Prayer: The Discipline We All Suck At

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  • čas přidán 7. 12. 2022
  • Ask any healthy couple and they’ll tell you that communication is key for a strong relationship. The same goes for your relationship with God, which is why prayer is essential. In this episode, we’re chatting about the enemy of prayer, why prayer feels inconvenient, and how we can suck less at it.
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Komentáře • 712

  • @sarahlawrence599
    @sarahlawrence599 Před rokem +1370

    i've found that journaling my prayers is the best way for me. i tend to struggle with getting distracted so when i would just pray in my head or pray out loud to myself, my thoughts would wander and I'd no longer be praying. I journal my prayers for the same reason I journal when I'm listening to a sermon; if i don't, i struggle to focus. the beauty of journaling my prayers is that I also get to look back on past prayers and say "oh look how God answered that prayer."

    • @MrzWill
      @MrzWill Před rokem +56

      I've found that this works best for me as well for all the reasons you gave. I find I can get everything out this way too. The next problem is just waiting after the writing to hear Him speak. I get distracted in the moments. Help us Jesus!

    • @N-LeeSonSay
      @N-LeeSonSay Před rokem +41

      Same here the struggle is real. I am also so glad that the Holy Spirit is able to decipher my groaning and Jesus intercedes on my behalf.

    • @LionessNae
      @LionessNae Před rokem +20

      I’m going to try this method

    • @zipporah8830
      @zipporah8830 Před rokem +11

      I journal my prayers as well.

    • @FaithfulTransformation
      @FaithfulTransformation Před rokem +11

      I journal as well. I prefer journaling when praying. I will speak as well but my prefer choice is to journal

  • @brandi_w
    @brandi_w Před rokem +475

    On prayer: "If you love someone you will find time"- Preston Perry

    • @Whoo_Boy
      @Whoo_Boy Před rokem +12

      You don't find time to pray, you make time because of what prayer with God is and what it means.

    • @mrsveelee1426
      @mrsveelee1426 Před rokem +4

      This just hits DIFFERENT when we're talking about God! 🙌🏿

    • @gracesingano5005
      @gracesingano5005 Před 7 měsíci

      Heavy on when you love someone you find a way to communicate...think cuz we take God to be invisible we forget this principle

    • @Chloeeezyyy
      @Chloeeezyyy Před 7 měsíci +1

      Should really be “make” time tbh. But yes to this quote

  • @lushie4ever1
    @lushie4ever1 Před rokem +169

    “Praying for people is a way to cultivate love for people”

  • @dabike_
    @dabike_ Před rokem +448

    When Jackie said one of the enemies of prayer is that we don't know how to be still, I felt that in my soul cause that's exactly what I'm struggling. God bless you both fr, tell are a blessing to me

    • @mizzcl8233
      @mizzcl8233 Před rokem +7

      Felt the same way giving myself a break from socials and everything I wanna go on it imma pray and spend time wit God so I can have so stillness in my life

    • @chrisegyin9564
      @chrisegyin9564 Před rokem +4

      My struggle is concentrating when praying like praying and a lot of thoughts come to min 😢.. it hurts me soo much

    • @dabike_
      @dabike_ Před rokem +2

      @@chrisegyin9564 I use to struggle with that a lot as well but one thing that I've learnt overtime and helped is to mean what I say, to be sincere and intentional about the words I say, to talk to God like I would pour out my heart to a friend. It engages your mind. You can try it. Good luck

  • @musicbylatrice
    @musicbylatrice Před rokem +449

    Jackie is the most serious funniest goofiest smartest combination of a human being and I love it !! All glory to God for our sister 🙌🏽😂💛

    • @lilalossi
      @lilalossi Před rokem +12

      Lmao foreal she’s like “you was gossiping with God” that’s me !! 😂😂

  • @adr1965
    @adr1965 Před rokem +100

    The intros, theeeeseee introsss are everything!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Stephen.Isaiah.t
    @Stephen.Isaiah.t Před rokem +203

    “The answers are found at God’s feet, not your doing” goodness🔥

  • @kaneya1
    @kaneya1 Před rokem +330

    You guys are so wise! 🙌 I'm 50 and I've been walking with God for 28 years and I don't remember being this wise in my 30's. 😀 May God continue to bless your family with prosperity, provision, protection and wisdom in His Name! 🙏😍

    • @knelson2019
      @knelson2019 Před rokem +9

      Amen, God is so faithful!

    • @timbawangu3038
      @timbawangu3038 Před rokem +7

      Amen. They are blessed.

    • @katrinamiles9675
      @katrinamiles9675 Před rokem +9

      The mentorship and community I believe has been a strong factor but each of them were and remain hungry for the things of God. They are a great example to imitate in this way.

    • @adelejacobs4033
      @adelejacobs4033 Před 9 měsíci +1

      So true

  • @estherbaffour2993
    @estherbaffour2993 Před rokem +97

    When Jackie said “I just wanna go to sleep, it’s 5am” 😂😂😂so relatable

  • @kendramitchell1952
    @kendramitchell1952 Před rokem +42

    "Writer's block is a thing, but sometimes it is the Lord humbling you..."
    Amen!

  • @Lelo_diokana
    @Lelo_diokana Před 9 měsíci +14

    When Jackie says part of the problem is that we don't know how to sit still, and we know how to l keep ourselves entertained... Like how I'm watching this episode during my prayer time. I know it's time for me to pray, but I rather watch a podcast on prayer... Stillness is really a problem we have

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 Před rokem +76

    This spoke to my soul😭🙏🏾. Jackie: "When you pray good for people that have done you wrong, it forces your heart to move in a different way"🔥
    Love and blessings to the Perry's ❤️

  • @maryanne5367
    @maryanne5367 Před rokem +16

    Nigerians REALLLY pray like that a lot 😅 it’s the culture we’re raised in. And then God opens our eyes to see more and have a deeper understanding

  • @lovelynnj
    @lovelynnj Před rokem +82

    These podcasts episode needs to be longer. 1-hour with The Perry’s please! 👏🏿🙌🏿

  • @FireBride
    @FireBride Před rokem +163

    Good morning,
    I want to share something that I learned today in my prayer time the Holy Spirit. He said make sure you are pr(a)ying and not pr(e)ying. Praying always will get our hearts to become one with Christ. A religious spirit is always preying is to satisfy flesh to say "I prayed about it" but there is no real exchange. Sometimes we prey out of fear or anxiety. And our heart is cold and hard as stone. We even sometimes have an attitude when we approach His throne of Grace. But we should not leave His presence that way. The preying doesn't bring clarity, peace or truth. In preying, it is very grieving to the Holy spirit. He showed me that praying for others or ourselves is about going to God to get his heart on the matter. It is for us to die to ourselves and thus allowing Christ to live. But preying is fruitless you end up leaving your prayer time more frustrated and you don't allow Christ's heart purposes to connect to your heart. This is preying, it causes your heart to be dead to the will of God. The goal in prayer should always be to find God's heart, this will always produces life!! Amen be blessed in Christ Jesus.. Abba up!✨🎚 I Thank God for sharing this!! Repentance of legalism and a religious spirit!! And trusting God to keep my prayers authentic and submit to His way. Hallelujah!!

  • @antoinettehereford8180
    @antoinettehereford8180 Před 11 měsíci +31

    It is so important to find the time. It has been helpful to me to start my morning with devotion and prayer. I am usually up around 5:30 am, and as much as I love that snooze button, waking up and starting the day with the Lord really starts my day well. Even if the day ends up hectic, staying connected with God helps me through. He is so faithful. Prayer is such a gift.

  • @askNatasha82
    @askNatasha82 Před rokem +15

    I think what I struggle with is the “don’t bother dad” mentality. Like sometimes I feel like what could I possibly say that is of substance to the Almighty? I journal everyday and sometimes when I journal I write my prayers. Like I had a great journaling experience this morning where I wrote down what was on my heart and it was like I could “hear” God. If that makes sense.

  • @BonBonHassan
    @BonBonHassan Před rokem +71

    I thought I needed the prayer closet too lol and it was so awkward and I felt like I was a different person when I did that. But when I would write in my journal, letters to God, it felt so natural and I could go back and read and remember things in our relationship and the things he's done for me

    • @BrideOfGod
      @BrideOfGod Před rokem +3

      Totally with you on that!

    • @hope3952
      @hope3952 Před 4 měsíci

      this just shows how relationship with God is important because you get to know what really works for YOUR work with Christ

  • @nursingu6164
    @nursingu6164 Před 2 měsíci +1

    On prayer: It is so under rated and yet we have the power to initiate a time/place where divinity meets humanity. What!!!??? This is absolutely amazing and yet the flesh and the enemy of our soul will fight.

  • @BonBonHassan
    @BonBonHassan Před rokem +171

    When you said that's how Muslims pray I just broke down because I was raised Muslim, and I brought over so much of that baggage to my walk with Christ. And a part of me knows that He already knows and loves me, but I also struggle so much with getting wrapped up in the salvation through works and being legalistic

    • @fortheladies771
      @fortheladies771 Před rokem +1

      @AllThat I’m curious. If you’re Muslim, why are you under a Christian video lol? It’s a genuine question

    • @jesusislord9707
      @jesusislord9707 Před rokem

      @AllThat Can't answer for the poster above but the Quran does call Muslim to hate and kill Christians. Satan is keeping you from the truth, salvation through Jesus Christ. allah doesn't exist which is why you've never heard from him, neither has any muslim. But Jesus Christ is alive and speaks to his saints everyday, ask the one true God to reveal himself to you. There is no salvation in Islam, please seek the truth. Jesus was crucified, buried and rose from the grave. He paid the penalty for your sins. God requires perfection to enter heaven, all of us has failed which is why Jesus lived the perfect life we couldn't. Don't die in your sins, turn to Jesus Christ.
      Surah 3:151: "We shall cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve (all non-Muslims)
      Surah 2:191: "And kill them (non-Muslims) wherever you find them … kill them. Such is the recompense of the disbelievers (non-Muslims)."
      Surah 9:5: "Then kill the disbelievers (non-Muslims) wherever you find them, capture them and besiege them, and lie in wait for them in each and every ambush

    • @BonBonHassan
      @BonBonHassan Před rokem +22

      @AllThat it's okay that you're here. I'm happy that you're curious and even open to watching content from another faith!
      I will tell you part of the baggage that I brought. As you know there are five pillars in Islam, which are required for Muslims to follow in order to please Allah. I'm not sure what you meant when you said you know Muslims who pray differently because my family was very strict. Also the Quran doesn't give room to do whatever you want, you must live as Muhammed did in order to hopefully enter jannah.
      That meant I constantly sought perfection and there was never room for mistakes. Allah could change his mind even at any moment if my good deeds did not outweigh my bad deeds when i died. So i was in constant fear of where I would go when i died.
      In Christ, I know I'm not enough and that's okay! But because of Islam I still sometimes feel the pressure to prove myself to God.

    • @fortheladies771
      @fortheladies771 Před rokem +9

      @AllThat Well, I asked that, because it makes no sense to be under a Christian video and then respond to a Christian’s comment speaking to her about your beliefs because she expressed that she wasn’t edified being a Muslim. There’s nothing wrong with you watching the video. Your response just came off dismissive and as though you’re trying to get her to believe that she may not be on the correct path, which she is. Jesus is the only way to salvation.

    • @mramirez5239
      @mramirez5239 Před rokem +18

      Christians raised in legalism actually struggle with the same. I know I do. I hope this podcast spoke to your heart. You are dear to the Lord and you are His child. Come to Him as one. He will always see you as His little girl, yet with a blossoming life in His Son on the inside.

  • @winniegood6134
    @winniegood6134 Před rokem +20

    “I feel like Nigerians be praying like that” so true🤣😩

    • @temidayooluwagbemiga1412
      @temidayooluwagbemiga1412 Před rokem +1

      😂😂

    • @euniceeno3834
      @euniceeno3834 Před rokem +4

      I was so waiting for this comment😅😂
      I'm like.scrollinhg through looking for these comments cause I can't be the only Nigerian to have heard that😂😂😂❤❤

    • @winniegood6134
      @winniegood6134 Před rokem +2

      @@euniceeno3834 😂🤣🤣🤍🤍 it’s giving Mountain of fire😅😂

    • @ifeoluwaosuntokun4188
      @ifeoluwaosuntokun4188 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Our people can PRAY down fire!

    • @div.1.123
      @div.1.123 Před 6 měsíci

      No caps 😂🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @terngupeace9929
    @terngupeace9929 Před rokem +35

    I'm currently in a season where God is calling my attention to prayer. This episode has really address my challenges and other issues that come up when it comes to my prayer life.

  • @joannapilgrim
    @joannapilgrim Před rokem +11

    Hello from Barbados 🇧🇧 I've said it before, but I really really enjoy seeing y'all laughing together. Thanks

  • @propheticsymbol
    @propheticsymbol Před rokem +44

    I totally agree! That's why I invite the Holy Spirit in even tho it's already there but to take over. Prayer is literally a honest conversation!

  • @vickyveasey5875
    @vickyveasey5875 Před rokem +23

    PLEASE READ PLEASE READ! This Podcast caused me to pray for an individual differently.TO NOT focus on what they were doing to me BUT for their heart and hurt that they may have been experiencing. Mr. Perry thank you for sharing your testimony of how you USTED to see people it helped me so much! My testimony is that we had a contractor that wouldn't pay us for work that we completed on one of his projects. Well I changed how I was praying about the matter and he paid the same day! Praise God and again thank you

  • @AfroFabbles_With_Brandy
    @AfroFabbles_With_Brandy Před 11 měsíci +23

    'I feel like Nigerians pray like that'😂😂😂 No Jackie, a good percent of Africans pray like that🙌🏽 I am so blessed by this episode. Be blessed y'all

  • @tebatsomajane5430
    @tebatsomajane5430 Před rokem +12

    Can relate with feeling like reading the word is better than praying because it feels like you are doing something. This is so good

  • @bcthbt
    @bcthbt Před rokem +16

    I love prayer Every day I call it Jesus and daughter time Be Blessed the Perry's

  • @parkerd4421
    @parkerd4421 Před rokem +14

    One of the most helpful things I’ve done is prayer journaling. It is something that is an easy habit to start and you can look back at your past prayers and see how much God has provided and changed you and how much you’ve grown in your faith. But just in the past few weeks/days I’ve started writing down the time that I start a prayer in my journal and what I’ve realized is that because I’ve grown this habit and I truly enjoy getting to sit down and write it all out and in a way externally process my thoughts so I don’t get lost in my prayer, I have learned to slow down. I’m not timing my prayers or anything but I now have a habit of writing prayers to God and I enjoy it so much that I will sacrifice time and other activities to get to do it. I guess I used to think that the best way to pray or sacrifice my time would be in a way that was contrary to my enjoyment, but I think that there are ways that we can enjoy spending time with God.

  • @_thewisdomhour
    @_thewisdomhour Před 5 měsíci +2

    “When you love someone you find time”
    This is good

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY87 Před rokem +19

    The point about prayer not feeling “productive” like the reading the Bible - can totally relate to that. Thank God I am seeing fruit from conviction surrounding that wrongful thinking. Prayer is incredibly productive.

  • @89cargo
    @89cargo Před rokem +16

    Thank you so much for this episode. I have fallen away from spending time with God, praying and reading the Word. All that was said in this podcast is things I know but it came to me in a new and fresh way. I want to rekindle that relationship with God again and start TALKING to God, because at the end of the day that is what prayer is. As a newly married man there are many pressures but they have been even heavier because I have not been bringing them to God in prayer. I realize life is so much harder when I don't pray, but consistency has been my downfall. But I am starting afresh because I want that intimate relationship with God again because I know how that feels. God Bless you guys ❤️🙌🏽

    • @eyegettit3535
      @eyegettit3535 Před rokem +1

      Super Proud of You! It's so good to hear a man being vulnerable and host as it pertains to his relationship with God. It's been a month how's it going for you so far??

  • @Elizabeth_Kcals11221
    @Elizabeth_Kcals11221 Před rokem +12

    “He is transcendent yet personal” HALLELUJAH!! I already commented but this is TOO TRUE had to jump in again 🤚🏽!

  • @snowman4821
    @snowman4821 Před rokem +9

    I didn't even realize, but I think this sparked a realization for me several hours after I watched this. I was in the middle of mom duties when I started to think about my art. I draw and am severely out of practice, but I want to create things that honor the Lord, like short animations and graphic novels geared towards Christians. I know I need to practice to get better but I struggle with things not coming out the way I imagined them. Even during practice, it's super frustrating for me, even when I try not to have rigid standards. But as I was doing those mom things and had on kids worship music (which really has been wrecking me lately 😂), I realized I haven't been bringing God into my practice. I haven't been praying before I start or even really thinking about surrendering my talent to Him unless I was thinking "God, why is this so hard/why is this obstacle so difficult to overcome so I can focus on practicing?" I realized that I need to pray before I start and recognize I'm not drawing to better myself, perse, but to honor Him. I will definitely be keeping God first on my art and surrender my mistakes and growth to Him.

    • @fansofartmultimediahouse7730
      @fansofartmultimediahouse7730 Před rokem

      I get it, I produce & compose music and an aspiring entrepreneur. Things have never been easy in progressing though I get the job done, it's different when it comes from God then when I rely on my talent. Stay blessed ☺️🙏🏽 & continue to honor God in art

  • @oshunyarl
    @oshunyarl Před rokem +23

    10 mins in and so many jewels of wisdom being shared. The Spirit is always moving and ocnnecting us. I've been working on being more fluid with my prayer time with the Lord. Giving him my undivided attention. I'm already blessed by this, Thank Yall!

  • @tiffanywaddell3100
    @tiffanywaddell3100 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I recently watched a video about a young woman who used to be in a satanic worship group and she was used to attack Christians. She said she would be in the spirit and seeking out Christians to attack but some would have a dome over them that could not be penetrated because they were praying! She said they realized they could not attack while we pray! She has since given her life to Christ and she said that is the most reassuring part of this walk, to know without a doubt that she is protected in prayer! Wow, right?!

  • @jaybluesketches9859
    @jaybluesketches9859 Před rokem +16

    It's definitely a challenge to wait and be still, having confidence in God's provisions . But I agree, the more I understand his attributes and read the word, the more it's easier to pray and trust him in whatever season. Great encouragement! "Help my unbelief"

  • @debz3877
    @debz3877 Před rokem +9

    Wowwwww this such a timely word for me. I have been "struggling" to pray for myself recently (but can easily pray for others and with others). The struggle is in some of things you discussed including "busyness" masked as idolatry, distractions and unable to just be still. But admittedly the struggle is in this false belief that God is ready and willing to answer everyone else's prayers EXCEPT mine. I love how God moved me to pause while watching to pray to address these issues and pray for the people I have personal issues with. Thank you Perrys for this topic, the realness and the wisdom. May God continue to bless you and use you for such a time (and generation) like this ♥

  • @jenn6763
    @jenn6763 Před rokem +4

    ‘Praying for people is a way of cultivating Love for people, especially our enemies because Jesus told us to pray for our enemies.’ ~Jackie Hill Perry.
    That’s so good!❤

  • @rlyn1175
    @rlyn1175 Před rokem +6

    So relieving to hear I'm not the only one who prays in the shower!

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 Před rokem +28

    I love you Jesus! Without you I would never know the fulness of God’s love. My soul is troubled but I know you will continue to lift me up. Jesus you are my strength whenever I am weak. As a single mother I’m overwhelmed at times because both of my children are autistic. I’m desperately struggling trying to support them and myself because like so many others. I lost my job as a social worker at Forsyth hospital because I declined the vaccine. I declined because of my pre existing health condition lupus and heart disease. I was denied my medical/religious exemption. I wish I could go back to the hospital but the mandate is still in place for hospitals that participate in Medicare and Medicaid. I’m waitressing and I’m so thankful to be working again, but I’m not making nearly enough to make ends meet. But God continues to help me. Jesus is my only salvation. I get harassed and called names for simply asking for prayers, but prayers are all we need to get by, and when you’re a real christian people will always crucify you. Thankfully, God gives me strength to keep going. I have faith God will provide. He HAS THIS FAR. Please pray for me and my children.

  • @elizabethmendoza4221

    Lol the shower has always been one of the main and best prayer places for me.

  • @Godsgoodgriefministry
    @Godsgoodgriefministry Před měsícem

    "When you pray good for someone who has done you wrong it forces your heart to move in a different way." Yes, true Jackie true! I experienced this when God had me pray for the salvation of the person(s) who murdered my brother 🙏🏿

  • @ilovegodandjesusjohn316
    @ilovegodandjesusjohn316 Před rokem +1

    Matthew 5:9
    Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.

  • @whitneyk9666
    @whitneyk9666 Před rokem +4

    If you haven’t already, can you do episodes on 1) manipulation and 2) how to/what it means to be in the world but not of if 3) how joy (i.e. enjoying life and enjoying things in life brings honor and or glory to God)

  • @makiebahatton2628
    @makiebahatton2628 Před 10 dny

    Minister Jackie, it's almost creepy how much we have in common even down to some demeanor, mannerisms, vernacular, and testimony. I have to look up many times when I'm listening to make sure it's not me talking 😆.
    The covenant, partnership, best friendship, collaboration, ministry, transparency, supplication, and Faith Walk between you and your husband Minister Preston is so encouraging, powerful, magnetic, edifying, and PHENOMENAL in The Lord! Minister Preston has a kindness and gentleness in his delivery of GOD'S WORD that oozes into your united effectiveness for CHRIST!
    Thank you both for laboring in The Lord to see all mankind saved and delivered into The Kingdom of Our Lord Jesus Christ! ❤

  • @thebravebird
    @thebravebird Před rokem +8

    Y’all have profound conversations and it’s a privilege to hear the wisdom and spiritual intimacy you share.

  • @jordanvogelsang8600
    @jordanvogelsang8600 Před rokem +3

    Jackie I always appreciate that you say things about letting go of old church idols..ex. Growing up in church thinking that god is only in the four walls of church.

  • @diymama8657
    @diymama8657 Před rokem +4

    I've been a Christian for 30 years and am not sure what a typical "prayer life" looks like but I know I always am praying as I go throughout the day..I guess there are different kinds of prayer...I personally decided to stop my regular things that keep me too busy to pray this year and spend that time for God.🙏

  • @CreativeMe_Marcia
    @CreativeMe_Marcia Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you for an honest and transparent dialogue about prayer. I used to struggle so much in my prayer life because I was legalistic and operated from a standpoint of earning God's love. I also struggled with prayer because I was trying to follow people's formulas. I had to learn to come before God and bring my whole self, the good, bad and ugly before Him. That despite my issues, He still loved me. I had to learn to just pour out my soul before Him. I noticed that after I poured out my soul before God, a stillness would come to my soul. Now I pray because I enjoy spending time with Him, and the exchange is so rich that I literally can't live without Him.

  • @NewCreationInChrist896
    @NewCreationInChrist896 Před rokem +14

    Amen when you talk to God always you don't have to find time. The best time is in the morning before you get out of bed.
    Psalms 5:3 👑
    "My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O LORD; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will look up"
    Psalms 55:17 🙏
    "Morning, noon, and night, I cry out in distress, and He hears my voice."

  • @Kai-wo4di
    @Kai-wo4di Před rokem +20

    “Don’t neglect the butt” 😂 y’all are hilarious.
    thank you all for this podcast topic. “It’s not busyness, it’s idolatry” whew. That was big. What are we making bigger than God? I love shower prayers until my 1 year old bust in the bathroom. 🙃😂
    Happy new year, Perry family! Thank you for teaching us!

    • @nettesthebest
      @nettesthebest Před 5 měsíci

      When she said “it’s getting neglected” I lost it 😂😂😂😂

  • @deborahcarter2123
    @deborahcarter2123 Před rokem +3

    Yes!!! Our gifts and talents are not ours. Hint: the gift. We must stay close, thankful and humble.

  • @mramirez5239
    @mramirez5239 Před rokem +5

    🔥 "...but it''s not ever busyness. It's idolatry." I'm gonna sit with that one.
    That's a key point on how Bible study is learning/doing so that discipline can be easier to get into than prayer. Oh, the point on productivity v the waiting v an active relationship with God. THEN all of that overlap gets simplified in *how* prayer cultivates a deeper relationship! AND how we can build that through increased leaning on His strength for it! Amen!! That was so spiritually complimentary in real time-wooo! You two. ❤️🔥
    I have never heard anyone tie in 1 Pt. 5:8 / keeping a sober mind in connection to abstaining from getting drunk (or let's add in doing drugs). I remember (at my former, legalistic church) Eph. 5:18 being hammered into our minds and it would be at the most random times...just somebody's mom coming up to comb her son's hair with her fingers before going up to sing in the children's choir and looking around at the rest of us, all smiling, and saying something like "all of you kids look wonderful, now remember" (smile drops, eyebrows raise) "God says not to be drunk with wine so don't ever do what your friends do if they ask you if you want a beer."
    I've been thinking a whole lot lately on how I have learned a lot about God and how I can trust Him and come to Him (esp when I was in an abusive marriage) and continue to learn (post that) how He is a loving father (this part being the challenge for me-which I know plenty of people can say the same-bc of coming up in a legalistic church and having a lot of damage in my relationship with my parents from adolescence well into my adulthood). Only recently I have been unpacking a lot about this with God a little at a time and I feel very hesitant to try again to have any kind of real relationship with either of my parents (that doesn't mean I don't want anything to do with them-there's just a lot of repeat behavior that has broken trust over and over again) while understanding my role is as their daughter before a Holy God. I want to be in His will toward them but without getting wounded again by what they either do or don't mean to do but won't change it. It is taking both prayer and more. But prayer could *not* be left out if I want progress. I would never be making any kind of sense out of it all and what God expects from me, without continuing to come to Him and get in His word, turn on Christian radio and Christian podcasts (like this one), and read books where God can continue to respond with answers. Yes, I agree-there's so much more in the supernatural meeting with Him (prayer)-HE brings the peace, the safety zone, the assurance, the place of belonging that the rationale and shifting sands of emotions simply cannot.
    Giftedness not being good enough, alone/being humbled/being brought to Him.🔥
    Keep speaking truth. Your podcast is so appreciated. 💜

  • @nathanmcalpine2209
    @nathanmcalpine2209 Před 3 měsíci

    Loved the point about praying but not reading the Bible. I remember I was frustrated with God for “not responding” to my plea for him to speak to me / guidance. And after a church fast instead of an answer he hit me with “how do you expect me to talk to you and you don’t even know what I sound like? I’ve already spoken through the Word”
    That really challenged me and convicted me to get in my Bible. It’s been so beautiful to watch the intimacy bloom from there

  • @Cintury
    @Cintury Před rokem +1

    Jackie and them tongues lol I can't even!

  • @vanessaguerreroo
    @vanessaguerreroo Před rokem +1

    “They are praying to a God they don’t even read about”!!!!
    The framework!! Wow, that was good Jackie!!!

  • @Godsgurlie
    @Godsgurlie Před 11 měsíci +1

    So good!! So freeing. “We cannot separate praying from reading the Bible”. Whew

  • @kimbunting3229
    @kimbunting3229 Před rokem +2

    I’ve learned to not role play with God. Come with all of me vulnerable my doubts my fears, my weaknesses. He knows before we even come to him what we’re gonna say

  • @njoy327
    @njoy327 Před rokem +4

    Yes Jackie, the shower!!! and I thought i was the only one!! The shower is my prayer closet. It's where I am naked and completely exposed before God. The shower, where I feel the warm water on my skin and I feel so alive and so vulnerable. The shower, where I am grateful to be alive and I am in the same state where my life began...naked, just me and the Lord!! I play my worship music and it's my favorite place to prayer and spend time with the Lord!!!🙏🏾❤️

  • @toyabirddyify
    @toyabirddyify Před rokem +12

    Praying and reading the word of God is key!

  • @Villagenanny
    @Villagenanny Před rokem +2

    One prayer discipline I've heard to do is to keep a notepad next to you when you pray and jot down every random thought of things to do that comes in your head while praying to help quiet your mind and keep on track. Another helpful thing is to write down specific prayer requests.

  • @jennymiller5333
    @jennymiller5333 Před 3 měsíci

    "The temptation to be productive over being prayerful, underneath that is impatience." So true, preach it!

  • @chisomenebechi9338
    @chisomenebechi9338 Před rokem +1

    Not Jackie casting Nigerians and their prayers 💀🤣 I love this podcast!

  • @skumaga
    @skumaga Před 11 měsíci +2

    Sorry when you’re from Africa the Warefare is different! We really gotta pray 😢
    - Back to sender prayers
    - May every witch carry their evil loads
    - May the judgement of God fall upon their heads
    😂 this is prayer o the battlefield.

    • @div.1.123
      @div.1.123 Před 6 měsíci

      Say na back to sender 💔😂😂

  • @estherbaffour2993
    @estherbaffour2993 Před rokem +6

    Im at 13 minutes I had to keep pausing because the wisdom I’m getting from you both is beautiful!! Thank you so much for being obedient and sharing this

  • @jayybuu.m
    @jayybuu.m Před rokem +3

    So 30 minutes is now actually 30 minutes 😭😭
    The intros 😂😂😂❤️

  • @jeslovesjesus
    @jeslovesjesus Před rokem +2

    This podcast really blessed me. What Preston said about how he used to see peoples sin before he saw the person, I am struggling with that right now. What’s really been helping me is praying for God to show me that person as a child. Because behind all the sin, we were all (most of us lol) once small innocent children full of life and joy and I want to understand that persons hurt and what happened along the way that caused whatever they’re struggling with now. It really helps because when you imagine someone who lashes out in anger all the time as a small child who maybe had a parent with a drinking problem who constantly lashed out at them, my prayers then turn to asking for God to heal them instead of asking God to fix them. ❤

  • @salimtwene5605
    @salimtwene5605 Před rokem +5

    I like journaling my prayers too..i feel it flows reall easily when i write it down and reread my prayers…also please do another 30 about answered prayers

  • @deborahcarter2123
    @deborahcarter2123 Před rokem +3

    Thank you for being so plain and on point!! Prayer is a lifestyle. We are in a profoundly intimate relationship with All Mighty GOD. Having said that, there is no one way to pray like there is no one way to relate as a husband and wife in a marriage. Prayer is an experience not a task. So, we can pray, talk, acknowledge, communicate with God all day long; in the same manner that you would talk to a person who spending the day with you. I do not mean in an irreverent way, My point, we can seek and talk to God in our daily lives. There is also the formal sit and be still prayer waiting before the LORD and God will reveal Himself in the way that you works best for you. And like was shared, reading the Bible is key. God is revealed in His Word that's why we have these 66 books. God is revealing Himself when we read/study the Bible whether we know this right away or not.

  • @makiebahatton2628
    @makiebahatton2628 Před 10 dny

    This is so helpful and useful in the Christian journey. This level of transparency is so necessary in community so we can see one another in our humanity which is a constant struggle as it pertains to living a Holy Spirit-filled life! We're flawed, broken, and jacked up in our humanity but JESUS The Lord Jesus Christ is PERFECT in his humanity, and holds all POWER in Heaven and Earth as King and we need to consult Him which is His Word which is His Holy Spirit for everything!

  • @natoshab8513
    @natoshab8513 Před rokem +3

    Thank you both for this, my life is shifting and I know transitioning is approaching and I have been struggling with the fact that my prayer time and space will have to shift as well. My place of solitude and quietness will look different than it does right now. I am getting married next month and we will be combining households.

  • @shelitamitchell5942
    @shelitamitchell5942 Před rokem +2

    I pray and Love talking to the Lord in the shower ❤

  • @loratomokgeledi.9344
    @loratomokgeledi.9344 Před 4 měsíci

    Praying is easy for me. Reading the word is where I struggle

    • @nonophat
      @nonophat Před 4 měsíci

      I have literally been the opposite! 🤷‍♀️ But I am really working on it. It's very easy for me to sit and be in the Word.

  • @lifeof_dera1749
    @lifeof_dera1749 Před rokem

    Nigeria my country!!, sometimes we pray that way cos we think like why would someone just want to hurt another, so what we do is that we beg God to fight for us cos he's a God of vengeance

  • @jonathanzieke9730
    @jonathanzieke9730 Před rokem +1

    Omd, she came for Nigerians😭. We going through a lot that’s why😭😂
    This podcast was a blessing tho, big fan of your work😖

  • @charlierlaflosstv
    @charlierlaflosstv Před rokem +2

    The washcloth opening was too funny. I can’t bathe unless I use a washcloth like I just don’t feel like I’m clean enough. 😂😂😂

  • @katrinamiles9675
    @katrinamiles9675 Před rokem +1

    Wherever we invite Him into becomes sacred in His grace. Amen!

  • @kelemohutsioa16
    @kelemohutsioa16 Před rokem +1

    Amen! When your giftedness is not good enough - eliminates boasting . I could not stop repeating that part!!! Oh my Lord! I needed that.

  • @jacqueraehill4479
    @jacqueraehill4479 Před rokem +7

    This episode was SOOOOO GOOD!!

  • @jssberry
    @jssberry Před 11 měsíci +1

    As someone who is currently going on year 5 with the novel I'm writing...I REALLY needed to hear that last part of this. 😭 Sometimes the Lord will legit have me just talk to Him. I have moments where I'm like, "God I really need to finish this book." And He always comes back with, "Do you want to finish the book or do you want to be healed?" 😫 Yeah...the entire process has been humbling.

  • @marjorymsuku9312
    @marjorymsuku9312 Před rokem +1

    "HE is sovereign - and so not to be approached as any regular person..."🔥
    I struggle with regular lengthy prayers because I was brought up at Grandmother's; there were quite a lot of us kids there, and not always as much of attention to go around for regular, special conversation with Grandma, the parental figure...
    It also doesn't help that I'm introverted; so talking doesn't come easily - but I do journal a lot. I also do pray short prayers throughout the day, vs waiting until a specific time in the morning or night to do a long, focused, intimate prayer....

  • @janessarafols2418
    @janessarafols2418 Před 3 měsíci

    i’ve been rewatching your podcasts!!! They give me so much comfort and reassurance that our God is merciful, omnipotent and graceful.

  • @girltalkandchill
    @girltalkandchill Před rokem +3

    Definitely appreciated this conversation. I was convicted about how I approach God in prayer, thank you.

  • @tamaratarere
    @tamaratarere Před rokem +2

    Lmaooo @ Nigerians be praying like that, she did not lie! (Lord help us lol)

  • @katrinamiles9675
    @katrinamiles9675 Před rokem +1

    I love prayer but it is still a discipline which I have to regularly bring my flesh under submission. I show up differently when I'm armored up functioning out of His presence. Yay!

  • @user-jf9zz2jl5q
    @user-jf9zz2jl5q Před 7 měsíci +1

    I think people make prayer to much of a thing. Prayer is just communicating with God. It doesn't have to be done in a particular place or time or posture. It's taking to God and listening for his voice. Sometimes I don't initiate prayer. He just starts telling me things or giving me instructions or choices when I'm in the process of making a decision. God is my best friend and closest companion. He's more real, reliable, and trustworthy than anyone I've ever known. And he's with me 24/7. So, I'm in almost constant communication with God. For me prayer is like breathing. I'm lost without his counsel. There are times when I'm waiting for his direction because I don't know what decision to make. And I can feel him listening to me. Watching me to see which choice I'm going to make. Things that have nothing to do with sin. Just choices. Should I accept a ride from a stranger? Should I let a stranger call an Uber for me? Should I accept money from a stranger? No strings attached and they were all women and I'm a woman and I never saw them again. He's always here with me. I'm always talking to him about everything even minutia. And he loves it. And so do I. Just the way he shows up sometimes makes me smile. 😁

  • @michelledeleon9797
    @michelledeleon9797 Před 3 měsíci

    OMG I just got the word and prayer is each leg of our walk with God if you are not using both you’re lopsided hopping or will fall over. Maybe someone has said this already but I just got this😅

  • @DDJones-yi1pm
    @DDJones-yi1pm Před rokem +7

    This is an absolutely wonderful discussion. Sooo enlightening!!!

  • @gabriellarose18
    @gabriellarose18 Před 6 měsíci

    The fact Jesus descended to save and purify us is so godly and holy.
    ILY guys

  • @vanessaonuoha2437
    @vanessaonuoha2437 Před rokem +2

    Preston that prayer wasn’t just for you. You spoke right through my soul, like God doesn’t just want to use me to edify people but he also wants to bring me closer to him. Seeking God when he using your talent for his Glory. I love this! I think you guys preached two sermons in one post. Prayer and Seeking God in your assignment or something like that.
    Really loved it

  • @Just_Jen.
    @Just_Jen. Před rokem +2

    Come on with the timeliness LORD!!!!! I was praying about this very thing. Well thinking. I've been knowing I need to put my prayers into words but they only stay in my thoughts and I stay tight lipped lately. But I know all of this. And asked God about it. This is His answer to me. ❤

  • @powelluka882
    @powelluka882 Před 8 měsíci

    7:51
    Only 8 mins and this first few minutes is just speaking to my season right now and what I’ve missed

  • @chirho777
    @chirho777 Před 2 měsíci

    I use hand gloves when showering for pretty much every particular part 🤓👍🏽
    Prayer rocks 🙌🏽 First thing in the morning and before I lay down since Jan 1st 2021 I pray then get into the word. Haven't missed a day since. I love my Heavenly Father. I sometimes shut down during the day to pray. Love my God & Lord & Holy Spirit time!!

  • @malina1love
    @malina1love Před rokem +2

    All I can say is Amen to ALL of It!

  • @_thewisdomhour
    @_thewisdomhour Před 5 měsíci

    “Prayer is comforting
    I want to talk to my Father”
    I❤this

  • @TheNewSong2003
    @TheNewSong2003 Před rokem

    Soooo powerful!!

  • @HTB.5784
    @HTB.5784 Před 3 měsíci

    Me too! shower praise and shower prayer! no shame in that! totally vulnerable and totally open to God. Totally unashamed.

  • @michaelramanugu1028
    @michaelramanugu1028 Před rokem +4

    I can listen to you guys the whole day!🙏 May God bless you guys and this ministry.

  • @user-jf9zz2jl5q
    @user-jf9zz2jl5q Před 7 měsíci

    You two remind me of my parents. Who were married with three kids and a mortgage at 25. No college degrees. Just High School diplomas.