How My MOST Disqualified Recruit Became My BEST

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 1. 07. 2024
  • She was all the way disqualified from the Air Force. This video is all about my worst/best Air Force Moral (criminal) waiver process ever. She had a really hard time getting this Air Force Waiver approved but in the end the process worked out. I know some of you are gonna have a hard time getting in as well, so I hope this gives you the motivation you need to start your Air Force recruiting process. That way you know you can still be great and get qualified even if you have a shaky past. I will be discussing everything from how we met, discovering she needed an Air Force Waiver, the waiver process, regulations and all the different morals categories, the guide we used to qualify her to join the Air Force and lastly how well she's doing in the Air Force. So if you need a waiver, and you’re wondering whether you can join with a misdemeanor or felony, this is the video to watch. #herstory
    It's my first time telling a story through film like this, so let me know what you guys think.
    0:00 - Intro
    0:32 - Appointment
    1:30 - The Waiver
    2:28 - Waiver Regulations (Morals Offenses Category 1-5)
    4:55 - Back to the story - The Waiver Process
    7:00 - Success!!!
    If you're interested in starting your own CZcams channel and wanna know what gear I'm using to record, I have all the links below for everything.
    This is the Canon M-50 bundle kit. It has everything from the Canon M-50 camera, to the 15-45mm leans and tripod.
    amzn.to/2LJqabV
    This is the Canon M-50 with 15-45mm lens by itself
    amzn.to/2Ktv8cj
    My Manfrotto 290 light Tri-pod
    amzn.to/388T3WC
    My MountDog 2400W lighting kit
    amzn.to/2LHA6mi
    My Comica CVM-V30 Pro Shotgun Mic
    amzn.to/3oZ5wD6
    My 2TB external hard drive
    amzn.to/3nq61Wj
    My SanDisk 128GB memory card
    amzn.to/3nse9FB
    My LED background light kit
    amzn.to/34kqTGP

Komentáře • 832

  • @Jodywithawhy
    @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +105

    Hey everyone. If you’re interested in joining the Air Force, I created a “Joining the Air Force” Starter pack playlist. Hopefully this helps you in your decision making.
    czcams.com/play/PLXuUcq2bb7w1FpnrFV4FC0pn57wq9uCVc.html

    • @loveisonthewayreggae6239
      @loveisonthewayreggae6239 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey jodywithawhy would you be eligible to join the Air Force if you have a misdemeanor DUI ? I got one at 19

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      Depends on how old you are now, and what your criminal and alcohol history was like after this incident. If it’s been 2-3 years or more and you’ve been a saint, this can be approved. But you’d first have to find a recruiter who’s willing to work it.

    • @loveisonthewayreggae6239
      @loveisonthewayreggae6239 Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy currently still 19 but just speaking everything into existence. I hope my recruiter is as driven as you because I’m really overthinking everything. I don’t even want to look at alcohol because of what it could’ve caused me...

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      I hear ya. That’s good though. Remember to stay like that, and then a year after the incident try to join. Your recruiter may say it’s too early, or they may try to see what happens.

    • @WIIICCITYDoowop
      @WIIICCITYDoowop Před 3 lety

      I have a Felony PCS(less than a Gram) Evading Arrest POM Trespassing what category am I under please let me know I’m currently goin through the waiver process

  • @sm.babydoll_
    @sm.babydoll_ Před 2 lety +296

    Bless you for helping her instead of just listening to whoever advised you not to.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +42

      Always gotta challenge what you don’t believe in. Even while in the Air Force. 🙌🏽

  • @Lydia-Roe
    @Lydia-Roe Před 5 měsíci +19

    When people want to get serious, get a second chance at life, you're one of the ones who listens. Well done.

  • @PlasmaCoolantLeak
    @PlasmaCoolantLeak Před 2 lety +105

    Hey, Sarge. I was an ANG recruiter in the late 70s. I had a kid who wanted to be a PJ. He interviewed with the PJ NCOIC, ASVAB tested, took the physical abilities test, passed his physical, and we got his orders cut for the pipeline. About 2 weeks before he was due to leave for Lackland, he asks me if that offense (I can't remember what it was) was going to be a problem.
    "What offense, Mr. X?"
    "The blah blah when I was a kid."
    I felt like the ground was going to open up. The senior recruiter looked at me with one of those "You moron" looks and shook his head. Turns out he had disqualified the guy a year before, and didn't tell me.
    I called CBPO and the NCOIC there guided me on what needed to be done. The kid had to get a letter signed by a judge, I believe it was to show the kids had learned his lesson, to submit along with a request for waiver. He got the letter, and I submitted the waiver. The senior recruiter said it probably wasn't going to be approved.
    I moved on left the unit after my enlistment was up. About a year later, my then wife and I were at an air show. I turned around for some reason, there was the kid - in 1550s, jump boots, jump and aircrew wings and maroon beret. He was working, but he shook my hand and said "Thanks." I hope he had a great career and helped folks who needed it.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +12

      Aww man. This is great. It’s these kinds of moments as a recruiter that make it all worth it. I salute you Sir. Taking the extra time to change someone’s life is honorable. We need more like you. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @madtic5162
    @madtic5162 Před 2 lety +141

    I’m happy for her that she found a recruiter like you. I had a misdemeanor, and I’m struggling to find a recruiter who is willing to help me.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +37

      That is unfortunate. Sometimes it is really hard to find a recruiter who’s willing to work waivers. It may take you some time to find a recruiter who will. Just don’t give up and keep searching. Hopefully everything works out for you. It took Myriah 3 years before she found a recruiter willing to work her.

    • @monkacharlie
      @monkacharlie Před 11 měsíci +5

      Any update? I hope you were able to get in 🥺

    • @engineking777
      @engineking777 Před 2 měsíci

      My recruiter said they don't deal with people with any crimes. I think she was just being racist with me and one of those people that were nerds in school and doesn't believe in second chances.

    • @cobydray6468
      @cobydray6468 Před 22 dny

      Other than my tattoo on my neck that I'm going to get removed I'm having the same problem I was just informed today about a harassment misdemeanor I mean pretty much told me that he can do a waiver but he chooses not to and that no one else is willing to do it I was like ok I can give you the nature of my case and why this could never happen again with a girlfriend. And pretty much said everyone would know but I think he's just worried about his reputation on who signed a waiver for me I'm looking to have a chance I'm 30 years old and I know this is something I truly would like to do.

    • @cobydray6468
      @cobydray6468 Před 22 dny

      Even thought the neck tattoo is a disqualifyer that can be fixed but I still have that since of hope because the charge itself isn't a disqualifyer it's the matter of fact which recruiter my ancestors are gonna put me twords to work this waiver for me so I am no doubt gonna stop trying because he said he won't do it you you wont but someone will. And Jody your videos have been nothing but helpful and very inspirational and very driven to be perseverance about these types of situations. Thankyou

  • @kkpatino
    @kkpatino Před rokem +24

    i think it’s funny how “draft evasion” can be a reason they won’t let you join

  • @daylightheist3781
    @daylightheist3781 Před rokem +20

    Had to get 2 waivers, obstruction of justice and shoplifting when I was 17 (I know , I know) . Got accepted! It’s always worth the try

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před rokem +5

      Ayeee. Congratulations. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @bryantgonzalez9165
    @bryantgonzalez9165 Před rokem +24

    I wish I had a recruiter like you. 3 years ago I was trying to join the Marines and I waited for a year 1/2 to go through the application process because I had a few ear surgeries where I was young. Long story short my hearing is slightly weak on one side and my papers were at MEPS in limbo for a long time until they rejected me. My recruiter didn't tell me there was an option for a waiver and gave up on me. After seeing this video I'll try again with Air force.

  • @blackgirloffgrid1054
    @blackgirloffgrid1054 Před rokem

    Such a heartwarming video ! I can't say i would've put in that work but I'm glad you did

  • @NBHRaven
    @NBHRaven Před 3 lety +27

    Holy shit. That’s an awesome story, and even more inspiration for me. Hell yeah. The truest definition of Aim High

  • @kill4fun52
    @kill4fun52 Před 3 měsíci

    This just gave me hope. Thank you brother

  • @rosauraruiz05
    @rosauraruiz05 Před rokem +3

    Congratulations man ,not everyone is willing to help,that says a lot about you ,wish all recruiters were like you

  • @ismaelrojas07
    @ismaelrojas07 Před rokem

    Thanks man!!!!! Have been trying to find out useful information regarding charges being dismissed !

  • @Lucindaperson
    @Lucindaperson Před rokem

    I'm leaving for Air Force basic training in one week, and I've been binging your videos to help make sure I'm prepared. The end of this one made start to cry... You decided she was worth taking a chance on and now she's CRUSHING it

  • @mauricehoward1958
    @mauricehoward1958 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Glad you could help someone get into the military,she proved herself by going beyond and above the required.

  • @ianfletch
    @ianfletch Před 3 lety +5

    Holy cow dude! You took us for a roller coaster of a story. I kept waiting for the sad ending. That's so awesome!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      Naw man. She was one of my biggest success stories as a recruiter. She’s still out there killing it too, so her story is still going.

  • @CB-fs5hf
    @CB-fs5hf Před 3 lety +6

    What an amazing story. I came to this video after watching your video about your own journey of joining that almost didn’t happen. I remember when I was in delayed entry. I was 18 years old and did all kinds of dumb stuff that could have landed me in a lot of trouble. Luckily, I didn’t get caught up with the law. Your incident before basic ended up being a blessing in disguise. Had you not gone through that, you probably wouldn’t have been willing to go to bat so hard for this girl. Way to pay it forward. Outstanding! 👍🏻

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      You’re definitely right. And I also honestly don’t think I was ready for the Air Force prior to that incident. That humbled me and made more responsible and careful with who I spent my time with. Thanks for watching and the support. Means a lot. 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @reggiemulitauaopele8479
    @reggiemulitauaopele8479 Před 2 lety +14

    You’re an amazing human being sir! Thank you for your service and being great to others with a past!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety

      No problem at all. Definitely a passion of mine to help those in need when I can. Thanks for the support. 🤙🏽

  • @jayeleee
    @jayeleee Před rokem +1

    Mariah was living honey 😂🎉 I love this! This makes me feel so good!

  • @marcelouscrosby7550
    @marcelouscrosby7550 Před rokem

    Needed to hear this as long as I know there’s a chance I’m going to try appreciate it bro

  • @marybethpyle6140
    @marybethpyle6140 Před 3 lety +14

    Thanks for sharing this with me Jody, it gives me inspiration for me to keep trying to get in. I have a lot of obstacles to overcome but being in the Air Force is one of my dreams. By reviewing and researching all the information I need it’s going to help me prepare. I know I should probably just do the prescreening to see if I can even apply but I know with the right recruiter I will be able to achieve my dreams. Time to put in the hard work and get all my details situated. 🕵🏻‍♀️ thank you 😊

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      Good luck on the journey. Stay focused and stay relentless. 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @sienna.hernandez
    @sienna.hernandez Před 2 měsíci

    currently have been in the process of joining air force, still waiting to hear back on my waiver and i’ve watched this video probably 10 times within the past couple months. gives me hope, thanks jody

  • @johnlauderdale8955
    @johnlauderdale8955 Před 3 lety +5

    I'm so happy you make these videos. You give me hope in being able to grasp this opportunity to become part the U.s. Airforce.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      I’m glad I could help you. Hopefully everything works out for you. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @user-bh1pb3ir3g
    @user-bh1pb3ir3g Před rokem +30

    Congrats to both of you! You helped her change her life. I hope all recruiters are dedicated and willing to help above and beyond

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před rokem +2

      It was my mission to make sure I changed as many lives as possible. The ones who care are always the good recruiters. Thanks for watching and supporting. 🙌🏽

    • @love3765T
      @love3765T Před 5 měsíci

      HI IM TRYING TO JOIN NOW. IM 37. DONT YOU THINK IT'S A GOOD IDEA? I HAVE NO BACKGROUND, TATTS OR WEIRD PIERCINGS AND NO KIDS. I REALLY NEED SOMETHING CHALLENGING. ​@Jodywithawhy

  • @laurentribeiro5879
    @laurentribeiro5879 Před 2 lety +3

    I hope I can be as lucky 🍀 as you guys where all I need is a second chance 💯 thanks for the inspiration and information! Bless you brother and thank you for your service

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +1

      No problem. Thanks for watching and hopefully you get that second chance to be great. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @bidodj2966
    @bidodj2966 Před 15 dny

    She is blessed to find a Recruiter like you 🙏🏼

  • @StaySassyStyles
    @StaySassyStyles Před 3 lety +2

    She must be super proud of you being so proud of her enough to make this video. Respect goes both ways. Great recruiters are everything! You guys do serious work. Much respect. My recruiter is a boss too. Very thankful. Similar story. ✊❤️

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +2

      Sometimes we just need someone to believe in us. That’s all she needed. One of my proudest times as a recruiter.

  • @shawnkuhns2187
    @shawnkuhns2187 Před 3 lety +41

    I personally worked with this (S)Sgt, there is no one that represents the AF better than Myriah.

  • @caroleastmond9064
    @caroleastmond9064 Před rokem +6

    Wow!!!!
    That was great, you helped that young lady change her life. What a wonderful thing you and the other offices did, you work with her, that was wonderful, you're wonderful young man.❤️🎉🎉🎉

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před rokem +2

      Thank you for watching. Her life has definitely changed since joining. Always makes me proud to think about how far she’s gone.

  • @OwnerOfStarcraft2
    @OwnerOfStarcraft2 Před 2 lety +1

    My waiver was just approved, thank you for your video, it helped me.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety

      Ayeee. That’s awesome. I’m so happy for you. Good luck and thanks for the support. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @craig5222
    @craig5222 Před rokem +7

    God bless you for going the distance to help her. As an older guy with a troubled past who is hoping to join the air reserves in the next year, this gives me hope

  • @parkerbb1
    @parkerbb1 Před rokem

    Jody - You are amazing!

  • @daisyejones
    @daisyejones Před 3 lety

    Great video and so inspiring!! Thank you!!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      No problem. Thanks for watching and supporting. 🙌🏽

  • @roythousand13
    @roythousand13 Před rokem +1

    Awesome story bro!

  • @Willpower42x
    @Willpower42x Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you for this video, when I was 17 I did some stupid things and got some felonies on my juvenile record. It’s sealed and that was 2 years ago. Now I’m getting back to the authentic person I need to be and the Navy is how I see doing that. I’m going to get situated and go talk to a recruiter instead of being too scared I’ll get rejected. Thank you

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +3

      Good luck. I hope everything works out for you. 🙌🏽

  • @OiVinn-eq1ml
    @OiVinn-eq1ml Před rokem +1

    She's a baddie & has a great smile. Glad you helped her change her life! That's amazing bro! :)

  • @thesocialteamedia
    @thesocialteamedia Před 28 dny +1

    Wow, I hope my recruiter is this dedicated when I enlist. A recruiter that cares really can change lives!

  • @nonenone5413
    @nonenone5413 Před 7 měsíci

    that is such a sweet story!

  • @aryansaeedi7618
    @aryansaeedi7618 Před 3 lety +5

    You’re jut amazing thanks for this video helpful as usual

  • @ashleyleach7958
    @ashleyleach7958 Před 3 lety +16

    I watched this video probably 4 or 5 times. I met with one recruiter and he told me I was eligible. I read the different categories with him and knew something was wrong so K went to a different recruiter who was willing to help me. Currently waiting for my waiver . This video gives me so much hope. Thank you!!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      I’m glad I could help. Hopefully everything works out. Please lemme know if the waiver gets approved. You can give hope to someone else🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @edgarserna5042
    @edgarserna5042 Před 3 lety +1

    Good knowledge. Made me feel like I have a chance.

  • @exit5398
    @exit5398 Před 2 lety +3

    Jody thank you for doing this all for her sir, I'm in a very similar situation and I'm fortunate enough to have a stand up recruiter who's really working with me to get me through this same exact process, it's been a decade since all of my past happened and I've tried really hard to make up for my past mistakes, I'm really hoping the flight chief and CO will see how well I've done after all is said and done

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +1

      I’m rooting for you. Keep me updated if you get approved. 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

    • @exit5398
      @exit5398 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Jodywithawhy i absolutely will sir, my recruiter said he's confident i'll get in, it's just much harder trying to track down everything a decade later

    • @devonleavitt1771
      @devonleavitt1771 Před rokem

      @@exit5398I’m actually in the exact same scenario, how did it go if you don’t mind me asking?

  • @MarktheMartian
    @MarktheMartian Před 3 lety

    Very cool of you man you do have a big heart

  • @jovanyoung4236
    @jovanyoung4236 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Jody you have given me hope❤💗

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety

      I’m glad I could inspire. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @SlingerFinger
    @SlingerFinger Před 10 měsíci +1

    I want to thank you for helping her

  • @tylerford2651
    @tylerford2651 Před 2 lety

    I love how you explained the waivers

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety

      I appreciate the support. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @astone2392
    @astone2392 Před 2 lety +1

    @jodywithawhy I commented 8 days ago to say this video gave me hope because I was in the same situation as Mariah, well I swore in yesterday! Thank you to you for the confidence and to my amazing recruiter who didn’t just send me away, I get to peruse my dream!
    The Air Force did for me in 8 days what the Marine Corps couldn’t/wouldn’t do for me over the course of 10 years.
    Thank you so much for all of your amazing content! I’ll be watching your videos religiously now lol!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +1

      Ayeee. That’s so awesome. I’m glad it all worked out for you. This is cool. This will definitely be a comment of the week. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @AirmanVision
    @AirmanVision Před 3 lety +34

    Myriah is goals!
    -M

  • @propheticshofar
    @propheticshofar Před 3 lety

    Your videos are dope and so informative and keeps my attention it's funny too..when ODB part came on 😂😂

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much. I’m really trying to find my rhythm with these videos, and keep getting better. I appreciate you watching and supporting. It means a lot. 🙌🏽

  • @tdejong7663
    @tdejong7663 Před 2 měsíci

    Gotta love the regs!!! They have given some good and some not good answers over the years 😉

  • @bkhstlr
    @bkhstlr Před 2 lety

    Love this 😊

  • @mercedeslacy1626
    @mercedeslacy1626 Před 3 lety +34

    The quality of your videos are getting so much better!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +3

      Broooo. Hours and hours of learning, so I don’t come off as a bum on CZcams. 😂😂😂. Still learning though, but I always appreciate you for noticing. 💪🏽💪🏽. A1 since day 1.

    • @Stephoya
      @Stephoya Před 3 lety

      Yep I agree. Subject matter improvement. He clearly knows allot about recruiting and what's required to join. He just needed to increase the subject areas and add his unique delivery to the topic of discussion.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      @@Stephoya how did I miss this. Thank you. This helps a lot. 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @xlilz
    @xlilz Před 3 lety +22

    Really appreciate you covering the waiver process, and loving your channel content so far! It's so encouraging to see a recruiter willing to go the distance (: I'm in the process of trying to enlist, but ran into an issue with my DTI ratio potentially disqualifying me from jobs requiring top security clearance. Have you had experience/success in the realm of financial waivers? Or would it be alright if I could contact you directly for perspective on my situation?

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks for watching. So I’ve had financial waivers done before and if you come with the DTI over 40% you won’t be qualified for top secret clearances. But if you were to get the DTI under 40%, you could potentially become eligible for those jobs. I hope that helps.

    • @yingyang7448
      @yingyang7448 Před 10 měsíci

      xlilz, do you got an update?

  • @dhat1755
    @dhat1755 Před rokem

    retired AF here. I'm glad she got her life going the right way. Good job both of yall

  • @robertoguerra8664
    @robertoguerra8664 Před 3 lety +2

    Man that's so inspirational I have a sr22 for being involved in a accident without insurance and a licence but only got a ticket for insurance it's been 4 years never been into trouble no tickets I confident that I could pass I was scared but hearing this story makes me feel better much respect to recruiters like you

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      Thanks bro. Yea with something like that, you shouldn’t have a problem. Good luck. 🤙🏽

  • @d.7819
    @d.7819 Před 3 lety

    Awesome video and content.

  • @LakeShowHighlights
    @LakeShowHighlights Před 2 lety +3

    Hey Jody, can you make a video on going over debt? I am trying to join, and up until recently I have found out if you have like an insane amount of credit card debt or certain type of debt like in collections that it may prevent you from joining. I was just hoping you can make a video covering all things in regards to debts and credit scores if that makes sense. Like maybe certain waivers or payment plans that can help you join regardless of debt? I hope that makes sense also lol.
    I’m sure there is a lot of people with questions like that in regards to the enlisting process with the recruiter so i know it would be a great video for your channel.
    Thank you for all your videos. Very very helpful.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +4

      I think I can do something like that. Thanks for the idea. 💪🏽

    • @kingkoba8231
      @kingkoba8231 Před 2 lety

      I was wondering about that same thing.

  • @freethereal21
    @freethereal21 Před 3 lety +23

    Respect for taking your time to help her

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +5

      Thanks. I was a waiver too, so it was very important for me to help her and many others.

    • @freethereal21
      @freethereal21 Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy I got denied entry to the army so I’m going to try navy now. I was super disappointed because it took me a year to get a yes or no. And my asvab scores will be null in December

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      Asvab scores last for 2 years. I don’t know when you too it, but 2 years is the timeframe

    • @bryantmontgomery2202
      @bryantmontgomery2202 Před 3 lety

      Facts hope someone is able to help me like that

  • @ware8229
    @ware8229 Před 8 měsíci

    air force be changing lives

  • @elijah2565
    @elijah2565 Před 2 lety +15

    I don't think a lot of people understand what it means to applicants to get a recruiter like you. I walked into the recruiters office about 2 months ago with 11b in mind and I didn't really care where I went as long as it was a change of scenery. My army recruiter has been super honest from the get go letting me know that with my wrist surgery we just have to be honest and up front and we can get it approved. He sent in my packets 3 times before I was approved to phys at MEPS. Went to MEPS the first time and they lost my packet due to the GENESIS thing going on. Went my second time a few weeks later and passed first try actually getting to phys. Signed my contract the same day and swore in. Best part is I got a bonus and a guaranteed Germany duty station attached with it. Keep being that honest and hardworking recruiter. You never know when you might be the one thing between a kid getting a second chance and a new start at life.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +3

      Love to hear it. Congrats on everything working out. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @dhat1755
      @dhat1755 Před rokem

      where in germany? I loved heidelburg but Austria was my favorite

  • @gemaraasch8962
    @gemaraasch8962 Před 3 lety +10

    The sound effects are LIFE 🤣. I just joined at 36 ( active duty ) and your videos are beyond helpful. Probs was over prepared at MEPS cuz you know, that’s what we old people do.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +2

      Ayeeee. Congrats on making that step. And thanks for the support. I honestly don’t think you could ever be too prepared for MEPS. It’s better to over prepare, get there and realize it’s not that hard, than under prepare and then be overwhelmed. So kudos to you and good luck on the journey. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @nicholashillikergod1stmini214
      @nicholashillikergod1stmini214 Před rokem

      I thought 35 was the cut off

    • @gemaraasch8962
      @gemaraasch8962 Před rokem

      @@nicholashillikergod1stmini214 , it’s 39 for active duty Airforce.

    • @alfjones6377
      @alfjones6377 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@gemaraasch8962 thank you. you are an inspiration

  • @airplanemode916
    @airplanemode916 Před 3 lety

    Great story telling 👌👌👌👌😅

  • @JoeMama-wq9gx
    @JoeMama-wq9gx Před 2 lety

    I fucking loved this story! Good bless you brother!

  • @olesaarellano1183
    @olesaarellano1183 Před rokem

    Wow. That was a beautiful plot twist. 💯

  • @Lmaxwell32
    @Lmaxwell32 Před 5 měsíci

    I would have done the same thing. Being an Airforce veteran I feel it is a great place for people to make a positive change in their life. They just need to get in the door.. 💪🏽Aim High!!

  • @TracesofReign
    @TracesofReign Před 3 lety +7

    Such a 🔥FIRE🔥 video, JODY!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      3 days of editing. I’m tired boss. 😩. Lol. Thanks Rainee. 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @chuckwagon7354
    @chuckwagon7354 Před 4 měsíci +1

    NGL, this brought a tear to my eye. From experience I know what it's like to look in a mirror and see a pos failure looking back you, and even when you determine to change you still need someone who's prepared to go to bat for you. I hope the USAF were thankful you went the extra mile to recruit a nigh on perfect candidate 👏

  • @astone2392
    @astone2392 Před 2 lety +6

    I’m so glad I found this video, I’m in the same boat as her and going on Friday to enlist. I’ve been worrying and tossing and turning for days but this gave me so much hope! I tried with the Marines for a few years and kept getting rejected but I finally found an AF recruiter willing to help me. I’m praying I get the same end results as her 🤞🏽 is there any tips or advice on what I can do to help my case? I’m currently working on getting on 100 letters of recommendation, my idea not my recruiters, I haven’t told him yet. And I’ll start working on getting everything else you mentioned in the video from the state im from, I only have my criminal record as of now, juvenile to last offense. (currently living in Colorado).
    Thank you for this video! It was very helpful

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +3

      That’s awesome. I’m glad I could give you the motivation you need. I would recommend you write a letter explaining what happened, why it happened, why it won’t happen again and why you deserve a chance in the Air Force. Gather all the records and any letter of recommendations. 100 may be too much. Lol. I would say like 2-4. Also if you have any major medical history, gather the records for that stuff too. That way your recruiter can have everything they need upfront. This will make you look non top of your stuff, and the recruiter will be more appreciative to work with you. Good luck. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @rudys3845
    @rudys3845 Před rokem +1

    Videos like these and the posts that my friend who joined the army makes me want to try and join the Air Force so much faster but I set myself back and need to get my diploma first but I’ll be there soon

    • @OrgBobaFret
      @OrgBobaFret Před rokem

      Don't let that mistake ruin your life- Whether you join the AF or not get your diploma if not you could start a pattern of not finishing things- I had an Army recruiter tell my friend they would help her get her diploma so maybe that's an option- having someone help an push you definitely couldn't hurt😎

  • @famemilitary1653
    @famemilitary1653 Před rokem +1

    Awesome story. Happy to see you got her in. This video actually gave me motivation to seek reenlisting in the service again.
    Backstory. Prior Service Army Veteran “Active Duty”. Was a victim of a sexual rape & assault by a NCO within my chain of command, FTR for 3 days “grounds for administrative discharge.” Had a General Discharge under Honorable Conditions in 2017.
    Soon as I got out I did not get any guidance for help or treatment which unfortunately lead to me getting charged with Forgery & Impersonation in 2018. After that happen it seemed like everyone helped me get back on the path and narrow who I once was when I enlisted. Had my County VSO “veteran service officer” Director send my packet for upgrading my DD-214 to Honorable. ADRB “Army Discharge Review Board” granted the upgrade to Honorable given the unique nature of my situation. “5-years later we got that decision”
    Fast forward to 2022. I was released early by the judge from veterans mental health probation completion “5-year sentence shaved down to 2.5 Years,” completed behavioral health treatment, currently on no medication as well been working for state government for the past 3 years. Have my honorable discharge and even have a letter of reenlistment recommendation from my County VSO Director.
    I am working with a Air Force National Guard Recruiter now. I will know a decision after Thanksgiving if my charges “Forgery & Impersonation” are waiverable. She was unsure cause it’s unique case but said that being it’s non-violent & Non-Drug Related it’s in my favor. Her flight commander will give a yes or no answer if we can do the waiver not. Any insight if they are currently waiverable? From video it looks like they are. I was robbed from my first enlistment and want to server my country again. I’m hoping for a miracle. But hopefully you have some strong insight on this given ur background. The Tsgt Woman Recruiter I’m working with is definitely open to helping me out and feels for my Situation.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před rokem +2

      I’m not too familiar with how the guard will view your past record. I would recommend just trusting your recruiter. If you have a recruiter who’s willing to work with you, that’s more important than anything. They’ll be the ones who put their name on the line for the Adjutant General to approve your waiver. If they’re willing to do that, that’s the most important thing. I hope everything works out for you. Keep us updated. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @famemilitary1653
      @famemilitary1653 Před rokem +1

      @@Jodywithawhy Thanks for the insight brother. I actually was referred to them from a Active Duty AF Recruiter believe or not. They said for my Situation it would be a little more easier to work with. I’ll definitely keep you posted for you and your viewers if the flight commander gives the green light for the moral waiver. Keep up the good work on your videos. It definitely gave me hope to give it a shot. Thanks for the quick response as well. Very engaging is appreciated.

  • @zacharyklingerman3429
    @zacharyklingerman3429 Před rokem +1

    This is giving me hope, I got a category 2 as a juvenile, and the navy is playing the hard game, and the Air Force recruiter in my area is willing to give me a shot so hopefully all works out

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před rokem

      Hopefully it does. Good luck on the process. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @roos519
    @roos519 Před rokem +1

    Good that you and the Air Force gave this young woman a second chance.

  • @haste4002
    @haste4002 Před 3 lety +1

    Awesome video :)

  • @noellewilson5249
    @noellewilson5249 Před rokem

    This gives me hope 😂 thanks

  • @rozwhitezidez5896
    @rozwhitezidez5896 Před 2 lety

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you so all that you do

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +1

      No problem at all. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @rozwhitezidez5896
      @rozwhitezidez5896 Před 2 lety

      We need more good people like yourself. Also just noticed autocorrect wouldn’t let me be great.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety

      Lol. It’s all good. I understood the assignment.

  • @SamPineSol
    @SamPineSol Před 2 lety +1

    I'm glad I found your channel and this video. I've been wanting to join the Air Force and have started to do research, but I've had doubts and concerns because of my criminal background. After watching your video, I now know that my two charges are both Category 2, and although I'm still ashamed of my past, I feel like there's still hope for me.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +1

      Glad I could help. There’s a chance. It will just depend on what the charges are and if the recruiter is willing to work them. Sometimes finding a recruiter to work a waiver is the hardest part. So you may have to search around a bit.

  • @jmarengo9662
    @jmarengo9662 Před rokem +4

    Outstanding Airman Recuiter.... noticing potential, ambition, and drive. Not recruiting for personal benefit. Enlisting recruits that want to progress into a better life. Awesome.

  • @tangie8569
    @tangie8569 Před rokem

    Wowwww. That’s awesome

  • @Donnygreyfilms
    @Donnygreyfilms Před 2 lety

    I only have a demestic charge but this definitely gives me so hope.

    • @apolloniapearson7539
      @apolloniapearson7539 Před 2 lety

      did you find any one to work with you my boyfriend has the same charge

    • @Donnygreyfilms
      @Donnygreyfilms Před 2 lety

      @@apolloniapearson7539 yes I did as long as it's not a conviction

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +1

      Yep. If you weren’t convicted but only charged, you can be worked. But if you were convicted, there’s nothing we can do unfortunately.

  • @nstylez4354
    @nstylez4354 Před 2 lety

    Dam , you an angel for her 🙏🏽

  • @coreyphillips3341
    @coreyphillips3341 Před 3 lety +5

    I got in trouble when I was 17 back in 2006-07. I’m 29 now still can’t find a recruiter to help me. Wish there were like you out there

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +5

      You can email me at jodywithawhy21@gmail.com. We can talk and I’ll tell you what to do.

  • @LonerLewis
    @LonerLewis Před 3 lety +2

    You def earned my sub , I’m currently waiting on my waiver 😩

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +2

      Ayeee. Thank you so much. Lemme know how it goes. I wanna know. I know these things can overwhelming.

    • @LonerLewis
      @LonerLewis Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy waiver was denied , still appreciate your videos

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      Oh no. If you wanna talk about it you can email me at jodywithawhy21@gmail.com

    • @bettersounds1926
      @bettersounds1926 Před 3 lety

      @@LonerLewis what was your waiver for ?

  • @orrinjohnson7248
    @orrinjohnson7248 Před 3 lety +7

    i'm currently going through the moral wavier process for a CAT 2 charge I caught as juvenile and I wish I saw this video months ago because you put so much into perspective for me. these videos you're putting out are great!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      Good luck on the process. I’m really glad I could help. Hopefully everything works out for you. 💪🏽

    • @orrinjohnson7248
      @orrinjohnson7248 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Jodywithawhy Update; my waiver was approved !

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      Ayeeeeee. That’s so dope. I’m happy for you bro. Now you gotta crush it when you get in, because of this chance some people don’t get. 💪🏽💪🏽

    • @stu624
      @stu624 Před 3 lety

      What were you charges? I m trying to get in with a 12 year old agg assault on my juvenile record. Think I have a chance?

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      As long as there isn’t consistent trouble making which looks like a pattern, you should be fine. Really depends on your recruiter and their leadership, so make sure you are proactive and timely. The quicker you woke to gather everything, the more the recruiter will fight for you.

  • @2turtlesoup
    @2turtlesoup Před rokem +13

    This is an awesome story and Myriah is so lucky to have found a recruiter to help her out! I see that you've been bombarded with questions and I feel guilty for throwing another one at you, but I can't find any information on this. I had a DUI 6.5 years ago when I was 23. That's the only thing on my record ever. Now I'm just shy of 30, finished my bachelor's degree in 2019, and I've been a small business owner the past 3 years (I'm a home inspector). While I was in my early 20's I maintained stable employment at a restaurant as a manager (2013-2019). I understand that the DUI may be waiverable, but do you think there's any hope for me joining the AF as an officer? I'm just starting the process of reaching out to a recruiter, but I want to be prepared if it isn't feasible.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před rokem +8

      As an officer it won’t happen. But you’d be able to have a strong case for enlisted. Once enlisted, you can put in an officer package, and anything prior to you joining no longer counts against when trying to become an officer. I hope this helps.

  • @knowledgeequalpower
    @knowledgeequalpower Před rokem +1

    God willing i can find a recruiter like this guy.

  • @El_DennisTheMenaceShow
    @El_DennisTheMenaceShow Před 3 lety +1

    This video gave me so much hope on my case.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      That’s what’s up. Well if everything works out, let us know man. I love to hear the success stories. 💪🏽

    • @ebonyjohnson1580
      @ebonyjohnson1580 Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy Hey there. Is there a way that I can speak to you with private message? Keep up the good videos.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      Jodywithawhy21@gmail.com

    • @El_DennisTheMenaceShow
      @El_DennisTheMenaceShow Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy well I ended up getting rejected cause of my background 😔

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      Ahh man. That’s unfortunate. I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you.

  • @alwaquehs
    @alwaquehs Před 3 lety

    This was an awesome video!!!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much watching. 🙌🏽

    • @alwaquehs
      @alwaquehs Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy I worked aboard MCRD SD for over 20 years both HR and the CU Branch Manager your super energetic and keep the audience both entertained and informed! great work.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much. I’m definitely trying to do my part and share as much information, stories and benefits as possible to educate the public. Thank you for your service. Over 20 years serving with Marines, I’m sure you have your fair share of success stories too. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @alwaquehs
      @alwaquehs Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy There were rewarding moments I could have done it without all the support aboard the base.

  • @lololololololol444
    @lololololololol444 Před 3 lety

    Great vid

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      Thanks so much for watching and the support. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Porcelainrosegold
    @Porcelainrosegold Před 4 měsíci

    Meps drug test fail for delta 9. Literally had no idea it was in my system. Think it was something I took at a wellness expo. Scored high on asvab, got to choose from any mos available, picked a mos with top secret clearance. A week later heard about delta 9 fail. I’m devastated. I’m in a pilot training independently so I hear AF had a waiver but I’m over 30. 😢 sucks so bad

  • @kaibi9309
    @kaibi9309 Před 2 lety

    You are Godsend! Wish it was the same with me with my height waiver which got denied. 😢

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety

      I’m sorry to hear that. Did you ever try another branch and see what they say?

    • @kaibi9309
      @kaibi9309 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Jodywithawhy Yes, my recruiter suggested the Navy which was just in the same building. I'm meeting with them today and I'm praying it goes well.

    • @kaibi9309
      @kaibi9309 Před rokem

      @Egypt Ghee I am currently on sea duty but we are going to dry docks this March. It's been a year already.

  • @wte_lifts_417
    @wte_lifts_417 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Currently waiting on my waiver from the Air Force for an OCD/Anxiety diagnosis with a few medications for it from age 9 to about 16. 25 now with a wife and two kids, it was submitted last week and my recruiter said we can expect to hear back next Friday. Aside from that there's nothing major or recent in my medical record and I submitted a very detailed statement, my medical and pharmacy records documenting the condition, and a letter from my employer stating I do not have any work accommodations. I'm really hoping that being off medications and symptom free for almost ten years helps get me that waiver because my wife and I are so excited and set on the Air Force and most of my family have been in the branch. I honestly think it was a misdiagnosis as my parents got trigger happy with the tricare at a young age. My recruiter is in good hopes so keeping my fingers crossed.

    • @PicassoLay
      @PicassoLay Před 10 měsíci +3

      Hey, how did everything work out for you?

    • @wte_lifts_417
      @wte_lifts_417 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Everything went good at MEPS. To my surprise the only thing Genesis really caught was my OCD/anxiety history. Passed everything else and went through the waiver process for the mental health history. Currently waiting on dates from MEPS for my consultation which should be the last step before acquiring the golden ticket (medical waiver).

    • @wte_lifts_417
      @wte_lifts_417 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Waiver was approved!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 7 měsíci +3

      Ayeeee. Big congrats. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @hollywoodclipp
      @hollywoodclipp Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@wte_lifts_417what recruiter did you have

  • @archer9664
    @archer9664 Před 3 lety +3

    Boss :Aye can you go somewhere private
    That jump scare sound had me dying 😂😂😂😂

  • @laurentribeiro5879
    @laurentribeiro5879 Před 2 lety +2

    jodywithawhy hey just curious if you think being the majors daughter influenced their decisions ? this is so inspirational my friend to your story to this young females story, i have a similar situation and im currently waiting and was wondering if there is anything i can say or do to improve my chances with the upper echelon . keep up the great content !

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety +3

      Actually no. My leadership approved the waiver because I recommended she be in the Air Force. I guess the initial call from her mom helped a little in my decision making, but I worked a bunch of waivers while recruiting. She was the only one who was a majors daughter though, but it didn’t affect much of the process

  • @socalofishial1665
    @socalofishial1665 Před 4 měsíci

    Man I wished I had you as my recruiter.

  • @astone2392
    @astone2392 Před rokem +2

    @jodywithawhy update! Been in almost a year now and I’m loving it, I’m a crew chief on the c-130s! Can’t thank you enough for the confidence to make my dream come true with this video.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před rokem +1

      Ayeeee. Congratulations. Thanks for the update, and I’m glad Myriahs story could inspire you. That’s awesome to hear. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @dhat1755
      @dhat1755 Před rokem +1

      if you get a chance, go on a refueling mission. I got to watch an AWACS refuel

    • @astone2392
      @astone2392 Před rokem

      @@dhat1755 I’ll make sure to add that to my list! I’m in a MAFFS unit so that’s one thing I’m excited for is a MAFFS mission!

  • @melloseraphine276
    @melloseraphine276 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks for such the informative video i didn't think id be able to join cuz i got my 1st offense 2yrs ago underage it got dismissed an everything an my lawyer said I'd still would be able to join but i thought it was over for me😔my pops was pissed he was training me for a long time. . . but after hearing her story i think im straight lol💯
    Imma call a recruiter& my lawyer asap
    Appreciate your help bro
    Bless u🙏

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety +1

      No problem. I’m really glad I could help you. Hopefully everything works out. 💪🏽💪🏽

    • @melloseraphine276
      @melloseraphine276 Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy 💯 ill let u know if i get in, thanks again love watching your channel.

  • @iPerryJ
    @iPerryJ Před 3 lety

    Hey man love your videos how long should I check my waivers or ask my recruiter what's going on in my waiver thank you in advance your amazing. You gave me hope I'm also waiting for waivers.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 3 lety

      I would recommend you check in every 2 weeks or so. These things take time, so every 2 weeks is a good timeframe. Good luck bro. And thanks for watching and supporting.

    • @iPerryJ
      @iPerryJ Před 3 lety

      @@Jodywithawhy I see thank you god bless your amazing person and thank you for helping people like me give us hope 💪

  • @lastpme
    @lastpme Před 2 lety

    That is pretty cool 🇺🇸

  • @mikhailgonzalez8374
    @mikhailgonzalez8374 Před 2 lety +1

    Hey I've been following your amazing content for a while. I was wondering if you could do a prior service video or answer my questions on the possibility of crossing over to the blue from the Army. I'm currently serving on my second contract with the Army and my ETS date is February 2024. This will put me at 7 years. I wanted to know the process and possibilities of crossing over to the AD side. My mos is 92A.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Před 2 lety

      Right now, the Air Force prior service program is only taking prior linguists and special warfare interested applicants. The choices are limited, but they could change by 2024 because they’re always changing. 🤙🏽

  • @MRZTDizzle718
    @MRZTDizzle718 Před 3 lety +1

    Oooemghee now that speaks volumes... congrats to her