The 8 Stages : 1. Attraction 2. Learning about them 3. Building comfort & trust 4. Actually going on date 5. Seduction 6. The honeymoon phase 7. The doubting phase 8. Commitment & Stability
Those are literally things you could read in a flyer of a Valentine's day Café. There are also many other ways of how Dating works and can work. Sometimes it just clips together. Or sometimes it needs an endless time for it to work out. Or it just stops because it's not working. But a honeymoon doesn't need to be there. Seduction can also bring in the first date. There is no real sceintific background for it. A psychologist would explain many variations in many types how this could happen.
The doubt phase hurts a lot. They go from loving you and saying they can't help but think they want to spend the rest of their life with you, only to turn 180 a week later and say they don't want to. They leave you in the dark, say they need to find themselves by being single for at least (insert time here), only to not mean what they say and end up being with someone else. The worst feeling in the world is seeing someone you love look at someone else the way they used to look at you...
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝 *NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE* tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
Happened with me yeah but they told me we might date in the future after we are academicly doing good. It hurt alot because it was sudden, I gave my all and expected them to just stay by my side through it all but alas they left. I'm starting to think they might date someone else after this and that keeps me up at nights, it hurts because I did everything that one should in order to become a healthy partner
My boyfriend and I rushed into our relationship extremely quick. Literally started dating the same day we met😅 That being said, we went through most of these stages within the first week or so of dating. And everyone said we were in our "honeymoon phase" because we were so happy to see each other and constantly excited around one another. So many people doubted our relationship. Here we are, two years and seven months later. We're still happy and giddy and lovey dovey around each other. It's gone from super excitement to laid back. We went from being in the honeymoon stage to being happy about building a life together. I'm very happy where I'm at and so is he. And we're getting our own place soon. Maybe love at first site does exist💙
@@icy8403 I was at church camp and my friend invited me on a double date so hers wouldn't be awkward.(Icee dates were a common thing across the camp) I asked my crush and four other guys(rejected all times😅) and then I saw him standing in the lunch line at our cabin. Our cabin was filled with several churches so it wasn't uncommon to see a stranger or two. I decided that he looked lonely and cute enough to give it one more shot.(Spoilers: he agreed!) We all went and surprisingly(and technically against camp "rules") he paid for the date as well as extra ice cream for me. We got pretty acquainted throughout the date and decided to sit next to each other throughout the rest of our planned day. Considering it was our last day there, we had to pack and take a bus two hours back to my church.(My church is normally the head of our cabin) My phone died and he was the only person I knew that had a phone so we decided to sit next to each other.(I had to keep in contact with my dad and he agreed for me to use his phone) We talked the entire two hours and eventually kissed on the bus.(Oooo rebellion-) We exchanged numbers and texted after I got home and charged my phone. We decided to just "give it a shot" and the rest is history. Weird, definitely not "innocent christian girl like", but the best love story I could hope for.
The doubting stage… Yep. Today, the 17/1 is one year since we started dating… Me and my partner are now having this stage and we almost broke up. Listen to me. If you have a wonderful relationship, please do not rush to end things between you two just cause it’s getting difficult, instead, be honest with each other, open and understanding. Try to talk and work on stuff. Don’t run away from your problems. Don’t leave someone just because you get the feeling that they want to break up and you don’t wanna get hurt. Fight on your love. And if you’ll get hurt in the end, it was at least worth trying.
My boyfriend and I were in that situation a few days ago. He broke up with me bc he didn't know what to do. We took a few days for ourselves and now we are back together again. If you truly love your partner and it isn't a toxic relationship, there shouldn't be a quick ending to it. Both should be honest and talk about it and work on it together.
I've been dating someone for 3 years. I have shared everything with her and she trusts me completely and I trust her as much. We've gone through the doubting stage and we're in the acceptance and commitment stage. We're happy with each other and we work through our friction together.
There are several types of romantic relationships, each with it's own flows and phases. I see it more like- Casual interest dating, Significant interest dating, Exclusive interest dating, and finally, Commitment interest dating. Know your interest, and date people with the same dating interest.
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝 *NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE* tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
Stage one: Attraction (0:36) Stage two: Learning more about them (1:06) Stage three: Building comfort and trust (1:31) Stage four: Actually going on dates (2:06) Stage five: Seduction (2:33) Stage six: The honeymoon phase (3:08) Stage seven: The doubting phase (3:49) Stage eight: Commitment and stability (4:35) Lol this has been unlisted for a year, idk if it’ll ever go public
I've been dating someone pretty recently and she has had relationships in the past, unlike me who is basically new to relationships. She is just amazing, and asks me questions about what makes me comfortable, and how we can keep eachother comfortable in the relationship. She's just an amazing girl and I'm so lucky she is mine :)
I just want a friend first. I don't know how to make friends who I can trust. Once I learn how to love myself, then make a friend, finally I will look towards a relationship and dating. How can I be a good person to someone I care about if I don't even care about myself or have any friends? I would just be one of those "clingy" people and that isn't who I want to become.
Happened to me bro. I promise, time does heal wounds. I thought the world was over. It's really not. It's just a moment you need to have with yourself.
3:38 The doubting stage is where it ends for most people. If you're not getting to the first stage, it's because the other person traveled forward in time and peeped at all those doubts. I'd say that overcoming someone's doubts is the first stage for the more experienced daters.
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝 *NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE* tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
My only experience went something like this… 1. Friends 2. Close friends 3. Do they like me? 4. Ohhh they do like me! That’s kinda exciting! I guess we’re dating now? 5. Wait… do I even like them back? 6. Extreme stress and anxiety 7. Can we go back to being friends? 8. Slowly drifting apart, questioning whether the friendship has ended or if it’s all in my head It could be worse. I’ve learned a lot from the whole ordeal, so some good did come out of it in the end
My gf and I are kinda going out of order. For us it's: 1. Attraction 2. Learning more about them 3. The honeymoon phase 4. The doubting phase 5. Building comfort and trust And everything else we haven't done cuz of time and my strict ass mom lol
Exactly! Same here. My girlfriend and I waited to be physical until after the other stages. Due to that we can read each others body language and it helps with the more romantic dates.
@@emsadventures1154 exactly we wanted to wait until both of us were ready and not force the other and now she can tell when I'm pissed even through texts lol. Now it's just a matter of when we have time and where we can do stuff
Dating can be very individual about how it works. There is no script like Psych2go thinks it is. And sometimes the "doubting phase" can also be the ending phase. There is no perfect and there will be no perfect date or realrionship. But there are one. Just not that harmonic what Psych2go who aren't professionals in any area of this tell you.
I'm right now I'm dating, it's been a really hard relationship at the beginning. But now, It's going wonderful!! This video really helps to achieve our problems in our relationship.
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
My 8 stages of dating: 1. create a dating app profile 2. swipe right on all girls 3. after 1 week get one match 4. send a funny pick up line 5. She ghosts 6. repeat stage 2-5 for 1 month 7. get depressed and quits dating app 8. go to the gym for 3 months and build up confidence. Then repeat step 1.
It's a vicious cycle. From my experience, dating apps are less effective than talking to random people. Unfortunately, these apps are meant to be addictive and I would identify that addiction to swiping as your main obstacle, not your profile or physical appearance.
I recommend you watch Moon's video regarding dating apps, specifically Tinder. He does good commentary on social media apps in relation to social issues. Here's the link: czcams.com/video/jbBNYtUn4T8/video.html
as a a single introvertish waiting for someone to ask me instead of me asking and a junior who is sill in high school I’l- why are you still reading this?
@@jessebaker4245 I do like this comment. It brings perspective and some levity to this video because many people are talking about serious relationships.
Stage 1: attraction Stage 2: talking to the person Stage 3: waiting for her to ask you on a date because you're too afraid to perform that task Stage 4: waiting so long that you either 1. Fall out of love, or 2. Allow her to be taken by someone who was probably better than you.
I feel like my partner and I are in the doubting stage, but this video actually made me feel a lot better, and that it’ll be okay Update: a few days after this post we were VERY close to breaking up, and I think both of us realized that’s not what we wanted, and learned the incredible power of communication. Thank you for all of the kind comments
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝 *NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE* tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
As someone that is 3 decades old with very little free time on their hands unless I deliberately sacrifice some things (at least before covid...), let me just say that in my years of experience, getting to stage 1 is difficult enough as it is.
May I introduce you my stages of dating: 1. Attraction 2. Seduction 3. Going on dates 4. The doubting phase (reject him) 5. He comes back 6. Building comfort & trust 7. The doubting phase (reject him again) 8. He comes back again - going on dates again 9. Something like commitment & stability Me, an anxiety-driven introvert with childhood emotional neglect trauma
My girlfriend and I have only been dating a little bit over a week, so...like usual...this video happened to come out at the exact moment I needed it to 😭
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝 *NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE* tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
My partner and I are currently in the 2nd last stage of our relationship. I personally just want us to be able to move in together and start our actual lives together.
@@extremelyvividcardgames7890 I misunderstood your comment originally my mistake, I somehow read it as “second stage” but congratulations!! 🥳 Don’t you dare depart even after death 🤣
Many couples decide to break up when the honeymoom phase is over, because "they don't feel in love anymore". The truth is, a relationship takes work. Being in love is a state you achieve by actively working on it. Saying nice to each other, not complacant, appreciating each other. The love feeling won't happen if you don't focus to work on it. Otherwise it would be magic, and magic does not exist ;). When partners realise this and overcome this stage (which is very difficult and can be painful), and decide to put the work in, that's when you are a powercouple.
Okay but why do the two people in the video look like me and my boyfriend, the resemblance is uncanny. We haven't even been dating for a whole year but it feels like we've known each other forever, like we've already gone through all of these stages
Well a lot of people create a family when they’re still in their honeymoon phase, and then they end up fighting a lot People don’t stick to these stages sadly They rush into things because of their feelings
My ex broke up with me while I was in the commitment and stability stage. I hope we could reconcile and meet eye to eye in the stability part of our relationship because we have grown so much and I can’t let go of how far we’ve developed together.
I hate to be that person, but it’s time you let go. I know it hurts so much to accept it but it’s essential to your healing and growth. One thing I’ve learned is, when someone tells/ shows you they don’t want you, believe them. Don’t ever let someone tell you twice.
Ahhh this is literally perfect timing. I just reconnected with my highschool crush and we went on our first date today 💕 Update: we're officially boyfriend and girlfriend 💕
I just ended my almost 4 year old relationship. It was going very well until he started uni and suddenly decided despite his feelings for me I’m not his priority anymore. I wasn’t worth a five min call weekly, at least that’s what he showed me. Since he stopped paying that much attention to me the splitting wasn’t hard, i should’ve ended it earlier but i must say it was a great journey.
@@aparnadutta3944 yes, I’m getting better day by day. I have my ups and downs but it’s life. Thank you for asking. I hope you’re having a wonderful day/night
If you don't rush intimacy it will last 😘Attraction and honeymoon phase never went away. Dating and doubt a little randomly after 18 years but now trust and comfort makes me need physical touch now not just "intimacy" also now extra passionate as if it wasn't before, just now I know how to be more in tune to my moods
Honestly speaking, I just got into a long distance relationship and I’m pretty happy. The only thing I’m worried about is my mental health. I’m worried that my boyfriend will hate me because my insecurities are so strong, they basically control me when I’m alone. I don’t want to worry him so I haven’t told him anything yet. We’ve both had 3 past relationships, mine of which 2 ended horribly. On a call we had yesterday, my mood dropped and I didn’t want to tell him anything. We suddenly fell into a silence and after a while the call ended. I’m so worried that my mental health is what will destroy our relationship… after all it’s not like it would be the first time…
i hope you will seek the help you need, be it from terapists or family, or friends or even your boyfriend himself! He will likely hear you out and support you, i'm sure!
@@giovanarocha3136 thank you so much for your kind works T^T I’ll build up courage to tell someone soon ^^ I’ve told my boyfriend about the little things but not the main problem yet so I’ll take my time ^^’
@@sakku4217 hello i hope you're relationship is going strong I'm on the same conflict as you are we are ldr for 8 months now and its so hard to be open with my current mental health lol i worried too much about it and i don't want him to know about cause maybe i will jinx it and ruin our relationship. 😂
@@airishviscara2326 aiii well I’ve only been in my current relationship for a little over two weeks ^^’ I hope you stay safe and healthy, keep going and open up to your partner when you feel comfortable!! Keep going strong, you and me both :3💕💕
COVID kind of threw a spanner in the works for my relationship. We have been dating long distance for 2-3 years now. I think we are in the "Dating" stage based on the description in the video. We have a video call 3 times per week. We can't really progress our relationship further while long distance. It's like our relationship is in stasis. There have been points of "Doubts" but we are in a good place right now. We are eager to finally see each other again when travel becomes less restricted.
Me and my current partner have been friends for years now and we are now in an ldr relationship for almost a year now. I believe we still are in the honeymoon phase and starting to get a glimpse of here and there of the doubting phase. I'm very anxious about it, I tend to be afraid of what the future holds but, hope dies last and I hope that this relationship will last for a big amount of time :))
Oh wow... I've been thinking about this. And apparently your new video talks about it! Man, I've been getting signs to help me out with my relationship with my gf now. I'm so happy, thank you.
I think me and my Boyfriend are on stage 8. We're still long distance because of life situation. We've been together over 5 years. We plan to adopt one day a little girl. (2-3 in age. Maybe even younger.) My Boyfriend supports me alot and gets me alot better than anyone honestly. And I try to get him too. He supports me on wanting to transition. (Female to male. My Gender Identity is Demiboy.) He also debates about being Trans too. Which I support him if he wants to do it. (His Bisexual and Biromantic. I'm Pansexual and Panromantic. So even if we transition we still feel attraction.) I plan to propose officially to him eventually here. I was going to last Fall. But stuff happened. And yeah now my Brother is getting Married this Fall. I've never been to a Wedding so this could be fun. (Tho I rather not go personally. And rather his Future Wife not at my Wedding when we have it. She will get upset over us having a Gothic and Victorian Themed Wedding. Cause in her mind black means bad luck at a Wedding. But from what I have read it's not bad luck.)
@@johnolivergabayan4180 Biromantic is when your romantically attracted to only men and women. While Panromantic is when your romantically attracted to all genders and sexs. (Biromantic doesn't include intersex and possibly more.)
I'm in love with my Best friend. And Everyone like knowing him will always be with me wherever I go. Also everyone around us said that "Both of you will end up together." But then It's been 7 years, and comes the 'doubt phase.' He said that he choose his career over me. And what can I do? 😢 Well, I just start a new relationship with my new boyfriend. And we're in honeymoon phase now. I hope my relationship won't end up the same :( like before. Wish me luck. And I wish luck for everyone who lose someone in 'doubt phase' 💕
Love that this dropped after my crush and I recently got together. I think we're on stage 3 or 4. Since we met online, our "dates" (if they can even be called that) are more like constant vcs that last for hours and hours or even days
The main thing about a relationship to stay forever is having trust and comfortable..as they should be like our best friend..staying with us with all ups and downs..happiness sadness everything..should understand each others situation.. should open up every single thing happens in day to day life..in my opinion in the end of the day we should create a talk with your partner where you can share everything as well as they can share and should relief if they are in pain..love each other unconditionally..no cheatings..if he or she doesn't understands your point try to make them understand or leave..if a relationship is toxic you should leave.. because we live only once and we should live happily each and every moment..thank you
None of my relationships have lasted more than 8 months. I was never great friends with my partner before we got together, usually just a month or two of talking and then we made things official, and I was the one always initiating it. It’s been a month since my ex boyfriend broke up with me because “things just didn’t work out” (whatever that’s supposed to mean). The same week he broke up with me, one of my best friend’s girlfriends broke up with him and right now me and him have a friends with benefits type thing going on and we’re both pretty happy. My friend actually helped me get with my (now ex bf) when I got COVID and had to quarantine so I couldn’t see my ex. I was with my ex for about 6 months but 2 months before that was when I met my friend. I have definitely thought about getting into a relationship with my friend since we’ve already been through a bit with each other (he was my first kiss). I’m not planning on making things official, I would rather wait for him to make the first move since whenever I do things don’t work out. Plus, it’s only been a month since my boyfriend broke up with me, and 3 weeks since my friend broke up with his girlfriend. I think a key part to having a good relationship with someone is being friends before you get together, then you actually know what you’re getting into and you know if things will work out.
I've been in the first seven stages and the doubting stage was the break of our relationship (a few months ago). Hopefully I get another chance to try and get to stage 8.
@@pirupami9746 I don’t know a specific person I can name, but I did talk to this person on yt and the boyfriend was able to help. she found the boy even with this health state, and he was understanding. It just appears to be kinda rare to find that person I guess
After getting divorced ( marriage lasted 11 months ) I got into videogaming and that really helped a lot, then I found someone else, we had a daughter together but then we broke up, but we are a family unit for our daughter, but other than that that’s it, that was 2020, I’ve not dated now for 2 years and being totally honest I don’t think I ever will
I've dated this guy for Seven years... But recently I've started to doubt. He's like a different person. He says things that he normally wouldn't say to me. Whenever I'd ask him why he talks to me diff, he'd say he's just being himself unlike before. I still like him. I still care about him. But I met someone else recently. He's so kind. He gives me his time, he sends me music lol and the sweetest texts, he says he loves me and I think.... I'm... in love w him too. What now😪
bruh me n my boyfriend went/are going so out of order🤣 1. Attraction 2. The Honeymoon Phase 3. The Doubting Phase 4. Learning About Them 5. Building Comfort and Trust 6. Actually Going on Date
I never really reach phase 1.. thus it's really really difficult to try and find someone. I think this is because I'm demiromantic. And if I'm in no way attracted or friend equivalent of that, I don't want to talk. Because it's just pure work, with no fun and no enjoyment for me, other than making them feel more happy. But still not being truly happy myself. And.. I can only look online currently because of covid and life situation, making things even worse. I am just looking for someone who it's easy to be with, always. Friend or partner. I'm just.. lonely, and confused
No one else notice that they say in this video, "and in 2019," implying that it's the modern time? Is this a lost episode? A reup? Lol Quality content as always, either way!
me and my bf definitely skipped ahead a little to the intimate stage lol. i know right now we're in the doubting phase, just because my life is at an inflection point. im graduating soon, and we're long distance with him in another state for grad school. honestly im really glad to hear that the doubting stage is common. i've pretty much already decided i want to spend the rest of my life with him, but now we just have to figure out the logistics. if he's gonna be away for another 3-5 years, what do i do? do i stay where i am and get a job at home, near my family, and wait for him? do i get a job near him and move away? do i find a remote job and just figure it out? what happens after that? my career path is very flexible, while his isn't, so am i just going to follow where ever his career takes him?
Still in stage 7. Finally would’ve been dating for a year on the 23rd, but we’re also currently engaged and I pushed the wedding back by a year. I feel like I’m the only one stuck in Stage 7, my fiancé seems to be in the 6th stage. I don’t feel as if I can go forward with the 8th stage - hmm guess we need couple counseling
As somebody that has never dated, the one thing I havent understood is how people feel "drawn to" or "attracted" or "have a crush on" somebody they havent even met. Like, sure, they may be cute or something, but you have no idea what they are about, how they view the world, what they like doing, what values they have etc
idk m8 hormones are weird. I too struggle to understand how people can build a healthy relationship upon a risky and sometimes unhealthy concoction of happy chemicals that tries to befuddle your brain.
Well, I met I guy (not in person yet, I was moving to another house and he was handling some family issues); but every day we are updating about each other and you know when there's something different with one person? THAT is what we feel, we are open too whatever happens but we are very interested on our emotional support and of course meeting each other in person this week, finally!! Let's see what happens 🍀💚
Incredible person reading this, you have everything there is to succeed in life, whatever that is for you. Go after the life you truly want NOW! ✨ I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
okay so me and my bf went completely out of order: attraction seduction learning about them actually going on a date building comfort and trust the honeymoon phase the doubting phase is sprinkled in here and there but we talk and get through it
Focus on yourself and do things to better yourself and girls will begin to focus on you, it’s as simple as that. Women are strange, they feel stronger attraction to men that aren’t phased by them. Put yourself on a pedestal instead of any woman, and I guarantee you’ll find a date in no time. You got this man
Now I think I understand why I'm single. And I start doubting more and more about that. But what can I do? I need this commitment. I can't be the only person, who invests all the time, nerves and feelings in the relationship, while receiving a dry "yes" on the other side. While if it's on the other end, it feels like the girls are either suffocating me with their vision of love or want to be the leader in a controlling relationship. (Or both.) Why should I be the only one to compromise? Why should I be the only one to push ahead? Why should I give money for this person if I have no commitment guaranteed? With my fiancee none of it was like that! It was all about commitment in the first month even. I don't know why it all happened so fast, but I understood in the end. It was just that in the third month she found out she had cancer and was scared she might die before even having a chance to marry. And she did die, but at least we got to being engaged before it happened. I know I shouldn't compare relationships to that and other women to her, but I at least want to have a similar life to what we wanted to have with her.
Welp, I've only made it to stage 3 so far. I guess that makes sense since I only started really putting myself out there last month, but it kinda sucks being 25 and not having experienced what true love feels like.
Took a while, but over the last few years finally picked up on the female cues of attraction; as an average looking guy, looking back, it’s brought a lot of clarity as to why my relationships never worked out and why there’s little reason to pursue one further. In short, The love I’m searching for no longer exists.
I’ve gone through these stages so many times and I’m not even old enough to drive, and every time they end in disaster and a broken heart in my chest, I’m waiting for the day that I finally get to stage 8, and for anyone reading this also single, I hope you do to
Sigh. I wish I could make it to any of those last half stages. Instead, it's just me being attracted, then going through doubts, then taking a chance and getting rejected. Repeat. I am 27 years old and I am at the point where I can't face any more rejection. I am worried that giving up will mean I won't ever get my dream, but man, I am so messed inside from all the constant rejection that I just need a break and learn how to accept myself and like myself.
I don’t really have dating experience, but I feel like I get many of the doubts out of the way from the beginning, like from the start I am envisioning if this person could be a long term partner or not. For me, it’s a terrible feeling to break things off with someone when feelings are involved so I would rather not go far past the talking phase if I realize it probably won’t work. So I’m not sure if the doubting phase would come that late into the relationship for me, like in this video. But what do I know? Maybe. Stuff could happen later on that shakes you
the 8 stages: 1: you cant find a girlfriend 2: you still cant find a girlfriend 3: you literally cannot find a girlfriend 4: it is literally impossible for you to get a girlfriend 5: you realize you cant find a girlfriend because it impossible 6: cry 7: cry more 8: repeat on stage 6
Why does it take so long to be sure that the relationship is going to work ? I don't have time to waste. I don't want to create a bond with someone for it to be for nothing. Isn't there a way to find out more earlier and avoid disappointment ?
Not in my experience. If you put too much pressure at the beginning to find out if it will work, you will make them feel rushed and they will get intimidated. The reason for taking it slow is to build an actual partnership. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't mean you wasted your time because you're learning how to build during those relationships.
I don’t chase…. I don’t give compliments even when they are said to me. Iam caressed and touched and I can’t reciprocate those so I am seen as disinterested. For many reasons…. But the main one is that I am well mannered and just can’t bring myself to be like that with someone unless we are already together.. i hate that I’m like this
Who here time travelled? Comment below..
me
Me… 😵💫 it was really a weird experience
I'm just so confused
Wait what do you mean? How did they do it? PS love your content
Can you do a video about Aphesia?
The 8 Stages :
1. Attraction
2. Learning about them
3. Building comfort & trust
4. Actually going on date
5. Seduction
6. The honeymoon phase
7. The doubting phase
8. Commitment & Stability
Those are literally things you could read in a flyer of a Valentine's day Café. There are also many other ways of how Dating works and can work. Sometimes it just clips together. Or sometimes it needs an endless time for it to work out. Or it just stops because it's not working. But a honeymoon doesn't need to be there. Seduction can also bring in the first date. There is no real sceintific background for it. A psychologist would explain many variations in many types how this could happen.
SPOILERSSSS
That’s so wrong it’s not even funny
The doubting phase😅
9. Getting cheated on and hurt just like by every other girl I’ve met.
Me, a single introvert: *hmmm interesting*
aha same 😭
Haha 😂
Lol. For an introvert, the first few stages could take several years....lol...They forgot to mention that.
Ahh same
Fr df I need this for💀😭
The doubt phase hurts a lot. They go from loving you and saying they can't help but think they want to spend the rest of their life with you, only to turn 180 a week later and say they don't want to. They leave you in the dark, say they need to find themselves by being single for at least (insert time here), only to not mean what they say and end up being with someone else. The worst feeling in the world is seeing someone you love look at someone else the way they used to look at you...
This is me exactly. Yeah, that feeling that they love someone else the way they used to with you is very painful.
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝
*NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE*
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
who hurt you? TT
that doesnt sound normal but okay
Happened with me yeah but they told me we might date in the future after we are academicly doing good. It hurt alot because it was sudden, I gave my all and expected them to just stay by my side through it all but alas they left. I'm starting to think they might date someone else after this and that keeps me up at nights, it hurts because I did everything that one should in order to become a healthy partner
My boyfriend and I rushed into our relationship extremely quick. Literally started dating the same day we met😅
That being said, we went through most of these stages within the first week or so of dating. And everyone said we were in our "honeymoon phase" because we were so happy to see each other and constantly excited around one another. So many people doubted our relationship.
Here we are, two years and seven months later. We're still happy and giddy and lovey dovey around each other. It's gone from super excitement to laid back. We went from being in the honeymoon stage to being happy about building a life together.
I'm very happy where I'm at and so is he. And we're getting our own place soon.
Maybe love at first site does exist💙
Woah, that’s rare! Mind telling me how it went from meeting him to dating him within the same day?
Same situation.
@@icy8403 I was at church camp and my friend invited me on a double date so hers wouldn't be awkward.(Icee dates were a common thing across the camp) I asked my crush and four other guys(rejected all times😅) and then I saw him standing in the lunch line at our cabin. Our cabin was filled with several churches so it wasn't uncommon to see a stranger or two.
I decided that he looked lonely and cute enough to give it one more shot.(Spoilers: he agreed!) We all went and surprisingly(and technically against camp "rules") he paid for the date as well as extra ice cream for me.
We got pretty acquainted throughout the date and decided to sit next to each other throughout the rest of our planned day. Considering it was our last day there, we had to pack and take a bus two hours back to my church.(My church is normally the head of our cabin) My phone died and he was the only person I knew that had a phone so we decided to sit next to each other.(I had to keep in contact with my dad and he agreed for me to use his phone)
We talked the entire two hours and eventually kissed on the bus.(Oooo rebellion-)
We exchanged numbers and texted after I got home and charged my phone. We decided to just "give it a shot" and the rest is history.
Weird, definitely not "innocent christian girl like", but the best love story I could hope for.
@@kebblot9085 oh that’s so adorable! I’m happy for you guys :)
Claiming this positivity!
The doubting stage… Yep. Today, the 17/1 is one year since we started dating… Me and my partner are now having this stage and we almost broke up. Listen to me. If you have a wonderful relationship, please do not rush to end things between you two just cause it’s getting difficult, instead, be honest with each other, open and understanding. Try to talk and work on stuff. Don’t run away from your problems. Don’t leave someone just because you get the feeling that they want to break up and you don’t wanna get hurt. Fight on your love. And if you’ll get hurt in the end, it was at least worth trying.
My boyfriend and I were in that situation a few days ago. He broke up with me bc he didn't know what to do. We took a few days for ourselves and now we are back together again. If you truly love your partner and it isn't a toxic relationship, there shouldn't be a quick ending to it. Both should be honest and talk about it and work on it together.
@@tsukiko_cx sometimes even in healthy relationships a break is needed
really needed to see this, so thank you
I couldn't have appreciated a message more than this.💞
Seventeeneber 1st
I've been dating someone for 3 years. I have shared everything with her and she trusts me completely and I trust her as much. We've gone through the doubting stage and we're in the acceptance and commitment stage. We're happy with each other and we work through our friction together.
Nice
I just hope I can get in a relationship like that
@@memeseller1156 takes two :P
@@richardwinter4125 ye bc my friend like someone but idk if it’s me or someone else but she hilarious and etc and do you mean. The game it takes two
How’s it like for you?
There are several types of romantic relationships, each with it's own flows and phases. I see it more like- Casual interest dating, Significant interest dating, Exclusive interest dating, and finally, Commitment interest dating. Know your interest, and date people with the same dating interest.
How does one figure out their own “interest?”
@@2legitkong536 By trying to understand yourself. Like what are you aiming in your life?
You made same autocorrect error, which was “flaws,” not “flows.”
What exactly is significant interest dating tho
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝
*NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE*
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
Stage one: Attraction (0:36)
Stage two: Learning more about them (1:06)
Stage three: Building comfort and trust (1:31)
Stage four: Actually going on dates (2:06)
Stage five: Seduction (2:33)
Stage six: The honeymoon phase (3:08)
Stage seven: The doubting phase (3:49)
Stage eight: Commitment and stability (4:35)
Lol this has been unlisted for a year, idk if it’ll ever go public
DANG YOU WERE FAST
WHAT 1 YEAR AGO YOU BROKE THE SYSTEM
it’s public now
Hello time traveller
How the hell is this yr ago💀
I've been dating someone pretty recently and she has had relationships in the past, unlike me who is basically new to relationships. She is just amazing, and asks me questions about what makes me comfortable, and how we can keep eachother comfortable in the relationship. She's just an amazing girl and I'm so lucky she is mine :)
I wish that you guys break up
@@odessawales who hurt you?
@@odessawales LMFAOO
@@odessawales why do u say that...Let them be well
@@odessawales who dumped you 😂
I just want a friend first. I don't know how to make friends who I can trust. Once I learn how to love myself, then make a friend, finally I will look towards a relationship and dating. How can I be a good person to someone I care about if I don't even care about myself or have any friends? I would just be one of those "clingy" people and that isn't who I want to become.
You forgot the stages when they ghost you and also when they rip your heart out and leave.
I felt that 😢😔
He ghosted me ripped my heart so I left... Not wasting my precious days over this bullshit. Why should I settle for less anyways
Happened to me bro. I promise, time does heal wounds. I thought the world was over. It's really not. It's just a moment you need to have with yourself.
Im lucky my heart ain't in a pie on your kitchen table
"Don't invest in a girl/guy based on how much you like them Invest in a girl/guy based on how much they invest in you" - The Grinch
The grinch spitting facts 😤😤🔥
Time, affection, dedication, attention to details, listening, flexibility. Those are real currencies to invest
What if they're doing the same thing, and waiting to invest until you invest.
@@ndroo1019 true it should be equal investment
3:38 The doubting stage is where it ends for most people. If you're not getting to the first stage, it's because the other person traveled forward in time and peeped at all those doubts. I'd say that overcoming someone's doubts is the first stage for the more experienced daters.
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝
*NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE*
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
My only experience went something like this…
1. Friends
2. Close friends
3. Do they like me?
4. Ohhh they do like me! That’s kinda exciting! I guess we’re dating now?
5. Wait… do I even like them back?
6. Extreme stress and anxiety
7. Can we go back to being friends?
8. Slowly drifting apart, questioning whether the friendship has ended or if it’s all in my head
It could be worse. I’ve learned a lot from the whole ordeal, so some good did come out of it in the end
Yeah, “do I even like them” is so relatable!!
My gf and I are kinda going out of order. For us it's:
1. Attraction
2. Learning more about them
3. The honeymoon phase
4. The doubting phase
5. Building comfort and trust
And everything else we haven't done cuz of time and my strict ass mom lol
Exactly! Same here. My girlfriend and I waited to be physical until after the other stages. Due to that we can read each others body language and it helps with the more romantic dates.
@@emsadventures1154 exactly we wanted to wait until both of us were ready and not force the other and now she can tell when I'm pissed even through texts lol. Now it's just a matter of when we have time and where we can do stuff
If your mom is calling that shots, you are not ready for a relationship.
did i read "mom" at a point in all this?. .what's wrong with you , people..
Dating can be very individual about how it works. There is no script like Psych2go thinks it is. And sometimes the "doubting phase" can also be the ending phase. There is no perfect and there will be no perfect date or realrionship. But there are one. Just not that harmonic what Psych2go who aren't professionals in any area of this tell you.
I'm right now I'm dating, it's been a really hard relationship at the beginning. But now, It's going wonderful!! This video really helps to achieve our problems in our relationship.
@Jiham Mabya You're not really my type🤭
I can see why it was really hard just by seeing your profile pic 😂😂
It started bad?
@@trevor3013 yes,
@@updog6458 lmao
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
My 8 stages of dating:
1. create a dating app profile
2. swipe right on all girls
3. after 1 week get one match
4. send a funny pick up line
5. She ghosts
6. repeat stage 2-5 for 1 month
7. get depressed and quits dating app
8. go to the gym for 3 months and build up confidence. Then repeat step 1.
Will dating apps are big scams
It's a vicious cycle. From my experience, dating apps are less effective than talking to random people. Unfortunately, these apps are meant to be addictive and I would identify that addiction to swiping as your main obstacle, not your profile or physical appearance.
I recommend you watch Moon's video regarding dating apps, specifically Tinder. He does good commentary on social media apps in relation to social issues. Here's the link: czcams.com/video/jbBNYtUn4T8/video.html
@@isav7305 I love this guy he revealed all the flaws that modern society has
Me, a single introvert with no real desire to date until after college:
What goes around comes around
as a a single introvertish waiting for someone to ask me instead of me asking and a junior who is sill in high school I’l- why are you still reading this?
@@jessebaker4245 I do like this comment. It brings perspective and some levity to this video because many people are talking about serious relationships.
@@matthewyang7893 thank you
@@jessebaker4245 your welcome
Aye don't wait until it's too late 😬
Stage 1: attraction
Stage 2: talking to the person
Stage 3: waiting for her to ask you on a date because you're too afraid to perform that task
Stage 4: waiting so long that you either 1. Fall out of love, or 2. Allow her to be taken by someone who was probably better than you.
Mood
That's pretty bleak.
Stage 4 part 3: they move away and you never see them again...
@@VoiceOfTheEmperor
Yeah well I needed somewhere to vent.
@@VoiceOfTheEmperor Also accurate for a very large number of people.
Step 1: Ask them out
Step 2: They say no
Step 3: Pain
I feel like my partner and I are in the doubting stage, but this video actually made me feel a lot better, and that it’ll be okay
Update: a few days after this post we were VERY close to breaking up, and I think both of us realized that’s not what we wanted, and learned the incredible power of communication. Thank you for all of the kind comments
I hope things turn out okay for you guys ♥️
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝
*NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE*
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
Same
Ohhh same😢😌
Me too
As someone that is 3 decades old with very little free time on their hands unless I deliberately sacrifice some things (at least before covid...), let me just say that in my years of experience, getting to stage 1 is difficult enough as it is.
Ayo, if you got insta I'll hit you up 👀
@@WWonderLust Good one.
@@SoldierOfFate just trying to shoot my shot 👍
@@SoldierOfFate no but fr what's your IG
I'm right there with you, dude. Same age and lifestyle
May I introduce you my stages of dating:
1. Attraction
2. Seduction
3. Going on dates
4. The doubting phase (reject him)
5. He comes back
6. Building comfort & trust
7. The doubting phase (reject him again)
8. He comes back again - going on dates again
9. Something like commitment & stability
Me, an anxiety-driven introvert with childhood emotional neglect trauma
My girlfriend and I have only been dating a little bit over a week, so...like usual...this video happened to come out at the exact moment I needed it to 😭
Whole weeeeeeek)
𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 ❶❽ 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐥𝐝
*NUDE-DATTING.ONLINE*
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
For 7 I’d recommend sorting out doubts right away, too much doubt at once can cause a relationship to die, even if it’s meant to be
Currently in the doubting stage so much we separated to work on ourselves. Here's to fate that we come back stronger for ourselves and each other.
Stage 1 :- attraction.
Stage 2 :- learning more about them.
Stage 3 :- building comfort and trust
Stage 4 :- actually going on dates
Stage 5 :- seduction
Stage 6 :- the honeymoon phase
Stage 7 :- the doubting phase
Stage 8 :- commitment and stability
My partner and I are currently in the 2nd last stage of our relationship. I personally just want us to be able to move in together and start our actual lives together.
Do not do it before one year at least, trust
@@User_Brandon we've been together for 5 years, in November of this year it'll be 6 years :)
@@extremelyvividcardgames7890 I misunderstood your comment originally my mistake, I somehow read it as “second stage” but congratulations!! 🥳
Don’t you dare depart even after death 🤣
Many couples decide to break up when the honeymoom phase is over, because "they don't feel in love anymore". The truth is, a relationship takes work. Being in love is a state you achieve by actively working on it. Saying nice to each other, not complacant, appreciating each other. The love feeling won't happen if you don't focus to work on it. Otherwise it would be magic, and magic does not exist ;). When partners realise this and overcome this stage (which is very difficult and can be painful), and decide to put the work in, that's when you are a powercouple.
Keeping aside all those beautiful memories.
I would say love hurts yet we always fall for it.
Exactly, always the same cycle.
Personally i don't want to repeat it again, it still hurts a lot..
Ohh i wanna cry rn😢
One time I was so close to go out on a date she changed her mind and didn’t tell me until I asked her she felt pressured to say yes. RIP
Hello my beloved time travelers. And non-time travelers. ❤️
May your life be blessed, fill the time with love and humanity. 🥰
Nice
Okay but why do the two people in the video look like me and my boyfriend, the resemblance is uncanny. We haven't even been dating for a whole year but it feels like we've known each other forever, like we've already gone through all of these stages
As a introvert guy with an introvert girlfriend all I can say is that there is no better feeling than meeting your other half
Well a lot of people create a family when they’re still in their honeymoon phase, and then they end up fighting a lot
People don’t stick to these stages sadly
They rush into things because of their feelings
I have met someone new. I believe we're in the attraction stage. My intuition, however, tells me more may happen. Thanks for this video!
Good luck Chris!
1:30 _Building comfort and trust♥_
Me: "Enough for me..."
2:04 _Actually going on ♥dates♥_
*_K.T.exe has stopped working_*
Idk why I torture myself with these vids. I'm not dating nor will I ever, yet I keep coming back to them. Hurts.
My ex broke up with me while I was in the commitment and stability stage. I hope we could reconcile and meet eye to eye in the stability part of our relationship because we have grown so much and I can’t let go of how far we’ve developed together.
Can you contact them?
@@icy8403 he blocked me on every social media platform expect discord but we’re not in talking terms
@@angelcinco1021 oh- so chances are low or do you think you can convince him?
I hate to be that person, but it’s time you let go. I know it hurts so much to accept it but it’s essential to your healing and growth. One thing I’ve learned is, when someone tells/ shows you they don’t want you, believe them. Don’t ever let someone tell you twice.
Ahhh this is literally perfect timing. I just reconnected with my highschool crush and we went on our first date today 💕
Update: we're officially boyfriend and girlfriend 💕
Go on soldier be the man you are 💪
Good luck! I wish you all the best!
Congrats..
Never dated but I watched by respect 🙏🏾
I just ended my almost 4 year old relationship. It was going very well until he started uni and suddenly decided despite his feelings for me I’m not his priority anymore. I wasn’t worth a five min call weekly, at least that’s what he showed me. Since he stopped paying that much attention to me the splitting wasn’t hard, i should’ve ended it earlier but i must say it was a great journey.
Hope u r doing ok...
@@aparnadutta3944 yes, I’m getting better day by day. I have my ups and downs but it’s life. Thank you for asking. I hope you’re having a wonderful day/night
@@Alwaysandforeverff Glad u r doing good....!! I too am fine...😊😊
@@aparnadutta3944 👍🏻❤️
After 2.5 months i thought I was doing something wrong but it seems I'm just in the phase before the dates. This made me feel better
If you don't rush intimacy it will last 😘Attraction and honeymoon phase never went away. Dating and doubt a little randomly after 18 years but now trust and comfort makes me need physical touch now not just "intimacy" also now extra passionate as if it wasn't before, just now I know how to be more in tune to my moods
Honestly speaking, I just got into a long distance relationship and I’m pretty happy. The only thing I’m worried about is my mental health. I’m worried that my boyfriend will hate me because my insecurities are so strong, they basically control me when I’m alone. I don’t want to worry him so I haven’t told him anything yet. We’ve both had 3 past relationships, mine of which 2 ended horribly. On a call we had yesterday, my mood dropped and I didn’t want to tell him anything. We suddenly fell into a silence and after a while the call ended. I’m so worried that my mental health is what will destroy our relationship… after all it’s not like it would be the first time…
Same😢
i hope you will seek the help you need, be it from terapists or family, or friends or even your boyfriend himself! He will likely hear you out and support you, i'm sure!
@@giovanarocha3136 thank you so much for your kind works T^T I’ll build up courage to tell someone soon ^^
I’ve told my boyfriend about the little things but not the main problem yet so I’ll take my time ^^’
@@sakku4217 hello i hope you're relationship is going strong I'm on the same conflict as you are we are ldr for 8 months now and its so hard to be open with my current mental health lol i worried too much about it and i don't want him to know about cause maybe i will jinx it and ruin our relationship. 😂
@@airishviscara2326 aiii well I’ve only been in my current relationship for a little over two weeks ^^’
I hope you stay safe and healthy, keep going and open up to your partner when you feel comfortable!! Keep going strong, you and me both :3💕💕
COVID kind of threw a spanner in the works for my relationship.
We have been dating long distance for 2-3 years now. I think we are in the "Dating" stage based on the description in the video. We have a video call 3 times per week. We can't really progress our relationship further while long distance. It's like our relationship is in stasis. There have been points of "Doubts" but we are in a good place right now.
We are eager to finally see each other again when travel becomes less restricted.
Me and my current partner have been friends for years now and we are now in an ldr relationship for almost a year now. I believe we still are in the honeymoon phase and starting to get a glimpse of here and there of the doubting phase. I'm very anxious about it, I tend to be afraid of what the future holds but, hope dies last and I hope that this relationship will last for a big amount of time :))
Oh wow... I've been thinking about this. And apparently your new video talks about it! Man, I've been getting signs to help me out with my relationship with my gf now. I'm so happy, thank you.
I think me and my Boyfriend are on stage 8. We're still long distance because of life situation. We've been together over 5 years. We plan to adopt one day a little girl. (2-3 in age. Maybe even younger.) My Boyfriend supports me alot and gets me alot better than anyone honestly. And I try to get him too. He supports me on wanting to transition. (Female to male. My Gender Identity is Demiboy.) He also debates about being Trans too. Which I support him if he wants to do it. (His Bisexual and Biromantic. I'm Pansexual and Panromantic. So even if we transition we still feel attraction.) I plan to propose officially to him eventually here. I was going to last Fall. But stuff happened. And yeah now my Brother is getting Married this Fall. I've never been to a Wedding so this could be fun. (Tho I rather not go personally. And rather his Future Wife not at my Wedding when we have it. She will get upset over us having a Gothic and Victorian Themed Wedding. Cause in her mind black means bad luck at a Wedding. But from what I have read it's not bad luck.)
I wish you all the best, a gothic and Victorian era themed wedding sounds amazing, even I would want one over a traditional white dress wedding. 🖤
What did i just read
Your wedding sounds like it'll be an actual dream and so lovely 💖
what's the difference between biromantic and panromantic? I still don't understand even I searched it
@@johnolivergabayan4180 Biromantic is when your romantically attracted to only men and women. While Panromantic is when your romantically attracted to all genders and sexs. (Biromantic doesn't include intersex and possibly more.)
boutta go on a date in a half hour i’m listening to this while getting ready and so far every stage is fitting, crazy
well wishes for you & your partner
How did it go?
How did it go man?
@@hi_im_ana ay thank you
@@fenzgmod7377 that shit went amazingly bro
please make one for long distance relationships
I'm in love with my Best friend. And Everyone like knowing him will always be with me wherever I go. Also everyone around us said that "Both of you will end up together." But then It's been 7 years, and comes the 'doubt phase.' He said that he choose his career over me. And what can I do? 😢
Well, I just start a new relationship with my new boyfriend. And we're in honeymoon phase now. I hope my relationship won't end up the same :( like before. Wish me luck. And I wish luck for everyone who lose someone in 'doubt phase' 💕
My teacher put a _date_ on my exam paper. Now don't get me wrong, he is nice, but I didn't know he was interested in me like that.
😂😆😆
I know I'm done with this already, because I'm tired emotionally. 🙁
Thank you for this Ma'am! 🙂
3:09 "most of our viewers are familiar with thi-"
me: *laughs uncontrollably*
(I'm don't know about you guys tho, but I'm speaking for myself)
You speak for me as well.
Love that this dropped after my crush and I recently got together. I think we're on stage 3 or 4. Since we met online, our "dates" (if they can even be called that) are more like constant vcs that last for hours and hours or even days
Hi I'm a time traveler just so you know you COULD'VE seen this video 1 year ago but you didn't 😃
WHAT THE-
well hi then 👀
I did 2 years ago
Wtf is going on?!
HAHAHA I FORGOT ABOUT THIS IT'S GENUINELY BEEN LIKE 2 YEARS LMAO WHAT
The main thing about a relationship to stay forever is having trust and comfortable..as they should be like our best friend..staying with us with all ups and downs..happiness sadness everything..should understand each others situation.. should open up every single thing happens in day to day life..in my opinion in the end of the day we should create a talk with your partner where you can share everything as well as they can share and should relief if they are in pain..love each other unconditionally..no cheatings..if he or she doesn't understands your point try to make them understand or leave..if a relationship is toxic you should leave.. because we live only once and we should live happily each and every moment..thank you
Help just did the first 5 stages on one day…
None of my relationships have lasted more than 8 months. I was never great friends with my partner before we got together, usually just a month or two of talking and then we made things official, and I was the one always initiating it. It’s been a month since my ex boyfriend broke up with me because “things just didn’t work out” (whatever that’s supposed to mean). The same week he broke up with me, one of my best friend’s girlfriends broke up with him and right now me and him have a friends with benefits type thing going on and we’re both pretty happy. My friend actually helped me get with my (now ex bf) when I got COVID and had to quarantine so I couldn’t see my ex. I was with my ex for about 6 months but 2 months before that was when I met my friend. I have definitely thought about getting into a relationship with my friend since we’ve already been through a bit with each other (he was my first kiss). I’m not planning on making things official, I would rather wait for him to make the first move since whenever I do things don’t work out. Plus, it’s only been a month since my boyfriend broke up with me, and 3 weeks since my friend broke up with his girlfriend. I think a key part to having a good relationship with someone is being friends before you get together, then you actually know what you’re getting into and you know if things will work out.
Now even Psych2go is a Time traveler lol hahahah
But I know this video already hehe🌸
The old intro hits right in the nostalgia!! I miss it! Psych2Go should bring it back for all videos!
I've been in the first seven stages and the doubting stage was the break of our relationship (a few months ago). Hopefully I get another chance to try and get to stage 8.
Psych2Go: 8 stages of dating😃
Propably everyone watching this channel: not able to get in a relationship because of mental problems
oh that’s not true at all!.. people can build wonderful relationships even with a struggling state of health.
@@kam9910 not me💀
@@pirupami9746 I don’t know a specific person I can name, but I did talk to this person on yt and the boyfriend was able to help. she found the boy even with this health state, and he was understanding. It just appears to be kinda rare to find that person I guess
@@lilpumpkin7135 lol I couldn’t either but I guess some can
After getting divorced ( marriage lasted 11 months ) I got into videogaming and that really helped a lot, then I found someone else, we had a daughter together but then we broke up, but we are a family unit for our daughter, but other than that that’s it, that was 2020, I’ve not dated now for 2 years and being totally honest I don’t think I ever will
@@pirupami9746 yes gaming is much easier than dating
I've dated this guy for Seven years... But recently I've started to doubt. He's like a different person. He says things that he normally wouldn't say to me. Whenever I'd ask him why he talks to me diff, he'd say he's just being himself unlike before.
I still like him. I still care about him.
But I met someone else recently. He's so kind. He gives me his time, he sends me music lol and the sweetest texts, he says he loves me and I think.... I'm... in love w him too.
What now😪
bruh me n my boyfriend went/are going so out of order🤣
1. Attraction
2. The Honeymoon Phase
3. The Doubting Phase
4. Learning About Them
5. Building Comfort and Trust
6. Actually Going on Date
Omg I've been having so much anxiety and overthinking but now i realize I'm at the doubting stage 💀💀💀It really sucks but i wanna get through it 🙏
I never really reach phase 1.. thus it's really really difficult to try and find someone. I think this is because I'm demiromantic. And if I'm in no way attracted or friend equivalent of that, I don't want to talk. Because it's just pure work, with no fun and no enjoyment for me, other than making them feel more happy. But still not being truly happy myself.
And.. I can only look online currently because of covid and life situation, making things even worse.
I am just looking for someone who it's easy to be with, always. Friend or partner.
I'm just.. lonely, and confused
No one else notice that they say in this video, "and in 2019," implying that it's the modern time? Is this a lost episode? A reup? Lol
Quality content as always, either way!
me and my bf definitely skipped ahead a little to the intimate stage lol. i know right now we're in the doubting phase, just because my life is at an inflection point. im graduating soon, and we're long distance with him in another state for grad school. honestly im really glad to hear that the doubting stage is common. i've pretty much already decided i want to spend the rest of my life with him, but now we just have to figure out the logistics. if he's gonna be away for another 3-5 years, what do i do? do i stay where i am and get a job at home, near my family, and wait for him? do i get a job near him and move away? do i find a remote job and just figure it out? what happens after that? my career path is very flexible, while his isn't, so am i just going to follow where ever his career takes him?
I am in the exact same position as you and it’s stressful
Been together for 4 years..... we got tired of the doubting, fights, mini breakups. Now stable
I’m in a relationship right now and we’re taking things quite slow
I just started dating someone, and as far as i can tell, we're on stage 5. I love him alot and can't wait for us to grow together even more :)
Dating through Covid is pretty harsh
Ikr….it’s scary
@@littlemissemila1818 true and also nice name
You may circle back to the previous stage at any point. Stability can definitely revert back to doubting..
Still in stage 7. Finally would’ve been dating for a year on the 23rd, but we’re also currently engaged and I pushed the wedding back by a year. I feel like I’m the only one stuck in Stage 7, my fiancé seems to be in the 6th stage. I don’t feel as if I can go forward with the 8th stage - hmm guess we need couple counseling
As somebody that has never dated, the one thing I havent understood is how people feel "drawn to" or "attracted" or "have a crush on" somebody they havent even met. Like, sure, they may be cute or something, but you have no idea what they are about, how they view the world, what they like doing, what values they have etc
idk m8 hormones are weird. I too struggle to understand how people can build a healthy relationship upon a risky and sometimes unhealthy concoction of happy chemicals that tries to befuddle your brain.
Stage 1: Attraction
Stage 2: Finding out they are already dating someone else
Stage 3: Depression
Bye
Well, I met I guy (not in person yet, I was moving to another house and he was handling some family issues); but every day we are updating about each other and you know when there's something different with one person? THAT is what we feel, we are open too whatever happens but we are very interested on our emotional support and of course meeting each other in person this week, finally!!
Let's see what happens 🍀💚
Incredible person reading this, you have everything there is to succeed in life, whatever that is for you. Go after the life you truly want NOW! ✨
I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
Thank you ❤️
Back at ya' once again, Nat. 😊
okay so me and my bf went completely out of order:
attraction
seduction
learning about them
actually going on a date
building comfort and trust
the honeymoon phase
the doubting phase is sprinkled in here and there but we talk and get through it
Constantly stuck in stage 0, never finding a date.
Same
Focus on yourself and do things to better yourself and girls will begin to focus on you, it’s as simple as that. Women are strange, they feel stronger attraction to men that aren’t phased by them. Put yourself on a pedestal instead of any woman, and I guarantee you’ll find a date in no time. You got this man
Now I think I understand why I'm single. And I start doubting more and more about that. But what can I do? I need this commitment. I can't be the only person, who invests all the time, nerves and feelings in the relationship, while receiving a dry "yes" on the other side. While if it's on the other end, it feels like the girls are either suffocating me with their vision of love or want to be the leader in a controlling relationship. (Or both.) Why should I be the only one to compromise? Why should I be the only one to push ahead? Why should I give money for this person if I have no commitment guaranteed?
With my fiancee none of it was like that! It was all about commitment in the first month even. I don't know why it all happened so fast, but I understood in the end. It was just that in the third month she found out she had cancer and was scared she might die before even having a chance to marry. And she did die, but at least we got to being engaged before it happened. I know I shouldn't compare relationships to that and other women to her, but I at least want to have a similar life to what we wanted to have with her.
Welp, I've only made it to stage 3 so far. I guess that makes sense since I only started really putting myself out there last month, but it kinda sucks being 25 and not having experienced what true love feels like.
Took a while, but over the last few years finally picked up on the female cues of attraction; as an average looking guy, looking back, it’s brought a lot of clarity as to why my relationships never worked out and why there’s little reason to pursue one further. In short, The love I’m searching for no longer exists.
when you are at stage 0 😎
Thank you for the reminder
I’ve gone through these stages so many times and I’m not even old enough to drive, and every time they end in disaster and a broken heart in my chest, I’m waiting for the day that I finally get to stage 8, and for anyone reading this also single, I hope you do to
Me:
Stage 1: meet someone
Stage 2: "no"
Repeat
Sigh. I wish I could make it to any of those last half stages.
Instead, it's just me being attracted, then going through doubts, then taking a chance and getting rejected. Repeat.
I am 27 years old and I am at the point where I can't face any more rejection. I am worried that giving up will mean I won't ever get my dream, but man, I am so messed inside from all the constant rejection that I just need a break and learn how to accept myself and like myself.
I don’t really have dating experience, but I feel like I get many of the doubts out of the way from the beginning, like from the start I am envisioning if this person could be a long term partner or not. For me, it’s a terrible feeling to break things off with someone when feelings are involved so I would rather not go far past the talking phase if I realize it probably won’t work. So I’m not sure if the doubting phase would come that late into the relationship for me, like in this video. But what do I know? Maybe. Stuff could happen later on that shakes you
the 8 stages:
1: you cant find a girlfriend
2: you still cant find a girlfriend
3: you literally cannot find a girlfriend
4: it is literally impossible for you to get a girlfriend
5: you realize you cant find a girlfriend because it impossible
6: cry
7: cry more
8: repeat on stage 6
Why does it take so long to be sure that the relationship is going to work ? I don't have time to waste. I don't want to create a bond with someone for it to be for nothing. Isn't there a way to find out more earlier and avoid disappointment ?
Not in my experience. If you put too much pressure at the beginning to find out if it will work, you will make them feel rushed and they will get intimidated. The reason for taking it slow is to build an actual partnership. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't mean you wasted your time because you're learning how to build during those relationships.
these videos are so calming yet make me cry AND IDK WHY
I’m in stage two and stage friendzone. I love life 😃
I LOVE THIS NEW ART STYLE
The one stage of dating:
1. You can never get a date.
I don’t chase…. I don’t give compliments even when they are said to me. Iam caressed and touched and I can’t reciprocate those so I am seen as disinterested. For many reasons…. But the main one is that I am well mannered and just can’t bring myself to be like that with someone unless we are already together.. i hate that I’m like this