EPIDURAL During Labor and Delivery | PROS and CONS for Epidural for Labor and Birth
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- Pros and Cons for Epidural for Labor and Birth
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When it comes to getting an EPIDURAL DURING LABOR AND DELIVERY, a common question I get asked is, "What are my medication options during birth?" While there are many options, most women use an epidural for labor and birth. To know whether an epidural during labor and delivery is the right choice for your birth, you need to ask questions like, "How does an epidural work?", "When to get an epidural?", "What are the side effects of an epidural?" and "What are the pros and cons of an epidural?"
In this video you'll learn what to expect with an epidural and what a medicated birth in hospital might mean for you in terms of epidural side effects and epidural experiences during birth.
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IM 16 AND WATCHING SO MANY EPIDURAL VIDS 😭 i don’t even wants kids in the future either
@@Huh-kn2by i’ve been on a birth vlog/pregnancy kick i have such bad baby fever 😭
@@xorayne_ same girl 😂
dead asf cause sameee
LMFAOOOO SAME
My sister-in-law tried to pressure me into getting an epidural and it was so maddening. Even when I explained I want to try to have a natural birth, if I FEEL I need an epidural I’ll get one but there’s no reason to get one just because because there are risks. To which she replies “just get one! Just get one. They are fine” and gives me this look that says “okay whatever your gonna get one cause your not going to be able to handle the pain. You think you will but you can’t cause I couldn’t”
Women need to also respect others decisions, not pressure each other or make them feel bad about the decisions they make in the birthing process. It’s already scary as it is!
Yes!! Whatever decision a woman makes, it should be completely respected!
Clover Clo I decided to have a natural labor and birth as well and although it was painful and at the worst point I felt I needed an epidural, my mentality beat my want for one. Having the right mind set makes all the difference! It truly does! Did you end up needing an epidural?
Clover Clo Some Women Dont Understand That We Don’t Need Those Drugs Our Bodies Are Made For This
@@BridgetTeyler hey Bridget
I am due in 2 weeks for a VBAC and I just want to know is it better to get epidural? I got one with my last 2 deliveries but do you think it's better to have one with VBAC?
Please let me know
@@HY-wr6mm .i think getting epidural with my firts baby slowed the process and had to get a c section. I had a vback, two years ago without the epidural. It was much faster and recovery was good , i was walking the next day like nothing. Im due any day now with my second vback and im planing on doing it without the epidural. Even tho it is painful , i still recommend no epidural.
I love my epidural experience, I felt contractions but it was more like a pressure not pain . I slept good for awhile and I had my baby in 3 pushes :))) it was so worth it and I only have a positive experience .
Me too!! I am so happy I took an epidural.
Yes I'm also .. bt I'm scary side effects prblm...
I had a goof experience also with my first.
I had the same experience! Loved it!
Did any of you guys suffer any long term effects? My mother in law tells me not to get it because of the long term effects it may have so now I am unsure
I’m more scared of the epidural then the actual birth LMAO
Lol i thought i was the only one!!!
Lol it’s really not bad at all
I’ve had one delivery with an epidural and one without. For my first I was TERRIFIED of the epidural and made up my mind that I did not want one under any circumstances. I had to be induced, I got to a 5 and changed my mind on that REAL quick lol. Getting the epidural wasn’t bad, it was just sitting still through contractions that sucked. But I could not have taken the pain without the epidural. I was so not prepared. For my second, I was ready. I went completely natural, didn’t even have an IV placed. I pushed on my hands and knees and I actually enjoyed not being numb, I feel like it almost made it easier. It was definitely faster too. But all in all I loved both experiences!
I just had a baby and I got an epidural...I cant imagine giving birth without it. I'm a wimp and couldn't handle the pain of the contractions :/
Sumi'sBeauty sameee
I gave birth to my 1st baby last august 15. I asked for the epidural at 8cm dilation. It went super well. Ive really enjoyed it. I could feel every contraction without the pain... with my husband we talked and laughed... i was very relaxed. I pushed for 14 minutes! It was hard when the head came out even with the epidural... i could not imagine not having it in that moment. I loved giving birth... it was the best experience of my life... i wanted it to be a serene, relaxed and happy moment and it truly was.
such a lovely story 😊 thanks for sharing!
None of these cons happened to me.
As soon as I got it, I went from 4cm to 9cm and started pushing. No fever, no headache, no pain from contractions nor stitching. I could feel crowning and contractions, but no pain. I literally was walking within 2 hours, my legs never were paralyzed. And I was not confined to my back or my bed during labour. Nurses encouraged to go on all 4’s, during labour to push.
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT! Had I done research prior to my labour, I would have been anxiously anticipating all these cons to happen to me, but instead I went in without any expectation and it helped me so much.
Now, that I’ve given birth, I watch labour videos for fun and to learn more about what I went through. But sometimes by researching you set yourself up for disappointment when it doesn’t happen the way the video said it would!
Do you remember what you did in order to not tear?
Same here , the epidural was a blessing. With nothing but positive effects !
I am a L&D nurse and I never have my epidural patients push on their back only. There are plenty of options for pushing w an epidural. Ex: Side-lying, squatting with squat bar, tug of war pushing, pelvic rocking, and more.
Ok I thought with epidural u have to be ok your back? This is such good news! I am getting induced in 7 weeks I hope I go before that though! I would prefer to be on all fours for pushing I just thought I would be paralyzed from the waist down and they wouldn't let me.
How?? Legs are numb!
It’s actually not that difficult, especially when myself and another support person can help. The legs are not “numb” or paralyzed, they are just slightly desensitized and weakened.
It is awesome that you enable mamas to labor this way! Even though I was assured I'd get to labor however I wanted with an epidural, in the end I was still forced to push on my back.
@@joydoorlag1351 I was fully paralyzed waist down. Even after stopping epidural hours later. I gained movement next day
Doula here: I totally agree here. There is a difference between pain and suffering, and I NEVER want my clients to suffer, however cascade of intervention is REAL. PLEASE listen to this video. Tearing is more likely, but these can be stitched without future issue. I support my clients in WHATEVER they choose, but it’s important to know the PROS AND CONS. You women need to know that you are infinitely powerful and unstoppable. I believe in each and every one of you.
Had an epidural - it was the perfect choice for me. I was so comfortable and laboured for 25 hours, could still tell when contractions came and had good awareness of pressure to push. Would recommend to any women if they wanted a comfortable experience!
does its hurt epidural ? i am du in less than 3 months :)
@@sandralaurella2390 Hey Sandra! It depends on the person. For some people epidurals are totally fine and for others they aren't. I gave birth naturally and vaginally. My labor was 11 hours long total but the "worst" part which is transition, was about four hours long. I pushed for only a couple minutes! What I did was stay in the shower the entire time because that's how I've always managed pain and focused on my breaths. Everyone said I was calm for most of the time and they almost forgot I was giving birth lol I would highly recommend a doula as well, I had three women there to support me and it helped a lot. I'm a birth doula myself, if you want I could work with you or find you someone locally if you haven't already.
Courteney Taylor I had the same experience with epidural 11 hrs and at the end epidural wore off and basically felt everything like a natural birth which was crazy. Everyone and every birth is different for sure.
@@Jassytheleoo was it very painful
@@infotech5162 Actually no it was not I didn’t get cut open or anything I was moving very good after and no epidural pain after.
Epidural wasn’t bad at all. I just had my baby last week. I was in labor for over 24 hours and I got mine at 2cm. I couldn’t take the pain from the contractions anymore. My baby came at 30 weeks last week. The delivery was a breeze and I only push once. Waters broke at 23 weeks so I was hospitalized until she came. She is in NICU doing well.
I've had two births. My first was medicated with an epidural and my second was unmedicated. Yes, I was in the worst pain of my life but I'm so proud of my strength and dedication to have a natural birth and see it through. My second birth was honestly a better experience than my first, because after my second, beautiful baby girl was born, I was able to get up and move around as I pleased and use the bathroom by myself, without a catheter. When my first, beautiful baby girl was born, I had to wait hours after her arrival for my epidural to wear off before I could even move my legs. They felt extremely numb and heavy. I hated that feeling. Something to remember ladies is as soon as your sweet baby is born, the pain is gone and you feel like yourself again, only happier and with a fuller heart🥰 With that being said, there's absolutely nothing wrong with getting the epidural. It works wonders for us mamas and we have modern medicine at our disposal for a reason. Do what you feel is best for you and your labor and delivery. I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant with my third baby, my first baby boy💙 I plan on having another natural, unmedicated birth, because I feel it's what's best for me, my birthing/postpartum experience, and my baby.
Thank you so much for this I am currently 27 weeks pregnant and have 2 other kids as well and an pregnant now with my third so I had questions but I really wanted them to be answered or get a response from someone who has experienced both a medicated versus an unmedicated birth. Thank you so much🙏 .
@@litfamcrewgodschild2782 You're so welcome! ♥️ Congratulations on baby #3! Wishing you a safe and easy labor and delivery🙏
"Yes, I was in the worst pain of my life but I'm so proud of my strength and dedication to have a natural birth and see it through". the TRUTH. glad you don't let any insecure women try to tell you you don't deserve the full respect for just doing the damn thing. you do, and you saved yourself and your child the risks. i do that too. husband catches at home.. about to do it again. wooo! anyway, well done!
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 Thank you!
See no one ever clarify that like I didn't know the pain would go away after
27 weeks today. As a first-time mom, I am terrified of what I am about to encounter. Thanks for being informative and supportive for people to make their choices in all your videos.
Hi Celine!
I'm a mom of 5 (5th currently gestating, I'm 16 weeks). I've had 3 medicated labors and 1 unmedicated labor.
This baby will not only be unmedicated but a home birth, God willing.
It's scary, and you'll feel scared no matter what anyone says. But with that said, you can do this.
I STRONGLY suggest you take a Bradley birthing class or a hypnobirth class. Knowledge is power and knowing and understanding what's going on GREATLY reduces the fear which in turn reduces the pain because you aren't stressed. Find some yoga type music you like, spend some time each day just listening to it with your eyes closed focusing entirely on your breathing, in for 4, out for 6. That REALLY helped me. Check out various laboring positions, I favored being on my hands and knees.
If you go unmedicated, yep, it'll hurt. But it's a different kind of hurt, and if you embrace it instead of fighting it, it genuinely is more pressure than pain. Transition can be tough, ring of fire can be tough, but it's not unbearable, at least it wasn't for me. I've never felt so empowered and proud of myself. I've never felt so strong as I did during and after labor. And my recovery was very fast. I felt no pain afterwards, even immediately.
With my epis, mine were all too strong. I couldn't move my legs. Had very traumatic labors because I am one of those people that NEEDS to be in control of my body or I panic. Not everyone is like that, but I had bad experiences with the epis. With my first three ended up with no choice due to pre eclampsia, can't move bc of blood pressure, mag for the BP, which makes you feel like crap, and I gave in pretty quick. But again, not everyone experiences that!
However you labor, you've got this. I won't ever lie to a new mom and tell her it isn't scary at first, that it doesn't hurt, but I WILL tell you it's not like the movies, it's not horrific screaming the whole time, not if you go in prepared. Take those classes, do some googling, and you'll feel more comfortable with the whole process 😊
I still felt all my contractions with an epidural just didnt have any pain with it. So i felt when i needed push.
Porklyn that’s what it supposed to do?
Yes but in the video she was saying that your not supposed to feel anything at all. And for some they cant feel anything at all. Thats why doctors tell you when to push. Or like my recent birth a couple months ago it doesnt work at all.
Do u feel pain when they cut the vaginal and stitch it back?
I didnt feel a thing. Totally paralysed ! Had no sensation of needing to push or even contractions (this is after 40 hours of active labour so i didn't mind)
Iraka Corleone now they try not to cut they would rather you naturally tear but no with a working epidural you cannot feel it
Had 4 kids no epidural all natural seriously hard pain and yes but honestly when the baby is out all pain was completely gone 💯%im delivering soon I'm due march 17 with baby #5 so let's do this once more 12 years later 😂❤🙏🏻
gigi Brambila ❤️❤️❤️❤️
So how did your delivery went
Proud of you
congratulations
How did u get through it
I had an epidural with my first child, which ended up
Being a blessing because I had a retained placenta and the OR was full. I’m so happy I had chosen …after laboring and exhausting myself unmedicated 16 hours , to finally get relief and have the rest of the labor be calm and beautiful. If you’re in the moment and need the help, thank GOD there is an option for us to even have one !
Keep in mind not all cons apply to everyone. I’ve had three births with epidural and I’ve always progressed faster after I got it than before because I was able to relax. I get terrible sciatic pain with every contraction for some reason with every child I’ve had no matter what. My babies have never had issues after birth either because of an epidural. So bottom line do what you can deal with. Nothing is guaranteed.
Same here! I wasn’t progressing until I had my epidural. If mama is stressed, I think that makes it worse and your body can’t open up and cooperate with the process. I was thankful I was rested for when I needed to push and be able to enjoy baby afterward. I’ve also never torn with 3 epidural births and I think it’s because it may have slowed things down enough for my body to adapt to the baby
Oh my god. You covered all the bad side effects I got with the epidural with my 2 babies. I feel like the epidural made everything worse and my deliveries were both very traumatic ☹️. Now I’m 30 weeks pregnant and I’m really really considering not getting an epidural this time because I don’t think my body reacts good with it. Pray for me
I had the exact same situation. Labor I felt trapped in bed and I had to be given pitocin and antibiotics because of the epidural. I would love to hear how your 3rd delivery went! I could use the encouragement ♥️
Did you go along with a natural birth?
@@PaulsMom93 so I almost did, I powered through most of it but I’ve had GD with my last pregnancies and they told me that if my baby got stuck they’d have to put me to sleep and my husband wasn’t going to be there. So I ended up getting it but as soon as they put it my contractions started to fade so they had to stop it. 😪. I think I only had it for not even an hour. After they turned it off I was ready to start pushing. And I felt everything!! I felt the so called ring of fire lol. I wish I didn’t have the GD otherwise I feel like I could’ve powered through it. Even tho my nurses were nice I still felt slightly pressured and scared after what they said. My second baby got stuck and my husband said that the doctor was pulling so hard it looked like he was gonna rip my baby’s head off. So I was scared something like that was going to happen. The epidural was on me but on stand by if that makes sense. I have mixed feelings about it now. Like I’m glad I was able to feel the pain but also my delivery was kinda short about 8 hours total. So if I wasn’t at risk of my baby getting stuck I feel like I could’ve done it. With my past 2 babies I didn’t feel when they came out.
@@Partyontheceiling I’m super laye sorry! See my response to the other comment. I hope your delivery went well!
@kmorm.7666 what did having GD have to do with anything? Serious question not sarcasm
Yeah I’ve had two epidurals and this video helped me understand some of the things that happened to me (I did get fevers, I was bed bound, I was given pitocin to keep labor moving and it slowed my labor a bit). I disagree that you’re so numb you can’t feel the contractions I felt extreme urge to push both times and my body was rocking from the pressure I felt all the pressure and pushed very effectively both times (second time was twins and I got both out in 11 minutes). None of my babies had any issues with latching or respiratory issues. This is my fourth and I’m planning to do unmedicated. But epidurals aren’t anything to be afraid of based on my experience.
you got lucky, lots goes wrong with many women. so it makes sense to be afraid of stuff that can hurt you. we dont want to invalidate those who see that.
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 yeah true! I can only speak to my lived experiences but totally understand why some women would feel differently based on theirs
@@MommyBee1589 anyone can speak for the data resulting from research studies. if all we ever knew was was happened to us individually, we'd know nothing about the *scope* of the risks. if you were not READ THE RISKS as shown by the relevant data sets before any procedure, then those physicians are begging for a lawsuit from multiple customers.
it's not about feeling. it's about facts. all the lying physicians do doesn't help. :)
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 you’re clearly triggered and looking for an argument. Sorry for whatever happened to you. Be blessed!
@@MommyBee1589 wow, you're angry and projecting that onto others. it's all going to be ok, hun. the science is the science, and the sooner we do that logic and make good decisions, the less damage will be done to mothers and babies! much love !
I had the epidural 10days ago and I am so happy I made the decision 🙏🏽 the delivery went smooth and almost heavenly. I could feel the final contractions but it was doable.. would do it all over again 🥳 overal a VERY positive experience with the epidural
I asked for epidural after receiving pitocin I was worried it will be difficult to push because of that, I stopped feeling the labor pain and was able to sleep and when I was 9cm I felt everything again but not as bad and was able to push my baby properly he came out in less than 30 minutes. Felt so blessed went through labor in less than 10hours; first baby.
Epidural was the best thing for my labor! I was awake, aware, able to push, no pain!
Another thing you forgot to mention in terms of the administration of an epidural is that the needle isnt left in your spine. After the catheter goes in the needle comes out. I feel like many people think the needle stays in your back the whole time.
@melody hallelujah why go to a hospital in the first place if planning not to listen to the doctors at all?
@@anilugabriel I'm thinking this is a bot and not a real person because the message is the same in replying to other people.
I didnt know that! I imagined the needle stayed in. This does make me feel a bit better.
I definitely thought it was so
@@siriehtstudio Nope doesn't stay in, I was happy with an epidural but I was in labor (active labor) for like a day and it was relief for me. I didn't eat or sleep, so I needed rest. Still felt contractions, but it was more like pressure and my body still knew when to push. Pushed baby out in 24 min. I am happy with my choice, but I did get most opinions from mamas who did it unmedicated (vaginally). Do what's best for you, and the rest is between you, significant other and your doctor or midwife. :)
Here to remind women not to be afraid of the epidural. 🧡 If it is the right choice for you and your birth experience then be confident in making that decision. I had an epidural and wasn't planning on having one. Because I have an extra lumbar vertebrae, I knew it was going to be a possibility. Based on the back pain I experienced in labor because of my extra vertebrae the epidural was worth it! I could still feel my contractions, didn't need any other medications during labor, my total labor from beginning to end was 14 hours. Baby latched perfectly and am still breastfeeding without trouble. Do what is best for you and your baby. 🧡 Being able to have my baby without pain gave me the ability to experience only joy from labor. Can't wait to have my next!
Thank you for this!
So many women pressure me to get an epidural! I agree with the pain vs suffering concept- sure there will be pain, this is a natural function of the women’s body and there is pain and discomfort. If I end up suffering mentally and emotionally and can’t push thru, I will probably get an epidural. But I am going in mentally prepared as much as I can with coping mechanisms, support from my husband, and prayer/meditation. For me the cons outweigh the pros!
Yes! That is such a powerful way to approach birth! When are you due?
Bridget Teyler October 20 💖
Once you got to pushing,the horror is already over.. stage 2 is the most painful..
I had an epidural 43 years ago for my daughter. Fantastic. My grandma and mum would have given anything not to have suffered. A lot of bodily functions are natural but don't hurt. Why does childbirth hurt so much? Because the baby's head is too big in proportion to the cervix. Evolution wasn't too clever! When things concern women, it's always painful. Thanks god.
Claude Santolini the Bible explains exactly why we experience the pain of childbirth! ❤️
I appreciate your approach to simply educating and helping women make an educated decision. So many sources favor one over the other and don't even mention the benefits of the other or the cons of the one they support. It's so nice to hear all the possibilities and feel okay choosing the one that's best for you and your situation. Thank you!
Thank you for this video Bridget, extremely informational but love how it has ZERO judgment either way. We need more of this, I can always sense when someone’s campaigning for one thing over another and it makes me feel very on edge and suspicious of the objectivity of everything they say!
You put these points sooo well! It's respectful, clear, and concise!! Thank you!!
it’s all relative, if I learned anything throughout my first experience and all the videos I have since watched on epidural, it’s that it is the best to keep your options open (if you planning on giving birth in hospital) and see how things go. I went through natural labour and I hated it beyond believe. I thought I am ready for it, but 8 hours in, I was ready for epidural which I couldn’t have as I was in birth centre, trying water birth. My story is long and not pretty so I won’t bother anyone with it, but believe me when I say that when my little one was finally born and rested in his bed and they were still stitching me up and trying to fix everything that went wrong with me, I looked at him and for a second I thought “was he worth it?” And that’s the worst thing that can mentally happen to any mother who just gave birth. I managed to push this thought away quickly and absolutely love my boy beyond believe, but it’s almost 2 years and this is hunting me still.
I wish everyone nice experience, no matter if there is medication involved or not :) make the decision you will be happy with, and don’t try to make it before you are in the situation, it really CAN be quick and not as bad! But it doesn’t have to be 🤷🏼♀️
Turkova Dominika Definitely understand. There are a lot of women that experience trauma from giving birth and that’s just not a good feeling to have when it comes to something that should be considered a beautiful experience. My pregnancy has been tough enough and I would hate to start having negative thoughts and feeling horrible while my child is making her way into the world, or when she finally gets here so I’m still deciding.
Two years later and you're still bothered by it! I'm so sorry you feel that way. I had an epidural after 15 hours of labor, labored another 14, and by the time I got my daughter my first thought was how weird she looked lol! I was pretty delirious at the time. I also had postpartum depression, which I didn't get help for until 9 months in. I didn't feel emotional love for my daughter until she was about 6 months old. I was committed to her, but otherwise....it was just hard.
I'm saying all this because I want to encourage you. You had a completely normal, fleeting thought after many hours of intense pain. You're an amazing mom to your son. I can tell, because a hateful mom wouldn't care about having that thought at all. And 2 years later you're still disturbed by it. Whatever you're doing, keep it up!
Revelation 3:20 "Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with Me."
Sitcom Christian thank you for your kind words! I am truly sorry that you had the experience you did and the feelings you had! And even more so that you had to battle it without help for that long! It’s amazing that you have kept going and done it all as there is so many moms that don’t have this strength.. well done!❤️ I had my second baby not even month ago and it was unbelievable how different experience that was! Still 15 hours but 7 of it with epidural, walking within two hours after giving birth, no forceps needed.. I got a chance to hold my second son immediately after birth, feed him myself as soon as he wanted, no bad thoughts at all.. I absolutely loved it! So happy I got pass my fears and had the second baby, as it did change my bad experience to positive one! I will never forget the first one and what happened in my head then, but this made massive difference and I truly wish every woman would have this positive experience as well❤️
You are not your thoughts! Everyone has horrible, dark thoughts cross their minds- it doesn’t mean that you are a bad person.
@melody hallelujah I don’t agree with more but one thing you have just said (baby straight on the chest), please leave your opinions where they want them.
No shame in getting an epidural, ladies. It’s still a natural birth whether you have one or not😊. If you can enjoy your birth experience more with one, go for it!
At the same token, if you want to do unmedicated, that’s great!
However you feel most comfortable and whatever will make you enjoy this ultimately special day is best for you!:)
@melody hallelujah you need to chill
@melody hallelujah geez Louise lady, you do you. Don’t try to force your opinions on every pregnant woman.
@melody hallelujah stop copying and pasting this bad advice everywhere. its not 500 AD. let women do what they want
That's not natural you moron and takes away from the women who ACTUALLY do the hard work...
Haha, my mom had my brother and I both completely naturally....to which my brother nearly killed her from the stress of pain and how quickly he came out. She was so worried for me to go through that, she called me in the middle of the night when I was at work to tell me "If you need that epidural.... you get one! The is no shame. You don't have to prove anything to anyone!" Haha.
Needless to say, I reassured her I would be getting one. 2 more weeks and baby will be here!
Thank you for this video. With my first, I didn't want to take the epidural, but ended up taking it for the safety of baby and I. I was in so much pain that I pretty much had no energy left.. In the end, I was so physically exhausted from going through the pain that I didn't even have enough energy to push. I'm pregnant again and due soon, so I've been binge watching your videos for new techniques that might be helpful, like the breathing one, this one, and more. I'm hoping for a less stressful labor this time around, and one where I'm not going to be so tired...
I made the choice to get an epidural and It was THE best decision I made. I felt no pain after it was administered to me. The worst part of my whole labor and delivery experience was the actual inserting of the epidural. Even then, it wasn’t as bad as I initially anticipated.
What did it feel like ?
I just gave birth April 7th and had a planned home birth that ended in complications that forced me to go to a hospital and to have an epidural in order to safely bring my baby into the world. As much as I didn't want one initially, I'm glad the option was avaliable because I physically could not have birthed safely without mine.
I like this video, thank you for not judging one side or another. There is so much love in it, when we just accept that what is good for us might not be for everyone. I think I am siding more with natural birth. I don't have children yet but we want to start planning soon, and I will be educating myself more on this.
I love how you empower women to enjoy their births and be educated on what options they have!! I’m 39 weeks tomorrow, anticipating an unmedicated labor and delivery, but thankful that you are a resource for education in case I change my mind (even during labor) 😊
Exactly, it's YOUR choice! You'll have a beautiful birth, Mama, when you're the one calling the shots!
@melody hallelujah why are you commenting on a video that specifically says mamas CHOOSE how they want their births to go. Why are you even bothering?
Thankyou for making these videos! I’m due in a few weeks with my 2nd and I have such bad anxiety even though I’ve already gone through it before but you’ve really helped calm me down and feel assured in myself
This lady is really good at explaining the different sides. She’s so warm and i don’t sense any judgement at all.
Love it
I had an epidural, my next time around I would not press the little remote button like crazy. I didn’t realize it will take awhile for me to feel it since I was hecka dumb when laboring 😂
But I loved my epidural experience. I would want to take less next time, but my baby latched and we’ve been breastfeeding for close to 3 years.
I was the drowsy one, she was not drowsy AT ALL.
obviously every baby is different.
Gosh, your voice is so calming. Wish you lived in NY!
I had a 20 hour labor. Tried to go all natural but I was in so much pain and so fatigued and exhausted at the end I could not take the contractions anymore.
I ended up transferring from my birth center to the hospital to get the epidural, I was just suffering at this point. Had the epidural and it granted me SO much relief. My baby came out no less than 10 minutes after it was administered and I felt no pain anymore, just pressure and I was able to push him out easily.
I don’t regret the decision to opt for the epidural but a part of me is almost like ashamed and disappointed I wasn’t able to have the natural unmedicated birth and out of hospital birth experience I wanted.
The epidural is a tool and you used it to have an amazing birth!
I had the same experience as you! and i feel the shame in admitting I had an epidural as well! But i keep telling myself that it’s still natural and we did 20 hour labour all without medication and that is a badge of honour! Epidural just assisted us, but we still pushed the baby out.
So informative! Thank you so much for all your videos!🙏🙏🙏💖
37 weeks, first pregnancy - most of the women I know did not get the epidural, some did (and as you mentioned it worked only on the half of the body on one of my friends, she said it was the most bizzare experience!) And I decided I will remain open to options and see how it goes. I love that my husband and family fully support my decision whatever it may be and they don't care what other women do as long as I feel ok during delivery. Tip: Not sure how it works in US but in my country it's worth mentioning rightaway that you consider taking epidural once you enter the hospital, so they take your blood sample for testing at the very beginning of the process.
The epidural is not bad. It is INSTANT relief once the medication starts going. It did not slow my labor, and I was able to start it at 4cm, had my daughter later that afternoon. Just follow instructions and keep yourself still while they put it in. Yes i got a headache a couple days later, and i went back to the hospital because i was a preeclampsia risk, but it was no different than getting a migraine. If non medicated birth is your thing, more power to you, but never feel you have some duty to endure pain.
@melody hallelujah what is wrong with you?
It’s drugs, that’s what’s wrong with it
I was glad I got an epidural, the lower back pains coming every 60 s were unbearable for me anymore. It was instant relief and I regain strength for the final part of the labour. I would be probably too exhausted to push at that point.
@@lilacforest I don’t take drugs. Also, pain from birth has nothing to do with having a “low pain tolerance” brainwashed much? 🥴
Giving birth in 6 months and your videos helping me mentally prepare. I'm terrified of unmedicated birth but I want to try so badly and your videos are helping. I am keeping my options and birth plan open
I had a spinal when I had to have a cerclage placed. I was scared, but after having one for that procedure I've never been so sure that I want one for labor. I was grateful for the experience because it makes me feel more prepared for my birth process.
Thank you for mentioning the pro of being ready for an emergency c-section. I needed to be able to consider that to try for a VBAC.
Best video I've seen on the topic. Thank you :)
The epidural was a miracle
though I had told the nurses a couple of hours before that it was wearing off on my right side and they had to do another one while my contractions were so incredibly close. It was so hard to stay still but I’m grateful they were able to perform a second one. The birth went smoothly and with a 1st degree tear only!! I will definitely be getting epidurals in future pregnancies lol
This is so informative and empowering. I'm around halfway through my pregnancy with my first and almost everywhere I look (without digging into specifically informational videos made by professionals) keep touting the benefits of epidural and addressing none of the risks, which makes me, who want an unmedicated birth if possible, feel like my insistence is unjustified. I'm so glad to have come across your content! Thank you for your work!
Thank you for being so balanced about it. It’s so comforting. I’m firmly in the middle and seeing how it goes. I want to be mobile as long as possible which helps naturally progress labor.
This Is So Helpful! First Time Mama Here! Thank You.☺️
It makes sense now with my first why everything happened the way it did with my epidural. The pros and cons are so very true!! If you haven’t already please do one like this for natural birth!!! I’m almost 38 weeks and I really want to do it natural but the nerves are always there. I’m trying not to be nervous lol. I don’t want the cons to happen again with the epidural!!
Really excellent video, most of these things I hear about for the first time even though I read a lot about it. Thank you!!
I planned to go unmedicated for my first child, but after 24 hours in labor with no sleep and being unable to keep food down, I was exhausted. I ended up getting an epidural. I will say, it was an odd feeling to have my legs be immobile. However, I was too exhausted to push and needed rest, so the epidural proved to be helpful to me. I love how you balance modern medicine and natural birth! I’m still aiming for a natural, unmedicated birth for our second child, but was grateful to have such a wonderful care team who supported my decision, whether it was for an unmedicated birth or for epidural.
I have the highest respect for Moms doing it all natural. I’m due July with my first and plan on getting an epidural. No exceptions 😆
Im due on july too.
I’m due in July as well :-)) 18th 💖
I'm due in July! And definitely having it on standby. Quite nervous of the unknown
I'm due in July too and I'm a little scared. Im definitely getting the epidural.
I'm due the 4th of July and am terrified this time around! Good luck mummas xx
Thank you so much for this video . I learned a lot 😁 and have more of an understanding of the pros and cons 👍🏽
Thank you for your honesty!!!!
Bridget, thank you for your wonderful videos and for the work that you do for women. I can attest to the cons of epidural that you mentioned. Epidural almost killed me and my baby. Every woman is different, but I asked for a lower dosage of epidural as my body is sensitive to medication side effects at times. I also have low-blood pressure (medically healthy, just on the lower end of a healthy range), but I didn’t know that epidural makes it lower. But the best hospital in NYC said they could not do so. Shortly after, my blood pressure and heart dropped so low as well as baby’s that we flatlined (no exaggeration). They had the whole L&D staff rush to my room to revive us (I was not conscious - my husband told me). My second birth was unmedicated, and the most insane pain in my life. But it was a much better birth experience. So, unless it’s medically required (c-section), I would never get or recommend an epidural.
This is a surprisingly informative video. Some of these types of videos are done by (not judging) a woman who has given birth once or twice whereas Bridget sure seems like she has some solid education on the subject. Looking at her profile, it appears that she does..but I didn't need to look because I could hear the experience and education in her talk. PS I have no idea what to do but I have 20 weeks to decide....
I found this video, as I wanted to see what people's experience was with the injection of the epidural! I have given birth both medicated and unmedicated! The first time I got the epidural it was great! But the 2 times after that, the placement hurt and the epidural barely worked! Now expecting my 5th child in September and I am torn, I want the epidural but scared of the pain and terrified of going natural as well 😩
Very educative. Thank you for making this video.
Very helpful, thank you!
With my epidural, I was actually able to push in multiple positions. I was even squatting! My midwife and labor nurse were freaking awesome, they helped a lot. I did ultimately deliver on my back though.
Your legs weren't numb??
I had my baby April 1st and wanted so bad to do natural and I made it to 6cm before I decided the pain was worse than the risks of the epidural. It made my labor SO much more relaxing and memorable. I actually didn't end up having any of the bad side effects, which I'm so grateful for. Id do it again in a heartbeat. OH and the needle going in hurt wayyy less than the contractions I was having!
My daughter was born April 1 three years ago. I had an unmedicated water birth. The water really helped! If you have another, you might consider laboring in water for as long as you can. My second is due in August, and I'm hoping everything goes the same if not better.
Pale Compass oh wow! I’m definitely open to water birth
@@vivalalyssaa I came into the birthing center literally clawing the walls. As soon as I got into the water, it was over.
It also helps avoid/minimize tearing.
Pale Compass that’s amazing! Yeah if I could avoid tearing next time that would be great
Also when you have an epidural your pain may go away but the baby will have more pain, because you will not producing serotonin(pain killers) for them...
No surprise some don't wanna latch or will be drowsy.
Very well explained it all
I kind of felt like a failure having an epidural, did anyone else? Im from the UK and they are not very common, natural births are more common. But after a long induction and an intense but slow labour I was exhausted. It turned out to be the best decision, I had so much sleep and was well rested when I gave birth. The pushing was beautiful and I managed to look down and see her being born, not the intense pain that can happen when in a natural birth. I don't regret it xx
This mentality is not okay!! Getting an epidural is a smart choice and it helps bring millions of healthy babies into the world. Please never associate such negative words to the experience of becoming a mother.
Did no epidural with my first because I chose to do a home birth. Will be doing it again, but now I know a little more about why I definitely want to stick with my plan.
Definitely getting an epidural. For me the benefits are more than the risk
It's important that you weigh your options and make the decision that best suits your and your baby's safety and happiness... Every mama is different!
Marge Rangel absolutely. I know myself and if I start panicking from the pain (FTM due in March) I am not going to be able to relax and focus on getting the baby into the world. I’m scared enough as it is 😅
Yeah me too. I know that I’ll be shunned by the natural mamas but I feel most comfortable with this decision.
xHeartHeartbreakx it is our body sooooo we don’t care what they think 😂
The benefits are more than the risk? What about those who have been injured by an epidural like myself? Completely ignorant to say, not to mention the women who also become paraplegic following epidurals because of genetic mutations etc. educate yaself, must vaccinate too. 🐑
This was so helpful! Thank you for all this information!
This was an amazing and thorough list. Thank you so much for sharing such in depth knowledge on Epidural. Answered all of my questions!
I'm 8 months pregnant and I LOVE your videos. They've been a huge help in getting myself mentally prepared for an unmedicated birth.
Hey, How was your experience?
I'm expecting my first baby in 2 to 3 weeks from now. This video is so helpful! Thank you so much.. 😊
Epidural is a life saver. I had in my first pragnancy and will make sure to have ig now in my 2nd one. Currently 36 weeks pragnant.
Beyond helpful!! I so appreciate you.
Thank you for this video. Thanks to your explanation I realized why I had such a traumatic birth experience with my first child. Most of what I hated was due to the epidural. It slowed down the whole process where I ended up stuck in bed. I experienced all the cons of a epidural. I'm pregnant again and thanks to this video I can educate myself on how to deal with the pain naturally.
This was so helpful, thank you so much for making this video!
Thank you, it is very clear.
Amazing info! Thank you 🙏🏼
All those cons happened to me! With my first I needed oxygen, couldn’t feel any contractions whatsoever, then had a fever from it so they took the baby away to the nursery almost immediately to administer medications. Then I had a terrible headache for weeks afterwards (which she doesn’t include in the list of cons).
Second baby I received an epidural but it only numbed my legs- NOT the contractions! So I couldn’t move throughout the labor and could feel everything. Of course they had me maxed out on pitocin so I couldn’t catch my breath between contractions. Baby’s heart rate was affected so I had to sit in one particular position throughout the terribly painful labor. Then because either they’d tweaked a nerve during epidural or because of being in the same position for so long without feeling my legs, I had drop foot for 5 weeks after delivery and needed help carrying my baby because I couldn’t walk!
I’m going with No2 for this third delivery.
So many people try to discourage you to not have a natural birth... I feel a lot of those people think that if they couldnt do it, you cant.
But you can.
3 kids later, nobody was telling me anymore that I couldnt do it.
But now its back again. Im expecting twins and they are all back, telling me I cant do it 🙄🙄 so annoying.
Wow, twins!!! Congrats! I had a natural, unmedicated labor a few years ago, and it was a positive experience for me. I'm expecting my second soon, and I have no doubt that I can do it without medication.
Stop having kids now.
@@knowingtruthisbliss2717 I hope you feel better soon!
Congratulations! 😍
@@knowingtruthisbliss2717 mind your own business 🙄
Thank you for this video. I am due with my second baby in about a week. I had an unmedicated vaginal birth the first time around (no complications). Planning on doing the same but slightly scared so this video helped in solidifying that I don’t need an epidural. Sent it to my husband so he reminds me during the last part of labour around transition when (according to my midwife) basically all women ask for an epidural (I did too with my first).
Thanks for posting.
I have had 3 un medicated births and the pain of pushing/ rub out are so horrific. I’ve also always bleed a lot after babies. This time I’m so excited to be getting an epidural and also choosing better positions to be putting my body into. I feel like because I know what it feels like already to have had three babies previously this will be a perfect marriage of natural and epidural.
Thank you for sharing! It's so hard to determine whether or not I'd like to have an epidural during labor and delivery. People usually tend to focus on either the pros and make it seem like it's mandatory to do or just the cons and all the negative things that come with having one. You've really helped me hear both sides with unnecessary facial expressions and personal opinion. You're great! (:
Your videos are tremendously helpful in helping me feel more comfortable about my upcoming labor! (37 Weeks now!)
My OB informed me that epidurals, especially on women who are not able to calm their bodies down through contractions, can help delivery move along faster. Because if they’re not able to stay calm and relaxed, their bodies can’t continue to deliver. And an epidural makes the labor get back on track and end quickly (if they’re already in active labor)
Trust your OB. I have noticed that almost all Doulas have some weird hate towards medical assistance and interventions. If you think you can't take the pain go for the epidural. Even natural unmedicated birth is risky. At least with epidural, the pain becomes bearable and labour is less stressful.
I love your videos. I start my natural birth classes today @26wks.
I had and epidural for my 1st 6yrs ago and had most of the cons you mentioned.
It’s a little scary trying for an unmedicated birth but I know it’s mostly mental. Your videos give me hope and remind me birth is a beautiful experience and pain is necessary and a part of the process.
Thank you and I can’t wait to experience my natural birth
It is such a mental game! Your body is equipped to birth a baby all on it's own, so trusting it to do just that will help you immensely. You will have such a beautiful birth, mama!
Not only mental, the pain is real ..
It's mental because it is so hard mentally to deal with the physical pain. So yeah...
Had an epidural with my first and definitely can relate to some of the cons. I was on my back for the whole time, couldn’t move, had to be told when to push, and even though my son was pretty small, he got stuck. I had a choice between forceps, vacuum, and a c-section and thankfully the forceps worked and he popped right out but in retrospect, the epidural most definitely complicated things. No pain but prolonged labor and trouble with latching/breastfeeding afterwards (forceps could have affected his facial muscles needed for nursing.) I’m on my second pregnancy and am trying to prepare for a more unmedicated birth experience :)
I can totally relate to this experience😢
I love how caring you sound in your videos, really shows you're passionate about helping us future moms get prepared. :) I'm a recent subscriber!
I had epidurals with all three of mine. My first labor was the longest and the epi eventually wore off when the time came to push. My second labor was induced and the epi allowed my body to relax a bit. My third labor was super quick and got the epi just in the nick of time, 30 mins after my epi I was pushing. All in all I had positive experiences with the epi. I'm pregnant with my 4th now and if I need it I will be requesting one.
I personally would prefer not having an epidural but I trust myself to make the right decision in the moment. This video is great because it removes that taboo of guilt for getting or not getting an epidural a lot of women feel. My mum had a LOT of intervention when she had me, including an epidural that only worked on half of her body and it had to be readministered.... And it just switched sides of her body. That risk is present in my family history and I would rather not risk that, so I want to go without epidural but at the same time I would love some rest if it's long labor and c sections are also common in my family so it would make that easier as I can then avoid a general anaesthetic .... Idk! We'll see! ❤️
Hey there! I'm currently 31 weeks today and wish I came across your video's sooner! I love all the informative information! When I gave birth to my first son just about 10 years ago, I didnt have the option to have an epidural because the hospital I gave birth in, didn't provide them or give the option. Instead, I had sterile water injections and an intrathecal. (Sorry that's prob spelled wrong lol) Which for those of you that don't know, an intrathecal is the same as an epidural (from my understanding) it just doesn't numb you so you can feel when you have to push. But with that said, I'm really surprised that I haven't seen or heard anyone mention it at all. Ive thought about getting an epidural this second time around, but dont like the thought of being stuck in bed because I walked around a lot and was getting in and out of the tub, and using the birthing ball before. So I may not get one. We shall see when the time comes. With my first pregnancy, I ended up bleeding some and was 2cm dilated for the last 2.5-3 mos and was put on bed rest and progesterone to stop my contractions. Well I ended up with SEVERE back pain and went the the hospital and was admitted. They thought I was having kidney stones and was straining my urine for days with no findings. I told them it was back labor and begged them to stop the anti contraction meds. They did, and I started dilating right away. I went from 2, to 4, to 6 and they ended up having to break my water. I quickly got to 10 cm and pushed for 20 min and delivered the healthiest, perfect baby boy that was almost 9lbs! I tore a little bit and got 1 or 2 stitches, but healed just fine. I was in the hospital for a week before I had him, and ended up having him 8 days early. I know it wouldn't have went so quick if my body wasn't already "in labor" for the last couple months, Which is making me kinda nervous this time around. But needless to say, I'm beyond excited to meet my little man in April 💙 Good luck and congrats to all you Mama's out there! Abd Thank you Bridget for the awesome videos! 😊💜👍
I went into labor with the opinion that I would never have an epidural...after a week of prodromal labor and a high water break, getting an epidural was the one thing that allowed me to still have a vaginal delivery, period. It was not what I had envisioned for my birth experience, but my it provided my body the break it desperately needed, and my son was still healthy and alert when he arrived.
I appreciate you being so positive about epidurals! I had an epidural and then had such a beautiful and positive birth because of it! I was joking and laughing while pushing and was only pushing for 30 mins! I would not have had that birth any other way! Although I totally commend women strong enough to do all natural births but I know myself and know I wouldn’t have made it or been able to enjoy my experience without an epidural.
I had the epidural twice now I just had my second son last Wednesday and the epidural help me alot I still felt when I had to push. It was not painful to get at all.
I love your videos!! Currently 33+5 and so informative!! Keep making vids!! xoxo
Maritza Morales wow I'm also 33 + 5! This is the first time I've seen someone exactly where I am! 😄
i got an epidural and i don't regret it... i don't know how long i was in labor for, but it wasn't long.. got to the hospital at 6am and had my son by 6pm.. i was induced since i was already at 41 weeks and my son weighed in at 9.10 lbs. at birth...
I had an epidural with my 1st. It was such a great choice for me. I pushed on my hands and knees and was not at all forced to labor on my back.
Can’t wait for the next video! I plan to have an unmedicated birth. This will be my first child and its nerve wrecking not knowing what to expect.
I've been there! But the more you know the more excited you'll be to experience what your body and baby can do during birth!
For your next video, can you talk about Strep B?
This video is informative and without shaming. Thank you 💯
Looooved my epidural. Got mine 7/8cm dilated and still felt my contractions and when it was time to push. Got to actually enjoy my labor instead of ripping my husbands sleeve off from my powerful contractions due to how fast i was progressing.