First Time Hockey Player Stuns Everyone
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- čas přidán 3. 11. 2022
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I'm kinda rooting for Theo to have hockey to himself. He's such a selfless big brother and shares with his siblings, I'm wishing for him to have something that he can hold just for himself. And the way he let Lilly invade his space in the van made me smile. That's quite far from his days of running from her and holding the leash! 😂🤣😂🤣
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I was feeling that same sentiment! 😊
@@BeleafInFatherhood not fair having on patreon! Many of us have been watching Theo since he was a baby! And we’re not as fortunate too pay money!
Uriah's biggest issue with things seems to be confidence. He fears being embarrassed by a lack of ability to do things so he wants to do things that require less of him. He just needs some one on one assistance(not in the presence of his siblings) and lots of encouragement
Exactly!
Good observation. He needs to know that it’s okay to fail.
Theo has crushed Uriah’s confidence, Uriah doesn’t want to try anything new because Theo has effectively disrespected and humiliated him at every turn and Uriah doesn’t want to try and fail in fear of humiliation by Theo
Uriah will only grow if he is alone
@@dannygranger9271 That's an extremely weird way to put it. For my case, me and my older brother both liked football but he was 10x better than me. I would play with him for fun of course but never wanted him to watch me train or play in games cos of embarrassment, due to the fact I looked up to him. I ended picking up swimming and golf, and my brother was like my biggest fan when I was in tournaments, was on my ass when I didn't want to train on weekends and was just genuinely supportive. I'm pretty sure when Uriah finds a sport he likes, Theo will be supportive of his younger brother.. Uriah just needs some time to get out of his shell.
@@dannygranger9271 But him growing alone is not a healthy reality. If not his brother than who. First dad need to jump into the games and show that he can beat Theo. He will make them neutral and take over the alpha male role in the games. The Theeeennn cheer them both on during games and giving Uriah a little more instruction and help build that drive. Also, get other children involved and put the brothers on THE SAME TEAM so he know his brother strength and savvy is a benefit to him too when he needs him.
I rarely comment on videos, but someone made a comment about Uriah and birth order and I had to come in and co-sign. Mainly because as an adult I'm realizing how much we live with currently that came from things misunderstood during childhood. Theo is the oldest, Anaya is the only girl and Uzo is the baby. I can see how Uriah may struggle with defining his own identity (which can impact confidence and a desire to try and or quit) when the identities of his siblings are so obvious and (probably unintentionally) reinforced by others. Blessing to this beautiful family. Uriah is so blessed to have two strong and committed parents that will help him figure this journey out.
The camera angles, the storytelling, the editing, Yvette’s lovable randomness with the pine cone😂❤ Love it all!!
Theo back handed that goal too! For his first time playing, shooting a goal on the backhand is impressive! And being right in front of the goalie like that, he was exactly in position! Kid’s gunna be a goal scorer!
The worst part being a second sibling is being compared and thinking others comparing you to your older sibling. I've never stuck with any sports or musical instrument growing up, but that didn't make me less successful as an adult. I can see myself in Uriah, I love to try new things out like a buffet, but hate doing things for longer period of time. As an adult, I got a job travelling all over Scandinavia visiting laboratories fixing instruments which is perfect for me and loving it.
Riah just needs extra encouragement. You two are doing a great job as Parents!❤❤
I agree!
Theo's a beast! So focused...show'em how it's done!
Theo has crushed Uriah’s confidence, Uriah doesn’t want to try anything new because Theo has effectively disrespected and humiliated him at every turn and Uriah doesn’t want to try and fail in fear of humiliation by Theo
Uriah will only grow if he is alone
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not me getting teary eyed and bawling my eyes out cause of how proud I am of Theo.
I have found being a father has been pretty lonely. my family is an hour plus away and none of my friends have kids. Seeing how you deal with certain situations has helped my outlook and approach esspecially on the days where it's hard to handle. Thank you for making these videos.
We got you 😊🧡
The mighty ducks had us all in a hockey chokehold.
Two Outstanding Goals were accomplished that day!
The Goal of success and the goal of courage! 💪🏽 🏒 💪🏽 ❤
This family and these everyday interactions and life lessons are so beautiful and inspiring to witness. I hope to have moments like these with my own children one day. ❤✨
Alright Theo!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 that’s awesome. Uriah has a God given, beautiful purpose too that’s designed specifically for him! I can’t wait to see that play out too!
Me too!!!
Theo is so dope!! Love the way he studied and talked to the other kids. Mighty Ducks is a classic also love that was Theo's inspo to play hockey lol Riah is a trip with the "i don't want to use my hands" buuuttt you want to go back to tennis and maybe play hockey again?!! lol hope he tries something he really enjoys and sticks with it long enough to improve his confidence and skills
My nephew plays and has been on his school's team for years. He is amazing and is the only chocolate joy on the team.
✊🏽❤
Let’s go! Hockey was my first sport and I was definitely the only black kid.
Bruh help LOL where are you from?
Same with my brother!
Theo has crushed Uriah’s confidence, Uriah doesn’t want to try anything new because Theo has effectively disrespected and humiliated him at every turn and Uriah doesn’t want to try and fail in fear of humiliation by Theo
Uriah will only grow if he is alone
@@dannygranger9271 stop saying this! It’s not true.
@@BeleafInFatherhood please block this bot @danny granger. Your fans will never say totally nasty things like he's saying. We love you guys and your family dynamics!
Not completely sure why this made me teary eyed. I think it was the boys getting out there with strangers and trying it out. Although Uriah eventually took his gear off, he was out there trying, knowing his skating skills were lacking a little. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Theo went whole hog. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I'm proud of them both. You poured into them, it's evident. 🌹❤️
I feel like Uriah is the most affected by birth order, which is no one’s fault, this is just my observation about larger families. Theo’s identity is very much in tact as the first born. Cultivating Uriah’s identity as the second of four seems challenging because I can feel the undercurrent of frustration that he feels he does have to work a little harder for attention which then presents like he wants to do huge things but struggles with finding the discipline and confidence because amongst 4 kids, everyone kind of takes an activity and excelled at it. It would be frustrating to me as a kid, too…I’d be uncertain about the point of some things if that makes sense. He comes off stubborn, when really I think he just wants certainty that if he puts the work into something it’s going to reap the feeling he wants, which is to feel uniquely special in a big group. It makes it hard to keep trying when you carry that insecurity and even harder to stick with one thing when you don’t get that feeling right away. This family is incredibly loving and Uriah is thriving either way. I just notice second borns carry some deeper stuff that comes out in ways that are misunderstood.
Very well said!
A second born seconds this 🙋🏾
I agree with this and want to add, he needs to cultivate discipline. He may not be a very decisive person, so a bit of effort needs to be put to ensure he makes a decision and sticks to it at least for a valid trial period before he gets a chance to change his mind. If his own discipline lacks the patience to withstand the pressure, maybe his parents ought to enforce the discipline on his behalf until his matures.
Agree totally. He has to find the thing that really puts a spark in him. And when he grows that self discipline and sticks to his sport or activity, he'll see the reward internally and externally. He's growing up so much😊
As a first born, I beg to differ. This wasn't the case for me. I was Uriah , but as a first born. It has to do with who we are internally (nature) and how we are cared for (nurtured) supported through our feelings in the household.
I think its time for Uriah to learn what my father always told me whenever I would get discouraged about not being good immediately. "Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard", If you put in the hours of practice you will eventually surpass people you thought were better than you initially.
Having my sister play soccer with me was not only easier for my mom to take us to practice and games, but it made us closer. Not only did she always have my back, I had hers. It made playing the sport that much more fun!
I played hockey as a child! I LOVED it. Couldn’t play but a few years cause the travel team was too expensive for my family. So excited to see this!
My nickname was Maddog Mags.
Go Theo! Yvette seems like such a super mom, so lovely to see ❤
I learned to skate at age 4, my brother at the same time at age 2. we definitely belonged & so does everyone! 🎉 we love to see it.
You’re a great dad weighing all the ins and outs, pros and cons helping Uriah and Theo make good choices!❤❤❤
Get'em Theo!💪🏽 ❣️ Your a natural born athlete with the courage of a lion cub🤗 #Mother of six sons#
This brought back so many feels and memories for me. My younger brother played hockey when he was a kid. We all went to his games and practices. He was amazing! Uriah even looks a bit like my brother did at that age. What beautiful kids they all are. It's so great you give them the choices and the encouragement to choose for themselves. I wish them all success in whatever sports they fall in love with.
Theo has crushed Uriah’s confidence, Uriah doesn’t want to try anything new because Theo has effectively disrespected and humiliated him at every turn and Uriah doesn’t want to try and fail in fear of humiliation by Theo
Uriah will only grow if he is alone
@@dannygranger9271 you’re wording is so aggressive.
@@leticiagerardo9747 am I wrong? You ain’t even black tf why are you even watching these videos
Dad being petty... "He didn't want to play a sport that uses his hands and feet" 🤣
This is just a guess on my part, but Uriah probably said he wanted to go for the sake of being included. His brother wanted to try out for a sport, and he didn’t want to be left out, and as you say, sharing an activity with your sibling is nice. That’s the impression I get just from how much time Theo and Uriah spend playing together in your videos, and in actuality he may not be too interested in the sport despite what he says aloud.
Interesting perspective
This reminds me of watching my kids go through these rites of passage. I love your thoughtful parenting. I always wish I’d had more patience-and energy-than I felt like I did. I’m crying just watching Theo do so well and Uriah saying he’ll try again. He’ll find his groove. Especially with all that love and nurturing behind him. They all will.
I’m so proud of Theo! 👏🏾👏🏾
A child's confidence is built by their parents. That small voice in the back of the head can cheer them on and believe they can do anything or iy can dou t them and make them feel small. That voice is the essence of what their parents have and have not been telling them about themselves.
As a hockey player for years now! I'm so happy to see a great kid joining the sport!! I could see him on the ice in the future !!
Love this! Break them stereotypes!! Well, at least here on the east coast 😂
It’s awesome to be involved in a group activity…It helps to build confidence, a sense of adventure, resilience and perseverance. Uriah will figure out which sport he wants to pursue…and Theo was so excited about scoring a goal! ☺️☀️
Awesome video! It was cool to see Theo's focus while playing. Big congrats on the goal! I can't believe that was his first official time playing hockey.
I also have to say I freaking love Uriah's personality. That kid is unapologetically himself, I hope he never loses that. He strikes me as someone who would excel in the performing arts. I think it could really help to nurture his confidence.
Such an amazing family! I love seeing all of the kids figure life out as they grow!
Theo, the future Duck. He looks like he had so much fun out there.
Theo's going to be an awesome hockey player and Uriah will be amazing at whatever he decides to play🥰🥰🥰
This is like flashback & reminds me of being a kid. Uriah trying a million different things but not gravitating to it. Also seeing other kids get it faster than me & messing up on team mates just made me run for the hills. Lane swimming & scouts both kinda with a team but not super competitive, became my things. When I was older, having similar feelings in certain scenarios, through therapy I kinda realised even then it was a form of anxiousness. ❤
My own kids one is great at every sport he tries. The other struggles & seeing his brother take to things so easy drives him crazy. So he’s in scouts & junior bjj so far so good. BJJ is something I wish I new about as girl, it is a fantastic sport. ❤️
The multiple angles you filmed from!! Love it !😃 So glad Theo had fun and goaaaaalllll! Uriah, you'll find what you want to do. Glad you tried it 😃. Love this family ❤. How's Anaya feeling?
These kids are the best! Their emotional intelligence is on point! Living in the Boston area when you said hockey I immediately thought of ice hockey, I played ice hockey from when I was about 4 years old to high school, it’s a great sport. For some reason some of the best people I know have played hockey, it just seems like a down to earth sport if that make sense and your kids are extremely down to earth. It was great seeing Theo strike up a conversation with a complete stranger, it take a lot of confidence to do that and just judging from his hockey skills in the video those skills will help with his confidence. Once again good job mom and dad!
Bro your family traits as a father!, To have your father skills, OMR!…U Da man!. Ur a lifeline to those fathers that can gain much knowledge like I have from you and your blessed family, only to give that soul food for the soul for me as a father… to cool brah!…
Your footage is getting ILLL bro ….. story tellin ability on point …… keep up the good work
I think Uriah might be scared to use his hands because he broke his arm he might still be scared to break it again your family is so inspiring 😊
I feel Uriah..he's so honest. It's such a natural emotion to feel embarrassed. I agree that if he's given some one on one time to work on a sport/activity by himself under authority, I'm sure with a bit of consistence he'll see how far he has come. As soon as he starts feeling good about having improved, it will be an innate motivation to stay on the activity.
Looking from the outside in seems like Uriah is seeking praise from the family but also wants to make Glenn proud in the way Theo does. He reminds me of my brother. Uriah is his own person and stands out , love it.
It really is about having fun at this age. Through play Uriah will figure out what truly interest him. 🙌❤
You go boy we’re all cheering for you!!!!!
Well done Theo for finding your niche and not giving up. Great job👏🏾👏🏾
We just started hockey this year as well and our daughter is 8 and she is absolutely in love with the sport now and has caught on well. She even puts her own gear on!! It creates so much confidence and working as a team! So excited to see the kids grow into their personalities 😊
I almost wonder if Uriah would flourish in dancing (I was in a hip hop dance company when I was younger and it taught me confidence) or acting!
Hahaha Yvette at 0:56. I feel that being tired but wanting to say something. I'm so dead, she's so cute!
You are so talented. You really should be making TV shows or blockbuster movies for a major studio. You're an incredible story teller. Thank you for sharing you stories with us. My husband played hockey professionally for 16 years. If you are ever in Niagara Falls we'd love to have your boys join one of his classes or camps. 💜
This video is so different from the usual content! The angles so cool! I’m here for this!!👏🏾👏🏾
I’m glad Riah is going to basketball and Theo is sticking to hockey ❤
hell yeah i can’t wait to see uriah on the basketball court. it requires a lot of running so i don’t know if he’ll enjoy that but i think he’ll be relieved that he only has to focus mainly about his hands
As a Canadian, this makes me happy!!!
Uriah at least you had enough guts to try something new. I thought you did well for your first time. Roller hockey is not that simple, so bravo. Theo you are a gifted child when it comes to sports. I liked the idea of you watching what the other players did so you could see what you had to do. AND Then!! You score a goal!! High five. I hope you keep at it Theo. Practice makes perfect. Nothing comes easy when you're first trying out. If you can, try to watch roller hockey on youtube it will give you tips. Congrats Boys!!
Wow that was cool way to go Theo ,Uriah will find something he likes to do that looked fun thank you for sharing your family blessings to you and your family
You are raising KINGS!!!👏🏾👏🏾
Great Job Theo .. We’re rooting for you Uriah😌❤
Very very happy for Theo! You could see his continued interest in the sport, sportsmanship, and putting his all into everything he does.
That goal was sensational buddy!! Keep striving with the ambition you currently have and there will be nothing you can't excel at!! 💪🏾
Uriah, reminds myself of me around his age. A kinesthetic learner but also sensitive to embarrassment, or being uncomfortable whilst participating- the helmet. In hindsight, I needed a physical way to self regulate during activities and any that restricted or made regulation harder heightened my embarrassment and confusion for which activity to stick with long term. Thing is, I didn't want to be anything long term. The process of slowing down with each activity I tried and having One on One conversations helped me better understand myself. There are so many ways in which comparison is seen by children and though adults know alot more, children sometimes know themselves better- they need a little help with the vocabulary.
#chocolatenephews aren't babies anymore 💙💙
I love their family time. Beautiful close family.
God's blessings.
🙏🏾🙏🏾💯🌷🌻🙂💕⭐
I think maybe what Uriah is trying to say is that he feels his coordination and strength is better in his lower body. His build would seem to corroborate that. I can easily see him doing BMX racing and excelling at it. His center of gravity would be a real asset in that sport. Same thing with soccer.
Theo scoring a goal right off like that is impressive. I look forward to watching his progress. I'm partial to hockey so I find his natural ability for the sport very exciting.
Wow. This family keeps me in my feels❤❤
Just heard your word and vid with Uriah. Powerful. ❤
You guys are everything and more❤️❤️❤️
Hi Beleaf family, well done to Theo and it seems he found his thing 👊🏾; For Uriah I see some of myself in him when I was younger and it’s the feeling of being the person in the room that’s not the fastest, strongest etc, it takes time, self confidence and exactly what you and Yvette are doing - encouraging him, trying different things , He will find his own thing #soon come ❤
I'm proud of him for going out there and trying. He got to experience it and knew he didn't want it. When he finds what he really loves it'll be 🚀🚀🚀🚀
So much love. God bless yall.
Beautiful great dad marvelous children dad put in the work...❤
Oh my, not, THE MICROWAVE Glen! I’m chuckling HARD! 😆
I was happy to see, THEO, score and truly believe him studying the others earlier helped. Once he gets his own gear, and, became acclimated with it we’ll see even more goals!!! Good job!
Rap with a message is what I love about this music
Let’s go Theo! I felt the same way when I saw the Mighty Ducks back when it first came out. I got almost all the gear. Dad is right on how expensive Hockey is. You have to really love the sport to be able to put that equipment on every time. I still love hockey, but I was still to expensive for me.
Go Theo!!! 🎉
I don’t live in your household, so I won’t pretend to know your children better than you. With so much creativity in your genetics, I wouldn’t be surprised if Uriah turns out to be more artistic: music, dance, theatre, art, etc. Just my personal thoughts, obviously. 😊
Hockey is definitely expensive but if theo does want to continue, ask some other parents if they have equipment from older siblings. My dad LOVED giving away old gear to new players.
I’m so excited 😁
When your wife said Uriah is a pinecone. I said;Yep. His mind is peeling off the layers of comfort and learning the environment.
Soccer was my first sport and I loved it! Lowkey think Uriah would be a great goalie
Can’t wait !!!!
Uzi is just playing with his mom's ear rings 😂 while she trying to motivate Uriah to not quit 😂
Win win, two great kids (plus toddler).... A lot of parents in UK need schooling with this emotional language.
Whew, this song slaps 🎵 🔥
Theo was so humble when he scored. Like he's been there before
Good job Theo P. keep it up!. Lillie is going to force Theo to love on her. Uriah, keep trying you'll find your thing & good for you for attempting the sport. Blessings
I like this style of vlogging.
Uriah will find his thing ! It’s ok Uriah If it’s not a sport just stay physically active always.
This is awesome!
My goodnesss the editinggggg. Its perfect 🥹
Let Uriah try everything, he’d be good at anything in the right environment! If he came across a fun team with people that make him feel comfortable and have a laugh to enjoy his time more + he’d stop worrying about all the other stuff. Theo has that natural eldest child confidence and competitiveness . If Uriah is open to things let him explore! He’s an amazing kid, he just has a different approach.
I love the new styleeee of videographyyy
I understand Uriah. My mama made me cheerlead and I absolutely hated it. After that I played basketball from 3rd to 12th grade.
Well done Theo, can't wait to see what Riah will try out and commit to 👍🏾
I love it 👍🏾👍🏾
I know you get lots of suggestions and I'm sure youve heard it all, but maybe drama and acting would click with Uriah? There are so many ways to be creative and it includes music, dancing and acting.
And for kids it can also be great exercise and has a team component when you have to put together your own little programmes and skits.
I think it's surprising the variety of kids who grow to really love theatre and acting.
Uriah may not be a sports kid. My son was the same way,my husband loves sports,tried him in everything, he hated it all. He loved computers, drawing,pottery. Now he is in college for programming. Sports is so strongly pushed in our society at a young age as parents we need to think outside the box and also let our kids know there are other alternatives to sports that are just as rewarding.
I can see me in Uriah, but family is his greatest support and i know he’ll do amazing
Goalie is good position, a lot of defense. I always got stuck in net but I grew to like it and learn defense.
That was a good face off win