What Shaped You?

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  • The ladies of “The Real” share the impactful life moment that shaped them into the women they are today.
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  • @swaggpro17
    @swaggpro17 Před 8 lety +5325

    YESSSS Tamar preaching in the beginning to Tamera when she was about to cry. "Don't give nobody your power now tell your story" that's a friend that's worth keeping 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @sharzhay
      @sharzhay Před 6 lety +53

      Lol apparently not ..

    • @marqusdaimen4624
      @marqusdaimen4624 Před 5 lety +35

      LOL.. Apparently she wasn't worth keeping, considering.....

    • @tsmitty5782
      @tsmitty5782 Před 5 lety +18

      Sharzhay La fleur they had nothing to do with her getting fired so apparently

    • @rc2369
      @rc2369 Před 4 lety +4

      @@rararodrigo1677 they said on the breakfast club that they havent spoken since

    • @soobindoll9767
      @soobindoll9767 Před 4 lety +1

      Fr

  • @priscillao1064
    @priscillao1064 Před 8 lety +3066

    Tamar with the 'don't nobody take your power' is everything!!!

    • @raynee6668
      @raynee6668 Před 7 lety +3

      i dont get it
      wht does it mean?

    • @tater4442
      @tater4442 Před 7 lety +40

      Ayan Hashi basically saying dont let's some else control you, or your decision, you keep your head high not matter what, because a lot of people would kill to see you fall

    • @raynee6668
      @raynee6668 Před 7 lety +3

      Oh ok thanks!

    • @brienethefox853
      @brienethefox853 Před 3 lety +4

      Also shows Tamar is a great friend.

    • @freshstart4423
      @freshstart4423 Před 2 lety +2

      They make stuff up, Kiki Palmer has multiple personalities and isn't diagnosed yet. It's a serious issue.
      Her book isn't real because she assumes different personalities and imagines stuff that didn't happen.
      Childhood trauma causes DID.

  • @crysg9739
    @crysg9739 Před 8 lety +3104

    I love Tamera's humbleness. It makes her 100x more beautiful

  • @GabyTeeMUA
    @GabyTeeMUA Před 8 lety +4743

    Omg Tamar looks so beautiful with her hair like that!!!

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 Před 8 lety +39

      Absolutely gorgeous.

    • @catqueen2031
      @catqueen2031 Před 8 lety +49

      Ugly goofy twin my fat ass😂 she is gorgeous

    • @dfranklin5497
      @dfranklin5497 Před 8 lety +9

      +Queen of the World she said Tamar lol . But Tamera is gorgeous, I wanna find out who wrote that letter

    • @CassieJazz96
      @CassieJazz96 Před 8 lety +9

      +GabyTeeMUA IKR! When I saw her in the thumbnail, I was like she looks so PRETTY!

    • @CassieJazz96
      @CassieJazz96 Před 8 lety +6

      Kimberly Seaborn I think they were jealous in the first place, Tamera was always naturally gorgeous!

  • @Empressive
    @Empressive Před 8 lety +1816

    Ugh...they always make me cry. Adrienne spoke to my heart. When you go through a rough time, go to the place where you're loved. Even if your love ones are not around....God is still there and He loves you more than anyone. I commend Tamera for getting over that hurdle of insecurity as well. Hearing things like that is so painful, especially when you're young. Tamera is the furthest thing from ugly. Never accept detrimental lies about yourself.

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 Před 8 lety +25

      Amen to that.

    • @C2G2
      @C2G2 Před 6 lety +13

      Empressive YES! Thank you I definitely needed to read that today in 2018. Bless you.😚😘✌❤ & soul.

    • @joycevaughn9028
      @joycevaughn9028 Před 6 lety +3

      Empressive im late but yesvits help me get through

    • @bossqueen5855
      @bossqueen5855 Před 3 lety +3

      God is good to us don't matter what happens 🙏🙌😇

  • @aaannnyyy99
    @aaannnyyy99 Před 8 lety +1407

    when tam said the girl called her ugly but not her sister......
    THEY ARE IDENTICAL TWINS SISTERS !!!!!!!!!!
    both beautiful

    • @jojopemb2218
      @jojopemb2218 Před 7 lety +70

      Anny F *sigh* identical twins don't always look the same. Tia and Tamera aren't identical in looks. Their DNA is just identical.

    • @aaannnyyy99
      @aaannnyyy99 Před 7 lety +63

      Jonelle Pemberton umm they clearly look alike almost identical... and they not ferternal soo ya they are identical

    • @jojopemb2218
      @jojopemb2218 Před 7 lety +23

      Anny F u literally just said "they clearly look alike almost identical". U literally JUST said "almost". There is no "almost" in identical. U either are or u aren't. That's like saying ur almost pregnant. Either u are or u aren't. Identical just means they shared an egg. Nuthin to do specifically with looks. Mary Kate and Ashley Olson look completely alike and yet they are fraternal twins because they had their own egg and sperm separate from each other.

    • @aaannnyyy99
      @aaannnyyy99 Před 7 lety +3

      Jonelle Pemberton ........ i said almost because the mole

    • @jilln.1761
      @jilln.1761 Před 6 lety

      ik im way late. but on ones DNA is identical

  • @murielmelly7688
    @murielmelly7688 Před 7 lety +820

    Tamar was a awesome friend to Tamera here. 😚😚

    • @CONGLOMERATE32
      @CONGLOMERATE32 Před 6 lety +3

      Muriel Melly I disagree, I thought it was too pushy

    • @missaddis8929
      @missaddis8929 Před 5 lety +3

      Only for her she's was rude for Janine

    • @Aliasss
      @Aliasss Před 5 lety +5

      miss Addis - who the hell is Janine?

    • @jacksongotthetea3118
      @jacksongotthetea3118 Před 5 lety +13

      How is it too pushy she's giveng her strength and confidence to say it. @@CONGLOMERATE32

    • @Eddy6159
      @Eddy6159 Před 4 lety +3

      Tanya Carrie shut up

  • @KeishaCharmaine
    @KeishaCharmaine Před 8 lety +510

    Tamera went OFF!! Go girl!!

  • @Cheezfuz92
    @Cheezfuz92 Před 8 lety +919

    Tamar is serving Toni realness here

    • @CastellonZamora
      @CastellonZamora Před 8 lety +13

      +Steven Toro ugh yes it is giving me LIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIFE

    • @des8679
      @des8679 Před 6 lety +16

      Wow I thought I was seeing stuff I can't believe how much she looks like her with this style so gorgeous

    • @lanadavis8238
      @lanadavis8238 Před 6 lety +5

      Omg yes she looks just like her!!!! I thought it was her at first

    • @queenmarie1232
      @queenmarie1232 Před 6 lety +4

      Tamar is serving Tamar realness

    • @TianaTajana
      @TianaTajana Před 5 lety +2

      I thought it was her

  • @alansimpson8384
    @alansimpson8384 Před 8 lety +614

    Tamar can be so freaking extra sometimes but I find that she always show love especially toward Adrienne. You can tell Adrienne and Tamar talk a lot about Adrienne's insecurities and sadness. I remember when Adrienne finished singing the Selena song and Tamar started crying and hugged her and said she loved her. She's like a big sister to Adrienne.

    • @dimeziaire
      @dimeziaire Před 6 lety +25

      They were SUPER Close. Adrienne was even in one of Tamar's videos & on Tamar & Vince Adrienne Was Always over Tamar's house. You can tell that all the ladies were friends but Tay Tay and Adrienne were EXTREMELY close.

  • @kkingmusic13
    @kkingmusic13 Před 8 lety +1552

    Adrienne's story I really sympathies with with me going of to private college world renowned n then having to come back home like you really feel like a failure because you here stories of your friends getting there first apartments & having great jobs and your just, back home trying to make things work and it sucks but you have to realize some people can't go back home people people aren't as blessed as you are to have a family to fall back on so I totally understand at least that's what I took from it....

    • @Gossiptgirl
      @Gossiptgirl Před 8 lety +57

      Thank you, you just put everything I'm feeling right now after graduating university into words. We are lucky to have family to fall back on.

    • @itsfriday9139
      @itsfriday9139 Před 8 lety +2

      +Yellowlover94 preach

    • @TShashini266
      @TShashini266 Před 8 lety +29

      +Yellowlover94 I am going through the same thing...having achieved academically and getting opportunities to work not knowing this can fall apart I had to return home. right now I am home it has been this way for two years it teaches a great deal. It is not the end though I consider this as a loooooong break.

    • @itzallaboutmeee5506
      @itzallaboutmeee5506 Před 8 lety +38

      +Yellowlover94 Going through the same thing. I'm graduating this May with two bachelors and I've been applying for jobs, can not for the life of me find a job offer and It's looking like I am going to have to move back home. I feel like my friends are successful and i'm a bit embarrassed that I haven't "Made It" yet. Anyways, I have to look at the positive and remember that at least i have a home to go back to.

    • @shawnpreston1639
      @shawnpreston1639 Před 8 lety +7

      Yes! That's my story/situation. For some ppl it's do or die. There is no going back home.

  • @08kbaby
    @08kbaby Před 8 lety +480

    I love the way Tamar looks at Tamera in such admiration at 2:34! She was so proud and happy for her overcoming that burden. Their friendship is so cute and inspiring

  • @NadiaVenice
    @NadiaVenice Před 8 lety +734

    Adrienne's story was beautiful. Not gonna lie I teared up. It's so true though. Material things and fame should never be ones end all be all.

  • @harlemfruean9365
    @harlemfruean9365 Před 7 lety +735

    I love Tamar in this one 😌😭😍❤️

  • @rafaellayorke1991
    @rafaellayorke1991 Před 8 lety +177

    "Regardless of what happens I can still go home"
    #PREACH
    That within it self is a God given blessing!

  • @tllymchll7474
    @tllymchll7474 Před 8 lety +611

    There's nothing ugly or goofy about Tamera, the Lord's children are never ugly nor goofy! That person had serious self esteem issues, and took it out on Tam-Tam.

    • @jannahnurul
      @jannahnurul Před 8 lety +2

      Truth!

    • @tllymchll7474
      @tllymchll7474 Před 8 lety +2

      Thank you

    • @ClearLavenderSky
      @ClearLavenderSky Před 8 lety +7

      +Michelle Talley I mean seriously what "fan" writes a letter like that? I wouldn't be a surprised if it were some jealous kid she went to school with before they became famous.

    • @45mo4528
      @45mo4528 Před 8 lety +5

      +Michelle Talley what's wrong with being goofy anyway?

    • @madamebishop
      @madamebishop Před 8 lety +2

      +45mo4528 I think she mentioned one time that being goofy was interpreted as being an airhead.

  • @DivineVibrations9
    @DivineVibrations9 Před 8 lety +83

    "I can still go home" simple, but powerful ❤️

  • @tranvo1846
    @tranvo1846 Před 8 lety +1534

    I want Tamar to be my bestfriend I feel like she's gonna kill anyone who done me wrong 😂

    • @ashleyfrancis1212
      @ashleyfrancis1212 Před 8 lety +43

      haha for real tho..she had her back

    • @niahart7641
      @niahart7641 Před 4 lety +6

      Tran indeed She would be my Friend she has great advice that you cannot take away from her and learn from She is funny and will make me laugh so much And she will get anyone who did me the wrong way

    • @deannayork2771
      @deannayork2771 Před 4 lety

      @@ashleyfrancis1212 Ikr.

    • @sweetheartluv1823
      @sweetheartluv1823 Před 3 lety +1

      She cried bullied by Kmichelle. We all need someone stronger. Who has Tamar back?

    • @taz22196
      @taz22196 Před rokem

      No that’s Fr! 😂

  • @Shabulousx3
    @Shabulousx3 Před 8 lety +434

    I'm feeling Adrienne's story. Going to college and graduating with a 3.5 gpa and still not getting a serious job, hurts. It's been 7 months so far, and i feel like a failure. I'm living at home with family, not going out and its depressing. I went from an active lifestyle to hardly moving from bed. Her stories motivate me.

    • @mariono244
      @mariono244 Před 8 lety +29

      +S Kim Sis it's a painful and hurtful situation to be in - doing so well at school and all these expectations you had are not met, I'm here to tell you and encourage you that God has better for you.I've been there and I know I will be there again at some point in my life. He's doing his part and he needs you to do your part - to keep on trusting, being the best you can be, reaching out to others and sharing your pain like you're doing now and most importantly act like you already have the blessing he is about to open for you. This is key, that dream job waiting for you - will you be acting the way you are now if you had that job? Act like you already have the blessing you're waiting on. This is not the end of a story but the beginning of a new chapter. Sending you love and light!

    • @mariono244
      @mariono244 Před 8 lety +3

      +S Kim I also recommend you watch Daring to Wait on God by Rick Warren - it's told from a Christian's perspective but he has some key messages that are relevant to every human being! x

    • @Shabulousx3
      @Shabulousx3 Před 8 lety +2

      Marion Osieyo thank you for this beautiful message, it means a lot, I truly appreciate the advice

    • @maureen_momo
      @maureen_momo Před 8 lety +9

      babe... I have been where you are and all I can tell you is don't forget how amazing you are...3.5 gpa!!! YOU ROCK! you don't see it now but something amazing will come your way...be patient and oh sweety please please be kind to yourself. This is just one of many seasons in your life and it gets better-promise.

    • @kedeidradupree164
      @kedeidradupree164 Před 8 lety +9

      I went through the same exact thing. It's been 5 months. Keep your head held high girl, God's got us ❤️

  • @brianna1350
    @brianna1350 Před 8 lety +618

    Wow..Adrienne had me in tears. I'm grateful that I have people that love me for me! "We can all go home." That's a very powerful statement. Whatever or whoever your home may be, you know that you're safe when you're there.

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 Před 8 lety +2

      +brianna1350 fr especially seeing as to how everyone is bashing right now. I balled my eyes out lol

    • @tianamarie6210
      @tianamarie6210 Před 6 lety

      Bri.V.M. really😂😂 they are fake

    • @anewno6240
      @anewno6240 Před 6 lety +5

      So true. I quit my job and I am not successful at school so drop out but now I am home. Thank God for that. I can feel happy, safe because I have home and people who love me

    • @freshstart4423
      @freshstart4423 Před 2 lety

      I don't have anyone who loves me and all I care about is my salvation.
      The racketeering, extortion, bribery, coercion, witchcraft, necromancy and idolatry is nasty.
      Deuteronomy 18:9

  • @SeniorLife2012
    @SeniorLife2012 Před 8 lety +235

    I have NEVER seen Adrienne just ..open herself up like that. like, damn. it gave me all kinds of feels. I actually cried on her part and not Tamera story. but that's because I have heard Tamera talk about her story about her insecurities many times. but Adrienne is more closed off with some stuff. and she don't cry a lot so it made me cry 😢. lol. but I'm proud of all the ladies.

  • @aprilinparisxoxo
    @aprilinparisxoxo Před 7 lety +71

    I LOVE what Adrienne said! It's always ok to go back home ❤️

  • @amaracheee
    @amaracheee Před 8 lety +132

    When she said "we're real people and REAL PEOPLE love us" oh my goodness that almost broke me. Yasssss Adrienne!

  • @AkiffHssn
    @AkiffHssn Před 8 lety +65

    I've been poor and have been rich again...and poor and rich gain..and its okay. :') deep & appreciate life now thats everything -AdrienneBailon

  • @traykin123.
    @traykin123. Před 8 lety +212

    Tamar you may never see this but you are AMAZING. you support these women so much and I want to thank you for that.

    • @ClearLavenderSky
      @ClearLavenderSky Před 8 lety +3

      +Kin Ny When was Tamar ever supportive? The others yes but Tamar is one of the messiest women on tv. I swear people will allow themselves to see and think whatever they want.

    • @traykin123.
      @traykin123. Před 8 lety +6

      EarthlyHue so if people will allow themselves to see and think whatever they want let that be my opinion. 😑 I think she was very supportive of tamera in this segment. I stand by my original comment.

    • @ClearLavenderSky
      @ClearLavenderSky Před 8 lety +2

      Well I won't let only one supportive moment determine my final thought of someone. Good day.

    • @traykin123.
      @traykin123. Před 8 lety +9

      +EarthlyHue I never asked. . good day.

    • @rainbowturtleness
      @rainbowturtleness Před 8 lety +1

      +EarthlyHue Watch other videos then and let that thoroughly fucked up opinion of yours change when you see how wrong you are, and don't be stubborn and refuse to change your opinion either.

  • @chktkart8540
    @chktkart8540 Před 8 lety +207

    OH DAMN IT. Whoever poked my eyes he\she better admitted. What are you talking about? I'm not crying.

  • @AmmaMama
    @AmmaMama Před 8 lety +241

    Hell yeah I remember 3LW!

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 Před 8 lety +43

      +Amma Appiah I'm getting a lil tired of your broken promithes promithes

    • @ChrisBHoni
      @ChrisBHoni Před 8 lety +2

      +Mandy X'O-twod pettyyyyyy 😂

    • @misskemo
      @misskemo Před 8 lety +2

      +Mandy X'O-twod the lisp is intergeral to the song lol

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 Před 8 lety

      lmaoooo I had to

    • @asha1195
      @asha1195 Před 8 lety +6

      +Mandy X'O-twod that joke never gets old lol

  • @animemangaluv13
    @animemangaluv13 Před 8 lety +93

    I love Tamar being the cheerleader in the back in this clip, you can tell she has been there for Adrienne and tamera listening to this and giving them kind words~

    • @ltsoul9751
      @ltsoul9751 Před 6 lety

      I couldnt tell at all, not for Adrienne, she was making light of it, joking, and laughing at her, she didnt seem sympathetic at all.

  • @peachlife5118
    @peachlife5118 Před 8 lety +176

    Adrienne's story is something I can really relate to. I had been the star student in my family but I dropped out in 12th grade. It really showed me people's true colours as my cousins came out of the woodwork to throw shade at me and basically wanted nothing to do with me as they went off to their colleges and new jobs. Now after 5 years, I have started at university. They are all coming back around wanting to associate with me again and in this time I have learned that I am a happier person without their approval/them in my life. I would rather just live to please first and foremost GOD and then myself.

  • @iwannaseeit1979
    @iwannaseeit1979 Před 8 lety +176

    Tamar!!! I thought you were Toni in the thumbnail for this video....

  • @mouna3242
    @mouna3242 Před 8 lety +164

    I really liked Adrienne's story. I'm happy that she knows the true meaning of happiness which is at home with her family. That's a hard lesson to learn, especially know that everyone wants to be rich. When I saw Tamera crying I immediately stopped the video so I could write this comment. I know people are gonna say that Tamera's a crybaby, but people only cry because their in pain. It can be a happy pain of a memory of a bad time and how you pulled through. Or it could be a sad pain in which you remember a bad experience and re-live the pain. It's okay to cry.

  • @clairew1718
    @clairew1718 Před 8 lety +106

    Tamar is such a supportive beautiful person. Tamar supporting Tamera is the cutest thing, they are 100% best friend goals.

  • @BlahBronxJodes
    @BlahBronxJodes Před 8 lety +70

    That is soooooo real Adrienne, no matter how UP we may think we are, we can all be STRIPPED DRY!! But.. at the end of the day, I am glad I can hold my head up and... go home! #HUMBLED

  • @ja.m9562
    @ja.m9562 Před 8 lety +55

    The love Tamar has for Tamera and Adrienne is so beautiful. ❤️

  • @anaointa
    @anaointa Před 8 lety +107

    I appreciate Adrienne's words bc I'm going through that moment of "going home" right now. It feels as if no matter what you do and how hard you work, you somehow end up stagnant in the same situation. We really are more than our career aspirations. As long as we do good by people day by day, remain faithful, and hard working, we're winning! It's so easy to be hard on ourselves or lose hope but we are blessed beyond measure. And who knows? What if God is actually protecting you from that thing you want RIGHT NOW or thinks you need just a little bit more time to grow. Keep going, yall! I really appreciated this segment and their candidness.

    • @yvetteboafo5838
      @yvetteboafo5838 Před 8 lety +1

      +Shaz123 I am going through it too and your words are so true! Amen

    • @GoodMomBeauty
      @GoodMomBeauty Před 8 lety +1

      You better say that!!!

  • @nisha5290
    @nisha5290 Před 8 lety +139

    This reminds me of the scene in cheetah girls where Chanel says "the cheetah girls are over ma"

  • @anaointa
    @anaointa Před 8 lety +78

    I absolutely ADORE Tamera! She is so incredibly beautiful to me.

  • @angie23621
    @angie23621 Před 8 lety +301

    I love the ladies. They're such amazing role models, and they have such beautiful and kind spirits. They might make me cry because of their stories, but that just shows how real they are.
    P.S. If you're ever in Los Angeles, go to a taping of those show. They're so nice to everyone. They'll say hi and talk to the audience during the break, and stuff like that. Can't wait for seasons 3&4. They totally deserve the blessings.

    • @angie23621
      @angie23621 Před 8 lety +2

      *this

    • @sizzle19
      @sizzle19 Před 8 lety +5

      Amen. Truly beautiful women, inside and out

    • @meliss90
      @meliss90 Před 8 lety

      do u have to buy tickets or canu show show up?

    • @angie23621
      @angie23621 Před 8 lety

      ranya x you have to request tickets on their website. An audience coordinator will send you the tickets the week before the actual date that you signed up for.

    • @meliss90
      @meliss90 Před 8 lety

      how much are they do y know?

  • @jaymak_16
    @jaymak_16 Před 8 lety +216

    I loved Adrienne message ....I feel like Tamera is really insecure when people compare her to her sister she is growing out of it though

    • @Sonic_and_DuckyYT
      @Sonic_and_DuckyYT Před 7 lety +10

      agreed but i feel like shes still dealing with it and suppresses it

    • @tianamarie6210
      @tianamarie6210 Před 6 lety +1

      Jay Mak they are fake🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @killlamas57
    @killlamas57 Před 8 lety +550

    I wanted to hear Loni's insecurity so badly. Smh.

    • @heyQui
      @heyQui Před 8 lety +2

      Awww 😂😂😂😂

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 Před 8 lety +12

      She did last season about how sometimes she don't feel good about herself.

    • @vizengwa
      @vizengwa Před 8 lety +18

      +annie parker Lol that's not specific enough

    • @osimeon00
      @osimeon00 Před 8 lety +78

      Please. She will never open up. She'd probably talk about bacon, alcohol, or some one night stand that caused her to be the woman she is today.

    • @kelsaMJ
      @kelsaMJ Před 8 lety +17

      she has several times. A lot of her old stand up reveals it as well as her last season saying she wasn't good enough, she was too fat, she was this and that and I feel like it would be redundant if she hasn't said it over the years again and again.

  • @anti_ivyy
    @anti_ivyy Před 8 lety +60

    there are no words for how much i love Tamera!!!

  • @iamsoiexist7192
    @iamsoiexist7192 Před 8 lety +39

    Adrienne we all seen you in the spotlight and fade and come back alot of times, I'm glad youre okay to not let fame determine who you are and keep your ego in check knowing God can take a blessing as fast as it was given

  • @joejill51lala
    @joejill51lala Před 8 lety +43

    I loved Tamera's story, but I'm even more shocked that I heard Tamera say "Damnit" lol TWICE AT THAT. Love Tam. I relate to Adrienne story a lot too!

  • @kareemcoleman335
    @kareemcoleman335 Před 8 lety +41

    That was powerful Adrienne! A lot of people don't understand they can go home. A lot of people have allowed Fame, Money, Things to define they.... Thank you!

  • @kamrynm2210
    @kamrynm2210 Před 8 lety +53

    ADRIENNE NEVER CRIES I LOVE HER SOOOOO MUCH 💓💓

  • @shecops985
    @shecops985 Před 8 lety +35

    I swear i knew Tamera was about to cry as soon as I saw her face at 0:25

    • @londa4793
      @londa4793 Před 8 lety

      I didn't see it at all but awww

  • @Lovely_her199
    @Lovely_her199 Před 8 lety +29

    Whew Tamera had me emotional for a second. I had to get myself together after she stopped talking.

  • @amnesianbro9220
    @amnesianbro9220 Před 8 lety +15

    "Regardless of what happens in life, I can still go home" That really spoke to me, thank you Adrienne.

  • @farhiyayussuf9814
    @farhiyayussuf9814 Před 8 lety +26

    tamar's that friend that will forever ride on you but have your back when you truly need her 💙

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn Před 8 lety +44

    I think that what shaped me into the young man i am today is my parents always telling me "Know when to follow and when to be a POWERFUL LEADER !!!" When you are good follower , you'll be a BETTER Leader!!!

  • @ItsdancingmarinaZUMBAREGGAETON

    I love how she says don't be nervous don't give anybody your power , take your power back 👏👏👏

  • @ebonymitchell6963
    @ebonymitchell6963 Před 8 lety +12

    Thank You Tamera and Adrienne for your vulnerability, it has definitely helped me. I once had a lady tell me that if I wasn't married by 25 something was wrong with me. It stuck with me for years and as a result I made some stupid relationship decisions from the insecurity that was birthed out of what she said to me. I realize how asinine that "wisdom" was and its made me more aware of what I say to other people. I have forgiven her for all her foolish statements.

  • @gigitea4205
    @gigitea4205 Před 8 lety +7

    Adrienne is speaking volumes today! "This isn't everything." 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @alienlarry7045
    @alienlarry7045 Před 8 lety +28

    Tamera and Adrienne are beautiful. AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHY TAMERA FELT THE NEED TO THINK SHE WASN'T BEAUTIFUL!!! AND Adrienne your TALENTED AS HELL. success will always find you. Stay beautiful everyone you are loved

  • @manny1488
    @manny1488 Před 8 lety +9

    Adrienne is amazing at her job. She addresses the audience, she poured her heart out, kept it beyond real and I loved how her whole recount had a theme of "going home".

  • @rockxstarr818
    @rockxstarr818 Před 8 lety +20

    i dont know why that hit me so hard i can go home because you forget yo some people cant go home im so blessed to be able to go home

    • @NinaPrissyMurphy
      @NinaPrissyMurphy Před 8 lety +4

      This made me cry. Because I get it. I work so hard because for me it is everything. I cannot go home. I'm glad people have that. Some aren't strong enough to have no where to go.

  • @mariahplummer4611
    @mariahplummer4611 Před 7 lety +32

    God damn this clip made me love Tamar... look at how she looking at tamera and Adrienne

  • @homegirl44
    @homegirl44 Před 8 lety +66

    "Oh my God. So we all just gonna let it free? We gon' caw caw?" - LOL I love me some Adrienne. Her and Jeannie are my favorite personalities, but Adrienne's personality is more like mine.

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 Před 8 lety +3

      +Reyna yaaasss

    • @itsfriday9139
      @itsfriday9139 Před 8 lety

      +Reyna ADRIENNE WAS CRYING BECAUSE OF HER PASTOR DRAMA NOT THE PAST LOL

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 Před 8 lety +1

      Mia Walker and how is that funny? you just heard her say she reads the comments, with all the trash talk in these comments i'd cry too

    • @itsfriday9139
      @itsfriday9139 Před 8 lety

      Mandy X'O-twod BOO HOO?

  • @SA-nt9kl
    @SA-nt9kl Před 8 lety +21

    I love tamera so much!
    She's beautiful in and out, such a beautiful spirit

  • @enosynce
    @enosynce Před 8 lety +36

    Daggone it, I was a Sister, Sister fan, I wish I knew about the fanmail address back then!

  • @NiaMSnow
    @NiaMSnow Před 8 lety +97

    I'm not sure how they cry with eye makeup on. I did it once and my eye was burning for hours.

    • @TheYvi33
      @TheYvi33 Před 8 lety +7

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂oh gosh so funny! I totally know what you're talking about

  • @selormk.4235
    @selormk.4235 Před 8 lety +26

    This is just what I needed.... I live for episodes like this❤️

  • @citlalyramos9994
    @citlalyramos9994 Před 6 lety +2

    "don't give nobody your power, don't give one person your power, you take all your power back"-Tamar . the way she said it touched my heart, such a beautiful quote.

  • @KishhmyAss
    @KishhmyAss Před 8 lety +14

    I remember watching sister sister and always saying I love tamera shes so cool! I never compared the twins looks because they were/are both beautiful! Its crazy how someone will call her the ugly twin cause theres no such thing when it comes to those two.. People call me goofy all the time.. I embraced it and I actually love it because to me goofy isnt ugly but cool, great sense of humor, nice personality etc.. + adrienne I always felt bad for ur breaks during really successful things like the cheetah girls or 3LW but tbh I wish u would take advantage of that singing voice.. YOU WERE A MEMBER OF A GROUP AND NOT A GROUP MEMBER YOU HAVE A GREAT VOICE SINGING IS UR PASSION.. Go for it!!!

  • @D3IM2NTEII1
    @D3IM2NTEII1 Před 8 lety +23

    I love moments like this on The Real! Incredibly inspiring!

  • @freegratuits
    @freegratuits Před 8 lety +19

    I envy Adrienne with regards to her comment. I came to America as an immigrant hoping to find my pot of gold but have been delayed along the way having so many obstacles and having to help family back home. Sad thing is, when I was at the end of my rope, when things were unimaginably difficult, I could not, for one second, imagine being able to go home. My own family members and former friends were so envious of me leaving that when they would find out I was having troubles, they would laugh at me and outwardly mock me to my parents. I am doing much better now and people ask me to come back but even though I miss home terribly, I don't have that peace that will allow me to go back unless I am close to filthy rich or successful. People have enjoyed hearing that I suffer and then asked me for dollars. My story is SO COMMON amongst immigrants, especially from ALL OVER my lovely continent of Africa. I've met people who haven't gone home for over 30 YEARS because of this shame people back at home put on us. People's mothers are dying and they'd rather miss the funeral than deal with the mockery of those who are supposed to welcome you.
    When folks ask me when I'm coming home I feel like I no longer have a home and enjoy the anonymity of the US where people support your hustle because they see you sweat everyday trying to make something out of nothing. They see the courage of having left your home to come to a foreign land. At home they laugh and say "ha ha did she really think she could make it in America," while they have never even moved out their mama's home.

    • @jsallysally
      @jsallysally Před 8 lety +1

      im American and you story is my story...

    • @freegratuits
      @freegratuits Před 8 lety

      +thatGirlkarina Gosh you're making me cry. I need these words everyday. Thank you for being so kind and generous with your heart to a stranger. I'm trying my best all the time. I'm at a place now where I am secure and not so affected by people at home, but it takes a lot of fighting. I'm going to save your comment so I can read it whenever I feel I have no strength. I wish all the same to you in your journey, dreams and happiness. Thank you so much and all the best to your whole family as well - especially your parents!

    • @freegratuits
      @freegratuits Před 8 lety

      +Ms. Shauna (Juicie) I wish you the best sis. So you know how tough it is, how so many people want you to fail, but keep your head high and keep it all together. It takes a warrior attitude to make it.

    • @riseup6112
      @riseup6112 Před 5 lety

      Go home

  • @kourtneyjackson2663
    @kourtneyjackson2663 Před 8 lety +4

    Damn Adrienne delivered a sermon!! Fame and all the glitz and glamour that come with isn't everything. Having supportive family and friends matters so much

  • @josephlovely7759
    @josephlovely7759 Před 3 lety +1

    I graduate from medical school in my country Haiti in 2016, I immediately immigrated to USA. All my colleagues were going to specialization or work, here I was with no job, nothing going on. I was really depressed. I felt like a failure like Adrienne said. Here, I am today doing an MPH at Mount Sinai grad school in NY. You just have to be patient and be grateful for our family if you do have one to support you. There'll be dark phases but it's never the end.

  • @Farzee49
    @Farzee49 Před 8 lety +12

    We can all return "home" literally and figuratively and spiritually!

  • @PrincessOfTheUniverz
    @PrincessOfTheUniverz Před 8 lety +14

    If you really read these comments... I wish you somehow cross paths with this one. I wanted to compliment the whole panel for contributing a variety of "real" opinions and life anecdotes that truly connects with different viewers. I can only watch y'all through your you-tube videos and can only see the clips you guys put on this channel, so I thank you for doing this on a daily. I think everyone offers something different which makes the show so wholesome. I literally find myself talking back (not in a weird way) because I feel like I am talking to my peers and friends. There is not a panel out there that is like the Reals... who with all the success you guys have gotten, y'all stayed 100 and humble the whole time. I pray for y'alls continued success.

  • @theregoesbryan8641
    @theregoesbryan8641 Před 8 lety +11

    What Adrienne said was so beautiful and so real and so honest and inspiring. I love this show so much ❤️!

  • @colsomemiah6095
    @colsomemiah6095 Před 7 lety +12

    Tamar has the perfect personality for a talk show: funny, inventive, original, so very talented: I don't watch the show since she 's not there..great for a mid morning laugh

  • @demetriastevenson3086
    @demetriastevenson3086 Před 5 lety +4

    I love Tamar for how she supported Tamara while she was struggling 🤞🏼Bring her back please 😭

  • @MsBrooklyn11232
    @MsBrooklyn11232 Před 8 lety +15

    Tamera is a beautiful person inside and out and I agree with Adrienne because celebrities are normal people just like everyone else but the only difference is their bank account. People feel that they can say whatever they want to these celebs and what people seem to forget is that they have feelings just like everyone else. If only people are more sensitive and showed more empathy towards each other this world would be a better place.

  • @fionnaadeline7525
    @fionnaadeline7525 Před 8 lety +15

    i love how tamera's voice doesn't crack one bit when she's crying like that

  • @AlphabetSoup123
    @AlphabetSoup123 Před 8 lety +4

    Preach Adrienne! You spoke to my situation and my heart! I appreciate that!

  • @fanficbarbie
    @fanficbarbie Před 8 lety +10

    "Oh we all just gon set it free, we gon caw caw" lmao I'm sorry but Adrienne made me laugh 😂

  • @marshmellowsafari
    @marshmellowsafari Před 8 lety +14

    You guys should sell 'The Real Tissue Boxes' as preparation for each segment!!! Thank you for sharing stories we can relate to guys!!! Love from Trinidad!!! Always!!!

  • @venusmoodie4874
    @venusmoodie4874 Před 2 lety +2

    Bro Tamar is amazing her putting them tears away you're a survivor. Don't be nervous don't give anybody that power

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 Před 2 lety

      Yeah I like that statement this has to be one of her uplifting postive moments here because the rest in the comments people say about her are just negative in general apparently😕😕🤔

  • @RoodianneTide
    @RoodianneTide Před 8 lety +32

    There are so many internet bullies these days. I feel like people genuinely forget that the people they're watching on tv or online are actual humans with real feelings. If you don't have anything nice to say in the comments section, just keep it moving!

  • @batoolabbasi2746
    @batoolabbasi2746 Před 8 lety +4

    I think seeing Adrienne's fall into obscurity then her rise again is so emotional and amazing. What she said about failure and embracing it and being okay is so great. i am 17 and i have a lot of dreams that re not as guaranteed as going to a college and finding a mediocre passionate job is. I am part of the studious crowd but i dont want to be stuck in a boring life based on some other person's definition of success (read: money, money, money). But i am sooo deathly afraid that what if i fail? the embarrassment, the regret, the public humiliation. I have to learn to be okay with that like adrienne did. I dont know if adrienne will ever read this but i just wanna thank her for her words.

  • @Maxqueenn
    @Maxqueenn Před 8 lety +4

    Adrienne's story on going home reaaaallly resonates with me & I can relate to it so much, I had tears in my eyes listening to her. I appreciate these women for being open & honest with the world because people like me who are truly listening to them, took so much from this moment.

  • @jazariathompson3402
    @jazariathompson3402 Před 8 lety +9

    Tamera is so confident and beautiful! I love me some Tam Tam yaaaas want he do it! ❤🙌 All of the ladies look wonderful 😊💕

  • @sxcandy119
    @sxcandy119 Před 8 lety +42

    Tamar is Tamar love her or hate her but she had a heart y'all witnessed that many times over and are still never satisfied if she's quiet and not making y'all laugh something is wrong if she's being herself and lip smacking y'all don't like it so would y'all rather her be herself or someone else

  • @sxcgirlieox
    @sxcgirlieox Před 8 lety +7

    This makes me feel so much better, i love these women so much. They're all so genuine and incredible, thank God for The Real, y'all really do make my day.

  • @reaunasims
    @reaunasims Před 8 lety +24

    Everytime tam tam cries, I cry

  • @nelva3771
    @nelva3771 Před 7 lety +1

    Thanks Tamera for sharing! I needed that.

  • @justathought4603
    @justathought4603 Před 8 lety

    Thank you guys so much for sharing your stories. This was very inspirational. A light bulb just went off in my head when Adrienne was sharing her story. I needed to watch this.

  • @stephanieb4763
    @stephanieb4763 Před 7 lety +4

    I still come back and what this clip especially for Adrienne's part. I love what she said and the message she sent out. Absolutely beautiful.

    • @MariFenty21
      @MariFenty21 Před 2 lety

      Same here i come back to this video constantly! Such good gems in the segment

  • @mariahb8927
    @mariahb8927 Před 8 lety +4

    I love these ladies so much. I appreciate how "real" they are with one another and with us. Adrienne really made me tear up. :( I'm so happy that they are renewed for a 3rd & 4th season. Go ladies!

  • @gardening4zone970
    @gardening4zone970 Před 8 lety +1

    You ladies are awesome...Thank you for being so real!

  • @nadevi92
    @nadevi92 Před 7 lety +2

    I love this show so much. You ladies are the real people.

  • @JaybBritts
    @JaybBritts Před 8 lety +3

    You guy's are all amazing people please never feel sad because you are all loved and blessed. You all have so much love to give keep believing in your self and always smile because you are all beautiful and gifted individuals. Thank you for sharing ur stories to us and letting us in. We all love you so much because of that and i for one have so much respect for you guys.

  • @RealTakerslady
    @RealTakerslady Před 8 lety +14

    I wish everyone had the chance to share

  • @ilenmunoz4802
    @ilenmunoz4802 Před 8 lety +1

    I'm so thankful that you guys exist. Also thankful that god blessed you guys with this platform so that we the people can have someone to relate to Or be inspired. This show is so special & so are you guys,like theres NOTHING out there that can be compared to this. You guys show us more than what you are, you show us your heart. I'm so inspired by each and every one of you.

  • @skatemusically
    @skatemusically Před 8 lety

    Girl, you got me tearing up over those stories!! Thanks for sharing them with us!!! #relatable #reallife

  • @AmmaMama
    @AmmaMama Před 8 lety +4

    "I don't have to make an agreement with that." I love that statement.

    • @essense93
      @essense93 Před 8 lety +3

      +Amma Appiah I love the statement "I can still go home", so true.

  • @melissaperla4425
    @melissaperla4425 Před 7 lety +20

    TAMAR LOOKS BEAUTIFUL

  • @PollyLove92
    @PollyLove92 Před 8 lety +2

    wow needed Adrienne's words today 💜

  • @JaiMeideax
    @JaiMeideax Před 8 lety +1

    YESSSSSS TAMMMMMMM!!! OMG I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT LITERALLY TODAY! Thank you Ladies of the real for dropping this gem today. Thank you Adrienne cuz just like you, I CAN STILL GO HOME. There's people that love me and care about me and truly want me to succeed. Thank you ladies. 💙