She Couldn't Escape From The Girl In Her Aunt’s House
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- čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
- In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, we have the privilege of hearing from Heaven Darlene, who bravely shares her personal journey. Growing up, Heaven faced immense challenges that no child should ever have to endure. While staying with her aunt, Heaven found herself in a situation that profoundly impacted her life. Despite the difficulties she faced, Heaven's resilience and strength shine through as she recounts her experiences.
As a mother, Heaven has channeled her past into a powerful message of empowerment and awareness. She is dedicated to teaching her daughter the importance of open communication and recognizing potential signs of harm. Heaven's story serves as an inspiration, reminding us of the transformative power of speaking one's truth and the role we all play in creating a safer world for future generations. Join us as we listen to Heaven's unfiltered story with an open heart and a compassionate ear.
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Thank you so much Unfiltered stories for letting me tell my story. This was hard to tell but you guys made me feel very comfortable to go into depth and tell it all, thank you for this opportunity. Thank you everyone for your kind and encouraging words it means a lot to me. I meant to have them include my CZcams channel as well in the social medias where you’ll be able to see more of me. This was hard and emotional watching back but amazing to watch what I went through.
What is your CZcams is it the name that comes up in the comments ..
I have to say I love your dad's approach to everything and I understand what he means but they didn't know they would have to protect you from another female but I love that your dad still stood his ground and told you no it was not ok .. And with the girl it makes me wonder did she not remember she did that or did she think that was normal because maybe that was done to her but it makes you really think ... You are a strong women and you are a survivor always remember that..
Thank you for sharing your story Heaven 🖤 My sister was victimized by another sister for years and it still causes division in my family. So familiar with same sex abuse. You are a light in this world, stay blessed beautiful
Your amazing
Keep on working on getting stronger.
Kids on kids molestation is real u gotta watch kids around kids Also
Absolutely. They perpetuate what they have experienced…
@@BreeziDeezi not always.
I had a similar incident with a foster kid, my nana use to foster kids and I was 10 and he was about 16 and he asked me to show him my privates, I knew it was wrong I said no and told my mama and nana right after. He was gone shortly after, I bet he’s somewhere terrorizing somebody.
this is almost my exact story. an older female cousin was my abuser. i’m so sorry u went thru this but u came thru beautiful and strong love 😢❤
😢same here older f cousin. I still haven’t said anything
@@princesswmh8907 i’m so sorry love . whenever are ready you should speak up and definitely seek counseling. it was not your fault. please remember that ❤️
@@princesswmh8907 GIRL REVEAL THEIR EVIL ASS!
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Yup my older cousin molested me as well. It took me years to finally tell my family. I was 9 she was 14 🤦🏽♀️
It's a sad situation, she was most likely an abused child who was put into foster care, wasn't put into any therapy, was failed by the system and repeated her abuse cycle with other children. Often when children are the abusers, it's hard to navigate the situation because both of them are victims.
They want these kids to initiate other kids into these behaviors.
I agree.
I know it is sad, but this lady broke the cycle
@coochi3516 who?
@@justaturky2890 majority of society. How many parents ask where their kids learn about xes? Not many and for a reason. They’re all weird
Im glad that heaven parents apologized to her they totally didn't handled the situation right
Same thing happened to me as a child. My best friend who was a year older was molesting me. She was moslsted by her older sisters. LAst time I saw Tanny, she was locked in her own mind. Wasn't talking or anything. Just horrible.
Wow heartbreaking 🥺
This exact same thing happened to me by my cousin older friend I was 6 years of age playing tag in my aunt's driveway and she took me in the abandoned car and touch down there while kissing me sadly the same thing I've tried to block that out of my mind for over 20 years I am now 33 and I was only forced to speak about my trauma due to my son having a personal experience in August that passed this year I then to decided to inform my mother who I thought would be remorseful I just comforting a listening ear or just mindful but when I told her no response she didn't call me when I told her who it was her best friend's sister no response I don't know if she thought I was deflecting which I was not I was just telling my truth I don't want my son to feel like he was alone and I need your help to understand that I understand but I'm going to guide you and help you through this and you did nothing wrong that's what I expected for my mom I didn't get that and for years how to understand why am I trying to amend a relationship that's not wanted I have my own family I'm creating the unconditional love that I experience with my own family I didn't get that for my mommy I got that from my great-grandmother and my grandfather I am loving on my kids the correct way and I really believe that is something that my mother couldn't do that's why it's so hard for her to deal with me which is her harsh reality of Truth because I am the truth the child of God this is sickening how this happened so often and it gets overlooked or swept under the rug or we get called Liars this happened again to me when I was 15 with my aunt's boyfriend he helped me a gunpoint. My mom's mother told my aunt when I broke free out of the house I ran to my aunt and my grandmother and my grandmother replied I told you she was going to try to f*** your man😢💔 I'm 15 I'm heartbroken my father isn't here to protect me my grandfather is in here to protect me my great-grandmother who raised me is in a whole different state we've been relocated due to Hurricane Katrina, an I hear my mother's mother say something SICK AS THAT❗️TO THINK I would really do something like that broke me💔 to the core I am crying now❗️ the people will Low key despise you and hate you and you wouldn't even be aware of it, until you're older❗️💁🏽♀️this is what my great-grandmother was protecting me from all along ,she knew that her kids and grandkids were sick and fucked up🤷🏽♀️ I have learned to not deal with those people for once I prove to my mother that her best friend's sister molested me I am literally taking a lie detector test because my mom doesn't believe her firstborn daughter once I prove to her this happened she thinks I'm finished with her now she will really see how cold-hearted how Non nurturing, manipulative nasty she has been being towards me throughout my entire life not taking any accountability this is what she exposed and left me open to when she chose the streets over her kids and I refuse to be like her I am a better mom than she would ever be no competition but I refuse to make those mistakes because she knew better but didn't want to do better
@@sunshine_thee_og i am so proud of you for taking this horrible experience and using it as motivation to be a better mother to your son than your mother was to you❤
WTF WOULD YOU CALL SOMEONE WHO IS MOLESTING YOU YOUR BEST FRIEND?
See I knew I wasn't going to let it break me, so I damn sure let it make me the individual I am today, my way of taking negative situations and transmitting them into something positive. until I found out my nature and gift of being an alchemist, so I'm grateful for that✨️🙌🏾 I've learned that I can't stay a prisoner stagnant in those situations I had to keep moving forward for my own inner peace and healing, okay that happened to me and it damaged me tremendously however what's next what can I do balance the situation, that's where I'm at. I have my second Channel I'm working on. I will be doing my podcasting along with my tarot reading, sharing the knowledge being a guide for others, and and moving forward knowing that you can't stop the Sun from Shining so thank👏🏽✨️💕 you I greatly appreciated
Dear god. They say kids who abuse WERE abused! Sad situation for everyone
ALMOST 💯!
@@princesswmh8907 almost?
It's a narcissist lie from hell. Real victims are trained to be victims not perps.
You know what's interesting about this theory...my older sister was 6 years older than me. She was my protector, guide, superstar etc. We weren't watched over well and I shared a room w her for 5 years. That's to say she had ample opportunity to abuse her position. She was abused for years by a diff sister who was 5 yes older. This was well known and swept under the rug. My big sister never touched me, she wasn't even mean to me. She was kind. So w my experience I always wonder about the theory you commented. Just a curiosity 🫶🏾
@@thefreequencyStatistically, 70% of people who were abused DO NOT go on to commit abuse themselves. But are 6 times more likely to commit abuse. Your sister was just in the higher end of the percentage who doesn't and hasn't.
the same thing happened to her but the thing is she also knew it was wrong because she chose to do it at night in private . A child has to be held accountable for their actions.
Thank GOD this woman has non abusive parents!
I never let my kids spend the night anywhere....period
Dead ass
Whats crazy is a lot of these stories involve a bio father or sibling
I hope the adults in the situation got the foster child some help as well & didn’t just ship her away w/o finding out where that behavior came from. She was most likely touched before she started violating other children
Foster parents don't have those types of rights. Sadly.
Heaven from one survivor to another by telling your story you are helping others i hope that you are on your journey to heal from your trauma
As a social worker, I’m so happy that she made this video (given the unfortunate circumstances); I’m so happy she learned the lessons she learned to protect her own family! Her parents are awesome & Parenting doesn’t come with a instruction guide, we all learn by trial & error, unfortunately!
I can relate to this. I was 5 years old when I was molested by a girl who would babysit me. I grew up as confused.
did it affect your sexual orientation?
Dang, you must’ve lived in a small city to keep running into this female. Cuz that’s creepy all the encounters. And having to keep seeing her. And reliving the experience and than her with the social media. Oh hell no, so sorry this happen !!!
I understand too well, I always downplay what happened to me but it def hits when you can understand what happened to you and how bad it actually affected you.
It is a matter of great concern that children can exhibit predatory behavior. During my upbringing, my mother and grandmother emphasized the need for caution when interacting with ADULTS, particularly men. Surprisingly, a significant portion of the sexual abuse I endured was perpetrated by children (FEMALES) of the same age as me. This perplexed me, as I had been taught that only adults engage in such inappropriate acts. Due to this confusion, I refrained from confiding in my mother about my experiences. However, when I eventually opened up to her, she shared her own unfortunate encounters. Together, we reached an understanding and decided to provide comprehensive education to the younger members of our family, in order to prevent them from experiencing similar abuse.
She is so sweet. I’m sorry this happened.
This happened to me as well but it was by my neighbors granddaughter. I was 10 and she was 18. I trauma blocked so bad, I made myself forget everything about her.
Glad your parents protected you afterwards bless up
My son was molested by his father, my son was acting out, I did pay attention to him I was going through a divorce at the time I put my divorce on hold to help my son
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DiannaChamp-nn I be praying for you and your beautiful family please keep you head up please allow God to heal you and your beautiful family be blessed queen ❤❤
And I hope he's in JAIL
@DONNELLOHow did you get that out of what she said? People do separate 🤦🏾♀️
Your comment came off condescending and snobby 😂 it’s like you’re looking down your nose at ppl who DIDNT SEE THE SIGNS but congratulations to you and yours
The abused becomes the abuser
Facts
People have to be careful because it is a lot of female predators who prey on your daughters and sons, that take their innocence away. You have to watch your children around all kids doesn't matter their sex because the thing is some children been exposed to more than others have, such as they might have been abused themselves, they have access to porn at a young age, they have access to R rated movies and TV shows. Because I literally was having a conversation with a co-worker and he was talking about Power when it first came out, now mind you I don't watch it but I'm smart enough to know that ain't a kid show and he was talking about he watch it with his kids and I told him, he shouldn't be because that show got a kid of adult content and so they will go to school and expose some other child who still a child to some adult content they saw on Power.
End of the day protect your children from other children and other adults and listen to your child when they say somebody touched them or they don't like to be around somebody because it might be because they sense evil or that person has touched or attempted to touch them. I don't care if it's another child or an adult.
I considered fostering a child ., then decided against it. At the time my kids were young and I wasn’t going to take the risk of them damaging my kids.
This is wild, especially for how many years she felt it okay to harass her 🤦🏻♀️ but i do hope Heaven has healed 🙏🏻
Yes it was a lot for me and I feel that you can never fully heal, there’s always challenges and triggers but I’m definitely way better after I was able to also see a therapist and talk about it more and telling my story on social media ❤️
@@HeavenDarlene I don't know how anyone could fully heal after hearing yours and others quite horrifying stories 🥺 but I'm glad you were able to find some peace, therapy is definitely something most of us should access cause I feel like it would be quite helpful. It is wonderful to hear from the person who shared their story tho, I did not expect that. But thank you 🙏🏻 I hope you're doing well, and I'm sure you've helped a lot of others, especially who didn't have the courage to come forward with their own story of abuse
@@brey1720 Yes I am Heaven Darlene. I am the one who told the story
So sad you had to get through this, you have come out very mature, thank you for sharing your pain and allowing light to come to this and encouraging other people to speak up... ✨💖✨
I can understand why you're like rhat with your children because I'm the same way very protective because I was molested countless times growing up and I never want them to experience that type of pain. Thank you for sharing your story!
That's how a parent is suppose to apologize.
This is how alot of the children get turned out. She put a spirit on you. The trauma was the portal. The greatest victory is to repent and overcome. Christ can restore you wholly. Blessings.
It's sad that adults would just assume a child is playing when being told they were touched inappropriately. That's why the black community is jacked up now, too much sweeping stuff under the rug and not believing kids when they try to protect themselves and prevent it from happening again.
Ma'am it's definitely not just a black community thing.
@@kandylaland Did I say that it was??
@@brownskinbeauty. lol you getting smart when you literally singled out the black community
@@kandylaland I'm not getting smart, I've already been that. But clearly you aren't based on your comment so I'm not going to waste my time going back and forth with you.
@@brownskinbeauty. girl 😂 why TF would u specifically single out one ethic group, insinuating that this issue is solely a black issue? Just pure ignorance
Bless you in your journey girl 🎉 and you're parents
I'm glad you told your story.
She never finished saying what happened with their lunches?
Wow I experienced sexual abuse from my girl cousin. Thank God im no longer victim and God bless you on your healing journey
I'm so sorry that happened to you and I hope you healed ❤️🙏🏽
I feel so bad for that foster child I know she has been molested as well. Probably by an adult. No child does that for no reason including the mentally disabled. She probably has mental illness due to the abuse she suffered
People need to talk about this more. Its still such a taboo topic but girl to girl or woman abuse DOES HAPPEN!
Im sorry that happened to u.
thank you so much for talking abt stories of csa (or sa in general) from women, it needs to be talked about more and it helps me a lot as a victim of csa from women, much love
Truly heartbreaking sorry you went through God bless you 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you Heaven! This is like my story too, a second cousin, two years older than me, female, we would be playing up in my room and it would end up with me on the bed and her doing stuff to me. She would be forceful. I just laid there frozen. It happened a few times, I don't know how many exactly. After a while, when asked if I wanted to play with so-and-so, I would say no. Like you said Heaven, it's hard to put a word to describe how it changes you.
I too was molested by my dad’s girlfriend’s daughter. I was 8 she was 18. I had no idea what she was doing to me. I just lay there. I never ever told anyone. I wish l had said something to my dad. 😢 My mom died when l was 5.
Crazy gotta teach ya kids what's Normal and what's not smh sad for her , don't say ya family was tight and you didn't tell 😢
That same thing happened to my little sister.Our Uncle(who molested me & several of my relatives)was dating a woman.And she had a daughter.She would sleep in bed with my little sister and little brother.This little girl would bully my little sister & brother.I’m thinking my Uncle most likely molested her then she molested my little sister.💔
Brave young lady. ❤❤❤❤❤
The sad part is that this type of behavior is Taboo in the black community. So many of us have experienced this kind of behavior from family members. It is shoveled under the rug and never discussed again. It was covered up with a lot of children go through this bcuz they are discovering their bodies.
I really wish yall would stop with "in the black community "" this is taboo in every community there is are yall not listening to the others tell yall this
I'm so sorry 😞
This also happened to me but with an older cousin, I was 9 and she was 13/14
She is beautiful
Hi was helping with a forest child she looked 15 but only 8 or so she lied and she i call her a mf i would never call a child names like that cause some conflict with our family praise God we back on the same page 😢😢💔💔💔💔😞😢 im sooo sorry you went through all this abuse and grief and pain and drama God bless you queen you didn't deserve that treatment at all 😢😢
What?
@@Star_07835Right like wtf they talkin about?
You'll get a headache trying to read this.😖
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I think adults want to believe it's not big deal every time their children tell them about something that is triggering them, someone (child,adult) is making them feel uneasy. Like, they don't want to feel they have "failed" their children so they downplay the issue...that's actually just going to make things worse.
I haven't been molested by women or men but 2 men have made me feel uncomfortable. The first man was in his 70's and I was 14 when he tried to approach me through Gmail. He was going to the same church I was going. I told my dad how he could even find my email account and my dad never questioned this man. Never thought something was off. He preferred to believe that man had good intentions to talk with a 14 year old.
The second man I met him at work and he was my supervisor. I'm 26 and except for the weird situation with the old man I have never felt uncomfortable around men. I had the idea "I'm not pretty so no one will try to do something inmoral to me". I was so wrong. That man was very touchy but he chose moments when he knew nobody was seeing him. I decided to quit 1 month after this situation. I wasn't brave enough to talk about this with the manager and that is still haunting me.
I am Praying for you and I hope that you find love and peace
It sounds like you have a wonderful family that was supportive. I think your famiily didnt quite understand the extent of what happened to you and i know they geel guilty.
💜💜💜
As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Gen 3 is a "Monster" (2003). Monsters do what monsters do. I personally stay away from monsters, because I have always understood monsters do not care for me.
This brings back a memory. A long time ago, one of my "Monster" (2003) co-workers was always excited to talk to me about how turned on by girls they are. I did not want to hear it, because it is not natural. Everytime I attempted to walk away, they would walk beside me smiling (sing it "The O'Jays - Back Stabbers") and continue talking to me about just how turned on by girls they are. It was equivalent to having a swarm of gnats I just could not get away from. They would talk to me about girls the way school boys would talk about girls. Approximately 99% of my co-workers were female, therefore I was very much outnumbered.
I was telling my wife, I can not teach the word of God, then live contrary to the word of God. That would make me a hypocrite. That is not a good title to have. Eph 5:22-33, 6:1-4
Ty for sharing ur story😢
This happened to me too 😢
Sending ❤ I'm sorry this happened to you and I can relate to the social media stalking the same thing happened to me with my mom's ex-husband that used to touch me inappropriately SA me as a child I literally have him blocked like four times or more on Facebook and every few years he makes a new page to stalk me to this day the last time was maybe 2 years ago or so
Is sick because I'm happy you spoke out I am 33 years old and I blocked this out for so many years at the tender age of 6 I was molested by my older cousin's friend she was a girl while we were in my aunt's driveway playing tag it she took me to abandoned car in the same driveway of my aunts and assaulting me touching on my private parts I didn't know what was going on I didn't know what to do and something happened with my son where I was forced to tell what happened to me this is August this year as this going on with my son I reached out to my mom to inform her what happened to me when I was younger cuz I've never explained or told anyone else would you all believe I got no response I got no comment I got no remorse so I'm seeking to take a lie detector test I'm going that far because for years I've been looked at as the Black Sheep I've been looked as the one who's different but I've experienced, on a whole another level and I understand now why I don't trust people so I'm only doing this lie detector test to prove to myself my mom mainly because it was her best friend's sister who did that to me her best friend is my nanny sadly so I was always around my abuser that's why I never had the heart or courage to say anything 😢 I remember around that same time they tried to lie and say my uncle had touched you I had the school principal😢 a doctor and my great-grandmother constantly asking me these questions regarding my uncle and that never happened but they never specified what gender I think they were just trying to blame my uncle because he was already Targeted while he was a teenager in high school they slipped a Mickey in his milk and that messed him up but he was never messed up to that extent where he will hurt his nieces of nephews❗️ my uncle had all his senses❕️ my uncle is my second daddy❗️🎯🤷🏽♀️ that man loves us and still loved us dearly and treat our kids the same way he treated us he loves them. My kids already know that I'm honest I've always been honest some folks just literally sick so I thank you for speaking up I commend you it gave me courage to speak about my story even more. Assistance happened with my son in August I've been eager to tell my story share my story so others can show their trauma and learn how to move forward in their life and not be hindered and stagnant in that energy because It can make you or break you, but I choose to let it make me
I wonder who was hurting that little girl as well. Really sad.
It sounds like she was abused as well and thought it was normal to do it with you and others sad
I really hate that some words are bleeped out. We know what the words are, does youtube think we can not handle them? Or is it really difficult for victims of these words to hear them?
So sad
Damn you so beautiful and im apologize with the situation with what happened to you
Not that I am at all condoning what the girl did, it was 💯 percent wrong and Im so sorry you experienced that.... But do you think the girl was gay too and was trying to figure out her own sexual orientation....
Adults know that family can be dangerous too and prey on the young. Don’t make excuses for moms neglect. She didn’t teach you bc they are complicit
The adults in this story make me so angry. How do you respond so irresponsibly to a child’s revelation of SA?
what in the antione fisher non sense?!! these stories make me soo sad
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halfway I didn't understand the story again
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌
she doesn’t describe the girls appearance, and some the story is frigates to
God bless n ur daughters but it be family but it’s not the knew family it’s the older growner family with grandma n great grandma 😮😢
Thank you ❤❤❤- Xclusyph Icon
Sounds like that girl touching and kissing her was discovering that she's gay or bi, but she should have found someone older to experiment with not a little girl unless she herself was a little girl too, but still at that age, hands off.🤔
Seems odd that everywhere she goes she runs into that girl, who ironically still tries to reach out to her. I believe that's some sort of shape shifter.
I never victim shame… however! Something about this story just not sitting right 🤷🏾♀️… she is not convincing 🤷🏾♀️
How is she supposed to be convincing? That's weird!
VVHITE folks too. No just blaks.
Errbody love Tupac and Snoop 🤟
LMAO
It’s real victims out here who going through real shit…Get tf on with this weak ass story
Doesn't sound like anything happened really some kissing nothing to see here!
JESUS LOVES YOU 🙏 🌹
So we're you gay or did she make you gay ?
No one can make u gay
She made her gay
@@kandylalandthat’s a lie do you know most people are gay because they were Molested I was sa by my girl cousin at the age of 5 I grew up thinking it was normal I believe I would never be into women if she never took my innocence from me I still till this day fight my mind on what I want women or man
@@kiannapierre7500 your sexuality is a personal battle of yours! I stand on what I said can't nobody make u gay!
@@kandylaland I understand your pov but does make you confused though and that’s facts stand on what you say we both have opinions respect half the people who was molested by the same sex have questions about they’re sexuality look at Tyler Perry or these interviews with people that have been molested
This is just a lesbian story.