3 divorces, 3 homes,1 three unit apt building, 1 commercial building,3 successful businesses and cash untold from divorces all lost..Yep I feel ya brother,today is my wife's 5 year anniversary coming to the US,now a citizen I trust her with my heart,my money and our future together which will be in the Philippines...When you 16 year old son looks you in the eye and states "Dad,Michelle is the best thing to ever happen to us" What more is there to say,,thankx for the video!!!!!
The man faced heartbreak, bad health, divorce, financial loss and stared death in the face many times. After listening to his life story, none of us have a right to bitch or complain. Ali is living proof it's never too late to find your happiness and soulmate in life. Thank you for sharing, Ali, you're an inspiration to all of us!
Similar troubles for me Ali,Divorced at 35 single for 10yrs 3 kids to raise,I had severe accident and lost most everything i owned..again. Fast forward to 2013 i came to Cebu..worn out,exhausted,. Met my fiipina wife it was our 10yr anniversary December 2023...She and the philippines changed my life
My story is so similar. COVID heavily damaged my heart and lungs. Having episodes of congestive heart failure and respiratory disease that are triggered by cooler weather. The last 2 winters I have nearly died with the doctors telling me there is nothing more that they can do, and I can not expect to survive. With Wasting Syndrome, I've went from a 235# gym rat to 147# in February. In February, I left the hospital to go home to die. I am severely weakened, but I survived. My pulmonologist has openly told me to leave to a year-round warm climate or get ready to start pushing daisies. So, in a couple of weeks, I get on a plane moving to the Philippines. Starting a new life from the ground up, but at least I'll have a fighting chance.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Well, Paul, maybe I can help grow your business and be the first guest star on Babe Mae's new CZcams channel "Who wants a broken down old man?" 😂😂😂😂
4 divorces 60 years old now i been married 13 years to my Filipina shes now 40. the American women give me dirty looks lol. the men say that im their hero. several men in my small area have kicked their hateful old American wives to the curb and now are married to Filipinas now
i really feel bad for you sir so many guys go through this which is why at 37 no wife or kids i look at you guys stories and im learning that its ok no to follow the norm seems like nowadays most men get married and HOPE that the wife does not take half but eventually most western women will take it and leave you high n dry
I felt the same way about not being able to find somebody closer to my age without baggage or children, I ended up with a 25 year age gap and getting married to a 22 year old Filipina girl, that was over 24 years ago and things are still going well, no regrets by either of us.
Amazing video Thanks for sharing Ali...please do more videos on your wisdom and insights...how Philippines 🇵🇭 changed you...more of your observations...what you learned 😊❤
As a Filipina married to an American for 37 years, I watched older Americans both men and women shuffle along life here in the States (specially during winter season) and feeling sorry for them. I do wonder to myself a lot whether they know or wonder themselves if there is a better life out there in other parts of the world. And of course, I wonder aloud to my husband whether they know that there is a better place than trudging in the snow to get their groceries...and all these wonderings I think of my country, the Philippines. Okay so I am blabbering now but I hope it makes sense 🙂and yes, we are moving there in June and I couldn't be happier.
They don't know. They don't want to know. They already know everything. They believe their country is the best place on earth and none can convince them otherwise. Just leave them, they're lost. Enjoy your life in the PH.
Congratulations, I'm happy for you to be going back home! My wife has been here with me in Florida now for 12 years. Although I'd miss my family if we move to Bohol, the way things are going in this country, Philippines is sounding better and better.
I retired at 61 last June, married a filipina 12 years ago, she came to Canada and now we are home in the Philippines in a house that we built over the last 8 years. It’s pain for and we’re having a great life . I feel more healthy as well
This guy was blessed. Takes courage to tell his story like that. He found what he was looking for. Here is like living in BS, 24-7. I know how this guy feels. I know exactly how he feels. When I'm in the phils, I feel like every burden I have is gone. I feel free, completely free. Being here, I'm constantly reminded of work, my ex, thefts at my home, cars, payments, insurance and everything has increased to the point where it pisses me off. A 100k income and I'm pissed, worried and stressed everyday. Paul makes me jelious everytime I watch his vids. Its getting to the point in the phils that Paul is becoming the one and only true, no bullshit kinda guy. If I last till December when I retire. I'm out of this sess pool of shit here in the US. This guy puts a frog in my throat. I know exactly how he feels. The real trick to the phils is; loving the phils. If you do not love the phils in general, it won't work for people. But, living in the phils and feeling comfortable there, realizing the good people there and seeing its true value, has alote to do with the return someone gets from the phils. Best wishes to everyone. Paul dam good interview. Hats off. 5 stars, ☆☆☆☆☆
Wow Paul, I’ve been watching your videos for a long time. I think this is one of your top videos that you have shared. God bless Ali. You are well blessed. Thank you for sharing your experiences of life.
WOW! Super great story, a whole lifetime of information in a short video. I agree with all he said. Thank you so very much. Will be watching this again and again.
I would like to say this gentleman‘s story is very true. He has a lot of similarities as me. I am going to be 62 in a couple of months and I will be leaving to the Philippines for retirement in less than three years or earlier. I may not have the health issues. This gentleman has, but on the relationship parts of this story is very true, including the medical part of the situation here I used to work at Kaiser and they stick to one motto, only one vendor at a time, usually whether it drugs or for supplies in general , the doctors are partners for Kaiser and there are commission kickbacks The ending of this video he says enjoy life are words to live by for all of us men Thank you for your story, Ali!
What a great story! I'm so glad he saved himself. I'm a female, solo, and have been watching videos of relocation for years including Phillipines.. I just got back from Mexico, and decided that is not for me. I'm still searching for my forever home. I cannot stand living in the US. I just filed for social security, 62, and would like to go be happy in my life. I just do not like living in the United States. Everything he says is true. Except for female, aging, is a little different. I'm not looking for a man, just happiness, and contentment. I'm so happy for this guy. He deserves happiness. Who knows maybe I'll visit Philippines. 🙂
Good interview. I'm not that far behind you and have been used as nothing but an ATM by western women and the divorce courts which financially ruined me for a decade. I'm ready to leave for an Expat country where I'm wanted. Philippines is currently my #1 choice.
Old Dog Paul, I really don't know how long it has been since I have been subscribed to this channel and following you. I know you had another channel and purposely stopped it and started this one. I say all of that to say that THIS is one of your VERY BEST videos...!! Ali has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to be ashamed of nor apologize for. He owes NO ONE an explanation on the way he is living his life nor who he has been blessed with as a life-partner. NO ONE but himself is paying his bills and at 62 years old, who really cares just what people have to say or think. My hat is off to him and his wife and family and those of us who aren't blinded by judgment, jealousy (for someone we don't even know) could be as blessed as this young man. Thank you for sharing your story Ali..!
I am 68 and my Thai wife is 42 and even I question a 40 year age gap with a 21 year old. If it works for him though then great for them and he has thought through the issues and explained them masterfully.
I am soon 68 and my Cambodian wife just turned 44. 11 years married, she just celebrated her 10 years in Austria. Thank you for this great video! I like how Ali explains all the issues and the thinking behind his decisions. 😊 All the best for you all !
I'm living with a gwapa filipina 30 years my junior in Cebu. I feel like I'm reliving my youth the way it should have been long ago. It's the best decision of my life to retire here.
I think many men have similar stories of lives that have fallen apart several times, and it all boiled down to finances. Health issues come in many forms, whether physical or mental, and both can be debilitating. I can totally relate to his story, and as I live in California, I can confirm his experiences. It doesn't necessarily have to be the philippines or even out of the United States as there are places here that are less stressful to live and that all depends on the individual. Can you imagine how much it takes to sell everything you have and move halfway around the planet and what would cause a person to do that. This is not a fade but survival for many of us whether it be financial or just for a change of pace and the women in the West are starting to realize that the men just won't put up with it anymore. I've been to the philippines 4 times in 3 years for a month at a time doing recon missions and spending time with a wonderful lady who is what American women used to be . I chose not to be with a woman who could be my grandchild, but the lady I'm seeing is old enough to be my daughter, which at our age is not weird . It's true that we are for the most part not rich by Western standards but in the philippines we are at least middle class by philippines standards so that is the equalizer for what she has to offer in value to me .
People stick to status quo because of material things which you cannot bring with you after life. We hoard things and won’t ever use or see it and keep it in the garage or store it in a storage facility paying fees for stuff. This is the way of life in the west which will eat your life away.
I'm in similar situation and this gives me hope. 2 divorces, heart issue and alone renting a bedroom to add to my investments to retire in Philippines. My cousin has a Philopena and visits regularly so I'm not going in blind about the culture and I believe I have a very realistic view on things. 3 yrs and counting to retire wish me luck. Thanks for sharing.
WOW! What a GREAT Video---I live in CommieFornia, and agree with his experiences. I am 73, and would love to come to the Phillipines as well. I run an Elder Care Home, and still work 60 to 70 hours a week, to ensure good care is given. The Eastern Way of life....wow what a great approach.! I also have a heart condition, and realize this could happen to me as well..............
Thanks a lot for sharing your story with us. I wish you another 50 years of happiness That’s the smartest move you made in your life. Good luck to you.
Another great video! I am so happy for Ali. He did the right thing for his health and sanity! Paul you've a great channel going. I watched your interview with an American woman who married a Filipino and that clinched the deal for me and hubby. He is going to retire very very soon and I like the expat community you have shown to the world! Hope we get to meet y'all someday :) BTW, I am a pinay but born and bred in the US. And I know my husband loves me for exactly the qualities that Ali describes about our culture!!
What an Excellent video Paul , My problem is im already to old ? going to 78 this December ,Waitied to long , Started to have the leg problems now , But man what aspiring video, and I can see why you guys are good freiend's Thank you so very much !!
Speaking myself as a filipino. What your sayin is absolutely right. Hands down. As i sense of it all. You love our Philippines and our people. Then in return you never go wrong. You well also be love, respected and very accepted as our own.
I appreciate the courage of this man to come forward and tell his story. I am so grateful to God almighty for creating this gigantic nursing home called Phillipines to take care of hopeless senior citizens from North America by these lovely girls. Someday I will get there for my last innings of the game before die happily.
Go now. And the nursing home analogy is harsh. I'm 50, work on an oil rig and have been commuting back and forth for years. My gf was born 2 months after I graduated college. It's a mind set, not an age related issue.
" There should be more out there " was also a phrase I said to myself often through the years as my life escalated through the 50's & there really is. Also, here it seems the less materialistic things people have the happier they are. I'm very happy for this guy but personally for me most chicks here that young just don't have that life experience I'm looking for & sometimes things really do change once the honeymoons over....
I am not disagreeing with Ali's life experience, everything that he says about America is true - IN PARTS OF AMERICA. I will soon be 66 and I retired 3 years ago. I grew up in rural Pa and I didn't experience any of the bad things that he mentioned. Hard work, church, and family were the ideals that brought a man respect. That is MY life experience. Maybe things are worse now, but it doesn't affect me. I don't have anxiety to show my wealth or to be handsome or to own a BMW or any of that. I live in a 65 year old house, drive a 6 year old car and wear jeans everyday. I also haven't carried any debt for over 25 years... and I AM HAPPY. I want for nothing. I don't have cable TV or internet. I don't chase women or spend my time in bars. I should explain that all of the above is true DESPITE the fact that I am financially very well off. I could buy a new car every year or build a new house if I wanted to... I just don't want to. I guess my point is that it is possible to live the Philippine lifestyle in America if you set your mind to it, at least in some parts of America (Appalachia). Thousands of families here still raise and butcher their own cattle, pigs and chickens and can their own food from their own gardens and orchards. Ali, like millions of Americans, unfortunately lived in the wrong part of America, and didn't marry a committed Christian woman. I'm glad that he found the PH, but he possibly could have found peace and happiness 10,000 miles closer to home if he only knew where to look.
I had to move my aunt out of that area. She lived very cheap. But, she was surrounded by drug addicts, either crack cocaine, meth, or opioids. Her apartment was broken into 3 times. I live cheap (compared to living in Florida) in Mexico. But, my money gets me a house in a middle class Mexican neighborhood. Family people. Not crack heads.
@@Mexicobeanpole She lived in the wrong part of Appalachia. Appalachia encompasses 206,000 sq miles, has 26 million people in 13 states. I guarantee you that only a tiny portion of that immense area is dominated by crack heads. I have lived here all my life (except for my military enlistment) and neither I or any of my neighbors has ever had any crack head crime. Again; I'm sure that there are dozens of communities with crime problems, but there are hundreds that don't
Great video. I too will be retiring at 62 in the Philippines but will be in Makati. A few more years then I’m living the dream and seeing my relatives in Manila.
"Enjoy your life while you are able." That is similar to what Helen Miran's said in Red 2: "It is important to enjoy life, while you still can." Of course, she was talking to Frank Moses and the hit being put on him, but the sentiment is the same. This video is a great story to tell to your audience. Success can be achieved again, even if you do not expect it.
Paul, I too almost died last year, my now ex was going to let me expire instead of pushing for heroic measures,(I was only 59 then now 60.) It was someone else who intervened that night. As I rehabilitated I had a wonderful Filipina nurse, she said when I was well and had finished my business here, (My marriage was over by then.) I should visit the Philippines, it might change my life. Since then Ive researched all I can and found I could live a small but comfortable life there. I have nothing here, so in December I will board a plane for my first visit. To see if it's a feasible move. I'll see ya at Ground Zero, coffee's on me.
Outstanding! Your friendship and kinship are easily felt and appreciated and understood! I’m 58, I’m in my process of getting my boots on the ground there this September! Thank you for all the amazing insights and valuable information! Peace ☮️
I too was very surprised to hear that as well. I appreciate he’s 2/3 years older than I; however, slow your roll. Perhaps? Not to insult as I’m not him nor am I there. Life is fleeting. Best wishes ❤
Great video, Paul. Heartwarming. From the comments there are guys watching that don’t realize that in the Philippines big age gap relationships are accepted BUT a 20 year gap is about Max seen if the Filipina is successful in her career. At least that’s what recent discussion of a group of Cebu foreigners summarized. It’s often something not talked about on CZcams. Some men like to be with women who are successful (say making more than $1200 US monthly) in their careers in the Philippines but then, age gap seems to top out at about 20 years.
Turned invisible, depressed, suicidal and zero value between 50 and 60?? Hmm I'm 58 rn and yep that's about the same feelings I got🙄!! Just hanging in there to get thru it and hopefully will be able to ride it out until I'm happy again??
Thanks for sharing. Congrats to you both. I'm in the same situation. I am age 57. Survived 2 heart attacks. For my health and happiness, I have decided to quit my 6 figure salary job and retire in the Philippines. I can't wait to start my new life.
What an inspiration Ali is. I have a story too-I've been married for 33 years, I'm 64, and getting ready to retire soon. Three weeks ago my wife asked for a divorce, what?? What I'm going to say no? She just lost 50 pounds, has been working out, recently got a big job promotion making big money and now she wants to live her "best life" I'm disabled and in a wheelchair but determined to live my "best life" too. Just when you thought you heard it all, think again...
Hi Paul, could you please ask Ali which medication the doctor replaced His metformin with. Ali’s life struggles mirror my own. I married in the pi and now in Sacramento ca. my wife wants to have nothing to do with ever going back to the Philippines. She is the most kind, loving devoted wife ever we have been married 20 years now thank you Paul for all the great content if I could talk to my wife to go back to the Philippines, I want to go there and shake your hand. Sincerely, Richard PS also, I would like to shake All’s hand because the Philippines saved our lives.😊
Have worked in health care in the U.S. for over 30 yrs., everything Ali mentioned what is wrong w/ medicine is true. Have spent most of that time trying to change it for the better for patients, so far, little to no success.
Eastern values are group (family, society) oriented. Western values are individual (self) oriented. Both have pros and cons but as we get older, Eastern values are much more fulfilling. - WW
It's interesting to compare Eastern and Western values. Both have their strengths, but it's great to hear that you find Eastern values more fulfilling as you get older.
I do appreciate saying you are a home boy now . SALAMAT PO......More blessing to come, especially your kid will be Filipino Value ....Bring you kids in Church you choose.
If you find someone asking you for money, turn the script around... and ask THEM for money! Say that you need money for a short-term investment, a company needing a loan to pay import taxes, and if they send you money, you can give them 500% return.
Another success story post USA. Good on you, Ali. Inspirational indeed. Thank you for your candor and courage. Never married, age 68, I had none of the problems you had in USA but left anyways. The culture, women, cost, crime and politics heavily influenced my decision to retire here in Valencia, Negros Island two years ago. While I still have not found "the one" I am enjoying the playing field and traveling SEA a bit (other Philippine Islands, Thailand, Indonesia mainly). It's a pretty good life here in the Wild, Wild East...long lines, bad roads, noise, scammers and greedy landlady notwithstanding. I walk the mountain roads, eat fruits, swim, watch internet TV and play guitar to fill my time. Sometimes I feel like I time traveled back to the 70s moving here because of all the attention, respect, value for $, sexy girls and they even listen to 70s music!
I am a Western woman and I'm glad this guy and others who are his age can find girlfriends or wives 1/2 to 3/4ths their age in foreign countries. Let's be honest here...they are "helping" each other out. The Filipino girl is looking for a rich foreigner whom she can love as she and her family are poor and always will be compared to him; and he's looking for someone to be his life partner, not be so lonely, and is flattered that a young girl is interested in him. I think it's a wonderful thing...they each really do help each other out, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's fine, and I don't doubt for a minute that they don't genuinely love each other...honestly. I only don't like it when Western women are portrayed as something they are not, like here. We are suppose to (1) only go after good looking in-shape men (How many middle aged men are in good shape? Most of the middle aged men that I see are overweight, and their wives or girlfriends don't care and don't say a thing about it), (2) Social Status (Not true, but it helps that you have a j-o-b of some type and are somewhat funny, interesting, and/or at least kind-hearted), and (3) Money and Wealth (I don't see that at all...most western women your age are NOT looking for rich men). I honestly think he is thinking of young 20 and 30 yos. in the U.S. who you would have to be good looking, rich and successful for them to even consider a middle-aged or older man twice their age. Even in my 20's, I was astonished at how many out-of-shape middle-aged barely making any $$$ to survive and had baggage for miles (ex-wives, had grown children who would be older than me, bankruptcies, etc.)...who really honestly were astounded that a 20 yo. like me wouldn't be interested in them...when I could easily get a guy my same age that I could build a life and a family with, that didn't have any baggage. As opposed to the Philipines, where just being a foreigner on social security makes you rich & successful, enough to disregard any "baggage" or age difference you might have. That's OK because it's a mutually beneficial arrangement...and the Philipines sounds like a nice place to live. I love these types of "interview" CZcams channels based out of foreign countries...really interesting. Just want to say that Western women really d-o love and take care of their men also, like guys who are kind-hearted/funny, are not after your money, and can be very family oriented also.
1. You state SOME obvious truth. 2. Even though YOU may not be concious of it . . . A man will not even get his 'foot in the door' without social status. It is only "not important" if other females have a high regard for him (reputation), or if you "get to know him" because you are COMPELLED to interact with him on a regular basis (for example: employment).
you have good points ma'am. there is stereotyping of one person's experience. glad that they have each other, but there are many good hearted werstern ladies. i'm filipina.
Paul, you’ve one upped yourself. Ali, my Man. From your lips to my ears. Turning 60 this year. Failed marriage ended last year (20yrs). Diagnosed with CHF April 17th and immediately hospitalized. I’m trying to hold out until 63.5 for social security. If I live long enough, Feb of 2028 I’m leaving my native and beloved country (US) and never to return. Thank you for the remarkable interview. ✝️. P.S. Born in Concord. Live in Orange County. Smack dab in CA. 👊🏻
Great video, a wise he is. Well worth the watch. My age gap is 14 years with my wife, with 2 divorces under my belt. I just wish there was CZcams when I was younger, things might have turned out different, that an doing 9 years military in Europe. Should have done that Pacific thing. 😁😉
Thank you Paul and your guest for this beautiful video. I see many many parallels between his life's experience and mine. If I remained in Canada, I am almost certain I would not be alive right now, and if I aws alive it would only be existence. I am a Canadian expat and my wife and I will soon be soon celebrating our 5th anniversary here. We have a 34 year age gap. If that was in Canada, I would feel like my Canadian wife was a child, but my wife is as mature as I am. She is more in love with me now than when we first fell in love. I have to knock myself in the head sometimes to see if this is real. It took my family and some friends back in Canada a while to accept her, let alone even begin to understand us, but in time they learned that "the proof is in the pudding" so to say. The only reason whatsoever I have any desire to return to Canada right now is only to visit my family. Otherwise I will never even visit for a holiday. It would be insanity. We have chickens, rabbits, pigeons, turkeys and pigs in our backyard. I love my new life in the Philippines. Cheers!
Hi Paul,.. what a great 👍 video !!! I feel and I agree that Ali is 💯 % correct in everything that what he had to say. I also feel that Ali "saved and he is extending his life" by making that move to come and live in the Philippines. I congratulate you Paul in choosing to make this wonderful and "informative" video with such a great and REAL story with Ali. This video puts into prospect a lot of things that guys, like myself have and are living with here in the United States. I can't wait to make my move and put my "boots on the ground" there in the Philippines. Thanks Paul and God Bless !!! Keep up the great work.
Really enjoyed the video. there was a lot of truth and a good message for all people looking to retire in the Philippines . I am nearly at that point in life. I have a house in Mactan my wife and I built, but I am still working in the UK and counting every day until I can return for good.
Awesome video. Ali, this was a sincere heartfelt story and I enjoyed every minute of it. I wish the best for you and Emelyn and that you are blessed with happiness for the remainder of your life as you well deserve.
I never got married. Never got divorced. Never produced any children. Never got scammed. Never got cheated on or had my heart broken. Never struggled with seducing a variety of attractive women. Never suffered health problems. No blood pressure, heart attack or diabetes. Don't take medications. Can I still come to the Philippines?😊
35 years working insane hours in Los Angeles, and utterly failing to get a functional relationship going with spoiled, entitled American women. Retired early. Moved to Philippines. Within one year I had met the woman of my dreams. 10 years later we are still blissfully together and living a very prosperous life on Negros Island. I had to leave my country to find a genuine partnership with a woman. Moving to the Philippines gave me a second lease on life. I've never had it so good.
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As a filipino who has a 2 brother in law that were foreighners. I can relate of the unfortunate things that happen to you Mr Ali. I know in your heart you are a good and family man. As long as you love and respect our filipina in return she will do that to you. And so thankful for you here you get out of those toxic environment and come to the place that you still have the worth to be love and cared for not only to your filipina and to us filipinos as well.
Hi Paul great show mate i always watch i am Aussie i have live for 6 years i have a small Resort in Southern Leyte Grahame and Angel Haven Beach Resort Hinunangan Southern Leyte if you are going pass one day please call in and say hi
Great video as usual! Just a SIDE NOTE. Lookes like a great apartment. Looks modern. Not typical in the Philippines? Curious at what his rent is per month.
HI PAUL , another EXCELLENT VIDEO. Horrible life BEEN THERE trying to FIX IT , takes time... Your videos and other VLOGGERS give us HOPE that MAYBE 1 day we can RE GAIN a happy life. TY GOD BLESS CIAO
Good morning Paul I just want to say that your friend Ollie has a great deal of Common Sense I have been watching your videos for the last 4 years I got to tell you the this is one of the best videos you put out I'm 75 a 40-year age Gap is scary because I don't want to pop sickle in the United States a woman of integrity with honest values it's hard to find for me coming to Uncharted Territory would be difficult you and baby m a e are blessed sincerely JW Miller Denton Texas USA yeah the guy in the wheelchair❤
Two car salesmen getting together and scamming the world!!
and he always pins TRUTH so others can bash the commenter for him. pathetic Paul. Thorntons proud buddy. PIN mine too old goat
BEST comment all century
The two douche bag commentors above are on welfare and wouldn't even know what work is.
What's the scam?
Did you buy a lemon from one of them?
Send them your life savings?
Buy a bridge?
@@franktaylor7617 It's just a joke, it's banter between men.
3 divorces, 3 homes,1 three unit apt building, 1 commercial building,3 successful businesses and cash untold from divorces all lost..Yep I feel ya brother,today is my wife's 5 year anniversary coming to the US,now a citizen I trust her with my heart,my money and our future together which will be in the Philippines...When you 16 year old son looks you in the eye and states "Dad,Michelle is the best thing to ever happen to us" What more is there to say,,thankx for the video!!!!!
It sounds like you've been through a lot, but it's heartwarming to hear about the trust and love you have for your wife and family.
Nice!
Your a good man
You have a smart son? 😀🌴🌴
3 divorces and you haven’t learned your lesson. And did it again a 4th time
The man faced heartbreak, bad health, divorce, financial loss and stared death in the face many times. After listening to his life story, none of us have a right to bitch or complain. Ali is living proof it's never too late to find your happiness and soulmate in life. Thank you for sharing, Ali, you're an inspiration to all of us!
Ali's life could be a bestseller! Who wants to write the book?
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Too be honest Paul, you have that gift
Similar troubles for me Ali,Divorced at 35 single for 10yrs 3 kids to raise,I had severe accident and lost most everything i owned..again.
Fast forward to 2013 i came to Cebu..worn out,exhausted,.
Met my fiipina wife it was our 10yr anniversary December 2023...She and the philippines changed my life
It's amazing how life can turn around when you least expect it.
My story is so similar. COVID heavily damaged my heart and lungs. Having episodes of congestive heart failure and respiratory disease that are triggered by cooler weather.
The last 2 winters I have nearly died with the doctors telling me there is nothing more that they can do, and I can not expect to survive. With Wasting Syndrome, I've went from a 235# gym rat to 147# in February. In February, I left the hospital to go home to die. I am severely weakened, but I survived. My pulmonologist has openly told me to leave to a year-round warm climate or get ready to start pushing daisies.
So, in a couple of weeks, I get on a plane moving to the Philippines. Starting a new life from the ground up, but at least I'll have a fighting chance.
Fight the good fight my friend
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Well, Paul, maybe I can help grow your business and be the first guest star on Babe Mae's new CZcams channel "Who wants a broken down old man?" 😂😂😂😂
U r vaxxed.
Yes Lawrence all the very best and good luck!
I'm sorry that COVID harmed your health.❤
2 Divorces 6 kids and no respect no love no help. I’m looking for the exact same thing. Thanks for sharing Ali. Thanks Paul
4 divorces 60 years old now i been married 13 years to my Filipina shes now 40.
the American women give me dirty looks lol. the men say that im their hero. several men in my small area have kicked their hateful old American wives to the curb and now are married to Filipinas now
You can do it Robert 💪
i really feel bad for you sir so many guys go through this which is why at 37 no wife or kids i look at you guys stories and im learning that its ok no to follow the norm seems like nowadays most men get married and HOPE that the wife does not take half but eventually most western women will take it and leave you high n dry
I felt the same way about not being able to find somebody closer to my age without baggage or children, I ended up with a 25 year age gap and getting married to a 22 year old Filipina girl, that was over 24 years ago and things are still going well, no regrets by either of us.
Awesome I'm happy for you.
Great to hear 👍
Amazing video
Thanks for sharing Ali...please do more videos on your wisdom and insights...how Philippines 🇵🇭 changed you...more of your observations...what you learned 😊❤
I have a 32 year old age gap - but the thing is - she is a full blown mature woman. We're just two people who live and love together.
That's awesome! Age is just a number, and as long as you're happy together, that's all that counts. Cheers to your love story!
As a Filipina married to an American for 37 years, I watched older Americans both men and women shuffle along life here in the States (specially during winter season) and feeling sorry for them. I do wonder to myself a lot whether they know or wonder themselves if there is a better life out there in other parts of the world. And of course, I wonder aloud to my husband whether they know that there is a better place than trudging in the snow to get their groceries...and all these wonderings I think of my country, the Philippines. Okay so I am blabbering now but I hope it makes sense 🙂and yes, we are moving there in June and I couldn't be happier.
They don't know. They don't want to know. They already know everything. They believe their country is the best place on earth and none can convince them otherwise. Just leave them, they're lost.
Enjoy your life in the PH.
Congratulations, I'm happy for you to be going back home! My wife has been here with me in Florida now for 12 years. Although I'd miss my family if we move to Bohol, the way things are going in this country, Philippines is sounding better and better.
@@tomcase2837 if you can do it get out of Dodge America’s going to fall quickly
It’s too late to worry about that. It’s already begun.
My husband and I were moving to Philippines in July or August. I can’t wait!
Great story, this is very inspiring. I hope he has a great life and enjoys the Philippines.
Thank you Patrick
We are also age-gap couples; I find great joy in hearing about the triumphs of other age-gap couples.😊
I retired at 61 last June, married a filipina 12 years ago, she came to Canada and now we are home in the Philippines in a house that we built over the last 8 years. It’s pain for and we’re having a great life . I feel more healthy as well
This guy was blessed. Takes courage to tell his story like that. He found what he was looking for. Here is like living in BS, 24-7. I know how this guy feels. I know exactly how he feels. When I'm in the phils, I feel like every burden I have is gone. I feel free, completely free. Being here, I'm constantly reminded of work, my ex, thefts at my home, cars, payments, insurance and everything has increased to the point where it pisses me off. A 100k income and I'm pissed, worried and stressed everyday. Paul makes me jelious everytime I watch his vids. Its getting to the point in the phils that Paul is becoming the one and only true, no bullshit kinda guy. If I last till December when I retire. I'm out of this sess pool of shit here in the US. This guy puts a frog in my throat. I know exactly how he feels. The real trick to the phils is; loving the phils. If you do not love the phils in general, it won't work for people. But, living in the phils and feeling comfortable there, realizing the good people there and seeing its true value, has alote to do with the return someone gets from the phils. Best wishes to everyone. Paul dam good interview. Hats off. 5 stars, ☆☆☆☆☆
Thanks so much Allen, I appreciate you 🙏
It sounds like it more about what’s going on in your head. Get rid of what you don’t need. Minimal maintenance.
Glad to know Ali is now happy with low stress. Thanks for sharing Paul and God bless.
Yes, thank you k9!
You’re right Ali, you don’t want to have a different Mama with the same drama. I’m happy that you found a good woman💪🏼🙏🏼
It's important to break the cycle and find happiness.
Wow Paul, I’ve been watching your videos for a long time. I think this is one of your top videos that you have shared. God bless Ali. You are well blessed. Thank you for sharing your experiences of life.
Ali's blessings are working their magic! Stay tuned for more top-quality content coming your way.
WOW! Super great story, a whole lifetime of information in a short video. I agree with all he said. Thank you so very much. Will be watching this again and again.
Thanks so much Joe
I would like to say this gentleman‘s story is very true. He has a lot of similarities as me. I am going to be 62 in a couple of months and I will be leaving to the Philippines for retirement in less than three years or earlier.
I may not have the health issues. This gentleman has, but on the relationship parts of this story is very true, including the medical part of the situation here I used to work at Kaiser and they stick to one motto, only one vendor at a time, usually whether it drugs or for supplies in general , the doctors are partners for Kaiser and there are commission kickbacks
The ending of this video he says enjoy life are words to live by for all of us men
Thank you for your story, Ali!
Great to hear it from someone who has been there and seen it in person, I appreciate your feedback 😀
What a great story! I'm so glad he saved himself. I'm a female, solo, and have been watching videos of relocation for years including Phillipines.. I just got back from Mexico, and decided that is not for me. I'm still searching for my forever home. I cannot stand living in the US. I just filed for social security, 62, and would like to go be happy in my life. I just do not like living in the United States. Everything he says is true. Except for female, aging, is a little different. I'm not looking for a man, just happiness, and contentment. I'm so happy for this guy. He deserves happiness. Who knows maybe I'll visit Philippines. 🙂
Very nice bloke, very sweet story he read out, and marvellous effect just 3 years of 'real' retirement has had. Well done Ali and Paul. 🌴🌴
Thank you very much 😊
Good interview. I'm not that far behind you and have been used as nothing but an ATM by western women and the divorce courts which financially ruined me for a decade. I'm ready to leave for an Expat country where I'm wanted. Philippines is currently my #1 choice.
You'll always be an atm - you're a man. It's just that you get something in return in SEA.
@@genericchannel5899 True
Hi @franciscoaguilar123 Thanks, sorry to hear about your experience, glad you're considering a fresh start!
Old Dog Paul, I really don't know how long it has been since I have been subscribed to this channel and following you. I know you had another channel and purposely stopped it and started this one. I say all of that to say that THIS is one of your VERY BEST videos...!! Ali has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to be ashamed of nor apologize for. He owes NO ONE an explanation on the way he is living his life nor who he has been blessed with as a life-partner. NO ONE but himself is paying his bills and at 62 years old, who really cares just what people have to say or think. My hat is off to him and his wife and family and those of us who aren't blinded by judgment, jealousy (for someone we don't even know) could be as blessed as this young man. Thank you for sharing your story Ali..!
I am 68 and my Thai wife is 42 and even I question a 40 year age gap with a 21 year old. If it works for him though then great for them and he has thought through the issues and explained them masterfully.
I am soon 68 and my Cambodian wife just turned 44. 11 years married, she just celebrated her 10 years in Austria. Thank you for this great video!
I like how Ali explains all the issues and the thinking behind his decisions. 😊
All the best for you all !
I'm living with a gwapa filipina 30 years my junior in Cebu. I feel like I'm reliving my youth the way it should have been long ago. It's the best decision of my life to retire here.
I can see why you two are friends. Good man.
Hi @Abelius Thanks, appreciate the kind words!
Best interview I’ve ever seen in my life!
Thanks a bunch for the shoutout! I'm thrilled you enjoyed it.
Amen !! I don’t not normally comment ! You hit the nail on the head with this video ! I am 64 and experiencing some of the same !!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's great to know that the video resonated with you.
I think many men have similar stories of lives that have fallen apart several times, and it all boiled down to finances. Health issues come in many forms, whether physical or mental, and both can be debilitating. I can totally relate to his story, and as I live in California, I can confirm his experiences. It doesn't necessarily have to be the philippines or even out of the United States as there are places here that are less stressful to live and that all depends on the individual. Can you imagine how much it takes to sell everything you have and move halfway around the planet and what would cause a person to do that. This is not a fade but survival for many of us whether it be financial or just for a change of pace and the women in the West are starting to realize that the men just won't put up with it anymore. I've been to the philippines 4 times in 3 years for a month at a time doing recon missions and spending time with a wonderful lady who is what American women used to be . I chose not to be with a woman who could be my grandchild, but the lady I'm seeing is old enough to be my daughter, which at our age is not weird . It's true that we are for the most part not rich by Western standards but in the philippines we are at least middle class by philippines standards so that is the equalizer for what she has to offer in value to me .
People stick to status quo because of material things which you cannot bring with you after life. We hoard things and won’t ever use or see it and keep it in the garage or store it in a storage facility paying fees for stuff. This is the way of life in the west which will eat your life away.
Hi @gailmaplesden7380 Thanks for sharing your relatable story! We understand the struggle and appreciate your perspective on a better quality of life.
I'm in similar situation and this gives me hope. 2 divorces, heart issue and alone renting a bedroom to add to my investments to retire in Philippines. My cousin has a Philopena and visits regularly so I'm not going in blind about the culture and I believe I have a very realistic view on things. 3 yrs and counting to retire wish me luck. Thanks for sharing.
Don't get feminist and feminine confused. There is a HUGE difference. And we all know what those differences are. These two men get it.
What a beautiful testimony and improvement in his life. He is truly living the dream 😊
Thank you for appreciating his journey and sharing your thoughts!
one of the best interview, speaking from his heart, experience and I saw real happiness from his eyes and face ❤❤❤ Im happy for you take care.Ali
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad you enjoyed the interview.
WOW! What a GREAT Video---I live in CommieFornia, and agree with his experiences. I am 73, and would love to come to the Phillipines as well. I run an Elder Care Home, and still work 60 to 70 hours a week, to ensure good care is given. The Eastern Way of life....wow what a great approach.! I also have a heart condition, and realize this could happen to me as well..............
Amazing interview! I live in Spain and most of the things he said can be a reflection of what's happening here...
Thanks a lot for sharing your story with us. I wish you another 50 years of happiness That’s the smartest move you made in your life. Good luck to you.
Another great video! I am so happy for Ali. He did the right thing for his health and sanity! Paul you've a great channel going. I watched your interview with an American woman who married a Filipino and that clinched the deal for me and hubby. He is going to retire very very soon and I like the expat community you have shown to the world! Hope we get to meet y'all someday :) BTW, I am a pinay but born and bred in the US. And I know my husband loves me for exactly the qualities that Ali describes about our culture!!
What an Excellent video Paul , My problem is im already to old ? going to 78 this December ,Waitied to long , Started to have the leg problems now , But man what aspiring video, and I can see why you guys are good freiend's Thank you so very much !!
Age is just a state of mind, and friendship knows no bounds. Keep rocking!
You are as young now as you are ever going to be. . .
Hands down the best video, thank you ali and paul .We all feel the same
Thank you for your kind words! We appreciate your support.
Great story Ali!...Thank you for sharing. May God continue to bless you and your family. Thank you again.
Same to you!
Speaking myself as a filipino. What your sayin is absolutely right. Hands down. As i sense of it all. You love our Philippines and our people. Then in return you never go wrong. You well also be love, respected and very accepted as our own.
Hi @brussetbejarasco2694 Thank you for the kind words, I'm glad to hear that!
I appreciate the courage of this man to come forward and tell his story. I am so grateful to God almighty for creating this gigantic nursing home called Phillipines to take care of hopeless senior citizens from North America by these lovely girls. Someday I will get there for my last innings of the game before die happily.
Go now. And the nursing home analogy is harsh. I'm 50, work on an oil rig and have been commuting back and forth for years. My gf was born 2 months after I graduated college. It's a mind set, not an age related issue.
Hi @sunilrodrigo9778 Thanks for your kind words and understanding our decision!
" There should be more out there " was also a phrase I said to myself often through the years as my life escalated through the 50's & there really is. Also, here it seems the less materialistic things people have the happier they are. I'm very happy for this guy but personally for me most chicks here that young just don't have that life experience I'm looking for & sometimes things really do change once the honeymoons over....
This has to be one of my favorite videos of all times on CZcams great job Ali
Hi @trinitariobtraveling8113 Thanks so much! Glad you enjoyed it!
I am not disagreeing with Ali's life experience, everything that he says about America is true - IN PARTS OF AMERICA.
I will soon be 66 and I retired 3 years ago. I grew up in rural Pa and I didn't experience any of the bad things that he mentioned.
Hard work, church, and family were the ideals that brought a man respect. That is MY life experience. Maybe things are worse now, but it doesn't affect me. I don't have anxiety to show my wealth or to be handsome or to own a BMW or any of that.
I live in a 65 year old house, drive a 6 year old car and wear jeans everyday. I also haven't carried any debt for over 25 years... and I AM HAPPY. I want for nothing. I don't have cable TV or internet. I don't chase women or spend my time in bars.
I should explain that all of the above is true DESPITE the fact that I am financially very well off. I could buy a new car every year or build a new house if I wanted to... I just don't want to.
I guess my point is that it is possible to live the Philippine lifestyle in America if you set your mind to it, at least in some parts of America (Appalachia). Thousands of families here still raise and butcher their own cattle, pigs and chickens and can their own food from their own gardens and orchards.
Ali, like millions of Americans, unfortunately lived in the wrong part of America, and didn't marry a committed Christian woman. I'm glad that he found the PH, but he possibly could have found peace and happiness 10,000 miles closer to home if he only knew where to look.
Some guys just aren't cut out for monk mode in the country.
I had to move my aunt out of that area. She lived very cheap. But, she was surrounded by drug addicts, either crack cocaine, meth, or opioids. Her apartment was broken into 3 times.
I live cheap (compared to living in Florida) in Mexico. But, my money gets me a house in a middle class Mexican neighborhood. Family people. Not crack heads.
Marrying a xian woman is no guarantee of good behavior. You just deal with a more niche form of crazy.
@@Mexicobeanpole She lived in the wrong part of Appalachia. Appalachia encompasses 206,000 sq miles, has 26 million people in 13 states. I guarantee you that only a tiny portion of that immense area is dominated by crack heads. I have lived here all my life (except for my military enlistment) and neither I or any of my neighbors has ever had any crack head crime. Again; I'm sure that there are dozens of communities with crime problems, but there are hundreds that don't
Great video. I too will be retiring at 62 in the Philippines but will be in Makati. A few more years then I’m living the dream and seeing my relatives in Manila.
Hi @Airraidcd Thanks, excited to hear you're also joining us here!
"Enjoy your life while you are able." That is similar to what Helen Miran's said in Red 2: "It is important to enjoy life, while you still can." Of course, she was talking to Frank Moses and the hit being put on him, but the sentiment is the same. This video is a great story to tell to your audience. Success can be achieved again, even if you do not expect it.
Paul, I too almost died last year, my now ex was going to let me expire instead of pushing for heroic measures,(I was only 59 then now 60.) It was someone else who intervened that night. As I rehabilitated I had a wonderful Filipina nurse, she said when I was well and had finished my business here, (My marriage was over by then.) I should visit the Philippines, it might change my life. Since then Ive researched all I can and found I could live a small but comfortable life there. I have nothing here, so in December I will board a plane for my first visit. To see if it's a feasible move. I'll see ya at Ground Zero, coffee's on me.
Hi @IrAbynormal Thanks for sharing your inspiring story! Excited to welcome you to Dumaguete!
Thank you. This gives meant people hope. 🙏
I agree, hope springs eternal
Best video yet!
Thanks Jim 👌 😊
Omg
Congrats Paul finding this amazing interview partner. Every word he says I agree 100%.
I wish him a long happy life 🤞🤞🤞👍👍👍💪💪💪🙏🏼
Hi @beatmueller5119 Thanks, appreciated!
Thanks for sharing your experience with us
Thanks for watching!
Outstanding! Your friendship and kinship are easily felt and appreciated and understood! I’m 58, I’m in my process of getting my boots on the ground there this September! Thank you for all the amazing insights and valuable information! Peace ☮️
I was considering coming this September as well, how much is airfare running right now?
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad you find the insights valuable. Best of luck with your journey!
really surprised that he said he was buying land and a house after having his assets cleaned out twice. Maybe 3rd times a charm.
I keep doing the exact same thing and the outcome never changes! What gives?
I too was very surprised to hear that as well. I appreciate he’s 2/3 years older than I; however, slow your roll. Perhaps? Not to insult as I’m not him nor am I there. Life is fleeting. Best wishes ❤
Very good interview. The example of the ride to the airport was fantastic.
Glad you liked the airport ride example! Maybe I should start a "Rides to the Airport" series!
Great video, Paul. Heartwarming. From the comments there are guys watching that don’t realize that in the Philippines big age gap relationships are accepted BUT a 20 year gap is about Max seen if the Filipina is successful in her career. At least that’s what recent discussion of a group of Cebu foreigners summarized. It’s often something not talked about on CZcams. Some men like to be with women who are successful (say making more than $1200 US monthly) in their careers in the Philippines but then, age gap seems to top out at about 20 years.
Hi @careysretirementjourney Thanks for sharing your insights! We're glad you enjoyed the video.
You guys are speaking the whole truth
Turned invisible, depressed, suicidal and zero value between 50 and 60?? Hmm I'm 58 rn and yep that's about the same feelings I got🙄!! Just hanging in there to get thru it and hopefully will be able to ride it out until I'm happy again??
Hang in there you are not alone!
As Ali's friend said to him if you want to live you got to leave the West. There is no other way
This IS 1 of the MOST important videos about the Philippines, eastern culture I have ever seen. Thank you BOTH for sharing! 🤔
Hi @gheechiedan9299 Thanks so much, appreciate your kind words!
Thanks for sharing. Congrats to you both. I'm in the same situation. I am age 57. Survived 2 heart attacks. For my health and happiness, I have decided to quit my 6 figure salary job and retire in the Philippines. I can't wait to start my new life.
Hi @alincalcity Thanks for sharing! Exciting times ahead for you too! We're loving our new life here.
You are absolutely right , thank you for sharing your experience
Hi @natureloveruae9407 You're welcome! Glad to share our story.
What an inspiration Ali is. I have a story too-I've been married for 33 years, I'm 64, and getting ready to retire soon. Three weeks ago my wife asked for a divorce, what?? What I'm going to say no? She just lost 50 pounds, has been working out, recently got a big job promotion making big money and now she wants to live her "best life" I'm disabled and in a wheelchair but determined to live my "best life" too. Just when you thought you heard it all, think again...
Well, hopefully she can pay income to you then.
Hi @assocrec Thank you for sharing your story! Wishing you the best as you navigate this new chapter.
Wow almost at 100k subs, awesome!
Paul why aren’t there videos of retired solo female expats from the US. It would be interesting too..
I have a few on my playlist
Be carefule with that curtain Eugene, the Wizard of Oz is behind it....
God bless you guys
God Bless you also Robert
Hi Paul, could you please ask Ali which medication the doctor replaced
His metformin with. Ali’s life struggles mirror my own. I married in the pi and now in Sacramento ca. my wife wants to have nothing to do with ever going back to the Philippines. She is the most kind, loving devoted wife ever we have been married 20 years now thank you Paul for all the great content if I could talk to my wife to go back to the Philippines, I want to go there and shake your hand. Sincerely, Richard PS also, I would like to shake All’s hand because the Philippines saved our lives.😊
I'm not sure what his new medication is, i will ask next time i see him
Thank you for taking the time. My wife may be open to travel due to her parents getting up in years..November? I really wanna see Iloilo and Bacolod
Have worked in health care in the U.S. for over 30 yrs., everything Ali mentioned what is wrong w/ medicine is true. Have spent most of that time trying to change it for the better for patients, so far, little to no success.
Coming from you that means a lot, you are talking from experience and seeing it in person
Great video Paul.
Thanks 👍
Thank you Paul for sharing his life story to your channel it’s amazing appreciate it, God bless you, especially your new guest ❤
Eastern values are group (family, society) oriented. Western values are individual (self) oriented. Both have pros and cons but as we get older, Eastern values are much more fulfilling. - WW
It's interesting to compare Eastern and Western values. Both have their strengths, but it's great to hear that you find Eastern values more fulfilling as you get older.
I do appreciate saying you are a home boy now . SALAMAT PO......More blessing to come, especially your kid will be Filipino Value ....Bring you kids in Church you choose.
Hi @angelocalima6338 Thanks! We're loving life here and trying to instill those values in our kiddo.
Thanks for sharing this story. God bless you ALL.
Our pleasure!
If you find someone asking you for money, turn the script around... and ask THEM for money! Say that you need money for a short-term investment, a company needing a loan to pay import taxes, and if they send you money, you can give them 500% return.
Hi @fialee8 Love the creative approach! Thanks for sharing!
I understand this guy completely...I'm also 63 and need to work until 65...AND CAN'T WAIT TO GET OUT OF HERE( Canada)
Thanks for that ! Came across as heartfelt. So right about the food and preservatives in the U.S.
Another success story post USA. Good on you, Ali. Inspirational indeed. Thank you for your candor and courage. Never married, age 68, I had none of the problems you had in USA but left anyways. The culture, women, cost, crime and politics heavily influenced my decision to retire here in Valencia, Negros Island two years ago. While I still have not found "the one" I am enjoying the playing field and traveling SEA a bit (other Philippine Islands, Thailand, Indonesia mainly). It's a pretty good life here in the Wild, Wild East...long lines, bad roads, noise, scammers and greedy landlady notwithstanding. I walk the mountain roads, eat fruits, swim, watch internet TV and play guitar to fill my time. Sometimes I feel like I time traveled back to the 70s moving here because of all the attention, respect, value for $, sexy girls and they even listen to 70s music!
Thank you for sharing your journey and your positive outlook on life. It's wonderful to see you embracing new experiences and enjoying every moment.
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Thanks, Paul. See you around town for coffee sometime...
I am a Western woman and I'm glad this guy and others who are his age can find girlfriends or wives 1/2 to 3/4ths their age in foreign countries. Let's be honest here...they are "helping" each other out. The Filipino girl is looking for a rich foreigner whom she can love as she and her family are poor and always will be compared to him; and he's looking for someone to be his life partner, not be so lonely, and is flattered that a young girl is interested in him. I think it's a wonderful thing...they each really do help each other out, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's fine, and I don't doubt for a minute that they don't genuinely love each other...honestly. I only don't like it when Western women are portrayed as something they are not, like here. We are suppose to (1) only go after good looking in-shape men (How many middle aged men are in good shape? Most of the middle aged men that I see are overweight, and their wives or girlfriends don't care and don't say a thing about it), (2) Social Status (Not true, but it helps that you have a j-o-b of some type and are somewhat funny, interesting, and/or at least kind-hearted), and (3) Money and Wealth (I don't see that at all...most western women your age are NOT looking for rich men). I honestly think he is thinking of young 20 and 30 yos. in the U.S. who you would have to be good looking, rich and successful for them to even consider a middle-aged or older man twice their age. Even in my 20's, I was astonished at how many out-of-shape middle-aged barely making any $$$ to survive and had baggage for miles (ex-wives, had grown children who would be older than me, bankruptcies, etc.)...who really honestly were astounded that a 20 yo. like me wouldn't be interested in them...when I could easily get a guy my same age that I could build a life and a family with, that didn't have any baggage. As opposed to the Philipines, where just being a foreigner on social security makes you rich & successful, enough to disregard any "baggage" or age difference you might have. That's OK because it's a mutually beneficial arrangement...and the Philipines sounds like a nice place to live. I love these types of "interview" CZcams channels based out of foreign countries...really interesting. Just want to say that Western women really d-o love and take care of their men also, like guys who are kind-hearted/funny, are not after your money, and can be very family oriented also.
1. You state SOME obvious truth.
2. Even though YOU may not be concious of it . . . A man will not even get his 'foot in the door' without social status. It is only "not important" if other females have a high regard for him (reputation), or if you "get to know him" because you are COMPELLED to interact with him on a regular basis (for example: employment).
you have good points ma'am. there is stereotyping of one person's experience. glad that they have each other, but there are many good hearted werstern ladies. i'm filipina.
Hi @bettywith2girls Thanks for watching and understanding our situation!
Paul, you’ve one upped yourself. Ali, my Man. From your lips to my ears. Turning 60 this year. Failed marriage ended last year (20yrs). Diagnosed with CHF April 17th and immediately hospitalized. I’m trying to hold out until 63.5 for social security. If I live long enough, Feb of 2028 I’m leaving my native and beloved country (US) and never to return. Thank you for the remarkable interview. ✝️. P.S. Born in Concord. Live in Orange County. Smack dab in CA. 👊🏻
im 34 combat vet, 2 divorces, invisible, depressed, understand completely
Great video, a wise he is. Well worth the watch. My age gap is 14 years with my wife, with 2 divorces under my belt. I just wish there was CZcams when I was younger, things might have turned out different, that an doing 9 years military in Europe. Should have done that Pacific thing. 😁😉
Hi @gerrymcnally9344 Appreciate your kind words! We're glad you enjoyed the video.
Ali, thanks for sharing your life with all of us.
I'm afraid of making that move, but people like you and Paul help us.
You can do it!
Thank you Paul and your guest for this beautiful video. I see many many parallels between his life's experience and mine. If I remained in Canada, I am almost certain I would not be alive right now, and if I aws alive it would only be existence. I am a Canadian expat and my wife and I will soon be soon celebrating our 5th anniversary here. We have a 34 year age gap. If that was in Canada, I would feel like my Canadian wife was a child, but my wife is as mature as I am. She is more in love with me now than when we first fell in love. I have to knock myself in the head sometimes to see if this is real. It took my family and some friends back in Canada a while to accept her, let alone even begin to understand us, but in time they learned that "the proof is in the pudding" so to say. The only reason whatsoever I have any desire to return to Canada right now is only to visit my family. Otherwise I will never even visit for a holiday. It would be insanity. We have chickens, rabbits, pigeons, turkeys and pigs in our backyard. I love my new life in the Philippines. Cheers!
Hi @Kevins-Philippine-Retirement Thanks for sharing your similar experience and congratulations on your 5th anniversary!
Hi Paul,.. what a great 👍 video !!!
I feel and I agree that Ali is 💯 % correct in everything that what he had to say.
I also feel that Ali "saved and he is extending his life" by making that move to come and live in the Philippines.
I congratulate you Paul in choosing to make this wonderful and "informative" video with such a great and REAL story with Ali. This video puts into prospect a lot of things that guys, like myself have and are living with here in the United States.
I can't wait to make my move and put my "boots on the ground" there in the Philippines.
Thanks Paul and God Bless !!!
Keep up the great work.
Hi @floribertosousa2251 Thanks for your kind words!
Not just America UK too
All Western countries
Really enjoyed the video. there was a lot of truth and a good message for all people looking to retire in the Philippines . I am nearly at that point in life. I have a house in Mactan my wife and I built, but I am still working in the UK and counting every day until I can return for good.
Congrats on your marriage. Your health is looking good too.
23. There goes another 500k. 😊
Awesome video. Ali, this was a sincere heartfelt story and I enjoyed every minute of it. I wish the best for you and Emelyn and that you are blessed with happiness for the remainder of your life as you well deserve.
Hi @larry.andrews6210 Thanks so much for watching and for your kind words!
This hits hard. Much respect to you my friend.
Hi @Kevin_Hartman Thanks, buddy! Means a lot coming from you.
I never got married. Never got divorced. Never produced any children. Never got scammed. Never got cheated on or had my heart broken. Never struggled with seducing a variety of attractive women. Never suffered health problems. No blood pressure, heart attack or diabetes. Don't take medications. Can I still come to the Philippines?😊
35 years working insane hours in Los Angeles, and utterly failing to get a functional relationship going with spoiled, entitled American women. Retired early. Moved to Philippines. Within one year I had met the woman of my dreams. 10 years later we are still blissfully together and living a very prosperous life on Negros Island. I had to leave my country to find a genuine partnership with a woman. Moving to the Philippines gave me a second lease on life. I've never had it so good.
It's a Wonderful Life"....watch it, think about it, learn...the West has lost this.
Best movie ever made and when it just went out it wasn’t popular.
Hi @robertreynolds580 Thank you! We love watching old classics like that too!
Hello foreigners....I own 2 condos in Bgc area if interested. The ist one is Times Square in Uptown Bgc. This is brand new, not rented yet. It is one bedroom, fully furnished, with a penthouse view of Makati. It's 45k a month with 2 months deposit with 1 year minimum lease.
The second one is an upscale condo One Serendra one bedroom, fully furnished..It is 95k a month, 2 months deposit and minimum 1 year lease.
If interested let me know..😅
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Well written/said, Sir! A message I hope more men going through hell hear, a message of hope!
As a filipino who has a 2 brother in law that were foreighners. I can relate of the unfortunate things that happen to you Mr Ali. I know in your heart you are a good and family man. As long as you love and respect our filipina in return she will do that to you. And so thankful for you here you get out of those toxic environment and come to the place that you still have the worth to be love and cared for not only to your filipina and to us filipinos as well.
Hi @brussetbejarasco2694 Thank you for your kind words and understanding. We appreciate your support.
Good session
Thanks for taking time to watch and comment
Hi Paul great show mate i always watch i am Aussie i have live for 6 years i have a small Resort in Southern Leyte Grahame and Angel Haven Beach Resort Hinunangan Southern Leyte if you are going pass one day please call in and say hi
Great video as usual! Just a SIDE NOTE. Lookes like a great apartment. Looks modern. Not typical in the Philippines? Curious at what his rent is per month.
we will be giving you a tour in the near future!
Thank you, Ali. Respect brother🙏🏼
Respect back to you Jim
HI PAUL , another EXCELLENT VIDEO.
Horrible life BEEN THERE trying to FIX IT , takes time...
Your videos and other VLOGGERS give us HOPE that MAYBE 1 day we can RE GAIN a happy life.
TY GOD BLESS CIAO
So true
Good morning Paul I just want to say that your friend Ollie has a great deal of Common Sense I have been watching your videos for the last 4 years I got to tell you the this is one of the best videos you put out I'm 75 a 40-year age Gap is scary because I don't want to pop sickle in the United States a woman of integrity with honest values it's hard to find for me coming to Uncharted Territory would be difficult you and baby m a e are blessed sincerely JW Miller Denton Texas USA yeah the guy in the wheelchair❤