Newlywed vs Now
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- čas přidán 27. 09. 2021
- Oh the early days... of not farting in front of each other. Also, ladies how ARE we not bald at this point? #marriedlife #comedy #newlyweds
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My husband and have been married for 21 years. I love him more now than ever! Last year I became critically ill and I was in a coma, on a ventilator, and multi organ failure. I was dying. My husband went against my family and did everything possible to save me and I survived. I ended up on dialysis for a year and ultimately heart surgery. My husband took care of me through multiple hospital stays, rehab stays, surgery, and trips to the dialysis center. I recovered enough to get off dialysis but I still may need a kidney transplant. For much of my ordeal, we were separated due to COVID restrictions. My husband did everything possible to keep me motivated to get back home to him! That is what love looks like! I am so blessed to have married such a wonderful person!
So glad you had someone fighting for you. My wife had to do almost everything for me when I broke my back in two places 22 yrs ago. It took 5 surgeries including having an electronic spinal cord bypass implanted, and years of physical therapy, but I learned to walk again and she never complained to me once about all she had to do during those times. The love of a spouse is an amazing thing...
I hope you eventually get the transplant you need 😇
Wow! Glad you are so far on your road to recovery, and that you had such support from your husband. Prayers and good wishes from this internet stranger!
I’m so glad you have each other and that your husband waited for you and nursed you. That is real love. Prayers that you’ll continue to heal and respond to any treatments or medications and that you’ll not need the transplant. God bless y’all. 🙏💕
True love!
Love this! This is awesome :)
47 years married and she is still so precious to me. The more challenges we faced and surmounted together made us closer than when we first married.
I just teared up at that comment. That's beautiful.
Congratulations! My parents have been together for about the same time. As much as they annoy each other, they also callenge and care for each other. They got married in the Army both fresh out of the Vietnam War.
Blessings to your family!
That’s lovely!
But…….
Gotcha! No, this is amazing and I’m glad you found your someone!
My parents were married 35 years before they died. Their marriage absolutely ruined me for dating. They had discussions, rarely argued other than bicker pokes, never said unkind words to each other, listened and changed to make each other comfortable, never made a threat or raised a hand. They were a loving team until they died. Its an example and upbringing I wish more people were blessed with.
Sometimes we are the cruelest to those we are the closest to because we feel like they will still love us at our worst.
That’s fantastic- in September we will be married 50 years. Love all your stuff and can’t decide if the songs or vlogs are our favorites
I laughed way too hard at "how are you not bald at this point?" So accurate! I wonder that myself sometimes!
I am the one who gets put on hair removal duty, and let me tell you....SAME!! Yes, I have long hair, but when did it all fall out & end up in my drain!!???! 🤣😭😂
It’s universal. My husband is all the time asking me…”how do you even have any hair left on your head? Between what gets pulled out of the drain, and pulled out of the vacuum, you really shouldn’t still have that much on your head!” Lol!
Kim, my husband says the exact same thing! I laughed 😅 so hard!!
Robotic Kim & Penn are hilarious, can you imagine talking like that all the time? lol My hubby & I have been together 26yrs, married 20 and it has only gotten better. We laugh a lot, spend time together but not afraid to tell each other stuff that is bothering us, or at least I am not lol He is so easy going, nothing bothers him EVER or if it does he won't say (which I think is more accurate lol). It sometimes annoys me how he can let things go and not stress over it but I am thankful for it because I've gotten better about that too thanks to him.
You two sound lovely ❤️
My husband is the same!
“A family that farts together, stays together.”
- Benjamin Franklin, probably
He wrote a book about farting. I’m not kidding. Look it up.
🤣😂🤣
"Thunderbolts and lightning very very frightening me" - Galileo
but not in a long car ride
Amen to that!
I like that we’re reached the “I will literally suffocate you with this pillow if you don’t shut off your phone” stage. Much easier to get the point across. 😊
🤣🤣🤣right
Never thought of that threat… 🤔 🤣🤣🤣
When the husband and I had been married a couple weeks, he wanted to know why we were going through toilet paper so fast. 😂 Now with 4 kids, 2 of them female, he doesn't ask. He just buys lots of toilet paper.
Too many people give up WAY too early (in those newlywed years) and just throw in the towel and get divorced. This shows how sticking it out can be well worth the time and patience and love put in to a marriage. Well done, Kim and Penn! ❤
It is SO worth it. Like a good wine getting better over time.
Is 41 years too early to "throw in the towel"? Glad for happy endings.
Everyone talks about how wonderful the newlywed time is. It was hands down the HARDEST part of my marriage.
Amen 🙏 What happened to working on your problems instead of throwing them away?
I still don't get short marriages. Most of the failed marriages I know about are because "someone changed." Nope, you didn't talk before you got married. Or the "we had a bad fight" excuse. Cool off and resolve the issues that are causing the fight. Couples fight. It's life. However. You're a team. My dad told me once, "What's more important, your car and the dent or your wife?" I said,"My wife." He the told me to get my a$# in front of my wife and apologize. I did, and it got a lot better. My dad's words made me realize that no matter what happened, my wife was what I truly cared about. We are doing great now that I have realigned my priorities.
The farting thing is so true. When you're dating or newlyweds, you hold it in till it hurts. Now we just fart and giggle about it. Being married to someone you love is amazing. Our first year stunk. You have to figure out everything from money to toilet paper brand. Our first year was a constant learning experience. Now marriage is easy. We are still learning about each other, but we know how to both get what we want without hurting each other. Also, you learn how to make your wife happy, and you do things just to make her smile, which makes life awesome.
Great reminder that love isn't just romantic feelings. Til death do we part! Here's to all the non-newlyweds. LOVE how Penn channels Kim's Hallmark voice.
Almost 27 years and 9 kids later... Our marriage is so much better!💖 With God's grace all things are possible!
9 Kids? That house was/is FULL =)
Divorce is God's grace. Do it before you die, or you will regret staying married.
Congratulations on 27 years and 9 kids. I have 3 kids and an ex- husband. Best 280ibs toxic baggage I have gotten rid of.
Aww amen to that! ❤
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We're 50 and newlyweds. "Pandemic marriage." 💖 Still in the lovey dovey phase. 🥰 But he does toot in front of me and I have my pillow wall already. There are comfort benefits to being in your 2nd/3rd marriage. 🤣
Well, after 45 years together, I have to admit we've learned to ask for what we want, learn disappointment at not getting it and just getting what we want for ourselves if we want it that badly. It's just a serious of compromises. We probably disagree a whole lot more than we did when we were first together. We have grown in different directions. We don't even sleep in the same bed (he snores LOUDLY and fidgets). We are old people in our 70's now and facing the prospects of leaving this earth without ever doing everything we dreamed of doing one day. That being said, we say I love you every day, can't imagine life without each other, best friends that always have each other's back and still hold hands and cuddle when watching tv together. Yep....relationships aren't easy, but nothing in life is. You have to really work at being successful at anything, but it's so worth it. Love you two. I hope I live another 30 years to see you guys get old together!
Same. 40 years in January. Got married 3 months after we met. Had a baby 11 months later. We also sleep in separate rooms because he snores and has restless leg syndrome. But we love each other, farts and all and will be together forever. Zero doubts. It’s a fun ride. And now we are growing old together and dealing with whatever life throws our way. Because it’s better together. We’ve got each other’s backs, thru thick or thin. We made a promise 40 years ago and it still matters. I wish everyone could experience a long term marriage because it’s so special and comforting and it gives you a promise of a future at every age and every stage.
I'm 40 yrs old never married, no kids however, I do like how marriage is being celebrated with its ups and downs in this video. That's a beautiful thing. With that said, I love my space, my personal time---and having my own bed! 🤗🙌🏾
Ditto at all of the above! 😃👌
You and I may have been separated at birth.
Agree
Marriage is awesome and beautiful and God ordained marriage really is a thing to be celebrated and going into marriage, it really is important that you go in with the intention of staying with that person for the rest of your entire life. Just like life isn't perfect, marriage isn't perfect, but the perfection of marriage, is that man and wife gets through the imperfections *together* and work on it and _through_ it together.
I can say that after having kids and having several relationships, and then being married once and being divorced.
Likewise. Some jaded, unhappily married people try to tell us singles that 'marriage is too hard'..., but I know that it is worth it..
It gets better every year we’re together - honestly. Marriage is hard work but so much fun at the same time. We’ve been married 10yrs and can’t wait for the next ten. It definitely gets better the longer you’re together and working at your marriage together.
We just celebrated our 38th anniversary, i almost forgot that we had to cuddle all night. The pillow wall is a real thing. You two are so funny. It truly makes my day when I see a new post from y’all.
My husband and I just sleep in separate rooms. For real a life saver.
@@jessicaroth7439 so do my parents
When we got married, I had undiagnosed thyroid problems and his body heat was my personal space heater at night. Now I am on meds for the thyroid stuff and his body heat makes me sweat at night. My body pillow is definitely used every night as a wall. 😅
We start out snuggled up together and in 20 sec I’m like, nope. And we go to our separate sides. Thank goddess for a king sized bed.
@@dorrancedavisfirooznia1605 Same!!
Oh yes, after 37 years our marriage is much better. For instance - just this morning he went to the pantry and actually found what he was looking for-I mean it can't get better than that. I told him if he keeps finding things I will have more time to sew!!!
I pray to have that happen for me too, a Nelywed....
Hahahaha my poor husband has deemed himself the pre-finder. He has a super power where if he goes to look for a thing first, it means I will find it immediately at a moment's glance when I look for it!
Is this a thing?? Why is this a thing for husbands?? I don't know how many times my husband looks for something and it's literally right there in front of him and he doesn't see it. I've watched him do this trying to find something in the fridge. He told me when his brain doesn't believe it's there, it's literally invisible in his reality. Which may be true...
This must be an unspoken rule that all husbands require their spouse to find things! Mine always asks me where things are...even when he's the one that moved the thing in the first place! And like all of you, when I go searching, I find it right away. What is that all about? 😆
Ha my dad is like that he can find so much but when my mom asks him to find something be is absolutely stumped 😆
Considering your voices I was almost thinking how much this could be a hallmark romantic movie spoof.
Did you guys actually talk like robots back in the beginning?? LOL!
LOL~Seriously, like a super creepy "Newlywed Accent"☆☆:)
This comments section almost has me tearing up from the beautiful wholesome marriages! 😍
It's true lol!!
So sweet reading all the comments of couples who love each other through thick and thin
Almost 40 years. He is my rock. Neither of us is perfect but I'm so glad he's mine.
We will be married 25 years in March and it's definitely much better now. I dress a lot like you do now, Kim, and it's so nice to be so comfortable with my partner and still feel loved and desired by him. Plus he's always there for me. I had a slight medical issue the other night and all I said was, “help,” and he was at my side in 10 seconds flat, which isn't so easy for can 79 year old. I love him more and deeper than I did when we first met.
We started dating when I was 16, got married when I was 24. We never really went through a newly wed phase. I think it wouldve totally been like this if we met when we were older. But instead we grew into adults together. I miss the early days of our marriage, but I think we appreciate eachother more now. Long story short, I developed a progressively disabling disease at 30. So we’re living the in sickness and in health part earlier than most married couples.
Aww, so precious! Praying for you Laura!
Omg my husband and I met at 15/16 and married at 24 too. Lol 😂
That's adorable! You guys probably got all the "newlywed" stuff out of the way in high school, so once you were married, everything was more comfortable. 😊
You got a good one! When I was married and went through health problems, my ex abused and neglected me even more, then divorced me.
@@sunshinedayz7032 Aw, that's so sad :(
25 years married, and cannot imagine life without him! I had severe chronic migraines for years that were so intense I wanted to die. He was there every step of the way, and his patience, love and compassion got me through.
This video is so relatable!
MUCH BETTER! I LOVE how much I know my husband now. He's a place of security and safety and such an integral part of my life. We communicate better, we are more comfortable with each, the struggles we've been through together have sweetened our relationship, and having children together has brought us so much closer. I love my hubs!!
After 28 1/2 years, I wouldn't trade this time for the beginning for anything. We know each other better, but also know ourselves better. Mature love is the best.
Been married 28 years, had some hills, some valleys but we are still making the journey together, I think it gets better, safe, and definitely worth the ride!! We were engaged after 2 weeks, married within 6 months(no I was not pregnant, lol) we never did have children together, people said we were crazy, but those people are now divorced and we aren’t!
After 24 years of marriage I can honestly say that we are better, smarter and not afraid to ask those important questions. When the pandemic happened last year, he was home all the time (still is) and I have a better understanding of what he does. And why he doesn't want to talk when he he use to work in an office. He talks all day long. Ha. We are truly blessed!! ♥️
Literally watched this video with my phone propped up on my pillow wall. Glad I’m not the only one that builds a pillow wall.
The pillow wall is the best invention. Yay for big beds! Amiright?
another good reason for the pillow wall!
Married for 17 years with two daughters, and I can safely say that my wife and I are happier now than we ever have been. There will always be challenging situations, but I am confident we can get through anything.
That being said, I can definitely relate to this video 😂
No matter if you’re gay or straight, this rings true on every level! This month we will be married 14 years, and in December celebrate 16 years together. I am my Wife’s 3 wife, and She says (about me) “3rd times the charm!” We are different in so many ways, but I agree with Kim; I absolutely love us now, from back in 2005. I am much more comfortable with myself, and especially helpful was finally getting the proper diagnoses of CAPD, ADHD, and autism, from a lifetime of being told I was bipolar. Not only do we now know more and more how to help me communicate and share life, but my confidence is through the roof. My Wife, (who is 11 years older than me) is still my Bestie, my partner in crime, and still my favorite person to be a goofy kid with. Life is beautiful. Even the dark moments. Staying grateful, it makes getting to a lovely spot so worth the hard work, sweat and tears! We love you guys. Thanks for being so real, and it makes us feel happy to know other couples are just as silly and enjoy life! (Penn, you are a little over a year older than me, but man, if I ever thought I had a missing older brother, Dude, you’d be it! You both are sooper dooper! Namaste
I almost spit out my coffee, laughing at the part with Penn holding the clump of hair from shower. My husband and I just went through this last night and he said pretty much the exact same thing that Penn said. We were laughing last night about it but even more after seeing this, my husband even laughed 🤣
I am personally amazed every day that my wife isn’t bald 😂😂😂
I laughed so hard I started coughing
I have long hair and my husband goes from loving my long hair one day to complaining about it in the shower the next
@@troywiltshire5272 my husband says that too about me and my daughter 🤣
@@judybarrowman7788 lol same here
I lost it at “talon toenails” 😂😂😂
Hubs and I have been married for about 19 years now. We got married young and while we KNEW we were meant to be together, I feel like we (maybe just me) were terrified. We both went into marriage knowing there would be ups and downs and determined to get through them all. Thankfully, we've done it and continue doing it 🥰I loved our early years but he gets better every year and it's because he isn't trying to be the husband he thinks I want. He is the husband he knows Jesus wants him to be. 🙏
My husband and have separate rooms. It saved our marriage and we get along better than ever.
That's not a marriage dear.. that's co- living or being roommates.. The purpose of marriage is when man and woman become ONE ..Hope God blesses your marriage
@@etyopiawit Obviously you don't know me so your opinion is irrelevant.
@Sheryl S. Do you know the Holderness family personally? I guess not, so that means according to your own statement, your comment is irrelevant as well. Why are you being rude? Im not attacking you. Let's be kind. Life is too short for hostility.
@@etyopiawit lol what? I'm not being rude. I just don't want your opinion.
The married parts... 😂🤣 that is so my marriage. The hair everywhere from him and me the pillow wall that's so me. It's a good thing we have enough of the silly newlywed stuff still going on to keep us still in love otherwise we'd probably drive each other to drink. Also, thanks to years of being together and being each other's best friend we are comfortable enough to do all the things that others find discussing but still love each other and we are able to be honest and yes ask for what we want and know that our partner knows that it's what we really mean instead of assuming that the other can read our minds. It's so much better when you grow together and understand one another. I highly recommend that.
Been with my hubby almost 12 years and you hit the nail on the head with newly wed gas, snuggling, and cleaning up after another. 😆 Those were fun times! He still thinks I'm beautiful too. 🥰 Best part of being married a long time is finally training them to do everything THE RIGHT WAY 👍. Blanket stealing in bed has been dealt with by each person getting their own blanket aside from the community comforter to avoid midnight chills. Great video, very relatable! You guys are great and seem to have a wonderful marriage. Congrats on making it this far.
I love your videos - and this one was so accurate! We're right at 2.5 years into marriage and have a 17 month old baby. Life really got rolling a lot quicker than we expected but we wouldn't change it. However, I have recently been really missing the care-free newlywed days when all we wanted was to be together and make each other happy. Being married has shown me how selfish and immature I can be and the work you have to do on yourself as a person (with God's help) is no joke. I really want to work on seeing the positives in our relationship again instead of dwelling on the negatives.
Thank you for this. It was so incredibly encouraging to read through comment after comment of other people sharing how much better their marriages have become after years of hard work!
having a baby sure knocked the selfish out of me. I'm now a grandmother to two and I LOVE it!!! marriage is definitely hard work but it's so worth it
I love Kim’s hoity toity voice whenever she does a character like this!
This is too funny and also accurate. My husband and I moved past the "newlywed" stage long before we even got married. We met at 18, he moved in 3 months later, we bought a house at 20 when I was pregnant and then married at 22.
“You are a culinary genius” is my favorite line to watch. Kim, you are the best!
My husband and I are in our 40s married 16 years and 3 girls. Our marriage is definitely better now than when we were newlyweds. Lots of humor and better communication have kept us going and made us stronger.
34 years married and he's still my best friend! Happier now than the first few years!!!
51 yrs Aug.1, 2021. Love my guy so much. But as we matured, so did our marriage. Got even closer after the kids were out of the house. He still makes me laugh. Advice?…Appreciate what’s in front of you, it goes by too quickly.
Yeah, 19 years later, and we def aren't the same people. We are better in almost every way, except older and less fit. You guys are so right, tell your partner what you need!! ❤️💕
21 years and counting and truly think he is amazing!!! He never gives up on me no matter how hard I am to deal with!
43 years of marriage and I'm still learning things from my lovely wife.
Almost completed year 7. W007! Haha! IT's gotten better every year. I love him more now, so much more. Communication has gotten a lot better. We're better at conflict resolution. We just...know each other better. And we are doing more to care about each other and do for the other person instead of just thinking about ourselves and being disappointed when we don't get what we want. I guess we are less self-centered now and more "us" centered. Getting better and better!
Engaged at 19 (and no I wasn't pregnant lol) 30 years together and 25 years married. I honestly can say that I wouldn't change a thing. There is no one I would go through life with other than my hubby. It's a shame that the younger generations have no interest in marriage because if you find that right someone, there really is no greater gift. Going through life's ups and downs knowing that person is on your side no matter what.
Finding the right one is the challenge.
@@ImNotaRussianBot Agreed.
Dying here! 😂 Whiskers in the sink is a reality!
And yes - 30 year marriage strong!
Me, newlywed: "Whatever you want, sweetie. We'll do what you want to do."
Me now: "I do what I want. This is what I want to do. Lead, support, or get out of the way."
Us, newlywed: "Let's cuddle!"
Us, now: "I'm so tired, I can't even roll over to kiss you goodnight." So he says, "flop your hand over" and I do and he kisses it. Perfect.
My Mum used to say that she and Dad were like a comfortable old pair of slippers together. My husband and I are getting that way too. It's nice. =)
Married for 9 years. my husband and I are in the lead support or get out of my way too. Its great
My husband and I have been married for over 35 years, and we were just discussing this the other day! I loved him when I married him, but I had no idea how deep love could be. What we have now is soo different than that first married love but so much more. And I think better.
This made me laugh so much! I love the bed scene! In my house, I’m like, “Don’t touch me while I’m trying to sleep!” Sometimes my husband will try to gain back that long lost time of snuggling by holding my hand in bed, and I’m like, NOOOOPPPEE!
So glad I'm not married to you.
So much better because it's over! Ugh - how people can live together and love each other, I'll never understand. Well done on all of you that have made it and continue to make it. I just don't think I'm cut out for that life.
My husband and I have only been married for a year and a half, so we’re still in the newlywed stage, but we’ve been together for almost 7 years now. I can definitely say we’re closer and love each other even more now than when we were lovesick little puppies first dating.
Also, y’all’s book has helped us SO much as we navigate these first couple years of marriage!
Agree! The calling scene, we used to do that when we're dating, and now 13 years together and 11 years married I almost spit my coffe when I saw what I do now, LOL! Glad that I'm not the only one! Actually is great to see in a funny way situations that are real!
8 years in. Totally relate. Our newlywed phase didn’t last too long because we celebrated our 1st anniversary with a 6 week old, though, and I had a tough pregnancy. But I prefer it now. There is a lot of freedom in our marriage to be ourselves and closeness because of that freedom.
I literally love the robotic voices!
We’re married almost 25 years/together for 30 and people considered us an old married couple when we were just going together. The only differences ive noticed over the years are the body function noises (burps/farts/noisy nose blows) which i was never privy to during courtship days and we are less possessive of time spent together than before (at least ive gotten used to the workaholic in him and spend my time with my own interests when hes busy).
It will be 16 years next Friday, and it’s been amazing for every one of those! I can’t say that now is better than the newlywed faze, both have their own attractions, but we have grown so much as people, and a couple, and I wouldn’t trade him for anything!!
Got married at 20 and have been married 7.5 years. We exited the newlywed stage pretty quick when life threw us a curve ball of a house fire after 5 months of being married. Going through something so major like that caused us to really grow in our relationship and cut straight to the tough stuff.
Hey, my pants fit better! I swear I've said this to my wife under similar circumstances 😂
This felt like the (imagined) Hallmark movie "Hallmark: Happily Ever AFTER". 😁
We need more "after" movies!
The sarcasm towards your newlywed selves.. Love it.
This is great. Lol. Been married 22 years and I agree. I, too, prefer now to the newlywed years. & I agree with the end, as well. The husband is much more attractive now in his 40's than he was in his 20's. Who knew!? 🤣🤷♀️
Nearly 22 years for us too... 100% agree, my wife is way hotter now!! :-)
We are pretty much still newly married after getting married in the pandemic. You have been with us thru our whole marriage. AND through this pandemic..... THANK YOU!!!!!
Not married, but after ten years of relationship, it's SO much better now. Actually it just keeps getting better. 😃😄💞
I especially like the Hallmark movie voices from the "newlywed years." :)
I don’t have a pillow wall, but we have a sleep number bed and his number is 35 and mine is like 50, so on normal nites, my side of the mattress is almost an inch and a half taller than his side. We may not cuddle all nite, but we are much nicer to each other during the day when no one’s back hurts! 🤍💛
We got married after dating mostly long distance for 9 months when we were 23 and 26. We've been married for almost 28 years and a mature love that has weathered some storms and come out stronger is way better.
After 26.5 years married this is so accurate! My husband found wireless headphones for the TV so he can sleep with background noise and I can have blissful silence. Life is grand once again. Hahahaha. Marriage is never perfect but it can be great if you choose for it to be.
We are married 11 years this month and our marriage has gotten so much better from about year 5 to now it's been so much fun and the best is yet to come!
You know what is hilarious about this video is that it's so true! My husband said the exact same thing to me about my hair in the shower drain than penn said about Kim's hair. Also I said the same thing to him about his shaving remnants in the sink. We will be married 40 years this August and it keeps getting better. I like this stage. Love your videos
Sweat angel🤣🤣🤣🤣 just when I think you guys can't get any funnier, you channel your inner Bold and the Beautiful and take it to the next level
LOL, guess those years of watching soap operas finally paid off
Ruptured spleen from laughing so hard!!
11 years of marriage this year. We've been through a lot but I definitely have noticed our love has grown and strengthened ❤
At some point in our dating relationship, I let a fart slip. My then-boyfriend breathed a sigh of relief at the fact that we can now fart around each other. We've been together for 9 years now, married for 8. This video is too funny.
Married 26yrs, and yes it only gets better! It takes love, working together, commitment and communication.
You guys are so fun! Thx for all the fun content 😀
I’ve been married for 29 years and I’m in my 40’s too . I love how honest we have become throughout the years but I definitely miss newlywed time.
OMG. The pillow wall! Relatable, lol!
This was hilarious! My husband and I have only been married for four months, and we do almost everything from the "Now" stage already!
38 years married here. Our marriage has gotten healthier as we've matured. Finally, we're starting to get it. Heh. Thank you for your humor.
We used to fall asleep holding hands.
Then it evolved into just having our bums touching-“sleeping cheek-to-cheek.”
Then, for about a decade, we occasionally had kids sleeping between us.
Now, 30+ years on, our neurotic dog sleeps between us.
Someday, we hope to return to sleeping cheek-to-cheek.
I met my husband back in high school so we have definitely grown as people/a couple over all that time. We got one preteen and just enjoying life's adventures as we go. And to spice things up I've gone back to college after being out for 10 years haha
We have gone through it all together and are stronger now. The key for us is to always put the work in. Our marriage is our most important job. Plus I still like him 😀
My husband and I have been together for 18 years, married for 16 years. We were married young(ish) so over the years we've matured and doing so together has been an interesting experience! I have to say that I've learned to appreciate him more and my love for him has deepened from our early, newlywed time. Definitely better now that in was! Great video guys 😁 so on the nail for how we all seem to act then and now! 😂
It's been 26 yrs since we were Newlyweds and I agree our marriage is so much better now because we've worked through all those early issues and now we know what makes our better half happiest. It's been a long journey, but it's been worth it.
My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we are still learning. We grew up quite differently . And learning to deal with that can be so hard to do. But we just grow as best we can. We are committed to each other and we arent going to give up. I think we have both learned a lot about each other and how to like communicate things even if it makes the other person upset . We sit with those feelings.
My husband still calls me Babe, after 40 years of marriage. I especially loved the fart scene! I think it just shows how comfortable we've become with each other!
28 years together and these were spot on especially my wife’s pillow wall and complains about phone brightness
22 years married. Sooooooo much happier now! Understanding, communication, maturity!! And those rough patches have truly made us grow together!!!!
"How are you not bald?!" SOOO HILARIOUS!
I almost spit out my food when Kim said " I shall keep some for sprinkles of our love"😂☠️
Just had our 1 year anniversary. Can't wait until my wife reaches the pillow wall stage. I keep saying we need a king size bed. She says it won't stop her migrating over to my side. I told her I would climb out, walk around and get back in on her side. She can continue migrating until she falls off the bed.
Celebrating 10 yesrs this year and have mixed feelings about whether it is better than newlyweds. Now we have kids and no free time alone without children. So we love our kids but cherish our alone time. Your parenting videos are so accurate
Definitely better and we’ve been married 35 years. Praying for at least that many more. ❤️❤️
This is precious. And accurate.
If you would have written your book 20 years ago ... I would not be in the marital crisis I am in right now 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.... mature people ask for what they want - stay in the airport!!!! ... ive read every marital book out there and by far yours is absolutely 💯 no hesitation the BEST book out there about communication, love, respect, listening, engaging, unity, etc.
"That's my pillow!"...OMG. I totally do that!
"My pants fit better!"
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My partner and I have been together for almost 8 years (as of next month) and although we aren’t married yet (high school sweethearts waiting until we get through our education), I totally relate to this.