IS PAYING DOWRY STILL WORTH IT? [RE-UPLOADED] || Queen of the Night Challenge || Soila & Curtis

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  • čas přidán 17. 08. 2023
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    Hey guys, thanks a lot for the love that you showed in this video. Unfortunately, we deleted the video by accident while making some changes on our CZcams studio and as a result, lost a wealth of wisdom and knowledge shared by you guys in the comments. We also lost the 19k views that we had already accumulated by that time.
    Kindly show the same love on this re-uploaded video by liking, commenting, and sharing.
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Komentáře • 49

  • @SoilaandCurtis
    @SoilaandCurtis  Před 11 měsíci +17

    Hey guys, thanks a lot for the love that you showed in this video. Unfortunately, we deleted the first copy of this video by accident while making some changes on our CZcams studio and as a result, lost a wealth of wisdom and knowledge shared by you guys in the comments. We also lost plenty of views that we had already accumulated by that time.
    Kindly show the same love on this re-uploaded video by liking, commenting, and sharing.

  • @njeriworldwide
    @njeriworldwide Před 11 měsíci +9

    That part where eddy is singing 😂😂I've had to replay it more than 10 times
    I dint see that coming😂😂😂😂😂eddy you must be happy now that my ribs are broken

  • @dianamaina7946
    @dianamaina7946 Před 11 měsíci +8

    Thank you for this topic: From experience, my hubby and I sat down and decided on not engaging in the dowry transaction..we agreed if it was to be paid it should be done to both sides ..and so we talked with our parents and they agreed... funny thing we faced a bit of a hustle with our relatives...but it all worked out...in as much as it is culture...we should demystify the importance of it.....I believe its not relevant in this day and age...n also we committed ourselves as a couple to support both our parents so that its not just a one day event that reminds you to appreciate them

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 11 měsíci

      I love this!. I would say that your parents are very reasonable. Obviousy the relatives would complain. 😅

  • @Achieng1326
    @Achieng1326 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I hadn't watched this episode yet...now I got to watch it 😊

  • @georgemusembi5489
    @georgemusembi5489 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Good Job guys. I'm a fan.

  • @monartv2924
    @monartv2924 Před 5 měsíci

    I'm glad I have a chance to watch this beforehand...atleast I'll have a know-how on how I'll handle any situation in the whole process if I'm to handle one.
    I've not been found yet but when time comes I'll be fully armoured thanks to you.
    Thanks online fam. Love how Soila tete'ad Curtis 😅.
    Cheers 🎉

  • @karibumerutanzaniaafrica2023
    @karibumerutanzaniaafrica2023 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Great conversations...
    Please bring part 2 if possible to get the thoughts of those who have been have been part of the dowry negotiations teams and parents who received the dowry..

  • @nancykings810
    @nancykings810 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Kadzo has beautiful hair
    I love it

  • @Lizmwangi9150
    @Lizmwangi9150 Před 11 měsíci

    These episodes are just something else 😍😍Suuugaaaaar😂😊❤

  • @LauraPosh247
    @LauraPosh247 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sure thing! ❤❤❤

  • @NKATHAMEMEnm
    @NKATHAMEMEnm Před 11 měsíci +2

    You guys are amazing ❤🎉🎉

  • @tabulousdivine7951
    @tabulousdivine7951 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Very very informative and funny session😂😂😂😂. Thank you for sharing this wonderful insights

  • @christinejuma4819
    @christinejuma4819 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Such a beautiful and insightful video😊

  • @patrickoloo2393
    @patrickoloo2393 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Soila negotiated on our boys behalf like a real G✊🏿

  • @sarahnyakara7185
    @sarahnyakara7185 Před 11 měsíci +2

    C'mon guys I like your thoughts juu hii kitu it's stressing kabisa for boy child

  • @jedidahmunyaka1463
    @jedidahmunyaka1463 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thankyou for this.

  • @Don_Pierre_K
    @Don_Pierre_K Před 5 měsíci

    I love Robbie Omol's point that, bringing up a child is (or was) a communal responsibility and because of this, parents would want their child to have a huge wedding to 'rudisha mkono' to al those people who helped and came through when their children were growing up. But I am of the opinion that, a wedding is a very intimate ceremony, and should not be used as an opportunity to 'rudisha mkono'. That can be done on other occasions: slaughter animals and invite people over or something.
    In my wife's community, a pregnant ewe is the most important part of the dowry, and once you have paid that you are considered a married couple.

  • @monicawanjikumwaura6689
    @monicawanjikumwaura6689 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Woi poleni aki for that accident. May you get even more views than before

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Bring more of this the conversation is really relatable ❤

  • @CHEF_ALEKHI
    @CHEF_ALEKHI Před 11 měsíci +1

    Best guys around

  • @judithokari8356
    @judithokari8356 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This topic is very interesting i remember in my case my dad said he is not selling me so he asked my husband to give a small token for the uncle's..but for him that too didn't matter. He just asked my husband to love and respect me thats it.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Před 11 měsíci

      Exactly! When a father is understanding and appreciative, the man automatically reflects the same.

  • @dominicajohn
    @dominicajohn Před 11 měsíci +1

    Am new in this family and you guys are on onother level.big up❤❤❤

  • @misula05
    @misula05 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Not even close to being married but loook at me enjoying! 😂

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Your intro always the best😂😂🤣🤣. Wa mwisho amejaribu na key yake😅. Soila ni kucheka tu😭

  • @sharzykish502
    @sharzykish502 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Wacu😂😂😂

  • @DAVIE5179
    @DAVIE5179 Před 10 dny

    sorry guys but dowry in itself is extortion..GOD already decided that 2 pple should be together...would GOD demand for a dowry payment.

  • @joyngaira
    @joyngaira Před 11 měsíci +2

    Soila😂😂😂😂😂😂