How to Get Back On Track With Your Life & Goals
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- čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
- Here are 9 tips to help you get back on track with your life & goals. Thanks Wells Fargo for sponsoring this video! To learn more about the Wells Fargo Cash Wise Visa® Card, go to wellsfargo.com/cashwise8. Wells Fargo regularly updates their credit card offerings, so please click the link to see the latest credit card product and offer details from Wells Fargo. Terms apply.
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*5 things to quit right now:*
*1. Overthinking*
*2. Trying to make everyone happy*
*3. Living in the past*
*4. Worrying*
*5. Doubting yourself*
❤️Thank you, I wrote these down, thanks for sharing the list in a handy comment. ❤️📃
@@jonnakaasinen497 you are welcome, I am here to help :)
I'm taking notes 🤓📝
AMEN! 😄☺️
The fear of man bringth a snare, but whoso putteth his trust in the LORD shall be safe, -Proverbs 29:25 KJV
Cast all your care upon him; for he careth for you. 1 Peter 5:7 KJV
Everything I do on a daily basis🙄🤒
0:50 1. Forgive yourself for getting off track
2:04 2. Review your why
3:00 3. Start small and don’t overwhelm yourself
4:12 4. Build trust with yourself
6:35 5. Make it fun
7:45 6. Make it visual
8:55 7. Celebrate your small wins
11:12 8. Focus on the feeling
13:30 9. Embrace imperfection and resilience
i hope this helped but really recommend watching the video, she explains it really well.
ya'll have a nice day ❤️
Thanks
Thx and also not thx
THANKYOUUU
ur welcome 🙃
Thanks
Wasn't lazy or busy.. just severely depressed. I hope we live in a world one day where mental health isn't simply overlooked or dismissed as just being lazy or irresponsible or difficult.
Kinda crazy that mental health wasn't even MENTIONED as a possibility. You have over 1 million subs, please do better. With peace and love and the wisdom of tip one. (:
@@blondnbaked5865I don’t get if ur hating or not
@@mickable3071 Not hating. Just trying to bring awareness to a very real issue. It's always so hard to decipher tone over comments. That's why I put with peace and love and the (: lol but maybe it had the opposite effect.
I'm just saying it can be very detrimental to the subs, especially those unknowingly dealing with mental illness, to just say it's laziness and not even touch on the fact that a mental illness is a very real possibility.. I just think with over 1 million subs, there should be some level of responsibility held to address certain things.
@@mickable3071 They aren't hating. People deal with depression every single day, and you know what's crazy? We don't even trust therapists. We can't get help. We are stuck in our own mind. And what does society do? They make it an aesthetic. It isn't the creators fault, we are built to think a certain way. The person who commented this only wanted to express their frustration, hope you have a great rest of the day Mickable 🖤
@@akuma3460 yes I know. I am a dysthymia patient aka short term depression. It’s the worst thing ever. When we have dep eps. It sometimes causes us to go away from others and not do things. I now know that this commenter meant no harm thank you so much for your reply ^^
1. Forgive yourself for getting off track
2. Review your why
3. Start small and don’t overwhelm yourself
4. Build trust with yourself
5. Make it fun
6. Make it visual
7. Celebrate your small wins
8. Focus on the feeling
9. Embrace imperfection and resilience
Thanks lavendaire for this video.
Simple and oh so helpful ✨✨
Thank you making a quick list of the tips she gave in this video, Sara. Much appreciated! ❤️😸✌️
❤️Thank you, I wrote these down, thanks for sharing the list in a handy comment. ❤️📃
No problem, I just made them as notes for myself too
glad it helped you.
Uhm.. I just wanna say thank you for the perfect timing posting this one😫 I need it right nowww
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Same!!
Saaaameeeee!!
Sameeeew
Sameee!!
Guys pls pray for my dad, he has covid and has been in the hospital the whole day and hasnt got a bed.. my whole family is really tensed and im scared.. pls.. thank you. And great video aileen, i needed this
Edit: thank you everyone! After this, my whole family had covid but now everything us fine.. than, you so much
May allah protect them 🤲
I am so sorry, I really hope he'll get better soon :( 💜🥺☀️
@@hajarel6550 thank you
@@nilistravelling thank you
Praying for you and your family 💜💜
🔥 *Life is either hard now, or hard later.*
✅ *But it's up to us which one we choose. If you saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing productive day and never ever give up...* 🙏
It's ramadan and I didn't sleep properly since it started . And the two last days I only had 3hours of sleep and I am on my midterm exam period, it's very hard to keep up but reading your comment made me realize that I prefer "suffer" now than later 🤍 thank you. Have a good day/night
Life is always hard
@@ourhaven 🙏🙏
The habit I’m working on right now is putting self care/mental health ABOVE productivity on my priorities list.
Ahhhh I’ve been feeling jsut stuck in life and I needed this so badly. It’s not like there’s anything bad going on in my life but I’m also just not happy and feel like I’m not really progressing
Truer words couldn’t have been spoken Sam 🙌🏽
YOU GOT THIS FRIEND!
Sameee 🥺
I feel the same way! I'm glad that I'm not alone in this. We can both work on it!❤
How did you know we needed this, lol? Thank you!
Same here 😆 I tapped so fast in the video
RIGHT!!!! the timing is insane. she’s definitely in tune with the cosmos
Sameeee perfect timing!
*3 Quotes to Live By:*
🔥 *1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self."*
🔥 *2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”*
🔥 *3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart..."*
So true. 😇
Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this is one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,
I press toward the mark for the prize of thr high calling of God in Christ Jesus.- Philippians 3:13-14 KJV
@@priscillajimenez27 “But first seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you”
- Matthew 6:33
All the best to you. Love from Australia 🇦🇺
@@priscillajimenez27 🙏🙏
@@champloo2500 🙏🙏
I think we all need this video at the moment!! I especially love the first tip - forgiving yourself is absolutely the first barrier and self-love is so important. Thanks for the video 🙏🏼❤️🌙
yesss I loved the first tip too!! sending you lots of love ✨
I sit on my couch and eat all day and I forgive myself always 😂😂
yeah, without forgiveness, there is only blame and lead to guilt.
Truueee💖
The thing I'm working on is Consistency.
I've no problem finding inspiration but my motivation can be so short-lived & I know it's hindering my potential for growth and success. Your 'Build Trust with Self' point really resonated with me; I'd never allow another person so many opportunities to disappoint me, I shouldn't allow myself to either.
I have been off track for a while... Kinda lost motivation to do anything... The outside world is making me so a bit crazy... Thanks for this video 🧡🧡
same❤️
honestly same 😭 here’s to us getting back on track! 💕
@@ChloeCara yeah! 💗💗
I'm so glad she posted this video and also to hear that there are other people going through the same struggles! ⛅
"forgive yourself for getting off track" ... I feel like this is one of those things we tend to forget doing because we're always focused on go go go, but it's INCREDIBLY crucial to show ourselves self compassion :,) thanks aileen!!
can we apreciate how much she is making our lives better? ty so much♡
so true, her content really helps us creating a good and happy life :)
exactly
@@nilistravelling lost all
Another CZcamsr was once mentioned Lavendaire in a video and I searched for the channel because I was curious. Now I don't think I could ever find a more motivational and amazing channel ever. Thank you so much Aileen💜💜💜
Dear Lavendiar I don't know if you read this but as a 15 years girl your videos are my motivations and are helping me too far than you expect to heal my depression.
It is a big deal for me cuz it breath me back to life.
God bless you thank you!🥰🥰🥰🥰
I watch this video over and over almost everyday. In order to keep truck with my goals, I might as well immerse my brain in this thoughts. I easily forget what I learn from you, but by watching repeatedly , I can remember how I can study everyday. I appreciate this tips so much!
I'm working on fixing my daily routine. I adjusted my sleeping schedule and made at least one meal a day for myself. Now I'm adding in being active every day.
I've tied in walking my dogs as a sort of warm-up before exercising, so I have a reason to do it other than for myself. I won't start until they get a walk and they deserve to explore and visit the park. Once I've already done that step, it's only natural to finish it out by doing my own exercise. I also like putting on a video like this to motivate me through it when I need an extra boost.
I'm really trying to stay motivated to keep studying, it's so hard, it's like one day I'm on the roll, and the next im super unproductive and unmotivated. I clicked on this video because I felt stuck, I must say that I am very glad I watched this thank you Aileen , for this very helpful and motivating video, you helped me realize that I've been so unnecessarily hard on myself. you are a blessing to the world. All my love, Bella in South Africa
the tips are super realistic. specially the part about being honest with yourself .
This is such a needed video right now! To anyone who's feeling off track: you're right where you're meant to be! Things we think are mistakes now, are the things we might look back on and be grateful for later! There's no such thing as failure ;) 🧡💛🧡💛
I was crying the whole time 😭 when you mention about embrace imperfections or forgive myself because that's what I've been trouble of the whole time because of the school stress I have so thank you very much for saying that because I needed the most 🥰
same 😭 sending you love we got this ✨✨
sending love to you ❤️🥺
🥺 thank you so much I also like your video so keep up the good work.🤗
Hey Aileen! I have been watching your videos for the past 4 years. Consistently. And I just needed to tell you how much I adore you! You have truly helped me through some really tough times in life. And even now, if I feel lost, I know I just need to come back to your videos. And I am home! Thank you for being my guardian angel.🌸🎇 more love and power to you!
I really needed this! Perfect timing, thanks Aileen!
This is the First thing I've opened up on CZcams, after searching "How to get your Life back on Track," Because I've forgotten How to live my life in "Normal" Times. This is Perfect Timing for me, Thankyou ! 💗
I’m starting a new job tomorrow & need to seriously get back on track so this came at the perfect time!! You’re the gift that keeps on giving Aileen 😭
You are incredible! Thank you for being so vulnerable with us all. 💕💕
I was literally planning to get back on track with my goals and all when this popped up in my notifications. I'm already feeling good about it because of this video. This is what I really needed. Thank you!
Hi love,The second one, you look at how far you've come and you see how much you've accomplished and are grateful and that gives you the energy to go on. Thank you, bless you.❤
Building trust with myself is a really big one! So many times I give myself unrealistic high expectation and in the end I couldn't do it -- but little did I know, it chipped away the trust I have with myself. Thanks for this!
You can't imagine how much I relate with your words! Be gentle on yourself it's key for me! I expect too much from myself sometimes, then when I realize that I take a step back! I need to work on my projects in a more sustainable way!
I have been watching your videos since 5 years now and I am so glad you helped me mould my life so much.I am 21 now and so much excited for the journey ahead. Thank you so much for motivating consistently !! Much love to you.
Hello Aileen! I am soo happy to watch your videos..And myself and my family listens to your Positive self love affirmations every night, we really love it! ❤
I just wanna say that there's something about you that motivates me instantly.I get all excited and productive. Thank you for existing.I love you so much.❤️
Thank you! This really helped me so much!! I journaled while watching this (I paused the video and wrote down what is my 'why', how to take baby steps...)
Now I feel I can finally do this. I realized I've tried to do too much at the same time and I exhausted myself. So for now on I can take care of myself better and enjoy the process!
Yes! I love this video & it came in perfect timing!
"It doesn't matter that you got off track, the important thing is you get back on track"
I've recently discovered this channel and I hope that I've discovered it earlier. It's like an inspiration source. Aileen's voice is so relaxing too and makes me feel like everything is alright and no matter what happened I still have the chance to make changes in my life even if they are small they are better than nothing. BTW the habits that I would like to get back on track are practice yoga, waking up early and reading. Hope you all guys get back on track too
Thank you for all of your videos and advice! I read almost all of the books on your list, did the liberation kriya, quit smoking weed, and started a new job since I started watching you! Grateful for you 💕
Journaling every day. Thank you for this video. I’ve fallen off track with my journaling and I’ve really been beating myself up about it. This has made me feel a little better about the situation ❤️
It is one of the most difficult years of my life that will outline my future so I really needed getting back on track, your videos always helped me so much this year I really look forward to be as amazing as you. This video especially is the one I need the most rn to achieve my goals, thanks for the perfect timing I really love you and love your soul, hope you see my comment and be proud of yourself even more to be such and inspiration 💖
Whenever I feel down or when I doubt myself, I always go through your channel. Old or new videos, it all makes sense. Thank you for being you! You have saved a lot of people more than you'll ever know
Thank you!! ❤️
Now days Iam addicted to your sweet voice and videos ❤️😍
I was just thinking about how non-existent my morning routine has become and how I want to get back on track. Then this video popped up! It's relatable and the tips are doable. Thank you for being you!
The feel the person looking back is more likely succeed. It’s like they’re validating all the hard work they’ve already done
I love that you address the issue of forgiving ourselves in this video, such a compassionate start to another great video and so important to remember 💛
I just completed my Masters degree at a medical school and I had high hopes that I would get accepted into the medical school . I missed the gpa needed by 1 point and I thought I would get in but got rejected. Im struggling to get back up and reapply to other schools without feeling like a failure but this video really made me realize how far I've come and for the first time in a while I'm happy again. Thank you so much for this video . God bless you !
absolutely ..! thanks for this reminder girl 💙✨ really do appreciate you coming by and being consistent in your message, it really helps ..! have a good week 😊💃🏽
Thank you, Aileen, I needed this SO MUCH right now! You are always in time. Also this haircolor looks gorgeous on you ❤❤❤
I need this now really really need this perfect timing my life was a mess and is still one this is exactly what I need now
It's definitely the right time for this video! Thank you so much! 💜
Your last 2 videos wore made for me. After April I needed this, you just made my day a lot better a you are making my life better. Thank you for the time and passion you put in helping others.
The building trust with yourself part really hit different. It's not something that I've ever really thought about before but it's so true! Thank you for this very insightful video, Aileen! These always seem to come at just the right time
Thank you Aileen for changing and shaping my life. I often fall from my routine and I start hating myself. So thank-you so much for this video. Sending lots of love💖💖💖
This was great :’) Been hard on myself in not reaching my goals, where I truly need to forgive myself & take small steps to my goals. Thank you for creating this video!
THANK YOU, Aileen...your videos helped me to get through a very hard time in my life....thanks for just existing...the value you've added to my life is unexplainable in words...sending you lots of love and gratitude.!!
The timing of your last few videos have been so perfect with everything going on in my life!
One goal I'm working towards is studying for my national counselors exam so I can work on getting licensed....and a new habit I'm trying to build is journaling!
Thank you once again, Aileen. You are amazing. Your clear and positive videos are just right for me. I always have a ton of goals but learning to narrow down the list to what is really important to me in the long run. I love the 9 tips to get back on track. I like everyone else, I am sure, sets more than one goal and works on them simultaneously. The fear is for me is the lack of trust that I will accomplish one goal and move on the next, so I had better do them all at once to be sure I get them going and done. Especially for people in my age group where time no longer feels vast.. So, thank you for reminding me that multi-tasking personal goals is not a successful strategy. I love your outline of the two mindsets. I am definitely the one to look ahead and how far I have to go and its definitely a defeating way to look at success. Thank you for your insights.
I watched this yesterday and in the moment it was so encouraging. Today, I was feeling super negative once again so I decided to rewatch the video. I reflected and took very helpful notes. While reflecting I thought positively and wrote to myself which was self comforting. I am grateful for all your videos and am so glad I decided to write them down. THANK YOU! uwu
Houa, by watching the video again you actually applied the following tips mentioned: (1) forgiving yourself; (8) focusing on the feeling; and (9) embracing imperfection and resilience. I, too, took notes but I'm going to treat my notes for this particular video differently. I'm going to refer to them repeatedly to make sure that I'm applying the gems in this video. I wish you the best, Houa- you can do it!
I literally can’t tell how much I’m thankful for finding your channel❤️
So insightful! I have lost a lot of trust in myself through the pandemic...gave over to my impulses and what I "feel like" doing instead of what needs done. This was so inspiring!
These days I feel overwhelmed with many things in my life but Thank God I found this video because it was all I need right now .
Thank you 💕💕
Thank you so much for this video, it put into words what I'm going through so well! I recently got off track exactly because I lost my why. Realising that was confronting, hearing your tips really help me to continue to listen to myself and give myself time ☀️
Ahh thankyou for this when i started my fitness journey 6 months ago i was so motivated then april came i started to feel ok that i was eating unhelathy foods then i was sad and fell then gained 1kg in a month i fell at the track of my life to the point i started to always say oh i can do it tommorow but then when i started watching lavandeire she helped me so much now im starting to do every thing and im starting to get back on tract thankyou for this
Omg I reaaaally needed this video, so perfect timing.🥰
Love your videos, they always make me feel calm and happy😍😍
bless that i am so early now for a video that i really needed from the person who explains so well that i could understand. thank you so much
You have no idea how bad I needed this. Thankyou sooo much 💖😭
I really like that you speak to the viewer with a clear"you". It's motivating because listening to you telling me how to think about this situation or how to take the next step makes me feel so calm and soothed. Like my mind remembers what you say and it's a motivational feeling that stays with me after the video is done....so hard to explain this, hahah, but I hope it kinda makes sense. Thank you
I figured out about how the "why" is so important and it made me realize that some goals that I had set had no meaning anymore for me ❤️
I've been off for a few months now especially at work so I gotta get back on track. Thank you!
Needed this today! Thank you! My mindset was feeling defeated lately! I'm going to take today, to really focus on how far I've come.
Just needed this today. Thank you SO MUCH!💗
I love your voice it's so calming, couldn't held back my tears just realizing the state of my life rn while listening to you 🥺💓
This is the best video for HOW TO GET BACK TO TRACK ☺️ it is so relatable. This video has so many little points that we never notice while focusing on a particular goal. I was dealing with such a negative thoughts in my mind, I started blaming myself for my mistakes or not getting back on track. Thank you so so so much 💞
I love this mindset of self-compassion! I have tried so many times to push myself to the breaking point and it only backfired!
I literally searched fr this to get motivated again.. Tysm.. U n all ur videos are so motivating. Much love to u girl💙
very timely for me✨ i have fallen off track actually just this morning but thanks to these helpful tips, it gave me a sense of hope and positive vibration ❤️
Hey Aileen, I watch all your videos! We love you so much, you're an inspiration...you're a sister who's always there for us! Just watching you instantly uplifts my mood & inspires me! Love from India xoxo
Aww, Thank you so much for this babe !! I really needed this right now !! I LOVE YOU SM MY ANGEL !! Sending you LOADS OF LOVE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND HUGS !! ❤️❤️❤️✨
Perfect timing as always, thank you! 💖
You are such a lovely person and your videos are so positive and calming to watch❤❤❤
Such a wise lady....incredible insight from one so young! Love all your videos.
While watching the video, I can feel that I will achieve my little goals because of how much I relate to these tips. I was beating myself up and setting high standards for myself when in fact, being slow and setting small goals - it's an easy path to take. I will come back here and I'll tell how your tips helped me through this journey. (I always feel guilty every day for not achieving what I want but I forgive myself for that and I'll try and try again.) Thank you so much!
I’m healing from a really rough medical treatment and this video helped remind me of my thought processes I had in undergrad. Thank you so much for making this video! I needed this!
I always make notes when I watch your videos. I'm an absolute fan.
Just what I needed, thank you! Love love
I need to maintain a routine! This is my goal right now. Morning and evening routines and consistency will get me closer to my goals. Love this video
the fact that this video is so peaceful....makes you feel good and kind of helps you to go easy on yourself. after all, we're just humans. Thank you ^^
I absolutely loved this video! Thank you :) this is exactly what I needed to hear to get back on track with everything!
My one goal right now in life is to find my inner passion for life again. I'm so used to going after finding work or planning to move that I never really enjoy where I'm at right now. Sure, things are far from perfect, but that doesn't mean I should be sour about my efforts in life. One of the tips that represents with me in this video was to review my why because I sometimes get tunnel vision and forget why I'm doing this activity or going after this job. Thank you, Lavendaire, for another helpful video. ❤️
Omg Aileen you actually build up my confidence level💪. Actually I am not concentrating on my routine more and also I feel so bad😓 about myself like " why am I like this 😔". In this mindset I saw your video!!!!, it gives me more strength and helps me to put another step in my life to get back, thank you Aileen for the video ❤️😘👍. Like I always said that you are definitely a positive person who spread positive Vibes, thanks Aileen.
Thanks, I’ve started working out more and this video has helped me realise what I need to do to stay on track
I just finished journaling this morning about this exact thing. I definitely needed this. 💛
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Earlier this year, I discovered your channel and subscribed right away. I have been coming back for more.❤️
thank you so much for this... I badly need these advices right now. bless your heart
Love it! Thank you so much! I've watch almost all of your videos and i think this is me right now, I'm procrastinating, i not motivated, i felt like giving up, but learning these tips now helps me to get back up, so i think this video is a lofr saver for me today, thank you and keep up the amazing work Lavendaire ❤️❤️❤️
I would LOVE to see a video or even a series on steps to trust/love yourself again. Loved this video 💕
I really needed this right now in my life.thank you so much.