Becoming Disciplined is NOT easy.

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  • čas přidán 13. 07. 2024
  • A very systematic approach to discipline.
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    I have spent my whole last year basically trying to become disciplined. I was always telling myself, that I never finish stuff (which was true) and I am extremely lazy. And well, at some point I figured it out. You need a WHY.
    “He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” - Friedrich Nietzsche
    Everybody is lost nowadays. People, especially teenagers and young adults, don't know what to do with their lives. This is also the reason why people aren't disciplined. Why suffer short term if I don't even know what I'm doing this for?
    I'm not saying this video, worksheet and course will fix all your discipline problems, but it should give you many new ideas of what you need to look out for. After all, everyone needs to solve their own problems.
    If I could recommend you one thing for life, it's that you should try to be useful. Or at least don't be useless. Try to solve problems of others and help people. That is something very fulfilling (in my opinion).
    I hope this helped.
    Chapters:
    00:00 Introduction
    02:08 Part one: What is discipline?
    03:01 Part two: Become disciplined
    04:21 Part three: Fuel your mental energy
    05:51 Part four: Finding clarity
    07:13 Part five: Change your beliefs
    08:41 Part six: Distractions and discipline
    09:54 Part seven: Discipline is an act of faith
    10:35 Part eight: Habitualization
    11:07 Part nine: How to start
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Komentáře • 86

  • @tobi44221
    @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci +5

    Thanks for watching!
    Get your free worksheet and course here:
    www.tobi-education.com/
    This will definitely help you if you put in the action needed!

    • @minhtruong6607
      @minhtruong6607 Před 3 měsíci +1

      i didnt receive any mail. I checked everywhere even the spam folder

    • @raheebmohammed9144
      @raheebmohammed9144 Před 3 měsíci

      it takes time, dw, check again later. Happened to me too :) @@minhtruong6607

    • @spacepirate8355
      @spacepirate8355 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Bro I didnt recieve any mail either, are you sure your website is okay??
      Edit: Nevermind, I did it again, and now I got the mail

    • @raheebmohammed9144
      @raheebmohammed9144 Před 3 měsíci

      Hope you succeed man @@spacepirate8355

    • @minhtruong6607
      @minhtruong6607 Před 2 měsíci

      @@spacepirate8355 i got the mail too lol

  • @mxrti.
    @mxrti. Před 3 měsíci +37

    The music choice is amazing for this video

    • @Z16us
      @Z16us Před 2 měsíci

      i disagree

  • @senpairayotieripx6349
    @senpairayotieripx6349 Před 3 měsíci +44

    Hey man, i have the feeling that iv been stuck in a rut and every time i try to fo self improvement i do too much in one go and then stop. Fall back into bad habits, regret, and the cycle continues. I cant stress this enough, thank you for this video. I realize that what i needed was a goal, some form of future self i want to achieve. I do hope you can make a video about this in the future. Continue te great work, im gonna keep up with you regularly. Love you man, good luck in everything

    • @1prioriteti
      @1prioriteti Před 3 měsíci +5

      maybe your expectations are just too unrealistic?

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci +5

      will definitely talk more about this. but as i said, it'y something very personal. so you can use the worksheet provided for this!

  • @hanifsulistiyo3559
    @hanifsulistiyo3559 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thanks for your effort and for doing something other self-improvement channels don't do.

  • @mbc6867
    @mbc6867 Před 3 měsíci +6

    I’ve been on my self improvement journey for 7 years since I was 14 and this is genuinely amazing advice from what I’ve learnt over the years, clarity is so important, will definitely sub

  • @08laaibah
    @08laaibah Před 3 měsíci +2

    I generally don't watch much self improvement videos anymore, but your videos genuinely seem valuable. It's great to see someone sharing their own ideas rather than repeating the same advice from big CZcamsrs. Keep up the great work! :)

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci +3

      trying my best man, appreciate it!

  • @mr.nobody3354
    @mr.nobody3354 Před 3 měsíci +1

    david is all about mindset, and mindst is the main factor for discipline, he said he runs every single day , thats discipline, and his mindset is what keeps him diciplined

  • @AdamAmouri-ov7rh
    @AdamAmouri-ov7rh Před 3 měsíci +3

    Keep making videos, you are helping many such as myself.
    Thank you, hope things are going well for you.

  • @Royal1v99
    @Royal1v99 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you

  • @toncros_4822
    @toncros_4822 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Bro, i want to thank you a lot for helping me get thru my goals

  • @user-py8dy1lm8m
    @user-py8dy1lm8m Před měsícem

    You’re speaking facts my guy. Thanks for the content.

  • @OccultSagas
    @OccultSagas Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great video Tobi! 🎉

  • @tobiusontop
    @tobiusontop Před 3 měsíci +2

    Great video would love to see more

  • @idwhatitalkabout-bd6lw
    @idwhatitalkabout-bd6lw Před měsícem +1

    Discipline is finding inner motivation

  • @liberatio8703
    @liberatio8703 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The grind 💪 (Good video)

  • @Ayushgaud232
    @Ayushgaud232 Před 3 měsíci +1

    i think one of the biggest blunders i have been making is i made things way too complicated. I thought that waking up early, feeling that fresh air, with coffee and cold showers will make me a better person but i just realised all i had to do was just focus on my work. instead of trying to be productive, i shouldve focused on trying to be effecient.

  • @dg55661
    @dg55661 Před 3 měsíci +1

    an absolute gem and genuinly true and at the right time thank you.

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci

      thanks that makes me happy

  • @kamalg9001
    @kamalg9001 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Amazing content. You deserve more subs bro. Looking forward for your next uploads. Really valuable advices for a 12 mins video. Keep at it!

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci +1

      thank you! i tried real hard for this one to be valuable

  • @AntonPlankton1
    @AntonPlankton1 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love your videos Tobi, because they do not destroy my dopamine receptors, have great advice and your storytelling is exceptional. Keep it up bro :)

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci

      thank you! appreciate that a lot.

  • @1NormalGuy
    @1NormalGuy Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great work !!

  • @falcone3081
    @falcone3081 Před měsícem

    thank you my friend

  • @Spiderdach
    @Spiderdach Před 3 měsíci

    Great video, earned yourself a sub, keep up this hard work and you WILL earn money

  • @omareid3197
    @omareid3197 Před 3 měsíci

    man I am glad that I found such a channel

  • @psyhophasotron
    @psyhophasotron Před 3 měsíci

    Nice explaining. I understand it by myself earlyer.

  • @farzad1021
    @farzad1021 Před 13 dny

    2:08 to 3:00 I will say decipline means to do the unwanted tasks. That you doesn't wanted to do. And that unwanted task doesn't has to be difficult or hard to do. It can be a simple task like going to the grocery store. Or listening mother or father is word's.

  • @farzad1021
    @farzad1021 Před 13 dny

    3:01 to 5:51 In simple terms just give yourself voluntary mental pressure. Or just visualise the wanted things you want.

  • @BluurlyGaming
    @BluurlyGaming Před 3 měsíci

    Very helpful

  • @Adsterr
    @Adsterr Před 3 měsíci

    You deserve a million subs, bro; your content is AWESOME.
    And the videos? Even better, haha!

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 2 měsíci

      appreciate that a lot man!

  • @alduin_0527
    @alduin_0527 Před 3 měsíci

    thanks bro

  • @itomato8836
    @itomato8836 Před 3 měsíci

    congrats on 2k subs man love your vids, waiting till i see you at 100k in less than 3 months inshallah

  • @notHARETH
    @notHARETH Před 3 měsíci

    Great love to you ❤

  • @jasomega2446
    @jasomega2446 Před 3 měsíci

    0:00 I see now! Thank you!

  • @terrancemcclendon456
    @terrancemcclendon456 Před 2 měsíci

    Doing the things to progress even if you dont feel like it

  • @apricotAfterglow
    @apricotAfterglow Před 2 měsíci

    We're do back boys!

  • @thomasfrade3727
    @thomasfrade3727 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Good Content

  • @yashsonawane3136
    @yashsonawane3136 Před 3 měsíci

    Man , the quality of the content is next level

  • @seifegizaw5430
    @seifegizaw5430 Před 3 měsíci

    how do you make these videos bro? they seem very well done!

  • @whatthewifi2235
    @whatthewifi2235 Před 2 měsíci

    HAha nice to see someone else who has read "The Millionaire Fast Lane", good video!

  • @Baraka_albdrani
    @Baraka_albdrani Před 2 měsíci

    I hear something like those words but surprisingly i have a kind of lamp open right there and it’s like when you lost in the midnight desert but you realized that there is a moon which actually gives u some light 🗿 7:04

  • @achraf170
    @achraf170 Před 2 měsíci

    all i can say is thank you

  • @AdamKabdullin
    @AdamKabdullin Před 3 měsíci +1

    You will have 1mil subs this year

  • @imconfusedd4722
    @imconfusedd4722 Před 12 dny

    What were the songs in the video?

  • @Nyxcore
    @Nyxcore Před měsícem

    u should from now on render ur videos at 60fps it would look sickkk

  • @Omar_Ahemd
    @Omar_Ahemd Před 3 měsíci +1

    thank for the video it really helped me i didn't actually know this things, where are u from ur accent is kinda middel eastern : )

  • @T1melessTime
    @T1melessTime Před 3 měsíci

    Moneymaxxing taught you well :)

  • @YoussefChaabani-tf5mc
    @YoussefChaabani-tf5mc Před měsícem

    i have been diagnosed with Alexithymia and dont know what do about it

  • @tupperfamilyvlogs6807
    @tupperfamilyvlogs6807 Před 3 měsíci

    Hey i never got the worksheet in my spam folder or inbox

  • @Wnyee
    @Wnyee Před 3 měsíci

    i workout daily and have my school in order etc. I still dont think im disciplined enough which is crazy to me tbh.

  • @Noxxi33
    @Noxxi33 Před 3 měsíci

    CZcams boost this video please was really usefull

  • @NotFourResale
    @NotFourResale Před 3 měsíci

    real

  • @unruly-dragon
    @unruly-dragon Před 3 měsíci

    I'm glad to see a motivator not being a greedy person like Andrew Tate
    Also thank you for making this video kind sir

  • @AvionMurrell
    @AvionMurrell Před 3 měsíci +1

    Y’all ever had that felling at 14 when all of this improvement shit started to surface I honestly feel like it started with alpha channels on how to get hoes or a girlfriend then it spiraled into self improvement aka black pill blue pill red pill this shit crazy and I use to get motivated by the edits now that I’m 20 I’m like bro tf was my goofy ass stressing about 😂no wonder them edits with the phonk music or deftones music get me I’m growing up and I didn’t even realize it damm

  • @user-vz4gg6cs4l
    @user-vz4gg6cs4l Před 3 měsíci

    4:15 This sounds a lot more like motivation than discipline.
    Having more discipline means taking more/stronger actions with the same level of motivation.

  • @theonlyconstantischang3
    @theonlyconstantischang3 Před 3 měsíci

    4:14 what manga is this? Amazing video btw

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci

      just a drawing i'm pretty sure

    • @theonlyconstantischang3
      @theonlyconstantischang3 Před 3 měsíci

      @@tobi44221 yeah my bad, i just noticed it has an autograph and looks kinda western

  • @ducksdog6601
    @ducksdog6601 Před 3 měsíci

    Where did you learn this?

  • @brysonburton8743
    @brysonburton8743 Před 3 měsíci

    Is the link not working for anyone else 👀

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci

      tobi-education.com should work. is this one not working for you?

    • @brysonburton8743
      @brysonburton8743 Před 3 měsíci

      @@tobi44221 Sadly no. However, I wish you know how much it means for you to respond to my concern, and I hope others feel the same as I do.

  • @MohammedYusuf-dv4sn
    @MohammedYusuf-dv4sn Před 2 měsíci

    5:57 what's our purpose ?
    Ans: as a muslim this world is nothing but a beautiful lie so focusing on our deen to attain jannah ( paradise ). that's the ultimate goal

  • @jasomega2446
    @jasomega2446 Před 3 měsíci

    0:04

  • @norbb5526
    @norbb5526 Před 3 měsíci

    I disagree with the definition of discipline. Imo discipline is being able to do the thing regardless of your external motivations. I mean, i'm not sure if this is the discipline, maybe it has different definition or maybe it has several, my point is, that if you can put effort into something only when you have a motivation to it, it's not really a skill, it's natural and it's not enough to fullfill most most of the goals. The one skill one must obtain is being able to just fucking start the shit no matter if you have a motivation or not. The thing about finding your own beliefs and long time motivations life being a good parent are true and helpful, but for me personally don't really work, if my lizard (amygdala or wharever) tells me to eat the chips than i can't really do anything about it, saying things to myself like "you will be fat and unhealthy and ugly and you will lose some money if you do it" don't really work, what works for me is just saying NO I WON'T DO THE THING. External motivation is the most precious currency in the world and we all starve from it, your way is to force your own external motivation, my is rather become indepedent of it. I'm not saying these methods are in conflict, maybe they can coexist, maybe there are more then one way to way to become disciplined, maybe it depends on the person. Or maybe not?

    • @tobi44221
      @tobi44221  Před 3 měsíci +1

      I understand what you mean. What I'm describing is not "feeling" to do something, yes that is motivation. but you need clarity. you need to have a reason. you cannot just do something without any reason at all. why would you say "i'm not gonna eat those chips i don't care about my feelings" when you don't have any reason for not eating them. you have to have clarity about what you want in life and then doing these things, even though you don't feel like it, is much easier.

  • @lunarrwvrld1634
    @lunarrwvrld1634 Před 3 měsíci

    blud is just pulling straight from millionaire fastlane lmao, no hate tho