My friend answers questions gay guys have for straight guys
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- My straight friend, Calvin answers a few questions I have always wanted to ask straight guys.
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who thinks i should do more collabs?
I Think👍Yep-Do more Chris😁
I only have Straight Guy friends, They are Okay with Gay. But really can't give me any kind of Positive support. You are of The Few Utuber's I have notification's on.
Your Content has Never disappointed, Just Delivered😀😀😀😀👍👍👍
Definitely yes.
Def with Calvin, I love that he makes you blush! Subbed To Calvin's channel. 🌈
Yes, I have had straight male close friends, and I even have one now.
Yep
Yes! Please make this a series!
They are a fascinating creature, the straight guys who are cool with gay guys...
The younger generation has been more exposed to openly gay people of their own age and as a result are more likely to be accepting.
Yes and coinciding with the evolution away from draconian mind warping religions.
That's what u see in CZcams but this isn't true
@@Appplepuppie that's been the trend for a while even based on public polling. Same goes for literally any under represented group.
We have your generation (and everyone before us) to thank for helping to lead the way.
COME TO MY HIGHSCHOOL THEN YOULL BE SUPRISED TO SEE THAT EVERY GUY IS HOMOPHOBIC😭😭😂🤦🏾♂️
Aw he seems like a genuine nice person I like him
First mistake yall make
"He looks nice,omg he is so polite"
☠ dawg
Kain's Creations I don’t know him personally what else should I say
I was like omg ariana Grande commented?? 😂
Kain's Creations umm what were they supposed to say??
Yeah I liked his honesty
Your straight friend is a unique guy. I think he is very comfortable with himself...with his sexuality...so he is not intimidated by other straight guys who would mock him for hanging with a gay guy. That's very impressive.
You can be comfortable with yourself and your sexuality and still not want to be mocked by other guys. Plus, what if it turns off girls?
@@renealexander2703 I agree. Nobody enjoys being mocked. As for girls being turned off by a guy who has gay friends, the friend in this video doesn't seem like a person who would be interested in such a girl. I hope he isn't. It would be best if the girl shows her unsavory values early in the game so he can dump her sometime between the initial lust and the onset of a sticky attachment.
@@Mikerochip1 , it's not about being turned off. Many girls will think he is gay if he hangs around gay men. Some gay men even think a man is gay or bisexual if he hangs around gay men. Girls won't dislike him, but they probably will think he is gay or bisexual and won't date him.
@@renealexander2703 I don't understand why you think he would want to date a bigot?
@@renealexander2703 It'll be turning off the girls you don't wanna go with only, it's a win/win situation
My 2 closest friends are straight, and they have both done a great job trying to understand gay issues and be respectful of what we go through. I couldn't imagine 2 greater friends to have.
Lucky man
I’m straight but i dont have friends at all
Being a Scandinavian guy (Iceland) from a very traditional Norse pagan family i felt a lot of pressure to be that masculine dude, but as i got older that pressure started to really get to me, so when i was in 10'th grade i talked to my friends about it (which was the first time i was open about my feelings) and decided i was done with pretending to be something i clearly wasn't and much to my surprise my friends were completely ok with it especially the guys. At that time it was pretty out of the ordinary and looked down upon to not be that macho dude in Scandinavia. I'm very proud of gay people for having such courage and bravery to accept their sexuality despite the seemingly insurmountable odds and prejudice, because believe me I've been through a similar situation and its not in the least bit easy.
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I had a straight best friend. Ten years later I told him I was gay . Never ever seen or heard from him again.
@@bobbond6365 oof, that's harsh. Hope you're doing alright :(. Just goes to show you never really truly know someone.
I'm gay. My BEST Friend has been my friend for 27 f*cking years. He doesn't care. He's my bro for life.
Michael Miller you are very fortunate Michael PEACE
Andibuzi
Good. my best friend is trans, didn’t change a thing when they came out. Actually, why do people care about that sorta thing?
@@speakersr-lyefaudio6830 , because some gay men try to sexually harrass straight men.
@jayl , it's not being "weird" around them. That's like saying that lesbians who do not want to be around straight men who sexually harrass them are being "weird" around straight men. It's not being "weird." It's being cautious and wanting to avoid unnecessary/potential drama. It's the very same reason why straight women avoid friendships with straight men. They are not being "weird." They just want to avoid possibility that a straight man might view them in a sexual or romantic way. It's not being "weird." It's avoiding potential/possible drama.
My best friend is straight and married with a kid, I’m a guncle. Oh and he’s white. 🤜🏾🤛🏻
@Literally Me same LMAO
I take it by guncle he means gay uncle
Most white guys are ok man.... x
@Insight Hazard Lol. I thought the same thing. But then I realized he means that he's married and has a kid. XD (Maybe).
Married with a kids ummmmmm...... jk lol
Love how kinda nervous you were in this, and how you kinda blushed when he called you a 10.
Facts
He is a fkn 10!
OMG he's a definite 10!! Chris is gorgeous and super interesting...
I have a straight guy best friend and he knows I am gay. And like he flirts with me in a joking way. It is actually kinda cute watching him do it, and then sometimes he will say something and look at me and be like I am so sorry is that offensive?
He's like the nicest guy. He's struggling at some point to express his thoughts but you'd know what he means. It's true that gays can be one of the boys but there are boundaries that we need to maintain to keep that friendship. Nothing is more admirable than guys claiming their straight and still fully respect gays without any insecurities about their identity.
My friend group is all straight guys, and they didn't care that I was gay. In fact, they carried on as if nothing changed and I believe I am "one of the boys".
This Calvin guy is super cool. You're lucky to have a friend like him.
I love how the gay guy felt compelled to stop everything and explain why they're both looking so sweaty. Hahahaha Awesome
I'm gay but all my best friends are straight. Just not a lot of gay people were I live.
not a lot of *out* gay people where I live
@@sebastianboeddinghaus3505 Thanks for clarifying that for @ Lucas Flanders. Too many people make the assumption that all gay people are open about it or easy to identify
Probably some of your friends are gay too but still in the closet.
I'm gay and my closest and best friends are mostly straight guys. Married even. I've found them to be the most steady and chill and loyal
almost all my friends are straight guys i went to an all boys catholic high school. and we’re still friends in college so thats all i know. a lot of girls always try and get me to act a certain way so they can have the gay friend THEY want but i'm not gonna fundamentally change everything about my personality for someone thats crazy
Honestly most of the straight guys I meet aren’t really talkative with me😹😭
But I still love your vids Chris. And I stay stanning❤️
Idk why straight people in my community scared of me HAHAHAHAHA
They always think am gonna hit on them like bro you ugly asf HAHAHAHAH
@@aeron9730 boi u like 10
@@liljetottare6419 no, am actually 9 so....
CaliPaws “You and my half brother would click instantly”
Chris “How old is he?”
😂😂😂👌
Cali Saws I think it was more the chin rubbing interested expression of Chris that did it but Low Key if I saw you out and about I would think you was Gay 😜
That would be me!
Bruh he’s like all of my straight friends.
Kind and genuine.
Having straight friends is the best thing because they’re like brothers!
Yes I do have a straight guy best friend, but I have never been in the “boys” ya know? Like I have never been in a group of boys just chilling and hangout. Most boys I meet were kinda homophobic so I have more best friends who are girls.
Exactly
Yep
@5:36 as a gay guy you absolutely can be "one of the boys" you need to realize that you are gay and you are many other things too. I love to cook, sports, working out, 4 wheeling, and my husband. So just like anything else in this day and age you'll be accepted in 99% of any "click" the trick is you have to make sure that you have more than 1 interest (being gay) the straight boys will exclude you (and they should) if your only interest in life is your gay identity.
Calvin is such a sweetheart. Would love it if there were more Calvins in the world :)
you're very lucky to have such an accepting friend. Very good chemistry between you two in the vid
Chris is the most deadpan person and it's so entertaining. I want to know more about this brother thing
Yeah that comment threw me
off guard!!
Watching this after seeing one of the later videos with Calvin, where you reveal you didn't even really know each other much before this video! Calvin was so nervous but already likeable and sincere as ever in this first collab. I kind of have a straight best friend, but my gay friends are closer.
im in my 50,s.my best friend for over 40 years is straight.......and as it happens his son is bi and calls me his 2nd dad :)
I can tell he is really straight bc of the neon orange shorts with the red shirt 😭😭
Being in the military, always surrounded by straight guys. Honestly having straight guys as best friends is way better then stereotype of gays and girls being bffs
are you out with them?
Thom35UO yeah all my friends know I’m gay. I’m not one to be in the closet lol. Most military really don’t care tbh. They all have told me that there my friend because of how I am as a person. Civilians on the other hand, idk not as accepting as they think
@@angelcastillo3100 Oh, wow. I'd think civilians are more accepting. It's great you have straight best friends.
I served during the don’t ask don’t tell era. Which I know is a large era so let’s shrink it down to 02-11’. We often knew who was gay in the company to served in. Male or female. Many where open (lower enlisted) and even while I was on my second deployment to Iraq I simply didn’t care. My thinking was alway you do your job. You keep your team mates safe. You volunteered for this life. We are cool. You enter my orbit to keep safe (as a infantry medic all my year) and I learn or suspect you to be gay? Doesn’t change what my benchmark is to consider you someone I can trust or respect. I’ll just be here doing my think you make sure you go home safe and you do the same. I was happy as fuck when don’t ask don’t tell was abolished and service members could be themselves. I saw to many fantastic people in uniform leave the military because they couldn’t be openly gay and make military a career and go up in rank for fear of being gay affecting their military life. Not because of perception, because of policy and as you move up in rank people will look for ways to remove the competition at times.
*Top*
Cali,
After your answers, I don’t know how Chris didn’t reach over and give you a great big dear hug! You are the epitome of awesomeness. Excellent dude!!!!
this warms my heart! hope y’all are good friends! a lot (if not most) of my guy friends are straights and they’re very very sweet and protective. good for u!
My best friend is straight and we have a relationship like you guys I really hope that every gay boy here can have that straight BFF on they’re lives!
I’m still friends with the straight guys who were my best friends in high school. But since coming out in college, I don’t think I have made any straight best friends. 🤔
I agree, easier to make straight friends in high school. Doesn't flow as easily beyond that
Great on screen chemistry between you two! You two seem like great friends!!
My best friend for twice as many years as you’ve been alive is straight and completely accepting. If you were looking for an ally, you couldn’t do better than him.
I am gay and I have a straight friend that I spend a lot of time with. We laugh and joke but absolutely no attraction for each other. He is married, a couple kids and a cop ......he is a good clean cut honest guy. I like that in a person. Wish I had gay friends with no pretenses, totally straight forward and relaxed in their own skin........!
This is my first time on this channel but dayum his answers are heartwarming, the last one when he said "yes" i was like awwww
I feel that 😭 I can force my self to cry but sometimes I just can’t idk why, half of the time I can cry but when it involves my pain I can’t
I LOVE UR KHUN SHIRT OMG
Honestly you remind me a lot of antoni ! Not just from looks but you’re just super nice and genuine and chill and seem like a great guy!
you actually are a preatty cool duo, i mean you vibe very well toggether... and this friend man of yours he´s such a cutie, i mean i really like how he goes about all this questions i like him
These kind of videos are my favourite because this is how my straight friends feel about me
I'm a 43 ye old straight guy who has straight friends but also has gay friends and sometimes if we go out ,sometimes we might end in a gay bar, straight people often avoid gay bars because they have the wrong impression of what it will be like . you do get given compliments which is always good of anybody, it makes you feel good about yourself . Sometimes if you tell a gay guy your straight, they often apologize and walk away which is respectful .sometimes they want to hang around with you anyway just as a possible future friend . My friends are my friends wherever they are gay or not .nobody is treated differently and everyone's one of the boys .
i go to gay bars too
so sweet
Love that “Blue Turtle” shirt 😄
I'm gay and have a straight friend I hang out a lot with who allows me benefits as a one-sided (me on him) relationship. I don't mind it being one-sided because over the years with all the STD's it might have saved my life because I wasn't going out to bars looking for a one-night stand. Our relationship as friends has been going on for over 30 years. p.s. I also found out my straight friend is more loyal as a true friend and down to Earth than some of these guys I've met in bars who seem so flakey, moody, needy, and fragile. You two guys seem perfect for each other. It's just a matter of time before you two get hitched.
So awesome to see how much your channel has grown! ❤😉
As a fellow straight guy we need more Calvins in the world. Great vid.
Yes both my best friends are straight and I consider to be my brothers. They are huge support in my life
My group of best friends are straight and we do everything together even we all sleep together, they realy don't care that I'm gay
this video is adorable af you guys are so nice. def more videos together 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
do I have a straight best friend? That requires a standard best friend and I am of short supply of those at the moment
Almost all of my friends end up being straight. I think it's because of where I grew up and that connection to people has stayed with me. I try to also be friends with others in the LGBT community because I think it's important for us to have those connections in order to grow and evolve. Thanks for the video Chris. Your content keeps getting better and better.
The vibe between you too...
*I liiive*
TOWER OF GOD TSHIRT? OHGOD I STAN
I do have a straight best friend and he actually shocked me last night, I got really drunk and I was in depression drunk phase and feeling suicidal and he actually held me in his arms and just held me for the rest of the night. I never thought that would happen between us. And now hes just constantly checkin up on me n telling me that he loves me, which is nice cuz most of the time I feel like a nobody.
@Cali Saws aweeeee thank you so much! Really appreciate it! Sending virtual hugs your way 😊😘
can't wait for the next vid Chris ♥️
Idk about other gay people but I've always felt a little out of place among gays because I very much feel masculine inside.. when I was a kid, I liked to play in the dirt, and ride bikes, and scrape my knees, and fight.. I still do. I just happen to not be attracted to females.. Most of my bros are straight guys, I honestly personally don't get along with as many gay guys as you would think. So yes, a gay guy can be "one of the boys" because that's still my crowd of choice and I find that most straight guys my age are at least respectful. But many straight guys have told me before that I just hit different from a lot of other gay guys lol. I just know respect comes first so I never hit on a guy if they're not comfortable with it. I'm not one of those in your face flamboyant fem gays.. I have nothing against that, but that's simply not me.
Cool video dude, this is the first video I seen your channel. I agree with your friend about you being handsome lol. I subbed. 👍
Great topic Chris! You and Calvin seem like great friends. To his point about being close with another guy but not gay, back in my younger days (80's) if you hugged a guy you were both automatically thought to be gay and rumors would fly. It happened to me and my best friend eventhough people already knew we were best friends. So refreshing to see guy friends not be afraid to be close with another bud.
Yes, back when I was in high school, two male friends would go to the movies on the weekend but would sit a seat apart because if they sat directly next to each other they were considered gay, and the whole town would start talking. I still remember the first two guys that dared to sit next to each other, with their heads together, talking and laughing, through the whole movie, because they decided they just didn't care what anyone thought. They were good friends of mine, by the way. And they said if they couldn't sit together and enjoy the movie, then there was no point to even go. Several small-minded bullies tried to give them a hard time in school the following week, calling them faggots, boyfriends, etc, to which they responded in the best way possible which was to ask the bullies if they were jealous, or to say "sorry, youre just not my type, man, but im sure you'll find someone" etc. The bullying didn't even last 2 days as I recall. And they weren't gay, just best friends. Theyre still friends to this day, 30-plus years later. I look at my kids and their friends and how free they are with their affection with one another and am so glad they didnt grow up in that time!
@@reneeanderson5617 Excellent example of the immature behavior by homophobes back then and that may still occur today. Put bullies in their place and they go away pretty damn quick at least in my experience. Love how your classmates faced their bullies.
Pretty much all of my best friends are straight. I have a few gay friends about two or three I consider close but the rest all straight. It just worked out that way. My closest gay friend passed away 5 years ago. I think about him all the time and wish he was still here. He was the first person I ever officially came out to. Once we came out to each other we were like brothers, lots of long phone calls talking about boys. It was awesome and for the most part saved my life. My straight friends have been pretty cool, too, tho. I've been very lucky in that way. I love them all.
wow its been 7 years now but im sorry for your loss
It's cute that you can actually see how nervous Calvin is. Trips over his words, and the ending, where he just did something complete random stuff.
Your friend is a true friend!
Always great to have an open mind .
Chris, I have not only several straight best friends, but also a straight ROOMMATE!! Peeeace!!
There is hope, and you two are IT. Well done
Calvin,you are a lovely,honest and sincere guy,and that will take you far in life,i hope your parents are very proud of you.
my question..... why can't every straight person be like this 👁👄👁
Because every gay person is not like this. Some gay men do not respect a straight man's sexual orientation.
Awesome one Stan .....2 cute boys in a car!! and yes I have a few straight friends...in fact at the moment more straight friends.... love ya!✌🏼❤️ 🌈
Now I know str8s are deep complex creatures. And us gay guys can learn a lot from them. They are like a huge mystical ONIONS, with layers and layers of mistery and thought. - So SO-RRY 4 the sarcasm😝 Your friend has a cool attitude though. (Thankyou 4 your videos Chis. They make day.😌)
Great video! I’m prior military with ALL kinds of great friends.
What a wonderful friend to have. Wonderful guy.
When I was single and first came out to my bff whose str8 - he remained my best friend. We didn't hang out as much when we both were in relationships but stayed in contact via social media
I love how both of you are so nervous about this, lol
My whole friend group in high school was nothing but straight guys 😂 it’s 100% possible
you guys are adorable
I try to always have a straight friend that I can talk with, without it turning sexual between us. I feel free to talk about anything with them.
Straight men do not want you.
So, you asked a question there at the end of the video asking if us gay guys have a straight guy as a friend/best friend. Well, to be 100% honest, that’s the only friends I have are straight guy friends. My bestest best friend, Jason, is by far the best person I know on this planet! He and his gf are suuuch amazing friends to me, they even made up a spare guest bedroom just for me for whenever I need to stay the night bc I’ve had a few too many drinks or just want to sleep over. He took me fishing last Sunday and helped me catch my first bass! But truly I have other friends that are all straight guys and we’re all so close that they even tell me I love you whenever I’m leaving. But yeah, I’m definitely cool with straight guys and they’re the same way back.
Most of my friends are straight guys. I've always felt more comfortable in general with male friends, straight or gay, than with female friends. It may be that I'm misogynistic, though I hope not! I do and have had many woman friends, but I just get along easier with guys, always feel like it's easier to cut through the b.s., and just love my bros in general.
This is TRULY iconic 😂😂😂👏😂😂😂
You guys are killing me..Love y'all 😎 Turn on the f'n A/C..,I am sweating just watching! 😆
All my close GUY friends are (or were) straight! n fact, My past and (present) boyfriend,were straight, when i met them ! No, i didn't come on to them, they came on to me,. "I can't believer your gay" Is something i've heard often, especially from teammates.. A buddy, once said to me, you're "the Patron Saint of Straight Boys, who are Curious!"
Lol I love this!
You have an awesome friend!!!
One pretty good straight friend, don't get to see him much bc of work.
my best friend is a straight guy and him and I couldn’t be closer, he doesn’t act any differently towards me, in fact he actually acts more affectionate and shit w me like we cuddle and compliment each other all the time and shit
I'm gay and atm most of my friends are straight guys, tbf I only just came out recently but all my friends were cool with it. Although we are all nerds so we usually just play smash bros and help each other with homework lol.
I am straight but I do know guys who are gay but I respect them.
dude awesome video thanks for that , Both of you have good healthy attitudes toward the gay experience from your perspective sides. Keep it. Stan your a cutie keep it real.
Hey Chris.
Calvin was speaking the truth, you are quite a 10.
When I was in HS yeah my best friend was straight. I grew up in a very rural area and the gay population was very thin. Now, I dont think that has so much meaning for me. Like Calvin, I an ultra selective and have very few real friends.
my closest friend is straight, he is the first person that I talked to about being gay (I also had a crush on him, that we still joke about) and this was 27 years ago when we were at university together. He really helped me in my coming out process.
I think these 2 guys have really good attitudes. Really nice to see.
I feel like I'm watching a mirror here. You control yourself SO well. I do the same thing around straight people.
Okay but that Khun t-shirt is soooooo cool
You are lucky to have Calvin as a friend. He seems really cool and funny.
He's such a nice person, wtf
All of my bros were homophobs before meeting me. They are all super cool with it! I think it comes down to a human touch, "understanding".
He's so adorably awkward we stan
Great video. Good questions. Honest answers.
Me when I try to explain anything “that didn’t make sense” 😂
He made you blush
I love your friend 😂 I mean your shirt 😂 khun aguero agnes.
Nice video btw.
One of my closest friends is a straight guy. Love him to death and he’s completely comfortable around me
I got a straight guy bff
Me & him been friends for over 15 years to the point to where were like brothers
His wife loves me and also considers me her brother in law
And his 2 kids are my God kids as well