UNLEARNING THE PORN EXPERIENCE | SOUL TIES 5 - PART 2 | Soila & Curtis
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
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Join in the conversation of this Part 2 as we debunk the errors and wrong attitudes learnt from our first sex encounters that we spoke about in the part 1 video.
Also, check below a link to some of the Ted Talks highlighting the effects of pornography in society.
Why I stopped Watching Porn - • Why I stopped watching...
The Porn Paradox - • The Porn Paradox | Meg...
The Great Porn Experiment - • The great porn experim...
Pornography Isn't Your Problem - • Pornography Isn't Your...
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Here is a link to Power House. A Kenyan team that helps young people struggling with sex to get help. www.penstrokes...
Who else finds soilah's laugh so infectious 😂
I'm here binge watching your channel..and i have to comment on this.
So i am in campus and trust me how you ladies thought of sex while in campus is NOT what girls think of it now.
Virgins are unheard of...dryspells are unheard of..you are even laughed at if you havent gotten some in a while.
.our generation needs alot of guidance and holyspirit intervention!
You couldn't be more right
Really candid talk there... So relevant to this generation of ours where pretty much almost all of us are battling that moral illness. Keep the conversation going guys. I've gotten some good education here to be honest. Bless up people.
I'm glad to hear this Gideon. Baraka kwako pia.
True, many live in denial
This was so helpful, thank you guys. ♥ there's hope in Christ🙏
Who has this feeling that this ladies are not that open about their sex life compared to their spouses.
Hahaha. What you see is what you get Jeff. :-D
Ladies are more modest when it comes to sex issues....
They were virgins when they got married thats the difference
It is practical that way in this setting.
@@elizabethisrael4256 AIII HERE THY ARE JUST CHEATING US,.VIRGINITY MY FOOT
The fantasies result to high unachievable expectations. this was a necessary conversation.
Yes indeed. I am glad you found it pertinent.
I love your candidness. Great talk for our generation. Pornography breeds discontentment and disillusionment. I wouldn't say really call it having a soul tie with the porn star that you idolise or so but as you watch porn you open the door for evil spirits through your eye gate hence I understand what Curtis said that the guy found himself violent.
This is a very good and detailed breakdown. I love how you've put it. Slight correction though, it's not that you are having a soul tie with the porn actor but rather the idea of what they represent. Hence you will always aspire to sleep with people who embody that idea.
@@jimmycurtisiv3513 i have found the right word it creates a stronghold but we are basically on the same track of thought. Thanks for your reply
This conversation is reminding me of Joe Mwangi and Wendy Waeni story and the apparent Joe reviel. Porn is real and our kids are watching this staff, sorry I'm saying our kids coz I have two boys. We need to accept that our kids will watch it and then from that point start addressing the issue. I love this conversation
Parents need to be the first source of information regarding this things. That way, even if they get to come across porn, the education from the parent has more weight.
@@jimmycurtisiv3513 Absolutely I agree 100%
This one of your best videos. Kudos!
Plus I finally put a face to "Ja-mandas"
Soila and Curtis were abstaining when dating? That's a beautiful thing..Please tell us how you were able to do it..
Coming soon. :-)
This is very informative. Great talk guys! 👍👌
Thank you for being real... God bless you guys
Very informative as always 💯
Thank you.
Real talk....keep it up.Religion is good but can promote ignorance.
looove Loove The wamboyes Their Ministry is oh so awesooome👌👌And especially the wau they insist on the Word!!! They truly have been raised for such a time as this✌ Thank You guys keep the candid conversations coming it is from such that we trully learn✌✌
Yes Kez. The Wamboyes are a breathe of fresh air in our generation for sure.
Godly concepts Iam encouraged by such talks
Talk of the weekend starting Riiight..looove it already wacha sasa niwatch😃😃
I hope ulienjoy.
@@jimmycurtisiv3513 ouh yaaas nilienjoy na nikalearn👌
Sorry to the girls that Curtis explored
Thank you guys for having this conversation. I need some advice.
My younger brother gave his phone to our eldest after his got lost and now everytime he's home for school holidays, I normally lend him mine to chat with his friends. Recently, I noticed on the search history some strange URL that I had not accessed - a porn website.
I'm stressed because I'm wondering how to approach this conversation. So far I have only told him that I know he's been watching porn on my phone and I have since denied him access to it.
Obviously I can't tell my parents because they're old school hata they never talked to us older ones about sex sijui kule wanaweza anzia na huyu.
I would like to help him but I'm clueless since I've never been exposed to porn myself.
Help?
Hi, Monica. Let me recommend a video for him to watch. This video will at least help both you and him to know the depths of the damages of porn. Also, it will help if you just pray for him at your own time because it is one thing to be equipped with information, but it's another thing to have the grace to change. And most importantly, don't condemn him. :-) Find the links of the short videos below... Please let me know how it goes.
czcams.com/video/pp0Kewb-84s/video.html
czcams.com/video/NDuHMngC430/video.html
Hey I really understand your dilemma and it very obvious you are very concerned about your bro. Just take him out and while you are having a nice time talk to him about it, make him understand the impact of watching that staff. Let it be a friendship talk
@@jimmycurtisiv3513 thanks for your very helpful feedback and the the videos are the exact info I was looking for. My task now is to set up a time and place to share these truths with him coupled with prayer and I know God's grace will pull him out of this before it's too late.
@@raymurugz thank you very much. We're so close and I can think of a few places to take him where we can sit and talk.
Update: I had "the talk" with him and he was actually receptive to my advice because I came from a point of grace and understanding with no harsh or judgemental tone just a listening ear. Love really covers over a multitude of sins.
Thank you for your help, God bless you.
Still learning from you guy's, thumbs up 👍👍
Welcome. Stay tuned
I learnt a lot! God bless you
God bless you too.
This is awesome
Very informative💯
Enjoy. :-)
Soila 1 of these fine days you are gonna chew off your lower lips
We need to overcome the culture of purity the church and our parents force fed us.
Hallo Josephine
hey ya
Those things you regret when you're grown mazee hehehe you can't even tell people, as in what kind of man wishes they got married as a virgin hehehe regret is a bad thing for things you can't reverse especially. Life manenos.
Yep. Things we wish we new earlier. But now that we know... we can do something. :-)
Hi there, you guys makes very interesting video. I have a question, can a man make love to a woman with no feelings? Can he just be maybe sexually attracted to this lady that is why he has sex with her?
Yep, it happens all the time. I don't believe it's right but it happens.