Why Do Men Move MAD? Talking to MEN about Building Healthy Marriages, Character & Friendships

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  • čas přidán 23. 07. 2024
  • The time has come for us to sit down with some brothers and discuss dating, marriage, character development and ultimately explore the gender wars! In today's episode we sit down with two friends and great men in our lives; Claud & Kenny, to discuss how can men and women come to a place of understanding and friendship to build community and healthy platonic and romantic relationships.
    💌 Introducing our guests
    Claud Williams is an award-winning entrepreneur, board member, executive coach, and the Director of Innovation at Impact on Urban Health. He is the founder of the personal development tech start-up Dream Nation, which has impacted the lives of thousands of young adults across the UK while working with a number of great organisations such as Google, Barclays, and Cambridge University. Claud sits on the board of several organisations including two NHS Trusts. He has governance responsibility for more than 5,300 members of staff, 158,000 customers and service users, £435m in revenue, and £1.3bn in assets. He also is a regulator for marketing and promotion of the £25.5bn UK alcohol industry.
    LinkedIn: / claudw
    Instagram: / claud_williams_
    CZcams: / @behindthedreamspodcastdn
    Kenny Imafidon is an entrepreneur, author, and social commentator. He is the co-founder & Managing Director of ClearView Research, an agency that specialises in research, strategy, and engagement projects focused on diverse and underrepresented communities. In 2022 he was featured in Forbes' annual 30 under 30 list for Social Impact.
    LinkedIn: / kennyimafidon
    Instagram: / kenny.imafidon
    Book: amzn.to/4dZHFgz
    Supported by Content is Queen
    Timestamps:
    00:00 Welcome to a conversation with the brothers
    05:02 Brotherhood and character building
    06:10 The power of healthy male voices in our lives as women
    15:51 The role of women in shaping them are men
    20:45 The Gender Wars: Why do men move mad?
    30:21 Have we been 'preparing' wrong?!
    35:01 When men have done you wrong...
    44:06 What is something you wish women understood about men?
    51:48 Are we picking the right people to learn from?
    57:09 To My Sisters... From the Brothers
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Komentáře • 60

  • @temitope_ilori
    @temitope_ilori Před měsícem +31

    Can we take a minute to appreciate how lovely this set looks ❤❤❤

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @laureenagyemang5424
    @laureenagyemang5424 Před měsícem +49

    TMS delivering on their word! and jeez the calibre of these guests!

  • @Jojo-tf2zp
    @Jojo-tf2zp Před měsícem +15

    37:11 I truly appreciate his awareness in saying there is no one size fits all answer.
    So many people will say anything to sound smart but the smartest people know when to say they don't have all the answers. Very refreshing.

  • @PerspectiveJa
    @PerspectiveJa Před měsícem +41

    Listen.. I know the audio was a little jacked up here and there but even if this episode had no audio I'd have read the lip movements if that's what it took 😭
    I'm glad we finally get to see a glimpse of the highly esteemed male friendships you guys speak on from time to time!! Loved the EP 💕

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +8

      Thank you for your grace! We are trying and testing out new things and equipment, so we appreciate you sticking around and still getting value from the episode ❤

  • @jenayrandall9358
    @jenayrandall9358 Před 28 dny +2

    I don’t care what negative feedback y’all got about having men on the show. These few episodes alone have helped me feel more positive about my career, relationship prospects and overall quality of life. Quality conversations that are constructive and empathetic where people listen more than they talk are always going to be beneficial even if it’s men in a women’s space. Keep these coming!!!!!!

  • @misrhue
    @misrhue Před měsícem +14

    One of my favourite episodes so far. We NEEDED to hear the male perspective on this platform sisters. Thank you for being bold enough to take this step. It’s really only UP from here atp😊

  • @ellea2541
    @ellea2541 Před měsícem +17

    51:47 Courtney said "That's another episode" - please can you do an episode about money within relationships/marriage. Honestly, I 100% understand that it should be 'our money' once married- it is the healthiest way. HOWEVER, as someone on track to be a millionaire in 10 years time, potentially veering off that track for a relationship that has a 50% chance of failing is TOUGH.

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +5

      Great suggestion! We definitely think it's an area that needs a WHOLE episode to discuss. It's not easy and tbh not every set up suggested will work for everyone. Hopefully we'll be able to bring on some more voices and couples to chime in ❤

  • @Sunrise_and_45
    @Sunrise_and_45 Před 28 dny +1

    What these men are saying is boldly the truth and I'm reflecting on my selections and really appreciating this conversation and these ladies work for bringing them on❤

  • @filmsbyaaj
    @filmsbyaaj Před měsícem +33

    ayoooo 😂 happy to see men explaining their wild behaviour

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +5

      Because the girls NEEDED answers 😭

  • @belindack
    @belindack Před měsícem +5

    Jeez!! We wanna have the brothers join in from time to time😊😇. This was impactful yet entertaining

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +1

      We’ll let them know 😃 thank you! ❤️

  • @charmainen7824
    @charmainen7824 Před měsícem +11

    What a fantastic episode, such a nuanced conversation. I really appreciate the topic of receiving difficult advice for self reflection and growth. It can be exhausting having to navigate so much of life with a work-mindset, even in relationships, but it truly does pay off.

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem

      So happy it was a useful conversation ❤

  • @Jay-gs8el
    @Jay-gs8el Před měsícem +1

    Queens, what a fantastic job facilitating this conversation. Their openness and honesty created a safe space for these important topics.

  • @amandarosee1591
    @amandarosee1591 Před měsícem +13

    Excitedddd for this episode ! Trust TMS to be quick w the male guests !!

  • @sibulelomatsimela4209
    @sibulelomatsimela4209 Před měsícem +7

    You promised then delivered! Love that for us sisters ❤

  • @ponihakim4526
    @ponihakim4526 Před měsícem +6

    Such a great episode!!! I loved every second of it. It’s so refreshing to see a nuanced, honest conversation especially one that involves the voices of men and women. I can’t wait to see your next guests.

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +1

      We were trying! Glad the intention came across well - looking forward to sharing our next batch of guests 💕

  • @Cryonic7740
    @Cryonic7740 Před měsícem

    What an insightful episode, thank you so much ladies for bringing the gentlemen on.

  • @amahlemakhaye3315
    @amahlemakhaye3315 Před měsícem +2

    Watching your growth is one of the most fulfilling things ever, as a fellow sister I am so so proud of you Courtney and Renee ❤

  • @hinatalieclaire
    @hinatalieclaire Před měsícem

    Such an amazing episode. A lot of appreciation for the conversation you had here and for sharing the good men in your lives with us.

  • @chinonsoangel7154
    @chinonsoangel7154 Před měsícem +5

    Happy to be here😊

  • @chineloigboayaka
    @chineloigboayaka Před měsícem +1

    Absolutely loving these episodes with men! I’ve been watching it with my husband and we little pause after every few minutes to have dynamic conversations which speak life into our relationship!!
    So amazing ladies!❤️

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem

      We LOVE this omg and shout out to hubby for being down to be a part of it ❤️

  • @lizzielovesbeautyx
    @lizzielovesbeautyx Před měsícem

    What a great episode. It will be great to have them on again to delve further into how women can be potentially preparing wrongly. Examples of what ways we can better prepare ourselves from the male perspectives. I do appreciate that theory is different from practical but it will be great to get a different perspective.

  • @jacqueline8566
    @jacqueline8566 Před měsícem

    Thank you to these brothers. We salute you

  • @user-er5uk7so8o
    @user-er5uk7so8o Před měsícem +5

    Woop Woop the swat team broke down the doors and let the truth in with these two brothers

  • @aidooedna
    @aidooedna Před měsícem +2

    Ouuuuuuu, I love this so much!❤🎉 Congratulations sisters on the new direction

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you! We appreciate you so much ❤

  • @titilolaedu8266
    @titilolaedu8266 Před měsícem +1

    Doing wonderful work guys! Thank you so much for these conversations. I also want to share my reservations about the title… when I share with my male friends, the title puts them off and they just immediately think the content is “man hating “. Could we please consider these when generating titles. Thank you Sisters.

  • @missagyemang9407
    @missagyemang9407 Před měsícem +2

    Great conversation love the nuance and depth to my sisters podcast gives

  • @amandarosee1591
    @amandarosee1591 Před měsícem +10

    Men of stature !!! 🎉

  • @senitearficho2029
    @senitearficho2029 Před měsícem

    Brilliant episode

  • @memoryanesu5237
    @memoryanesu5237 Před měsícem

    Claud is so serious about life

  • @Raissa_Artista
    @Raissa_Artista Před měsícem +4

    Great job! Excellent video. No criticism, just wanted to let you know the audio quality wasn’t that great, it was split between both sides of the headphones….idk if that makes sense 😅 it made the listening experience a bit hard

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +3

      Hey sis! A couple sisters have shared the same, so thanks for spotting and letting us know! We’re trying some new equipment and iterating as we go, so appreciate you still sticking through and supporting 💕

    • @Raissa_Artista
      @Raissa_Artista Před měsícem

      @@tomysisters awesome!!!! Can’t wait to see what you come up with next 😊

  • @kemariahedwards9833
    @kemariahedwards9833 Před měsícem

    I love this

  • @jenniferavila2703
    @jenniferavila2703 Před měsícem

    I honestly did not think there were men who thought like this. It makes me hopefully. I loved everything about this. The community is growing! PT2???? 🙂‍↕️

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +1

      Glad we delivered sis 😇 they are actually out there! Watch out for the episode coming tonight 🥰🥰🥰

  • @lesedisegudla1896
    @lesedisegudla1896 Před měsícem +1

    I would love to see a collaboration with Danielle Bayard Jackson. She’s an awesome female friendship coach

  • @herthamaryandreas445
    @herthamaryandreas445 Před měsícem +1

    Coming from your podcast ❤

  • @111rowanpearl
    @111rowanpearl Před měsícem +1

    the 'MEN' in this title is so real

  • @suechecks
    @suechecks Před měsícem +6

    2017 is a long time ago??????😭

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem +2

      😂 Crazy to think it was 7 YEARS ago!!!!

  • @oyinfujah8364
    @oyinfujah8364 Před měsícem +2

  • @Rareisbeautiful
    @Rareisbeautiful Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @ntamieborty
    @ntamieborty Před měsícem

    The base scared me... The men dem are here!!! Welcome

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem

      😂😂😂 haha we got the brothers in the house!

  • @MelisandeEfomiMellyoe
    @MelisandeEfomiMellyoe Před měsícem

    I have the feeling tha Claude is the Male version of Courtney. Probably because He is her mentor, but that is crazzy

  • @bejaymulenga540
    @bejaymulenga540 Před měsícem +8

    Loved this episode ladies 🫱🏾‍🫲🏿 the brothers were in the house.

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před měsícem

      Big up the brothers!! Thanking you ❤