Is Your Dog Hyper At Home? How To Teach Relaxation.

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  • čas přidán 18. 06. 2024
  • Teaching a dog to calm down when you are out with them amidst exciting events can seem difficult, especially if your dog can’t seem to chill at home when nothing is going on! It might be that your dog seems always to want to be doing something or continually demand your attention. We’re covering why your dog expects you to interact with them constantly and what you can do about it so they can learn how to relax and settle down.
    In the episode you'll hear:
    • What creates a dog who expects to be entertained by you every minute.
    • How your dog expecting to be entertained creates problems with relaxing.
    • Why it’s important for our puppies and dogs to learn how to chill out.
    • About using the foundations of Crate Games for your dog to relax.
    • Why having dog beds will help your dog learn to settle down.
    • What I do with puppies or dogs who chew their beds.
    • The types of chew toys I use, including raw marrowbones, and the risks.
    • Why you should never give your dog rawhide chews and what else to avoid.
    • The steps to help your dog relax in a bed in daily life with you.
    • How to help your dog or puppy get used to you leaving the room.
    • The reason that your dog chilling starts small for the behavior to grow.
    Resources:
    1. Get Crate Games Online - get.crategames.com/y/start
    2. Podcast Episode 134: How To Teach A Dog Stay WITHOUT Luring, Collar Pops Or Using The Word “Stay” - • How To Teach A Dog To ...
    3. Podcast Episode 98: Puppy Home Alone: Are You Creating Chaos or Calm? - • Puppy Home Alone: Are ...
    4. Podcast Episode 55: Pro Dog Trainer’s Guide to Toy Selection - • Pro Dog Trainer's Guid...
    5. Podcast Episode 83: The Dog Training You Do When You’re Not Dog Training - • The Dog Training You D...
    6. Large Portable Travel Pet Bed - dogsthat.com/favs/#tve-jump-1...
    P.S. Subscribe to our CZcams Channel so you get notifications of new videos!
    Timestamps:
    00:00 What Do People Mean by “Behavior Junkie” Dog?
    02:08 Big Mistake: Teaching Dogs to Expect 24/7 Entertainment
    03:04 Why Disruptive Dogs Demand Constant Interaction
    04:11 How to Train Your Dog to Chill (Relaxation Conditioning)
    05:03 Your Dog’s Mental Health Depends on This
    05:33 These Games Teach a Dog to Calm Down (Step by Step)
    07:51 What Your Home Needs to Ease Dog Hyperactivity
    09:25 How to Stop Dogs and Puppies Destroying Their Beds
    10:35 My Top Dog Chew Recommendations
    12:24 Warning: Never Let Your Dog Chew These Common “Treats”
    13:27 Real Life “Relaxation” Training with Your Dog
    15:11 Try This if Your Dog Cries When You Leave the Room
    16:22 Grow Your Dog’s Desire to Chill by Planting These Seeds
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    Dogs That is brought to you by Susan Garrett and the Say Yes Dog Training Team.
    Susan Garrett’s interest in animal behaviour started at the University of Guelph where she earned a Bachelor of Science majoring in Animal Science. Since then she has developed into a preeminent dog trainer and canine sports instructor and competitor. Susan is one of the most successful agility competitors of the last three decades. She has won multiple Gold Medals at National or World Championship events with every dog she has ever owned over the past 30 years.
    A natural teacher and an entertaining speaker, Susan is world renowned as a leading educator of dog trainers. Her understanding of how to apply science-based learning principles to both competitive and family pet dog training has been pivotal in changing how dogs are trained.
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Komentáře • 64

  • @DogsThat
    @DogsThat  Před 2 lety +2

    Get Crate Games Online: get.crategames.com/y/start

  • @diggler64
    @diggler64 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Listening to this podcast while my dog is staring at me and whining

  • @lbuchananify
    @lbuchananify Před 2 lety +10

    I learned fairly quickly with our new puppy that time taken to “chill” seems to result in a better behaved and calmer dog overall. I think it’s like the advice given to people to take time to meditate during the day for a better sleep at night….just training the brain to find peace.

  • @annettefry9347
    @annettefry9347 Před 2 lety +17

    Boy did I need this podcast. Susan described my relationship with my dog to a "T". I have created a barking monster who expects to be entertained constantly. What a difference implementing her advice has made on the first day. Thank you. I was really at my wits end.

    • @jamieshaw9102
      @jamieshaw9102 Před rokem +1

      this makes me feel like i am not alone! i have also created a barking monster. we have been working on it for a couple weeks and things are definitely getting better!

    • @deborahsexton3871
      @deborahsexton3871 Před 8 měsíci

      😆🥰🐾🐾🐾

    • @brooklynnmcloud1470
      @brooklynnmcloud1470 Před měsícem

      My friend says it Mom Energy. The second I get home she kicks it into fifth gear.

  • @blind8723
    @blind8723 Před rokem +3

    So I had been convinced that the reason my 7 month old border collie was so amped up was because he had “pent up energy”. This is totally false.
    We are now only on day 2 of conditioning him with the bed method…. Worked like a charm. No whining, barking, or destructive behavior.
    I was worried we messed him up too bad to recover at 7 months. If this is you don’t freak out. Put them in a pen and reward them frequently when they are quite and calm. We reserved his food for when he was calm and quite. Now he chooses the bed and is much more peaceful. You can do it too!! Don’t try to “tire out” your herding dog. You won’t be able to. Condition them to be calm in the house.

  • @Duckies1023
    @Duckies1023 Před rokem +4

    Yup! My boy is only “happy” in his crate if I am in bed with lights off ooooooor if I am not in they house at all. I have inadvertently created a “behavior junkie”. Excited to learn!! Thank you!!!

  • @mandyhenderson2800
    @mandyhenderson2800 Před 2 lety +10

    Thanks for permission to get more dog beds!! I love your podcasts XXX

  • @gypsydal
    @gypsydal Před 2 lety +6

    Oh my gosh…your channel may just be the difference my dog and I need. I am so glad I’ve discovered you. I have a low excitement threshold, intelligent, super sociable 7 month husky pup. I am not new to huskies, but this guy is another world in terms of training. Your tips are already making a world of difference. This one is especially needed as he has NEVER been able to relax without encouragement . Thank you so, so much for helping point out where I’m making mistakes and what I need to do to help fix them 😀👍😊

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety +2

      So glad you are here, Sarah! Thank you for tuning in and for your lovely note. You've got this!

  • @sdeaglefeather
    @sdeaglefeather Před rokem +1

    Ah ha! Found another one!
    Thank you.

  • @carrieraupp757
    @carrieraupp757 Před rokem +1

    This is what I needed to hear from my crazy aunt Susan 😅today

  • @ImpossiGirl
    @ImpossiGirl Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for a great video. I just found your channel. I like your way of training dogs. It's what I try to do at home with my goldendoodle. She's a hyperspeed, happy and crazy girl that loves to say hello to all people.
    Instead of several dog beds, we use "rug". She has her own small blanket, we bring when we visit others. Any mat, rug or blanket will do. She knows that all four paws has to stay on any square, on the floor, I point at and say "rug". What she does on the rug is her choice.
    I normally offer some kind of toy or a snack when we're out.
    One time we went to a restaurant where dogs are allowed, and I put her blanket under the table. She just went to sleep. Before rug training she would have been like fireworks at the end of a leash 😂

  • @trishbech9082
    @trishbech9082 Před 2 lety +5

    Super great advice… Susan, I really appreciate the clear “How to’s” step by step, with variations. ♥️
    Over the past few podcasts and your program, i learned that what I thought used to be “the dog”, was actually MY miscommunication and lack of clear, consistent training. Thank you Susan. Very helpful! 😊

  • @rosieleat6868
    @rosieleat6868 Před rokem +1

    Oh what a spot on podcast! I am a subscriber here, which led me to enrol with 'Home School the Dog'. What a fabulous programme! I have had all sorts of dogs all my life and trained them all and did things with them 24/7, I loved my dogs, but this is something else that takes communication with my dog to a whole other level. It is so interesting and so much fun to see her working things out for herself. we are becoming a closer and closer team, a continuously developing relationship I'm so happy! My (adopted) dog was always full of life and confident generally but has become even more so and has improved in areas where she wasn't so confident, it's so great to see.

  • @DennyLobach
    @DennyLobach Před rokem

    The only 'thing' Bucko can't chew threw 🤔 is a giant Kong😊 Little PB smeared inside he is busy
    and happy.
    Oh!! .... The commercial at the end. 👍😊 🏆

  • @titanbuck7
    @titanbuck7 Před 2 lety +1

    Marrow bones were responsible for my old dog breaking her top molars. One when she essentially was 3 or 4 and then I decided to try again at 11 or 12 to see if she Mayne had gotten some wisdom. Nope. She used the floor to set her bottom jaw against for leverage and leaned hard down on the bone as she bit down. The tooth gave way before the bone. So that cost some money for the dental plus extraction and antibiotics...sigh. Yes, rawhide is also dangerous. It can cause gastric blockages. Idk about uncut antlers but I got cut antlers lengthwise...and they are mostly safe until they get too small.

  • @trishbech9082
    @trishbech9082 Před 2 lety +1

    Love crate games too!

  • @talulahjonesx
    @talulahjonesx Před rokem

    This is my 9 month old GSP! Driving me mad but it’s totally of my creation. Now I know why!!!

  • @ammi_10
    @ammi_10 Před rokem

    My house is SO small! The Dog bed is on the couch🙄 I step on a dog bed beside my bed in order to get up! There simply isn't enough room. It's good that my dog is small but I can't do anything about the space or the boxy layout of this rental. My new rescue is learning that I will be coming back and I do see progress in the 3 weeks she's been mine. She does chill while I am at work but busts a move when I get home. And every time I leave the room for the first few hours 🙄 but I make a point to come and go often for short intervals. And we have a snuggle time. She was SO alone for most of her life so I get it. TIME is on our side and she's not my first neglected rescue 💖

  • @CodexPotter
    @CodexPotter Před rokem

    I hear so many positive trainers saying toys are only for you and your dog to interact with together so they associate all good things with you and are super excited to see you and i always felt uncomfortable with that mentality. I want my pup to also be able to entertain herself sometimes. I interact with her a lot and we have a schedule with napping and interaction but I'm also trying to teach her that while she hopefully thinks I'm super awesome great but also it's okay for me to be doing something without her and she can play with her toys on her own or hang out with a chewy or just relaxing.

  • @melissajenkins9960
    @melissajenkins9960 Před 5 měsíci

    This has been hard for us, our dog is a year old, we adopted her 2.5 months ago and we’re trying to work on her schedule. She has a set eating, potty and bed schedule. And my husband has a set playtime with her after dinner. But I need a sliding schedule outside of that, I’d been keeping things so tight and specific that I haven’t been able to do anything else. It was very much like what you gave as an example lol. I was also always sitting with her on the floor. It was incredibly stressful for me. So I’m watching this video. Hope it helps us out lol

  • @debk6598
    @debk6598 Před rokem

    Oh my gosh! As a retired teacher, I see the same with kids!

  • @inspirationman51
    @inspirationman51 Před rokem

    You're Amazing

  • @deborahsexton3871
    @deborahsexton3871 Před 8 měsíci

    I have been trying to do this with my 3-year-old Border Collie and I have been amazed with her progress! Thank you for your intuitive and force-free training methods! From me and my now much happier Molly girl❤️🐾🐾🐾

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 8 měsíci

      Hi Deborah, and thank you for sharing how you are doing with the protocol, we love to read this! Keep up the amazing work with Molly 💕💕💕

  • @SuperSooophie
    @SuperSooophie Před 2 lety +1

    My dog is used to chill - but only when I'm chilling. I can get up and get something in another room and come back and she'll stay chill, but the moment I get doing something more active like cleaning up, my dog follows me around, brings me her favorite toy, brings me stuff until I pay with her. I've started to tie her to the sofa where she lays down because I got tired of telling her to go back, but as soon as I untie her, she gets excited again. Also even when I'm chill, when the cat stops chilling or just goes for water, my dog wants to play with him. I've had her for two years (she was 9 months and my first dog so obviously i had a bad start) and it does not seem to get any better.

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety

      Hi Sophie, the videos on the rhythm of life with dogs might help you with some insights here: czcams.com/video/kCRkT6saAgM/video.html

  • @tricialebanno4437
    @tricialebanno4437 Před 11 měsíci

    Can I just give some love for Tater Salad - he is just the best, a super adorable boy!

  • @RachaelTiow
    @RachaelTiow Před rokem

    this is AWESOME!!!!!!!

  • @tgtg4512
    @tgtg4512 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you. Great info. 😍

  • @burtcocain1986
    @burtcocain1986 Před 2 lety

    Hi Susan. I bought Crate Games the other day based off this vid. Absolute witchcraft.
    My 6.75 m/o pup just went into his crate of his own volition. He's sleeping in there right now with the door open. Why? Because I bought crate games and played a few on Monday. It's Saturday. I'm now doing the same as stage 1, 2 & 3 with the car door to get him more confident in the car so I can take him to cool places with me.
    I also pulled out a doggy bed of his from a cupboard where it had been living since Eddie the JRT decided to chew his way inside to get to that sweet, sweet stuffing! Having sewn it up, now it lives in the living room. So Eddie has 2 beds and a crate in the living room to chill on. He nearly had it in his mouth but he saved it by lying down like a good boy and giving me the cute eyes. He was so close to losing his new bed.
    You're an absolute gem. Thanks for what you do! Seeing Border Collies chill brings home how effective these methods are. My trainer loves your program too.
    Anxiety level just dropped, too.

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety

      Hi @Ian Webster what a fabulous note! Great going by you and Eddie! Thank you so much for your update.

  • @jessicajarsak7812
    @jessicajarsak7812 Před rokem

    My girls actually know how to chill. A border collie, husky mix, border collie lab mix and of course my mini dachshund that hangs out by me. But the three medium know how to chill and nap a couple times a day or more. But not when they’re excited, have to work on that. But I’m kinda chill too so. We chill together

  • @arfitz50
    @arfitz50 Před rokem

    Omg, u make so much sense!!!!

  • @angelapenn4463
    @angelapenn4463 Před 2 lety

    Just what I need. Thank you so much for this!

  • @pierarobson8216
    @pierarobson8216 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for another great podcast. Your fantastic, model-canine, homeschool student Ethel is working on layers of learning-- focused on holding a down today.. Epiphany of the day, I am learning in layers too. I just listen and re-listen.

  • @charly5747
    @charly5747 Před rokem

    Thanks so much for you Videos. We just startet with crate games with our 14 W. old Puppy :) Annd our older dogs do it too...8 and 10, they are having a harder time actually. XD

  • @amandabarrie910
    @amandabarrie910 Před 2 lety

    This is my issue... My days are just how Susan described with my 9 month old Aussie Shepherd - Service Dog In Training. I live in a tiny apartment (small bedroom and living area/kitchen combo) and he prefers the floor to his 2 beds. I only have room for his kennel aside from the two dog beds - no room for a pen. He whines for attention when not napping... he only naps 2x a day - but by 6-7PM he is asleep for the night. I need help getting him to chill more during the day.

  • @Tias858
    @Tias858 Před 2 lety

    God the thumbnail is adorable!

  • @GamesLifeComputer
    @GamesLifeComputer Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this video! That's our problem( I've to fix this, and now I know how.

    • @mystic6587
      @mystic6587 Před 2 lety

      I have no room for crates or beds.. live on a boat 🤔

  • @elenac6034
    @elenac6034 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks for the video. I have a problem if I reward my dog while chilling, he things it is training time so he stands up imidiatly and starts following me. Same in bars, when he finally relaxes and I want to reward him I actually make him unrelax in a second by giving him a treat. Any tips on how to reward him without distracting his zen state?

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety +1

      Hi @Elena C the video on the rhythm of training and ending a session would be a great starting point for you: czcams.com/video/0g5kwixofEE/video.html

  • @azogal53
    @azogal53 Před 2 lety +1

    I know that feeling, those eyes boring into you ... What are we doing next Mom?!? Now I understand better how to change it 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

  • @vickydimitriou6156
    @vickydimitriou6156 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love Mo showing her belly ❤

  • @benjaminseratos6637
    @benjaminseratos6637 Před 2 lety

    I’m so thankful to find you’re channel. I have a quick question we just got a boy Rottweiler he’s 2 months and 24days but the only thing is I don’t understand is when we try to love on him or pick him up to put into kennel he turns really quick and will start growing and flop his head back and will try attacking us in the face .Usually most of the puppies I’ve seen are lovers we walk him and play with him in yard a lot but when he gets out of control he will start running through house and banging his head into walls

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety

      Hi @Jodie Vasquez-Cardenas here's a video to help you get him to do things through his choice with confidence, rather than needing to pick him up which will assist with this challenge: czcams.com/video/HmKUv7pQYQU/video.html
      We have a whole playlist for raising puppies that will be really useful for you as your little one grows up: czcams.com/play/PLphRRSxcMHy2TzttCtZVFwzwMGayAsaYe.html

  • @seanstewart7622
    @seanstewart7622 Před 2 lety

    Hi Susan. I have a few questions about raw bones in the house. How long do you typically let your dogs chew them (ie 10 minutes)? Where do you store them in between “chew sessions”? Do you ever experience issues of bad smells from the bones? I have only given my dogs raw bones outside and never indoors. But I’m looking for great long lasting chew options that aren’t plastic, or harmful.

  • @jozeepare9616
    @jozeepare9616 Před 2 lety

    Could I know where to get that blue bed, just love it !

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety

      Hi Jozee, it's a Donut Bed from Bowsers (www.bowsers.com/pet-beds.html) and they are great, although the exact model Swagger is using on the video doesn't seem to be available anymore

  • @lizscorpiogirl2556
    @lizscorpiogirl2556 Před 2 lety

    Hi just found you omg I was doing it all wrong! No on the right track thanks to you, but please tell me when is it ok to have Pat's and love, a confusing time with a 2 year old male doberman who is a bit manic and doesn't like cuddles? But good with basic training so far !

  • @jaimemiller7950
    @jaimemiller7950 Před rokem

    Hey there! Around 14:30, you mention that you release the dog from one bed, and reward when they get in the next b bed. My question is.... How does a release work if the dog went into the bed by choice, rather than on cue? Historically, when I've done shaping, the dog may get rewarded for a behavior that I like that they did without a cue, but if I didn't cue them, then technically they don't need to hear "break" to be released. How do you differentiate or not for that? Does that make sense? Thank you!!! Love this video!

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před rokem

      Hi Jamie, if there is a cue for the bed (verbal, visual, context), then the release word is used, but if our dogs are on "their time" they can come and go from the bed as they please.

  • @lauraterpstra1398
    @lauraterpstra1398 Před 2 lety

    Susan help! My puppy (8month golden retriever) is crazy for food. I can’t just set a bowl down for dinner and let him eat he eats so fast then throws up. Currently I am using dinner(just kibble)as training rewards, breakfast is mixed with raw and I don’t have an issue with him throwing up but he still eats it fast. How can I slow him down? He does this with treats too, I want to give him bones but I’m afraid he’ll try to eat the whole thing and choke

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety

      Hi Laura, your puppy learning ItsYerChoice would be a great help for that. Here is the link to join the free ItsYerChoice Summit: dogsthat.com/y/iycsummit

  • @kathy3598
    @kathy3598 Před 2 lety

    My 10 mth old border collie has suddenly become very hyperactive, barking at butterflies (amongst everything else) Im working on all your relaxation techniques which are working ( we are building the layers!) . However tug toy playing has become awkward as she now growls and thrashes the toy around as though she wants to kill it....and becomes manic again...I feel as though its building aggression. Have you any advice please?

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety

      Hi Kathy, we've got a podcast video with help for tugging with lots of ideas for you: czcams.com/video/zBH2lKVxj58/video.html

  • @sunshopshine924
    @sunshopshine924 Před 2 lety +1

    Subscribe!!!!! Great info

  • @brandypupga
    @brandypupga Před 2 lety

    My puppy has eaten 2 beds
    Trying to teach settle but puppy demands attention

    • @DogsThat
      @DogsThat  Před 2 lety

      Hi @C. M. B. we cover bed chewing in this Q&A video - czcams.com/video/y_c8wgv1Ri8/video.html