The Problem with Tony Robbins (Deep-Dive - Pt.1)
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- čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
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Today we're looking at Tony Robbins' background, his study of NLP, his "interventions", and his disturbing attitude towards women, including the #metoo comments and the Buzzfeed News allegations.
In part 2 we'll be looking at his dodgy business advice, his dodgy health advice and more...
Sources: docs.google.com/document/d/1G...
00:00 Intro
03:05 The Self-Help Industry
08:05 How Tony Became the God of Self-Help
12:35 The Seedy Origins of NLP
20:28 "I Am Not Your Guru"
24:13 The Stutter "Cure"
31:51 How Tony Creates a Criticism-Free Bubble
33:09 The #metoo Incident
35:37 The Buzzfeed Allegations
43:37 Tony's Disturbing Attitude Towards Women
01:16:27 More Buzzfeed Allegations (They Get Worse)
01:22:36 Tony's Hypocritical Teachings around "Masculine" and "Feminine" Energy
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Man: I don't love my wife
Tony to the man's wife: why don't you appreciate your husband who loves you
🤣
Love comes from the man. No father no love. God bless you.
@@peterarmsby8888 Do you mean love comes from the father? Otherwise the man said he didn't love her, so idk what your point is.
@@peterarmsby8888 Is this a JLP reference?
@@peterarmsby8888I’m surprised as I didn’t realise Tony did “relationship counselling . “
woman: my husband is abusive
tony robbins: thats not what i've experienced from him
well, that's probably the truest thing he said in the session, isn't it?
@@benten1975 such a depressing way to look at it, the woman can see what no one else can and because of the jolly loud giant screaming at her, she is surrounded by people who can't even begin to understand her struggles
Omfg
Everything about Tony's "therapeutic relationship" with these women reeks of countertransference related to his relationship with his mother.
Except, unlike a trained therapist (or someone who's gone to therapy), he has no way of controlling that side of himself, or even recognizing it's there. And unlike a therapist, there's no supervisor providing oversight, and no professional standards to hold him to. Sick.
@@Sceusellit is just laconic way of saying it. He didn't experience anything from a person he didn't meet.
Tony to every man: "Your mother abused you, didn't she?"
Tony to every woman: "Your father didn't abuse you enough, did he?"
All parents are guilty of some level of abuse
Projection at its finest; not surprising in the slightest given his history with his mother. That man's sense of reality is warped. Hearing him actually makes me sick.
He's a stereotypical manipulative grifter, and an example of animated effluent.
@@sudegok1027I dont think its correct to say most parents are abusive.
I work in a kindergarten I have to say I have seen amazing parents.
Many parents specially the younger ones are frustrated and somehow psychologically abuse the kids.
But not all.
Some people really prepared themselves so well for parenthood and are doing a great job
I think this guy is for sure misusing and misinterpreting some psychological knowledge he may have learnt.
But it is true that when you are overly attached to your father, as a woman, that creates a blockage for any man you are with.
Same happen with man if they are overly attached to their mother.
Its like... You meed to let go a bit of your parents internally to have healthy romantic relationships.
Doesnt matter the age, some people didnt dot that even in their 60s
I didn't realize it until decades later, but Tony Robbins may have single handedly ruined my life. When I was a child my single mom listened to Tony Robbins very often. As a result, my mental health medications and some light tutoring/therapy were replaced with a bunch of self-help nonsense. This, in return led to extremely poor grades (And eventually dropping out), self-blaming and extremely low self esteem, clinical depression, and multiple suicide attempts. Finally as an adult I'm coming to terms with the fact that a lot of my previous failings had more to do with my untreated mental illness and lack of familial support rather than "Not trying hard enough" or simply "Being too stupid", and I'm doing quite well now that I am in therapy and on the correct medications.
Thanks for nothing Tony.
So sorry to hear that! Hope you're doing well now 💕
Tony Robbins thinks people fake all their mental problems for attention. He’s against all medication, which leads to worse mental health for a lot of his fans.
I love that you do better now!! Screw tony
Oh my god! I'm so sorry!
I'm sorry to hear that. I feel that Tony has alot of bypassy bullshit that might work for some people, but for alot it's just motivation porn and toxic positivity that just invalidates and shames severe trauma responses.
As an Italian woman I had to stop the video and take a minute when the footage from the Italian seminar was played.
"An Italian man that sleeps around and that's not a normal thing?"
"Is that not a pattern in the culture?"
Feminicide is a huge issue in Italy, a woman dies at the hands of a partner or loved one roughly every three days. "Romanticising" the idea of the "Italian stallion" and pretending that women don't deserve the respect of their partners plays a role in painting women as submissive and serves to justify the actions of the men that slaughter them.
That, and it is also a dumb stereotype. Disgusting man.
as an italian man i was genuinely shocked during that segment. It's already weird that the stereotype of the italian stallion was brought up at all, much less that it was brought up to excuse a man cheating 3 times on his pregnant wife who he knows was abused and had her child stripped from her???? my guy said "boys will be boys" in a way thats somehow worse than just saying "boys will be boys"
its sad
What is the No 1 killer of women. Men or Heart Conditions.
@@luizdevil6855 imo not exactly single mother houses, but more a lack of
Positive, healthy male role models for young boys. A single parent can successfully raise their child, as long as that child has positive adult role models of each gender, such as a teacher, coach, aunt, etc. but that’s just my opinion.
His voice sounds like if mansplaining was an accent
THIS SO MUCH. GOOD GRIEF.
YES 😂😂😂
Nailed it.
priceless!
" he has a mansplaining accent " imma used that
I work as a counsellor for ptsd recovery, and watching this man made me cry. The damage he is doing to these women is unreal, and so cruel.
listening to him counsel suicidal individuals or women who suffered sexual abuse (in some cases incest sexual assault) brings out the most cringiest anxiety I've ever felt
Listening to this is actually painful
Thank you for what you do. It may not be portrayed here, but let’s not leave out the men. 😉 My PTSD from multiple incidents of same-sex SA, including multiple r@pes, took down my law career. But thanks to caring professional people like you, I’m a survivor and no longer a victim. I’ve accomplished much for my self-esteem by helping others in early retirement. You can’t just sit and wallow; sometimes silver linings have to be mined, too. Finding the energy and will to do that alone can be overwhelming. Bless you. ❤️👍💪
@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin thank you for saying so.
It sounds like you have managed to take a negative energy and turn it into something really positive for you, which is a really brave and difficult thing to do, well done!
@@alexanderadavar6439 One day at a time, just like everyone else. ☺️
Thanks so much for replying - it warms my heart when I know my compliments penetrated all the chatter.
My dad is a huge Tony Robbins fan and it definitely ran over into my life. During my parents’ divorce and ever since, all I’ve heard about is how women need a man who’s strong, a real man, and how women need to be feminine and vulnerable to attract caretaker qualities from their men. It’s kind of insane how much Tony has been a part of my life, my dating experiences, and even who I am today. Unfortunately so.
You are not alone. Fortunately, we are capable of change. May you grow in strength and self-awareness and pride.
Thing is I actually have seen happy marriages that way however Tony completely omits the key part that makes such marriages work: Responsibility. If a wife submits himself to a husband that husband is now responsible to protect her and open up to her. He needs to tone down his domination and invite her to voice her opinion as she handed that responsibility over to him.
I actually do think an unequal power relationship can work sometimes but that only is the case if the dominant one feels a sense of responsibility. This is the case with any case of unequal power like governments too. The key is accountability and responsibility. If you are above someone that does not entitle you to do what you want. The reverse even, it restricts you to only act in a responsible way and to be held accountable if you don't. If you have a submissive wife that also means you also need to take responsibility for her and need to be held accountable for the stuff she does. If you don't like that then don't have a submissive wife.
A balanced and responsible man can have a discipline on his wife and function perfectly well but that's not what Tony is teaching. He is teaching an unhinged and entitled man who thinks his wife is a tool to get what he wants and that he can get all the benefits from domination without any of the accountability of being responsible for her.
@@MrMarinus18 My guy, you're just talking about BDSM. And, like all things, BDSM works great if all participants respect and communicate with one another.
@@Spamhard It's not that black and white and the appeal from BDSM doesn't just come out of nowhere. It is engrained in the nature of humans and has been a standard part of culture for most of history.
@@MrMarinus18 Disagree. If you're literally going to the point of a relationship where you expect one party to be more subserviant and submissive, and one more dominant, then you need to have clear boundaries, rules and agreements in place to avoid it being abusive. BDSM isn't about sex, it's about safe agreements between two parties. This is exactly the sort of thing.
It sounds like he has some deep mommy issues which is why he’s telling all these women they’re selfish.
Haha definitely
Omg YES!!!!! You hit the nail directly on the head, he LOATHES women for this exact reason. It sounds cliche or like psych 101 but EVERYTHING goes back to our parents. EVERYTHING.
And also why he's telling an old woman to rub her breasts and asking how many times she plays w herself...
@Midnight Smith yes! I was looking for a comment that said this. He needs to revisit those traumas with a trained professional (and maybe a swift kick in the shins but that's neither here nor there)
@@astroblast2325 - higher! 😉
Holy shit that’s disgusting. When a woman has a real problem it always goes back to her wanting attention, but when a man is a serial cheater he actually loves her and is a great man deep down. The woman must be doing something wrong, of course!
I know... My head can't contain the immense eye rolls this type of thinking produces 🙄🙄🙄
So toxic!
I never had any idea how disgusting Tony Robbins was... He's a blatant misogynist and I can't believe any of these women listen to this tripe. Sad...
Yeah when I heard that part I had to pause and scroll down, that is so insane...
YES you just described him down to a tee
Oh god I had a therapist (with a Ph.D in psychology) who was just like this. I fired him because he was just projecting weird toxic masculinity shit onto me that wasn't even relevant to my issues ("of course you don't listen to your wife, she's a woman and you're a man." bro. what? I respect and appreciate what my wife has to say. I'm not even here for relationship advice.) I'm a tenured paramedic, and not someone who lacks self-confidence in who I am or as a man. I have a hard time asking people for help and with motivation/procrastination from ADHD. That's why I was looking for therapy. And he made me feel like a worse person every session, purely because I was asking for help, like I was somehow less of a man for being unable to solve everything myself, when my problem is I'd taken that mindset too far. (the dude was even a self-professed expert in treating ADHD and first responders)
I felt like I was being gaslighted. And googling his reviews, a couple other people mentioned the exact same word. So I asked my wife, a friend, and my psychiatrist (who is an expert in treating ADHD) if I was just crazy or if he was onto something, and they all said the same thing. Gaslighting.
When it comes to therapy, my psychiatrist gave me some simple advice: "Do you feel like they get you, and do you feel like they want to help?"
Back onto Tony, it's really damn weird hearing him say shit about animal instincts and then repeatedly point out how a woman smiles when they just said something deeply personal and embarrassing like confessing suicidal ideation. That's a hard-wired biological trait in all of us, and many other primates. The "awkward smile/laugh" is a self-soothe and attempt to de-escalate. I see it all the time as a paramedic with my psych patients. You can't help someone if you don't get to know them. These short "interventions" he does are little more than the therapy version of a psychic doing cold reading.
I think one problem Robbins made for himself is that his "thing" is he can help anyone. And not everyone's issues are easily fixed. But it would break character and his entire schtick if someone came up and said "I tried to kill myself because I was sold into an arranged marriage, I divorced my husband and he took my baby, who I haven't seen for years." and Tony just said what he should - "Oh, ma'am, I'm so sorry. That's unfortunately beyond my scope to address. I'll recommend you some good, licensed therapists after the event."
Get over it and move on .
@@lalaboards lol really felt the need to necro bump a year old post of someone sharing a bad experience with a bad therapist, did ya? God damn sometimes I feel like giving everyone access to the internet was a mistake.
@@colinmartin9797 Everyone has an excuse these days .Everyone has a condition these days. It’s the flipping oppression Olympics. As my father used to say nobody can help you but you. I’ve been on the Internet before you whining cynics took it over. One kid even said that he had PTSD because his daddy was mean .
When the Chinese take us over they’re not gonna care about your lived experience !
@@lalaboards OMG, this is your reply? Did you not notice when his (rather and interesting substantive) comment was made? And yet 1 year later... I mean, if anyone needs to "get over it and move on." Sorry @lalaboards, but you fail to persuade.
Blasphemy. Fisrt line. You need Jesus. Fire Satan. Terrible Job.
I was on Tony Robbins' mailing list for like a minute just to find out that I have feminine energy because I can multitask and I care about people's emotions :/
being a decent person? only woman allowed to do that! man has to be tough and violent. that's the way of man!
a gift
Glad you seem to realise how dumb that is 😂😂😂
Only women have intuition! Men just have trauma-based brain damage
I'm a psychologist who specializes in trauma and I had to take breaks while watching this. What he is saying to these women and men is sick. Also, smiling when talking about something vulnerable and emotional is not a sign of manipulation. It is a common, automatic reaction to strong emotions of any kind.
Yes! And women in particular have been conditioned from a very early age to smile in order to diffuse stressful situations.
@@Nocturnalux That!
As a man and a psychology student, what Tony is telling people is shameful. Tony needs some counselling himself. His constant need to blame women instinctively seems to be a pattern that Tony needs to look at. He is lacking any objectivity whatsoever. Tony seems like the last person any man or woman should be taking advice from.
@@sun5621 amen I agree I thought I was the only one who realized that
I've always had difficulties managing my anxiety, so I smile ALL THE TIME (doesn't matter if I'm angry or sad or happy or worried), I smile and laugh almost every time I'm put under pressure and have done it ever since I was a child; yeah, I know it's not ideal, but I hate when people just assume I'm lying or trying to get something out of the situation, like no dude I'm actually an anxiety-filled human who doesn't need to also deal with your bs lol
Tony seems to like the, "crush women's self worth and self esteem so that they feel they should be grateful that their abuser is with them," approach to gaslighting. I can barely listen to him talk he's so disgusting. The way he just ignores that they're saying and spins his own narrative is maddening.
The interventions are really hard to sit through. I would probably walk out, and get called a bunch of misogynistic names for it.
I totally agree! To think that anyone would teach push such a damaging narrative like this! Such a terrible thing to do.
ALSO, the way he speaks about mental health, blaming individuals for their own mental difficulties could really send someone spiraling. Many people who are struggling with mental health already have trouble blaming themselves. To confirm that narrative for someone who has considered ending their own life, or to anyone for that matter, is EXTREMELY TOXIC!!!
I don't get it, he's not a therapist - why are people even on his show?
It reminds me of how Keith Raniere talks to women.
I truly wonder how much of a following he’d have if he spouted the same shit, but was 5’2”.
This is so hard to watch - the story about the lady getting cheated on and being almost forced to not follow her dreams of being a singer literally made me cry (even though they seemed to manufacture some sort of weird happy ending) - this guy is the ultimate gaslighter
That Italian couple “therapy” was so so hard to listen to, my heart was breaking for that woman.
I imagine the trauma of her first divorce would make it extremely extremely hard for her to leave her cheating husband :( she deserves actual support
The dead, wooden way that some of the women start saying “yes” after being berated for an hour is haunting
I’ve been through this. You get trapped and pushed into a corner :/ you can’t do anything but accept. If it happens often enough then you start to believe it yourself. It’s horrible
I can’t even imagine the mental hell dating someone like him would be
@@SPIDERM0OSE Lmao that is not what submission sounds like. Fake dom self report 🤣
he does narcissistic abuse his audience!
Also it's good to remember that nobody wants to be the party pooper so everyone plays along not to embarrass Tony in front of his crowd, like a good comedian, he would probably have a good comeback and turn the whole crowd against you, so what are your options really?
I feel like when he 'confronts' these women it's just him yelling at his own Mom for hours.
I'm sorry to keep commenting, but maybe it'll get this trending.
Gaslight me, Daddy. Smh
I always comment multiple times too. I like to think it helps the algorithm somehow and not just that I impulsively post them 🤣
I always comment as I watch so sometimes I have 3-4 comments or more...but hey, it’s good for the algorithm
@@lonewolflife6938 thank you, bc I always feel bad for commenting too much lol
She has so much good info & research, & I have *so many* feelings about them lol
@@Allisonsaul glad I'm not the only one lol thank you for this!
This is what happens when a man has mommy issues that he does not deal with, he sees all women as manipulative, but then again the man is a serious cheater and she should have known about it when he cheated with his wife for her.
The one thing I appreciate about Tony Robbins is that when I know someone is a fan of his, I know to keep that person at arm's length and not take anything they say seriously. 😅
Watching this knowing my boss likes him (he just named his new cat after him)... I don't know if I'll be able to finish the video
Lol. True
Definitely.
Tony Robbins, Jordan Peterson and Joe Rogan are the trifecta of red flags for me.
I'm part of those who had to click away from the sections that discussed abuse in this video because I was getting sincerely physically ill. This led me to realize how much YOU had to put yourself through to make this video. This is just my little expression of acknowledgement and gratitude for your work (many of your other videos fall under this too) because you rifle through horrendous content to highlight their harm and then make it available in a way that is at least a little more palatable and very much respectful of those who need a content warning. You're also a master at knowing when to inject humor and when to be deadly serious. So thank you!
So if my hair is too short, I'm pretending to be a man, but if I have long hair and move it out of the way, I'm being manipulative. Got it.
What happens if you’re bald or have a buzz cut?
( cries in having metalhead hair)
We all have that one amazing hair day between our haircuts where we feel real good about our hair.
Yours just means you're an asshole until your next cut :)
Basically if you're a perfect woman you wouldn't be at the event at all because you'd be too busy caring for your man and not having opinions because opinions and experiences are too masculine or something.
I ' M N O T A S T U P I D F U C K I N G B O Y I ' M A M A N
I can not believe you have the audacity to attack Tony, he is the most wonderful and insanely talented man I've ever seen and met. I have suffered from depression all my life and had nowhere to go but I went to Tony and he slapped me in the face with a cucumber and I was immediately cured.
Case closed
Lmfao this comment is under rated
More people need this!
Omg hahaha, hilarious!
Are you sure that cucumber was a cucumber ?
😈
Shame on you munecat for attacking this amazing human being who clearly helped so many people! Maybe do a video about this effective cucumber-cure that helped this person. I also heared that this man can walk on water. He is Amazing woooow
Small update on this excellent deep dive is that Tim Ballard who posted one of the videos defending Robbins' behaviour has since been sacked from his own non-profit and has criminal complaints against him for sexual misconduct.
shocker
It's so heartbreaking to see the sheer sadness, shock, humiliation, confusion and despair as these women are having to stand in a large crowd being literally abused by Tony, then having literally the entire audience agree, their husbands then agree with it all and promise to abuse her in the future, followed by an extremely tragic apology from the woman now that her self esteem is the lowest it could possibly go. I can imagine these women crying their eyes out the minute they get a moment alone and feeling too humiliated, ashamed and even scared to leave the house afterwards.
As a domestic abuse victim I never got justice. It's very difficult for a lot of domestic abuse cases as there is often a lack of evidence.
I would like to think that if there was a video recording of my abuse then people would come to the obvious conclusion of what a horrible bastard he is and support me, and the police would lock him away. I cannot imagine how I would cope if the world literally witnessed the abuse and actually congratulated him for it, whilst joining in. I cannot imagine how alone in the world these women must feel, you can literally see through their faces these women dying inside. It's heartbreaking
These women are being verbally abused and the world watches, and cheers for the perpetrator.....
and that is exactly what Tony is, this is severe emotional abuse and he knows what he's doing, how psychologically damaging his actions are to these women.
I wish I was at one of these talks so that I could give these women a hug and tell them that at least one person in the world is on their side.
Truly shocking and their husbands should be castraited for going along with this s***.
Any "therapy" that takes place in front of a crowd of people who aren't there for the same things like group therapy does is a horrible practice imo
Dr. Phil's show is another good example.
yeah, add " televised" to that, no therapy should be broadcasted
@@reis5011 I can see one thing being good about televised tackling of mental health issues is taking away the stigma surrounding it ofcourse I at least have never seen anything that haven't that does that and instead seems to reinforce lot of the stigma of mental health issues,
I don't know for certain how true this story is since my mom and dad have been at each others throats since I was 3 and they split, but my mom have said pretty much all my life she things I have autism but no investigation on that was made, when asked about it she says dad didn't wanna sign the papers to do a deeper dig becose he thought that would make it impossible for me to get a job as an adult become I would essentially be marked as stupid, seeing his behaviour today (I'm 24) about me finally getting to do a mental disorder investigation next month, and been diagnosed whit depression, well lets just say he is less then helpfull about it, he tries and I know he cares about me so I don't resent for it but there is some clear stigma at least in the older generations
oh and just for clarity, I live in sweden
You are wrong youtubers also with good will do "mindset" stuff in front of many people, but its on youtube.
Good coaches however think about an answer for a second or for a half minute to give as accurate answer to a person with empathy.
Listening to this guy talk about women makes me cringe. As a guy I feel horrible for all the women who went through this. It’s wrong to make the person feel like they are the reason for their abuse. He’s not helping anyone
How he got that old lady to touch her boob in front of all those people made me feel sick.
When I see him i just see a walking trash bag full of mismanaged kinks
oh god it's so bad!! I kinda wish they have trained psychs outside these bullshit conventions with useful flyers and trauma support, warning them about it. If he was a registered health practitioner Tony would no longer have a licence..
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@@DrJamobie Indeed. A failed abortion.
The fact that a landfill of a person such as him can get rich from pretending to help vulnerable people is legit depressing.
Oh my goodness these interventions are actually so hard to sit through, they make me feel physical pain for these women
So... We just not gonna talk about how this woman creates full on documentaries within just a few short weeks?
No joke. After all she expounds here I can't believe there's going to be a second part.
A vlog is not a documentary
@@noobian3314 You are right & this isn't a vlog.
@@NotAnotherKuromi it also isn't a documentary. It's basically a rant/reaction video
@@noobian3314 Glad to see you carrying on the trend of saying what this isn't. It's getting a bit stale now though , have fun being condacending on the rest of the worslwide wide web.
The whole hair flipping incident gave me huge "it's YOUR FAULT I'm attracted to you" vibes. Like if a woman does something that he *happens* to find attractive while he's talking to them, it's because they can read his mind and they're a malicious seductress.
I bet he asks r*pe victims what they were wearing.
Given that he is an assaulter himself that's no surprise
I mean- the idea that anyone with long hair, only ever touches or adjusts it, in order to seem attractive, is just so toxic. We are in quarentine and I am at home with my dog. According to Tony logic, I flirt a lot with my dog, and my plants I guess 🤔
I guarantee he has accused several women of "leading on" their rapists. I just know it.
Dude when that hair flipping thing happened. I had to pause mouth agape. He sounded exactly like my abusive dad in that moment - the threat was palpable, it wasn't just in the words, but in his tone of voice, his poise, his face, the everything... and it was exactly like what he did, I felt the same emotions of fear, then anger and hurt and defensiveness come up watching it. WOW what a flashback
He's not a man for speaking to women like that. He's a fucking pillock. And his past and all the allegations (what are the odds that so many women would stick their neck out for humiliation and accuse him are just "clout-chasers"?) just prove that all the more. Wow. I have so many things to say about that segment, but at the same time I just have none.
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I'm so sorry you had to experience that and that Robbins' actions brought back those memories. I hope you're in a better place now! And I completely agree with you.
So to simplify, people pay thousands of dollars to have a tall man with a voice like a dying deisel engine project his mommy issues on them and call it therapy
As someone who has been gaslighted to think everything is my fault, you really think learning that is better for you. That you now know so you can improve on yourself and get better. You don't question if the person telling you this was in the wrong, because they're convincing you that no one is in the wrong but yourself. It feels correct at first, but it starts to eat away at you for the rest of your life, blaming yourself for everything and making yourself depressed. Pretty shit
As a therapist, I am terrified of therapists who are receiving training from Tony.
Same
Agreed!
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What I absolutely despise about this form of toxic masculinity is that it's not only degrading to women, it's patronizing to men. It's hypocritical because it reduces men to bumbling horny oafs who just "can't help" but be shitty to their significant others and women are just supposed to be on our knees 24/7 or we're bad partners. It's a lose-lose perspective that diminishes the personhood of everyone by displacing the personal responsibility entirely from the men to the women because the men "can't handle it."
PREACH 👏👏👏
I really would wish that more men understood this - when we talk about toxic masculinity we aren't saying being a man or being masculine is a bad thing! It hurts women and it hurts men to have men feel as though they need to live up to toxic standards of what it is to "be" a man.
Toxic masculinity on steroids
One of the worst ideas in this bundle of horrible ideas is that men will 'give you everything' after sex. No, that cannot possibly be correct: Does that mean I could get my then-boyfriend's collector DVD set of The Lord of the Rings movies if I just asked him after sex? Sure, it was his most prized collection and he stood in line for hours on end- in the cold Norwegian weather, to boot- in order to get it before it sold out.
But who knew, he'd just hand it over if I asked. As long as if it were after sex, mind you.
Seriously? How buys this?
Yes indeed. I want to aspire to more than this denuded, pathetic caricature. I also hate that the weaker men, who simply lacked a bit of confidence, were being to told to be bigoted, shouty penis monsters like him. He's like some sort anti-psychologist you go to in order to destroy your own mind.
As a trauma survivour this was probably NOT a good video to watch. But your perpetual rage cheered me up wonderfully
Perpetual rage cheered you up. Honestly not sure if that's a wonderful thing.
@@cy-villiangood for you
@@cy-villian it can be reassuring to see someone be revolted by revolting behavior, it's pretty simple stuff
Shes a Div playing on your vonerabilty. Shes terrible. Pure dimasculising. Watch again. May God Guide you with discernment. Amen.
@@cy-villianseeing someone even indirectly empathise with you will make you feel better. take the stick out of your arse
I've been getting creep vibes from Robbins for years and I'm happy I'm not alone. I've been getting ads about him these days so I specifically set out to find videos like this one because I needed a palate cleanser.
Funnily enough, the algorithm is still not smart enough to understand whether my searches reflect a positive or negative view of Robbins, so they decided to waste his money by filling every video I've watched so far, including this one, with ads about him. It can't tell that spamming me with one obnoxious, cultish ad after another only makes me despise the man more 🙄
Oof. I have the same issue. I watch a lot of political content, so my ads are full of PragerU and other right wing bullshite. A PragerU ad on an explicitly socialist CZcams channel.
Talk about barking up the wrong tree.
@@Queen_of_Coffee - I used to take some solace in the fact I was wasting their money, but they were also wasting my time and ruining my day, so I got CZcams premium. (I know there's free alternatives.)
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No one is evil at all moments, yes.
This is called a cycle of abuse, where they move between being cruel and being decent and have their victim chasing after that decency. The victims are stuck looking for that good.
Tony, that's still abuse. Calling someone a slag and then buying them flowers is ALL ABUSE.
Well said
Love bombing is one of the most noticeable and most important aspect of the abuse cycle. Without it, abusers wouldn’t get away with as much as they do. That’s the point of lovebombing
According to him, a man merely being present in a relationship is a sign of him being a loving partner with a few flaws.
But a woman recounting her horrific abuse to the point of being suicidal and pleading for advice by someone she admires smiles ONCE and she is always manipulative, evil, scheming, and clout-chasing.
Funny that.
It's fucking ridiculous. This guy seems to think that a relationship is good as long as it "breaks even" or something. No, that's not how good relationships work. You don't do shitty and good actions so that it all balances out. Put it into numbers, -100 for verbally assaulting at your partner, +100 for making an amazing dinner? That's a net value of 0 my dude. That's a worthless relationship, not a balanced relationship
Tony himself, is abusive.
As a woman, I am the one to make myself feel womanly. I dress pretty to feel beautiful; I take a scented bath to relax; I call my girlfriends if I want female emotional support; I buy lingerie to feel sexy. That's my responsibility to myself. I am confused by Robbins' repeated assertion that women have to make their man "feel like a man", otherwise she's punished with loss of love or relationship. What kind of weak people are these men, that they don't know how to maintain their own self-concept or gender identity?
Tony believes it is a woman's "wiring" to bow down to men and make them feel "masculine." He's so gross! Completely agree with you here 👏
As long as one does what they want or like without the pressure of society's standards telling them what to do I don't think there should be a problem.
I like your comments on this.
It would've been a good comment if you said that your perception of womanly things is yours only. These happen to be very stereotypical and I know for a fact that are also insulting to many women who don't share your sentiment.
@@Mia199603 I find it difficult to separate out what I do to feel feminine as I'm not even sure what feminine is. Many qualities like nurturing and listening I feel apply to all genders.
I've finally found it, the man who invented gaslighting.
Yes, the empowering moment is for when an abusive man destroys things on stage and is told to be even more aggressive as a solution to his martial problems. 🤮
I also noticed what Tony calls a smile, I would refer to as a sneer...especially in the case of the Italian woman, she seems to be far more disgusted than happy. But Tony runs with it as a smile because it fits his usual narrative. It's not about trying to figure out what one person is doing through, but rather using a method of formulating things that are quick and easy...and probably far more likely to bring about immediate "change" even if long term it's likely to make things a whole lot worse.
oh, what a beautifully ironic typo, "martial problems!"
I went on a Robbins fire walk course in 1997. I was in my 20s and enjoyed the Ra Ra of it. A man stood up and told his story about being a soldier in the Serbian war in the early 90s. He was 'broken' because he had killed people. Robbins left the stage and did one of his interventions and whammy the man felt cured. Then a woman stood up and said how she had been raped and Robbins did an intervention with her and she felt healed. At the time i was mind blown. BUT ! A year later i went back to the same seminar and took some friends. Would you believe it... a man and woman stood up and told the exact same story as the year before ! I was like..hang on a minute, i heard this last year WTF. 25 years later and alot wiser, its clear to see the man is a raging narcissist and megalomaniac.
Whoa.
He plants people??
Damn.
Having actors in the audience is a classic. Sometimes twins that you can alternate for extra effect, if the situation is such that it is possible to change them without people seeing.
It also happens that people are so uplifted by the mood that they feel healed for the moment. But the next day, everything is as usual again for them.
Either that or hes a good sales man ?
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Haha I totally believe it, seems fake af
Faith healers do it all the time. LGATs as well are known for having plants in the audience. This guy's spiel sounds a lot like the Landmark Forum, except he's more charitable to men, as opposed to bashing every single participant.
As someone who was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist, watching this was extremely disturbing. You cannot ever make a narcissist happy. You can give and give and give until you're dead inside and it will still not be enough. TR has no idea what he's talking about.
Awww !
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Exactly. Narcissists will never be satisfied because of their insatiable greed. I'm happy you got out of it.
exactly
My uncle has harassed his wife like that for since they got married. I told her to get a divorce when I was 6 and now whenever we have a disagreement she sends in her husband to threaten me..
Maybe she just hasn't reached her 8th attempt in leaving him but I think they deserve each other at this point
it's kind of reassuring to know he's just another common-or-garden sexist grifter, not a dude who genuinely, healthily, has it together. It was painful to watch him wrecking those individual lives while spreading low-level destructive nonsense throughout his audiences though. I hope he sees this analysis and it makes him re-evaluate his life choices and his perception of himself and his abilities. I'm not looking forward to part 2, but if you have gone to the effort of making it, the least I can do is watch it. (Bonus: also glad to know that NLP is... not fully scientific)
All your videos are pure suffering, I can’t stop watching them. This guy is a real piece of work
I am Italian and no, sleeping around is not part of the culture. This is a really gross stereotype.
Thank you. I had an Italian dentist who would harass me and my mom would be like 'it's fine because he's Italian'. i don't know why she thought that was an ok thing to say smh
But isn’t this satirical?
@@lukethedesigner6611 I didn't perceived it as satirical at all, I felt he was using this stereotype to justify the man's behavior, do you think he was joking?
@@boots1622fan I am so sorry that this happened to you ❤️
@@beatricet7396 its ok, he sold the practice so i never have to see him again lol
"The worst thing a woman can do is be abused. The worst thing a man can do is wear red shoes." -Tony Robbins probably
...or Rachel Hollis...
If only the guy in the red trainers clicked his heels 3 times to get the hell away from Tony Robbins
my eyes hurt reading this
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I had an opportunity to see him through work and declined. When asked why I tried to explain the fact that he branded himself as so wonderful, a great family man, great marriage but then suddenly was divorced. When you use your marriage to brand yourself and then the marriage falls apart, my question is why? People at work thought I was saying, he’s a bad guy because he is divorced. No, not what I said but I wasn’t allowed to elaborate. I just said, go for it, go see him, hope it helps ya. Tony is so damn full of himself and a misogynistic jerk.
Similar to me, at work, we've had this motivational speaker coming to attendance at least three times and after the first time I refuse to go back to see him and prefer to work instead. His main thing is the he is a positive man who "has it all figured out". What really threw me off is that part of his motivational story is talking about how, when his wife had cancer and was dying, he had prayed to God to find him another partner for him and he asked his wife as she was dying if this was okay and she had allegedly emphatically told him that yes he should and about a couple weeks after her death he found someone else and married her. That is so weird and when I try to explain this to my co-workers they don't really think it's that bad until I really make him think a little bit deeper into what happened and some of them are grossed out. Hopefully my last email to HR and the committee that takes care of these events take my well-worded email into consideration asked to why we shouldn't be getting him or people like him lol
In my last year of school a professor brought in one of these scam artists as a guest speaker, Nicholas Spohn. The class started out okay but then Nick started claiming that mental illnesses like depression were just in your mind and you could chose not to have them. He was saying this to a class of 100 college students, it didn't go well. The professor didn't care and let the course go on with Nick spouting endless amounts of nonsense with regards to NLP. The professor had gained the respect of many of those students but a lot of sentiments turned that day. At the end the prof tried to wipe his hands clean by saying that his speakers share thoughts independent from his own, difficult to believe considering he brought the same speakers year after year and they all had a certain type to them.
Tony Robbins seems to view every woman as an iteration of his mother. Now he gets to scream everything he felt about her at these women, humiliating and berating them in front of thousands of people, and get the pleasure of having them agree with him.
God, this is so true.
And I doubt his mom was even that bad. Think of it: we only get to hear his side of the story. What about her side? He paints her as this unfeeling monster. And somehow I highly doubt that. I think it was his never-there-dad who was the problem. Then his mother had to raise him and his brother and sister all on her own. Think of how much pressure the woman was under. I bet she didn't make unreasonable demands of him. She just asked him to be a good big brother and help out around the home. He was being a prissy little bitch by refusing to help his mother clean the house they all lived in. Back then, in the 80s, gender roles were fucked. And teenage sons did not help wash dishes or wash clothes. I bet he was a spoilt selfish boy who only thought about his own money. He didn't give a fuck about his family, that is why they kicked him out.
@@KaizenKitty His anger kinda speaks for itself. It's possible that it may not be all her fault, but she definitely has a hand in what he has become .
@@tshepishochuene1280 Maybe.... but then so does his dad. Oftentimes people just blame the woman/mother who raised the kid.... but the absentee father is equally to blame, i think.
@@KaizenKitty True. But Tony is specifically angry with his Mom, not his Dad. So it really doesn't matter who we blame. Tony is mad at who he's mad at.
Lmao holy crap this is brutal to watch. "Women speak in riddles" Translation: "I don't understand anything women say and I don't make any effort to"
Exactly! So true. There's also the "I understand exactly what women are saying but I don't like what I'm hearing, so I'm going to pretend what she's saying doesn't mean anything." Just gross
Um, you gonna deny that women like to be subtle rather than outright? Huh. Well, every single woman I've ever met has never been able to speak outright. They definitely prefer to speak subtle suggestions and expect me to pick up on it rather than just speaking straight up. But sure.
@@choosetolivefree maybe you're just difficult to talk to because your personality is so abrasive. I'd say that's more a statement about how YOU interact with the world than about how ALL women are.
@@choosetolivefree I mean this genuinely, if the women you are meeting aren't direct and won't say what's on their mind even to the detriment of your relationship and you can't talk it out, it's ok to keep looking. It's always a good idea to self reflect and consider what you may be doing to influence the way a person interacts with you, but if someone is just being petty or disrespectful, you don't have to be in a relationship with them. To blame all women for it and assume it comes with the territory of dating them is a bad look.
Being outright can be dangerous for women, and since it's not easy to predict when something might turn dangerous, it's a protective habit that some women adopt. Socialization plays a role too.
Man this reminds me of another friend who went to one of these and from what she described he basically gave the entire audience an existential crisis of the permanence of death, by imagining yourself being in a coffin in the ground forever. Then he lifted everyone up into a hysterical frenzy. It was the most messed up thing I ever heard, and was pretty scary sounding.
I remember seeing this dude on the infomercial circuit all the time when I was a kid(mid to late 90s) and making him my nemesis because it cut into cartoon time.
Watching this doc, it's pretty clear that Robbins sees every woman as his mom, and behaves towards them as such. But these women aren't his mom, and your trauma doesn't give you the right to inflict it on others.
I am legitimately shaking in rage at his treatment of that couple struggling with suicidal ideation. By the Twelve, this dude should never be allowed to speak publically again.
ok, I'm Italian and the part in Italy is totally madness to me: no, CHEATING IS NOT CULTURALLY ACCEPTED OR NORMAL HERE!
Where would it be? If it were accepted somewhere it wouldn't be called cheating lol
tony robbins is trash. i'm american, we don't all deal in stereotypes. he really should get an education.
@@ratherbenapping10 please speak for yourself only and leave the rest of the world out of it. Not all of us are as prejudiced as you apparently are.
As an Italian as well, I double down. I would encourage everyone to watch Teresa Mannino's stand-up sketch about a Sicilian wife founding out her husband cheating in bed with his lover. It's funny and fully explanatory LOL
GRAZIE. Stavo per scrivere la stessa cosa! Maremma che nervi!
Sounds like this man has made a career out of projecting his own issues onto others instead of going to therapy 🙃
bingo.
I truly wonder how much of a following he’d have if he spouted the same shit, but was 5’2”...
HiGhT dOeSn’T mAtTeR tHo.
This is so accurate.
So modern era Freud?
You said it best
The cleaning thing has always gotten me. I do most of the cleaning in the house not my wife. I like it clean but when I'm overwhelmed she helps out. If your partner doesn't do that for you there is an issue. Not a man woman issue at all.
I have binged your videos for two days now, you absolutely rule, thankyou for your INCREDIBLE work. Please keep making this great stuff ❤️
“I was raped by a man who abuses me”
Tony Robbins logic: “well, if you had a child with him you must love him and he must have qualities”.
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God, is there a way to sue or bring charges against somebody for telling a victim something like that? LOL
You will win a gold in oppression Olympics
did it ever occur to him... that that might be unintentional?
Just because the man is bigger and stronger hitting him does not make it ok.
Almost 25% of the people surveyed - 28% of women and 19% of men - said there was some violence in their relationship. Women admitted perpetrating more violence (25% versus 11%) as well as being victimized more by violence (19% versus 16%) than men did. According to both men and women, 50% of this violence was reciprocal, that is, involved both parties, and in those cases the woman was more likely to have been the first to strike.
Violence was more frequent when both partners were involved, and so was injury - to either partner. In these relationships, men were more likely than women to inflict injury (29% versus 19%).
When the violence was one-sided, both women and men said that women were the perpetrators about 70% of the time. Men were more likely to be injured in reciprocally violent relationships (25%) than were women when the violence was one-sided (20%).
That means both men and women agreed that men were not more responsible than women for intimate partner violence. The findings cannot be explained by men's being ashamed to admit hitting women, because women agreed with men on this point.
www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/in_brief_domestic_violence_not_always_one_sided
The idea that it's wrong to give and get love unconditionally is soooo fucked up. Believing that you need to "earn" the love of a friend, family member, or partner is how people ignore their own boundaries and get into exploitative or unhealthy relationships.
Absolutely this! And what does it teach parents that by unconditionally loving their kids, they are "messing them up"??
That was so bizarre! Real love is unconditional by definition! There's a reason why vows say "in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, until death do us part" etc.. As a christian my very faith is built on a God who has shown that kind of unconditional love. And as someone who will give birth in a few months, if someone told me that I'm messing up my kid(s) with my unconditional love, I would have a lot to say to them! My heart goes out to anyone who has the misfortune of being raised by a parent who puts conditions on their "love". That just makes me so angry!
At the same time, I wonder if Robbins was raised like that and just isn't familiar with actual love. I wish he would work through his own issues instead of leading his devoted followers astray, taking their money, and going on to even harrass some of them. Love your children, people, or they will be likely to end up perpetuating the misguided ideas of people like Robbins and spreading the damage to the people in their lives! Phew, I am genuinely triggered, but this helped to blow off some steam. Thanks, comment section.
This is literally what the Catholic Church would do in the middle ages. You had to pay to get the unconditional love of God. Pay to get your relative out of purgatory, Pay to get rid of your own sins, a friends sins, etc. Pay to get a spiritual job with the church (simony)
Plus, you had to do certain acts that would supposedly get you into heaven. It wasn’t about who you were and your love of God. And, what a coincidence, the things that your acts would atone for were things that were either unavoidable, like original sin, or very very common and hard to avoid, like sexual feelings or freethinking.
Kind of like how the new age companies and authors will tell you that you are born with, or have acquired, a trait or behavior that only subscribing to their course or paying for their material will fix!
Especially since he seems to think only women need to work to get love from men. Men can't ever be called out on their shit because that's 'emasculating' and turns them into abusive cheaters.
As a father of a boy and a girl I find it disturbing that someone is giving thousands of people the advice that it’s wrong to love your children unconditionally. Especially fathers to daughters.
Bless you for actually watching hours of Robbins. I know I couldn’t without being physically ill. I just found your channel & you’re amazingly talented. Kudos.
Ah yes, legal threats. Universal language of "I am sincerely sorry for the actions I have taken"
Wow. Every time a woman says her father gave her unconditional love and he says "asshole." He definitely is saying that to his mother for not giving that to him. It is jealousy. This guy has been hurting so many people but they just don't get it.
And the fact that Tony’s father left them when he was young. So it probably hurts him that others had great fathers.
My stomach is literally turning thinking about how much damage he’s done...
Hurt people-> hurt people... it’s really sad to think about the idea that these people out here with such far reach, doing so much damage to others are really the ones who need the most help 😧
My dad told me that having unconditional love for someone is bad. His love is conditional.
@@leighanneely please explain how did he hurt people? How about the good things he's done? Or you can only see the bad things?
he's one of those that excuses abuse as tough love.
one of the worse aspects of this is his insistence on "smiling" being proof. The berating and pressure from him, the crowd or so many other things could lead to a smile. he has so much charisma just cause you smile doesn't mean anything.
In other primates like Chimpanzees, smiling is a defensive mechanism as a response to physical or social danger- as a means of appearing submissive and non threatening. It's not saying "I'm happy", it's a stress response of "please don't hurt me - look my teeth are together & not about to bite" .
It's the same in humans, context is everything. Robbins is both ignorant and sadistic.
Don't forget the hair flip.
@@nonyabusiness3619 the hair flip sent me. I play with my hair because the texture helps me focus better and calms my anxiety. I can’t imagine being torn into for something like that in front of so many people.
i always smile even laugh when im nervous/uncomfortable so i was so confused on why he would use that against them
@@uhgm3403 Because he's a sexist, egotistical @$$hole.
Gaslighting on a massive scale in front of a crowd of people while essentially being trapped in a room of little Tony Robbins wanna be clones. The look on those womens faces is heartbreaking.
A year later and hearing him think that he can “dig in” and figure out if someone’s “crazy bitchiness” is a justification for ANY abuse is still stomach churning. You know he is just screaming this shit at people in his real life.
How is this shıt even legal? This guy's incredible success is such a clear indication of how vulnerable we are as a species to liars, frauds and conmen.
I dunno man.
Its almost like social & economic Freedom reigns since Nazi Germany were defeated.
Damn it all to hell !
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AKA politicians.
People are so willing to want to be told what to do and how to think that they’re willing to pay anyone for it and then defend it.
Did we need more evidence after the last 6 years?
Yes. but not a real con because the client submits the cash first. He sells the ideal.
In the UK you could look at the roadside rescue service like the AA and get shafted to join for a emergency fee of £££, because they can. Also joining the AA is ££ as standard. This Tony guy saw them coming. He's the real deal and regurgitates what wiser older folks said aeons before. What society needs are those Elders. The wise. The ones We turn to for insight and coordination. TR got all that and set a trend. Since Snake oil and Bible mixed, We've been shafted (if We go for that stuff). He's 'the brand'. He's actually an Artificial Entity ironically, but protected by corporate law. The nuts bit is - that's what corporate entities are: Artificial People.
I hope this Munecat entity shines their awesome genius over that corporate law stuff. The misogynists love to live their life as a corporation.
Husband: "I don't find my wife attractive and want to leave her."
Tony: "He loooves you."
I watched the whole video, his aim was to show him that the real problem was not that he's not attracted to her, but something way deeper. Sometimes people are too quick to judge...watch the whole intervention
@@nicol2720 I say this absolutely, no thank you
@@nicol2720 Did he have to do it in front of a live audience? Like does that help this man? And did Tony have to mock the man's masculinity? Did he have to put him down, and then kick him while he's down??
*Hint:* all these questions are rhetorical. The answer is an obvious *NO.*
No,no, you've got to watch the whole thing, and graduate at least one NP course to understand all of this was necessary. Otherwise - you're not qualified to judge.
@@nicol2720 Honey wake up and stop making excuses for him. HE IS A SCAM ARTIST/SPIN DOCTOR/PONZI SCHEMER.
These therapy sessions were really hard to watch. Me writing this comment was me taking a breather cause without pausing I would just click off this is so upsetting.
I'm always amazed at the quality of your stuff. Makes me want to do better. I believe you have programmed my neuros.
I don’t know why, but I’m constantly shocked by how pervasive misogyny is in so many different places
SAME. every time I think I've seen it all
I did not know he was misogynist until i watched this vedio ,i only thought of him as the funny inspirational guy,but this opened my eyes.
I'm not. Never have been either.
it's everywhere, all the time✨
I wonder if Tony refers to “women” as “girls.” He talks about women getting fatter, but I wonder if he talks about guys getting fatter and losing their hair. Is Tony’s hair real, dyed?
The fact there was an ad for a Tony Robbins course on this video for me is just... Wow
I just saw that too. I've never heard of him before. He's utterly vile.
I didn't get Tony Robbins but it was basically the same thing lol mine was some lady trying to convince me that my lifelong chronic illnesses that inhibit even my mobility are all because of manifestation. Or something like that.
Um so did I and I’ve never heard of him before so...
Same. I love to see it
Make sure to click so the Toby Nobbins ad budget is at least slightly wasted!!!
I did not want to watch an hour and a half of this (mostly because it's past my bed time), but I'm glad I did - greatly entertaining! Thanks. 😊
I just learned of you last evening and I’ve watched legit 5 in a row and now I may be smitten. Your take on every topic I’ve seen you address is spot on and you’re legit hilarious. Keep ‘em coming got a new sub here. Thank you algorithm?🤷🏽♂️
This "man" is absolutely terrifying, like literally a horrifying, scary mess of a threat. I'm absolutely appalled.
Like, he blames women for "having daddy issues", while he's standing there with a massive load of mommy issues, himself. Not saying he deserved the treatment he got from her - no one does - but it's a bit rich and hard to swallow.
It is scary!
You'll be alright
@@Fritztafer did I ask? No.
@@Yukinoomoni you seemed distraught so I wanted to offer some reassurance
"never taken an anti-depressant, never seen a therapist"
isn't it funny how some of the people who most need help are the ones who are the most against getting help? yikes
Cough cough: Tom Cruise against anti depressants
@@sjormeraniov6586 But he knows the history of psychiatry. I just hope none of his children need mental health help. I don't think he'd handle it well. Thankfully, Suri mainly lives with Katie Holmes. People who don't believe in psychiatry often have children who commit suicide. Children that might have lived if only they had access to the appropriate help.
And how do you know which people need help and which ones don’t?
@@Vladica01 his behaviour shows he needs help, the things he say show that he needs help. Rather than need it's should have gotten help earlier in life
@@anoni6108 it is not his behavior showing that he needs help it is your own subjective perception of it. You, like some 2000+ people commenting here do not get why he speaks in that way and get emotionally involved into the content of what he says not really seeing beyond words.
This was so hard to get through. I have no words to express how angry he makes me. How does he still have a huge platform??
I was only barely aware of him before this and now I absolutely hate this man.
Oh my gosh those two women. I just want to give them a big hug and tell them it’s all lies. They’re faces are devastated.
As a 24 year old who foolishly wasted £900 on a 4 day Tony Robbins event (yes I was a bloody idiot and don’t even get me started on hot coal flashbacks and the cult atmosphere - oh and the whole thing being a sales pitch for more Tony Robbins events) I’m so glad this exists and I hope many more people see it
Not an idiot - you were looking to improve yourself and you ruled one means of doing so out. Don’t be down on yourself. :)
They exploit any and all insecurities/regrets (which just about everyone has in some form or another) and play on the worst traits of human nature, with regards to status and ego. You really are not an idiot, it's very difficult not to get caught up in this stuff, especially since those who are heavily into it will viciously double-down and defend their choices.
The fact you discovered what it was actually about and stopped proves you are clearly intelligent. And besides, if you look at the work of people like James Randi, you soon realise even very intelligent people can be fooled by the simplest of techniques and tricks.
@@arozeisarozie Can't agree more.There's nothing wrong with the desire to want to heal yourself, improve and evolve.
Best way to do that: forget about self-help and start studying psychology.
Start a psychoanalysis. It will give you the space you need in order to grow, without manipulating you.
by realizing this you have improved yourself, matured and grown as a person. congratulate yourself!
After each intervention clip I think, "Wow, could this guy be a bigger piece of garbage?" After the next clip, "Huh, apparently he can, go figure."
this is the third deep dive video of yours I've watched. just so good. i think very fair to the subjects, but just so well done. got nothing clever to say about it. just thank you for what has to be a lot of work to produce. um... ya, so like thank you.
I literally can't thank you enough for your work, Excellent research and analysis incredibly thorough and incredibly and insightful. Goddess Bless you Munecat🧡
My old manager went to a Tony Robbins event and was so incredibly overbearing when he came back that I got fired for essentially 'not being pumped enough'
Whatever bro hhahaha bullshit
@@shayan447 Tony Robbins is this your alt account?
what the hell. isn't doing ones job good enough anymore?
You know what’s so sad? I learned all that Tony teaches about how to please a man all on my own just by dating assholes. I picked up on their patterns and their insecurities and their needs and was able to cater to them all. Doing so allowed me to be in the worst, most ill-fitted relationships. I’ve been single for a year now, healing and learning my worth. When I date again, it will be as myself, and if I keep a man, it’ll be because he loves me for me. If zero men love me for me, then zero men love me. Don’t care. I love me, my family and friends love me, my dog loves me, I don’t *need* anything else. 💞
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I'm so sorry you had to go through all that nonsense. I feel you. I'm also really glad that you've come out on the other side, and are feeling confident and strong! You deserve it! I wish you all the best.
Hard relate. Anyone worth your time will love your self worth. You keep being your wonderful self.
On behalf of men, I apologize. Our society and culture intentionally miseducates young people (especially young men) with our strange collection of mythos and stories. So many grow up to become entitled dickbags without empathy and without the ability to see women as equally valid human beings.
Yessss!! 🙌🏼 I’m HAPPILY single after dumping my last clown over 4 years ago. I have ZERO desire to ever date again!
Wow. This was so well done! 👏🏼 Just subscribed & cant wait to watch more of your videos!!
Your research is incredible! I watched in one sitting!
Now it makes sense why Rachel Hollis’ husband was inspired by a Tony Robins conference. They’re both super sexist and manipulative
What was the name of Tom Cruise’s character in Magnolia? Always thought he may have been inspired by Tony Robbins.
@DEntertainment why are you angy
Wait a second. I am Italian. I love in Italy. I can guarantee you that it is NOT an Italian tradition to go and cheat to your wife. I’m 12 years married. I would remarry him today
Really?
When the financial crisis happened radio 4 did a program on how this effected Italian men. What I found really interesting and funny was a lot of Italian men were upset because they couldn’t keep up with there extra marital affairs because of lack of income. Now I wouldn’t say that every Italian man is the same but was a very interesting programme.
@@claudiabailey5302 Europeans stereotyping each other... imagine my shock lol
@@claudiabailey5302 Bullshit. We have very strong family values and cheating by either sex is not seen positively.
@@claudiabailey5302 Look at the stats, Germany, Italy, Denmark and Norway have the same percentages of adultery. But somehow Italians are the only ones stereotyped for it.
Why did it take me so long to find this channel in my recommended? I’m glad to be here!
I don't know how I got here but you're brilliant. very funny and captivating to watch. Thank you, I'm going to watch some more.
"She isn't in pain because she lost her child". Fucking hell. I had to take breaks watching this.
As a real man, i'm fucking offended by this guy's ridiculous one-note assertions about my gender.
How the men in the audience felt validated and not insulted is beyond me.
They are wealthy but it's inherited wealth, so they're all insecure and self conscious about their soft handed lifestyles
Brain washed
There are a huge number of damaged men in the world, and they are super easy to prey on by these vile people.
As opposed to a fake man?
@@hypatia4754 maybe more like as opposed to someone like TR, who is a sorry example of one. TR is certainly performing (and perpetuating) a deeply toxic caricature of masculinity, which *is* highly inauthentic, and I’d say “inauthentic” is quite a solid opposition to “real” in the context of what makes a quality man.
I think the lego/plug walk of pain was the inspiration I needed this morning before work. Thank you.
Münecat, I dont know how you manage to watch these whole interventions? I have t o pause and come back later just to get through the excerpts you post! And people pay money to be told such crap...
I admire you!
What an incredible piece of work this video is... how is this not topping the trending tab. Also hearing him talk about men being these dumb don't-know-better single cell organisms is pain. My head just screams STFU
@Organized Confusion I have noticed you comment a lot on these posts defending Tony Robbins. I just want to say that if you feel the need to defend him because at one point or another you feel he helped you, I understand. It’s okay to be helped by someone who is problematic. I used to feel like Dr Phil helped me. I now recognize that he is extremely problematic, but I do not blame myself for looking for some kind of affirmation to my life experiences. If he helped you, maybe just understand that people can do good things and still not be good people.
If men are such dumb don't-know-better single brain cell organisms then why would you open your mouth, Tony Robbins! Are you the only man with two brain cells!
Same here like why it always the women fault when mother fucker is sexist and misogynists on a level I never seen WTF
Us dudes can talk shit about men joking we don't get offended, it's like the n word black people can use but not whites, men can't talk shit about men but not women then it's sexism
@@carljung99 English please
Wtf. Tony “confronting” the abusive husband had me saying: Tony’s gonna get her killed. That man is gonna kill his wife and Tony is encouraging the man to be violent in public.
Hi Münecat, just now found your channel, and devouring your videos.
My jaw hit the floor when I saw the clip of Tim Ballard defending Tony Robbins!! Tim has been going through some pretttty bad press lately.
Figures that these two dudes would resonate on the same wavelength.
Brilliant analysis! I must share this with my son who follows Robinson almost as his guru. Thanks again.
The mommy issues that have led to this man's damaged mind are actually pretty sad. He sees every woman as his mom, an evil, manipilative snake that seeks to take advantage of men. It seems like his actions are justified in his mind as a sort of revenge.
It's both repulsive and tragic.
I mean if he had loving mother he would be saying the opposite
He has a lot of anger and his use of foul language is inappropriate. I remember it was either his wife's birthday or their anniversary, and he posted on social media saying that he hopes his wife "stays weird". I thought that was a very condescending thing to say to someone when it's supposed to be a day of appreciation and honor.
@@24kstar I’m pretty sure calling your spouse weird is just a pretty general complement to say that you like their quirkiness, it’s really not comparable to any of the actually bad things he’s done
That's precisely what I'm thinking. I was really impressed by some of his talks but after watching this... this guy has SUFFERED from being emasculated so often that he's forcing men to be 300x as sadistic to achieve their goals. I relate to a lot of Tony's feelings as well as having a narcissistic, abusive mother. But damn. Forget genders - there are more than 2 sexes. Pretending that there's only black & white makes it harder to understand complications
So he's been married three different times, yet has children from an assortment of women (some of whom weren't his wife). I'd probably not want to take relationship advice from him. Or any advice from a guy looking like a sleazy used car salesman.
I mean, it’s not like relationships are complicated, right? Just give me more money and you can follow 5 easy steps to solving every problem you have, forever!
No no no, ignore that therapist
He would be the perfect movie villain. You'd think it was a disadvantage.
But he's large and assertive so..
@@rickc2102 Those traits always pull everyone into thinking that whatever the guy is saying is legit. They're also common traits of sad, fake con-artists like him & terrible romance love interests, to the point that I've started to find guys like that unattractive 💀
So he bred with a few willing breeders, wats yer problem ?
❤❤❤ thank you for this thoughtful video!
Tim Ballard defending Tony Robbins was not the cameo I expected to see I the video but it sure does explain a lot.
Same! I was listening without looking at the screen and had to grab the phone to see if it was him.