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'I have said everything as kindly and nicely as I can'. Helen Joyce on the trans debate.

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  • čas přidán 15. 05. 2024

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  • @laf4891
    @laf4891 Před 3 měsíci +102

    I wish I could be as calm and articulate as Helen Joyce…

    • @pulchralutetia
      @pulchralutetia Před 3 měsíci +1

      There’s nothing ‘calm’ about her at all.

    • @jackjones9587
      @jackjones9587 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I wish she would be as vocal about females getting out of male spaces

    • @laf4891
      @laf4891 Před 2 měsíci

      @@jackjones9587 Females in male spaces is not good, but not dangerous for the males. Males frequenting female spaces is dangerous for females. Males are voyeurs and exhibitionists and love to shock and scare women. Men are not scared of women. Women are scared of men. There’s a reason for that.

    • @slacktoryrecords4193
      @slacktoryrecords4193 Před 2 měsíci +9

      @@jackjones9587 I’m as in favor of single-sex spaces as everyone else on our side, but the reason why she isn’t as vocal about females in male-only spaces is because there isn’t also the element of physical danger to men in that situation. Or were you making a different point?

    • @slacktoryrecords4193
      @slacktoryrecords4193 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @@pulchralutetiaIs it because she talks too fast for you?

  • @outoforbit00
    @outoforbit00 Před 3 měsíci +55

    Very well said Helen. Thank you for all your work.

    • @jackjones9587
      @jackjones9587 Před 3 měsíci

      Why doesn't she advocate for women to get out of men's spaces?

  • @dhunter1133
    @dhunter1133 Před 3 měsíci +36

    I don't know why it's called a debate because there is no discussion, only "you either enthusiastically support me or you're a hateful bigot who needs to be cancelled."

  • @MarthaMansbridge
    @MarthaMansbridge Před 3 měsíci +24

    Trans. The book by Helen Joyce is one of the most insightful, considered and considerate book on the topic there is. In Audio format, read by Helen Joyce it’s brilliant. I cannot recommend the book enough to anyone interested, concerned or perplexed by the subject.

    • @catherinerobilliard7662
      @catherinerobilliard7662 Před 3 měsíci +10

      She read the book herself as no-one else was brave enough to take on the job - and she aces it!

    • @TheQuixoticRambler
      @TheQuixoticRambler Před 9 dny

      What a beautiful recommendation. Thanks for your comment!

  • @johntaylor4084
    @johntaylor4084 Před 3 měsíci +39

    It should not be for us to tell him but for him to apply to social norms, he's not a woman no matter how games he want to play or how upset he gets. But also remember the same applies to ladies who think they are lads we do not want you in our places!!

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 Před 3 měsíci

      I'm a woman, but I can imagine how weird it would be for men to have a trans identified female thinking that that is her space. Gay men are now having to have TIFs in their saunas!😳

    • @black_sheep_nation
      @black_sheep_nation Před 2 měsíci

      Agreed.

    • @MichelleDavis-xk8rc
      @MichelleDavis-xk8rc Před 13 dny

      You're ignorant

  • @Hickalum
    @Hickalum Před 3 měsíci +33

    You do not have to engage with someone else’s fantasy … In fact, it probably harms them if you do.

    • @KickRocks-me7hh
      @KickRocks-me7hh Před měsícem

      Keep banging those rocks together.

    • @alisabristleface
      @alisabristleface Před měsícem

      Well, it is not their fantasy, it is their reality.. and its not yours so how about keeping your ignorant, arrogant nose out of other people's lives?

    • @MichelleDavis-xk8rc
      @MichelleDavis-xk8rc Před 13 dny

      Gender identity is innervated by a neurological structure called the Bed Nucleus Stria Terminalis. This is part of the limbic system ie the thalamus, hyper thalamus, amygdala and hippocampus, which control function such as emotions, behaviour, motivation and memory.

  • @garygriffiths154
    @garygriffiths154 Před 3 měsíci +26

    Stop taking them seriously.

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 Před 2 měsíci +3

      It's weird bc the last few months, more and more people are taking them less seriously. It's like their power is fading. We stand with Helen and JK 😁

    • @KickRocks-me7hh
      @KickRocks-me7hh Před měsícem

      ​@@halroxdynasty8683I though he meant Joyce and Rowling.

  • @MorePlausible
    @MorePlausible Před 3 měsíci +67

    Helen Joyce is a true heroine. An exceptionally brave Irishwoman.

    • @pulchralutetia
      @pulchralutetia Před 3 měsíci

      Not much Irish about her. She’s lived in the UK for decades.

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 Před 3 měsíci +10

      ​@@pulchralutetia Lol, imagine telling an African or Asian person that they are no longer that because they emigrated!

    • @pulchralutetia
      @pulchralutetia Před 3 měsíci

      @@sparagmos4748 Interesting, but a false analogy.

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@pulchralutetia Why? Because she's white and an English speaker?
      I have known many people who have lived in another country for many years and they rarely give up their heritage, even when they change their nationality. I don't see how HJ is any different.

    • @lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
      @lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 Před 2 měsíci +7

      @pulchralutetia She's still Irish and not English though, and she has explicitly told people so in interviews when they mistakenly call her British.

  • @adill2171
    @adill2171 Před 2 měsíci +10

    It's about time sane people begin speaking up!

  • @user-kr8yv6qe1w
    @user-kr8yv6qe1w Před 3 měsíci +12

    XX or XY, end of the discussion.

    • @slacktoryrecords4193
      @slacktoryrecords4193 Před 2 měsíci

      Well, there are people with DSDs whose chromosomes aren’t as simple as that, but those people are all still either male or female and they aren’t trans, either. I would just say not to bring up chromosomes unless you want to have 8,000 arguments with clueless genderists who want to bring up DSDs as if they’re some sort of ‘gotcha’.

    • @TD-py4qy
      @TD-py4qy Před 2 měsíci

      @JustMe-bu1cpYup. There is no reason for you to be a reality phobe just as it is not necessary for men to mansplain to women what a woman is lol. It’s totally backfiring with society and I am here for it.

    • @KickRocks-me7hh
      @KickRocks-me7hh Před měsícem

      Keep banging thise rock together

  • @nickgood8166
    @nickgood8166 Před 3 měsíci +14

    You cannot change gender/ sex by fiat. Nor can you do it with any combination of clothes, make-up, surgery and drugs.

    • @pulchralutetia
      @pulchralutetia Před 3 měsíci

      So what? Do you have a magic wand cure for gender dysphoria? In any case, what an adult dies with his/her own body is up to him/her.

    • @nickgood8166
      @nickgood8166 Před 2 měsíci

      @JustMe-bu1cpHere's some basic biology. Humans with XY sex chromosomes in pretty much all their constituent cells, save for red blood corpuscles, are not and never can be women.

    • @Zoleankico4267
      @Zoleankico4267 Před 2 měsíci

      Correct, biological men will always have a prostate.

    • @prayunceasingly2029
      @prayunceasingly2029 Před měsícem +2

      You can fool people by those methods but facts remain facts even if people are unaware

    • @pulchralutetia
      @pulchralutetia Před měsícem

      @@prayunceasingly2029 So what?

  • @velvetindigonight
    @velvetindigonight Před 3 měsíci +19

    Fabulous woman. I agree and support you totally. Two genders only ……….. I have thought long and hard about this issue and when they went for women only spaces and loos I realised the dangers and went no this is enough.
    PS And men should be allowed their loos and clubs also…….

  • @FormulaProg
    @FormulaProg Před 3 měsíci +59

    The backlash just shows the vile nature of the porn addicted population we are dealing with here. Don't keep giving them an inch.

    • @madsteve9
      @madsteve9 Před 3 měsíci

      ?
      It seems some of the Female to Male transitioning is being driven by Female Children, viewing or being shown, aggressive, male dominant Porn, that shows Women being chocked or slapped.
      That some women do that for the extra rates of pay is troubling. That someone Men enjoy doing that is very worrying. That some Women enjoy being tret like that is even more worrying.
      I don't think the Internet Genie can be put back into the bottle.
      But parents must take their responsibilities, and not give their Children SMART phones. If need be then a government ban until you are 16 years old.

    • @user-xu6bv7yh2j
      @user-xu6bv7yh2j Před 3 měsíci +1

      go to medical school

    • @apebass2215
      @apebass2215 Před 3 měsíci +15

      ​@@user-xu6bv7yh2j no one needs to go to medical school to know what a man is, or to recognise a porn addiction.

    • @user-xu6bv7yh2j
      @user-xu6bv7yh2j Před 3 měsíci

      @@apebass2215 yes, they do - because there are many more varities of chromosomes than just xx or xy - nothing you say will change that - FACTS - go to horpital websites - take a class - learn

    • @user-xu6bv7yh2j
      @user-xu6bv7yh2j Před 3 měsíci

      @@apebass2215 you don't like to learn

  • @mikelee9886
    @mikelee9886 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Perfectly said.

  • @Derek-yl5fe
    @Derek-yl5fe Před 2 měsíci +5

    Permanent transvestites are not women.

  • @46WDiSP75
    @46WDiSP75 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Well said!

  • @ruthless9604
    @ruthless9604 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Thank you.

  • @EvilHandyman
    @EvilHandyman Před 2 měsíci +4

    Compassion is not a good trait in policy. Not female compassion anyways. Thats how we got here.

  • @jimmorrison5493
    @jimmorrison5493 Před 3 měsíci +12

    Offence is taken, not given

  • @jamesknowles6665
    @jamesknowles6665 Před 3 měsíci +5

    She is speaking English. A commonly used language used throughout the entire world. What part of her statement don't you understand? Men are men. Women are women. Never the twains shall meet.

    • @JamesKnowles-mr2tg
      @JamesKnowles-mr2tg Před 2 měsíci

      @JustMe-bu1cp Now that you mention it my latest read is by Abigail Shrier titled; Irreversible Damage; The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters. Useful information in the debate we are having.

    • @TD-py4qy
      @TD-py4qy Před 2 měsíci +1

      @JustMe-bu1cpLol. U r clearly the example why u all r receiving the beginning onslaught of societies backlash. Keep up the winning strategy. It’s hilarious to watch lol

    • @KickRocks-me7hh
      @KickRocks-me7hh Před měsícem

      Thinking g hard. Best not to try it.

  • @Ditto463
    @Ditto463 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Thank you ❤

  • @NicoleAshton1986
    @NicoleAshton1986 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Less than 60 seconds but this is the most on point things ever said. Thank you Helen!
    I have been trying my hardest to be kind and compassionate towards trans people. I've even been one of the people saying that it's not what you say but how you say it and by and large the trans community has proved me wrong. Time after time again.
    I used the pronouns...but it wasn't enough.
    I suggested that there could be reasonable accommodations for transwomen in female spaces depending on the point of transition they're actually at...but it wasn't enough.
    I said there was no problem with transmen or female non-binary identified people being in women's sports so long as they choose between that and medical transition...but it wasn't enough.
    I proposed the view that 'transwomen are transwomen' as a middle ground between saying they were still men or calling them women, feeling it allowed acknowledgement of both biological sex differences and their gender identity...but it wasn't enough.
    It never seems to be enough.
    I run a Space for women on Quora where I write my views always from the point of view of defending women's rights. I don't seek out trans people and harass them in any way, trying to tell them that they can't do this or that. They come to me to do that themselves. I've been called slurs, had lies told about me, a campaign to get me and my Space banned from the platform and so many other women who post with us can say the same. Just yesterday we had one being accused of weaponizing her trauma against a 'certain type of woman'.
    The aggression towards women, the sense of entitlement these men have to all things female, seems to be growing by the day.
    My group isn't even 'trans exclusionary'. We have several members, mainly transwomen, who are equally done with gender ideology. They aren't being listened to by the trans community either. They call us terfs, and then truscum.

    • @black_sheep_nation
      @black_sheep_nation Před 2 měsíci

      I hope to find you. Read my recent comment. It could get me banned here. But I will say it anyway. I wish to open a Reddit group, but one has to build enough "karma" to open a subreddit. I'd close the group.

  • @user-ob1ey2kk5w
    @user-ob1ey2kk5w Před 2 měsíci +2

    Very smart woman

  • @mary1494
    @mary1494 Před měsícem

    Thank you ma'am.. very well said.👏

  • @madsteve9
    @madsteve9 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Just to let you know I liked this. And the number of Likes stayed at 5.

    • @aclark903
      @aclark903 Před 2 měsíci

      You tube don’t want you to like it?

  • @user-dl9sy7bq6q
    @user-dl9sy7bq6q Před 2 měsíci

    Well said Helen

  • @FordPrefect-Earth
    @FordPrefect-Earth Před 3 měsíci +13

    The rot is showing, it's too late.
    An entire civilization that became too stupid to survive.
    Odd.

  • @BH.Geneve
    @BH.Geneve Před 3 měsíci +27

    Hallelujah! This entire trans movement is filled with hate, with misogyny and with an almost fascist unitary thought process. It’s dangerous and damaging. Dress however you like, have equal protections under the law - but a man in a dress is not a woman and no amount of repetition will make it so. If anyone truly misunderstands the difference between “hoping I’m a woman” and “being a woman”, well, they need the type of help not available on CZcams.

    • @madsteve9
      @madsteve9 Před 3 měsíci +7

      Once the equal marriage and pension legislation was passed. I think all of the LBG charities should have just gone away.
      Now, Stonewall etc, are little more than crime syndicates, that Governments & Businesses have to pay money to, to stop them setting a fire to their buildings.

    • @black_sheep_nation
      @black_sheep_nation Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@madsteve9 a bridge too far, mate. It wasn't a slippery slope. Gay men and women are losing because of this insanity, too. Helen Joyce will vehemently disagree with you, as well.

    • @KickRocks-me7hh
      @KickRocks-me7hh Před měsícem

      Citation needed

  • @brianfeltham-daniels905
    @brianfeltham-daniels905 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Absolutely!

  • @StarmersStasi
    @StarmersStasi Před 2 měsíci +2

    Good for you

  • @pauloconnor5101
    @pauloconnor5101 Před 3 měsíci +1

    💯 it's beyond a joke.

  • @blah914
    @blah914 Před 2 měsíci +1

    lets also talk about the utter misogony of tone policing 👀

  • @dcollins4679
    @dcollins4679 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Give an inch on boundaries and a mile is taken.

  • @Zoleankico4267
    @Zoleankico4267 Před 2 měsíci

    We tried to have gender neural bathrooms at my work. Two stalls, but when one person goes in and locks the door, it makes the line of people waiting longer. We also had repeated drug users locking themselves in there for a long time, to where we had to go in, and force them to leave. Trying to accommodate insanity, is dangerous for the general population.

  • @chrishoo2
    @chrishoo2 Před 2 měsíci +1

    There certain things that you cannot change & if you need treatment at a hospital they need to know what you are, prostate & all!

  • @MichelleDavis-xk8rc
    @MichelleDavis-xk8rc Před 13 dny

    Gender identity is innervated by a neurological structure called the Bed Nucleus Stria Terminalis. This is part of the limbic system ie the thalamus, hyper thalamus, amygdala and hippocampus, which control function such as emotions, behaviour, motivation and memory.

  • @pianoman6639
    @pianoman6639 Před 2 měsíci

    Helen speaks so much s new with no hysteria.

  • @KickRocks-me7hh
    @KickRocks-me7hh Před měsícem

    Helen Joyce sadly mistaken about everything she says.
    People agree with due to confirmation bias.

  • @thegoodpimps
    @thegoodpimps Před 2 měsíci

    Just old people, progress moves past them. Happens with every movement, takes decades longer than the affected minorities wish.

  • @peterellis4982
    @peterellis4982 Před 2 měsíci +1

    It completely nonsense I don’t understand how we have allowed it to happen men and woman are a fact being gay I understand but pretending to be something you are not that just complete bollocks

  • @unitysprings3631
    @unitysprings3631 Před 2 měsíci

    being exposed to male jenny talia is more disturbing than hurty chuffing words.

  • @jonathanclayden8331
    @jonathanclayden8331 Před 2 měsíci

    Because segregating people based on their genetics is definitely not facist is it?

  • @bookworm1192
    @bookworm1192 Před 2 měsíci

    👏👏👏!!!

  • @PlainsPup
    @PlainsPup Před 3 měsíci +1

    💯

  • @hansiesma16
    @hansiesma16 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I wanted to use the public toilets at Victoria train station. I don’t walk well so the attendant took me to a Gender Neutral/Disabled toilet. Great! It smelled of urine and there was pee all over the floor. Like a men’s urinal basically

    • @scarfholdgraphicsmedia9501
      @scarfholdgraphicsmedia9501 Před 2 měsíci

      Ironically you don't realise that you are stereotyping men here. Many women inform me that ladies toilets can be just as dirty.

    • @black_sheep_nation
      @black_sheep_nation Před 2 měsíci

      Are you joking? Women's loos have always been shockingly disgusting. I don't know about men's so much, as I'm a woman.
      Women turn into Huns in the public loos, where they can look like the end of a concert rush. They do the toilet hover, missing half the time and don't bother to clean up after themselves. If a too-small-to-fit-sea- cover falls in the toilet, rather than take another, they just layer another on top, and sometimes a third, then flush, clogging it.
      And if they've got kids😮😮 rarely do fathers take little ones to the loo.
      They rudely leave the next person to deal with the mess. Both #1 and #2 💩💩, sometimes.
      Please. Give me a break. It's so infamous, comedians use it in their routines.

  • @OneAndOnlyMe
    @OneAndOnlyMe Před 3 měsíci +2

    never understood why we can't just have three spaces, male, female and shared. is that just too obvious?

    • @OneAndOnlyMe
      @OneAndOnlyMe Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@MyPronounIsGoddess The hardcore activists would lose ground if more third spaces were implemented as more people would be happy with this compromise.

    • @castelodeossos5042
      @castelodeossos5042 Před 3 měsíci +1

      A certain men-only club's having to admit women shows it's not obvious. And it's not the first time women have demanded access to men-only spaces while wishing to deny men access to women-only spaces.

    • @OneAndOnlyMe
      @OneAndOnlyMe Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@castelodeossos5042 I come back to third spaces. Everyone wins, the 'activists' - the minority - will become irrelevant.

    • @OneAndOnlyMe
      @OneAndOnlyMe Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@MyPronounIsGoddess Vocal minorities eventually lose ground when compromise solutions appear.

    • @FormulaProg
      @FormulaProg Před 3 měsíci

      Because they don't want that, they want to change the definition of everything to suit their agenda which is a massively sexualised culture where anything goes.

  • @moesheen654
    @moesheen654 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Completely agree. Just to bad women killed anything resembling mens spaces. I don really care as they were pretty exclusive spaces but still it happened.

    • @IwanDierckx
      @IwanDierckx Před 3 měsíci +4

      Exactly this. Why don't they recognise the irony of them destroying men's spaces for decades and calling them misogynistic.

    • @castelodeossos5042
      @castelodeossos5042 Před 3 měsíci

      Hypocrisy, thy name is woman.

    • @linzeubi4209
      @linzeubi4209 Před 3 měsíci +7

      We're talking about our safe spaces, women have never fought for access to men's toilets etc

    • @apebass2215
      @apebass2215 Před 3 měsíci

      Men still have sports, men's clubs, and Freemasonry exists across the nation. I don't see any women demanding access to men's prisons either.

    • @moesheen654
      @moesheen654 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@linzeubi4209 I understand that and support it 100%.

  • @waltersobchack8886
    @waltersobchack8886 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Love ya!

  • @charlesbrown1365
    @charlesbrown1365 Před 2 měsíci

    Transphobe is a slur.

  • @user-xu6bv7yh2j
    @user-xu6bv7yh2j Před 3 měsíci

    you are not a medical doctor - endochronologist?

    • @John-kj7tv
      @John-kj7tv Před 3 měsíci +2

      So what?

    • @apebass2215
      @apebass2215 Před 3 měsíci +9

      Nobody needs to be an endocrinologist to know what men and women are.

    • @user-xu6bv7yh2j
      @user-xu6bv7yh2j Před 3 měsíci

      @@apebass2215 you need to be one if you want to understand how sex in humans actually works - intersex people exist - it is not binary exactly - science and medicine are always changing and improving - it's tough for some to keep up

    • @briankendall2290
      @briankendall2290 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@user-xu6bv7yh2jinter-sex people are a tiny % of men and women who have medical problems some of which can be debilitating and even life threatening. Intersex is an anomaly something has gone wrong during gestation. It is not a third sex.

    • @apebass2215
      @apebass2215 Před 2 měsíci

      @@user-xu6bv7yh2j people with DSDs do exist, but they still have a sex. Don't use these people and their medical conditions as pawns to justify your unscientific ideology. I bet you don't even know what an SRY gene is.

  • @pulchralutetia
    @pulchralutetia Před 3 měsíci

    Get a life, Helen.

    • @FormulaProg
      @FormulaProg Před 3 měsíci +5

      She's got one. Have you?

    • @John-kj7tv
      @John-kj7tv Před 3 měsíci +2

      Is that it.... That's the best you can do....
      "Get a life". What are you 6?

    • @pulchralutetia
      @pulchralutetia Před 3 měsíci

      @@John-kj7tv I’m getting bored of the trans hysteria.

    • @John-kj7tv
      @John-kj7tv Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@pulchralutetia if you're not interested in the subject, why did you post a derogatory comment that was obviously intended to get a response....

    • @spookycat8556
      @spookycat8556 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@pulchralutetia Yes. We are all very bored of the trans.💜🤍💚

  • @LudvigIndestrucable
    @LudvigIndestrucable Před 3 měsíci

    The obvious solution is for a Helen only space, it'll keep you safe from anyone who doesn't fit your criteria and keep them safe from you.

    • @apebass2215
      @apebass2215 Před 3 měsíci +8

      Just because you don't understand what men and women are and why sex-segregated spaces exist, doesn't mean that's true for everyone else.

    • @LudvigIndestrucable
      @LudvigIndestrucable Před 3 měsíci

      @@apebass2215 I understand perfectly well, I also understand what she is and she's not welcome in my club for no-Helens.

    • @slacktoryrecords4193
      @slacktoryrecords4193 Před 2 měsíci

      @@LudvigIndestrucableYou are clearly a serious person.

    • @LudvigIndestrucable
      @LudvigIndestrucable Před 2 měsíci

      @@slacktoryrecords4193 as serious as she's being. She's not defending her position, merely stating it and saying anyone who disagrees is wrong.
      She has made no points other than to say that she hasn't and will not change her views or stance, which is spiffing, but not an argument, serious or otherwise.

    • @TD-py4qy
      @TD-py4qy Před 2 měsíci

      @@LudvigIndestrucableu have just described the whole trans movement lol. That’s why society is not accepting entitled trans with your trans privilege. No one can take you reality deniers seriously lol

  • @guff9567
    @guff9567 Před 3 měsíci

    , EVERYBODY is equal. STOP this divisionism

    • @robo9804
      @robo9804 Před 3 měsíci +6

      This seems reductionist to the point of not advancing discussion in any way. The matter at hand in this content is the nature of discussion around sex-specific spaces.

    • @castelodeossos5042
      @castelodeossos5042 Před 3 měsíci +3

      ​@@robo9804Have to disagree. The matter at hand is calling speech hate speech merely because you disagree with it.

    • @FormulaProg
      @FormulaProg Před 3 měsíci

      Equality is a dangerous lie

    • @FormulaProg
      @FormulaProg Před 3 měsíci +3

      Hahaha no they aren't

    • @castelodeossos5042
      @castelodeossos5042 Před 3 měsíci +4

      That's the same as to say men are women and vice-versa. Wrong forum.