ husband/ wife etc are a privilege and you should never HAVE TO stay with someone because it's a norm. People should be deserving of having you in their life and acknowledge how valuable you are.

  • @Itziievelynn-1
    @Itziievelynn-1 Před rokem

    You guys are both so strong!❤️

  • @jocelyncolima4191
    @jocelyncolima4191 Před rokem

    This needs to be a movie forsure

  • @HighItsCakeyy
    @HighItsCakeyy Před rokem +4

    Ima need to get baked af so I won’t cry 😭💜

  • @marthal18
    @marthal18 Před rokem +1

    Wow danny, listening to you and your mom’s story is like your talking about my life… i am the oldest that lived through the exact same thing you did with my dad as well, and both my mom and I fought through all of it together for a better life and here we are now living the life we once wanted! Thank you for this amazing podcast where you made me feel proud of myself for being the oldest and caring for my sister while my mom made a better life for us!

  • @Priss5116
    @Priss5116 Před rokem +1

    Such a strong women. May God continue to bless her. ❤️

  • @cl-ll8ll
    @cl-ll8ll Před rokem

    Loved this episode ❤❤❤❤ your mom reminds me of mine such a strong woman! Much respect and blessings

  • @lizmunoz264
    @lizmunoz264 Před rokem +1

    Your mom is such a baddest and so strong. We need more stories she gives so much encouragement and strength

  • @Ilexinlife
    @Ilexinlife Před rokem +2

    Your moms story is a whole novela! Congratulations to your mom for having the courage to prosper in life! ❤

  • @jocelinsandoval1435
    @jocelinsandoval1435 Před rokem +1

    Best episode! Una madre verdaderamente valiente, luchona y Chingona!

  • @lisaflores5173
    @lisaflores5173 Před rokem +3

    Loved this healing interview with your mom 😢, she is proof through all the bad the world gives you , you can rise to be the person you were meant to be God bless you all ❤

  • @JOSSIEVERYTHING
    @JOSSIEVERYTHING Před rokem

    Need a part 2

  • @catalinagarcia9051
    @catalinagarcia9051 Před rokem +1

    Your mom is so smart!!! I literally went through something so similar. So admirable 👑

  • @ceesoCUNTY
    @ceesoCUNTY Před rokem +1

    OMGGGGGGG! I LOVE YOUR MM SO MUCH! I KNOW SHE HOLD BACK A LOT AND I WNAT TO THANK HER FOR SHARING HER STORY! SHES SUCHA STRONG WOMAN

  • @DianaCV30
    @DianaCV30 Před rokem

    Favorite episode!!!!!!!❤❤

  • @dulce2364
    @dulce2364 Před rokem +3

    Wow! I love your mom. She's so wise, humble and strong. Thanks for sharing your story. I wanna hear more stories of your mom :)

  • @Liz40_
    @Liz40_ Před rokem

    By far my favorite guest in the show!

  • @yvettesanchez4201
    @yvettesanchez4201 Před rokem +5

    It's crazy how us humans have to go through situations like these but thanks to them we have became the person we are now and has made us stronger and wiser 🩷 so glad you both felt comfortable to share this with the world and now feel that relief you guys have been waiting to let go. 😊 love the outcome of your family. 🥰

  • @nicolebonatto4468
    @nicolebonatto4468 Před rokem

    I loved this episode ❤ Adriana we love you ✨️

  • @marisolsegura5824
    @marisolsegura5824 Před rokem +8

    I love that your mom it’s such a open mind and down to earth person she grow up and go strong because of what happened to her kiss her and hug her all the time

  • @Savannahjaime14
    @Savannahjaime14 Před rokem +2

    I love Danny's mom!! She's a queen!

  • @inoosmakeup6821
    @inoosmakeup6821 Před rokem

    Such an inspiration

  • @dianamendoza8500
    @dianamendoza8500 Před rokem

    Oh my goodness 🥺🥺❤️this is one of my favorite episodes!! So much respect for your mom 🫶🏽she’s a beautiful human being💖