How Four Siblings Left A Toxic Family Environment
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- čas přidán 23. 08. 2024
- In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, we have the honor of listening to Sabrina Young's personal journey. Adopted as an infant, Sabrina faced significant challenges growing up in a home environment that was far from nurturing. From a young age, she had to navigate a complex relationship with her adoptive mother, who treated Sabrina and her siblings in ways that no child should ever experience.
Despite the hardships she faced, Sabrina has shown remarkable courage and resilience in her healing journey. Through therapy and speaking out about her experiences, she is shedding light on the often-overlooked challenges that can arise within the adoption process. Join us as we listen to Sabrina's story with empathy and learn from her powerful insights.
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I do
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As an adoptee, I totally believe what she is saying. I think the worst part of abuse is feeling like we were unloved by our biological parents and then unloved and abused by an adoptive parent. I feel sorry for all the children who have suffered abuse and have life-long sadness and other mental health issues. We are survivors.
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You are the true warriors
This is why I didn’t put my son up for adoption after it was too late for an abortion. I was not going to trust this world with my child!
I know this doesn’t help but your parent giving you up for adoption has absolutely nothing to do with you. They’re the ones with the demons. I hope you know you are just as important as every other person in the world. And if you are a good person, maybe even a little more important than most. I hope you can one day heal.
Boy o Boy God is going to get them each an everyone that knew about it an did nothing.
Why adopt a child from a race you hate. Smh. 🤦♀️ These are sick disgusting people. Glad this lady made it out to tell her story.
This is a new low for ws racists. It's like the hate is so deep that they think of new ways to torture kids because of it.
You dont get a choice when you adopt its whatever comes first and you take the kid. You get a (depending on state) check of $300-$900 a month per child. Its "extra" money that these parents get towards bills and they leave the children to suffer.
To treat them bad.. people do this all the time it’s to mess up the kids so they are no use to themselves
People shouldn’t be allowed to adopt any child, if that’s their attitude towards any race, they’re not fit to be parents!
Money
All adopted children should automatically have their DNA tested and added to a data base where they can connect with family members
Very good idea
@@angiebee3581 thanks. I would personally pay for it if I was a case worker.
Great in theory however there are a multitude of reasons that a person puts a child up for adoption. In the best case scenario a child might meet a parent who just simiply didn’t want them or couldn’t take care of them. In worst cases we have ppl who put their child up for adoption due to drug addiction, abuse within the home, mental issues, etc. not all family members want to or are able to connect not to mention it’s not always the best case for the child to reconnect with parents. I know someone who reconnected with parents who were pretty much scammers and just wanted money. Also with safe haven laws some children just won’t have a family member on record
@@jj4754 Exactly. The idea has good intentions and would probably be great in the majority of cases, but as you've laid out, there are just some instances where this would not work or be beneficial to either party.
This is a terrible idea. A lot of the time these kids are but up because they come from unstable, dangerous environments. Not to mention the lack of choice these children would to opt out of such a thing as they’re children and they’ll have no idea what they’re singing up for. Yeah this is a terrible idea
THIS SHOULD BE A LAWSUIT 😡😡😡
Factssssss
Let’s start a petition or something for her!! ❤
Yeah seriously
I'm with you
The gov places children carelessly with pedophiles and abusers every single day. It is so common the children are diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and bipolar and thrown away in the psychiatrix system to discredit cult abuse. They do not care and never will.
For her biological mother to be alive the whole time & tell her "she doesn't regret her decision" I would have caught a charge that day!! The selfishness, to keep having children, that you put into a demonic system..To lie to the father! So sorry that this evil happened to all the children .
Me too
Im so glad that these horrible places are being shut down and that many people are speaking up about what they went through
Im so sorry that happened to you. I pray for your complete healing. You are loved
I'm sorry that happened to you.Your adopted mother shouldn't have adopted you if she hated you
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That's messed up that her mother lied about her dying just to give her up. Her father and his family loved and wanted her and would have gave her a better life
Sad.
This is the most hurtful
It’s scary, the evil that exists among us. Who could hurt innocent, precious children? I’m so sorry you went through this. Thank you for helping children through your mission and your work.
My emotions are all over the place, and I couldn't form a comment..but this is everything I was thinking and feeling!!😢
@@angeniquehopkins5246 please hug and love on as many children as you can. My prayer [so far, unanswered😓] is to eliminate this vile sickness in our society. Healthy children grow into healthy adults. It’s no wonder why our world is in crisis. I respect survivors who can turn their pain into life work to help others going forward. Please be strong! 🙏🏽♥️
Apparently so many people could hurt a child…these stories are never ending.
@@dinkyboss yes, unfortunately 💔
I will never understand why people adopt only to mistreat innocent babies who have already been through enough. There are far too many people adopting for money or some sort of motive other than to afford these babies a better life than they were living. You are strong luv continue to use your testimony and strength to inspire other individuals who may have experienced or are experiencing similar if not the same situations you have
Indeed. A lot of people just do it to get money from the state. They really most times don't love the kids. It's all about the money.
Ritual abuse. Cult.
I'm from Louisville,Ky and my best friend is from Jacksonville,FL. She does training for foster parents about racial trauma and I teach on haircare and transracial adoption. I need to meet this woman asap. Would love to have her come to an event as a guest speaker.
Sounds like it's kismet!
Hi what does transracial adoption mean?
@@Chunlialways means adopted by another race pretty much
She’s biracial raised by racist white people that supposedly don’t exist.
I'm so sorry, Sabrina. You deserved all the love in the world and everyone failed you. You are infinitely loved
God bless this young lady, she has endured pure hell.
Man this story sounded like a scary movie! She went through the woods and the person that was there on the road takes her back to the starting point. Smh. I’m so glad she’s safe now and actually created a movement! I encourage everyone with a story to find healing then share your testimony in order to help someone else. You’d be surprised at what still goes on today. Our stories might be the one to help free them.
Man it was a scary movie ! This is America! Where children get shit on all the time ppl just hide it very well .
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They have some real devils in this world. When your own dont want you this is what happens. Very very sad indeed.bunch of monsters. The great america not.
That's what happened to Paris Hilton when she ran away. Her mother told her she could come home and she would come get her but it was the cops and they took her back where she was abused even more
@@jeraldisme wow! I’ll have to look into that story.
I was at a place called Lookout Mountain School for Boys in Golden, Colorado. Has anyone heard of it? I was there when I was 14 til I was 16 and they couldn’t hold me any longer. I haven’t been able to find anyone that has heard of it all these years. I’m almost 60 now. It ruined my entire life.
You should consider making a video of your experience. You never know who might stumble on it.
Yes please do. Tell your story and I’m so sorry 😢❤
You are a survivor and i would like to hear your story
we would for you to share i agree please make a video
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As an adoptee myself who is bi-racial, I know she is telling the truth. I can also say she has reserved some of her story to protection her children. Some people believe once you have been released from the system, you are great now! Go live your life and stop with the past abuse. Get over it! My Dear I am so happy you found your pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, compared to many young ladies and men who were/are caught in the system. Thank you for sharing your story! I thank God that you have found your voice and for the beautiful little angels who were placed in our lives for protection. May God continue to bless you and your Family. I am so proud of you!🧖🏾♀️🌹🌹
The second highest group in foster care is biracial kids it’s horrible
If anyone shows that they have racist beliefs, they shouldn’t be allowed to foster or adopt any child!
praying for you babygirl 😢i am so so sorry. you’re strength is unmatched. if nobody tells you, I AM PROUD OF YOU❤ U MADE IT !
This story broke my heart! The CPS services in this country is a joke -- especially here in New York City. I am so happy you survived your abuse, married a good man, found your biological father and connected with your father's family. I wish you all the success and happiness 💜
It’s not just your country, sadly it’s the same in the UK
This is the perfect example as to why I don’t trust these kinds of adoption…these children always experience the racism from a certain demographic when they are adopted out to them. I feel a sorry t for her and this whole system failed her and caused her to feel worthless.
Saying that a certain demographic is racist, Is racist. You have a lot of people that adopt kids within their own race, and heras them. On other hand you have a lot of people that adopt kids, and threat them right. What about her own mother who was black like her, and gave her up for adoption. That was not enough so she had other kids, and gave them up for adoption. At the end she didn't even repent. On the other side her father was white, and would probably look for her, if he wasn't lied to by the same black mother. So let's not act like the whole other demographic is racist. Racism is not prevalent to one race only. That's why you have a derogatory terms for whites like "Craker".
I totally agree with your comment 👍
Exactly ! They tend to force the kids into situations where they’ll be ostracized
I definitely agree and this is the reason so many cultures prefer not to participate in transracial adoptions.
Right, they can't adopt Native American children legally, because of the history of what they've done to them. I think that same law should be applied to black kids, and in her case, biracial kids.
Girl, I have a similar story. Having been adopted. My adoptive mom was cruel.
I’m so sorry you went through that . Hugs 🫂
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Sometimes I'm just overwhelmed by the horrific stories I hear on CZcams. This young lady's story is so absolutely heartbreaking. Honestly the adopted mother and anybody else who treated this child badly needs to burn in hell!!!!
I was a teenage mother. I wasn't a perfect mother but I feel I did the best I knew to do. I never mistreated my son like the things I hear about on CZcams. I look at this beautiful young lady and I would have loved to have raised her and treated her with the respect and love that she deserved. I only had one child, my son. I can't figure out or wrap around my brain how people could mistreat children like that! I have to say it makes me really angry! She looks like she is strong now in spite of the evil that tried to destroy her.
This lady had a horrific life, & was treated like crap because of monsters. I 👏🏿 that she has found some form of peace in her life👏🏿❣️
This is beyond sickening and heartbreaking and pure cruelty. I hope to God you have a way to sue these monsters. I am so so sorry you went through this hell.
My mother would always say not to say anything to CPS because they’ll take you away and send you somewhere horrible where people are constantly molesting a touching on you, as if that wasn’t already happening in our household, but we didn’t want it to happen further me and me younger siblings (6) .
All my mom had to do was be really nice with the CPS worker and they would give her heads up on when they were coming over so she would have me and my sister clean up the whole house before CPS came to make it look like as if we were living in a really clean house when it wasn’t like that at all. I grew up with Rats, mice, cockroaches, mold, and me and my sister were always there to clean up everything.
My mother knew that me and my younger siblings were being molested by my older brother, but never did anything about it and even after I told her she still had my older brother babysit me and my siblings.
I know this is gonna sound mean, but I hope that everybody who treats little kids like that just goes somewhere the deepest parts of hell And is tortured for all eternity.
I am sorry had to go through that and I hope that you are able to get the help that you need to get past this, just remember that you did not deserve to be treated like that!!!
That’s what she told us . They’ll take you away give worse case scenarios and remind us that they separate siblings etc .
Unfortunately same thing happened to me
I'm so sorry that happened to you😢😢😢
Jesus! My head spun hearing the many chapters and places of unspeakable torture Ranisha endured. But as a mental health and human rights activist, I am overjoyed at the battalions of advocates that so many survivors of heinous and sadistic abuses have become. May this sweet and rightfully ballsy lady heal completely sooner rather than later. She’ll have a wonderful holiday season with so much family and love all over the map.
Her story made me cry, especially when she was welcomed by her dad’s family - I’m so thrilled that she finally found love, happiness, her own family, & her purpose.
Sabrina you are truly a survivor to overcome what you went through i am sorry that happened to you
What an incredible story. She survived all that. Wish I could hug you. Thanks for sharing your story!❤
Wow. This was so horrifying. This poor woman didn’t deserve this, but I’m glad that she had a happy ending where she found a loving husband and her biological father who actually wanted her and accepted her. I just don’t understand why her bio mom just didn’t give her to the bio dad instead of lying to him and saying that she was dead.
Because she was a hateful person as well. That's awful 😢
I was a adopted from an orphanage, abuse, I was told that I should be grateful that they got me from the rubbish dump, I could go on, but at 53 I got healing from a lifetime of feeling like shit, rape, broken facial bones, brutal, many crimes commited against me because I was a kid and nobody cared, just saying and all the rest, scaped goated right into adulthood all the time just wanting to be loved, grateful to find me, 55 now.
Paris Hilton spoke about these places she was sent to like a boarding school. This is horrible
Who cares about that insane rich out of touch woman.
Sorry you had such a terrible trauma in childhood. Your story brought tears to my eyes.You are a strong, brave, young lady. Wicked evil mother, why did she adopt children if she was going to mistreat the children? To have to even endure these wicked evil adults in your life. To have such a horrendous experience as a child. What kind of evil programmes are these? Children Services has a lot to answer to. So glad you got to meet your bi logical family.Glad you found love and had children. I pray continuous peace, love, light and healing over your life ❤💜
The atrocities this Beautiful Woman has suffered is monsterous… Getting up to tell her story regardless… This is what true strength looks like. Bless her❤
Just so evil and barbaric, demons underneath human skin.
Me personally this is exactly why I could never give my child away because you have no clue who you're giving them away to. Yeah no one wants to struggle as a single parent but I'm so very sure this girl would love to have been with her mom or dad even if they had to sleep in the same bed or have to use government assistance. What this girl went through is hell.
The entire world has gone mad.
I am so sorry you had to endure these horrible acts. You will never be able to remove these things from your mind, but I hope you find comfort within your marriage and your newly found family. ❤❤🌹🌹
These organizations should be shut down and the people arrested for child abuse. There is a place in hell for those monsters! I’m so glad that you survived! God Bless You!
In the early 80s I was close for a few years with a girl who lived in the foster home nextdoor. I’ve always regretted that I lost touch with her when we moved away. I tired unsuccessfully to track her down online from time to time. A few years ago I tried again and my heart skipped a beat when I found a facebook page in her name. It had been more than 30 years since I’d seen her, but the photo… those eyes. It was definitely her. The most recent post, written by her brother three months earlier, said that after a years-long battle, she’d finally succumbed to her addiction.
I was so devastated about her loss. About not having been able to tell her that I loved her and still though about her. That she had deserved so much more in her childhood than she got. That she mattered.
Your story is such a powerful reminder that each of us is stronger than we realize… that we are not our pasts. I only wish she’d known that.
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I'm an adoptee that got lucky. This burns me to the core. I've heard a lot of horror stories over the years from other adoptees. I'm so sorry for my brother's and sisters who were not loved as I was. I know adoption can and does work, but I also know how cruel people can be. I actually believe in abortion because I'd rather not have lived if I didn't have this particular life.
♥️♥️♥️ Stay strong doll‼️ You've already been through hell, you can make it through anything. They will reap what was sowed.
I hate when evil people use God or Christianity for their evil ways. God is love & those people will have to answer to the Creator for mistreating children. I'm so sorry she had to endure all of that horror, smh. Sending love.❤️
This is horrible! Traumatic AF. So sorry she had to endure this.
Im happy to hear you’re still with your husband ❤ that’s a blessing
I’m so sorry you had to endured so much abuse. Never stop sharing your story it will help others. Live your best life.
She has so mach life energy within her, despite her horrible childhood. She's a strong woman and I'm happy she's in a good marriage and that she met her father and his family.
She should find out a way to sue all those who mistreated her in court.
Can’t statues of limitations and alot of them are dead now .
My girl.. you have been through some serious stuff.. yet here you are, living like a champ and helping others. I can't wrap my mind around the fact that the adoptive family being ignorant enough to be racist yet adopting a biracial child.. that makes so little sense to me that's just horrible.. but I'm just happy to see that you have risen above it all and you are making a difference. I'm gonna go check out your socials and grab a copy of your book now.
❤ thank you!
I’m so sorry you went through all of that. It is horrible what people do to other humans, especially children..
I cannot imagine hurting my child, or any child. How sad.
I’m so proud of you young lady and so happy that life is going well for you right now. Stay strong and continue living your best life. You got this!!!!❤😊
I am so so sorry this happened to you. This was not your fault. I’m so glad you are able to go to therapy. You have always been worthy and wonderful. Telling your story is helping so many others.
How she so strong with all this happened to her. True hero
Finding your tribe is the best feeling ever. I found my 6 siblings and bio mom at the age of 30. There is still 1 sister who was adopted after birth but your story of the dna test has given me encouragement that we will finding her.
What a remarkable story! I'm so happy you turned your tragic past as a way to improve the lives of those who are like you. No child, teen should ever experience such abuse behind the guise of these so called Christians, who are purely evil.
Wow she went through a lot praying for her continuous healing ❤
My story is much different than yours, but yet so similar. and the only thing I can do right now as I was listening to you while I drive is pull over and cry. I’m from Florida myself and I know way too much of the pain you’re feeling or have felt along with the toxicity of the Baptist programs. Thank you for sharing your story.
Love to hear y'all speak your truth, I pray yhe Adoption Center is listening 💔💔
It's good to hear these stories...I always heard how the social services branches tended to be putting children in just about any home who would have them...the income incentives for those families was all that was considered by most of the people and then ones who really cared didn't realize the hardships of raising traumatized children...and a lot of times couldn't keep them because of that only...they were never for warned or provided with any instructions...I'm guessing there are many like stories out there just waiting to be told...prayers for healing❤❤❤
This is HORRIFIC, A SHAME and is never and never will be God wish for ANY kids or teen or human being.
These people were so evil. I dont get why their faces are hidden? I hope they are in prison or at least was! Unacceptable.
I am very sorry that all these people used you, beat and belittle you for years. So so wrong. Thank you for sharing your story.
God says do not hurt the little ones because when you do you hurt Him. This will not stay unpunished.
I admire your strength and courage! You should be very proud of yourself
Thank you for sharing your story, Sabrina. I’m so glad you’re alive and well to tell it and help give hope to others who may have experienced something similar. You are amazing, beautiful, and worthy. God bless you.♥️
OH!! You Precious baby girl!! Your dad would’ve been happy to give you a wonderful life!! I am SO HAPPY you found your true family!! I’m “adopting” you as one of my CZcams children❤️❤️I thank God for blessing you and I lift you in prayer.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
wow just wow. so relatable and so nice to be heard as a fellow adoptee. thank you so much for sharing your story can’t wait to read your book:)
Thank God you are a survivor. Thank you for bringing this into the light.
I'm so happy you found love and family in the end ❤
What a testimony! Glad she is advocating for herself and troubled teens.
You are absolutely gorgeous and amazing and so very strong! It is remarkable what the human spirit can survive. You have not only survived. You have soared!
Im so sorry to this woman. These places should have to pay for her suffering . To grow from that abuse is extremely hard, and the fact she povked that path shows how much grace and courage she has.
Where are the people she lived with someone needs to be held accountable for this horrible mess
So glad she had a happy ending, bless her soul 🙏🏼
Oh dear sweet beautiful soul … I’m so grieved - to HEAR the description of the REALITY you were forced to EXPERIENCE first hand.
Your childhood snatched from you - unacceptable.
I know your perspective is precious/priceless - and so very NEEDED today
Grateful you shared. The ripple effects will continue to benefit others/spark change from this point forward.
God BLESS you Ms Sabrina 💕
You have somebody in south Georgia that loves you 💖
I absolutely love your little kid picture. One of the best smiles I’ve seen. I hope you continue to heal (:
i was treated the same way in foster care. some people are just evil
Sometimes the abuse is beyond physical.
It can be emotional abuse also.
Some Social Workers should be placed under jails for throwing kids under the bus these types of homes
Im buying your book right now! God bless you! 🙏
❤thank you love
😭 baby Girl, Beautiful Girl, I am so very sorry. You are a F-ing soldier mama.
❤ Thank you love
You are an amazing woman. So proud of you for taking your heartache and doing such good for others
HELL AWAITS THEM ALL!!😡😡😡😡😡
It does one already got cancer.
You are the most beautiful, compassionate and strong angel. How you survived all the abuse you endured is not fathomable. May your life be full of happiness from now on. You are a true inspiration!
I’m so sorry you had to endure that experience… but I’m glad you had the courage and determination to survive and share your story thank you for posting this… it is a very eye opening scenario to what can happen to children who are adopted or put into the hands of cults and religious institutions who abuse their privilege to take care of children I’m so glad you survived the hardships that plagued your life for so many years 🙏🏾🌹🙏🏾🌹
Aww man her adopted mom died man , poor lady this women needs justice for her childhood
I’m so sorry 😢those people are sick
Saying I’m sorry you had to endure that just doesn’t suffice. I’m so very grateful you’re still standing and telling your story. I’m about halfway through the video fighting back tears right now. I can relate so much, as I am also a biracial woman that was adopted and abused by a white family. I was also sent to a “Christian” group home as a teen where they did horrible things to us. Oddly enough, your story helps me feel heard. Hugs🫂
I am so sorry. I am so impressed that you survived and grew up to a flourishing life.
Sabrina your family is wonderful. I wish you every good thing. ☀
Listening to this, I got extremely upset. One terrible situation right after another.
I'm so sorry you had to experience all this evil. 😢😢😢
She wasn’t alone in the abuse. She said, we had to sleep in the bathtub without a blanket. This is about people who don’t know what love is & I think that they’re adopting or working in those institutions with their own personal motives.
I think that we need a relationship with God to know what love is!
Facts . She didn’t abuse me because of my race she abused me because she was mentally unstable. She abused my adoptive siblings that as well, and they are white . and these programs pray on children. None of the people who operated the programs were even qualified to work with children. They were all former drug addicts and criminals that got out of prison, and found Jesus and opened up programs to become the new Lester Roloff. My book explains my story way better.
What horrible people!!! So sorry you went though all that. So glad you have happiness, you deserve it.
Thank God i seen this , my son is giving me a hard time and I was thinking about some type of military school but that is out of the question . now thank you.
How this shit goes on at this time in history is unreal .
Thank you for looking after people with autism. My sons both have autism so i know the value of your work.
I’m so sorry you had to go threw the stuff you went threw no child deserves to be treated so bad at all
Im glad you are healing and have a real family of your own.God Bless you
she's a warrior soul. ❤🩹
This is torture
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Its just insane.that these programs flourish, just like anti-gay camps done in the name of religion..and yet non- believers are considered immoral. Smh. Thank you for telling your story, its heartening to hear of your success as an adult.
LGBT is also abusive ,any cult is wrong
May God continue to bless you and your family always 🙏
I’m so sorry for what you went through. I related with everything in the very beginning of your story. I was also adopted out by Children’s Home Society but in Broward County. My adopted Mom also was abusive and taught us to not be proud of being part black. It’s unreal how many of us have experienced this 😢
I’m so sorry you went through that . The children’s home society does not have a good rapport with adoptees. Are you aware of Nan Tuckett ? She is the founder of the children’s home society. Google her and read her Wikipedia page
@@DearRenisha Thank you. No I never looked into her. I will definitely look her up and share with my other adopted siblings who went through the same.
So sorry you had to experience that trauma. Love that your helping others. God Bless 💖
This is so heinous. I'm so shocked that these places still are operational. I'm glad you survived. Wow! I'm just so shocked. I want to be a foster mom but I'm afraid of what I may bring into my home but I'm sure I can give a child a better life than something like these systems.
You are a beautiful person!!❤