"If I Stay" (2014) CLIP: Grandfather Gives Mia Permission to Die [Chloe Grace Moretz, Stacy Keach]
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- A clip from the 2014 film "If I Stay". Mia's Grandfather (Stacy Keach) reflects on the sacrifices his son, Mia's father, made for Mia (Chloe Grace Moretz) and tells her that it is okay for her to let go, that he would understand if she did.
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there is nothing more sad then the crack on a voice of a person about to cry
sara mendes Yes I agree it gets me every time
It is so sad and so poetic at the same time you know💜Monica Knisley💜
Seen this movie a dozen times and "I understand' breaks me every time
"If you want to go,I want you to know its okay" I can't stop crying...:(
Wiktoria Jozefa me too
Same here
Me to I
That's what I told my Dad when he died. I was at his bedside. It was the hardest goddamn thing I ever did in my life.
Wiktoria Jozefa me too. :'(
Man, the guy playing the grandfather is a tremendous actor. Such a great movie.
Ikr so amazing!
Stacey Keach is a class act. He's also hysterical
@@probstmedia he really is a spectacular actor
Stacy Keach plays his roles amazingly I have to very much agree. He's good at comedy but also being a bad guy or a serious person in movies. I grew up on him and to this day at the age 30 still a big fan.
Demented Darrell American history x
this scene is the saddest of the whole movie .
mia lohan this is real life. This is happing right now. Too sad for understanding that life is going to end somewhere. Just enjoy the times that you have. We all have an ending in our life. Be happy, the most of the childhood doesn't even known how life is. You only life once❤️
agreed
idk when her brother died it was sad too but it isn't a competen competition
同じく。
フルじゃなくて、この動画だけでも
号泣した。
Yes it is!! Iove his words to his grand daughter tho. Can u imagine the pain his heart was feeling telling her that. I've worked w/ppl on life support, ones who were let go and ones left on in hopes(never came and went into homes, which then is a little harder to withdraw life measures unless they r dnr. I pray I never have to make that choice for my husband or children(I know what my parents want)and I dont w as not my children to make that call for me. Heartbreaking
That's the worst feeling. Mourning for someone who's still alive.
Can confirm
As a person who works in a nursing home
Yes it really doesn't get any sadder
cringe
@@marrieejayne7050 than leave
@@marrieejayne7050 why are you cringing about this? How is this even a “cringe” moment to you?! Why do you gotta be a dick about people dying?? It’s a part of life, you stupid, heartless son of a bitch!
I CAN'T TAKE THIS AND AHHHH WHEN HIS VOICE CRACKS I JUST
i know me too😢😢😢
I know, Stacy Keach is the best
It reminds me of my grandpa
Misty Gibson yess omgg
"If you wanna go, I want you to know it's okay." *voice cracks*
😔
God damn.... This is one of the hardest movies scene to watch ever...
Ikr 😭😭
Right
makes me cry everytime😥
Andreya Tellez Same
do not curse God
I did this to my nan. Poor woman was in a coma for more than a month when I told her it was okay to let go. She died less than an hour later. I don't think I've ever hated myself as much as I did in that moment.
I bet she loved you for saying that to her
It was Great from u
Lexi Baldwin-Money 💖🌹🌷
I bet if she heard you gave her a piece of mind and made it peaceful for her. Maybe she was holding on till she knew you’d be okay
I did the same with my grandpa. It felt ok. It's been a year. Miss him everyday.
12/16/19 🖤
Having the courage to be ready to let go of your granddaughter after loosing his son, daughter-in-law and grandson. This deserved so much praise
I had said this to my boyfriend while he was asleep. He died two hours later after his five year fight from leukemia. I miss him very much but I’m really happy knowing he’s not suffering anymore.
I am so sorry for your loss. He is proud of you're strength. Keep pushing through it! ♡
I am so sorry for your loss.
Honestly I don't give a fuck about your BF
I have never cried so hard on a movie in my entire life
Watch the Fault in our stars, trust me you will !
Enjoli Willet i did. it was boring. this one hit the soft spot.
I cried harder at Thorin's death scene...
+Matteney Chandler FUCK ME TOO ;-;
Me too I cried so much and so hard
Aaand this is when I start hysterically bawling.
+Musicaholic15 It's okay, I understand
I'm actually crying hard
+CarlyEdits I cried too
Is nobody gonna talk about how the grandfather can feel her presence?
I know he could feel her there with him; but could he actually SEE her at the end?
@@irenemiller9958no he felt a presence on his hand
I watched this on a plane and I cried so much at this part. I got some weird looks from the man next to me.
I too watched this on a plane! Had to hold back tears sitting next to strangers
MAISIE that why I never watch sad movie on a plane
MAISIE Me too. I even recommended it to my.mom, but she didn't understand the movie.
I would be looking boo
twenty øne piløts are my phamily please explain why both the girls look the same.
The part that always gets me in this scene is at the beginning when the grandfather kisses Mia's forehead and is about to leave when Mia says "Gramps" and he immediately stops and then she asks "What do I do?" and he then talks to her body and gives her permission to go. He felt her there and realized she needed him to talk to her.
I think this was the saddest scene in the movie. It was my favorite too.
This piece in the movie destroyed me. I remember being 17 years old in an abusive home and always crying that I needed to get out. I know my mother loved me dearly. One day my aunt offered for me to come live with her and my mother told me: "Tabitha, I love you more than anything. You're my baby and you always will be. I know how hard I am on you and I know that you think about dying a lot. I would give anything for you to stay here with me, but I know you can't, so, I want you to know its okay"
😥😥
Aweee I'm praying for you 😪😰😭
It's been 11 months. I hope things have taken an awesome turn to happiness for you.
+Brandon Elliott He was reflecting on his past. I think he should have spoken up more about his issues in the family and talk to his friends and relatives about it.
tabichuthebabyeater i wish my parents said that to me because I get mentally and emotionally abused on a daily bases
I lost my mom this week. As I was holding her hand I told her that it’s time to join Dad. I had tears in my eyes but I was still smiling, looked up to the shadow in the corner and told him I love and will miss both of you. But I know when it’s my time, you’ll be there too.
Im so sorry for your loss ♥
i started crying at the crash and didn't stop till like 3 hours later
Same happened with me
Me neither and I NEVER cry over something happening in a movie! I didn't even cry when I watched Titanic, Me before you or The Notebook
This beats the hospital scene with Adam by a looooooooooooooooooooong shot this is so sad and genuine it breaks my heart
saddest scene in the whole damn movie, man )'::
I cry just thinking about it😰😰
Especially when his voice cracks!
Totally I mean he lost his son and his daughter in law and a grandson and yet he's sacrificing her so she could be happy knowing that Se might not enjoy herself with her family gone
This scene in the movie was probably the hardest to watch but was the one that everyone needs to see. Everything he says holds so much value to real life and I just remember sitting there thinking about my grandfather and my parents and I lost it. Beautifully done.
One of the most beautiful scene in the whole movie. It was heartbreakingly sweet yet the emotions conveyed was absolutely honest and raw. My father said the exact same things the grandfather had said when my late aunt was on the hospital bed fighting for her life about four years ago.
"If you want to go, I want you to know it's okay. I understand. We will be okay."
did anyone else hear my heart shatter?
please explain why both the girls look the same.
Gordon Gecko the reason why they both look the same is because the girl sitting on the bed is the spirit and soul of the girl in the coma she’s listening to what her grandfather is saying :)
It hurts knowing this happens everywhere :(All of us are going to die one day, and we won't know. And we won't know how. And we'll all not be ready and won't get to say goodbye. But when we die, we know that they (the ones we love) know that there was nothing we could do. It hurts, but its life. And I'm crying so much right now. :'(
There's nothing worse than dying. And then being given the OK to go. Let that sink in. The fact you're dying. And family/friends give you the OK to go see the good Lord above. :/
he was the only one, cause he knew that she lost everyone
Lucas Gates it would be such a hard situation to deal with. Your whole family dies and your given the choice to leave or stay
Lucas Gates you know from experience?
Lucas Gates he knew that her parents died and her baby brother died too she lost her whole world and he knew she would be too devastated to fight to live without her family he was saying if you don't wanna live in this world without your parents and her brother and you wanna go up to heaven with them thats okay i feel so bad for the granddad he wanted her to stay but he knew she wouldn't be able to live without her family
Maria C maybe he doesnt. But you should my older brother died before i really had the chance to meet him, but if i had the ability to die for him(his life for mine).
I would take it .
My father had the son back and a person, who would take over our farm.
My mom would have his first born child back
And my sisters would have a big brother
And my hero would have his life back and i would watch him grow and be happy.
I wish it would be that easy.
I had never seen this, but I lived it. Losing my wife, having her die in my arms, and having to let her go was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. Having to tell her that it was okay if she couldn't fight anymore, and that I understood she loved me even if she couldn't stay with me.
It has been 5 and a half years now since she's been gone, and it still stings sometimes. I still cry from time to time, like I am now, but I know now that she isn't suffering anymore. I understand that she is no longer in a body that had continued to fail... and that she is gone to the realm beyond the veil.
She was truly the love of my life, and at least I have the memories we shared together.
Don't wallow in sadness because they are no longer here, rejoice because they were once amongst us.
Give this man an Oscar, shit
bankaispirits please explain why both the girls look the same.
Gordon Gecko their the same person. It's good acting and effects
Such a moving and emotional scene.
Stacy Keach is such a talented and incredible actor. This movie wouldn't have been the same without him.
I said these exact words to my mom when she was dying. I wanted her to know it was ok to go because she had already fought as hard as she could to stay. I wanted to give her a sense of freedom.
I had to do the same thing to my 33-year old daughter back in June of 2022, but I know she isn;t suffering anymore in a body that was tired and in pain.
This Man Is Truly amazing And he loves so much that he is willing to see grand daughter more time and is fine with letting her go.
Jeremie Fuentes please explain why both the girls look the same.
He's really not. But he overcomes it anyway. That's why I love that guy.
Gordon Gecko they are the same person. She is the spirit of her corpse that is laying down.
THAT is TRUE love, knowing when to let.a loved one go and end their
suffering and grant them peace from pain at last.
Out of the entire movie this was the only part the break in pieces. I was so close to my grandpa. He looked just like grandpa and sounded like him and everything but my grandpa passed awhile along time but the fact that I was sooo close to him when seeing this part I cried inside and out.
Honestly i haven't seen the whole movie but while watching this all i could think about were my grandfathers and how much i miss them... seriously bawling after watching this
I just randomly clicked on this and now im sobbing so much aaaaah
Tess Glasgow me 2. Why did I do this to myself?🤧🤧😭😭
Me too
My uncle was like this. He was in a coma from last stage cancer but he held on for days. My dad stayed beside him all the time and realised he was waiting for his first son to come. His 1st wife and he were divorce and she has alienated him from his son who viewed him as a bad person and hated him for it.
My dad held his hand and told him that his son wasn't coming but he (my dad) will take care of both his elder and younger son. He (my uncle) shed some tears and then passed half an hour later.
We still don't speak to his oldest, 20yo, not with the air he breathes, but have focused all our love on his younger who was just 6months old when my uncle past.
I remember watching this film when it had come out. 4 months before the film my niece passed away, she toi was called Mia. I couldn't stop crying in the cinema watching this scene. I understood his pain. Still makes me cry to this day. Its a great film ❤
We watched this in class at school and at the part were he says " it's okay if you go, I understand" I turn around and literally everyone in the class is sobbing. Not a dry eye in the class, so heartbreaking.
This part in the movie broke me like it's so sad I couldn't even see the screen through my tears
When he said, " you can go, its okay." Literally tears dropped down faster than quicksilver😥😭
This is the only scene in any movie EVER that has made me genuinely cry. And not just a few tears, like a river of tears streaming down my face. When Netflix took this movie off I was so angry you don't understand.
2 seconds in and seeing the grandpa cry made me cry because the emotion in his face just broke me 😭
I lost my uncle & great aunt two years ago. One to cancer & one to COVID & this made me think of when were saying bye to them now I’m sobbing 😭😭💔….. why did I look this up?😞
I cry every time. But I cry alot more when he says "if you want to go, I want you to know it's ok" 😭😭❤❤
When my uncle was In an induced coma I came and visited him almost every day. I remember one day I came and told him how much I wanted him back with us, about how much we still needed him here. But I understood what was going on. I knew things could never be the same. So one of the last things I told him was how I would help his kids. And be there for them. And to be honest I'm not doing the best job. But I'm trying. I remember when when he passed. It was one of the hardest days of my life.
I’m so sorry. And as long as you are trying- each day- you are fulfilling your promise.
if you want to go, i want you to know it's okay
oh god my grandfather is dead that's too hard for me
I ended up here because the “if you wanna go I want you to know it’s okay” line as a snippet in a song and this legit is gonna make me cry.
This is probably in my opinion the hardest scene to watch, I could never imagine given someone permission to let go, so heartbreaking...
Sometimes people need that permission… it can be a gift, a final gift of love.
When you love a person so deeply they can feel you holding on and to love then enough to be willing to let them go is the ultimate sacrifice and one of the hardest choices you may ever have to make.
In that moment its about them and letting them know its ok to let go💔 i didnt want my mum to leave but i knew she couldn’t stay so i held her hand, put my head on her shoulder, stroked her hair told her how much i loved her but that we would be ok
This aint acting, this is real emotion right there. :(
It should be of no surprise to viewers of the inherent talent of actor Stacy Keach. This performance drops our entity into the centerness of life, and often sorrow. Keach's acting has always been sublime, yet powerful. Always the humanist; his acting shall be forever captured and appreciated.
My cat selected this for me.
Little did she know that it would trigger a meltdown. It reminded me of when my mom passed. We were all gathered in her ICU room, the entire family on the west coast, standing around her bed waiting on the Nurse & Dr. to administer the morphine push. They came and administered the push but she was fighting it all of a sudden, scared the crap out of everybody, tubes and machines hissing & beeping, tears everywhere. Then it hit me, she was being a mom, our mom, fighting to stay with us, like moms do.
I gathered all her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, our dad & our dogs all around her bed. I reached out and put my dad's hand on her forehead, I put mine on her cheek and everyone followed our examples and I started to talk to her: We're all here with you mom, we're all holding you and loving you, I know you can feel us and hear us because you're an Irish Witch. It's okay mom, you can go now, we're all going to be alright, it's okay to go home now, time to go beyond the Ninth Wave. Everyone who has gone ahead is waiting there for you, our little sister, your parents, your brother. We will be okay and now we know you'll be there, waiting for us! Thank you for my life! I love you!
By now everyone is murmuring their thank you's and farewells, patting and pressing her body where they could. And then, like a slowly collapsing building, she just sank into herself and was gone. This just brought it all rushing back and it's too late to call anyone, they're all asleep at 1:30am, like you do. Now I am going to go blow my nose with the cat's tail, small price to pay I think for putting me in an emotional state.
This part hits so much different when you yourself have been in the position of telling a loved one that “it’s okay to let go.”
I remember reading this book on the reading team in high school when I was 16. My mom passed a year later when I was 17 and they had her hooked up on a ventilator so we could say our “goodbyes” but she was already gone. Her body was still warm though. My great aunt and uncle held my hand as I went back and I told her it was okay to go, we’d be okay (me and my three sisters). It was okay for her to let go and be pain free. (She suffered with paranoid schizophrenia and was really sick before passing). She passed a few hours later and when the whole family was there in the room, she had a smile on her face. I knew her presence was there with us and is always with me. It’s not the same though. 10 years later and I miss her more.
No movie has ever made me cry in my whole twenty years. Sure, I've gotten the sensation to or the teary feeling in my eyes, but never full on tears. At this scene, I cried so hard my mom had to come in the room to see if I was okay because she thought something was wrong with me. The main reason why it got me was because he reminded me so much of my own papaw, though they don't look anything alike. My papaw is this big strong man that you couldn't easily break. I've only seen him cry two times in my life, and it hurt so much both times. Seeing this guy, it instantly hit me right in the heart and I couldn't even speak, because it just made me think so much of my papaw being torn apart.
Damn.... so real.... And my mum experienced this in real life... she works in an place where she takes care of people who cant take care of themselfs anymore, and there was a wife and her husband, and the husband told his wife she could go, and she went right away, like she was waiting for him to tell her it was okay to go... Like this scene exactly, except that Mia didnt go...
I had to tell my mom it was ok to go. It was the hardest thing to ever say, but I knew She was in so much pain and fought so hard! She passed in my arms a few hours later. I rather take the pain of her not being here. Then her being here and being in sooo much pain! R.I.P. mom
@@RobinBouterse178 I'm so very sorry for your loss. I've lost 3 people that I was really close to in my life. I lost my beloved uncle Carl in August of 2022. Then, I lost my aunt Cindy on August 15 of 2022, and then, on March 27, 2017, my beloved grandma took her last breath in the hospital. The next thing I know,she was gone. So, yeah. I know what true pain and grief feels like. I'm still hurting.
@@deannayork9128 aww bless your heart! It's never easy to lose your loved ones! I'm so sorry for your loss as well! If you ever need to talk or wanna chat I'm always here for you!
@@RobinBouterse178 Thank you so much for your kind words. It really means a lot to me.
@@deannayork9128 my pleasure. Please don't hesitate. Need to find a grief group online
No matter how many times I watch this scene, it will always hit me and I wall always ball my eyes out
Someone please give that man an oscar
I have the strongest bond ever with my grandpa. This hit me right in the heart.
the cracks in his voice make the scene even more heartbreaking
I freaking sobbed that's exactly what my grandpa would do.
Emilu my grandpa died. i just. i wish that i knew if he would do this for me or not
tasha burns I’m sure he would sweetheart hang in there ❤️❤️
I cried all the way through this movie.
+Holly D It's okay, I understand
+Tessa Dobbelaar It's okeyhhhh, I uu-n-derstaynd.
@@maritjorritsma2541 lmao kpop nub
This movie was underrated.
I've never seen the movie but I did read the book, And i remember crying hysterically in this part. It was so painful and memarizing. I can never forget his words.
I had such a good realationship with my grandpa until he passed and for some reason i put myself in this situation.... and everytime hes says,"if you wanna go,its ok." I bawl my eyes out.😢😭😭😭
My mom died suddenly and was in a coma for a short time before we were told there was no chance for her brain. I can’t tell you how selfish and upset I felt when I saw my grandma going up to my mom and telling her it’s okay to let go. I didn’t think it was fair, how could she be telling my only mom that it’s okay to die and leave me. Not taking time to realize that she’s also saying goodbye to her only daughter. I’ve been fighting how to feel about all of it
I told my aunt something similar about two years ago, when she went into a coma after a car accident. I stayed in the hospital for 3 weeks with her, The doctors told me that most likely she will come out of it, based off her brain scans that came back in good shape. Everything was processing including sound, they just weren't sure on why she wasnt waking up. so I would talk to her everyday and tell her I loved her no matter what. It was about half way through the third week at this point when I went to stay at the hospital for the night and I told her that if it was time for her to go, that I would be right by her side. About 45 mins after that, her heart went into full cardiac arrest and she passed right then.
i just watched that movie earlier on putlocker, i've been dying to see this movie ever since i saw the trailer. Watching Mia's grandfather giving her permission to cross over, and that part made me cry, her grandpa is a beautiful soul.
5 years later and it still makes me cry. I will always love this movie.
this is one of the most saddest and one of the most hardest scene to watch of all the sad scenes I have ever seen
"If you wanna go,i want you to know its okay" i cried so hard 😭😭😭💔
Had me sobbing uncontrollably
that man has to be one of the best actor's i have ever seen. so emotional, i cry everytime
This still makes me cry. My grandpa died 4 years ago this December. He had been in the hospital and I went and saw him a week before and he was doing great but then on December 28th I woke up to my mom telling me that he had passed the night before. I miss him so much. He was not my blood grandpa but he treated me like it. He always told my mom I was his favorite and I know he’s always with me. I get so many signs from him and I just miss him so much.
This scene so reminds me of my departed grandfather. I remember walking into his hospital room only one day before he died. When I walked in, I saw my grandfather with a oxygen tube in his nose to help him breath. When I hugged my grandmother, I just broke down and cried and cried. It was so hard to see my grandfather in that hospital bed. It was such a intense emotional moment for me. My grandmother passed a few months after and that was really hard. I know better then anyone how hard it is to loose someone you love so much.
this was the only scene in the movie that actually made me cry 😭
Marcus Castillo True😕
When my grandpa was in hospice and not doing well I remember praying every night that he would hold on long enough for my father and aunt and cousins to be able to see him like they had planned for the weekend and then I asked God to please take away his pain. He died a little more than a week later ❤
I'm a 34 year old guy and I liked this movie
+Bruce Young It's okay, I understand
This scene worked too perfectly!
The drama nearly killed me while watching!
Should be doing my hw.....but instead having a well overdue cry :'(
This scene still makes me cry in 2022… I sobbed the first time and here I am crying again
I CRY NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I SEE THIS SCENE OMG
I get a tear in my eyes, every time I watch this scene.
I lived almost this exact moment with my mother. Working in a hospital, I went to take my dinner break in her room. I sat down in her room with just her and I. I went to kiss her forhead and whispered to her, don't worry about any of us, you did a wonderful job and it's ok to go. I took 2 steps to sit back down and saw her take her last breath. I got back up, kissed her again on her forehead and told her to say "hi" to everyone and "welcome home", I love you 😪😪
One of the only movies that makes me cry.
Each night for two years I went to hug my 14 years old dog before going to bed, I was so terrified to lose him, but each night in the last 2 years I went to him telling himI loved him but if he though it was his time that I wouldn’t hold it against him, turned out he outlived almost every dog of his kind by going into his 14 years of age but I knew it wouldn’t be long before i’ll loose him, when time had came, I was with him, he wasn’t all there anymore his eyes were flashing around the room without any recognition, he was in so much pain, at this moment he wasn’t the puppy I knew, it was at this moment that I start hugging him and telling him I love you and I would never stop loving him even when he cross over, it may not be easy to let go, but sometime it what is best for those we love who are suffering to juste let them know it okay, now will I be able to say this when my mom’s going to pass? I’m not sure but I hope I will be because it the best gift someone can do for another when it time to let them go, beside even if we cannot see them anymore they are still with us always,
That‘s so great of you and as a dog owner I can relate…😢❤
I tear up every time I watch this part. I don't know if I cried harder reading it for the first time or seeing it played out for the first time.
I cried a lot on this scene. It's really hard to say goodbye to those people who we love.
This movie made me cry the whole way through, the ending being a cliff hanger was so annoying, yet so perfect💔
No matter how many times I watch this it breaks me😓
This is the scene that makes me cry the most. There is no other movie that has such an effect on me like this one does
This scene was the first time ever that made me cry in a movie theater. Powerful and good acting.
I watched the trailer of this movie and I am in tears... I can't imagine watching the full movie
The movie is based on a book, just in case you don't want to watch the movie :-D
the one movie that touches my heart the most
3 years ago i read the book. 2 years ago i watched the movie. Now, i'm hysterically bawling.
I’m cryin. Tears are flowing. Great scene.
hey! whoose chopping onions here?
Stacy Keach is so legendary. What a great acting, gets me all emotional.
i’ve been thinking about this movie sm lately for the first time in over 5 years and i watched it last night and this scene shattered me i forgot how good and emotional this scene is 🥺
I sang n told my momma ill b ok. I feel she left that spiritual moment with me and she never left. Shes here givin signs all day everyday....love her...miss her.
When my Grandpa was still alive my Mother told him that's ok if he left he of course at the time was dying but the line in this movie I think everyone needs to hear when it's their final days or if they're dying that's ok to go because it is ok if a loved one goes a human can only fight death for so long. But seriously scene alone is enough to make you instantly cry.
My god...to sit there with someone and to love them so much...to love them enough to let them go.😭😭 I can never get through this scene without crying.
Still to this day this scene makes me cry so hard. This was phenomenal acting 🥺🥺