how to make friends easily & keep them.

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Komentáře • 351

  • @JessBess
    @JessBess Před 10 měsíci +1085

    I agree, I need people who give me the same energy back. I agree with finding people with the same values, especially people that have healed, who are looking for emotionally stable relationships and healed their relationship with their femininity and masculinity. It seems rare to find people that don't follow the crowd these days, who can think for themselves and aren't offended easily.

    • @AWALYAZKhan-jm9xf
      @AWALYAZKhan-jm9xf Před 5 měsíci

      Hi im from pakistan but i need you for lave❤

    • @yashrathod1728
      @yashrathod1728 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Exactly, vide and energy matters...and when you match it your bond goes to different level

    • @hammadwaseema3309
      @hammadwaseema3309 Před 2 měsíci

      Hey lets ne friends if u dont mind

  • @irina-td8yd
    @irina-td8yd Před 10 měsíci +1467

    Not gonna lie…Talking about the “old fashioned way” I wouldn’t like to tell me kids how I met my husband. Like… “hey mum how did you meet dad?”, “oh yes, he replied SMASH???! To my story and I fell in love” 😂😂😂

    • @anne-lynngroen4814
      @anne-lynngroen4814 Před 10 měsíci +77

      OMG SLAY

    • @JellyOnAPancakeAyyyy
      @JellyOnAPancakeAyyyy Před 9 měsíci +7

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Winter3590
      @Winter3590 Před 9 měsíci +30

      help i met my bf in the lunch line a yr ago 🥲

    • @dimly2002
      @dimly2002 Před 9 měsíci +40

      Right my standards for romance are higher than that...i could never meet my future partner online

    • @irina-td8yd
      @irina-td8yd Před 9 měsíci +32

      @@dimly2002 now being serious, I think that there’s no problem about meeting your partner online. I think that if theres a cool story behind it or if you end up meeting them in person in an interesting way it could be romantic as well

  • @dearxdiary
    @dearxdiary Před 10 měsíci +591

    I swear ever since the pandemic it's hard to socialise with people and make friends. Really needed this. Thank you simone

  • @doveslizleskiss2956
    @doveslizleskiss2956 Před 10 měsíci +481

    what i understood quite recently is that for me, i couldn't keep friends because low maintenance friendship were making me feel like i don't have friends, but high maintenance friendship were too tiring to keep up with (i don't have the energy to go out with someone every day)
    so i realised that i first need to figure out what type of friendship * i * am willing to offer and settle for, before expecting anything in return.
    turned out, i prefer having online friends or friends that i go out with maybe once a week or every 2-3 weeks but we text every day!!! because for me texting is not tiring at all and when i always have a convo running on chat, i really feel like i have friends lol. like if you can relate :))

    • @yashuuu1692
      @yashuuu1692 Před 10 měsíci +8

      that's so me!!!

    • @noemi2897
      @noemi2897 Před 10 měsíci +4

      this!

    • @oblivion3379
      @oblivion3379 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Me too!

    • @saniyauzumaki
      @saniyauzumaki Před 8 měsíci +4

      Same here! I can’t text one person everyday but i do prefer texting them in between 2-3 days.

    • @GriffDidSomeThingsWrong
      @GriffDidSomeThingsWrong Před 8 měsíci +7

      Hii, I know this may be a stupid question, but how exactly do you do friends online? Like, just choosing a social network and talking to people that share your interests? I'm trying to do the same thing, but I'm not really sure how to start and I'm really shy even online for some reason.

  • @julliard_
    @julliard_ Před 10 měsíci +311

    this was EXACTLY what i needed to hear right now. Going into the new school year, I'm finding myself not quite annoyed, but not quite happy with my current friends, and I couldn't figure out why. They're good people, but something just felt off. After watching this, I was able to reflect and found that we had initially connected over interests alone, and now not only have we grown into new and different people with differing interests, but we don't share the same values.
    Your videos are always so refreshing to watch! thank you so much!

    • @gxlden_cookie8
      @gxlden_cookie8 Před 9 měsíci +7

      Im in the same situation!!

    • @lorraine4647
      @lorraine4647 Před 2 měsíci +1

      literally me rn. hope u find the right people

  • @simrantuli26
    @simrantuli26 Před 10 měsíci +392

    going through a breakup, having only a few friends, this is exactly what i needed. thankyou simone, you always save the day

    • @virtualprivacies
      @virtualprivacies Před 10 měsíci +28

      Remember to be grateful for those few friends, quality over quantity

    • @simrantuli26
      @simrantuli26 Před 10 měsíci +22

      @@virtualprivacies that's true, I'm very grateful for them and I love them to death!
      But all of them are in very different phases of their lives than mine and it gets lonely sometimes, specially because of the breakup, the guy was my best friend for 4 years and boyfriend for 3.5, so there's a big hole now, my life kind of revolved around him, so I didn't make any new friends at all in these past years

    • @mikaylalindsay6028
      @mikaylalindsay6028 Před 10 měsíci +9

      same here, it'll be okay we will get through this and start a new chapter of our life ❤‍🩹

    • @simrantuli26
      @simrantuli26 Před 10 měsíci

      @@mikaylalindsay6028 that we surely will! ❤️❤️

    • @user-yl2ef1wn9q
      @user-yl2ef1wn9q Před 10 měsíci +3

      You've got this!

  • @sophie_dang
    @sophie_dang Před 10 měsíci +154

    This topic is so important! Yes, the more you meet people the more you can look at socialising as a whole rather than being stuck on one individual and fearing what they think. A lot of things said here were just on point

    • @alansun70
      @alansun70 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Yes. It's a 2 way street. It require reciprocation.

    • @hammadwaseema3309
      @hammadwaseema3309 Před 2 měsíci

      Hey lets be friends if u don't mind me

  • @ece-hr5fg
    @ece-hr5fg Před 9 měsíci +54

    sticking to the comfort and familiarity of old friendships is so much easier than distancing yourself and finding new people to connect with, but i've noticed this is something i need to do. i've outgrown my friend group and become miserable. i'm lying to myself by pretending i'd rather only interact with these people and others i meet on a surface-level and keep mostly to myself, when i still desire deep connections outside of what i have with my partner with people i align with. i'm glad i found this video, it was what i needed to truly see how much i need to let those friends go.

  • @SugarsugarFruity-hz6lz
    @SugarsugarFruity-hz6lz Před 7 měsíci +19

    It's sooo hard to make friends now. Even when you think you found "a friend" they leave the next day or arent consistent enough with their friendship. Such sadness....😩

    • @Chatt_noir
      @Chatt_noir Před 6 měsíci +1

      Hello,I wanna make foreign friends,so if want we could try to chat on insta😊

  • @stobit7935
    @stobit7935 Před 10 měsíci +38

    finally someone talking on friendships 😭😭

  • @ece-hr5fg
    @ece-hr5fg Před 9 měsíci +16

    the comment about not meshing with everyone is so true, and i've been noticing this more and more. i'm doing an exchange semester in another country and i've been forcing myself to initiate small talk with people, just to see where it leads. so far nine times out of ten we end up having a pleasant conversation and sometimes it even goes further and i get to know a new person. but sometimes the other person isn't interested so the conversation abruptly ends. either way i've learned to understand it's all about mine and the other person's energies matching, and if someone doesn't want to talk with me that's not my problem so i move on. as an introvert i've never been the most comfortable when meeting new people, if i listened to my worries i probably wouldn't talk to anyone tbh. but forcing myself out of my shell this way has been really helpful to see there isn't anything wrong with me and i don't suck at socializing, i'm actually great at communicating with people whose energy matches mine. so i really reccommend this for my fellow introverts. it's super hard at first but it gradually gets much easier! and learning things about different people is really cool lol

  • @tohhnee1619
    @tohhnee1619 Před 10 měsíci +153

    Love this! I would love if u did a video about outgrowing friends as well. I feel guilty for not keeping up with my friends whom I feel I don’t vibe with anymore 😭

  • @Marilyn-lr3xt
    @Marilyn-lr3xt Před 10 měsíci +46

    I remember asking you to share your tips for making friends a few months ago and you just published this video! it's super nice thank you very much Simone !!!! ❤❤❤

  • @JK-kw4md
    @JK-kw4md Před 9 měsíci +70

    that point about social media, is SO SO accurate. not being in social media and trying to make friends these days, is like trying to talk but without a mouth lol
    which makes sense cause i’ve pretty much never felt the need to get back on socmed except when i think about making new friends

    • @winexhd9373
      @winexhd9373 Před 8 měsíci

      That is quite sad don't you think? Social media has been proven to cause forms of addiction. While not as severe as meth, the brain activity is quite similar to other forms of addiction as well. So the choice is either to risk getting myself addicted, not to mention, induce other bad influences on myself (such as higher forms of jealousy watching other people post picture perfect lives, more blue screen which can lead to lower sleep quality, or echo chambering myself), to make friends - OR not be friends with anyone at all? Is it any wonder then, about the school shooting epidemic?

    • @mintchoco_2558
      @mintchoco_2558 Před 8 měsíci

      True but making friends with social media is very doable. You just have to be in touch with them often by texting and calling

  • @hattiehall8939
    @hattiehall8939 Před 9 měsíci +46

    The last part. Yeah if you’re a good conversationalist, it’s so hard differentiating just getting along with someone, versus connecting to the extent of potentially being great friends.

  • @k0huw4
    @k0huw4 Před 10 měsíci +34

    thank you so much for this simone! im at a very lonely stage in life and theres a lot of effort i need to put in to make new connections 😊

  • @IzzyMoonbow648
    @IzzyMoonbow648 Před 9 měsíci +113

    My problem is that I have a hard time maintaining friendships. I get along with people pretty well, but I don’t know how to get closer to people than just being aquatints with them

    • @limitlesslizzie
      @limitlesslizzie Před 9 měsíci +28

      tbh you just have to hang out with them more often. it'll happen with time, but you just slowly need to get away from small-talk and more toward the bigger things in life. I find that the more information I know about a person and the more information they know abt me, the more of a bond I tend to feel

    • @mikeishatownsend5466
      @mikeishatownsend5466 Před 4 měsíci +4

      This is me, I get along with people very well but to develop the bond isn't there. I also notice that when you are married with kids it's harder to make friends

    • @hammadwaseema3309
      @hammadwaseema3309 Před 2 měsíci

      Hey lets be friends if u don't mind

    • @ronniebraps
      @ronniebraps Před měsícem +3

      ​@@limitlesslizzie and if they don't hang out with you? ill ask so many people all the time if they want to hang out and they always cancel plans or ghost me

    • @haliee
      @haliee Před měsícem

      @@ronniebraps you need new friends

  • @Leilawr
    @Leilawr Před 10 měsíci +8

    i love these advice type videos showcasing personality, they literally inspired me so much to start my own channel

  • @Rfcubwomagky
    @Rfcubwomagky Před 23 dny +2

    I can’t believe I would search up “how to make your friends like you” sometimes I feel like my friends now that really care about me if I tell them something like about me or anything else they would completely forget and in psychology ppl forget useless information, so it’s really upsetting and I have a problem with detachment and I always try to convince myself that they r the right type of friends just because I don’t to have to find new friends and all.

  • @minervamcgonagall8250
    @minervamcgonagall8250 Před 10 měsíci +7

    slayest videooo...this video feels like a sign from the universe fr because my cousin sister has *literally* been telling me to socialize and network with people (i do have a small friend group though). def gonna try making more friends once school reopens, tysm queen ❣️❣️

  • @teddybear7386
    @teddybear7386 Před 8 měsíci +11

    Honestly this made me realize a lot of things! The girl I am friends with since a month overshares alot, relay on me to notify teachers when she's not coming in but when it comes to me she doesn't even check up. Also, the free time in uni, I tagg along with her but all she does is talk to her girlfriend and then blames me for not opening up...Wow! This video just popped up I guess it was the universe's sign for me? Jeez

  • @anchan_dulal
    @anchan_dulal Před 10 měsíci +6

    love you queen ❤❤❤❤ I can really relate to simone when it comes to friendship. many people want to be friends just for their own hidden interest.

  • @mistapibb
    @mistapibb Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for this. You really helped me open my eyes to that not everyone is meant for you and that's okay!

  • @fangdrag
    @fangdrag Před 9 měsíci +31

    why... i can't find people who reciprocate.. so like, i would always hit them up, and they will listen to me, they will do me favors, but they would never message me first or share things with me unless i go all my way to ask?

  • @hint3536
    @hint3536 Před 10 měsíci +24

    now i'm saying yes to everything, agree to go to any events this summer trying things with no judges , so thats makes me more energetic and have hight value and good speaker to almost evry one and even happier, it is like you have no time to be sad

  • @ily279
    @ily279 Před 10 měsíci +18

    thanks for this video simone

  • @marypotter_2010
    @marypotter_2010 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Omggg Simone, i was literally going to comment on your video to make this and i just opened CZcams and found it! THANK YOU

  • @Desrayyy_
    @Desrayyy_ Před 10 měsíci +8

    I give so much, and lately I’ve realised it’s better to mirror them

  • @kail.ahhl.
    @kail.ahhl. Před 9 měsíci

    i was not expecting the beginning of the video to come for me down to the last detail but it nice to know im not the only one dealing with this

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Thank you so so much Simone for this video because I have no friends and it is very very helpful to me in my life you are my inspiration and I will support you till end 🤗💫💓

  • @housemouse4209
    @housemouse4209 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for the advice, AND for the subtitles :) Really quite helpful

  • @Nattyyyyyyy
    @Nattyyyyyyy Před 10 měsíci +1

    GIrlll thank you for another amazing video!!! Off topic but the blue top looks STUNNING on youuu, it makes you glow🩵

  • @teethghouls2423
    @teethghouls2423 Před 10 měsíci +3

    hi simone !! :3 thank you for this video i rlly needed this bc i also have aspd and it rlly affects my life bc my friends wld think i dont care abt things and shit and they wld leave or cut me off and its also bc if i have a bod episode bc a best friend of many years cutted me off bc i was saying bad things to her in an episode

  • @heba6184
    @heba6184 Před 9 měsíci

    I genuinely love you so much

  • @beaolayon7344
    @beaolayon7344 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Just the vid I needed, thank you Mother ❤

  • @redlipsandmaraschinocherries
    @redlipsandmaraschinocherries Před 10 měsíci

    this girl always comes in clutch

  • @bhxmxkx
    @bhxmxkx Před 10 měsíci +1

    Literally needed this

  • @shaniquawells4445
    @shaniquawells4445 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for this video, this really helped me out because values mean everything to me & boundaries also. Because I am dealing with my own level of friend-making. Thanks❤❤❤❤

  • @dariusbrown2712
    @dariusbrown2712 Před 6 měsíci +6

    girl youre so real for this video i love how you didnt sugarcoat this it was def a eye opener

    • @Sr_dianjiao
      @Sr_dianjiao Před 6 měsíci +1

      hello,Can I be friends with you?

    • @Itssmee..0
      @Itssmee..0 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Sr_dianjiaocan we be friends?

  • @ElmoTinker
    @ElmoTinker Před 9 měsíci +1

    It's a hard truth for some people to swallow, but necessary to hear

  • @nicorobin3484
    @nicorobin3484 Před 10 měsíci

    the way this video came to me right when i needed it

  • @ilovespringrolls
    @ilovespringrolls Před 10 měsíci

    simone making our lives better

  • @Abigail.444
    @Abigail.444 Před 9 měsíci +25

    Lol this video couldn’t have come at a better time! I’m in uni and I’m struggling with making and keeping friends and I can’t really pin point why but I think I’m going to take what you said in this video into consideration and not just blame myself constantly. I’m gonna try and have a better outlook.

  • @johnvelasco8732
    @johnvelasco8732 Před 9 měsíci +23

    Just sharing my reflections here. I’ve been through quite a stage of desperation in the past year and realized my people pleasing traits. I met a friend from an app a year ago, and as much as I didn’t know him very well yet (since we just met and all) I overshared a lot of my anxieties and issues with several people and some of my friends and other drama and stress I was surrounding myself in. As much as me and my best friend overshare quite a lot, oversharing with someone I just met in an app is not ideal, as the video mentioned. That guy I met bluntly called me out and told me I overshare too much about people. I turned into dramatics and never spoke to him to give space. I am learning that I still needed to heal and process the emotions I was feeling. At a point last year, I thought finding friends was difficult and I thought I had to demand friendship (ex asking someone hey can we be friends so you can be my therapist) but instead you earn friendship and you act on it as mentionned like a two way street. I just need to put myself out there and find the communities I belong in. I am determined to kill the negative voices in my head telling me that people hate me.
    Overall, this video was helpful!

    • @johnvelasco8732
      @johnvelasco8732 Před 9 měsíci +3

      To also add about values, I learned to grow them by spending some time alone and reflecting. That way, I would feel more comfortable to be kind to others as I am being kind to myself and know my values.

  • @pilly3815
    @pilly3815 Před 10 měsíci +9

    omg what is this private community ❤ can't wait to meet more like minded people and grow together

  • @Coffee.for-Breakfast
    @Coffee.for-Breakfast Před 9 měsíci +46

    Why is it so hard to make good female friendships in your 20s? Every single friendship I’ve made so far the person has turned it into some weird competition. There’s jealousy and a lot of it is really patriarchal, because I feel like the jealousy comes from a stupid made up competition over looks, and how many guys are into you. I didn’t ask for this. I honestly couldn’t care less about male validation but it’s super annoying. I’m a hairdresser and I mostly work on women like 95% of my clients are women, mostly ages between 35 and 60 and these women and I have such a wonderful time chatting with together and they think I’m such a bright, ambitious, fun woman. I’m 28, And I just feel like I’m at this point in my life where it’s super annoying because making male friends just pisses me off frankly because they always try to like get with you or sleep with you or like make a move on you and it ruins the entire friendship because I’m not interested and I never was if I was, I would’ve made that clear. I was looking for friendship. And then whenever I meet women my age, they’re so standoffish and eventually they warm up, but I’ve gone through enough friends that I really poured my heart and soul into and then I just feel betrayed by them in the end so I kind of don’t see what the point is anymore. I know that’s kind of negative but it’s the truth that I’m feeling right now. Plus a lot of girls have this idea of low maintenance friendship which I just don’t think makes sense in all context just kind of sounds like whenever it’s convenient for them, They’ll come and hang out with you, but like then, they won’t talk to you or ghost you for like months and then randomly hit you up one day and it’s like really weird. Thanks for reading I guess if you made it this far but yeah I’m having a weird moment in my life where I don’t really have any friends tbh but I’m just going to rock with it and do whatever I wanted to do by myself

    • @hammadwaseema3309
      @hammadwaseema3309 Před 2 měsíci

      Hey hammad here nice to meet u lets be friends if u don't mind me

  • @balasrose4849
    @balasrose4849 Před 10 měsíci +2

    WHAT...A FEW MINUTES AGO I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT HOW I NEED TO LEARN HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS. AND THEN I SEE THIS YESSSSSSSSSSSS

  • @dylanpringle4314
    @dylanpringle4314 Před 4 měsíci

    I noticed I got over this until I had to move somewhere way out of the way and all of the things that gave me comfort in all of the groups and meetings are used to go to or no longer thank you for this information because the people around me I feel like you’re doing this to me not appreciating me

    • @hammadwaseema3309
      @hammadwaseema3309 Před 2 měsíci

      Hey hammad here nice to meet u lets be friends if u don't mind me

  • @chuucake
    @chuucake Před 10 měsíci +1

    thank you simone ♡♡♡

  • @navooodya
    @navooodya Před 10 měsíci +2

    YOU'RE MY BESTIE PERIODT

  • @adelinaselivanova6112
    @adelinaselivanova6112 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Simone slayed as always ❣

  • @nima-ru
    @nima-ru Před 10 měsíci +3

    She's the best💗😩

  • @marcusrashford568
    @marcusrashford568 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I’m not a introvert nor a extrovert, im in the middle, I don’t project any insecurities onto other people my problem is people just drift away from me, on discord people have short conversations then do not reply for months and months and they’re online, irl I talk to people they just drift away for me. I’m not even in this loneliness “mindset” when im talking to them idk why this happens to me 😭

  • @karinchkiiik
    @karinchkiiik Před 8 měsíci +1

    ur video saved me from losing my last real friend, ty🙁💓

  • @ervinsmoviecorner8748
    @ervinsmoviecorner8748 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Stunning job!❤

  • @anusha2465
    @anusha2465 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I literally made besties from the comment section. I was a regular commenter on a show video and other regular commenter asked me to come a group in Instagram and met group of people who enjoy the show as much as me. We all became best besties for years!!!

  • @user-uz7tv8yk5j
    @user-uz7tv8yk5j Před 9 měsíci +1

    this video is life saving

  • @yourCha.
    @yourCha. Před 10 měsíci +1

    Perfect before going back to school.

  • @walker47740
    @walker47740 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you sis ♥

  • @angelikap8303
    @angelikap8303 Před 10 měsíci +21

    The only thing that I miss since I left Instagram is Veronica's stories 😪

  • @astrelize_
    @astrelize_ Před 9 měsíci +5

    I realized that I get so overstimulated when I spend time with people which is normal for an introvert but for me it has taken to extreme levels and I try to force myself out there but nothing has really helped or changed. I still can’t stand being around people for long even though I want to

  • @lemon6675
    @lemon6675 Před 10 měsíci

    I Literally was searching for a such video about friends from you yesterday, OMG thank you😭❤️
    (Sorry if i have any mistakes in english)

  • @Ace2dl
    @Ace2dl Před 8 měsíci +5

    I have actually noticed a lot of people see me as a chill guy but a lot of people see me as someone with a huge ego 🤣. That I think is because of the first thing I said to them made them see me different than the first thing I said to someone else!

    • @Ace2dl
      @Ace2dl Před 8 měsíci +1

      Also? You got any tips on how to not over react around some people and under react around others!

  • @-xD34DxPL4T3x-
    @-xD34DxPL4T3x- Před 5 měsíci +3

    The hard part for me is that I can’t be friends with someone who has other friends bc I get jealous easily and can’t be around 2 ppl at once or I get really anxious. I’m like one of those dogs u adopt at a store that says “doesn’t do well with other pets”

  • @Emilyx239
    @Emilyx239 Před 9 měsíci +16

    I tend to act weird out of anxiety

  • @yasminebouchebbah6691
    @yasminebouchebbah6691 Před 10 měsíci +7

    AS u get older it's gonna be hard to go on with everyone and following up people,cause of lack of time

  • @Mary-ei4oi
    @Mary-ei4oi Před 8 měsíci +3

    1. dont hate others: Karma, takes your energie (lowers it),
    2. cyberbullying is hating also (you get what you say)

  • @hexon289
    @hexon289 Před 9 měsíci +4

    All of my current friends a really not my vibe. I have tried my best to stop thinking about the situation negatively but i cannot help. It have reached the point that i have started to feel irritated by them. I feel like such a bad person but i can't help it

  • @nxcole111
    @nxcole111 Před 10 měsíci +1

    thank u queen

  • @dni.annoyings
    @dni.annoyings Před 5 měsíci +4

    I’m not the reason tho. I try my hardest but they all replace me and when I get angry with there new best friend, even when they are at fault, I’m always to blame

  • @rawd8thatup
    @rawd8thatup Před 9 měsíci

    I realized how I started to change myself just cuz one of my friends were being a bit salty towards me and me only apart from the rest of my friend group and like i relate to this entire video like literally lmao

  • @louise20xx
    @louise20xx Před 10 měsíci

    really neeeded this !! thank you queen 🥹💙💙💙

  • @offtherip4899
    @offtherip4899 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you!!!

  • @marita-uv1pc
    @marita-uv1pc Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you ❤

  • @13sahasra
    @13sahasra Před 9 měsíci

    thank youu

  • @user-zl2cm8vt7p
    @user-zl2cm8vt7p Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for video, i learn something new

  • @belqs2bf
    @belqs2bf Před 3 měsíci +3

    I kinda lost all my friends they have plans and they don't ask me out I feel so bad I also did distance myself from them but I just don't know how to talk to anyone new I have some people in my mind that seems good wish me luck I'm going to approach them

  • @karmo7369
    @karmo7369 Před 10 měsíci +4

    needed this! i only have ONE friend atm and im ready for more!

    • @jenntruong6023
      @jenntruong6023 Před 9 měsíci

      Yup, I have one friend too right now. I have always been the girl who had trouble getting along with other girls

    • @jas5922
      @jas5922 Před 9 měsíci

      @@jenntruong6023 same here 😩

  • @Jayb_tan
    @Jayb_tan Před 6 měsíci +1

    I LOVE YOU QUEEN

  • @noelle7786
    @noelle7786 Před 9 měsíci +5

    "they don't need to know your lore yet" loooool i laughed at that

  • @monzanassi7524
    @monzanassi7524 Před 9 měsíci

    The school is coming next week for me and I needed this since I will see my friends in different classes but that's okay with me cuz I have the opportunity to meet new ones

  • @star.h0333
    @star.h0333 Před 6 měsíci +1

    The blue top looks heavenly on her !!

    • @bb4251
      @bb4251 Před 2 měsíci

      the hoop earrings too!

  • @tuanh1461
    @tuanh1461 Před 9 měsíci +3

    i'm going to highschool now i used to have like 2-3 friends in secondary i stucked with them for so long now that i'm in highschool i can't make friend anymore i'm really depressed and lonely i seek attention yet i hide from the spotlight

  • @NoobieBloxYT
    @NoobieBloxYT Před 9 měsíci

    So true!!

  • @tisha77
    @tisha77 Před 10 měsíci

    I love herrrrr😩

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Před 10 měsíci +1

    this is cool and my fave content! ❤

  • @kbsdn
    @kbsdn Před měsícem +6

    Girl where are the tips to make friends

  • @paramjeetlotey3814
    @paramjeetlotey3814 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Pls make a video on how to be confident? Plssssssssssssssssssssssssss ❤ ur just amazing..I'm sure you'll help me out. 😊

  • @PandaCarly
    @PandaCarly Před 9 měsíci +6

    i can approach people its just that idk what to talk abt, ive introduced ms to sooo many ppl and we only go as far as our names cuz idk what to say-

  • @jenntruong6023
    @jenntruong6023 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Makes sense. I have one girlfriend and that is it; we hang out like only 6 times a year. Seems very little time to spemd with each other but I guess it works for us since we are both married and both have kids. I am still on the look out for friends that I could see more often and have more in common with though

    • @defnotemily_
      @defnotemily_ Před 9 měsíci

      wait what? you have a girlfriend but you're married?

    • @defnotemily_
      @defnotemily_ Před 9 měsíci +8

      oh wait do you mean a friend that's a girl? sorry im slow 😭

  • @itsyeesha_sagee
    @itsyeesha_sagee Před 9 měsíci +4

    أنا أحبها كثيرًا، إنها مبدعة جدًا!

  • @Pinkilinki47
    @Pinkilinki47 Před 10 měsíci +2

    This is vert random but blue looks super good on you

  • @ichangedmyusernamebecausei2551
    @ichangedmyusernamebecausei2551 Před 9 měsíci +3

    For me I just talked first. I made like one friend for each of my 5 classes. I would start out the conversation by asking them a class related question. Then I’d just make small casual conversations. Now time to get a girlfriend

  • @marjorie_gdjn6952
    @marjorie_gdjn6952 Před 9 měsíci +1

    this video is so helpful ! But it made me think why don't you create like a discord server or something like that so people of your community that share the same interest can meet !

  • @lolabunny9669
    @lolabunny9669 Před 9 měsíci

    my favorite dailymotion channel

  • @michaeljoefox
    @michaeljoefox Před 6 měsíci +16

    Now: try not being pretty and see if those tips work.

  • @flowerss.992
    @flowerss.992 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Honestly its so hard making friends as i’m so disinterested in social media. The only app I use daily is youtube whilst studying,cleaning, drawing, doing other hobbies and etc. I have tried downloading social apps but its just not for me…

  • @noa-ix9pe
    @noa-ix9pe Před 9 měsíci +8

    gonna watch this to tomorrow.
    I have one close friend and she is sweet and kind and she is doing her best but she has some issues and tends to dwell on negative things and such, and I've realized that my mental health has suffered a bit ever since we got really close. what do u do if your friends issues rub off on you? I have met enough toxic ppl, so I can clearly tell that she is not one of them, she is really trying, but it is tough for her and idk how to help except for keeping her company (she says even my presence is enough to make her happy even on a bad day) - I know influencers are quick to say "if they bad for u, just cut them off", but every person has something going on, if we always cut off everyone who has issues we will be forever alone. so I think a goodskill to have is to learn not to be subconsciously influenced by your friends too much.
    idk maybe she has tips in the video, but I gotta go sleep now. if there are no tips in the video, do u guys have any?

    • @noa-ix9pe
      @noa-ix9pe Před 9 měsíci

      edit: no she is not manipulating me or anything by guilt trapping me (I think it sounded a bit like that). she is truly empathetic, always tries to understand me, always listens, and even when I do something where she has every right to be angry, she puts aside her own anger as soon as she sees how bad I feel for messing up and then she comforts me instead! even though it should be reversed. I mean, how could I ever turn my back on her just bc my stupid subconscious does stupid mood-imitation-shit, this girl is pure gold!
      making meaningful friends is not easy for me, bc I feel kinda alien with most girls my age (it has nothing to do with "not like other girls", it's that I literally don't feel any connection to girls mostly; I feel like they live on a different planet than me,idk how to explain. and making friends with guys is difficult too bc I feel like they will forever see me as "not one of them" (even if I was a cis guy, I would feel disconnected from guys in such a way too I guess) - idk what is wrong with me in those aspects really but that's how I feel when getting to know new ppl. so the few I've known for years and who I'm close with are too precious to me to just "cut off". I love them, and they are trying their best, and I just wanna know what I can do to stay true to myself and my positive energy while also helping them with their stuff which might not be so positive. idk but I need tips please 😅

  • @tttmmm1670
    @tttmmm1670 Před 10 měsíci +2

    ABSOLUTELY IN LOVE WITH YOU

  • @Mel_x111
    @Mel_x111 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Watching this as I lost my Bestie. My grades are shit.