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  • čas přidán 26. 02. 2023
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Komentáře • 102

  • @Yasmeenabeena
    @Yasmeenabeena Před rokem +106

    the biggest thing I would tell my 25 year old self is YOU HAVE TIME. you have time to do everything you want to do. you have time to take a minute to breathe. you have time to live in the moment and enjoy life. when I was 25 I felt like I was running out of time for everything.

    • @BellaSabo_
      @BellaSabo_  Před rokem +25

      I needed to hear this, I don’t know why I feel like I’m running out not time. Thank you so much😩😩

    • @jessicandukwe
      @jessicandukwe Před rokem +10

      Yeahh I feel like today’s society keeps promoting toxic productivity

  • @BSmith-yl3je
    @BSmith-yl3je Před rokem +58

    I think that’s the beauty of “ growing up”; you can’t do it wrong or just right but it’s right for you. I’m 40, married, career and children and I’m at a point in life where I am realistic with myself and I’m easy on myself. I’d say the one thing I’d tell my 25 yo self - go easy on yourself ❤

  • @itsedinagrace
    @itsedinagrace Před rokem +10

    I love that you’re pushing yourself out of your comfort zone this year and learning how to swim! Honestly that motivates me to learn too! Keep inspiring🥲🫶🏾

  • @CariLethoko
    @CariLethoko Před rokem +7

    Loved this grwm. I’ll be turning 30 this year and honestly I would tell 25 year old me to just do it! Take the risk, go on the holiday, make the purchase, stick to the plans or ever cancel them! There’s no time to waste but also that you have so much time 🥹 I’d also tell her I’m proud of her. And the woman she’s becoming is the woman she’s dreaming of becoming ❤ she’s important and she matters and she is capable!!!

  • @masmodiba
    @masmodiba Před rokem +21

    Bella: Absolutely no dresses
    2 seconds later, shows us a dress from behind 😂😂
    This is all so cute to watch🥰

  • @serena_bee
    @serena_bee Před rokem +15

    Love the way this color makes your skin look so vibrant and glowy ❤

  • @jessicandukwe
    @jessicandukwe Před rokem +5

    Absolutely loved this video, you have such a calming presence and this was really enjoyable to watch! As a new/growing content creator definitely resonate with the problems!

  • @housegamer18
    @housegamer18 Před rokem +28

    When Bella said her therapist said the wedding is about her and Ade the Nigerian in me laughed. 😭😂

    • @basetsana1618
      @basetsana1618 Před rokem +3

      Honestly😂.
      The therapist is not well versed in Nigerian culture clearly.

  • @lyssaro
    @lyssaro Před rokem +9

    I feel you. I recently started embracing my middle name ‘ Saro ‘ ✨and I should’ve embraced it sooner. I love it so much

  • @serena_bee
    @serena_bee Před rokem +3

    Omg, can’t ever get over this tote bag ❤❤❤

  • @fayebagamuhunda65
    @fayebagamuhunda65 Před rokem +7

    Advice to my 25 year old self… there is no copy for you to follow through with because your path is personal! You are creating your own journey and try and enjoy it! Keep it personal and authentic,mostly have fun while at it!

  • @AfrikanQueen17
    @AfrikanQueen17 Před rokem +3

    Obsessed with this hair. I need this wig in my life 😍

  • @chinwaaay
    @chinwaaay Před rokem +3

    I can relate to the swimming, I also can swim from point A to B but can't float in deep water (yet) trying to learn... I'm excited for you for all the transitions happening 💗

  • @faridasaid4211
    @faridasaid4211 Před rokem +1

    Omg, I'm also going through a transitional phase in my life at the moment and I honestly don't know what to expect. it's soo terrifying so I completely resonate with you there hun 🥺❤

  • @enkosikhohliso3950
    @enkosikhohliso3950 Před rokem +9

    I’ve been off my socials for a while now and come back to find out you’re engaged? I’m so excited, congratulations Bella🥺🥳🥳🥳🥳❤️

  • @karisahove5818
    @karisahove5818 Před rokem +4

    Love your natural hair 💕💕💕

  • @tiaaaliyah
    @tiaaaliyah Před rokem +2

    Love the rebrand name! It sounds very luxe 😊

  • @ashleyadewa6593
    @ashleyadewa6593 Před rokem +22

    We are down for a rebrand 🥂✨ Honoured to evolve w you

  • @BonnieCreoleSpirit
    @BonnieCreoleSpirit Před rokem +1

    I think that it’s so great that you’re asking yourself question and giving yourself the space to hear your own voice. It is amazing that can do this at 25! I would tell my 25 year old self: slow down and don’t rush yourself to keep up with deadlines society says you should follow. Enjoy the moment and trust yourself…no one knows you better than you.
    Don’t worry Bells…you will find the answers. You have already found one: you need more than money for motivation. So many don’t’ t even get this concept. When I what your videos, I often think you’re more wise than your years. 😊❤

  • @fego672
    @fego672 Před rokem +3

    Excited to watch !!❤️

  • @sumira.t
    @sumira.t Před rokem +4

    Hey Bella, I loved this video! As a starting content creator myself or as you said it “new generation” of content creator I also find it hard to keep the boundaries between what I should show and what not. But this video really helped me come back to myself and ask myself what I really want in life. Just like you I’m not “money driven” either but I do want a platform for my future plans. What I would suggest you to do is charity work!! I’ll be doing volunteer work & charity work in future as well because I visited a Buddhist temple recently & helped the workers there. That really made my heart feel lighter & made me realise that I like to give back whether it be through volunteer work or just to people in my life that I love. Give that a try!

  • @verushcakatokele1553
    @verushcakatokele1553 Před rokem +4

    This hair colour is everything...... Bella you look tewww good chileeeee

  • @valenciaroberts9255
    @valenciaroberts9255 Před 11 měsíci

    This hair on you is perfection 🤌🏽🤌🏽😍😍😍😍

  • @izakohpis
    @izakohpis Před rokem +1

    I loved this video so much! I related on a lot of things you mentioned, even though I am way to young compared to you, in age. It felt like we were having a catch up session☺💗

  • @VicksStyles
    @VicksStyles Před rokem +2

    Love the honesty 💃

  • @Little.Ann__
    @Little.Ann__ Před rokem

    I definitely understand what you mean. Honestly I'm also 25 and i feel so confused. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us because it really resonated with me. 25 feels like a very transitional stage of life and it's tough to figure both personal and career life. I also wish I could see my life/myself at 30.

  • @chibundoakupue
    @chibundoakupue Před rokem +1

    A vlog suggestion: day in the life vlogs when you have something to do or someplace to be.
    Take us to somewhere with you to do an activity.

  • @toziamutambo1883
    @toziamutambo1883 Před rokem +1

    The contacts struggle...relate 🤣

  • @caramel9244
    @caramel9244 Před rokem

    Love love this content🥰…A real food for thought 😉🤔

  • @puseletsotukula5335
    @puseletsotukula5335 Před rokem +3

    It's always nice listening to you talking. Now I miss your tipsy talk🥺. Anyway, can we start calling you Sabo already?

  • @Sessi_K
    @Sessi_K Před rokem +11

    I think it would look like you trying authentically to keep expressing yourself in whatever entertainment genre you choose, not being afraid of a process not working, not being afraid to experiment. Within you boundaries, see what works for you and accept that you’ll keep evolving from whatever you settle on… hence you not resonating with OnlyBells/Bella-Michelle anymore. Even with that, you’re not scrapping ‘the plan’, you’re just developing it. Keep growing!🖤

    • @BellaSabo_
      @BellaSabo_  Před rokem +2

      Thank you SO much! This is exactly it, just figuring it out as we go on ☺️

  • @ItsPoppyKathryn
    @ItsPoppyKathryn Před rokem

    My family just has to understand why she is my favourite CZcamsr
    Love her

  • @iamchimzy
    @iamchimzy Před rokem +6

    I’m I the only one that just loves when bells talk 🥰🥰💯

  • @lydianyabuti8141
    @lydianyabuti8141 Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤ love to see you Bella

  • @Cocomeetschanel
    @Cocomeetschanel Před rokem +3

    your teeth look perfect Bells😍, may you please do a video on them and your journey with invisalign.

  • @yves_4
    @yves_4 Před rokem +2

    It’s the what are we doing question for me, you and me both sis😂

  • @kasiapetruk6730
    @kasiapetruk6730 Před rokem +6

    I read somewhere that if something is not going to matter in 5 years, then you should not spend more than 5 minutes worrying about it.

  • @ChristinaVerse
    @ChristinaVerse Před rokem +1

    Yess new Vlog! ❤ I’m glad to be first!🎉

  • @kooliecurlz93
    @kooliecurlz93 Před rokem +2

    Isabella Sabo sounds beautiful I can’t lie, unique

  • @yodittesfamariam8186
    @yodittesfamariam8186 Před rokem +3

    Connect with your local community would be my suggestion for finding your purpose 💚

  • @moonlightscare7097
    @moonlightscare7097 Před rokem +6

    Would you be doing a Burundian/Nigerian traditional wedding?

  • @lovesiphiwe
    @lovesiphiwe Před rokem +1

    Love the vulnerability of this video! I've been wondering since your perfume video but please, what hotel is this?

  • @drangonfliepink79
    @drangonfliepink79 Před rokem +1

    This is what am saying I have a frd who is on CZcams n people came at me because I asked a question to him on social media that people felt I shouldn't n they came 4 me thinking they new him better than I did ....he was fine with the question was so strange to me ...lesson learned

  • @ChinyereXO
    @ChinyereXO Před rokem +1

    Your middle name is gorgeous ♥️♥️ I love the meaning!

  • @rickimalatji
    @rickimalatji Před rokem

    You hair looks amazing. Keen for an install video?!🥺

  • @gloriamafisa
    @gloriamafisa Před rokem +2

    we hope you doing well too Bella

  • @sinosijula
    @sinosijula Před rokem +1

    Pleeeease rebrand ❤ I actually commented on that tiktok when you posted it. I love your middle name.

  • @theshakiladiaries
    @theshakiladiaries Před rokem

    I never really comment but i was wondering if you've looked into the theory called the 7 year cycle. It's a theory it talks about this shift we go through as we transition, through our lives.
    Also i'm excited for the re-brand and congrats on the engagement. 😊

  • @the.zinhle
    @the.zinhle Před rokem +1

    Hey Bella sending love from Dubai

  • @Fatima-gp8op
    @Fatima-gp8op Před rokem +1

    We need the deets for the short hair 😩

  • @lisaabena852
    @lisaabena852 Před rokem +1

    Bella Sabo has a nice ring to it

  • @amandine8186
    @amandine8186 Před rokem +1

    Nah you guys were deep in the country side of France! 600€ quote to get back?! I’ll walk. 😂

  • @carleneclark1702
    @carleneclark1702 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing. You are right. Don’t put all of your personal information out here. I will watch anyway. Again, Congrats 🎊🎈🍾 on your engagement. Wishing you and yours the best! And we love 💕 watching your videos..💋💄❤️💓

  • @Wilma-Joy
    @Wilma-Joy Před rokem +1

    Notification gang ❤️

  • @yasminmohammed9815
    @yasminmohammed9815 Před rokem +1

    Please where did you get your brows done? Not sure if it's micro bladed

  • @jhannelm
    @jhannelm Před rokem

    Oooh brave Bella came out in this video. Sis said you guys are not my friends 😂 i understand & fully agree with u, it must be overwhelming and it’s borderline creepy to know everything abt a stranger’s life tbh

  • @nthabby_M
    @nthabby_M Před rokem +1

    the maxi skirt! a need, dont wanna lie

  • @princesschonco9205
    @princesschonco9205 Před rokem

    I’m 35 and if I was 25 I would say to myself Is calm down ,calm down baby and just take a deep breath. Know that you are enough and you deserve the best. Don’t settle for less.

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 Před rokem +1

    Wedding Bells 🔔❤

  • @bond007jinxie6
    @bond007jinxie6 Před rokem +6

    Listen I’m 40 unmarried no kids 3 miscarriages I wanted a picket fence kids by 30 but that’s the beauty of life it’s not what we want but what the universe gives us in the end I’m some what satisfy but I’m not regretting the life that I’ve we live we love and we learn ❤❤

    • @ANa-qt7tt
      @ANa-qt7tt Před rokem

      V true 💗💗sending you love & light

  • @sikejohnson6641
    @sikejohnson6641 Před rokem +2

    This hair on you 💋💯

  • @jungleafreeca1111
    @jungleafreeca1111 Před rokem +11

    Heeeey gaaaal 🌍🌎🌍 Kenya in house

  • @AJD7233
    @AJD7233 Před rokem +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ashakiberu9161
    @ashakiberu9161 Před rokem +1

    Yesssssss

  • @lolatatasja
    @lolatatasja Před rokem +1

    I loooooovvveee your real middle name. Usually I don't even like short names for girls/women.

  • @emmaelliott9250
    @emmaelliott9250 Před rokem +1

    You look like Rihanna ❤️❤️❤️

  • @drangonfliepink79
    @drangonfliepink79 Před rokem +4

    I'm 43 n I still don't no whats going on haha lol

  • @aneleboligello6587
    @aneleboligello6587 Před rokem +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @maonaa
    @maonaa Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Isis10610
    @Isis10610 Před rokem +1

    Gorgeous

  • @pizzalii9849
    @pizzalii9849 Před rokem +1

    What do you mean Tanya has red flags?? love the hair btw ❤❤❤

  • @GG8p
    @GG8p Před rokem +1

    loved the vid! PLEASE where is the pink jacket from in 12:05 ?? xx

  • @marblandine
    @marblandine Před rokem

    I love the editing can I ask which app you used to edit?

  • @Ovokeroh
    @Ovokeroh Před rokem +1

    Bella 🫶🏾

  • @vizichisakuta9413
    @vizichisakuta9413 Před rokem +1

    Hey Bells. Did you do bridal proposals?? Definitely more wedding content 😁❤

  • @angelkiyonga5777
    @angelkiyonga5777 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤thanks Bella❤❤❤beautiful name….gorg face beat

  • @mandamumayowe290
    @mandamumayowe290 Před rokem +2

    Hey Bella Zambia 🇿🇲 here!

  • @moonlightscare7097
    @moonlightscare7097 Před rokem +6

    Tbh you can just add Michelle to your birth certificate. Who says we can’t give ourselves our names

  • @MissAmyBaybie
    @MissAmyBaybie Před rokem +1

    From following you for the past 4/5 yrs I'd say you're overthinking things. Everybody is different and every relationship is different. You've lived w Ade before which is a plus. As a 31 yr old I'd say you're doing great. You know who you are and are comfortable in your skin(takes time to get there)

    • @BellaSabo_
      @BellaSabo_  Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much! I’m definitely overthinking, I’m trying to get out of it 😭

  • @kennedistevens9454
    @kennedistevens9454 Před rokem

    Them ones when you put your contacts in and your face is looking too HD 🤣😩

  • @lerato17mokoena
    @lerato17mokoena Před rokem +1

    ❤️🌹💯

  • @sheisjacinta_
    @sheisjacinta_ Před rokem +3

    You're cute,
    Just like Rihanna 💙💙💙💓🌸

  • @allywildflower
    @allywildflower Před rokem +2

    Will you be taking Ade’s last name? Since you spoke about using your real last name for rebranding

    • @berenicei.7283
      @berenicei.7283 Před rokem

      It's her middle name! She wouldn't give out her last name lol

  • @zariayong
    @zariayong Před rokem +2

    Struggling with this too. The audience will judge people for showing too much especially when creators expose their bodies same time this is the kind of content that gets the million views. Had this conversation with someone too. The public has to look inside. A lot of talented creators are not doing well because "they are boring" as per the public. The public will also rather watch someone trying to fall off the tallest mountain (aka kill themselves) than a decent creator sitting on a chair sharing useful information that may safe someone's life. I can't even get to share my living room. Looks like I am sharing too much. Introvert creators got to be struggling.

  • @amaleilah
    @amaleilah Před rokem +1

    Ok but Bella what you say to your 20 year old self?

  • @collegegrad2955
    @collegegrad2955 Před rokem

    Yeah people SHARE too much on social media! Especially on TIK TOK they have diarrhea of the mouth!!! Let’s get back to gatekeeping and boundaries!

  • @risperladee5718
    @risperladee5718 Před rokem +4

    🇰🇪..🙏👏👌

  • @yemisi480
    @yemisi480 Před rokem

    I can't standdd Olivia and I feel like producers were tryna make her the star! ugh and I agree w you on tanya she doesn't like him like that lol yea Ron and Lana mehh...I also don't feel like jessie is into will like that! xo

  • @aimanose3433
    @aimanose3433 Před rokem +3

    😍😍😍 Highlight of my day!