Kristen Stewart on If She Would Have Married Robert Pattinson When They Were Dating
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- čas přidán 5. 11. 2019
- Kristen Stewart opened up on 'The Howard Stern Show' about whether she would have married former boyfriend Robert Pattinson.
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I think Rob would have married Kristen if she didn't cheat on him.
Maybe
it’s so sad i wish they end up together :((
Rob was probably thinking… sorry I’m not licking your armpits 😒😖
So that's the story. Aha I was wondering. .
It was all scripted he knew she was a closeted lesbian it was just for publicity
Robert and Kristen, Miley and Liam, Zec Efron and Vanessa... I could never get over them lol.
Right!
And Andrew Garfield and Emma Stone
Selena and Justin
Me and food. Damn. Cant get over it😂
Miley and Liam are
Back together
The most annoying part of this is the fact that Howard stern constantly interrupts people during interviews
Yeah he does
Yes, that’s poor interviewing skills, and bad manners, but hey he’s in his Ego as are a lot of famous people unfortunately
Ur current PFP matches ur comment well
He just asks questions that are so cringe and callously framed for his guests!!
he literally interrupts and says the answer HE wants to hear. i love all the people he interviews but cannot stand his part in the interviews 😂
“He was my first you know….”
“Love”
“Yeah” that hit home
Her first boyfriend Michael that she was with for 4 years must be shook
@@jumpforjoy6 poor guy
Tbh I think she was going to say something along the lines of 'real' or 'adult' relationship
Yet she still cheated on him.
She replied with “I was super in love w my high school bc too”
I believe her when she said she was in love with him, but I think Rob loved her way more. When she cheated on him, I think something inside of him really broke. I mean, come on, it’s years later and he still is uncomfortable talking about it or just about her in general. I think, in a way, he’s still heartbroken.
He's in a happy relationship
How did Kristen cheated back then?
@@zekekasichiro-smith4725 she cheated with the male married director of Snow White and the Huntsman
@@mari5258 OMG! That was so. Oh my God Robert must been hurt really bad those times. That's sad but happy that they're both better now.
*Speechless*
i hope they’re endgame. it seems impossible, but if it’s meant to be it will be.
I think it's dumb af they keep brining up her ex, how long have they broken up jeez
Riley Bauman too long to still be asking her about it but they were once a really famous couple. When Kristen became well known around the world Rob was the magnitude of what shes become. So of course when people look at her they’re gonna think of twilight and her past relationship with Rob bc that’s what she’s most famous for so of course people are gonna bring it up.
Once a cheater, always a cheater..
Stahp pickling R Patz
Well it's easier to reflect and learn when things aren't fresh. Thats why you get honest answers years later instead of weeks or months.
Expect the fact that Rob has actually showen his acting talent, he's getting very big projects. he really has bright future. while Kristen is still there where she was, after Twilight I don't think I saw her anywhere. were she acted terrific, most of people from her fanbase are just cheesy girls who no matter what, but they will support to her till she die (sorry, but no girls) or pervy dudes who doesn't have any interest on her acting, they just loves to watch her nudes or cyber stalk her.. also by the looks of it I don't think she has that hot momentum in her career anymore, most of the movies she did were either cult, either flop (probably because they were garbage) and now another is coming... *Charlie's Angles!!!!* seriously? 😂
(also don't mind the english. it's my 7th language)
“If I wouldn’t have cheated, maybe!” LOL I cannot.
at least she's honest lol
Chrystal M when does she say this??
Time stamp pls haha
timestamppp?
Omggg😂😂
"If circumstances were different they could've gotten married."
-- You mean if she didn't cheat and got caught? 💔
@Aaliyah Thedford Just cause she dates girls doesn't she's a lesbian. She doesn't identify herself as gay or straight, she's sexually fluid because she dates boys and girls, but still doesn't choose to label herself
Threvi Vacal LMAO LITERALLY
Aaliyah Thedford doesn’t make it right that she cheated homie
@@natalia-gr6ov shes straight judt experimenting recently
@@joedorben3504 No she’s not. She’s attracted to woman.
Kristen has really broken out of her shell a lot since her Twilight days. You can tell she’s much more comfortable in her skin now instead of shying away from the world. 💜
Faeries_Xylia 923 totally agree with ya there!
Faeries_Xylia 923 that cuz she came out a lesbian
Victoria Guerrero she is bi
@Peter D bi. She was with Rob and that married movie director. She is like Milie Cyrus.
Peter D she just said she was head over heels in love with rob. lesbians don’t fall in love with men.
There's almost no difference between The 2009 and the 2019 Kristin clips except the hairstyle. She didnt age a bit.
Lucky B , eye bag.
@@mumzy897 , eye bag???????
called make up.
She’s a vampire after all ! Lol jk
@@C4ssieRose idiot.
She’s really the only actor who went through such a public cheating scandal and didn’t face much backlash. She still has tons of fans and support. I wonder why, genuinely.
@Error Report not an excuse to kiss a married man i guess
@Error Report no there’s lots of famous men who got away with cheating scandals and worse. Hollywood is nicer than you’d think.
Actually i think, we made fun of her cheating, making meme more than she deserved. Then after a while we felt that we shouldn’t do that much, after all she was a teenage at that time. Now people want her to be happy at least.
It's most probably becoz Rob was so Quiet about it after the Breakup. He avoids the question well and never speaks bad or I'll about her. He basically helped make it boring and it died. You get people mention it here and there but he just avoids it and moved on.
@@okisantana4916 the married man is more at fault.
Headline: THEY WANTED TO GET MARRIED!!!
"Would you get married?"
"ha, I don't know"
She says that she wanted...
I believe when Rob said “ I LOVE YOU “ to Kristen she must be replied him back like “ THANKS YOU “
I don’t think she wanted to cause she didn’t give out a straight answer
@@LeaPaco33 I mean wouldn’t it be awkward to say “yes, I would” right away when she has a girlfriend and him as well also we don’t know what kinda relationship they have rn
@@bearwhiteraven4820 really? I just guess from Kristen’s personality and mostly American woman always replied that answer to their lover and I don’t know why
Jesus christ, let them go...
i know right they just don't stop...
Jesus Christ, she is a cheater.
You bafoons dont have to use the Lords name like that.
How is trying to stay relevant when she's doing a interview to promote her movie and they are asking her questions about her life
Siimplyy _niiyah Don’t worry about them, they’re just jealous of Kristen Stewart and don’t have better things to do.
Their chemistry on screen was so natural and they fit together well. Sucks that Kristen fucked it up.
i saw 0 chemistry between them in all the twilight movies
@@serag3740 I think they had more chemistry in paparazzi kiss and talking pics because On screen Script was shit Robert always said in interview that he thought their on screen relationship was abusive amd toxic
@@serag3740 agree
or director fucked it up. a lot of the times actresses are sexually harrased for better pay/role by the big guys in hollywood industry
Didn’t she come out as gay?
I can imagine how hurt was robert, i mean he was so inlove with her and turns out she cheated on him 🥺
Ik :/....tbh she was kinda stupid on cheating on him :/
@@facelessemo1649 kinda?
Who did she cheat with?
@@Abon22 the director of the "snow white and the huntsman" movie
They were both so young so I think it belongs in nostalgia. I wish the media would let them both move on rather than constantly bringing up each other to them.
When howard stern said falling in love while filming is the biggest mistake, I'm glad kristen had enough sense to tell him, there was nothing she could do 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Guys, maybe let's just stop rewinding to people's past mistakes and criticising them for it.
Geez.
Mariam Zulfer Yeah you got it very well 😔
I mean you're the one that brought it up 😂
Maybe choosing to cheat with a married man isn't a mistake, it's a deliberate choice. She knew his wife and two kids. She had been to dinner at their house. she didn't care who got hurt, as long as she got what she wanted. She's gone on to cheat on all of her lesbian lovers. That's who she is. And we'd be happy to move on if she would stop talking about it every time she has a film to sell.
The truth is, she has no relevance on her own, so she used her ex's name from 10 years ago because he's a big, acclaimed actor and she's doing crappy reboots of TV franchise movies. His career has far outstripped hers, so she's using him for publicity, even if it means airing her dirty laundry in public. If anything, you should be annoyed with her for being so dumb and starved for attention.
@@a.madison9625 Dude, the thing is- it doesn't matter anymore. Things have changed - times have changed.
Everyone makes mistakes and I don't think it's acceptable of us to go around trash talking them.
Yes Kristen cheated, but so what? Plus, she doesn't 'use' Pattinson's name. From what I've noticed, she holds some level of respect for him and for each of whom she'd dated. So I really don't think it's fair of us to say shit about them. Who knows what they've been through or what their thoughts and intentions were?
So I think we all need to chill and not argue about these stuff. It doesn't change anything.
Mariam Zulfer yeah why tf does it matter if someone ruins a whole family and ruin a children’s childhood because of cheating
Everyone makes mistakes and I’m not defending Kristen at all for cheating on Rob because it was 100% wrong. But I think now she actually realizes that what she did wasn’t okay and we all learn from our mistakes. It’s part of life. I think she still genuinely has love for Rob and he genuinely has love for her
Everybody loves more famous personalities, she literally got out of the mainstream scenario after twilight, and he is our new batman..and can't forget the treatment she gave him in award show, literally trying to humiliate him, she's humbled but these kind of narcissist never love others, just feed upon emotions of others
guess what i smoked for 32 years, and have heart problems now, you don't get a buy simply because you realize you fucked up. that's all on you, or in this case me. we have to own our mistakes in life.
You can't fix a glass after breaking.
now she become a hippie and married to a girl, he become bitter playboy..
I don't think they compatible anymore, they passed that point but idk people change all the time so who knows
Once a cheater always a cheater. Sorry
nothing was harder to accept than them not being together anymore
"Reality"
It’s not even your relationship 😂, wake up
Rob deserves way better
She cheated on him right? So guess the answer is no
Chaldean King Men cheat too.
@@natalieh8023 that's literally never happened in all of history. You and me both know that's true 😄😆
Chaldean King That still proves that guys cheat too.
Chaldean King Find me a guy that does the same. It’s a two way street. Being a shitty person is not exclusive to gender.
Chaldean King Eh. I put God before money. Good women exist too, just hard to find and hard to love if they’re damaged from their past.
I am addicted to them..maybe because of their great chemistry!! Perfect combination!!
however, its kinda weird that she loved robert then cheated on robert with an older married dude... then now she's totally into girls
tbh the power dynamic between her and her director is never addressed, and sometimes I wonder in which ways that contributed to what happened. not justifying the cheating, just pointing that out.
She’s going through phases
@@nijayden2670 um no.
@@torta0026 um yes
Right???? EXACTLY.
In almost interviews, Kristen always being asks about Rob.
And she always chooses to talk about it, that's why the media keeps asking
Because she is bland and uninteresting
That's because he's always been more exciting than her. She's irrelevant without somehow being connected to him. And she keeps talking about him because she knows it
Karma maybe.
Kidding.
@@a.madison9625 no but, fr tho.
This whole video was just about Howard Stern peer pressuring her into saying she would marry Robert 🙄 lame
That's how Howard Stern does his show. Never been a fan. He seems repressed as hell, too. Creepy. Why anyone interviews with him is beyond me personally. Jmo
She’s a grown ass adult, She can respectfully choose to pass up on the question & as crappy as Robert May be I’m sure he would respectfully comply.
@An Earthian Yeah it was a typing error, I meant Howard in place of Robert lol
I feel what she says because it's the same for anyone, with their first real love within adulthood but i guess it wasn't meant to be and I'm glad she can still talk about him in a good way because not a lot of people can do that after a break up.
i mean she cheated on him itd be pretty fucked up if she did talk bad about him lol
@@sting4003 ikr xD
Well it would be weird if she talked in a bad way about Robert given that SHE cheated 😂
My heart when i see kristen and rob togther:why you not still together 💔
Robert and kristen ...nina and ian...justin and selena...i can never get over these couples❤️😭
Yeah Nina and Ian too😭😭😭
They remind me of miley and liam
Honestly, Rob seems like a hundred times better dude than Liam.
etlrduce they were way more superior than miley
etlrduce The hell is wrong with Liam?
Yeaahh..so true
@@xmynationalanthemx well allegedly hes an alcoholic and drugs user
It still must be very annoying to be asked that after all these years..... But she still explaining... That's why I love her
Why wouldn't she if it will get her attention and promote her new movie. I clicked on this video bz of that title, just like most others
it's part of her job. everything is based on public interest and they had a public relationship, therefore she knows it will be asked. if anything it will help promote her movie, because people will tune in for her responses and be interested in her again. if you're a celeb, you will be asked about all of your big public relationships.
She has the same PR rep she's had since she was 14, if she didn't want to be asked, she wouldn't be. She's using Rob to get attention, she's been doing this for years. She went on SNL and used him by name in the monologue, which was her making jokes about how she cheated with a married man. She has no shame, she'd do anything for attention.
@Aoife L Except when she went on SNL and spent the whole monologue, selling her private life and talking about Rob.
@Aoife L Ok, I see what you mean. She's really shameless in the way she uses him to get attention for herself. Her PR rep kept anyone from asking about him until she decided enough time had passed and she could go back to name dropping him. Her fanbase is built on Twilight, none of her indies has done well enough for her to build a fanbase from that, unlike Rob, who gained fans with Good Time, The Lighthouse and his other indies.
So she's still trying to ride his coattails. If she had a scrap of dignity, she'd respect his wish for privacy but she doesn't, and she didn't respect him to begin with.
Y'all tryna get them back together even though she CHEATED on him! Guys, cheating isn't an easy thing. It's serious. Understand that.
Robert becomes batman
Conclusion:
Batman’s a vampire
And vampires associated woth bats
🦇
What if we didn't talk about their relationship like we were apart of it and didn't talk about Kristen as if it was our place to lay judgement upon her? Not our business, not our story to tell
You could just remove yourself from the video and not watch it then 🤣
Why ask that? She was only 18 when they started dating, and 22 or so when they broke up?
Howard stern is a master interviewer. He is great at getting people to be introspective. That's what people are facinated by not the glitz and glam of hollywood. Or at least not only that.
She had turned 19 when they started dating and she was 22 when she chose to cheat with her married director. She did it all in public and she issued a public apology. She invited the public into her private life. That's why he asked. People who don't want to get dragged don't cheat on a public road and they don't issue public apologies to the man they cheated on by name. She should have kept Pattinson's name out of her mouth. He had never acknowledged any kind of relationship with her. She used him yet again.
Why do i love her voice it’s so soothing
The fact that she cheated on him is enough reason to deduce that even if she didn’t, it wouldn’t have worked out. She obviously didn’t respect him and wasn’t loyal. Cheating was just one way it manifested
I think if they didnt have other people judging their relationship and persuading their decision, maybe they ended up together. I just think that separation due to their jobs was the reason why they broke up and missing each other so much that they started thinking of having other company. They seem really inlove with each other back then and still cared for each other today. I really love them together.
Bitch she cheated on him with an old ass married man. That's why they broke up
Kristan cheated on Rob and Rob is no cuck that's why they broke up
When she started dating girls just after cheating on Rob I thought I would never like her again as an actress and person, but now I think I truly like her. She lives her life, she makes decisions and faces with them like everybody does so this is not my stuff to judge her. Be happy Kris, everybody deserves to be happy.
I hope she becomes a better person because ugh cheaters are disgusting no matter their situation and sexuality.
@@undepartedlover it seems like she has been getting better as an actress and as a person. We all want Kristen to be happy and comfortable right? Yeah she's a bisexual and got herself a partner, her life couldn't have been better now
@@undepartedlover hard agreed.
Almost everybody. I can think of a few exceptions. Like, do we really want Putin to be happy?
@@15Candles no i don't
She is very genuine. Cool person
If it was uncomfortable and even painful for us as an audience, I can't imagine what Robet must have felt at that moment. Several of us were teenage Twilight fans, however, after so many years, I don't hate Kristen, I mean, I think they were very young and sometimes circumstances lead you to do totally crazy things. Kristen shows her regret, and knows that what she did to her, apart from the fact that it was a very ugly act, ended up taking her away from a wonderful man.
What is seen now is that both are very happy with their respective partners. And that is what matters, that your past does not prevent you from being a better person, and above all, achieving happiness.
"I didn't have a choice....." That's Amore!
But cheating was a choice, very deliberate
@@JohnDoe-tm9wz it's ALWAYS a choice
If a married person gets in an affair, it's more blame on them. Cz they are the ones distroying lives of people who love and care for them. While the other person is hurting some strange people. Not in sight of justice, in a humane view point.
@@JohnDoe-tm9wz Yes, and your sister too.
John Doe ur probably like 10 stfu
I don't like her and I never watched Twilight. But I saw a clip of them together and I have to say, yeah, they had an incredible chemistry.
Yes she is bad person
There is something about her style.. just love it
I remember 13 year old me walking into a Walgreens in 2011 and seeing a magazine that read “Secret Island Wedding” with Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart and I actually believed it 😭
Rob is so cute.
_🍫🧛♂️💌_
He’s always been handsome. 😍
Who is rob
@@rodolfotsang4327 robert pattinson
Maybe I'm the only one here who's still hoping for them to comeback and try again. Lol.
Guess not since there are 16 likes with braindead people who doesn't care if a guy gets hurt if he did it the outcome would be different 💀
Apart from braindead toxic idiots... Yes you're the only one
Pattinson has always deserved someone who loves him unconditionally. This isnt a knock against Stewart because ultimately she wasn't feeling it, but u could see his feelings were stronger
Would she have married him...sure if she hadn’t cheated on him with a married man and broke him. Idk part of me will never look at her the same as an actress
Yuss, I feel the same
Congrat to Robert Pattinson, bro dodged a bullet.
Why... What's so wrong with her? She's pretty, seems cool
@@jumpforjoy6 she cheated
She’s 29!!! Omg she looks amazing!
Isn't it normal to look amazing at 29?
She looks every day of 35, which is what her kind of hard living will do to you. They clean her up for her Chanel ads and appearances and the rest of the time she looks like she was rode hard and put away wet.
@@TheStraightestWhitest not for all
I love how Howard Stern asked a question then answered for her.
I’m gonna be blunt but I honestly genuinely feel like these two are and always will be for each other. I won’t be surprised if one day we see em holding hands
I'm gonna be blunt, you're a terrible judge of character. Rob knows Kristen is toxic and that's why he's avoided her for the past 8 years. You will never see him near her again. You do know he's been living with Suki Waterhouse for the past 3 years in London, right? He doesn't even reside on the same continent with KStew.
@@a.madison9625 lol okay internet warrior 😂
@@alejandraalonso1996 I'm a realist Rob admitted he's in love with Suki, and why anyone would think he has any interest in a woman who he knows would cheat on him with both men and women is beyond me. No man wants someone like that, and that's who Kristen is. He can't trust her around men OR women. Rob is not stupid. Why do you think we've never seen pics of them being friends and hanging out for the past 8 years? He wants nothing to do with her.
n Its on yourube abut 3-4 days ago suki broke down because robert addimited that he was thinking about kristen so lets hope they do #ROBSTEN
@@a.madison9625 chill please
When they broke up, Robert Pattinson became a good actor
Lmao😂😂😂😂
Thier babies would had the best jawline in human history
I really really wish those two would come back together!!!!! Patch things up. But I get 10 years later that spark isn’t there and what can ya do except imagine what could of been
Don't ask people questions you wouldn't feel comfortable answering.
It's Howard Stern. He made his whole staff get their IQs scored and broadcasted them
totally different ball game when you are a celeb. so that does not apply here. she knows it will be asked, as it was a huge public relationship back then. it played out in the media and there will always be public interest. he asks the questions people would want to know the answer to. if anything it helps her promote her new movie since people will tune in and be interested in her again because they will remember that. it is part of her story and part of her career. nobody really asks her about her relationships before rob because those guys aren't famous and she wasn't famous back then so the public doesn't really care.
👍
Bette Davis once said she performed better in All About Eve because she fell in love Gary Merrill during the filming. She said she thinks people are better when they have those butterflies.
Why y'all still talking about this old af pr relationship
Ahaha 😂 ikr
So they can get attention for Charlie's Angels
I think to promoted her new film, charlie angles& this girl succes got attention of fans. I'm sure too, suki waterhorror really doesn't like what she says.
This is really crazy😂😂
You Dont Care Because your not a Twilight Fan so You Dont Get it Bruh
Why are you? You clicked on the vid and are commenting
They had really great chemistry
Gosh i missed her face she was away for quite a while. Ughh i adore her
she is so beautiful without even trying
Did him wrong in the movie and in real life she don’t deserve him keep looking forwards Robert pat
Do you know how years ago that was
@@ravenyoudontneedtoknowmyla1283 how does that matter... that doesn't make u right...wtf😂
Did him wrong in the movie? That was her part and was in the script and she chose him in the end. So wake up. She was young when she made that huge mistake and cheated on Rob which I still think was a setup. But she has grown up and is a great actress and person.
@@crhockeymom She was fully grown when she cheated. You're talking about her like she was a teenager: she was a whole ass adult smart, fluent, and capable enough of making her own decisions, and she decided to cheat with some old married dude. So wake up. There's no excuse for what she did. There's no excuse for cheating in general.
@Sugar if they were pressured they would've been together from the start, they did like each other
Wherever happened I just love her
I always thought that both were beautiful. She more conventionally beautiful and him more unconventionally handsome. I am 75 years old and I've seen them all for a long time come and go and both were refreshing representative of unconventional beauty in the USA.
I can't really understand,how a woman can cheat on Robert? We're talking about ROBERT?????
@@kshtjmlk personalityyy
@@kshtjmlk she cheated even tho she looks nice still she is a bad person for cheating
@@kshtjmlk Wait, Kristen has a personality?
@@Rahim-444 it's been almost a decade. And you are saying she's a bad person for IT?
@@marianar.9966 yea its been a decade but since we brought back the subject i think we should say the truth she did something wrong
No worries Kristen, when the time is right, you can marry YOURSELF.
Javi Ortiz she’ll just become Emma Watson lol
@@jamestyler9897 correct!
🤣🤣🤣
😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Robert already married million times in his head
The time she was so young. She has been suffering for years. I believe and know they will return together. Looking at her eyes when he reminds him, he is still the love of her life. Her eyes are sad because it happened
She was 22 when she chose to cheat with a married man because she didn't appreciate what she had. Since then she's gone on to cheat on her many lesbian lovers. She has no morals and little intelligence. Rob deserved better and he got it with Suki Waterhouse.
Rob cut Kristen out of his life 7 years ago. Don't ever expect to see them near each other again. It's not going to happen. He knows she's toxic and he's not stupid.
@@a.madison9625 ye we know. But tbh I still find it heartbreaking it’s over :/ they were my comfort couple
something about her embracing her identity is so attractive (i'm a gay man)
Pseudo Pulk it’s probably cus she looks boyish
Lol I didn't even know they where a thing, glad to be this out of the loop!
As they fans im feel so sad..Im hope they can back together like before. All people make mistake..For sure i pray the best for them😭
I’m Vengeance
She has matured so much! 💕
Where? 🤣🤣🤣
@@michaelahirawani4061 you Won't see it..... 😏😏😏😏😏😏
This could have been the best marriage! Period!
I want Them Back😔🖤
Kristen falando do Homem que mas amou ela na vida Rob , cadê a legenda ???😍💏
They’re both very different people now. It’s insane how long ago this was :0
Yes Robert very good person and good actor
They seriously look perfect for each other 😭
May 15, 2022
I love Kristen Stewart..... I wish I'll meet her some day and have a picture taken and autograph.....
she's just so beautiful
She is less awkward these days and looks beautiful 😍
Robert deserves so much better.
When someone is asked a question and their reply is “yeah, no” is super sus
What i know about kristen is
She talks less
She is a genius
Why are we still obsessed with them? It's been years. Their relationship is over and they're different people.
But u in this comments section?
Twilight renaissance
I love her hair!!!!! She's beautiful!
Great actress I wish her all the best!And I really hope she finds what she is looking for❤️
He already move on with his life too and is very happy . Let's just wish that this time he have the right person for him that he really deserves forever . lheia p
The short haircut really suits her.
She's really pretty
She was so good in Underwater, thumbs up!
Such a beautiful LADY!!!
LOVE HER.
LOVE EVERY PART SHE PLAYS
Who is here after she engaged??❤️
Honestly I think this should be the least of our worries
When ppl cheat, they need to own up to it and simply say they were wrong. Unless there was a gun to their heads or their families were threatened, there is no excuse whatsoever.
A rare celebrity gossip video where the question in the title is literally answered in the first 3 seconds of the video.
WHY TF I CAN'T GET OVER THEEEEMMMM?!!
I need friends like howard stern who can talk to my exes like that
Can't wait for this movie 🎥
Robert fell in love with New York hotdogs so good luck ladies on getting him