Full Episode: Harris vs. Swaby

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • Tenaja moved in with Taquan after one month of dating. Tenaja is pregnant with their first child together but says Taquan’s ex is interfering in their relationship by trading money for attention. Will Taquan end this indecent proposal situation or say farewell to his future baby momma?
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  • @kardiair2
    @kardiair2 Před 6 lety +744

    The fact he called her simple minded. That hurt me. No ma'am.

    • @K_Allday
      @K_Allday Před 6 lety +31

      kardiair2 Right. Straight up disrespectful.

    • @October3074
      @October3074 Před 6 lety +38

      kardiair2 but he wasn't lying, that manbitch has consistently shown her who he is and she stayed with him AND got pregnant by him.

    • @akstylez_ak5037
      @akstylez_ak5037 Před 6 lety +41

      kardiair2
      Yes, that was haaaaaaaaaard body. Never in the history of me watching Divorce Court have I heard a man, any man refer to the women he “love” as simple minded. That alone told her what he thinks about her

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +22

      Akstylez _ak No, the sad part is she KNOWS she's simple minded and she didn't refute it when she had the chance to. She just nodded her head.

    • @Shycrochetqueen
      @Shycrochetqueen Před 6 lety +16

      She is because any time she still with and 6 months pregnant by him so she can't be that bright

  • @KDanielsDesigns
    @KDanielsDesigns Před 5 lety +168

    So she just watched him break someone else’s heart and takes the girl’s money and she still decided to be with him? Wow

  • @dramaqueen10141
    @dramaqueen10141 Před 6 lety +772

    If your “mommy” did everything for you maybe you should stay with your mommy 😂😂😂

    • @lesliemartin2901
      @lesliemartin2901 Před 6 lety +26

      Kamilah Ahmed... or marry his mommy! Real talk...

    • @dramaqueen10141
      @dramaqueen10141 Před 6 lety +10

      Leslie Martin true 😂

    • @iamnae6472
      @iamnae6472 Před 6 lety +6

      Exactly!!!!

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 Před 6 lety +5

      Exactly

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  • @shawndrawoods160
    @shawndrawoods160 Před 6 lety +613

    Sorry, two minutes in I was done. What kind of woman are you that you sit there and listen to a man break another woman’s heart? Should of let him get it together and then deal with him. She got what was coming to her.

    • @lilmommy1402
      @lilmommy1402 Před 6 lety +21

      shawndra Woods word

    • @shacoyasamuel8114
      @shacoyasamuel8114 Před 6 lety +82

      Lmaooo this is my daughters father who have been running from child support court for months now ‍♀️‍♀️ Yes she did stay with him smhh not surprised being that she stayed with him after finding out about my daughter mid relationship & still continue to stay as they live together & she sees first hand he does nothing for his kids ........ thank god ii left him when my daughter was 10 months Been happy with my guy ever since who’s a great father to my child ♥️

    • @shawndrawoods160
      @shawndrawoods160 Před 6 lety +31

      shaCoya Samuelcc ... good for you. As you can see, she did you a favor. Be blessed.

    • @October3074
      @October3074 Před 6 lety +28

      shaCoya Samuelcc I'm not surprised. Any bum bitch of a man that takes money from women with the claims of "but I got kids that's y I took the money", clearly doesn't pay child support.

    • @Adwoa1
      @Adwoa1 Před 6 lety +44

      Right! As a woman, have you no pity for your fellow woman? Also if from the start, he treated another woman so callously, how did she think he was going to treat her?? 😩

  • @brittanyreid5180
    @brittanyreid5180 Před 6 lety +595

    He is not poppin the way he think he is

  • @VintageAfro91
    @VintageAfro91 Před 6 lety +655

    Wow! Now I see why the people at his job couldn't stand him.

    • @iluvdant
      @iluvdant Před 6 lety +16

      VintageAfro91 she should’ve too. Smh

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +4

      Yeah there is no way everybody hates you. If everybody dislikes you.......
      There are few people at my job that I wish would die ......I would secretively rejoice..

    • @VintageAfro91
      @VintageAfro91 Před 6 lety +12

      I know right. That should've been a clue.

    • @JaNequaDesiree
      @JaNequaDesiree Před 6 lety +16

      Cocky affff! For no reason.

    • @sunnyhoney7665
      @sunnyhoney7665 Před 6 lety +1

      VintageAfro91 Exactly!

  • @stylefan32
    @stylefan32 Před 6 lety +515

    The problem is from youth we're raising our daughters to be strong and independent. But unintentionally raising our sons to be entitled, lazy and dependent on women taking care of them. When as a society did we become okay with that?

    • @joshua38410
      @joshua38410 Před 6 lety +5

      Shatonda Taylor entitled? Honey, women are more entitled than anything. So when a man actually has the “nerve” to feel he deserves something, it’s wrong. Foh

    • @samoea19
      @samoea19 Před 6 lety +48

      joshua38410 you clearly didn't watch the video.

    • @joshua38410
      @joshua38410 Před 6 lety +3

      brwnbutterfly and you clearly haven’t passed the 6th grade....🙄

    • @samoea19
      @samoea19 Před 6 lety +32

      joshua38410 because I pointed out the obvious fact that you didn't watch the video. 😂. Somebody is upset. Btw...a bachelor's degree is far pass the sixth grade😂✌

    • @joshua38410
      @joshua38410 Před 6 lety

      brwnbutterfly oh wow, a bachelors...and you probably make less than 100,000 still😂😂🙄 we big boys over here, go play with your toys...

  • @saucy05
    @saucy05 Před 6 lety +305

    Judge Lynn is the ultimate wife material. Smart, confident, beautiful, and just full of wisdom.

  • @nonilovechild5524
    @nonilovechild5524 Před 6 lety +198

    "Young hearts. Run free. You'll get the baby but you won't have your man. While he's out busy loving every woman that he can. Young hearts. Don't be no fool when love really don't love you."

  • @cb990
    @cb990 Před 6 lety +461

    it's 2018... why are women still chasing men with multiple kids who have no ambition and no money?? wtf... the pickings are NOT that damn slim.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +10

      LaDonna C - Apparently they are...

    • @wellthatsinteresting1
      @wellthatsinteresting1 Před 6 lety +11

      Like one previous poster put it, ain't shit dudes=black womens kryptonite smh

    • @abrown1021
      @abrown1021 Před 6 lety +16

      And he was using his ex to get money for his children on top of all that.

    • @dashawnathomas6402
      @dashawnathomas6402 Před 6 lety +5

      LaDonna C she cause having his baby with his nasty ass

    • @joshua38410
      @joshua38410 Před 6 lety +6

      LaDonna C why are men still chasing women with multiple kids? Cause actually, that’s more statistically realistic.

  • @bribri0786
    @bribri0786 Před 6 lety +156

    I will never understand how people can come on this show seeking marriage advice after they've already conceived a child with the very same person. If you're not sure you'd marry someone why have a child with them? Birth control really isn't that hard....

    • @thornabloodheart2598
      @thornabloodheart2598 Před 6 lety +4

      Britt Brat birth control isn't 100% she could have been on it and still gotten pregnant. Don't be condescending just because you don't like someone's choices. Poor choice or not, it's her choice and we all make choices sometimes.

    • @fortunate1forever670
      @fortunate1forever670 Před 3 lety

      Amen!

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 Před 3 lety +8

      @@thornabloodheart2598 Birth control isn't 100% so why take the risk of not truly getting to know the person before getting pregnant? The previous comment made an incredibly valid point.

    • @jjdesigns5558
      @jjdesigns5558 Před 3 lety +2

      You never had sex without condoms someone you thought you would be with the rest of your life? People make mistakes is up to you as a person to learn from them

    • @WriterOfMany
      @WriterOfMany Před rokem +2

      @jjdesigns5558 my reply to that is NO. We're not having a baby until we're ready and married. Mistakes happen, I get that, but far too many people need to more responsible and need to cool their jets and remember playtime has consequences.

  • @ericajohnson209
    @ericajohnson209 Před 6 lety +256

    I wish they would just say "Woman" instead of "Female." Drives me nuts! Lady, woman, girl, etc., sound so much more appropriate then "Female."

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +13

      Erica Johnson Personal issues lady...let people talk the way they want. Who are you to correct grown folks?

    • @Hollablackgirl93
      @Hollablackgirl93 Před 6 lety +46

      Erica Johnson I always cringe when someone says 'female'.

    • @SpamNeggs23
      @SpamNeggs23 Před 6 lety +29

      It the way uneducated people speak. It’s shows he has now value for women as people but refers to them as property.

    • @DeviancyBehavir
      @DeviancyBehavir Před 6 lety +13

      Actually it shows how he places value on people in general. It shows that he doesn't really see people as people, just tools to use or get what he wants. If he were to call them women, instead of females, he'd have to think about them more on a personal basis. That's why it's relevant. But, hey, since you think you know everything, you're just a female. Deuces!

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +2

      Deviancy Behavir- I agree 99%. It's not what you're being called, it's what and how you respond to it.

  • @kiaglam9879
    @kiaglam9879 Před 6 lety +181

    She knew how he was when he called that woman and broke up with her . he is trifling! !!!! To bad she is already pregnant. Sooooooo sad

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +10

      karma will- The only thing sad is he has 2 daughters and a son on the way... And the kids have these idiots for parents...

    • @dashawnathomas6402
      @dashawnathomas6402 Před 6 lety +3

      karma will right he just don't know how to stay commitment to one female he's nasty as hell

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 Před 6 lety

      @@bryanbeeman5256 exactly

    • @padlamini8850
      @padlamini8850 Před 5 lety

      I feel sorry fr her too dt she realize late wat kind of busted he is. 😩

  • @dzireveal3074
    @dzireveal3074 Před 6 lety +341

    She should have left before she got pregnant

    • @dashawnathomas6402
      @dashawnathomas6402 Před 6 lety +11

      d'zire veal exactly I don't know why she went with his nasty ass

    • @YT4Me57
      @YT4Me57 Před 6 lety +17

      d'zire veal That conversation she overheard between him and the previous woman should have been the first red flag. How you get them, is how you keep him.

    • @Les_lee
      @Les_lee Před 6 lety +7

      no being pregnant will be excuse she will use or staying and putting up with years of ridiculousness.

    • @Getthejobasap
      @Getthejobasap Před 5 lety +6

      ...she can still leave

    • @panic9899
      @panic9899 Před 5 lety +1

      She can always abort ?

  • @colleenthecatlady2344
    @colleenthecatlady2344 Před 6 lety +383

    Never seen her tear up Marriage certificate before!!!! Go Judge Lynn!!!

    • @FutureSoapStar09
      @FutureSoapStar09 Před 6 lety +40

      She has.

    • @akstylez_ak5037
      @akstylez_ak5037 Před 6 lety +24

      Colleen Hardesty
      I have. Plenty of times.

    • @Alexz_Archivz
      @Alexz_Archivz Před 6 lety +16

      Newbie. LOL!

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry Před 3 lety +2

      @@Alexz_Archivz 😆

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 Před 3 lety +2

      I've seen her do that b4; and she's usually mad while she's doing it !
      I hope that girl got it, tho'.

  • @asouthernwriter
    @asouthernwriter Před 6 lety +221

    He was arrogant and stuck up at work, so you decided to date him anyway? She had all the signs are still refused to leave him. Both need to get their priorities in order. I feel sorry that she got pregnant by him. People move from relationship to relationship too fast, and wonder why they don't work. Just messy! This guy is an a-hole!

    • @vanhoot2234
      @vanhoot2234 Před 6 lety +5

      lol there is a reason why everyone didn't like him at the job

    • @Bubbleyumizchewi17
      @Bubbleyumizchewi17 Před 6 lety +1

      Love makes people do odd things....

    • @October3074
      @October3074 Před 6 lety +1

      Joyce J / ASouthernWriter I feel sorry for the baby, not her dumb ass.

    • @pasorie8490
      @pasorie8490 Před 6 lety +2

      Joyce J / ASouthernWriter he’s an a-hole. She saw the red flag from the beginning.

    • @quichequiche3177
      @quichequiche3177 Před 6 lety +1

      Joyce J / ASouthernWriter She should have gotten a clue with that phone call he made. if he can embarass her like that...she eas foolish. it happens to the best of us, BUT DAMN!!!!

  • @AshaL2377L
    @AshaL2377L Před 6 lety +253

    Dignity should be on the teaching syllabus in school systems.

    • @meskyb9052
      @meskyb9052 Před 6 lety +9

      Hayat237lul and the Definition of MAN

    • @meskyb9052
      @meskyb9052 Před 6 lety +8

      Realjayrome Dignity = self worth , the boy was prostitution getting paid for sex and he doesn't think that is wrong

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +7

      Realjayrome- That's right, and they're simple minded. She KNEW EXACTLY what she was getting into. She with her "Oh, he's leaving her to be with me; I know I'm a bad chic" self. You get what you pay for and buddy she's paying big time.

    • @sigerg82nwtbs71
      @sigerg82nwtbs71 Před 6 lety

      She's not going no where.smdh

    • @eyejusskant
      @eyejusskant Před 6 lety +5

      I had to share these words on my social media!!! This is truth if I have never witnessed truth before.....

  • @savannaguffy3751
    @savannaguffy3751 Před 6 lety +136

    She is gorgeous she can move on and find better

    • @johannajoseph7945
      @johannajoseph7945 Před 4 lety +7

      That's why my mom always told me you can't be pretty then be pretty dumb

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  • @kiathadiva7
    @kiathadiva7 Před 6 lety +525

    L maooo did this dude say he's irresistible????......what is he smokin????

  • @melpho3635
    @melpho3635 Před 6 lety +418

    This was sickening to watch.

    • @p.r.9982
      @p.r.9982 Před 6 lety +6

      This is exactly how I felt!!!

    • @quichequiche3177
      @quichequiche3177 Před 6 lety +8

      Mel Pho Judge Lynn made me emotional. She was so angry and out done!!!

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 Před 6 lety +9

      Beyond sickening

    • @latonyaking1551
      @latonyaking1551 Před 5 lety +6

      Hurtful 2 watch

    • @KnottyCeltic
      @KnottyCeltic Před 4 lety +2

      I had the same visceral reaction by the end. I felt sick for her. And I felt sick looking and listening to him. He's not human. He's like a psychopath and being a judge, Judge Toller recognized that and warned her off him.

  • @mitchellmoss3066
    @mitchellmoss3066 Před 6 lety +168

    I think judge Toler should do a meet and greet

  • @sasha-kayfuller5821
    @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +300

    The lady's reaction behind her thou when she heard they dated for 14 months and she's 6 months pregnant.

  • @nessblaze
    @nessblaze Před 6 lety +67

    Damn the judges advice at the end had me on my feet! Love this lady

    • @sharoneh8929
      @sharoneh8929 Před 3 lety +1

      Burn up the marriage certificate...So right Judge Lynn

  • @monawilliams286
    @monawilliams286 Před 6 lety +135

    I knew she wasn’t going anywhere by the unfazed look on her face when the Judge was reading what he said. She probably was skinnin and grinnin like she won some type of prize when he called ole girl on speaker phone and broke up with her 🤦🏾‍♀️
    This is the same arrogant, narcissistic fool you met at the workplace (when people show you who they are, believe them). I’ve been d***** down properly but ain’t none that good. Children are a definite Blessing but I’m sick of Sistas just having babies by any old body smdh

    • @sophismith5855
      @sophismith5855 Před 6 lety +2

      mona williams good point!

    • @diamonddiamond2024
      @diamonddiamond2024 Před 5 lety +2

      U said it all.

    • @miareneeslivingroomtalk9683
      @miareneeslivingroomtalk9683 Před 4 lety +1

      ‼️‼️‼️

    • @JumpTossCatch
      @JumpTossCatch Před měsícem +2

      It really is magical thinking at its finest. She saw and experienced who he was off rip....via her co-workers and in their shared employment. But for SOME reason...she thought, "Not with me, he won't!"

  • @kiathadiva7
    @kiathadiva7 Před 6 lety +120

    Girl RUN !!! FAR FAR FAR AWAY!!!!

    • @Tboogiewitdabun
      @Tboogiewitdabun Před 6 lety +6

      kiathadiva7 nah she chose him! she chose to have a baby with him so she knew what she was getting into...

    • @kiathadiva7
      @kiathadiva7 Před 6 lety +1

      Tiara Divirgilio I agree but NOW she know he's a dog and she needs to take her son and do better!!! And make sure he as good male role models in his life so he wont end up like this poor excuse of a man...

    • @dashawnathomas6402
      @dashawnathomas6402 Před 6 lety +1

      kiathadiva7 exactly she doesn't need no thot

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +1

      All she gonna do is find another man just like him, get pregnant AGAIN and want to marry him as well.

    • @Nobodyhome630
      @Nobodyhome630 Před 5 lety

      kiathadiva7
      She can’t run too far .... she’s pregnant now 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @asho345
    @asho345 Před 6 lety +59

    Who told these boys that being a man means being as cold, manipulative, and emotionless as possible? Where are they learning this from?

    • @naediggs4816
      @naediggs4816 Před 6 lety +8

      Ash O This has been the culture for a while, sis. Sad as it is to say, what's being and has been promoted for some time now is raising men to be and act like sociopaths. That's why they can do this shit with no remorse

    • @anthonymckenzie5182
      @anthonymckenzie5182 Před 2 lety +1

      Tactics we learned from you "girls"

  • @sasha-kayfuller5821
    @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +464

    Living together but not together. What kind of foolishness is that. Kmt

    • @HeresMyBit
      @HeresMyBit Před 6 lety +31

      OK thats what I said!! Pure fuckery

    • @sasha-kayfuller5821
      @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +5

      HeresMyBit dwl precisely

    • @BibleTellTale
      @BibleTellTale Před 6 lety +17

      Sasha-kay fuller
      after reading that they still togther, I came to see the comments.
      Imma ask the same question. What kind of nonsense is that??

    • @ednaaugusta8417
      @ednaaugusta8417 Před 6 lety

      Sasha-kay fuller te

    • @DeviancyBehavir
      @DeviancyBehavir Před 6 lety +33

      She's trying to save face, she's played herself in a major way and don't know how to get out of the situation. Probably playing the I have so much invested in him game.

  • @kiathadiva7
    @kiathadiva7 Před 6 lety +144

    Did this dude say HE HAS FEELINGS too???... but he has cheated LOL.....BOY BYE!!!!!

    • @dinoman4451
      @dinoman4451 Před 6 lety +3

      $200 Smackaroos to talk? where might i find 1 of these humans? lol

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 Před 6 lety +2

      The nerve of this fool. And he loves oral sex.

  • @misskingstonjamcutie
    @misskingstonjamcutie Před 6 lety +77

    She's very pretty. I hope things work out well for her, she seems like a good person. He's no good!

    • @dianeddy5890
      @dianeddy5890 Před 6 lety +2

      she was actually my manager. she's really cool.

    • @fionawoods3434
      @fionawoods3434 Před 6 lety +1

      She is is pretty jus dont get y she got this clown making her a fool😧😧😧

  • @Nautyivu
    @Nautyivu Před 6 lety +85

    Mr irresistible.. all the money u get you couldn't fix ya teeth? 👀😭😭 oh okay

  • @mimijules2646
    @mimijules2646 Před 6 lety +60

    He trying to be co-parents more than anything..being a faithful husband ain't part of his plan.

  • @IrieSanny
    @IrieSanny Před 4 lety +17

    Judge is the person I needed when I was younger. I just love her.

  • @meanguyy2
    @meanguyy2 Před 6 lety +55

    Women stop giving dudes like this your time and attention they're men who only want one women but you won't find him dealing with lames like this dude

  • @nnamdiphilip3011
    @nnamdiphilip3011 Před 6 lety +48

    I still don't understand why a lot of women keep on settling for less when they can get the best

    • @Marc98338
      @Marc98338 Před 5 lety

      Because she is with him lol. That already says enough. Its not about what you can get. This woman clearly has the picking abilities of a 4 year old. So thats what she deserves...

  • @All_Things_Shay
    @All_Things_Shay Před 6 lety +28

    There were RED flags in the very beginning, why would you even want to get with someone that ends a relationship with you sitting right there listening to her crying. Like girl you do know you aren't exempt to the BS if he could do that to her, he'll do you just the same.

    • @lovinmycurvescurls3842
      @lovinmycurvescurls3842 Před 3 lety +1

      Some women think they are the exception to the rule, like they different, but soon find out that they are not......I mean sis, u sat there while he broke a woman's whole heart so he can mess with u.....u were the new piece of ass he was talking bout, and no amount of d--- sucking is gonna make her new or make him not cheat

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 Před 3 lety +2

      I guess she took that as proof how seriously he really wanted to be with her. Poor thing.

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +23

    Judge Lynn- "Now you know who he is and what are you gonna do about it?"
    Her look... crickets.....speechless 😶
    That's why I'm asking the Lord the bless me to be here to continue to raise my son and daughter and teach them to use their intuition, intellect, and knowledge to make better decisions to not end up like this or in this type of situation....

    • @elena-lc4uk
      @elena-lc4uk Před 5 lety

      She is going get another low dude and he will get another women

  • @Just_us-2
    @Just_us-2 Před 6 lety +93

    The saddest part of this sad situation is that I believe that she already knows that he's who he says he is but she's willing to stay anyway.
    The guy is arrogant self centered and sorry.. She should have taken heed to the way that he broke things off with the other female (over his mobile phone while on speaker).
    And btw I'll bet that he hasn't changed his number and will still go by this other females house for money because he's an opportunistic LOSER.

    • @sharoneh8929
      @sharoneh8929 Před 3 lety +1

      So sad. The drama and the trauma. I wonder if there are deal breakers...Love ain't support suppose to hurt✔💯 He is too messy and low-down!!! Red flags all over this relationship🚩🚩🚩. He is so entitled💯✔
      Run girl 👟👟👟

  • @seangriffin6527
    @seangriffin6527 Před 6 lety +50

    I'm done. This grown ass man said do the nasty lol..

  • @Tasticks526
    @Tasticks526 Před 6 lety +75

    Taquan wasn’t lying when he said Tenaja is simple minded. She is! His responses on the compatibility test should repulse her enough to move out and stand on her own, but they’re still “living together but not together.” Yeah, okay. 🙄 No need to prolong the inevitable. He’s not going to be faithful and he knew just what to tell Tenaja in those short months in order to get her to this point. Some men use impregnating women as a form of control so they can always have access to their lives. Not to mention, Tenaja sounded like she thought it was cute that he called women up in front of her. Girl, that was a con! A man who’s about his business doesn’t need an audience. Had her feeling all special until she realized she’s just going to be baby mama #3.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Před 6 lety +3

      the live in nyc rent crazy expensive and they dont have high paying jobs ..a decent one bedroom 1500

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 Před 3 lety

      @Tasticks526 : I do think that she is simple minded.
      Do you think she understood what that meant, tho' ?
      Her lack of reaction, when Judge Toler revealed his statement to her, stunned me‼️

    • @jo-annbastings
      @jo-annbastings Před rokem

      @@mlm1916 that’s why it gave a vibe of that broad being simple minded.

  • @shayeillo6074
    @shayeillo6074 Před 6 lety +67

    I knew she was going to stay. He's disgusting.

  • @brishaberries0101
    @brishaberries0101 Před 5 lety +20

    The ex boosted his ego, and it boosted the gf ego to see him choose her over the ex. It's sad to see a man take advantage of a woman you know loves you and you don't love her.

  • @sr3549
    @sr3549 Před 6 lety +31

    His teeth look like when you wake up at 8 and got work at 8:15 and miss a button on your shirt. Oh well

    • @inspirationalt2143
      @inspirationalt2143 Před 6 lety +2

      Shalom Robertson 😂😂😂😂😂rel life tears...hella funny👊👊👊

    • @October3074
      @October3074 Před 6 lety +2

      Shalom Robertson they look like a pair of dice.

  • @addicted2love57
    @addicted2love57 Před 6 lety +45

    Wow 😲 all that money he took from that other girl and he never used any of it to get his teeth fixed? Go figure. Oh well I guess he’ll just continue using that front tooth as a beer opener

  • @ThePrettySweet79
    @ThePrettySweet79 Před 6 lety +38

    Simple minded...sounds like he was right about her. Living together but not together...Okay! Like Judge Lynn said, she not leaving him.

  • @jaeraee3437
    @jaeraee3437 Před 6 lety +118

    He is a mean guy and immature ..

    • @keishawilliams7546
      @keishawilliams7546 Před 6 lety +13

      Taylor John let's not forget ugly

    • @meskyb9052
      @meskyb9052 Před 6 lety +2

      Taylor John I am not sure if he's mean but his upbringing was so wrong I know a few black men who believe the woman should cook clean , do everything and he doesn't have to bring much but his Penis , it's his mother's fault she put up with a boy like him and he taught that is normal

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +2

      He's 24 and yes he's selfish, but I'm not putting that all on the mother. She may have enabled him, but he grown. These simple women keep falling for him so that's what they get. Quit trying to hold other people accountable for a single person's actions. He's showing you how he is, show him how you're not interested in that foolishness brother not being with him... Is that too much to ask for???? Apparently it is, because you can look at the show and see so many of these types of guys just leaving women and making babies.

    • @drknow1997
      @drknow1997 Před 6 lety +3

      He is 25 years old. What do you expect? Most guys that age are mean and ugly.

    • @Nobodyhome630
      @Nobodyhome630 Před 5 lety

      Taylor John
      Extremely Immature.....

  • @JARRAE_DIEZ
    @JARRAE_DIEZ Před 6 lety +4

    This is the type of dude women go after then get mad 😡 when he leave for the next lol 😂 and never gave a chance to the guy who treated them like a queen 👸🏽. 💯💯💯💯

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +42

    Let me say this: Stop defending this woman. She knew what she was getting into. All of these women did. They are just as irresponsible as he is. I don't feel sorry for no one except for all these kids having to be raised by these irresponsible and unaccountable people.

    • @inspirationalt2143
      @inspirationalt2143 Před 6 lety +2

      Bryan Beeman 100 could not have said it better myself👌👌👏👏👏

  • @Shechatsalot
    @Shechatsalot Před 6 lety +45

    She is pretty.

  • @ladyd6335
    @ladyd6335 Před 4 lety +31

    I love how Judge Toler let him known how worthless he is.

  • @tripleekitchen...6676
    @tripleekitchen...6676 Před 6 lety +108

    He's a narcissistic..

  • @tumama030
    @tumama030 Před 6 lety +15

    If you don't listen to nobody u betta listen to Judge Lynn Toler!

  • @mdniteeagl1647
    @mdniteeagl1647 Před 6 lety +23

    Co-parenting roommates? Are you kidding me? Tenaja, punt him to the curb! What exactly is the point - to *watch* him date all these other women and treat them like he treated you? What kind of example is that for your son?

    • @kimberlyk912
      @kimberlyk912 Před 6 lety +1

      MdniteEagl So she can pay the bills!!

    • @mdniteeagl1647
      @mdniteeagl1647 Před 6 lety +2

      I'd look for other housing arrangements if that's the case. I'm sure Tenaja can get more reliable assistance from family and/or friends.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +1

      MdniteEagl maybe not...

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +1

      Quit fooling yourselves, this is the best she can do for right now... She has no self worth. If she did, she would have been left... Judge Lynn knows what she's talking about. This girl ain't going nowhere no time soon.

  • @pdonwarrior453
    @pdonwarrior453 Před 6 lety +15

    When relationship start out as immoral, they never end well. Remember he broke another girl's heart to be with her. She has allowed him to mess with other women, take their money and she still sticks around.
    The judge knows that she is going to stay. She is pregnant with her first child, why would she want to raise her child by herself.

  • @mariemells3510
    @mariemells3510 Před 6 lety +35

    Man bye! Take care of your child ,and leave that fool before he brings you back something !

  • @Sydonnewarren
    @Sydonnewarren Před 6 lety +26

    One of the worst types of guys to get yourself involved with. Get out of there girl!

  • @kre.7339
    @kre.7339 Před 6 lety +17

    Red flags are all over this mess!! She should run fast as she can, but they're still living together. Sad. Judge Toler's real talk didn't do any good. When she finally learns the heartbreaking lesson, she's gonna be bitter and broken.

  • @jazminegraves19
    @jazminegraves19 Před 6 lety +19

    Where is her mother

  • @iluvdant
    @iluvdant Před 6 lety +59

    These comments are about to be liiit! This is a complete “smh” case!

  • @coribuchanan6947
    @coribuchanan6947 Před 6 lety +41

    This dude is a shell of a man...so so sad. He has such a twisted view of what a man is. This girl...no better. It just makes me sad...especially for the kids.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +1

      Cori Buchanan - Kids from broken homes seek out others like where they came from... It's what they know. If you notice mental retarded people fall in love (their version of love) with other mentally retarded individuals. Do they have a lot of problems?? Yes, but they identify with each other. You don't see one mentally retarded person with a person that's not mentally retarded.
      Same thing with simple minded, damaged people. Just stay away from me...

    • @dashawnathomas6402
      @dashawnathomas6402 Před 6 lety

      Cori Buchanan ikr she dont need him period

    • @coribuchanan6947
      @coribuchanan6947 Před 6 lety

      Dashawna Thomas period

  • @ashleya.7481
    @ashleya.7481 Před 6 lety +56

    She's not going no where smh ladies know your worth

    • @erinjohnson4273
      @erinjohnson4273 Před 3 lety +1

      Amen too that! I know my worth after being out of a relationship going on two years. I'm waiting for my real King to find me. I refuse to settle out of lonliness! Been there and done that

    • @nildabridgeman8104
      @nildabridgeman8104 Před 3 lety

      Absolutely

  • @monicaclasener
    @monicaclasener Před 4 lety +8

    He's only interested in his needs and wants and cruel in getting them fulfilled. There's something seriously wrong with him.

  • @CherylJ7501
    @CherylJ7501 Před 4 lety +3

    Dude you are a legend in your own mind. Young lady go your own way

  • @TheSaintb23
    @TheSaintb23 Před 6 lety +22

    All I've seen is the intro and he's clearly out of the relationship! Where's her mother and family because he doesn't want her.

  • @tummieflowers2681
    @tummieflowers2681 Před 2 lety +3

    Swaby is NOT ready for marriage. When he said that every dog has it's day, I was speechless. He constantly cheats and lives off of women. Taking money from his ex makes him less than a man.

  • @jemdollhentai
    @jemdollhentai Před 6 lety +51

    I knew she was gonna stay

  • @bakihanma6770
    @bakihanma6770 Před 3 lety +3

    14 months is not long enough to decide to have a baby plus he already has 2 other kids, why do this to yourself? My people are so dysfunctional. So now another child born into a broken family.

  • @jamesgibson3716
    @jamesgibson3716 Před 6 lety +25

    First thing. She favors Crissette Michelle.

  • @sasha-kayfuller5821
    @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +286

    I like guys like him who tells you straight up how it is, so if the lady stays its her choice and she can't complain about anything that happens.
    Judge right he gonna do all that shit but she as to know what she wants. Hope she leaves for good and do good for her and the baby.

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Před 6 lety +9

      I hate to say it, but you're right. How do you get knocked up AFTER 6 months???? This is messed up on so many levels...

    • @sasha-kayfuller5821
      @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety

      James Gibson true, but I have a pretty good idea how smh its such a shame thou

    • @sasha-kayfuller5821
      @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +6

      Carl Smith yes he his but he made it be known that he is so whose fault is it that she got hurt?
      If I didn't answer it means I didn't get it.

    • @baitprojects9759
      @baitprojects9759 Před 6 lety +5

      People get pregnant on one night stands too you know. Condoms and other birth controls are not %100.

    • @akstylez_ak5037
      @akstylez_ak5037 Před 6 lety +2

      Sasha-kay fuller
      Yes I can also appreciate that as well. It is up to her to be along for the ride.

  • @gorgeoustgirl
    @gorgeoustgirl Před 6 lety +4

    Never see Judge Lynn like this before. She was on fire! So passionate about the lady's happiness. Hope the lady moves out and moves on.

  • @briannerucker1071
    @briannerucker1071 Před 2 lety +2

    that last line took me out. If we dont stay together, we'd be the best co parents ever LOL

  • @ninanano
    @ninanano Před 6 lety +12

    He thinks too highly of himself

  • @donaldneil2020
    @donaldneil2020 Před 6 lety +17

    Which part of the 5 boroughs they at so I can avoid them

  • @okaygworl
    @okaygworl Před 6 lety +18

    Hopefully he sees this but he's VERY resistible lmao

  • @deonjelicavuitton1891
    @deonjelicavuitton1891 Před 5 lety +11

    Oohh he's a narcissist narcissist 😂😂

  • @anquentinwilliams2764
    @anquentinwilliams2764 Před 5 lety +5

    This was very hard to watch. It's sad how many men walk around with his mentality.

  • @akstylez_ak5037
    @akstylez_ak5037 Před 6 lety +2

    This was a great and insightful episode. I appreciate him being honest, upfront. And I’m glad the judge was able to pick it apart. Girlfriend please take heed of this info. You have one baby and don’t have anymore. Judge Lynn spoke true facts and I stand by it. Run girl run. Before you have many more years of heartache

  • @starlight7825
    @starlight7825 Před 6 lety +16

    The man in the audience at 11.00🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @CrimeSheTyped
    @CrimeSheTyped Před 6 lety +2

    “I’m gonna change one day she just gotta accept it” PLEASE CHOKE

  • @RG-xv5ji
    @RG-xv5ji Před 6 lety +35

    This dude is a fool

  • @carolW54
    @carolW54 Před 5 lety +1

    This is why I like Judge Toler, she speaks the truth, and doesn't sugarcoat it ! This young lady is going back for more heartbreak !

  • @fr671
    @fr671 Před 6 lety +40

    I want to know the woman giving money to a man for attention. Give her my number

  • @Arron413
    @Arron413 Před 4 lety +2

    I watched the end of the show and she is still in a relationship with him. They are not living under the same roof as non-lovers. They are together!

  • @rescueistheway4470
    @rescueistheway4470 Před 6 lety +8

    still living together no way!!!! man women really need to work on their self-esteem for real....

  • @millah_knows_b3st
    @millah_knows_b3st Před 4 lety +2

    He never heard of turning his phone off, or blocking😒

  • @mraims2plez
    @mraims2plez Před 4 lety +5

    Judge Toler is crazy: She said I passed out Joe got me some water and I got back up.

  • @Tiff0324
    @Tiff0324 Před 6 lety +9

    She knew who he was and still wanted a relationship with him, i can't completely blame him because this guy is so straight up with who he is and want he wants. She should have ran, maybe she has self esteem issues but i hope she works on herself for the sake of her child. Good luck

  • @dakotachenoa474
    @dakotachenoa474 Před 6 lety +3

    I feel so sorry for this young girl she doesn't know about these dogs in the street and she seems so trusting!!

  • @mercurybell1772
    @mercurybell1772 Před 4 lety +1

    Anyone else rewatching Judge Toler in 2020?

  • @naturalself9
    @naturalself9 Před 6 lety +12

    Run girl 🏃 RUN

  • @amazingsupergirl7125
    @amazingsupergirl7125 Před 3 lety +3

    He’s disgusting inside and out 🤢 Bet he’s not paying child support to three different mothers. She needs to kick him out of the house. “Gift of gab” means he’s a good manipulator. He’s so proud of that he said it several times. 🤮 This one really nauseates me because she seems so sweet.

  • @mlm1916
    @mlm1916 Před 3 lety +5

    She does seem simple-minded. Her lack of reaction to being told that he said that about her surprised me a little. How she felt special b'cos he called that other girl to 'break it off', but he still was seeing the ex, that alone should've warned her.
    I hope she gets herself together ... I really do.

  • @ayefo7800
    @ayefo7800 Před 4 lety +3

    Its couldn't believe that this woman sat there and listened to this guy break up with his then gf. That shit actually made her feel good??? We gotta do better with our daughters and we gotta do better with our sons. Smh

  • @savannahdonaldson1585
    @savannahdonaldson1585 Před 5 lety +3

    First of all, any man who feels their entitled to do things like cheating on the person they claim to love, degrade that person, disrespect that person, etc., is no man at all.

  • @oliviadeanne3402
    @oliviadeanne3402 Před rokem +1

    she just smiled the whole time

  • @jazzyj6640
    @jazzyj6640 Před 5 lety +4

    Exactly why I rather stay single... too much of that out there.

  • @HorseGirl4
    @HorseGirl4 Před 3 lety +1

    Sometimes I get to these kinds of episodes where there is a giant red flag to stay away from these kinds of people. It shocks me when people stay and deal with this kind of abuse... 😒😒😒

  • @ForeverLumoz
    @ForeverLumoz Před 6 lety +5

    "Love is love". This ain't live, it's his lust and her insecurities. Cohabiting will do nothing for her heartbroken soul, because he'll mess around with her front and center to see it all.

  • @KnottyCeltic
    @KnottyCeltic Před 4 lety +2

    This guy makes my brain hurt. His brain is small, his honor is small, his vocabulary is small, his moral compass is so small it's virtually missing, he cheats, he takes money from a sad sad woman who is willing to pay for mere contact with him...SMH. OH ! and he feels he's irresistible. ARROGANT too. What does she see in him?!

  • @Terrence915
    @Terrence915 Před 6 lety +9

    I hope she honestly doesn’t stay with him for the sake of the child. I believe in 2 parent homes but his son DOES NOT need to learn from him. He’s toxic in an insidious way. I hate that she procreated with him knowing how bad he was.

  • @omgimover4075
    @omgimover4075 Před 5 lety +2

    I never understood why women look for evidence of cheating & find it but never leave the dude. That’s so freaking aggravating. Damn don’t even bring the crap up if you’re going to stay!

    • @daisyblack2075
      @daisyblack2075 Před rokem

      Can you say that again for the people in the back seats😂😂😂😂😂😂