What Is Autogynephilia? | Helen Joyce

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024

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  • @petersmithyy4556
    @petersmithyy4556 Před 3 měsíci +240

    I can't even believe that we are in a time where we are having this conversation.

    • @glasslinger
      @glasslinger Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes, you should have been born 1500 years ago.

    • @honeyb1286
      @honeyb1286 Před 3 měsíci +29

      Yes it’s because these conversations were once (not that long ago) held in private in psychiatrist treatment rooms … not on the public or schools asking children to question their own sexuality ( some pushing to be introduced to 4 year olds) …

    • @betsybarnicle8016
      @betsybarnicle8016 Před 3 měsíci +12

      Thank the Obamas.

    • @TingTong2568
      @TingTong2568 Před 3 měsíci

      @@betsybarnicle8016 they should be locked up for many misdeeds

    • @annamossity8879
      @annamossity8879 Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@betsybarnicle8016What does Obama have to do with this, Betsy?! 🙄

  • @gerismith1218
    @gerismith1218 Před 3 měsíci +204

    I totally agree with her that this is driven by vicious men. The most candid interview on this subject.

    • @dixonpinfold2582
      @dixonpinfold2582 Před 3 měsíci

      In fairness, they've copied their playbook 100% from that of the radical feminists whom they, along with the rest of us, have been observing all their lives.
      In this way I consider that the feminists have been hoist with their own loathsome petard.

    • @t.g.7180
      @t.g.7180 Před 3 měsíci

      A lot of hatred for women out there.

  • @garypautard1069
    @garypautard1069 Před 3 měsíci +138

    The bewildered expression on Johns face is priceless. He is desperately trying to understand why another man would behave that way.

    • @1trompet146
      @1trompet146 Před 3 měsíci +6

      😂

    • @dragonfox2.058
      @dragonfox2.058 Před 3 měsíci +10

      He looks disgusted to me

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 měsíci +2

      Hahhhaaa 😅 Yeah, he is super male. No flower dress for him.

    • @renskev.470
      @renskev.470 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Actually, it's more often the men in super masculine jobs like the military, engineering, police officer, who seem addicted to cross dressing. So things are not always what they seem.

    • @jesus_built_my_hotrod
      @jesus_built_my_hotrod Před 3 měsíci +2

      @garypautard1069 just like the rest of real men

  • @anthonylemkendorf3114
    @anthonylemkendorf3114 Před 3 měsíci +259

    The best empirical explanation I’ve heard so far. This seems to explain the irrational and violent reaction to the reality check.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Narcicissts hate reality. It goes against their delusions.

  • @patscott6365
    @patscott6365 Před 3 měsíci +496

    It's MA'AM!!! Said by a masquerading man to a poor store clerk who politely called him "Sir". The RAGE was evident and bears out what Helen Joyce has just said. Narcissistic rage.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 Před 3 měsíci +23

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @VincitOmniaVeritas7
      @VincitOmniaVeritas7 Před 3 měsíci +50

      Don't forget throwing racks of products on the floor while on the way out of the store. Very feminine

    • @SheridanM-dc1nk
      @SheridanM-dc1nk Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@VincitOmniaVeritas7 these men are the most hyper masculine on the planet. There’s nothing feminine about them. They’re all straight, large, dominant men who get off on oppressing women and forcing people to comply. As Helen quoted, narcissistic rage.

    • @nusiadyk3718
      @nusiadyk3718 Před 3 měsíci +20

      Helen, admire you so much. Women are at huge risk from these men-gone-wrong. Feel sad for them but it cannot continue. REAL men need to claim their space.

    • @csiribicsiriba
      @csiribicsiriba Před 3 měsíci

      Or a tipple distilled nutjob

  • @SheridanM-dc1nk
    @SheridanM-dc1nk Před 3 měsíci +229

    Queen Helen on the money as always. These men are so much darker than you’d ever believe.

    • @inkoftheworld
      @inkoftheworld Před 3 měsíci +24

      I think this darkness is part of the problem of getting people to understand. It is not comfortable or easy to look the horror in it's face... easier to pretend they are just vulnerable people. (I think all of us do this with certain topics to some extent, it's a bit too much to handle all the darkness of humanity)

    • @SheridanM-dc1nk
      @SheridanM-dc1nk Před 3 měsíci +20

      @@inkoftheworld absolutely. Pretending they’re a marginalised, vulnerable group has been how they’ve been able to carry on this way, unquestioned and unchallenged

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +8

      @@inkoftheworldwe all (most of us deep down) know what the darkness is ….and,
      Why people are too afraid to speak on it.

    • @SheridanM-dc1nk
      @SheridanM-dc1nk Před 3 měsíci +11

      @@kittycat8222 so many people don’t even know about it. I had a response to a comment on the D M earlier from a woman still saying the whole live and let live, it doesn’t affect me and my daughter, it’s none of your business. People need to GET IT before it’s too late.

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +7

      @@SheridanM-dc1nk dang. Yeah I have read many people say (I will never say “to each their own/live and let live again” )and I never used to say that before but that fact that some people still say it and condone this garbage is sad.

  • @stevemiller2288
    @stevemiller2288 Před 3 měsíci +94

    First time hearing Helen Joyce. It won’t be my last. She’s great.

    • @ddrse
      @ddrse Před 3 měsíci

      She may come out

  • @Messier45_Pleiades
    @Messier45_Pleiades Před 3 měsíci +205

    Helen is brilliant.

  • @m1dn1ght5un
    @m1dn1ght5un Před 3 měsíci +238

    Helen Joyce is a treasure

  • @magswilson2039
    @magswilson2039 Před 3 měsíci +97

    She’s so good at explaining exactly what’s going on. Keep safe Helen.

  • @angelmessenger8240
    @angelmessenger8240 Před 3 měsíci +406

    The fantasist can't bear anyone who won't join their fantasy.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 Před 3 měsíci +20

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @pulchralutetia
      @pulchralutetia Před 3 měsíci +2

      Simply not true.

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +8

      @@pulchralutetiawhat about the 3 sisters at the movie theatre recently who encountered one?

    • @JohnCavendish-ql4jc
      @JohnCavendish-ql4jc Před 3 měsíci +1

      I was kicked out of a sorority at Yale just because I had a duck. It's so unfair !!!

    • @fatoumata7624
      @fatoumata7624 Před měsícem

      All people organize their life around the fantasy !

  • @victornewman9904
    @victornewman9904 Před 3 měsíci +151

    It's also about power.

    • @lornalong6468
      @lornalong6468 Před 3 měsíci

      Exactly.
      It's a characteristic that seeks control & power over others (domination) is a heavily male biased phenomenon.
      When men identify as women they don't automatically become passive and submissive (a socialised expectation women are raised to be).
      When those men transition to women, their psyche does not change.
      They remain largely narcissistic (the tendency to demand their personal fantasy should be recognised by others) with the need to dominate and suppress other females.

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +7

      Yup. Anything to get close to children

    • @jamesforbes5616
      @jamesforbes5616 Před 3 měsíci

      As everything on the Left is, from racial issues to the environment to the economy.

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento Před 3 měsíci +2

      Or women.
      On top. To have the power.

  • @deniseoxland151
    @deniseoxland151 Před 3 měsíci +60

    At last, someone is calling this what it is, thank you Helen Joyce ❤️

  • @brendanoconnell9651
    @brendanoconnell9651 Před 3 měsíci +45

    The look on John's face at the end is priceless. No words required.

    • @awlhunt
      @awlhunt Před 3 měsíci

      He opens his mouth as if the say something, then simply closes his mouth again…all of a sudden he’s just got nothing constructive to say or ask which is very unusual 😂

  • @DoubleDogDare54
    @DoubleDogDare54 Před 3 měsíci +47

    As a little kid I wanted to be a horse - a beautiful, spirited, swift horse. I used to PRETEND I was a horse. I'd run and buck and whinny and paw the ground, toss my head, snort and bolt away across the rangeland with my wild band of mares. Then my mother would call me in for supper and I'd turn into a human again. It was IMAGINATION. I was NOT a horse, I'd never been a horse and I never demanded anyone call me Man O'War or Trigger or Fury. So, as a little kid I was smarter than these grown men who PRETEND they are women, INSIST they are women - but they are MEN.

    • @RealDevastatia
      @RealDevastatia Před 3 měsíci +1

      I know, right? I like to pretend lots of things, but I don't want to BE those things.

    • @alpyki2588
      @alpyki2588 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Its also an issue of them just asking everyone to validate, frankly, their addiction/fetish. Because that's really what this is, making everyone play to a 24 hr. fantasy without asking people for consent. And if they say no? They try to ruin people's lives.
      No different than running around in a gimp suit, lurking around mannequins in shops, and getting offended when the clerk asks the person to leave because they are in fact, not a mannequin.

    • @MichelleDavis-xk8rc
      @MichelleDavis-xk8rc Před měsícem

      So what. Not relavant.

    • @DoubleDogDare54
      @DoubleDogDare54 Před měsícem +1

      @@MichelleDavis-xk8rc It actually is. You either accept reality or you are accepting fantasy as reality.
      That last is neither normal or healthy.

    • @MichelleDavis-xk8rc
      @MichelleDavis-xk8rc Před měsícem

      @DoubleDogDare54 it's tragic that social media has emboldened everyone to form opinions based on misinformation, to visit echo Chambers, to dumb down and hsve no intention of thinking for themselves or researching peer reviewed articles or have any interest in learning anything factually correct.

  • @kimlandefeld3005
    @kimlandefeld3005 Před 3 měsíci +116

    The ones I meet are so ANGRY. It's like they are misogynists and taking it to another level. Getting into our safe spaces and then DARING us to be upset so they can be mad and FORCE US TO COMPLY WITH THEIR WISHES.

    • @galacticangel5262
      @galacticangel5262 Před 3 měsíci +10

      Brilliantly observed and commented...thank you.

    • @klausgh
      @klausgh Před 3 měsíci +11

      If you ask them about their procedures gone through to 'live like a woman' they act as if you had peed in their coffee. Anything which questions their make believe role-play can cause a mental crisis for them.

    • @Sweet-fn6po
      @Sweet-fn6po Před 3 měsíci +4

      Like mental/emotional GRAPE

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +11

      This!!!!!!!
      This happened to me around 2008. . 6’7” man with a full on fake pregnant belly and nanny ruffle dress. Wanted to go in the girls changing room at a store I worked at. (Alone as a teen)in a half empty mall.

    • @smalltownhomesteadAC
      @smalltownhomesteadAC Před 3 měsíci

      Yes, there is a sadamachistic quality to it. Lia Thomas had a room in his house, a BDSM room, where he had pictures of women being tortured around the room. Just a nice little college girl.

  • @jaydenozmyer8819
    @jaydenozmyer8819 Před 3 měsíci +44

    We support you and love you ! One person who says what we all think and feel.

  • @goygoddess2822
    @goygoddess2822 Před 3 měsíci +92

    Thank you, this is very revealing and powerfully insightful!

  • @user-rh8fl8qz2z
    @user-rh8fl8qz2z Před 3 měsíci +42

    The MIND plays tricks on us - BIOLOGY DOES NOT.

  • @couscous4096
    @couscous4096 Před 3 měsíci +37

    These videos are small "vignettes" of a serious social and moral panic impacting on societies belief systems. Helen gives easily understandable and well researched explanations of the "madness" of Transgender Ideology impacting on all our lives.

  • @theophrastus3.056
    @theophrastus3.056 Před 3 měsíci +223

    So, they’re just nucking futs?

    • @nicko8580
      @nicko8580 Před 3 měsíci +50

      They are nuts and have nuts

    • @ClarenceCochran-ne7du
      @ClarenceCochran-ne7du Před 3 měsíci +26

      Yep, Psychotics all the way through.

    • @nickthepostpunk5766
      @nickthepostpunk5766 Před 3 měsíci

      Who are, and why?

    • @dlmsarge8329
      @dlmsarge8329 Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@nickthepostpunk5766 Why would you post a comment on a video you haven't watched??

    • @nickthepostpunk5766
      @nickthepostpunk5766 Před 3 měsíci

      @@dlmsarge8329 I’ve watched this video twice already. The comment I posted wasn’t about the video: it was two questions asking for clarification about the posted comment “Do, they’re just nucking futs”

  • @colinconnolly892
    @colinconnolly892 Před 3 měsíci +52

    “It calls me Ma’am or else it gets the tantrum again”

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Oooh yeah “they” are NOT willing or ready to talk about the layers of truth behind that movie character.

    • @visitjessiechan
      @visitjessiechan Před 3 měsíci +4

      Buffalo Bill was the archetype of those men we see today, very accurate

    • @nickieglazer33
      @nickieglazer33 Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@visitjessiechanYes, spot on.

    • @MichelleDavis-xk8rc
      @MichelleDavis-xk8rc Před měsícem +1

      Ok ma'am

  • @drannoc100
    @drannoc100 Před 3 měsíci +344

    Where are all the psychologists and psychiatrists? Aren’t they supposed to be helping people who can’t adjust or out of touch of reality set their course and record straight? Are they all just want to be politically correct?

    • @PvtSchlock
      @PvtSchlock Před 3 měsíci +37

      The professional organization for head shrinkers changed the DSM about a decade ago.

    • @diogenes9524
      @diogenes9524 Před 3 měsíci +74

      Their professional associations and regulators have been captured by the mechanism HJ describes. The root cause is 'progressive' ideology in academia.

    • @squidandchips
      @squidandchips Před 3 měsíci +21

      I wonder how much of medicine, like education, has become a business.... it depends where you live, I guess... but customers bring money one way or another so they will be given whatever they want by the provider. Pushing them away means less money, and thus is a poorer business model.

    • @secularmagahat4933
      @secularmagahat4933 Před 3 měsíci +51

      @@squidandchips A patient cured is a customer lost.

    • @squidandchips
      @squidandchips Před 3 měsíci

      @@secularmagahat4933 there doesn't seem to be a shortage of customers, especially as the ideology grows and is more accepted.

  • @pheebsbee1280
    @pheebsbee1280 Před 3 měsíci +91

    Ask any female s3x worker how many clients ask to dress up in women’s clothing and be called a l3sbian and the number always comes in at roughly 3 - 5%

    • @ohsweetmystery
      @ohsweetmystery Před 3 měsíci +12

      🤮

    • @leahcanton
      @leahcanton Před 3 měsíci +14

      I used to know a woman who was a dancer and she said the kinda same thing.

    • @constantinosschinas4503
      @constantinosschinas4503 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Yes, but a large portion of men do not go with public girls.

    • @ChristineMeyer-hs9rg
      @ChristineMeyer-hs9rg Před 3 měsíci +6

      You have to take that percentage from the percentage of men who use these services - not from the total population.

    • @constantinosschinas4503
      @constantinosschinas4503 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@ChristineMeyer-hs9rg Why? You could have perversions and not use "public services". Saying 3% of men, without any explanation, automatically means of all men. It would be rather interesting actually to compare men that pay for gratification, vs free natural gratification (socializing/flirting), vs artificial (tinder etc.).

  • @alimannion4095
    @alimannion4095 Před 3 měsíci +23

    Our brilliant Helen. ❤❤❤. I love her.

  • @edwardst-pierre1020
    @edwardst-pierre1020 Před 3 měsíci +66

    This woman is one woman who has her head on the right way.

    • @natashaj9169
      @natashaj9169 Před 3 měsíci +3

      One.... 😂 (I'm a woman btw) ... a lot of women are supporting this

    • @edwardst-pierre1020
      @edwardst-pierre1020 Před 3 měsíci

      @@natashaj9169 this is what is wrong with society today , ever since the women got the privilege to vote they now think that they can ruin everything and no one is speaking out well not in my back yard.

    • @dragonfox2.058
      @dragonfox2.058 Před 3 měsíci

      @@edwardst-pierre1020 Correlation is NOT causation. Might as well blame the Industrial Revolution, makes more sense

    • @edwardst-pierre1020
      @edwardst-pierre1020 Před 3 měsíci

      @@natashaj9169 like I have been saying for a while that feminist have been asking for equality for a long time and there is no going back. But I believe that you never thought that Men would want to be equal to women or want to be just like them or like you. Mental health issues are what's wrong.

  • @OujiDarkmatter
    @OujiDarkmatter Před 3 měsíci +42

    As a born female who rejected feminism after reading Greer's book,Mum's copy around age 12,this newlyish designed and unleashed social programming by the thought and speech police to me is ridiculous.I will read this lady's work asap.

    • @geobloxmodels1186
      @geobloxmodels1186 Před 3 měsíci +9

      Her book 'Trans' is very good. Also consider reading Abigail Shrier's book 'Irreversible Damage'.

    • @tranquility9325
      @tranquility9325 Před 3 měsíci +11

      The word feminism never had negative connotations. It just meant that women could do the same work as men and want to have equal pay and equal rights.
      Then, ppl, in their infinite lack of wisdom, turned it into a negative thing, and it began to lose its *true* meaning.

    • @danceteachermom
      @danceteachermom Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@tranquility9325 I do think it was more than that and purposefully coordinated using Gloria Steinham.... Who worked for the CIA! Why would they tap a person from the CIA to spearhead that "campaign" of feminism...? 🤔 (Hint, maybe to start a Marxist movement to destroy the family) jmho

  • @rongablue
    @rongablue Před 3 měsíci +17

    If there’s a mismatch between the mind and the body then surely we should change the mind - not the body.

  • @michaela.abbott222
    @michaela.abbott222 Před 3 měsíci +28

    The latest injurious incident was in Massachusetts against young girls. Dude ‘activist’ stabbed 3 sisters in an AMC Movie Theater from the seat behind them. A fourth at another location. He/it was running from an incident in Connecticut.

    • @clogs4956
      @clogs4956 Před 3 měsíci +1

      😳

    • @michaela.abbott222
      @michaela.abbott222 Před 3 měsíci

      @@clogs4956
      I'll send link if you can't find it. Incident was recent.

    • @slacktoryrecords4193
      @slacktoryrecords4193 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I wrote a long reply to this filling in more details but YT deleted it automatically. Bizarre. His name is Jared Ravizza and he st@bbed a man fatally in Deep River CT before going on to commit the random attacks.

    • @tinabenson1492
      @tinabenson1492 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Omg...I heard something about that & wo wondered what the motive was!!
      Figures! 🙄

  • @Ron-dx9wq
    @Ron-dx9wq Před 3 měsíci +21

    Carl Jung described this as "overidentification with an archetype", like blokes that think they're Napoleon or Jesus. Insane. Don't play along with their delusion.

  • @geralldus
    @geralldus Před 3 měsíci +29

    A breath of fresh air, excellent!
    You mention the defence that trans men can make when challenged. This seems to illustrate a powerful internal conflict where something is valued and longed for but also rejected and feared, so any external intervention can provoke a very passionate and often violent reaction. Bringing such insight into consciousness could be very painful and confusing for them, so attack will tend to be the default position. How you sensibly address such situations when mixed with toxic and polerising political ideology is difficult to see.

    • @n0odles86
      @n0odles86 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Why make excuses for these grown men?

    • @geralldus
      @geralldus Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@n0odles86 To tackle any problem, first you have to establish its etiology. Children like to apportion blame, where as adults strive to understand and then seek solutions.

    • @n0odles86
      @n0odles86 Před 3 měsíci

      @@geralldus there is no reasoning with those types. And trying to understand them is impossible. They're all pawn sick and violent.

    • @kimmypossible6717
      @kimmypossible6717 Před 3 měsíci

      They act rather aggressively *because* they are biologically male.

    • @LucyOLastic
      @LucyOLastic Před 2 měsíci

      @@n0odles86 You mean why bother trying to understand them? That is laziness. You come here to gawp at "freaks" not to educate yourselves.

  • @nikobellic570
    @nikobellic570 Před 3 měsíci +25

    Thanks for clipping your excellent interview with Dame Helen.

  • @sage1d590
    @sage1d590 Před 3 měsíci +16

    The clue is often the type of clothes they choose. Don’t see many dressing in Islamic female garb, or the androgynous type stuff actual women often relax in.

  • @ladyabstinencelevain8696
    @ladyabstinencelevain8696 Před 3 měsíci +12

    Spot on Helen

  • @jill-ti7oe
    @jill-ti7oe Před 3 měsíci +18

    Honest Helen, TY.

  • @Lilly-uf7tn
    @Lilly-uf7tn Před 3 měsíci +3

    This was so fascinating. The public needs to hear more about this.

  • @NotEvanJoeKeane
    @NotEvanJoeKeane Před 3 měsíci +78

    "It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again"

  • @margaretchayka6878
    @margaretchayka6878 Před 3 měsíci +27

    What is super creepy are the "trans widows" coming out and discovering that these men married them in order to more closely study the women, learn makeup and mannerisms, etc. So flipping creepy.

    • @megsley
      @megsley Před 3 měsíci

      what's even worse is when the man "transitions" and clearly tries to SWF their own wives 😬

    • @alpyki2588
      @alpyki2588 Před 3 měsíci +6

      And worse is that they are imitating the widows. It would be one thing if it was just learning to be a woman, its even more bizarre when they seem to want to become them.

    • @eyeshalfwayopeneyeshalfway2603
      @eyeshalfwayopeneyeshalfway2603 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Awwww that’s sad for the widows, ugh.

    • @LucyOLastic
      @LucyOLastic Před 2 měsíci

      On a par with "I Married a Monster from Outer Space."
      Trans "widows" (bless them) are the ex wives of men who have "come out." They want to sue on the grounds that their partners were "lying" to them....or not being entirely honest. Fair enough...but if they had been, maybe they might have been more accommodating and given lessons instead....it happens you know. Trying to be a normal adult is not an easy thing. Especially when you have another identity vying for attention that will not go away.

    • @MichelleDavis-xk8rc
      @MichelleDavis-xk8rc Před měsícem

      @@margaretchayka6878 citation please

  • @jp80a68
    @jp80a68 Před 3 měsíci +35

    This woman is a HERO !
    Anyone who claims to be a woman KNOWS that the one thing all women share is fear of male predators, so if they felt that fear, as real women do, they would not go into female spaces.
    I am amazed to find that Knitting is sexy, due to being disabled and unable to do other things, I spend hours knitting, I am obviously over sexed, I am rushing off to tell my husband, he'll be delighted.

  • @FoodNerds
    @FoodNerds Před 3 měsíci +6

    Finally, someone is talking about this besides just the comments!

  • @peterdurr3242
    @peterdurr3242 Před 3 měsíci +19

    Silence of the lambs. This movie had a great impact on today’s society. The fantasy projection of a narcissist has an original route. Look toward movies and the child being influenced around their environment~sexual intercourse by parents while they sleep 😴 yet the sleeping has awoken in the future

  • @outoforbit00
    @outoforbit00 Před 3 měsíci +46

    It sounds like C.S. Lewis's definition of evil, which goes like this, a person sees a beautiful painting or person and instead of objectively admiring it, their first reaction is to want to become that beauty.

    • @Mouse_Metal
      @Mouse_Metal Před 3 měsíci

      To destroy the beauty and to become the beauty. I can see the same pattern in rich, spoiled fashionistas dressing in fur coats made of objectively cute, fluffy animals. I wonder if there is some connection to sad!st!c z00philia...

    • @cherkovision
      @cherkovision Před 3 měsíci +5

      As one of the 3% of men with autogynephelia, this is exactly how I describe it. I'm attracted to women, and for some reason I want to BE what I'm attracted to, which I acknowledge is weirdly narcissistic. And narcissism is the basis of evil.

    • @outoforbit00
      @outoforbit00 Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@cherkovision what you described there is envy. Envy is been sad at the sight of another's goods and having a desire to want it for oneself, even unjustly and wishing harm to another person for what they have.
      I think to become that which you like is a denial of the envy you have.
      Anyway, there is a remedy. Been charitable, in the sense of been happy for another's success, without having regard for yourself and been grateful for what you do actually have and been willing to share your goods, whether it be material things, skills, talents or your time.
      Envy is a dark place to be, been charitable and giving brings a person into the light.

    • @cherkovision
      @cherkovision Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@outoforbit00 I know what envy feels like, and I know what autogynephelia feels like, so believe me that they are two completely different things.
      I desire to be physically fit, and I'm sometimes envious of those who are, but that's a very different feeling. When I'm envious, like you said, I feel negatively toward those who are physically fit and the thought of them failing at other aspects of life brings me pleasure. Autogynephelia, on the other hand, involves fantasizing about having a different body and taking pleasure in the fantasy. This doesn't involve any negative feelings toward anyone.

    • @outoforbit00
      @outoforbit00 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@cherkovision A fleeting moment of envy of someone is one thing but wishing that person's failure and it giving you pleasure is quite another, I now can see how this is connected to agp and I have learned something about it I hadn't known.

  • @kittycat8222
    @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +9

    When and if we refuse to BARE FALSE WITNESS (lie/live a lie) for them…the real masculine heart shows its self. They become provoked into demonic attackers.

    • @michelleduncan9965
      @michelleduncan9965 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Well said kitty. Ive seen videos ... ine on some show where a male who was dressed as a female & claiming ro "be" a female shifted into attack mode & verbally threatened Ben Shapiro with physical violence. If my memory serves, I think the male who was dressed as a female physically leaned toward Ben so as to amplify his verbal threat to Ben - trying to intimidate him ... that core inner male thing you posted about.

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci

      @@michelleduncan9965 yes!! I’ll never forget that clip.

    • @RealDevastatia
      @RealDevastatia Před 3 měsíci +1

      A real masculine heart doesn't become a demonic attacker when confronted with reality.

    •  Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@RealDevastatiaThank you. Many a men nowadays have learned wisdom of the heart and understand that what msm is propagating as inherently "masculine" is usually just stereotipically psychopathic, narcissistic and is found in women as well.

  • @r.m5883
    @r.m5883 Před 3 měsíci +2

    My dad is one and i always felt creeped out from him and as if i had to hide thru modesty and developing a more masculine wall. When he told us he was doing that, for me it all clicked why i found him so creepy and found femininity too vulnerable around him, working on bringing back my feminity and telling myself it’s safe now

  • @eugenejoseph7076
    @eugenejoseph7076 Před 3 měsíci +11

    "in the last days, people will be lovers of themselves." If you anyone cares, this phenomena is as old at the Bible. Nothing new under the sun.

  • @galaxyn3214
    @galaxyn3214 Před 3 měsíci +13

    It has been observed that some male cuttlefish will disguise themselves as females to deceive their rivals and gain access to females who would otherwise be beyond their reach. Some humans seems to have adopted this strategy. 🦑

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +1

      They do it to gain the female though (through hetero intentions).
      Some snakes have a tale that looks like a spider to trick prey. That proves a lot of science(evolution) wrong. Bringing animals into the conversation only convolutes things usually.

    • @megsley
      @megsley Před 3 měsíci

      the incel to transwoman pipeline is real.

  • @thanksfernuthin
    @thanksfernuthin Před 3 měsíci +19

    Tolerance, not acceptance. Some people are now claiming liberalism as a concept can't work due to the societal carnage we're seeing now. But true, classical liberalism just means tolerate others. There's a reason why we've looked down on and tried to minimize the effect of perverts on society. I'd say most people have a weird thing they like. Have the decency to keep it to yourself. If people find out we should be tolerant. But we should never have to say "Good for you!" when we know it's not.

    • @SheridanM-dc1nk
      @SheridanM-dc1nk Před 3 měsíci +5

      I won’t tolerate nor accept them. These people have been known to try and legitimise “MAPs”, pdfiles…

    • @thanksfernuthin
      @thanksfernuthin Před 3 měsíci

      @@SheridanM-dc1nk You won't tolerate them? So, if a guy gets caught wearing women's underwear... you put them in jail? Is that where you want to go with this? Let's put pedophiles in jail, but I think your way will explode in your face.

    • @kimmypossible6717
      @kimmypossible6717 Před 3 měsíci +1

      There is a difference between having a kink and having a fetish. Autogynephilia is a fetish and it ought to be frowned upon.

    • @michelleduncan9965
      @michelleduncan9965 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I strongly agree.

  • @gardengate1339
    @gardengate1339 Před 3 měsíci +6

    This is so very obvious to everyone in the real world.

  •  Před 3 měsíci +10

    I'd love to hear about autoandrophilia. I know a straight woman who is very masculine and obviously has a desire to be a man and to be part of male spaces.

    • @glasslinger
      @glasslinger Před 3 měsíci +2

      Sorry, politically not in style.

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci +4

      You cannot “see” her undenying proof of arousal as mentioned in the study above 😂 . The men’s reactions made the study profoundly unbiased

    • @basylpeterjones
      @basylpeterjones Před 3 měsíci

      There's no such thing: only men have paraphilias.

  • @nikobellic570
    @nikobellic570 Před 3 měsíci +16

    CZcams hates this word and similar ones like kink and fetish. My comments have disappeared so often

    • @slacktoryrecords4193
      @slacktoryrecords4193 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Yes. I left a couple replies on this video over the weekend and not only were they removed, but I was unable to comment on any video for 24 hours. Why? “Hate speech.” My speech was hardly hateful.

  • @pinballrobbie
    @pinballrobbie Před 3 měsíci +5

    Imagine if the whole country had to pander to whatever fantasy any person had.

  • @elizabethabrandenburg-andr7916
    @elizabethabrandenburg-andr7916 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Well thought out. However, unless and until the DSM-V stops being a "political arm of the insurance industry" there will never be any psychiatrists or psychologists who will treat this disorder because they can't get paid! That's the totality of the situation.

  • @danoyse8233
    @danoyse8233 Před 3 měsíci +1

    4 minutes and 40 seconds. The man listened. Asked for clarification. Never interrupted and looked dumbfounded at the end. Thank you for this concise clear information Helen. I hope all your information is carried home by the respectful gentleman. There is nothing wrong with being a man 👍

  • @leepd1
    @leepd1 Před 3 měsíci +18

    My goodness.. humans are complex creatures.. I feel so normal when I hear this stuff.

    • @inkoftheworld
      @inkoftheworld Před 3 měsíci +6

      lol, for real. We need like, normal pride... take pride in just being a regular person.

    • @natashaj9169
      @natashaj9169 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Lol yeah 😂

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 Před 3 měsíci

      @@inkoftheworldit’s called righteousness

  • @mabelblanc2226
    @mabelblanc2226 Před 3 měsíci +8

    I'm listening to her words but watching his facial expression of horror and😂 One must maintain a sense of humor or lose it. Agree 100% with what she is saying.

  • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
    @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Před 3 měsíci +10

    Women married to a suddenly demanding, crossdressing husband are at risk for their physical safety. Sole data in the world on experiences of 60 trans widows at channel in the handle name here.

  • @johnl5316
    @johnl5316 Před 3 měsíci +15

    He has been in a bubble of some sort if he had not heard of it

    • @petersmithyy4556
      @petersmithyy4556 Před 3 měsíci

      I guess I am too because I have never heard of this crazy s*** before

    • @slacktoryrecords4193
      @slacktoryrecords4193 Před 3 měsíci

      Activists pretend that “AGP” is just a myth.

    •  Před 3 měsíci

      Kudos to you for being in the know, you pioneer, you.

  • @hanh3000
    @hanh3000 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This really resonates. It really make sense about the eroticism. It almost seem these men are ultra fixated on female. It also makes sense many of them lean towards the hetero side. I bet Lea Thomas is of this type. They wish they can be lesbian. But lesbian is very off put by males.

    • @smalltownhomesteadAC
      @smalltownhomesteadAC Před 3 měsíci

      He had a bedroom with BDSM gear, and pictures of women being sexually tortured all around the room. You are spot on! You can find some youtube video’s about this.

  • @baba.mkhulu
    @baba.mkhulu Před 3 měsíci +6

    i also don't hate these folk. but they do need help. it's clearly a mental health issue...& as with most health issues, treatment is needed. we need to stop enabling thus deviant behaviour & focus on fact based science. but, as with alcoholism & similar addictions...1st there must be acknowledgement of the problem, before a solution can even be considered. what a mess we've allowed to develop. 🙏🏽

  • @marcellowoodford4048
    @marcellowoodford4048 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This Lady speaks Such "Normal" Sense! x M

  • @Pa-we1lw
    @Pa-we1lw Před 3 měsíci +6

    Wow. A logical explanation.

  • @juliesheard2122
    @juliesheard2122 Před 3 měsíci +5

    They are indeed vicious. My eldest son is partner to one.

  • @AngelfromGenX
    @AngelfromGenX Před 3 měsíci +11

    I believe many of these males were SA'd or fell into the hands of male p-does as children. There's a great deal of shame brought on the victim, especially for a child. I think some of them literally hold themselves together by telling themselves they were _supposed_ to be a girl, and that's why boys or men did that to them. Without that, they have to confront the trauma, and that's something they'd rather die than deal with.

    • @dragonfox2.058
      @dragonfox2.058 Před 3 měsíci +2

      All the ones I've known were horribly abused, you're right

    • @michelleduncan9965
      @michelleduncan9965 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I have wondered of what you described is what happened to many of the them ... for them to end up as they are @Angel.

    • @dragonfox2.058
      @dragonfox2.058 Před 3 měsíci

      @@michelleduncan9965 Trans is also a great way to cover all that up for the parents too

    • @peterbelanger4094
      @peterbelanger4094 Před 3 měsíci

      It worse than you think,

    • @peterbelanger4094
      @peterbelanger4094 Před 3 měsíci

      not just what you spoke of,

  • @FlashdogFul28
    @FlashdogFul28 Před měsícem

    Not seen Helen talk about this before thank you for asking the question.

  • @rdptll
    @rdptll Před 3 měsíci +1

    “narcissistic rage” a perfect phrase

  • @VAMR-vc7xg
    @VAMR-vc7xg Před 3 měsíci +4

    Helen Joyce is always spot on when she explains the New Gender Activism.

  • @azimuth5620
    @azimuth5620 Před 3 měsíci +8

    It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again 😬

  • @insidiousmischka
    @insidiousmischka Před 3 měsíci +4

    Did she say 3% of ALL men are afflicted with autogynophilia?

  • @zoehorn2551
    @zoehorn2551 Před 9 dny

    Very interesting. She’s very articulate. It’s be interesting to go further in the research and how the outcomes affect society and power, in general.

  • @Lycurgus1982
    @Lycurgus1982 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I can't think of anything more empowering then believing I can be what ever I want. Just the idea that I can transform what I am into something I am not. If you are a man who thinks this way about being a women you should really reevaluate what you think it means to be homosexual.

    • @basylpeterjones
      @basylpeterjones Před 3 měsíci +1

      Autogynephiles are not homosexual: they are all straight.

    • @ijansk
      @ijansk Před 25 dny

      You are mixing up things because you don't understand what autogynephilia is. Most autogynephilic men are heterosexual.

    • @basylpeterjones
      @basylpeterjones Před 25 dny

      @@ijansk All autogynephilic men are heterosexual, not just most.

  • @SpecterVonBaren
    @SpecterVonBaren Před 3 měsíci +1

    The reason its gone so far is because everyone that spoke out about it got shouted down, often by women.

  • @Ana_crusis
    @Ana_crusis Před 3 měsíci +18

    It's that simple

  • @brentoutashape9141
    @brentoutashape9141 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Society: We accept and tolerate a lot of things we don't approve of, but some lines can't be crossed!
    Pedos: Oooh, look at that sweet little line...By the way, we're MAPs now.

  • @amyvalent-ribot8367
    @amyvalent-ribot8367 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Fascinating analysis.

  • @evelynklaassen5782
    @evelynklaassen5782 Před 3 měsíci +29

    Sick!

  • @bernmahan1162
    @bernmahan1162 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Eddie Izzard used to joke he was "a lesbian in a man's body". Fast forward to today's Guardian - "Hamlet review... One-woman juggling act etc". He is trying to perform Hamlet as a "one woman" show! No surprises, he fails miserably.

  • @dragonfox2.058
    @dragonfox2.058 Před 3 měsíci +2

    A friend of mine calls it sexualized narcissism

  • @arteasybynicolaswaine6149
    @arteasybynicolaswaine6149 Před 3 měsíci +3

    thank you!

  • @cheriesmith4087
    @cheriesmith4087 Před 14 dny

    This was really informative, thank you.

  • @virginiamitchell9899
    @virginiamitchell9899 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Wow that explains a lot!!

  • @reapthewhirlwind4166
    @reapthewhirlwind4166 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The Stonewall riot of June 28th 1969 was kicked off by two trans people. Marcia P Johnson and stormy delarverie. The lgbtq community can never deny this

  • @badbenito
    @badbenito Před 3 měsíci +4

    Helen Joyce is not a psychiatrist or medical doctor. She has no business presenting her opinions as facts.

    • @jessicanolan7408
      @jessicanolan7408 Před 2 měsíci +2

      The man who discovered autogynephilia has personally linked to this video and accoladed it. So no- dead wrong.

    • @badbenito
      @badbenito Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@jessicanolan7408 Again, NOT A MEDICAL DOCTOR. Ray Blanchard is a quack.

  • @GNeuman
    @GNeuman Před 3 měsíci +6

    India Willoughby anyone?

  • @Gokiburi777
    @Gokiburi777 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Dude. It’s not that complex. When government laws favor women, culture idolizes women and churches say that women are more godlike, what did you think would happen???

    • @julzhepburn3688
      @julzhepburn3688 Před 3 měsíci

      If man was made in image of God ,and god in western culture has been Male since the begining of christanity ,,why havent flocks of women change to being men ?

    • @julzhepburn3688
      @julzhepburn3688 Před 3 měsíci

      I agree that theres a lot of very vicious angry trans getting airtime ,
      And i think 3% estimate of this condition is WAY to Low,,,,and i wonder what % are just disguising their wish to get access to children , ,,or previously be defined as " flashers " or "peeping tom"s" .
      Basically being so confused about your sexualty is always going to be a threat ,if that person is Male ,,,
      I find the whole thing ridicuous because the whole debate is with those suffering from it ,,
      Instead of people who are educated and informed about the actual condition ,,this vlog is one of the first that isnt just some crazy trans man losing on camera ,,
      So glad to see this Lady speak out.and miracously get airtime ,,bravo

  • @cxBuck
    @cxBuck Před 3 měsíci

    Right on sister.

  • @asamcbrez4930
    @asamcbrez4930 Před 3 měsíci +1

    It's probably already been said, but a lesbian knows who a woman is and it's not a selfish biological man.

  • @sarajillianshepherd3858
    @sarajillianshepherd3858 Před 3 měsíci

    Helen's description makes so much sense.

  • @shazzynaughtygirlsmusic
    @shazzynaughtygirlsmusic Před 3 měsíci +1

    its misogyny in a dress. the jealous, furious rage is directed at all women, and they have access to our young daughters. It's criminal

  • @alastairgordon-forbes3139
    @alastairgordon-forbes3139 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This insanity has to stop.

  • @klausgh
    @klausgh Před 3 měsíci +3

    Very simply summarised and true.

  • @Teaselpoppy
    @Teaselpoppy Před 3 měsíci

    Excellent.

  • @C.Church
    @C.Church Před dnem

    Men get extremely vicious when they're entitled to something they aren't entitled to? Nooo. I never knew that!

  • @TheEGA4421
    @TheEGA4421 Před 3 měsíci +9

    Are there any countries in the world that still have insane asylums?

  • @stephobindmo678
    @stephobindmo678 Před 3 měsíci

    Holly 💩
    Everyone needs to see this clip !

  • @diellensy27
    @diellensy27 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Liam "Lia" Thomas comes to mind.

  • @onazram1
    @onazram1 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I've been describing this trans phenomenon as being crossdressing from day one, and they are taken it to extremes..

  • @user-vj4vs4zu3h
    @user-vj4vs4zu3h Před 3 měsíci +1

    i understand that i have the wrong chromosomes thus i'm genetically predisposed to look scary and repulsive. i do my best to counter it. i don't blame anyone because i judge strangers based on their looks too. i can't change the world, but i can change people's perception of me, to some degree. and i don't want to be perceived as a monster. not because i have ulterior motives. i just don't think that i'm a monster or should be treated as such

  • @velvetindigonight
    @velvetindigonight Před 3 měsíci +4

    Serious subject obviously but John's face is a picture!

  • @avril4421
    @avril4421 Před 3 měsíci

    Well said. Very very good explanation.

  • @timlewis7218
    @timlewis7218 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This is likely the result of a developmental split. The same behavior exists across the board in MH its a form of DID.