When Things Don't Go as Planned | Learning to Control My Emotions
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- čas přidán 29. 05. 2022
- I'm a very sensitive and emotional person and I find it hard to handle, when things don't go as planned or unexpected difficulties arise. I'm currently still learning how to control my emotions better in these situations.Find out in this video what happened, how I dealt with it and what tips I can give you out of my personal experience, if you are having a hard time with this as well! I hope this can help you a little bit! 🥰
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Haha I was laughing right from the beginning. Not at you... At myself. Everything you described, I can relate to in very specific ways. Watching you, I felt like I was seeing myself. Also, the nature footage is beautiful! Thank you for being you, and sharing your journey. I cannot wait to see all that's yet to come. 💚
Thank you, I'm glad it's relatable what I talk about. Getting comments like yours makes me realise that I'm not alone with how I feel and see things, it's nice to know there are other people like me out there! 🤗
@@freedom.in.silence yes, you are absolutely not alone in what you think and feel. Thank you for making these videos to remind me the same, and for taking the time to respond. Peace and good vibes to you 💚
Lovely video , i experience this a lot and its very hard to get past. Infact right now I'm trying my best not to be angry and very upset. My two close friends that live away from me , they were supposed to visit me in 2 days and iv been so excited but now it seems my family are all sick and i think they will not be better by 2 days and i think i am now catching it. Im devistated i was so looking forward to it. And ontop of all that my little son is sick and it is his birthday party in a few days also witch he and all of us were so excited for and now it may have to be postponed , our friends who were visit , there children wont be able to come. Its all such a shame. Trying to accept the reality and calmly move on, thankyou for your relaxing video !
Thank you for reminding me to let go of my expectations and worries…
I'm glad I could help, thanks for your comment 🤗
@1:21 - Fly, fly away little Starling.
Oh, you're so right about understanding that things doesn't go as planned. That's almost always the case, it feels like. And please, don't feel pressured to upload more frequently! We appreciate the videos you do post, and quality is always better than quantity! But of course I'm excited to see all the drone footage you'll get! Wish you the best weekend! 🥰
Thank you for the kind words 🤗 I know I should not pressure myself about uploading more. But part of it is also just excitement, because I have so many ideas and things I want to share, and I get impatient, haha! I also feel like spring and summer have a big influence on productivity. So I do believe I will upload more than before, but I will try to not pressure myself too much 😊
Unfortunately I still don't have my drone, but soon hopefully. And then I still need to practice it first 😅 I hope it's not too hard so I can use it for my videos soon.
@@freedom.in.silence I feel the same, spring and summer gives me soooo much energy so my productivity for thing I like, videos as an example, goes up! ☺️ Can’t wait to see it all once you have it and have had time to practice! 🥰 Just be very careful around trees! 😂
@@DanielErik Haha yes, trees are the biggest enemy I bet 😂 Especially with so much forest around. But the view from above over a forest is so magical, I can't wait... it's always so beautiful when I see it in other peoples videos. The drone shots in your newest video are amazing! 😍
This was really good! I liked the shots in nature, but I absolutely loved your narrative about how you handle your emotions and unexpected things happening to you. I just watched an update from The Daily Stoic (Ryan Holiday) about nine stoic rules for a better live based on writings by roman emperor Marcus Aurelius. Your way of handling things resonated very well with the contents of Ryans video. But, as your presentation was entirely drawn from self-experience, it was so much better! There was no heavy quotes and references back to a long gone emperor to make it more believable and trustworthy. It was just you, talking about how you handle things. Beautiful!
And don’t get me wrong, I love the writings and philosophy of Marcus Aurelius and have read his Meditations several times. I also like and follow Ryan Holiday, he is an accomplished author, experienced youtuber and a proper stoic philosopher in his own rights, but hearing you talk about this was more like hearing it from the source, from emperor Marcus Aurelius rather than from Ryan.
Keep it up, or do something else. You do you.
Wow, thank you so much for this long and thoughtful comment!🤗 I'm so glad you liked it! I'm still not the best with handling my emotions, but it is getting better. I will definitely check out Ryan Holiday, sounds interesting, thanks ☺
I couldn't agree more about the narrative! A very good one indeed! So keep up with your good work! 🥰
@@DanielErik Thank you❤
U captivated me by ur video... very beautiful and has brightened my day
Thank you, I'm happy to hear that! 🤗
Trust the universe everything always happen for the best
Thank you.🦋
Cool nature shots!
Thank you, I'm glad you liked it ☺
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences and encouragement!!!!!! This is a great encouragement!!!! Keep on sharing !
Thank you, I'm glad you felt that my video was incouraging! 🤗
Your videos bring peace & hope in my mind.... Thank you for sharing your life moments..... I see myself in you.....
Thanks for the beautiful comment, I'm glad I could help 🤗
Fühl ich sehr was du beschreibst. Was ich auch für mich festgestellt hab, ist,das manchmal das was ich fühle eigentlich aus der Vergangenheit stammt und nur durch irgendwas getriggert wurde und eigentlich gar nicht aufs Jetzt bezogen ist. Das hilft manchmal auch es loszulassen, wenn man sich darüber bewusst wird.😊
Ja total, das kenne ich auch! Ich habe auch vieles aus der Vergangenheit, was immer mal wieder hoch kommt. Manche Dinge brauchen sehr lange, bis man sie verarbeitet hat...Oder man trägt sie sogar ein Leben lang mit sich herum, wenns schlecht läuft.
Hi beautiful soul! New sub here, I found you from My Fairy Path and LOVE your lovely content 🥰 Happy to follow you along in your journeys ahead, sending much love 💕✨
Aw thank you, I'm glad you found me and like my content! Welcome! 🤗❤
Watch the emotion as it arise and subside.. Be the witness. After awhile u will see it will subside faster and faster.
Because u are not your emotions, u are not your thoughts and you are not this body. You are the seer that presence thats unchanging within
Thank you for the wise words and beautiful comment 😊
Great job! I loved it!... All you have said happened to me too and so difficult and painfumll for me..thanks for make fell that I' m not the only one....be under pressure and try to fulfill my day with thing was almost mandatory for me to fell usefull andproactive...how wrong I was..that way of thinking that i learned...herts me so much...sorry for my english I am from.Uruguay!..I loved your videos continue please...be calm and enjoy.
Thank you for your lovely comment Carolina! Yes, it's good to know there are others out there who think and feel the same way, which I also get to see from comments like yours, that I'm not alone with this ☺ And don't worry about your english, I understand you just fine. Take care and I hope you can find your way ❤
Wieder ein sehr warmes Video mit wunderschönen Bildern. Achtsam mit eigenen Gefühlen umzugehen...eine Herausforderung wie ein Schlüssel gleichermaßen. Gleichzeitig Ziel UND Weg.
Das stimmt. Vielen Dank, freut mich, dass dir auch dieses Video gefallen hat 😊
Really really good🥰
Thank you! ☺
I am waiting for your new and different videos🤩
So pise full l love this nature
Thank you 🤗
We just found your channel and love it! ❤️🙏 We have a new channel as well and been talking same kind of things about our journey towards inner peace and get more connected with the nature etc.
Thank you, I'm glad you like it! 🤗 Did you have to go through difficult times as well before you could start to walk this new path?
@@freedom.in.silence Oh yes! 😅 There's been cancer, burnouts and some other things in our life that forced us to check our values and everything. We have this SUSTAINABLE FUN -spring season - playlist on our channel, if you wanna checkout more about our journey ✌️❤️
@@wholesomeseason Damn, that sounds like a really hard and challenging time, I hope you are doing better now! Sure, I will check out your channel ☺
@@freedom.in.silence Yea, well, it's been a long journey and there's been better times and more challenging. Right now we're very thankful, that we're healthy (knocking wood always 😅) and also mentally in a much clearer place... Obviously growing as a human never ends we feel and and the journey deeper inside is just beginning...
Wunderbar und sehr berührend.
Vielen lieben Dank 🤗
😘💝
I dont understand your problem. To make a Video with drone or without drone is not a problem!
That was not the point of the video :) it was only an example when something didn't go as planned for me and it got me disappointed and emotional. I needed a drone for a part of a specific video project, because I had a creative vision for it :). It's totally fine if you don't understand. However, having a drone or not was not my "problem", my problem is controlling my emotions in certain situations, which I am working on.👍
@@freedom.in.silence So it is the point you have a problem not to have a drone!
@@sinaidat7804 I think you are misunderstood. For some people emotions can be very intense over simple things. Probably aware that the reason for being upset is in reality quite simple and probably not worth crying over... But for people that have very high emotions for whatever reason, it feels in the moment like a deviation. Of course in reality it is not , but the point of the video is learning to be better at processing these things so you don't respond as if it is a devastating situation