Why Do So Many Expats Retire in the Philippines?
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- čas přidán 24. 11. 2023
- Expats Retiring and Living in the Philippines/Chad Fosters First Year @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 I chat with Chad Foster, a Canadian born expat that lived and worked in America. He found that the stress, work burnout, and the challenges of finding a compatible partner was extremally difficult, so he took the plunge, and came to the Philippines to possibly meet the woman of his dreams. This is his story.
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Excellent Video/Interview Paul 😊. Chad is on point 💯 percent correct. American is going to 💩 in a hand basket for sure.
Ok, 109 day's to go before I move to the Philippines 🇵🇭. March 13th is right around the corner.
Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏.
Don't wait
I waited 90 days and COVID-19 hit.
Then I had to wait 2 years to get here .
Big regret
@@-goldfinger2695 I'm remodeling my house 🏠, then selling. My son also asked me to stay until March. Be there soon.
Truth
I’m visiting the US for the holidays and I can’t wait to get back to Asia :-)
This was a great interview
Chad seems to have grasp the change from western societies to SE Asia. Yes people are people but other cultures, environments, politics, food, infrastructure, education, history, resources and what I find most damaging is politics. Speaking from a western man's perspective - to be respected, loved, needed / appreciated, to lead, protect, provide security financially and emotionally, to be ethical, moral and possibly religious are how western men encapsulate what it is to be a man. With that comes pressure, responsibilities and at times burdens = stress, worry, competition, ego, mental/emotional issues which causes the foregoing of PEACE. As stated by another commentor - the USA has lost what's most valued.
I left with NO regrets and hopefully will never go back.
Hi @rickylee6129 Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it. Safe travels and good luck with your upcoming move!
I remember back when my husband was courting me and I mentioned my English and he said that it was fine, that I'm smarter than him as he only speaks English while I speak at least Tagalog, Visayan and English. That comment puts me at ease from then on. I enjoy this content so much. We're 7 months away from moving back to retire in the Philippines and can't wait. Thanks Paul.
Hi @midlifewanderings Love that story! Glad we could help with the retirement plans, see you soon in Dumaguete!
Great stuff Guys! I'm 48 and living between Samar and Las Vegas. This year: 4 months in Samar/ 8 months in Vegas. Next year I'm reversing it. then by 2025 full time Philippines. I have a fondness for a simpler life which I just can't find in the States anymore.
Political, racial and sexual division were my deciding factors in deciding to retire in the Philippines. My late Wife was a Filipina, and was the best 13 years of my life. After losing her, American women didn’t measure up, and that’s why I began looking at finding a Filipina to live out my life with. Retirement would be financially difficult in the U.S., and now that I’ve found the right Filipina, living in the Philippines with emotional and financial stability is a no-brainer for me.
I CONCUR 😊
I DOUBLE concur.
Political and the greedy, selfish, narcissistic American woman !!! I love the feminine aspect of the Filipinas
Amen
I don't watch news nor care. Coming here bitter and grumpy will catch up with you.
I was surprised to hear he had a CZcams channel. That must be quite rare in Dumaguete.
😂
I am a lucky one who found my phillipina in the USA. She has a couple more years to work to qualify for SS when she reaches 62. We are planning to move to Cebu area Your vlogs are invaluable Paul. Thank you!! Good luck to you Chad on your new adventures
I heard they're gonna be changing the s s Age To fifty
@@markthomson170 I am not sure about that. She is in her fifties and just needs forty quarters to qualify. She will have to wait till 62. I am 6 years older than her. I wanted someone more my age. Can’t keep up with the younger ones 😂
@@MR-DeVage I believe it's a proposal that they're asking that the age below the fifty
Does anyone know about the theory/conspiracy to end SSA and all branches of the program? What is the probability of SOCIAL GRADING/SCORES and USA Govt. CONTROL? What is the talk about USA Currency being negated and converted to DIGITAL Currency? Why is this widely spread over SOCIAL MEDIA?
Sorry,but way to old!!!!
Chad is very articulate and pragmatic in dealing with his love life. Old dog lets Chad do most of the talking which is great. As always thank you Paul for an excellent interview.
Hi @victortan4191 Thanks, appreciate your feedback!
It's interesting listening to you both talking about here in the Philippines versus back in the USA. After much thought I think I might know the answer:
In the Philippines people here are naturally friendly and share whatever they have around friends. Nobody feels like a stranger when invited into a Filipino home. You become part of the extended family of friends.
Money and stress are always there but not openly discussed. Traditional roles are still the normal rules and ways of life. I am surrounded by much laughter and smiles. Filipina work hard in maintaining family connections from parents and her new family, husband and children.
Having a good education is the goal for all Filipino children. Being closely aligned with Western Culture and having a better life for family & children.
Dating is more traditional and on first dates it's common for a Filipina to bring a friend along. Children are very respectful of their elders. Dating is like 1950's style. No pressure, making friends first with connections of more friends along the way.
This is polar opposite of life in the USA. Life is stressful in everyday activities. Politics & religion are in your face at every turn. Women are independent and career first, family second, husband third or fourth on the list Marriage is survival and roles of men & women are blurred. Their is always more toys, things or gadgets to buy.
You seldom talk to your neighbor or nay not know who they are. Someone knocking on your door is met with alarm and distrust. Children are taught Safe Words.. stranger is danger.
Now which lifestyle do you prefer?
eat lots of fish
If you are a believer, then you must never forget that we are on Satan's turf and destined to suffer and be destroyed. I've come to wonder why mankind we're created in the first place? Did God feel the need to be worshiped, was he lonesome, why are you challenged to praise him and give your soul and being to him or be doomed to HELL? HOW IS THAT LOVE? I'm asking a legitimate question...
@@garylagera7584 God only exists if there is also the existence of humanity. If a tree falls in the forest an no one hears, it does not make a sound.
Women are the backbone of a society. If the majority of women act like they do in the Philippines, then the society will follow. If they are broken, lack traditional values are materialistic and independent like in the Western English speaking countries, the culture is broken and getting worse with each generation.
are u kidding me, how long have u been in the PI? In the long run, it is the complete opposite of what you said. They only want your money, or what they can get from you in the future. They are not respectful to elders, unless its their own relatives. I have been visiting the PI for 25 years, and lived here for 7 years. I am leaving for good,,,tired of the crap and people
Chad is a good guy, and have followed him from the start of his journey, and his return to the US, and back to the Philippines. He has been with a few women, but he found out that things are tough even there. Great interview, and to find a Filipina that is part of the decisions in life with her is the best part of a great relationship 😊
Same.
Hi @steveperyer4850 Thanks for sharing your Chad story! We appreciate the nod to our friend's journey. Glad you enjoyed the interview!
Hey Paul. Starting off my Saturday with ya !!
welcome!
I agree with Chad 100%, am 36 and already have a plan to do the same thing with the next 3 years. Have been travelling to SEA since I was 25 so that's 11 years of travel and I feel the lifestyle and in these countries is so much better than the west, as long as you can afford it and have a plan to sustain yourself long term. Amazing Interview by the way Paul as always.
You describing me, but I am from middle east, I am 38, but planning to retire in pattaya MAX 2035 to be financially secure to retire, eventhough, I am not planning to get married there
When I got home a week ago, my 24 yo Son who is half Filipino told me he finally went on a Filipino dating site. He was dumbfounded at what is out there compared to what his choices are here. He makes great money, a serious musician, tall, and just a stud. So glad he is seeing the light.
It must be good genes !
Most of the girls on dating sites are gold diggers,scammers,tell your son,be very beware!!!!
Hi @richsadventures1889 We're glad to hear that! It's great your son is exploring options. Good luck to him!
Excellent interview and perspective on Chad's views! Wish him the best in the Philippines!
Hi @juancarlosvaldes4538 Thanks for your kind words, glad you enjoyed the video!
Just happened to see my first Chad video from a year ago about going to meet the girl in the province about a week or so ago. WoW! What an adventure. Nice interview today.
Thanks so much 👍
Lucky you did the introductory alone..........haha.
Man he can talk,.....but he speaks so well,
Great to listen to
Hi @jackhayden3050 Thanks for the kind words! We're glad you enjoy listening to our content.
Great conversation with Chad !! He is very wise to share to other guys that have or thinking about making the move to Ph...like I did April 3, 2018, after I retired to Luzon.
Hi @kevinhunter3412 Thanks for sharing your experience! Glad you enjoyed the video.
Awesome video, answered a few questions I had. I hope to be there in the next couple few years. Chad is the same age as me, good to hear from his point of view. Thanks Paul.
Really nice guy…great relaxing interview Paul….😊
Hi @user-dy5pq7tp7g Thanks, appreciate it!
You're always very kind and humble Paul!
Thanks so much Jamie
My son was lucky, he just turned 32 this month and he's been living with his Indonesian GF the past 4 years in southern California. She's a beautiful women like Filipina's with that dark skin tone. She has a very traditional mindset and is well educated with her master's degree like my son. Every 6 months they fly to Jakarta to stay with her family for a month, in fact they are leaving next week. They will build a life together here in California and spend 2 months a year in Indonesia with her family. They both make 6 figure incomes and plan to retire in 20 years in Indonesia.
Hi @danielhackney7806 That's great to hear! We love seeing couples from different cultures thrive together. Good luck to your son and his partner!
I'm an older Millenial Woman and I 100% agree with you guys. The First wave feminism was really helpful, the 2nd and 3rd did nothing but destroy the traditional family values. Not only that but many Women have become completely inappropriate appearance wise. They wear basically nothing at the gym. I am not uptight but I find this shocking. Looking forward to come to the Philipines in a few days! Thanks for a great channel!
It's great to have feedback from a lady's perspective. I've noticed the gym attire issue as well. They're trying to attract that 01% handsome wealthy single guy and hope that he treats them better than he likely will.
The rest of the mere mortal guys who glanced her way, will probably end up on a video with various harsh comments from the girl.
@@tryscience- 💯💯💯
We're in the 7th wave now?
@lori. Hope Paul interviews you.
I am the "youngest" of the baby boomers and agree
For such a young lad, Chad is remarkably well tuned in to life here. He's also a welcome addition to our expat community.
Hi @michaelcassidy1864 Thank you! We appreciate the support for Chad and our channel!
Dropping a like from the crazy clan 🙌🏻
Hi @Voiceofthedubs Thanks for stopping by!
The last time I dated in the US was in Indianapolis circa 18 to 20 years. I was in my 40s, and people were already saying I was too old. I did ok with dating there but my 2 most girlfriends there were divorced with kids. This can get complicated.
I started to go to the Philippines regularly 12 years ago and, to my surprise, there is now a name for it…passport bro.
I have zero desire to date in USA, last date was 2009 as I divorced in 2019. She was Thai, together 9 years but did knot hurt me money wise at all, but scared to ever bring one back after that! The alternative is move to their country, but I do not like PH by itself if you take the girls out of the equation.
Common 40s isn't too old just go to big city and plenty of singles in this age group. I can see after 60 though it gets very hard but by then you're better off to settle down.
BTW, those ladies won't be raising children NOW
@@2000ViperGTSsubscribe100% agree aside decent English levels the subpar infrastructure, services and product availability also not to mention volcanos, earthquakes, typhoons, and flooding.
Thailand, Malaysia or Vietnam might be better choices as spots to live in.
Excellent interview, Paul. Chad's overview of his time in the Philippines, so far, is great, especially, since I'll be there in February and I'm a single retired Army guy. Thank you 🙏
Hi @miguelc.819 Thanks for watching! We're glad to hear you're excited about your upcoming move. Enjoy your experience!
My hubby and I have been married for almost 43 years and planned to retire in the Philippines but will never materialize due to bad health, I miss the country so much!
Hi @PinayOkie58 Sorry to hear that. We understand the longing for the Philippines, it's a special place indeed.
Definitely a serious consideration for anyone older facing a health situation.
Really a great interview, Thank you.
Thanks Joe 👌
This video is so relatable. I’m burned out professionally and socially. I definitely can relate to Chad. I been missing the PH since 1978/79.
Two WestPacs and 3 1/2 years "station dito." Also left in '78. . . It will always be the "home of my heart".
Hi @iBarber504 Thanks for relating, glad we're not alone!
Very interesting video. Thanks, Chad. Thanks, Paul.
Hi @johnakidd Thanks for watching!
June 2024, I will be making my final destination in the Province of Rizal, Delfin Albano, Isabela, Philippines. Which is in the Northern part of the main island.
I Love the semisolitude.
Hi @ericsolkamans-kj2fd Beautiful spot! We've explored that area too, great for a peaceful life.
I Agree,,I'm 55 and I'm looking forward moving abroad,, hopefully to South Asia.
Really good younger perspective. Paul, I dont think Ive ever seen you w so few words in a discussion all these years😂. You did good w the head nodding tho.😅 …and a few questions. When you have such a good subject so willing to share -easy right? I will be there for my 2nd recon visit in January at Sierra Resort again - your channel very helpful in a successful visit last time. Im 63, met Mike who spoke very highly of you among Tubers. Would be fun to meet you - we have some similar background stuff. and Will be working on line while there. Thanks, John from Indiana.
Hi @johnclark1469 Thanks for the kind words, John! Glad my video was helpful for your visit last time. Look forward to meeting you in January!
The more this dude chad is talking, the more i want to hear from him! i cant put my finger on it, but he does has the talking skills and the life experience. i would like to follow him if he ever put out something on youtube.
youtube.com/@ChadFosterExplores?si=fV9Ln9ZA4d7lXVa2
his channel is 'Chad Foster Explains'
Thanks again Paul, you are a rock star interviewer, I am in a LDR with a young lady in CDO. She is a Pastor and Enterepunier with a likewise passion for service for the Kingdom of God. It is an age gap relationship. I am hoping to come back in February or March. The plan is to winter in the Philippines for 6 months and 6 months in Canada. I have a strong dislike of cold weather. I was born in Jamaica, came to Canada at the age of 16.
Fantastic!
By all the conversations I find on your channel, everyone seems to be headed there to meet a women.
Europeans, Americans, Canadians, Chinese, Japanese, Koreans, Australians, Indians....they all go there and are draining the pool of decent eligible women quickly ;-)
@@garyzies3486 The Phillipines will never run out of women
Hi @Baloybeach A common perception! We do have a few couples featured on our channel, but it's not the only reason many expats choose the Philippines.
I had already subscribed to Chad's channel a few months ago. It's nice to see younger guys like him and carefree Chris checking out Dumaguete. I'm 56 and super excited about checking out The Philippines in a couple of weeks!!!
Great. I wish you good luck 😊
Hi @JakeTheSnake500 Welcome to the PH! We're stoked you're excited about your upcoming trip. Dumaguete's a great spot, enjoy your visit!
Great video 🙌🏻
Hi @Richierich2025 Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it.
Great interview. I moved to Asia a year and a half ago and have had a similar experience. Including starting a youtube channel when I got to the philippines. 😂
Hi @expatlifestyle2000 Thanks for watching! Glad to hear you've had a similar experience. We're loving life here too!
Another interesting interview, Paul!
Hi @homebasebelgium359 Thanks for watching!
I like the way you let him talk... great interview 👍
I started watching your channel a couple months ago. It’s funny cause I’m with a Filipino girl here in the United States. This channel is really making me wanna live Outside the United States. I’ve done a bunch of traveling through Southeast Asia in Europe. About the same age as your guest and the stress in America with the inflation, division, and overall lifestyle is insanity
Hi @ryanruss9867 Glad to have you on board! We love sharing our experiences here in Dumaguete, hope it inspires you to take the leap someday!
I feel the need to do my part. I want to earn my respect. Work hard and save as much as possible. Don't want to be broke over there. 65 is my end game. Women alone are not my deciding factor in my move. Just a bonus if I meet one there.
If you can’t meet a woman in PI there’s something wrong with you
Hi @perryhenrickson7750 That's the right mindset! We're big on financial planning too. Safe and responsible living is key here.
I live in the epicenter of materialism in the US. Fortunately I just got my Spanish\EU citizenship which will open new opportunities for me. Materialism is something that hits me like a terminal disease.
It's everywhere in the world. Every younger person on social media showing themselves off. Welcome to 2023
Hi @junuc10 Thanks for sharing your perspective! We're glad you're finding ways to escape the materialistic lifestyle and explore new horizons.
Great interview fellas
Hi @sagora3114 Thanks!
Good conversation. Interesting ideas 😊
Hi @denismoreau3646 Thanks for watching!
I must admit, the females in PI are appealing. The neighbor across the street had a yard sale. At least 300 people dropped by. I sat on the porch and watched. I came to conclude that any female at less than 300 pounds in my town is a 10. 8)
Haha, yeah...I've long thought one of the benefits of moving abroad, at least in terms of dating is the average woman here weighs close to 200lbs where as you go to Asia the average woman weighs more like 110. Suddenly you are in a market where being a healthy body weight doesn't make them hot among their peers, it makes them average among their peers.
If you are just an average guy looking for an average woman why not go look where average is simply better?
My god, this comment was hilarious. 300 lbs., really? You probably really mean 200.
@@gemox3225living in America these days is like having beer goggles on. You find a woman who doesn't come with her own gravity field and you're all starry-eyed!
Just don't drink too much beer because you might wake up and choose to knaw your arm off like a coyote, so as not to wake up the female you find yourself with 😅
Okay...I exaggerated a tiny bit...okay...a lot, but they are pretty darned unattractive and could convert a straight guy to gay. 8)@@gemox3225
Gravity field. I like that one. I may use it.@@tryscience
Great Video!
Hi @louiegarcia4470 Thanks for watching and enjoying our video!
Agree 100 % !!!
Hi @erwinzado1515 Thanks for sharing your enthusiasm! We're loving our life here too!
"Entitled". I couldn't have put that better myself. I'll be joining you guys soon. My wife and son are waiting for me in Bicol. You have a new subscriber 😊. I'm back to Bicol for 4 weeks after next week and planning to make the permanent jump in '24. Cheers, Craig.
Hi @ChasingTheSun1967 Thanks Craig! Excited to have you on board! Best of luck with your transition.
Great video Paul! Admire your nature sir!
Hi @offthecuffadventureswithjamie Thanks, appreciate it!
Very good interview.
Hi @davea3329 Thanks for enjoying it!
Whoa! I always wondered if you two would meet and do a video..lol. I watch both your channels
Hi @sluggosloan Thanks for watching, buddy! We're glad to share our experience with others.
Paul, he will fit right in… great interview!
Hi @IanJames56 Thanks for watching and enjoying!
NEVER Sell Your REAL ESTATE! (like I did) Thats so smart. Keep it as part of your comfortable ESCAPE PLAN. Remember, the "Paradise Sydrome" of life in the PH can wear off real fast, and over 50% of expats end up returning "home" within five years (like I did). Nowadays, what with rents and home prices you could easily find yourself not only alone again, (like me), but also "homeless" and living in an RV being a snowbird traveler. Luckily I found a town where prices were still semi-acceptable for houses. Rent out your house don't sell it.
Remember that nothing lasts forever. Statistically you will split up with "her" and she could easily be running the "long con" on you without you having a clue (like my Filipina was). Have a "bomb-proof" Pre-Nup but also remember that a smart girl can figure out ways around even that with the right lawyer. Things can slide into the crapper there real fast. Cover your butt.
just leave most of your assets back in the states marry her in her country keep your house there ,things can go south real quickly in a marriage always have an exit plan that you can execute on a moments notice. I’ve been married 7 years to my Filipina have a small house here . no reason to move her back to the states I split my time between here and there it’s difficult for me to cope with the humidity so I avoid the hot season here .
It’s much harder for her to go after your assets if you don’t make the mistake of bringing her back and marrying her in your country. if you flee from her and go back home she can still get a lawyer to go after your assets. but less likely to go thru the hassle or be able to afford hiring one.
Nowadays most women are running the “long con” on men no matter where they’re from 🤣🤣🤣 the difference in the Phil’s is if you get a divorce or separated you just walk away give her the 40,000 dollar house. you knew beforehand that it was hers from the start 😊 much better than losing everything in the states to a western woman and ending up with only a jock strap and a pair of socks.
Hi @tomsewell2462 Thanks for sharing your experience! We've seen many expats struggle with the "Paradise Syndrome" here in Dumaguete too.
Yes! Big fan of you both. Great video. See you guys in Duma:)
Hi @CarefreeChris Thanks for watching and supporting us, hope to see you soon in Dumaguete!
almost a 100K subs, Paul. Great for you.
Hi @patrickclark9156 Thanks so much! We're grateful for your support!
Good video
Chad really has a great attitude. He will do well.
Hi @rodmasters9093 Thanks for appreciating Chad's positivity!
Awesome Chad well said .
Hi @bareski22 Thanks, glad you enjoyed it!
Eventhough I am planning to retire in pattaya MAX 2035 when I will be age 50, hence I started traveling more to pattaya, but I like to watch Paul's channel for his insights I fully recommend to watch the early videos in this channel as well
Spot on reality
Hi @SpiritRobert-gq3pl Thanks for agreeing!
BEEN MARRIED TO A FILIPINO FOR 11 YEARS !!!! AWESOME
Exactly, I’ve been married to a Filipina for 26 awesome years now…
2025 will be 30yrs for me, congrats
Things are a changing though. Divorce will probably be legal soon in the Philippines. That will be a big game changer
Yep...they change things very slowly, thats how they destroyed the USA.@@AForeignerAskingQuestions
@@AForeignerAskingQuestions it won’t be like divorce as we know it in the US, but yes it’s coming to the Philippines. It’s going to give women in abusive relationships a chance to start their lives over…
I believe in the separation of the roles. My wife leave to me all the important stuff, you know the geopolitics things, USA-Russia-Middel East-Asia, the progress of science, the future of the planet...
And I leave to my wife to deal with the less important things : where to rent and live, what school to enroll the kids, the family helthcare coverage, etc.
😂
yeah, it seems you are a real genius
@@kevinwelsh7490 Of course, of course... you understand second degree humour... do you ? Because at this point I'm really not sure... 😉
@@didierdenice7456 look at yourself in the mirror
Great comment. You’re a smart guy.
Hi @didierdenice7456 We understand that division of labor works well for you and your wife!
I am gonna spend a month in The Philippines in March 2024 for the first time for a vacation / scouting trip. And I am hoping to move to Cebu City in 2025 .. If I can find a place / condo with good enough home internet to allow me to work remotely. If it all works out, I think I'll have it made. I am currently 43 years old from deep South Texas.
Wow
What a well spoken dude!
Hi @stevenlawrence5733 Thanks for watching!
very good
Thanks
That's how old my shoes are😂 very good video Paul.
Hi @gregpraetz5342 Thanks for watching and appreciating!
Moving to the Philippines just to hunt for a wife seems like a waste of time to me, time I can not replace. I am happy with my living arrangements here among the farmers and I realize that most of the USA is becoming a toilet, but perhaps I live in the last decent place in America.
Whether it be medical assistance, travel, entertainment, internet and power, or simply shopping for food, it would seem that I am in much better shape than most in the Philippines, so by doing my wife hunting via the internet I am able to reduce the legwork others spend so much time on there.
If I manage to reconnect with my MIA pinay I will visit Cebu as a tourist, but other than marrying her I see no reason to remain and live there.
Maybe after I tour the areas in the U.S. with my future wife I've yet to visit I might consider the big move, but not before.
Great information, Paul! Thank you for sharing your efforts.
Hi @Danno_A_Jyd Appreciate your honest perspective! We're glad our content helps others make informed decisions about their moves abroad.
Did you know that there is a very large concentration of Filipinas in Hong Kong@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 ? My wife and I had to go to the Philippine Consulate to register our marriage and I was shocked by how many pinay WOMEN were over there!
I would have loved to go to the filpines and meet some beautiful women 😍 But it is to far away for me i think. I will drive from Norway to Benidorm (about 2890 km) in January to escape the winter cold and drive home in April when the spring is on. Love your videos Paul! Best regards from Norway 🙂
Hi @egilgreibesland8967 Thanks, mate! We appreciate the kind words and love having you along for the journey through our vlogs. Safe travels to Benidorm!
Alright ! Two well spoken guys getting down to the heart of the matter..good discourse and discussion..you both get an A today or a 10 if you prefer lol…thx for the vid 🙏🏻🇹🇭🇵🇭
Hi @norrisbethke7770 Thanks for watching and enjoying the video!
Paul… I’ve been following you for about a year and this is one of my favorite interviews. I’m 53 planning to move to the Philippines just trying to get all my ducks in a row… American dating is really terrible. And you know honestly, I usually check for five of the boxes that some women have they just have no desire to put any work in the US.
Hi sir
Good interview Paul. This guy has some really good insight and perspective of how it really here is.
Hi @todd7756 Thanks for watching!
I love Paul !!!! Cool guy
Im heading to Cebu on December 3rd to try it out for a year!
Hi @douglassanford8857 Exciting! Enjoy your time in Cebu and we hope you find it's a great fit.
One of my first dates in Philippines, in Cebu City, my date asked if I needed laundry done as I was staying in a hotel. The next day she returned with my clothing, underwear included, washed, bleached, pressed and folded. Now, happily married to a filipina going on 13 years. No regrets.
You married a lavandera !
@gustavscholten597 oh, she was not the one I married. But! The one I did marry does all my laundry and folds it so neatly it looks like it came fresh off the store shelf each time.
Hi @377499 That's amazing service! We've had similar experiences with our Filipino friends being so helpful.
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Hey Paul great video like to add younger guy with the right attitude. I'm visiting Olongapo PI next year been watching 3 years or more Hes right wife died last year and got online talking with 30s and 40s women just fakes and liars and Im 60 but its a real posilbility over there( I'm only saying that was my experience online) great video
Hi @jerrystanley6820 Thanks for sharing your personal experience! We're glad you enjoyed the video.
The dating in the US is not localized to the US. China is going thru the exact same dating issue. There are 30-35 million more males than females in the dating age range so Chinese women, and their parents, could be picky in husbands. That triggered hypergamy until Chinese women demand the man already own a house and buy and a $30k USD dowry to her parents. And now Chinese women can't "find" a husband. Where are all the "good" men. Sound familiar to American men?
Hypergamy is instinctual in human females and good for our species. But when limits go away it can kick into creating huge problems. In the US women can have high paying careers so they don't have the "I need a man to eat" fear anymore. So they became more picky. That lead to 80% of women limited to just 20% of men and women saying "where are all the good men?" and dating men who have several women on the hook and no need to marry. So US women think dating is horrible and it is because of who they're picking.
Hi @waterbug1135 Interesting perspective! We can relate, having experienced similar cultural differences in the Philippines. Thanks for sharing!
Lots of truth here!
Hi @woodly1069 Thanks for agreeing, it's a great place to retire!
Chad...if I were single.and your age, I would be talking to Gerlyn...my God that girl is sweet, smart and absolutely adorable! Talk to, Mae!
I am close to his age too. He won't have any problems finding matches. Tinder and Bumble online solve that issue. Millions to choose from here.
Hi @deantucker1464 Thanks for the vote of confidence in Baby Mae!
I went in the army in 1972 and went to several different countries and I was always ready to get back to my home land. I might travel again out of the country but I will be back. Politics here now is diverse,and I am a republican and will stay that way the democrats here has went completely nuts. So I’ll stay here and do what I can to fight for my country. Good luck to everyone that leaves I understand. We will make it maybe.
Hi @Gold17 Appreciate your perspective! We're loving life in Dumaguete, and it's great to see fellow Americans finding a new home here too!
Interesting person
Chad provided direct and salient points Paul of why so many men in the West are looking elsewhere for relationships. Modern feminism in the West is the great tragedy of our time. It has managed to make almost everything toxic including most of Western women. Best wishes for Chad.
Hi @thepassman Thanks, Chad! We appreciate your insights.
Wow Paul what a wonderful great video with Dave and the hot mama, very interesting and informative thanks wally
Hi @wallyjehs Thanks, Wally! Glad you enjoyed it!
Hey Paul, I’m booking a ticket to Dumaguete soon, gonna try to see if I can make my budget last and try to live there. I’m 36, work online. been planning this for over a year. I’d love to take you out to dinner or coffee when I get there.
Hi @ThePhilippinePipeDream Thanks! We're stoked to have you in Dumaguete. Looking forward to meeting up and showing you around.
CHAD IS RIGHT ON ALL INFO
I’m watching your videos and enjoying them very much.
Do you have any expats that have moved to the Philippines with their Filipina wives from the States.
This is my situation and my wife doesn’t want to return to the Philippines. I want to retire there.
Hi @user-ju9ek3zr4d Yes, we have several expat couples on our channel who've made similar moves!
I know a dozen men in Canada who met and married Filipinas who came over as care-givers and nurses. A couple has been happily married for over 30 years, while several couples have been married for 2 to 20 years.. A couple of them have divorced. Several of the Filipina ladies were divorced from their husbands who were not faithful during their many years of living in different countries. I guess who we meet and who we marry are the "luck of the draw", "written in the stars" or ordained by The Big Chief in the Sky, whose Name many of us exalt. I wish Chad the very best: may he meet the lady of his dreams and may they live happily ever after, and during, marriage. Note: from my personal experience and observations, no matter who we marry or where we live, there will always be challenges, and even trials and testings after the honeymoon.
Hi @garcia4328 Thanks for sharing your experiences! We've had similar stories with our own relationships in Dumaguete. Wishing Chad all the best too!
Morning Paul☕
I agree with what Chad is talking about ,and from watching other You Tube vids guys pretty much say the same thing there just tired of all the bs in the states. Good interview and best of luck to you Chad.
Hi @Tim_281 Thanks for agreeing! We're glad to share our experience too. Good vibes only here!
Old dog Paul this is wonderful true stuff about dating online and in person .Same here my Experience it can work . Province girl alot Good .🙏🥰♥️👍🍁🇨🇦
Hi @larrychow-rn7yb Glad you enjoyed the video! We've had similar experiences too. 😊
Paul... love your channel... but audio, drop some $$$ on a decent mic please!!! please!!! For everyone.
I can totally relate to the bit about political division in the U.S. God forbid you make a new friend and find out you have opposing political views. It can quickly get ugly. I lived in Mexico and never was there this hateful political division. It's off the charts in the U.S. and gets tiring.
Agree with you!!
Hi @dealerdude We're glad to hear that our experience resonates with you! Political divisions can indeed be tiresome.
Yes, very much!!
Very intelligent young man. So articulate. I hope he finds happiness here.
Hi @gregpraetz5342 Thanks for your kind words! We appreciate your support.
Dating in the U.S. is Serial Daters Dating.! After a few dates it is so not ok. Example: 1000 men go thru the checkout counters and the young female cashiers are only interested in a date! Even when there is a rare long term relationship, they abort the babies.
Not sure if that's all true, but it can certainly feel as if there are 1000 men to every available (and decent) woman in the US. It does seem quite unbalanced, and it would be great if more in-depth studies on it were allowed. The west seems to deny or prohibit doing anything that would make positive changes on that level (for a certain people, and censor as well).
what do you mean ?
@@delgrady8716 Free meal & drinks. No relationship desired.
Hi @Barefootape We've noticed that too, many Filipinas value meaningful relationships over casual dating.
Very inspiring, your conversation, thank you. Never been to The Philippines, would like to date as well as meet new people. Don’t know if negros/ dumaguete would be a good starting point? Greetings 👍✨
Hi @freisein6554 Glad you're inspired! We love Dumaguete and Negros Oriental - it's a great place to settle in. Come visit, we'd be happy to show you around!
Great interview Paul, thanks Chad...
I'm a fellow Canuck eh' Chad!!!
Retired early at 56, 5 years a'back. Secure in life with my Defined Pension. And lifetime Private Health Benefits *while in Canada.
But considering a simpler? Tropical Isle Retirement Lifestyle.
Unlike you Chad, I sold my Toronto Condo. And invested in Bank GIC Equity Funds Guarrenteed no lower than 4.95%. Pays my rent. In downtown high priced "Yorkville."
Downsized to a rental studio apartment when Real Estate prices were (still are) ridiculously high. Pocketed, invested some good cash there. So I would be free, to make retirement plans.
Been watching many CZcams videos on worldwide retirement locales. And the Philippines looks like a great option, with its somewhat English speaking communication.
***One way to notice English speaking areas. Is I go to a specific area (led to by a video? Maybe) Check area on Google Maps, then go to Street View. And see how many signs, street and business signs are in English!!
Chad you look like a French Canadian???😊
Will have to visit your CZcams site!!!l
Helloooo! Just wondering which bank you invested in and when? I’m a Filipina that moved here in Canada a little over a decade ago and people always advise against investing in banks due to low rates. Thank you
Hi @glenlynch1 Thanks for the support, glad you enjoyed the interview!
Great conversation. Men and women not needing each other is a crisis without solutions. If she cannot be a receiver then you (a giver) are a zero. It only works if it’s easy and even that risks boredom as your presence will hold her back from self actualization that she’ll call growth.
Prenup the inevitable death spiral so you can walk away clean is the stop gap for men. It’s comfortable, I suppose, but “don’t you want challenge and to live?” I feel my conscience ask again and again.
you need to learn sacrifice in a relationship the more you love a person the more you are willng to sacrifice its part of a healthy relationship
Hi @danielburress6288 We believe sacrifice is crucial in any relationship, including ours. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!
I have been following Chad Fosters for long time. This guy is intelegent, interesting and pleasure to watch his informative videos, Good luck to him.
Hi @yigalgidasi5617 Thanks for the support! We appreciate it too.
that was an interview I was looking for, I knew you guys would get along quite well, and you are both good talkers :)
Hi @i-am-your-conscience Thanks for watching! We had a great chat with [interviewee].
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Thanks for responding, [Owner of the CZcams Channel] :D