I'm so happy to hear that there are other people who told God that the next person I date has to be my spouse and it worked for them cause i'm in that season right now. I told God the same after my last heartbreak and i'm allowing Him to work on all my flaws and weaknesses so I can be ready for a Godly marriage. Been single for 4 years and still patiently waiting.
Self esteem is an issue for her. There is also trauma that needs to be dealt with. Sometimes people go so that God can work on you before the right person comes.
🔥🔥🔥! Wow, you did it again! As always Rhemani was the icing on the cake! Looking forward to the next one... I'm reminded of the 4 C's - Commitment, Conviction, Compatibility & Chemistry when "choosing" a life partner. If they pass that threshold, it's easier to work on anything else.
Here for the consistently wholesome content.. Feedback, keep this going in addition to the great content you're still churning out.. It has a personal touch..
Might consider having a discussion on this last topic. All of you had a lot to say on it but time may have been limited. Kadzo's husband's take on purpose was very profound Thank you for such an insightful installment And Rhemani.. my oh my! Such cuteness. You are highly blessed Soila and Curtis
I love love love this conversation...This is one of the best born again couple we are remaining with...Wengine they have a form of godliness but denying it's power .
"Isn't sacrifice Love ? " "A diminished view of Love." " Purpose is a baton to be passed on from generation to generation. " 🔥 The conversations are very eye opening. Thank you guys.
Yeah, I agree with Soila, it's best to let the men make the first move. The Bible even says, "He who FINDS a wife, FINDS a good thing." The man has to do the finding (and by proxy, the choosing)
Love is what will drive you in your purpose. Christ having seen the end endured to the end goal. When you get the end goal of the process of marriage, love will keep you going but not love in the sense of attraction (beauty is fleeting charm is deceptive) love in the sense of long suffering, no envy, no jealousy etc. About purpose before marriage, you will know during the dating stage or that stage before you date (The sampling state that the hurds were talking about.) Ed is right about the identity aspect when you know who you are and wherever you are heading, will inform the purpose that speaks to the relationship will get into otherwise you could end up as part of the statistics of people who split later
@@SoilaandCurtis Asante jus pray we find the right guy y'all look happy irregadless of small challenges I am still young hoping I'm on the right path kindly talk about Christian dating and how to avoid some things Mike toxicity at 20's.
I am glad subscribed to your channel today I have learnt a lot and written so much. when it comes to intimacy (how far is too far): 1 the Law of God 2. Don't get close to the fire and expect not to be burned Intimacy is not just about sex, it's also about deep conversations, doing something you both like, like hobbies. Asking in a relationship is very important 1. Ask if holding hands is okay 2. Ask if a kiss on the cheek or forehead is okay a relationship without boundaries is an open field that leads to a battlefield. Boundaries are very important in every relationship.
Marriage is about purpose in the context of God's initial intention for the institution...and that is to bring forth a Godly generation/offspring through the institution... marriage is a gift from God to us... incase we need to understand it's purpose we need to understand why it was given to us in the first place..love as the fruit of the Holy Spirit is a tool used to reflect the presence of the Holy Spirit in a relationship..hence the reason why we have to choose daily to Love our partners through the help of the Holy Spirit .
Well to be honest I believe women should not sit and wait for their destiny or life partner to be decided by a man . Im more liberal minded and so a woman can show interest in a man first. Thats called flirting or identifying your preference. However once the message has been communicated the lady needs to let the man know she prefers him to take the lead if hes interested in moving forward and ready. This gives women more choice and control over her life. She has a right to also show her interest because she has a heart and a mind too. Some men are very shy and have a hard time approaching a woman even if hes ready or interested. There is no formula. Mutual respect wins the day unless the man is conservative of course. Hey loved the discussion keep it up! 🎉
Onto the question of purpose vs love, the actual purpose of marriage is Love and submission as prescribed in the Bible. Husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, Wives should submit to the husband. That is simply to embed Godly order in marriage. While as individual there is a purpose God has ordained for and in us, knowing your partner's purpose shouldn't be the basis for the marriage as Love is the basis for marriage and it is unconditional. Knowing your partner's purpose is a PLUS in a relationship as it will help align your conversations, vision, focus and future plans as you put down plan and work to achieve the God given purpose. But Love is the greatest of them All.
I would like to comment on the question whether a girl should ask a man out Honestly I think its a masculine thing and there needs to be balance in the relationship because once you as the lady start giving masculine energy the man will give feminine energy in return and you find yourself always doing those manly thongs in the relationship so let the men do it sis
I'm so happy to hear that there are other people who told God that the next person I date has to be my spouse and it worked for them cause i'm in that season right now. I told God the same after my last heartbreak and i'm allowing Him to work on all my flaws and weaknesses so I can be ready for a Godly marriage. Been single for 4 years and still patiently waiting.
"With every obedience there is more revelation of the purpose"
What a mature, calm and introspective group. Keep up the good work.
I pray God to help me develop like them. They are extremely important and valuable to us
Thank you for your kind sentiments darkroom.
@@gilbert.mogere Amen to that!
Self esteem is an issue for her. There is also trauma that needs to be dealt with. Sometimes people go so that God can work on you before the right person comes.
Exactly!
😂😂😂 this is for Rhemani ... what a cute bond he has with mommy Soila
Hahahah. Momma's boy.
I am dating now and I remember my partner telling me...God made Him understand that Purpose comes like the rising of the sun...
Uuuuff. That's deep!
Deep
With every obedience, there's a new Revelation 👏❤
🔥🔥🔥! Wow, you did it again! As always Rhemani was the icing on the cake! Looking forward to the next one... I'm reminded of the 4 C's - Commitment, Conviction, Compatibility & Chemistry when "choosing" a life partner. If they pass that threshold, it's easier to work on anything else.
Loving the wholesome conversations💞💞keep them coming 🙏🏾
Here for the consistently wholesome content.. Feedback, keep this going in addition to the great content you're still churning out.. It has a personal touch..
Might consider having a discussion on this last topic. All of you had a lot to say on it but time may have been limited. Kadzo's husband's take on purpose was very profound
Thank you for such an insightful installment
And Rhemani.. my oh my! Such cuteness. You are highly blessed Soila and Curtis
Yes yes yes! ..... My type of group🎉🎉❤..a dose of good vibes and deep convos👏
I'm glad I found this channel. I think Voddie Baucham does a great work explaining what love is, esp. In Marriage
I already love the kid. You've taught him love, he is sooo adorable
I love love love this conversation...This is one of the best born again couple we are remaining with...Wengine they have a form of godliness but denying it's power .
I second you
Glory to God. continue to pray for us. It's by grace. 🙂
I just discovered the page and am loving it and having a lot of fun looking forward for more great conversations
Really enjoyed these sitdowns!❤🔥
I am really in love with these types of session if you can give us more of these with the three of you it so learning i just love the interaction
This is really amazing guys love your talks and the flow that comes out soo naturally
My first time here and am loving it😊
Wow, I love this❤
PLEASE DO MORE OF THIS❤
This is a great one😊❤❤🎉
Soila you have really spoken to me today. I will not be very specific about what exactly it is that you have helped me through but THANK YOU.
Thank you so much Dorah. Blessings to you.
I love this kind of talks
Very mature
I am hearing the things my ears have been waiting for.
With every obedience, there is a new revelation...
Embracing some really wise prospects of life from you guys..
Great job, keep them coming..
Thank you Mashanga. Glad you are enjoying the content.
Eddy Waruimbo never knew you a fluent revelational speaker. You have explained love and purpose ver well.
Kindly be dropping this kama doze😂prescribed by the doctor ,,I love it,,,,God bless you and keep you🙌
Hahahah. Noted. 😂
"Isn't sacrifice Love ? "
"A diminished view of Love."
" Purpose is a baton to be passed on from generation to generation. " 🔥
The conversations are very eye opening. Thank you guys.
Thanl you for watching Ruth.
Thank you guys for sharing these nuggets of wisdom.
The lady in the green sweater
Meen! Her eyes are something weee
Yeah, I agree with Soila, it's best to let the men make the first move.
The Bible even says, "He who FINDS a wife, FINDS a good thing."
The man has to do the finding (and by proxy, the choosing)
You can say that again!
Hahaaa quality survey got me.
You guys have a lot in similar ❤😂, how you talk and reason together is just amazing💯 ooh, and the in between humor😂❤. This channel is unique 🎉
Here for the commercial breaks courtesy of Rhemani😊
Hahaha. He never disappoints.
Hahaha the few ads I would never want to skip
This is awesome ❤❤pls bring more .
Love is what will drive you in your purpose. Christ having seen the end endured to the end goal. When you get the end goal of the process of marriage, love will keep you going but not love in the sense of attraction (beauty is fleeting charm is deceptive) love in the sense of long suffering, no envy, no jealousy etc.
About purpose before marriage, you will know during the dating stage or that stage before you date (The sampling state that the hurds were talking about.) Ed is right about the identity aspect when you know who you are and wherever you are heading, will inform the purpose that speaks to the relationship will get into otherwise you could end up as part of the statistics of people who split later
You can say that again! Well spoken Ivy. Thank you.
Great content..give us more since I'm learning a lot.
Oh Rhemani, isnt he the sweetest and the cutest❤such a sweet boy.
First time commenting and you guys are awesome❤
Thanks Blossom. Hoping to see more of your comments soon.
Keep up the whole team doing great work ...
Thank you Monica.
Good content for some of us that are in the long term journey plans....it's the kid for me God bless you more.
Thank you Tania. Blessings to you too.
@@SoilaandCurtis Asante jus pray we find the right guy y'all look happy irregadless of small challenges I am still young hoping I'm on the right path kindly talk about Christian dating and how to avoid some things Mike toxicity at 20's.
Great conversations people
Awesome content. I love. ❤
Amazing amazing sharing. Profound and powerful
Glad you are enjoying the content Tabulous.
I am glad subscribed to your channel today I have learnt a lot and written so much.
when it comes to intimacy (how far is too far):
1 the Law of God
2. Don't get close to the fire and expect not to be burned
Intimacy is not just about sex, it's also about deep conversations, doing something you both like, like hobbies.
Asking in a relationship is very important
1. Ask if holding hands is okay
2. Ask if a kiss on the cheek or forehead is okay
a relationship without boundaries is an open field that leads to a battlefield.
Boundaries are very important in every relationship.
Glad you have learned a lot Cynthia. Welcome aboard and feel free to binge.
Its the end for me "love covers a multitude of sin❤"
Kadzo from mother's by grace podcast,,yeeey😂🥰😍🥰
I have really enjoyed and learnt watching this ❤️
Thank you for watching Flo.
Learnt alot awesome couples do more of this😊
Thank you Joan. More coming soon.
This👌💯💯
more of these couple trio pliz🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amazing conversation 👌
Wow the talk is really nice and helpful 🤗
Glad you enjoyed it Missy.
This conversation was epic
Shukran. ☺
dated for two weeks, and moved in together, the vibe was vibing😍😍
How are you guys doing now?
Rhemani!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Waiting
Marriage is about purpose in the context of God's initial intention for the institution...and that is to bring forth a Godly generation/offspring through the institution... marriage is a gift from God to us... incase we need to understand it's purpose we need to understand why it was given to us in the first place..love as the fruit of the Holy Spirit is a tool used to reflect the presence of the Holy Spirit in a relationship..hence the reason why we have to choose daily to Love our partners through the help of the Holy Spirit .
Yeeeeeesssss!!!
I need more of this
More on the way.
Well to be honest I believe women should not sit and wait for their destiny or life partner to be decided by a man . Im more liberal minded and so a woman can show interest in a man first. Thats called flirting or identifying your preference. However once the message has been communicated the lady needs to let the man know she prefers him to take the lead if hes interested in moving forward and ready. This gives women more choice and control over her life. She has a right to also show her interest because she has a heart and a mind too. Some men are very shy and have a hard time approaching a woman even if hes ready or interested. There is no formula. Mutual respect wins the day unless the man is conservative of course. Hey loved the discussion keep it up! 🎉
We come from the same school of thought. As a woman you ought to put yourself out and there is actually nothing wrong with showing interest.
Onto the question of purpose vs love, the actual purpose of marriage is Love and submission as prescribed in the Bible. Husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, Wives should submit to the husband. That is simply to embed Godly order in marriage. While as individual there is a purpose God has ordained for and in us, knowing your partner's purpose shouldn't be the basis for the marriage as Love is the basis for marriage and it is unconditional. Knowing your partner's purpose is a PLUS in a relationship as it will help align your conversations, vision, focus and future plans as you put down plan and work to achieve the God given purpose. But Love is the greatest of them All.
I would like to comment on the question whether a girl should ask a man out
Honestly I think its a masculine thing and there needs to be balance in the relationship because once you as the lady start giving masculine energy the man will give feminine energy in return and you find yourself always doing those manly thongs in the relationship so let the men do it sis
Hey Curtis, what does it mean to discern a marriage/relationship and purpose in a relationship.help me understand this please
This is informative
Glad you enjoyed it.
This is amazing...kindly nipitie pia plz
hahaha.
Ati of course I want to go 😂 😂
😂😂
Super work
❤❤Amaizing
Aahh Remani😂😂😂❤
Thank you
❤❤❤
Another one please
Coming right up. Stay tuned. 😊
❤❤❤❤❤
I'm in my early 23 and i really love watching this couple 🙏🙏🙏🙏 big up
Premier gang kama kawaida
Pewa flowers. 😂
Such Content is Lit ... do more
Thanks Kibet. more coming up.
You make Godly marriage look so deep
It is. 🙂
Because it is deep...lol😅
WUEEEEE I HAVE TO HAVE MUM......i see dad in that statement
Ethan and Curtis kinda look alike and Soila and makena look like sisters
Hahaha. Siblings from another mother.
Have come to love you!
Much love back at you too Jenes.
My mind as a nurse when l hear compatibility 😂 genotype
Alafu how can one be able to contact you???
Dating is collecting data.
Aki Rhemani
So you guys dated for 4 years and there was no sex,???
Yes. Temptations were plenty but we had a good system of accountability to keep us from indulging.
I have just watched your abstainance story, it's amazing
Amen... So it is very possible..
NO
I am really in love with these types of session if you can give us more of these with the three of you it so learning i just love the interaction