There's nothing else to it, the ending about him meeting someone new is completely made up. I found the original post on Reddit and there is zero mention of meeting anyone at a coffee shop
@@butcher24yrold Sorry that title was super wordy. But it kind of explains most of the problem here. We had been together since we were juniors in high school. We were each others first everything and I thought that we were going to be together forever. But she went away to college and midway through her freshman year she comes home and tells me before she leaves that while she loves me with all of her heart and I am the one she wants to be with forever and marry that while she is in college she does not want to be tied down and needed to be able to have her fun. She was telling me this as though she were explaining the directions to hooking up a computer. In other words no emotion, just simply statements of facts and my thoughts and feelings on the situation did not matter. She even went on to tell me that she wanted to make sure I knew she would always practice "safe sex" for our future together. Well my reaction I guess was not what she planned. Needless to say I'm not very proud of how I reacted at the time but I became very emotional with her. I begged her not to do this and that under no circumstance would I ever consider this okay. She basically said I was being immature and that once a couple of weeks passed I would be able to talk to her rationally. Oh and as a bonus she wanted to get my assurance that I would practice safe sex as well for when we got back together. The two weeks went by and she called me and acted like no big deal. But as we started to end the call she wanted to make sure that I was "better" about her sleeping with other guys. I use the present tense because as she then informed me in that two weeks she had already slept with two other guys. Again not proud of this now but I broke down when she told me this. She said she did not want to hurt me so she wouldn't be telling me anymore about what she does. I told her that I had no desire to talk with her anymore period. That I was willing to work on things before she slept with other people but that was the end of it for me and I told her I was done. She said once again that I was being immature and that she would just wait on me to contact her when I was grown up enough to understand that there is a difference between sex and love. That was the last time I spoke to her until about 1 month ago when she moved back home and showed up at my house one night acting like we had been together and not apart for three years. She did not expect nor appreciate my reaction to her showing up. I opened the door and there she was with a big smile on her face. She immediately asked to come in and I said I would come outside which obviously caught her off guard. I asked what she wanted and she said and I quote "well that's a hell of a way to greet someone you love". To which I told her that she was delusional and that whatever love I had for her died the day she told me she had already started having sex with other men. She honestly had a very confused look on her face and then said and I quote again "are you still uptight about all of that" and then said "I would have thought by now you would have grow up about that". I told her that not only was I not over it, that I would never be over it other than to be over us. At which time she proceeds to say to me "you mean to tell me you are throwing away everything that we are together because of some stupid physical issue". "I know we love each other and are meant to be together so how do we fix this". I was just dumbstruck. How in the fuck can one person be this stupid. I asked her what I was throwing away. We have not spoken in almost 3 years other than via text and even then it was her texting me and not me replying. She left very disappointed and that should have been the end of it. But here is the kick in the ass. I have now been inundated by friends, her family and hell even some of my family wanting to know why I was throwing away someone so special. I ended up telling my family members the truth and after they heard about it they quickly recanted and told me to tell her to fuck off. But to her family I just said she dumped me years ago and we hadn't been together for almost 3 years. This came as a shock to them as she had been telling them all along that we were still a couple and even when she was home on breaks would tell them we planned on marrying. At first they didn't believe me that we hadn't seen each other in years and I'm still not sure they do. But the friends are the ones that piss me off the most. They know the truth and yet they think I am being "weird" about all of this. They said when you are young you are supposed to play the field but if you love someone you know that in the end you will be together. I don't have enough time to write out all of the words I said to them but I can assure you it was laced with lots of curse words. I am now down a few friends but IMO they weren't friends really anyway. Here is why I'm here. I feel good and confident about my decision. However because I have had so many people question me I am here to ask anonymous strangers this. Am I wrong? Should I have just accepted that she was going to play around and now that she is older she wants to settle down and start a family? Am I just so out of touch that I don't I want to be with a person who would want to do that and then spend the rest of my life with them? Also just for info here, there is nobody else. It's not like I'm saying no because there is another girl, which she is accusing me of to our friends btw. EDIT: Wow I posted this and then went out for the evening not knowing if anyone would even respond. I get up this morning and this thing has blown up. There are lots of great comments and I want to thank almost everybody for making me not feel crazy. There were some legitimate questions that were asked as well and I think I'll just answer them here instead of trying to chase down every post. Why did I not slam the door in her face? That really is a legitimate question, one of which I do not have a good answer to. All I can say is that I was caught completely off guard, I had not seen her in years and I had no idea she was even back home. So I opened the door not knowing who it was and when I saw her I froze. I thank God I have a screen door as well because I have a feeling had there not been a barrier between us she would have tried to hug me. Question 2 how the hell did she make her family think we were still together for three years even though we were never together, I never went to their house and there are no facebook photo's of us during that time? Well the answer to this is simple. I have no idea. From what I can tell she had them convinced, because I guess she also had herself convinced, that we both agreed to the "open" relationship during college but would be back together permanently when she got home. Personally I think the entire thing is fucking stupid because let's pretend for one minute that I would actually agree to this bullshit (never would in a million years) why the hell would we avoid each other for the three years whenever she was home on break. So to be blunt either they are dumber than I thought or she has manipulated them to the point of not even questioning simple issues. Now the one thing I guess I did not mention in my original post is that her cousin, who actually is sane and has been level headed about all of this, did tell me that she had a complete and total meltdown after I booted her off of the porch. She said that she cried for three straight days. I just don't get it. How in the name of God could she be this upset? I mean she hasn't seen or spoken to me in three years, how could she even care? I mean that, how do you even care about someone after three fucking years?
The last parts fake. Ive heard this story tons of times and he never met the girl in the coffee shop unfortunately. So basically the story ends with hannah playing the victim over the breakup.
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where's the rest
Finish the fucking story
There's nothing else to it, the ending about him meeting someone new is completely made up. I found the original post on Reddit and there is zero mention of meeting anyone at a coffee shop
I hate when they add stuff to ops post like that.
@@marleneg8986 u got the post?
@@butcher24yrold
Sorry that title was super wordy. But it kind of explains most of the problem here. We had been together since we were juniors in high school. We were each others first everything and I thought that we were going to be together forever. But she went away to college and midway through her freshman year she comes home and tells me before she leaves that while she loves me with all of her heart and I am the one she wants to be with forever and marry that while she is in college she does not want to be tied down and needed to be able to have her fun. She was telling me this as though she were explaining the directions to hooking up a computer. In other words no emotion, just simply statements of facts and my thoughts and feelings on the situation did not matter. She even went on to tell me that she wanted to make sure I knew she would always practice "safe sex" for our future together.
Well my reaction I guess was not what she planned. Needless to say I'm not very proud of how I reacted at the time but I became very emotional with her. I begged her not to do this and that under no circumstance would I ever consider this okay. She basically said I was being immature and that once a couple of weeks passed I would be able to talk to her rationally. Oh and as a bonus she wanted to get my assurance that I would practice safe sex as well for when we got back together.
The two weeks went by and she called me and acted like no big deal. But as we started to end the call she wanted to make sure that I was "better" about her sleeping with other guys. I use the present tense because as she then informed me in that two weeks she had already slept with two other guys. Again not proud of this now but I broke down when she told me this. She said she did not want to hurt me so she wouldn't be telling me anymore about what she does. I told her that I had no desire to talk with her anymore period. That I was willing to work on things before she slept with other people but that was the end of it for me and I told her I was done. She said once again that I was being immature and that she would just wait on me to contact her when I was grown up enough to understand that there is a difference between sex and love. That was the last time I spoke to her until about 1 month ago when she moved back home and showed up at my house one night acting like we had been together and not apart for three years. She did not expect nor appreciate my reaction to her showing up.
I opened the door and there she was with a big smile on her face. She immediately asked to come in and I said I would come outside which obviously caught her off guard. I asked what she wanted and she said and I quote "well that's a hell of a way to greet someone you love". To which I told her that she was delusional and that whatever love I had for her died the day she told me she had already started having sex with other men. She honestly had a very confused look on her face and then said and I quote again "are you still uptight about all of that" and then said "I would have thought by now you would have grow up about that".
I told her that not only was I not over it, that I would never be over it other than to be over us. At which time she proceeds to say to me "you mean to tell me you are throwing away everything that we are together because of some stupid physical issue". "I know we love each other and are meant to be together so how do we fix this".
I was just dumbstruck. How in the fuck can one person be this stupid. I asked her what I was throwing away. We have not spoken in almost 3 years other than via text and even then it was her texting me and not me replying.
She left very disappointed and that should have been the end of it. But here is the kick in the ass. I have now been inundated by friends, her family and hell even some of my family wanting to know why I was throwing away someone so special.
I ended up telling my family members the truth and after they heard about it they quickly recanted and told me to tell her to fuck off. But to her family I just said she dumped me years ago and we hadn't been together for almost 3 years. This came as a shock to them as she had been telling them all along that we were still a couple and even when she was home on breaks would tell them we planned on marrying. At first they didn't believe me that we hadn't seen each other in years and I'm still not sure they do.
But the friends are the ones that piss me off the most. They know the truth and yet they think I am being "weird" about all of this. They said when you are young you are supposed to play the field but if you love someone you know that in the end you will be together. I don't have enough time to write out all of the words I said to them but I can assure you it was laced with lots of curse words. I am now down a few friends but IMO they weren't friends really anyway.
Here is why I'm here. I feel good and confident about my decision. However because I have had so many people question me I am here to ask anonymous strangers this.
Am I wrong? Should I have just accepted that she was going to play around and now that she is older she wants to settle down and start a family? Am I just so out of touch that I don't I want to be with a person who would want to do that and then spend the rest of my life with them?
Also just for info here, there is nobody else. It's not like I'm saying no because there is another girl, which she is accusing me of to our friends btw.
EDIT: Wow I posted this and then went out for the evening not knowing if anyone would even respond. I get up this morning and this thing has blown up. There are lots of great comments and I want to thank almost everybody for making me not feel crazy. There were some legitimate questions that were asked as well and I think I'll just answer them here instead of trying to chase down every post.
Why did I not slam the door in her face? That really is a legitimate question, one of which I do not have a good answer to. All I can say is that I was caught completely off guard, I had not seen her in years and I had no idea she was even back home. So I opened the door not knowing who it was and when I saw her I froze. I thank God I have a screen door as well because I have a feeling had there not been a barrier between us she would have tried to hug me.
Question 2 how the hell did she make her family think we were still together for three years even though we were never together, I never went to their house and there are no facebook photo's of us during that time? Well the answer to this is simple. I have no idea. From what I can tell she had them convinced, because I guess she also had herself convinced, that we both agreed to the "open" relationship during college but would be back together permanently when she got home. Personally I think the entire thing is fucking stupid because let's pretend for one minute that I would actually agree to this bullshit (never would in a million years) why the hell would we avoid each other for the three years whenever she was home on break. So to be blunt either they are dumber than I thought or she has manipulated them to the point of not even questioning simple issues.
Now the one thing I guess I did not mention in my original post is that her cousin, who actually is sane and has been level headed about all of this, did tell me that she had a complete and total meltdown after I booted her off of the porch. She said that she cried for three straight days. I just don't get it. How in the name of God could she be this upset? I mean she hasn't seen or spoken to me in three years, how could she even care? I mean that, how do you even care about someone after three fucking years?
Comment story finisher guy, we summon you!
The last parts fake. Ive heard this story tons of times and he never met the girl in the coffee shop unfortunately. So basically the story ends with hannah playing the victim over the breakup.
The whole thing is fake but the last half is even faker and an addition to the reddit story
Which was fake
Paragraph guy, where are you?
Part 2 please
Why just cut off like that? This was supposed to be the full story.
Did something go wrong with the video or something?
Next part please please
Why do this to people
Part 2😭😭