Online Dating: Chad's Dream, Normie's Nightmare
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⏠Contents of this video âŹâŹâŹâŹâŹâŹâŹâŹâŹâŹ
00:00 0) Online Dating Takeover
01:18 1) Awful For Normies
04:37 2) Awful For Women
08:43 3) Awful For Non-Users
14:29 4) So Chads Win?
So, basically, the only winners are the exexutives and shareholders of the companies building these apps.
just make your own version of tinder
Who is this a Tiffany womanâs?
- borat
And the top 5% of men.
@@pablovaldes2397 I actually had a dating site in the early 00s. I was told if you don't hire fake women to message men (virtual assistants from the Philippines) the site will never take off. ALL dating sites use plants and bots, plus an ecosystem of scammers. There was a ratio of 1 real woman to 7-8 men from my calculations. In some cases I actually called members to verify. Pretty much you have to be a sociopath to make it big in that area (just care about money and not give a crap about anything else). Dating sites also used easy zip codes back then (like 12345) to load with tons of beautiful russian women pics :lol:. Trust me, that area is a huge dump :lol:
yup basically man. they are making hella money off desperate single men, like the rest of this ungrateful ass soceity.
Imagine the guys 150 years ago setting up the first telephone lines, completely unaware of the monster they were creating. People from different generations will never understand what it's like growing up in this social media age.
@ModBopBeat - me when im retarded
Industrial revolution is the source of it all, essentially turning humans into consumers. Dating is just human shopping. Feminism, lgbt, single parenting, hook up culture, pornography, abortion, me too, beta male, incel... all came from technology like telephones, tampons, birth control, public education, mass media, internet, transportation etc...
Pre industrial revolution families produced their own food, clothes, home repairs, child care, child education, etc... now we rely on others or the government on what to do or how to think.
The internet has exacerbated this massive problem and it too will solve it with time
"Just go out and meet a girl"
*three days later*
"I've been accused of grape."
You are right, all through history people said, "this generation is lost and full of troubles", funny to read that from an account in 1214 AD. But in this case, the troubles this younger generation has gone through is very real, having high speed Internet, social media and never knowing life without it .
I was 12 when we got our first computer in the home.., so I know what life was like before dial up...
Imagine the men and women who see a random suggestion to watch a wheat waffles video, then midway into watching it they see their face as an example of a below average personâŠBrutal.
You need to accept yourself as youre. I consider miself between a 5/6 there is noting that I can do, since I realize that Im happier than ever and understand my place in this world. This is what it is. In that order youre able to focus in the important things that we are missing because were wasting our energies with s
Hahaha
@@FranJav507 I didn't say it was me buddy. But that message is relevant to whoever my comment applies to.
I think W^2 buys photos from sites to use. He seems like a very upstanding guy, I don't think he would use a person's picture in that way. Also, the photos he uses look like they're professionally produced
Who would think otherwise ?
If you're an avg men then going on dating apps is a futile excercise
@FuckOuttaHere there are actually quite a few placesâŠ.
"futile exercise." Yes, but at least you're getting a workout đ
Yea I dont even have good photos of myself to put up there, I would need to really start selfmarketing and I kinda find it silly to start such a circus...
@FuckOuttaHere and in College every worthy girlâs taken. I am in both college and a (FP superior in spanish) âprofessional 2 year degreeâ and its extremely hard. I am average face and top tier body.
It is crazy.
â@@davdav8152 such as?
When you have 100 flavors to choose from, no matter which flavor your choose, you'll always wonder if you could have chosen a better flavor. This doesn't happen when you have fewer choices, like two or three.
and the ONLY way to make it happen is to force monogamy by law just like in muslim countries. this is the only solution and always will be. everything else leads to 90/10 > 95/5 > 99.99/0.01 eventually.
@@DoporaBHe6o just like the nwo which is directed by the top of the top guys
@@veryhyped yes.
financial advantage works the same way - it needs to be maintained by keeping poor from re-distributing the wealth.
dating market is exactly the same as financial market.
no chad would ever give up current state of things to make his life worse - just like no wealthy person would give away the $.
Paradox of choice
@@DoporaBHe6o tradcel coping
Dating apps are specifically created for men to fail. They need this in order to keep guys coming back and trying again, and again, and again. The bread and butter of every business is its loyal returning costumers. Just be handsome, bro.
I don't think men's failure is the business model of dating apps, it's more like a byproduct
The rig is up men are catching on. The only ones using apps now are chads racking up bodies thatâs all
True, I just wonder how they can control this tho, because what IF people actually match and get an actual relationship? Lol
@@Leukick The vast majority don't though. Also, Even though people are matched up and in relationships doesn't mean they've stopped using it. It's a win win for these dating apps.
Thats why I buy the tinder plus or bumble plus and then dispute it on my credit so they never get my money lololol
I got 4.7 on photo feeler, below average. Dating isn't over for me, it never truly began. Being ugly just means a life void of intimacy, love and respect. The blackpill has made me accept this and focus on other things, the same way someone who can't walk accepts their reality but still continues on with other things in life.
I wish you nothing but the best brother, I hope this doesn't come off as corny I just empathize.
@Present Object Even them because they prefer the preety boy looks not Dwayne Johnson face and size.
Bimax or bust
@@unknowninfinium4353 join r/samaj
Nah bruh, it just means that you have to continue with your looks, look at all the flaws you have and try to fix it.. if you're overweight.. Exercise, If your face's bone structure is messed up.. Surgery, if your teeth is the problem.. Braces
Trouble is, almost everyone has been on the apps at this stage, so even if you meet someone in real life they're likely to have a stack of baggage / bodies and the same distrust / bitterness towards men. So even if you don't use apps, you have to deal with their negative consequences.
At this point it seems not dating at all is the only viable option, which is a shame.
@@jessejames3660 it depend on where u live tbh. I live in the US. And I can tell you literally every young girls are using dating apps nowadays. Even the girl I know at church she used dating apps too.
Underrated comment⊠Iâve made a promise to myself never to commit to a woman that has been on or is on or has used hookup apps⊠and that seems like impossible to find as even the most vanilla, normal, saint-like chicks Iâve met even irl have at least tinder and get piped down on the daily
@@TuscanBrick Trust me, humans are humans everywhere and there's the same bs going on in Hungary. Maybe not as bad as in the US, but we're getting there. Yes, the marriage rates are higher and the divorce rates are slightly lowered, but the majority of those marriages are being kept together so that they don't lose the government benefits. It's still a shitshow.
@@Gamer.Instinct glad Iâm not the only one who thought this. Imagine if miraculously you and I became chads, are we supposed to feel happy that we are wifing up a chick who gave sex to men who didnât provide any effort? Best case scenario for any man is to ascend and never commit. The idea that you could be in a relationship with a girl and she gave it up for someone who did less than you disgust me
you don't have to listen to there problems you can leave and not listen to black pill red pill bullshit that's the problem
I got 0 matches in a month. But when I created a fake account with some super good looking guy photo I got 20+ matches in a single day.
Deleted all dating apps that day.
I did a similar thing on Facebook over a decade ago and was blown away by how differently girls would talk to me on the fake account. Before that, I genuinely believed that looks didn't matter that much to girls.
only 20? that's lifefuel for me lol
Same happens if you make a profile of a average to below average girl sucks to be a average or below average guy
Women logic in dating apps:
Attractive simp guy = kind man
Short simp guy = nice guy
Rude attractive guy = bad boy
Rude short guy = incel
Smart attractive guy = brilliant, intelligent
Smart short guy = nerd
Quiet attractive guy = stoic strong type
Quiet short guy = shy loner
Confident attractive guy = boss
Confident short guy = creepy, Napoleon complex
Buff attractive guy = hot
Buff short guy = Manlet
Demanding attractive guy = alpha
Demanding short guy = controlling
Old attractive guy = mature
Old short guy = old
Well dressed attractive guy = sexy
Well dressed short guy = try hard
Broke attractive guy = potential
Broke short guy = loser
This is why dating coach, pick up artists class, chad or women advice, trying to mimic Andrew Tate does not work.
If some chad thinks he can get success without good looks, he ought to do the opposite of âchadfishâ use an incels profile to try to get dates on apps. See how women react when you look like Kim jung un with alpha confidence, smooth talk, hilarious jokes, brilliant pick up lines.
for you to what extent (cm) does a woman consider (short guy) a guy?
who among these who are you?
@@ilmiratore9811 women say anyone under 6ft is short, but 6ft and taller is only 16 percent of the male population in USA. They also want men who earn over 6figures (100k$ a year) but even fewer men earn that much.
@@ilmiratore9811 in the UK where Iâm from and America anything below 185 is considered short. In Netherlands and Germany anything below 190cm is considered short.
I think the most underrated point in this video is the Survivorship Bias. I was on these dating apps in 2012-2013 and I briefly went back on them this year and it is a COMPLETELY different experience. Even if you do get any matches many of them are bitter, damaged, ran through, have "standards" in the stratosphere or are just straight up bots.
As WW has said in a previous video if you're a normie the best thing you can do is work out and get an athletic physique. That doesn't mean you'll be elevated to Chad tier, but it does change the game up a bit and you'll have potential partners approaching you instead of the other way around.
Good luck out here gents.
We should go on these apps, create accounts with Chad photos, and message the link to this video lol. Spread the word.
@@AutisticMorty Waste of time my dude. Take all your time and energy and invest it into yourself and improving your life cause the Winter has just begun.
A good physique won't get women approaching you if you are short or ugly. It doesn't hurt of course, but physiquemaxxing only works if you have solid genetics to begin with. I've learned this the hard way as I've busted my ass to lose weight, but still get treated like garbage.
@@Krelian4400 Being a jacked short dude just makes you like a leprechaun, women still won't take you seriously.
@@Krelian4400 I hear ya bro, it's still a tough world out here. To be honest with you, I'm not that tall myself (5'9) and it's not like i'm suddently a Chad slaying cheeks.... but obtaining a MUSCULAR physique (not just being lean but also muscular) has done wonders. At the very least I don't have to chase or even approach women as at best they approach me and at worse they give PLENTY of choosing signals for me to approach if I choose to (I don't 99% of the time lol).
Have your standards, and if nobody does justice to them, stay alone. There are really worse things than not having a partner.
Yeah, in the form of a Jezebel and her Demon Spawn. Hope her aging, short, bald Ex she went back to spread her legs for was worth it. Good riddance!!
I once texted a girl from my town on social media and she blocked me. I ended up meeting the same girl but in real life 4 months later, so we ended up dating. Social media is so broken itâs laughable
I think I'd cry myself to sleep if I seen myself in the below normie category of one of these vids
Top G says looks doesn't matter as it does for girls. get rich and find good social group of high value men and then even if you're ugly you'll at least you F some hot bi**hes bro. focus on yourself and remember you're valuable regardless of you looks
DBDR probably too :(
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So...went to a bar with a buddy and we met his ex GF and friends. One cuter 35 year old (a few pounds overweight but not bad) complained she couldn't find a good man to settle down. I looked her in the eye and said there is an big engineering conference in town and she should attend. You will have a good man potential husband by the end of the week. Did she go? Nope? But she did chase a Chad that night (not me!).
Women are hopeless because all they care about is the attention of Chad. Chad turns their brains off to all logic and reason.
"Not me" hahaha that's the funniest thing in this comment
Cause Looks >>>> Money
Nowadays in 2022 women can make their own money and have their own education too especially if you live in the US.
Well did you ever show interest in her
@@yyysamuel3215 red pill rage incoming
I have observed this in real-life parties, women now talk about all their dates (from online) etc, they swoon when the chad enters the room, and have nothing to do with anyone else even when it's only a party, not an enforced dating arena. In fact, they even defend the actions of the chads and attack any other male pointing out that a particular chad is a dick.
Online expectations have now spilled into the real world, destroying real-world communication and making causal fun interactions into the ruthless dismissal and rudeness seen in online forums. This is in the 55+ group as well, so the social contamination is now almost complete.
Sampling bias? Hoes gonna hoe, just the method changed...
Well said
I am a high tier normie and it is the worst thing because you are always plan B or plan C for women. You get matches, you get conversations but you almost always get ghosted at the end even if you do everything right
You should ask for date, not doing conversation...
You're almost better off being sub5 because then at least you don't waste massive amounts of time on false hope. Being ghosted after spending hours texting someone is a miserable experience.
@@bossgd100 Haha most of the time I get ghosted when I ask for date
@@bossgd100 it doesnât matter cause all these dating apps is all about LOOKS.
@@alpha8438 tbf most guys would love being a high tier normie. it means that you are essentially chad lite and with a few changes you can live like a king. if you are a genuine 7-7.5ish, then you can do things like improve game, humor, work out, social skills, charisma, better pictures, social circle, being outgoing, better job, better fashion, etc. your the ideal candidate for redpill dating coaches as they can help you reach the next level. Wheat waffles himself advices that if your a high tier normie, then you should work on gamemaxxing and jestermaxxing as you may even outcompete boring chads.
As a guy who gets tons of phone numbers from women (in person - I am not on Tinder), the dating apps have still ruined dating. Why? Because even when you are in the 5% of men women actually like, those women are so used to having 100 guys messaging them that they treat you like a commodity. They have a one strike and you're out policy now.
How do you get those phone Numbers then do woman just aproach you?
@@kidfury1114 I usually end up seated next to them at the restaurant bar and strike up a conversation (easier said than done - it often takes 10-15 minutes to break the ice).
I would say most attractive men don't burn through hookups. Some do but most don't. They follow the path of least resistance and least effort/cost and so follow the situation ship route of casually dating 2-5 girls for 1-3 months at a time and replacing them when they move on. This gives those girls the cover of not being one night stands and increases the ease and consistency of sex for the men. It also allows for "repeat business" and rebound sex. I think this model of short term polygamy is far more common than others.
Yes these dating app are time consuming and there is always someone who mogg you around the corner lol
True, only a small minority of Chads/women are having constant one-night stands. Most just cycle through a different boyfriend/girlfriend every 1-3 months and spend virtually no time "single." Oftentimes the relationships bleed into each other as the Chad or woman cheats on their current partner with their next partner.
@@Krelian4400 pretty much. No one gets in a relationship before sex so the 1-3 months of limbo are pretty easy to take advantage of. Women don't even mind unless they catch feelings bc that seems to be their natural preference of casual sex.
Kinda true but not always, if your good-looking but don't have that sorta personality it's gonna be different. Varies from person to person.
pure facts, me myself am benefiting from it. it is exactly how you describe you keep them until they start to put pressure. you deal with some pressure but then as other options open up you get stranded and talk less and less to the point now you are just "friends". if some options close you might open her again, but women usually keep great bitterness toward a man who just let them go.
When I used these apps in my late 20s I usually got matches with older, overweight women who were single mothers and smokers (I'm a non-smoker and this is disgusting to me) who didn't put any effort in keeping the conversation alive once we started to chat. (I had to start it of course)
Probably because I wasn't good looking enough for them and they matched me just to push their egos because the hot chads don't match them back.
Just date unhealthy women, bro.
Imagine seeing your photo on a Wheat Waffles video and him moving around his cursor on your face while saying "AvEraGe to BeLOw AveRAge face"
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Most of the Men Are just Background Characters and Attractive men and Women are the Main Characters of This world
based.
and almost everything you see around you (including criminal laws) is made for rich/beautiful to preserve their nice life and keep enjoying it while stopping those below from deleting them from this world (as it's the only real way "up").
there is nothing else and anybody who says otherwise either has no brain cells or straight away lying for their own benefits.
The bottom 80% of men are NPCs.
Sub8 males just keep the world running, while women and attractive men can actually enjoy all the pleasures of the world.
Some woman
If any of you guys have a Chad cousin or friend I urge you to look at their dating profiles. It's truly a different world seeing all the options my cousin has. His body count is 30+ for this year alone. He doesn't even swipe, he just pays for the subscription option to see all his likes and picks from there.
The worst thing is these Chad on dating apps all their pictures are home selfie with very bad bios lol. And some bluepill guy and women are saying âYou need to take a good photo broâ âYour bios not good enough to attract women broâ lollllll
@GregLurik Official Getting 30+ bodies in 1 year for just existing is rookie numbers? How how much effort and time did you use by implementing this "game" of yours?
Game = normies negotiating desire from women.
Chad = Genuine burning desire from women.
Your cousin is a 1 in 15 guy my friend, those guys are cleaning up and all the women who aren't getting his commitment are pissed.
Where you live matters too, rural or city. You don't get the same numbers in any rural area.
@GregLurik Official just viewed your channel... One question. How long till you start grifting a dating course in the blackpill community? 100 bodies when you clearly showing Neurotypical behavior?đ€·ââïžand slouching posture with a giraffe neck in a wife beater talking to women on zoom? 100+ bodies Greg? A 100? Bro you please don't tell lies here, true blackpillers see right through you. You wouldn't even know what the female gaze was even if it slapped you in the face.
@@yyysamuel3215 those are just exceptions. Thereâs plenty of âchadsâ with home selfies who arenât getting nothing but bots. Get that out of your head. Go to the real world
Online dating apps is comparable to dumpster diving and the Dumpster is on Fire.
I love how normies cope with "Tinder isn't real life bro" yet if they got any girlfriends from it would they say the same thing??
Iâm not a normie and Iâll say tinder ainât really life. Most of the profiles are fake there to begin with. Itâs already been stated that the makers of tinder , be putting fake profiles to keep the men entertained and keep paying for tinder plus and all that crap. Plus bots and girls just being there for
Validation and wonât give you the time of the day regardless of how good looking you are m. Thatâs why real life is the best
@@theworldisimmense your experience just prove that you are normies at best tbh.
If you are real good looking guy or even chad then your dating apps matches will have tons of high quality real young girls not just fake bot or overweight women. The reason why u only see fake bots in your matches because the real legit attractive girl they never match with you. They only match with the top 10%.
@@theworldisimmense thatâs so true and Iv noticed that once you stop paying for tinder all of a sudden I get like 50 women that swipe on me in 2 days but since Iâm not paying for tinder I canât see who these women are. So the app purposely gives you more matches as a non paid member so that youâll be interested in paying in order to see who swiped at you and of course after I paid I come to find out like 40 out of those 50 women that swiped at me are either fake, ugly, or live 10,000 miles away. So tinder tried its hardest to get you as many swipes as possible when you arent paying to entice you to pay but once youâre paying all of a sudden tinder canât seen to find you a match. I get like 2 matches in a month as a paid member but yet on Hinge as a paid member with the same photos I get like 200 matches in a month so Iâm clearly not the problem itâs just tinder is picking and choosing when to show my profile to other women. I donât get how they can get away with taking peoples money and doing stuff like that. How has no one tried suing Iâll never know
@@yyysamuel3215 not true bro I get a ridiculous amount of matches on hinge as a paid member and Iv had women on that app tell me that my profile even pops up on the âstandoutsâ section of the app. Yet on tinder as a paid member with the same photos I get like 2 matches a month and I live in Miami which is one of the best cities to use dating apps on so my location isnât the problem
@@andrewnaranjo6514 Miami is dogshit for tinder. You have mad competition.
Loosing your pair bond ability because of too many partners is not as bad as not having it in the first place because you got rejected into oblivion. The first one AT LEAST has experience. đ
Nah, perpetually a virgin is better than being mentally, emotionally, and spiritually damaged by being treated as a worthless receptacle. Thatâs harder to deal with. Find purpose elsewhere (because men can find purpose and fulfillment without a family) and cultivate your relationship with God. Nothing else in this world will fill the void we all carry because our true purpose is to find our way back to Him. God bless â€
@@namenotfound6881 cope
@@Neucher why do you say that?
@@namenotfound6881 heavy cope
@@Eltipoquevisteayer
Without God, the whole thing is pointless, even for a Chad. He has 70-80 years in this Earth, and that's it. They are going to ditch him the same hole as everyone else. Oh, but he had a good 20-30 years, when he could fuck wymen. This is it? đ fucking wymen is the only thing in life, which is not coping, the ultime point of life? đ the validation of a God damn vagine and a foid around it?
Oh, your cute! You are so hot! If they say it to you, now you are back on track, everything is just fine, there is nothing else in this life, right?
Come on guys, dont be so pathetic
Another thing is that even if you were in a relationship, as soon as you hit a 'bump in the road,' it's easier to think there's 'plenty of fish in the sea' than to actually work at sustaining a relationship. And for women it is. They just rinse and repeat dumping a guy as soon as the smallest 'red flag' arises and move on to the next guy 'sliding in the DMs.'
yeah one bad move and the attractive howes VANISH, lol
â@donk8105anything..you make a weird face during sex. You are wearing shoes she doesn't like. You had one political opinion she doesn't like. It's a joke
The Bumble ad I received before the video was the perfect intro đ€Ł
The part about the Tinder funnel remided me of all those dates where I waited out front because I got to the restaurant early.
The moment you see this whale or penguin that vaguely resembles the girl who saw in the app, waddling her way down the sidewalk, will haunt me forever. Nowadays, if I see one photo that looks old or filtered then I keep away
8:00 so true as women always base their attractivness level based on the quality of guys they hook up with. They also always have their bluepilled family and friends telling them their beautiful and they deserve chad too and that its the guys fault for leaving her when in reality he was out of her league
As a Normie, the accuracy of this is just wild
This man speaks truth
Judging by your profile picture you're decently handsome, no homo.
The dating market's just ass.
Seriously thinking that WW is a must for EVERY man to watch. I know a Chadlite and they are literally using this app to get laid biweekly and there is me who hasn't been laid from dating apps. Brutal age we live in. I see the way girls message him and it's truly nature at its finest.
I fucked 5 girls in the last two weeks off tinder. But Iâll be honest WW is somewhat right. The first 10 or so off tinder were awesome. Fun stories, made me feel good about myself. Had a girlfriend at one point but it felt boring and I wanted to fuck other girls. Left her, fucked 10+ more girls. It becomes a routine and it not even particularly fun after awhile. It definitely beats not getting laid, but itâs not the end all be all either. As a final note, you also need to have game. I think you need to meet a minimum looks threshold, which is typically slightly above average, and after that it comes down to what you say. Most guys have no game, but itâs true that you wonât be given a chance if youâre actually downright ugly
The way my chadlite friend gets looked at by girls always makes me laugh. Girls are smiling at him before he's even said anything.
@@kidkieran77 yeah they will and it feels good but itâs not a guaranteer of success necessarily
Do you want to get laid? Or do you want a girlfriend?
@@kathi3093 Getting a gf is a waste of time in this day and age. Theres always a bigger fish, even if youre a chadlite there will be better looking guys out there that will cuck you
Man, I can't believe you're just 20 years old- this is the most in-depth, precise and to the point analysis on the matter in the space in just 21 mins! This is really, really impressive :) ...
130 iq
All dating apps should apply an 'attractiveness' value to each profile, and under no circumstances can that person interact with someone that's more than one or maybe 2 digits above or below themselves. This would solve a lot of problems.
The more I watch WW content, the more I don't want to get a girlfriend actually. Strange feeling, but it actually makes me happy for being single, as I don't get to experience any of this toxicity girls express to us normies.
Good. That poon only brings misery and debt.
the fact of life is women are attracted to the "alpha", to the better men, and not to the ordinary ones. like us, we are attracted to Stacies but want to own the Beckies regardless. In the end normies would end up with women they dont like a lot as well. Women are just even more brutal in their indifference towards most men. they are only really attracted to the top 0,3%. But in the end, relationships are usually not sustained on attraction, but affiinity and necessity.
@@williamtaittinger4529 what does it mean need for communication is decreased what does that mean
@@williamtaittinger4529 you're wrong for the man side because we live in a modern society who just starded using again the natural selection like during prehistory the natural selection had been put on stand by for 6000 years thanks to the religions who imposed the monogamous marriage but now in western society the power of religions/marriage as sacred has disappeared... during prehistoric time only 25-30% of men passed on their genes while women where more than 90% . soon like in 20 years at least half if not more of the male population will stay virgin/never get a single GF for their all life and it's not even a joke ....
I understood the same thing (even without all the %COLORNAME-pill content) after my one and only girlfriend broke up with me when I was 25. Since then I just seek separate girls as "friends with benefits" / one-night, and the actual friends that happen to be a girl. I should have been a different person with "take, don't give, don't care" attitude during my highschool and college years. That way I could have the things youth period of life is made for.
Wheat Waffles haters: "He always pampers ncels and speaks poorly of everyone else"
Wheat Waffles 5:28 :Well actually there are some issues women can face due to blckpill fax
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I wish this content had been around 10 years ago. I wasted quite a lot of time with online dating apps and got almost nowhere with it. I had a few first dates and that was it. My self esteem suffered badly. I've still got one account, it says there are messages for me. I've ignored it for a few weeks. Two messages for me are from accounts that have now been removed. The third one will probably ignore me after one message.
Stay away from dating apps and go out in real life. Join activity clubs and go for warm approach.
Warm approach ONLY works if the woman is giving you choosing signals i.e she wants to hook up with you. So yeah play the numbers game I guess. Instead of approaching 500 girls you just join 50 club activities. đ
Stop dating everywhere if you don't like "modern w0men". đ
Nahh it wasn't so bad 10 years ago now its really over saturated 3 guys for every girl
Dating apps turned dating into a McDonalds drive through experience⊠itâs so horrible but it is what it is. The apps were made to help chads get laid easier. Our jestermaxxing never stood a chance. The devs knew it too.
Men must start to be just as selective as women on dating apps to increase our value and stop the negative spiral WW is talking about.
As if they could easily be selective when most of them don't have options to begin with.
How can this happen unless your Chad? If you have no matches or barely have matches to begin with then a beggar canât be a chooser.
You'd have to make a universal change witnin men, which isn't happening
@@siriseriez2570 i'm talking about giving girls less attention by (depending on which app/site you use) doing less liking, less swiping right or sending less messages to fewer girls. This, if all men did it, would lower the demand for girls and therefore increase the value of attention from men and give normie/sub5 men a greater chance.
@@Kamisuitendo you are probably right but in theory this is what needs to be done to make the dating market more equal
Chad who is blackpilled is unstoppable
I was a blackpilled Chad. You should pity us because we have ruined/contributed to the ruin of hundreds of women's lives. No amount of women, none of it is worth is to have a hardened, ruined soul and heart and to be dead inside while still technically "living".
TLDR: its over
Giga over for youngcels in the west
it nevER began
it's so joever
Absolutely ruined the dating market and possibly society at large
Simps have ruined the dating market by constantly getting on their knees for vvomen.
Humanity is screwed
Social media is cancer.
I'm barely halfway through the video and all of this is pure gold. Every young gentleman starting to think about women and dating should be required to watch this video every six months
The way this guy roasts the couple pic is so savage. Can you imagine if they saw this? đ€Ł
Even as a good looking guy the worst part about these dating apps isnât getting matches itâs the fact that you waste half your time talking with a girl to only get ghosted after talking for half a day. A lot of these girls have way too many options so theyâll hop on to the next person.
Casinos would close if every slot machine won for the house every time. The way to win for the casino is to let the customer win now & then, often enough for them to believe they could win more than they lose, but never doing so. If dating apps had zero matches, normals would walk away. But getting 1 or 2 a day keeps them coming back in hopes that with enough effort,they could be a winner. It is the same philosophy as gambling for the app owners.
This analysis was incredibly well thought out and logically derived...this is surely one of your best videos so far!
11:50 is so true, when I decided to break up with this chick in HS that I realized I wasnât attracted to anymore, everyone in my social circle started treating me like an A-hole and it damaged my social reputation. Social shame is a powerful factor in preventing relationships/marriages from falling apart. I know a lot of boomers who refuse to divorce despite quarreling all the time because they would be ostracized from their communities if they did.
i wonder how bad she looked? i never had a chance to date a girl
@@Gothicc_senpai I once had a chance to date a girl, but she was so ugly and deranged so I decided not to.
@xXxChungusxXx nah our personality was also incompatible and her looks werenât enough to make up for it.
@@Gothicc_senpai maybe a 3 or 4 depending on who you ask.
@xXxChungusxXx well that was my first gf so I wasnât exactly experienced in figuring things like that out. Just wanted to get some dating experience is all.
Love being sub3, life is so much easier for me. No stress, a lot of time and money for my passions and hobbies, perfect health, being just myself.
Same bro
That's good too hear, I'm happy that you are happy :)
As a chad lite, the thing I'd like to add is that the quality of the women on ALL those apps is abysmal and I also have to swipe left like 99% of profiles .. Just standing around on a university campus gives you better results in 30 minutes ..
I have said it before I will say it again. Monetizing anything that human beings need to survive or will need at some point in their existence is always a bad idea. When you approach a human issue with a capitalistic viewpoint you will always place profit over people.
Absolutely, it costs about 25k$ to birth a child in a hospital in the US, when the average salary in the US is about 22k$ it's no wonder why ppl don't want kids
I don't think it's that big of an issue with reproducable things. At least not when you compare it to humans (dating). They are finite.
It's not necessarily a capitalistic viewpoint: it's been the same since cavemen times. People will associate with others for their financial gain, and give the impression of being friends/soul mates etc. Do you think cavewomen 'loved' the guys they were paired with?
ââ@@lochnessmunster1189Frankly I don't think women really love men ever, but it's more the surrounding status that speaks to them.
@@shin-ishikiri-no You know, that's a very good point.
My mate who is a normie (Probably somewhere between a 5-6) managed to get a good looking girl on Tinder, she was probably a 6.5-7. But once they actually became a couple he almost immediately gave up on himself, would barely see him at the gym anymore, stopped hanging out with his guy friends etc. Could see it coming a mile off, but after a while she dumped him. Was pretty tragic because he hit the jackpot and blew it
Pretty pathetic when guys start spending far more time with their new GFs vs their long time best friends. Had a friend do the same
@@babyhoho6745 facts man
He thought he finally made it so he could relax now.
Hit jackpot?đ€Łbro yourl need to stop placing these woman on such a high pedestal reallyđ€Ł, if u were to know things they do behind closed doors with these so called chads, you would stop viewing them with such importance
@@sikelelanqodi2569 Just an expression, don't take it so literally
It's like that meme where an attractive guys can do and say anything and still be lust over by women but the ugly guys saying the same will be given a restraining order.
Even if women do like your profile, they never want to message you anyway!
As a Sub5 (South Asian and 5'5'' height) I only got a no show and no actual physical dates. If you are Sub5 just forget it, given that even Normies struggle.
go out into the real world and approach sub 5 women. That's ur only chance imo.
@@addorsubtract650 If I was to speak for all Sub5 men even that is probably not worth it. Nowadays women tend to overestimate their value. You see videos of women who are out of shape rate themselves as 10. Basically the juice is not worth the squeeze. The bottom 10% of women are already getting attention from normies so Sub5s dont have a chance.
Yep Iâm sub 5 and got absolutely nothing from them absolutely nothing and I mean literally nothing. 99% ignored/directly rejected rate. After responses my overall rejection rate is literally 100%. Iâm not exaggerating or capping.
@@brianwaller7383 Online or in the real world? Also, were u approaching sub 5 women? Or were they 5s or higher?
@@kiribertiefandango9807 try hookers then. Or move to south asia.
If you are an adult working 9-5 what is the alternative really?
Warm approach: poisoning the well will ruin the environment. Besides the gamble, one hardly meets desirable women.
Cold approach: only realistically works at nighttime or weekends, city girls wear headphones. Also they are busy ineptly juggling a nonsense job and going out to gossip or get attention.
Dating apps: can swipe while taking a crap.
Yeah, it'd be nice if night time or weekends came more frequently. I've been trapped in an alternate space/time reality for the past 5yrs where it's only nighttime twice a year and weekends only come once a decade. In this dimension: Monday comes right after Friday so you basically never get any time off from work. And the sun never goes down, it's often hard to get any sleep. #Brootal But I'll make it back to my original timeline eventually, wish me luck Boyo
Struggling to get into relationship is very similar to a company that can't get customers. There's only so much you can do until you have to throw in the towel and hopefully start anew. Shame there's not really possible with dating unless you include roping. đ
@FuckOuttaHere nah cold approach as a 7 is also okay.
And as a 6 its possible, not easy but makeable
@FuckOuttaHere cold approach same as online dating, chances are, if youre struggling online, youre struggling in real life.
Women desire chadlite/chad only, anything else theyre settling
researchers consistently fail to address the magnitude of this issue.
People ultimately need love and validation. When a man doesn't matter to a woman, when she doesn't gaze at him with a loving smile, tell him she wants him/needs him, that he matters to her.
A lot of guys have never had that.
This will cause disillusionment/isolation/soul sadness and mental health issues in men. No amount of material things, por* will be able to replace that.
The problem in the west is 2 fold. Incels can't get a woman and the ones that do get one, end up in divorce/breaking up or being cheated on and losing more than the lady. So they swear off relationships and end up lonely all the same. (Mgtow)
Both have the effect of creating lonely, angry, atomised ppl and broken society with plummeting birth rates. And can spell the end of that society.
What are we seeing in the west now?
Falling sperm counts, falling testosterone levels, births, marriage, anomie and a rapidly ageing society, with catastrophic debt levels.
White ppl used to have close family bonds but now they no longer keep ties with family and send old ppl to homes.
Jobs for life are a thing of the past, from where they used to form friends.
White ppl lost their matchmaking culture and used to marry form within their own tried and tested social circle.
With all that now gone, internet dating and cold approaching/PUA random women that u know nothing about is the way. Which can be toxic.
1,000 search results does not yield 300 messages. Most of us are sub-fives so we get.... ZERO messages. That's why I quit online dating. I simply quit trying.
You might be over with the black pill, but the black pill isn't over with you
ever since i took it, i see confirmations of its truths every single day
@@khaganrose cant unsee it
@@beganitdidnt6535 very true
@@khaganrose stay strong
Other than mixing notches and rungs together, this is a great presentation. Very academic. We could argue ghosting is just not calling her back in digital form. Otherwise, impossible to argue any point.
Nicely done.
Aaron Clarey nailed it. Modern women with educations, careers, dogs, and travel vacations put a relationship with a man way down the list of important things to do in life. Modern women just aren't very interested in men. They aren't going back in time to the Beaver Clever days. There's no more trad wife. They want to get railed by hot bad boys at night and then move on with their lives to brunch with the gals in the morning. I know that's frustrating to hear, but WW proves it too. As does Rollo Tomassi. So guys, get your toys from turd flinging monkey or your robots from sandman because this is only going to accelerate.
This was honestly one of the most insightful videos Iâve seen in a VERY long time! Subscribed!! :)
But stacy this content is not for you
You broke it down completely. This is the best and greatest example Iâve ever heard and seen .
Iâm a chad. Black pill is the truth. If I told you how many married and long term relationship women drop me major hints, you would cry.
For real man
6'4 Masterrace GigaChad checkin in. you are right, if I didnt had a heart I'd have destroyed hundreds of relationships.
@@williamtaittinger4529 6ft4 is not gigachad..its a normal height bro
I'm blown away by how many people seem to think cheating is okay.
@@_ald1n_698 lol normal for a polar bear?
Met my girlfriend of 4 years on Badoo (dating app). She wanted me from the jump because after our first date, I ghosted and blocked her after she started acting like she was better than me or that she had more options.
Nice!! Congrats
Man you explain things so clearly, this is why I love this channel.
I just love this accurate scientific breakdown of my behavior.
Back in the 2000s, I didn't call it "ghosting," I called it "going dark."
Bro this is the mcdonalds of blackpil.
ITS OVER BUDDY BOYOS
Even if you haven't maxxed yet, it's worth it to be diligent and continue your growth. Wisdom is planting trees even if you won't sit in their shade: your future self will thank you.
Another banger video man. Every video you put out just gets better and better.
You are doing very, very important work WW
I've honestly never had luck with online dating. The encounters were always weird. Everyone thinks it's the new norm but it's only weird girls on there lol.
same, the ones that end up agreeing to meet up are usually the weirdest ones out there!
One of your best videos by far. Well thought out and your delivery was on point.
Great video my dude. I learned a lot. I love how you analyze data. You have a gift that is super practical and leaves much to consider.
i have finally given up on dating in my early 20s. it hurt at first, but iâve gotten used to the idea of being single. no point in getting sad with an unchangeable reality.
Bro donât say things like this, we be negative for no reason. Find a community and you will find a woman, I guarantee it!
@@isaac1674 Stop feeding him with false hope ffs.
@@herambology you will be unhappy forever unless you try to get better
@@isaac1674 Get better, grind for career, for money but dating? Dude the whole thing is rigged in favour of other gender, even those hippo girls want someone 6 ft and lean with good income.
â@@isaac1674lol So women get to become worse and still win? Fvck that.
as a normie guy, it is much happier to stay single than deal with this bs.
"As a normie guy" nah dude don't say that
One of my favourite videos from you yet.
This guy always delivers. The video quality and sharpness are, as usual, on top.
It's over guys, if it's true they are getting too difficult it's also true most of couldn't be dated. If you remove the overweight, mums, too old, only 5% of girls are "ok", and when they are "ok" they are already dating someone. Most of them can't stay alone more than a week so they don't even go outside or on the app, they just have a guy they know and date him. It's completely broken and over. Even when you watch all profiles on Tinder most of them are ugly.
đđđ most are average
@@bossgd100 In France 80% of women are overweight, check any free webcam in Paris
I've had girlfriends all my life up to the last few years. Yes, they are getting too difficult. It's not us.
@@s3renity608 If a generation of men stuck up together and hold the power from women it would cause a shift in the dating scene
It seems online dating will create hoards of Lonely cat ladies in the future đ§
Wheat you nailed the topic and don't forget the good guys that are not attracted any more to the women who get out of this circle because of the increased body counts.
Bots
You forgot to mention the bots. Lots of NPC fake accounts online created by the owner of the app. Massive manipulation of users by these companies.
I use dating apps as a form of entertainment. Nothing else. I have fun with it. I love hooking up and ghosting afterwards.
It's all smoke and mirrors - rooted in unreality. It hinders real men, who have a dynamic in person, actor-like power, and not just frozen in a picture with text.
As an once Chad, 45 years old guy, I can point one flaw in the part of the narrative that states the detrimental power of gossip theory. Back in the 90' and early 00, we could easily go jerk mode. Grills would not care or believe that she was the one that would change us. By the way, thanks to this very funny channel, I found out that I was Chad (actually still am close to be one). I always thought all the good reactions from woman were pretty normal, the reaction video opened my eyes. Keep the good work.
Now you see, that most men donât get what you had. Especially the inkwells.
@@newtfigton8795 I am not familiar with the Inkwell term (not a native speaker), but I suppose in the channel terminology it means below average. The bellow average I kind of knew it, but I always thought of me as a normie with good communication skills. This channel with all the âundisputed statistical data was an eyes opener. Especially this video that actually is not data driven: "40 Differences in Treatment Between a Sub5, Normie & Chad" kind of felt 35 out of 40. The worst/best part is that until this day at 45 I still can get any girl in the 25-40 category with relatively easy. But it is not all flowers, you are always tempted and never truly happy or fulfilled when settled.
Just avoid dating apps entirely. I had a lot of self-esteem issues coming from dating apps after getting rid of them and getting out in the real world I had much better success. It's true what wheat said. I'm a decent looking guy in really good shape, not crazy short I'm 5'10 and a good career and most women I did get paired with were indeed overweight, single moms and just women after women with emotional baggage, again it's not worth it.
Seems like almost everyone(Americans) falls for the single mom trap lmao wdf, no wonder these broadâs ego are high up in the sky
You look like a Chad. You shouldnât have any problems
As a bi man, i got like, 20 matches with other guys to 1 match with a girl.
br00tal
It's absolutely over.
I considered myself a good looking guy and so do many people. I used to use Tinder back when it was new, around 2013 to 2015 and the amount of matches I got and quality were amazing. Then every year they kept decreasing In value and also all the pay to win aspect ruined all the dating apps. I stoped around 2016 and tried to go back a year ago but itâs a whole different app now
I can relate to that 100%
Exactly right. Itâs like people think there are two groups of women; app users and not
My gf got so mad today when i told her she was a 6, 7 at best. Like am i suposed to lie and say shes a 10?
If you lie, you'll skyrocket her ego to the clouds and she leaves you because she will think she deserves a 10 man.
Best response if you're asked this by your gf, not matter where she falls on the hot-not axis is to smile and say "of course you're a 10, baby," make it a cute almost-joke, and quickly find a way to change the subject
Hope u didnât marry her lolll.
Never tell her she's a 10. I second Uriel. I did this before it just skyrockets their ego and they will begin to believe they're above you. Always maintain an upper hand dynamic even if it's not based on reality.
@@BTCanti-scam Yes he actually did well, even though its backwards but crushing a girl's self esteem and ego makes her chase for your validation more especially in a relationship
It seems religion was the best thing that ever happened to humanity; it kept all such things in control.
Government promoted the antireligious agenda and we agreed and accepted that way, that's why we are suffering this shit.
@@BTCanti-scam correct
Agreed
Yup that's why religion was created. It's obvious religion is fake but it was low-key the greatest invention by man. I genuinely mean it. No invention was more important or useful
I don't understand what it's gonna take for men to get off these apps and for them to go out of business. It is a failed dating strategy for most men. Even if you are not directly paying to use these apps, you are still spending time swiping. Have some self respect, stop giving these apps your most valued commodity, your TIME. Please wake up.
No apps for me, never have used.
I have a dog and a motorcycle, never been happier
Its basically fucking over. I know it. And the algorithm which keeps advising me to try "bumble!" every 45mins knows it too.
If you're a giga-chad on Tinder, I would imagine the many hookups you get can become very addictive to an unhealthy level
This video should be shown in middle-school to all children. Hopefully the next generation has a better quality of life than we did.
No thatâs a bad idea
I think in the future there will only be more singles. Alpha Widows will fuel feminism even further, giving women even more support from the state and media.
Mental illnesses will continue to increase as a result, as will the increase in antidepressant use.
Until at some point genetic optimization comes and then the human desire for reproduction is removed. And increases stress resilience.
@@yggdrasile9684 why
@@Oliver_Klozoff69 the blackpill should never be public. We need bluepilled inc3ls to keep society running.
I think most WW video should be shown in school no joke.
Online dating is so damaging. Personally Iâm glad my husband never downloaded an app and I only used one very briefly. I have seen the amount of baggage those who use them longterm have unfortunately developed. I used an app aged 22 in the mid 2010âs. My experience was that the guys were absolutely insane/desperate when meeting for the first date. I think itâs because of what you described, all the competition they face from other men for dates. So they felt like they had to lock things down immediately on the first date with me. I had proposals for both relationships and marriage and of course for sex. I never saw these men again and rejected them for coming on too strong. I donât think they would have behaved the way they did in an ordinary situation. Also, rejecting people I had met online prompted more aggressive reactions. Way more than random men who approach me in person. The online daters who were rejected took it very badly, most likely due to the competition and scarcity of matches.
Waffles could you do a haircuts video? I remember you showing up a good haircut doesn't change much for most but a bad one could truly affect the attractiveness specially of chads. Was wondering if you had any tips into the matter and how could we choose something to actually looksmax in this aspect
I donât agree with all of the black pill ideas but what you said about men dropping their standards and pushing up the market value of lower tiers is spot on
Chad and Tyrone slumming does a lot of harm.
Please Wheat, partner up with researchers to get this stuff to the mainstream, people need to know these realities, not just us.
Agreed. But even if this content did reach a mainstream audience, it would just fall on deaf ears.
Another great video Wheat!