Return to our Remote Property- It was Great... and then it WASN'T

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  • čas přidán 11. 06. 2020
  • We finally got back to our remote property in the U.P. of Michigan, and had a great time- putting up our wall tent, enjoying a campfire, amazing breakfast, a great walk in the woods... and then I got a phone call in the middle of the night. A horrible phone call...
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  • @lindalober626
    @lindalober626 Před 3 lety +2168

    The two of you remind me of a golden time in my life when my husband was alive. Cancer stinks, I hate living alone. Never take life for granted. I have 4 acres of woods. I sit alone by my campfire and picture him and all my loved ones in Heaven, a campfire is as close as you can get. Thanks for sharing your life with me...

    • @conleyed
      @conleyed Před 3 lety +179

      Keep on keeping on sister.
      Some through the waters, some through the flood, Some through the fire, but all through the blood; Some through great sorrow, but God gives a song,
      God keep you.

    • @carolmueller3191
      @carolmueller3191 Před 3 lety +57

      Have you read Psalms 37:28; Matthew 5:5; Proverbs 2:21,22; Matthew 5:28,29? Matthew 6:9,10!

    • @Truecrimejunky
      @Truecrimejunky Před 3 lety +90

      If your close to east tn I would come sit with you by your fire and reminisce if you wanted.

    • @shauna5466
      @shauna5466 Před 3 lety +88

      I understand how you feel, I have all my camping gear. I love camping & having a fire. My husband is gone too, it's just not much fun going by myself.

    • @lawrencepevitts2434
      @lawrencepevitts2434 Před 3 lety +99

      I lost my wife 3 years ago, I know what mean. Thank GOD for our memories.

  • @gillianharper-ward7877
    @gillianharper-ward7877 Před 3 lety +388

    She's a hard worker, makes the room up , cooks, records film & says the prayer .... go girl!

    • @PatrickWagz
      @PatrickWagz Před 3 lety +17

      and runs a chainsaw!!

    • @michellejaquish4805
      @michellejaquish4805 Před 3 lety +19

      All with a pleasant attitude

    • @katherinepoletto7875
      @katherinepoletto7875 Před 3 lety +8

      I LOVE Red Salamanders.Here in CT., they are pretty much WIPED OUT.Good old Monsanto kills.kat,ct.

    • @kevinsothen3638
      @kevinsothen3638 Před 3 lety +2

      @@katherinepoletto7875 hello

    • @daddy9minnich777
      @daddy9minnich777 Před 3 lety +9

      Totally agree...you guys are so blessed and are such a good marriage team.
      So sorry to hear about your Brother's accident and addiction. Sending this paragraph after i sent the first and last paragraphs. Prayers for you and your Family. Life is so short. Live it well. I was hoping your Brother survived. So sorry if your Family has sufferex his loss.
      Funny what you said about cole slaw. My Wife's pico de gallo is legendarily good, as is her potato salad. I / we have never liked "salads" that we did not make ourselves, either. UP looks awesome. God Bless and Take Care.

  • @shannonwise3719
    @shannonwise3719 Před 2 lety +172

    I am so sorry to hear about your Brother passing, Brook. I am currently struggling with addiction, but I find solace and peace from your and Dave’s videos. Y’all will be in my prayers. Thank you so much for helping me cope.

    • @heyodi3092
      @heyodi3092 Před rokem +8

      I hope you’re doing ok Shannon. I kicked an addiction with the help of a spiritual leader “laying hands” on me. It was a wild experience but so worth it. I took a brand new bottle of pills and flushed them down the toilet and have never looked back. It’s possible! There’s a CZcams channel called Put the Shovel Down that is a great addiction resource.

    • @WendieRenee
      @WendieRenee Před rokem +9

      Praying for you now. Be well.

    • @chris-jbertrand8417
      @chris-jbertrand8417 Před rokem +3

      I too am recently clean and recovering, keep at er dude! There's light at the end of the tunnel

    • @juditharsenault2131
      @juditharsenault2131 Před rokem +1

      Isaiah 49:25

    • @judyjenna-pilot553
      @judyjenna-pilot553 Před rokem +4

      Addiction is a struggle that no one deserves . Your in my prayers. I know that pain all to well.

  • @laurabentley937
    @laurabentley937 Před rokem +49

    I love the chemistry between the two of you, the subtle humor, the warmth, the apparent love you share! Cheers!

  • @tinkerbell4296
    @tinkerbell4296 Před 3 lety +207

    You are a testament to what married life should be

  • @fhazen01
    @fhazen01 Před 3 lety +488

    Your Wife is a fantastic person. She works harder than any two men. She can cook, interior decorate and so pleasant. You hit the lottery when you found her.

    • @crownofhair
      @crownofhair Před 3 lety +26

      This is HER channel, not her husband's.

    • @fairfaxphil
      @fairfaxphil Před 3 lety +6

      He is unworthy. You are the lottery. (Too pandering? Sorry but soon as it hit 20 deg I'm out)

    • @grateful1929
      @grateful1929 Před 3 lety +13

      @@fairfaxphil What are you saying

    • @Kranammo
      @Kranammo Před 3 lety +44

      they both hit the lottery they seem to compliment each other perfectly :)

    • @fairfaxphil
      @fairfaxphil Před 3 lety +2

      ​@@Kranammo They still use an outhouse in sub 0 weather. Bears could (and do) hang out and wait for an easy meal.

  • @deborahfoster3928
    @deborahfoster3928 Před 2 lety +46

    B & D, I could imagine I smelled your morning coffee and that good looking breakfast and the wood fire. I love watching your videos. And I love love love your tent and how you make it so homey and cozy. Watching you together makes me miss my husband who I lost 2yrs ago to cancer. I still miss him every day.
    Thank you for sharing with all of us.♥️♥️
    I send my condolences on the loss of your brother. Prayers. ♥️🙏

  • @suzanconklin8415
    @suzanconklin8415 Před rokem +11

    I’m so terribly sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and hold you especially close at this time. 😢

  • @unmalo2768
    @unmalo2768 Před 3 lety +236

    When you prayed over breakfast, I became a permanent fan!! Then you put pico de gallo on your eggs, and I am now your best friend!!

    • @lyndonprice4584
      @lyndonprice4584 Před 3 lety +20

      Amen!!! Her praying made me say now "That's a Sister In Christ" Amen! Bless You!

    • @veelove9241
      @veelove9241 Před 3 lety +18

      Beautiful to see, especially nowadays.❤️

    • @keithjefferies9862
      @keithjefferies9862 Před 3 lety +6

      @@lyndonprice4584 Amen

  • @thebestisyettocome4114
    @thebestisyettocome4114 Před 4 lety +164

    Young lady. No words will stop your pain. At 99 I've seen a lot. Lost my wife of 58 years in 2018. Only time. One hour, one day, and keep going until it's your turn. Peace be with you and your family. ✝️ Mr. Hahn, Los Angeles California USA 🇺🇸

    • @therealgirlinthewoods
      @therealgirlinthewoods  Před 4 lety +28

      Mr. Hahn sir, well done! My respect.

    • @barbarasaleh2945
      @barbarasaleh2945 Před 4 lety +10

      Brook the hole in your heart will always be there but it gets smaller with time and remembering all the good times you and your brother had growing up chasing each other around the house and getting in trouble for knocking things over and fighting who was going to get to sit by the window in the car on trips. Im sure you have special moments y’all had together. Always remember her Loved you and wanted the best for you. Take care and BE HAPPY.

    • @christopherneil988
      @christopherneil988 Před 4 lety +17

      Mr. Hahn I cant imagine what all you have dealt with in your lifetime. I am 60 now and still trying to figure out my future. I just want to get a camper and travel. Still have a teenager in high school. Cant wait to sell my house and move on.

    • @austinl.2703
      @austinl.2703 Před 3 lety +7

      @@christopherneil988 , Im 62 and I feel the same way. I wish I could go................I don't have children but I still feel the pressure and responsibility......... I hope you get your way (Maybe 40% freedom in a few years)

    • @slogomary
      @slogomary Před 3 lety +1

  • @d0ugparker
    @d0ugparker Před 2 lety +11

    Of all my past motorcycle trips, the ones I remember the best are the ones where the worst things happened; all the others seem to fade into obscurity. As hard as it is, you'll always have the clarity of that call to remember that trip. Recalling that trip will forever honor your brother. ☮

  • @a.w.s.9227
    @a.w.s.9227 Před rokem +21

    They do so many things that show kindness and respect and gratitude for each other it warms my heart. If you have ever laid in bed exhausted the morning after setting up camp and woke up to the smell of your loved one making you the best camp breakfast ever and you just keep your eyes closed, slowly waking up thinking about how awesome they are and how thankful and blessed you are to have them.... there is nothing quite like those things to really bond you together. Knowing how much the other person appreciates and enjoys the same makes the work easy and enjoyable. It is sad to me that many have not experienced this give and give with someone who doesn't just take.
    My Grandma said "put each other first and no one ever has to come second!" And you two do a great job of complimenting each other, working hard to build together. Thank you for giving us a glimpse 🥰 I married the wrong person and missed out on 10 years of life.... seeing you guys gives me a glimmer of hope I could find a man like that! One who still sees a woman if you can work hard and hold your own and aren't put off. You said it, "Now that's a MAN!".😊 And sister wow! What a WOMAN! 💯💪😊🫶

  • @gwebocelestron9194
    @gwebocelestron9194 Před 3 lety +164

    You guys make it more real than any other off-grid homesteading channel. You show what it really takes - a lot of very hard, dirty work.
    I've built two myself. Living on one now full time. There's issues for sure. My first place was really remote. First thing I built was a shed to store some tools, equipment and supplies so I wouldn't have to haul in each weekend as I continued to build. Had things locked up well and thought I was so remote no one would know I was there. Nope. Someone broke in and stole everything I had. It's tough to have to buy tools, etc... all over again.
    One weekend I was up there a rain storm came. Ground got so saturated and slick clay soil got my truck stuck up the axil. No one around. Tow trucks won't come because they don't want to get stuck too. Wound up having to leave the truck there. Hoofed it out with some stuff and my dog and had a friend pick me up on the main road after driving 250 miles to the area. A good friend. We went back weeks later, when the ground dried out, to pull my truck out.
    But dispite the difficulty it's very satisfying to use your own ideas, ingenuity to build your dream and make it work while adjusting to this kind of lifestyle. It is very different than most people realize.
    For those making comments about Brook doing work. I am a 58 yo woman and I built both my off-grid homesteads 100% by myself. Houses, sheds, solar, septic, sand point with pitcher pump, electric, plumbing, roofing, insulation, kitchen build, interior finish work, clearing the land, you name it. I did it myself. It's taken 3 summers to build the one I'm living in now. Even welded up my own well drilling rig to drill a new well, to run to my pump house that's powered by solar. Drilling that well now.
    Last I was aware women have hands and a brain, and legs with feet to move them around and climb up and down ladders just like men do.

    • @therealgirlinthewoods
      @therealgirlinthewoods  Před 3 lety +32

      you are just friggin awesome! great to read this- well done!

    • @mominthe209
      @mominthe209 Před 2 lety +11

      Girl you just let the cat out of

    • @briannagorman3119
      @briannagorman3119 Před 2 lety +8

      You are truly amazing.

    • @keendeesjarlais3636
      @keendeesjarlais3636 Před 2 lety +11

      @@therealgirlinthewoods stumbled on this vid and watched it right thru,
      may you find peace in Jesus, the comforter of your soul... Jesus is the only thing that makes sense in times of trouble. read gods word, stay close to christ... its the only thing thats helped me, after hearing of my 30 year old daughters passing--

    • @maryduff8831
      @maryduff8831 Před 2 lety +6

      20 years ago I could have done this but not now; broke my body. Ladies like you are an inspiration.

  • @pennyprosser6605
    @pennyprosser6605 Před 3 lety +109

    I know some time has passed, but I’ve only just watched this video, I’m so sorry that you’ve lost your brother and also that he struggled with addiction. Wishing you and all your family much love, light and peace 🙏

    • @laureljacobs8609
      @laureljacobs8609 Před 2 lety +3

      @Bobby D congrats!!!

    • @triggerhappyhippie
      @triggerhappyhippie Před 2 lety +2

      Yeah I just watched it and it made me cry, and I'm grateful for it. This video just symbolised the beautiful and painful reality of life. I have a brother who still struggles, and I don't usually pray, but for him I do.

  • @karatandstone6007
    @karatandstone6007 Před 2 lety +21

    I love how gentle and kind you guys are, to the land and living creatures. It’s a fairyland in the UP. As a city girl who’s been a country girl, I miss wild land.

  • @growingbyfaith3424
    @growingbyfaith3424 Před 2 lety +10

    I just finished watching this great video. My sincere condolences for the passing of your brother. 💔However, I am thankful that he has passed over the thorn scattered fields of this world into the beauty of heaven. ❤️ A place filled with the beauty of unconditional love.

  • @rebeccacole3451
    @rebeccacole3451 Před 3 lety +77

    My daughter who was my best friend passed away April 23rd 2019 due to an overdose...my life is changed forever, your channel inspired me to buy my off grid property .

    • @rhondapelletier2141
      @rhondapelletier2141 Před 3 lety +7

      So very sorry for your loss... I cannot imagine your pain........Remember the moments with her as they Create the memories ❤️.......... I have lost my best friend, my Mom...... never stops hurting but you do Learn to LIVE w/it as Life/ God give us Sooo much beauty in the little things to embrace ... going off grid? Dang! YOU are in inspiration!!!!! Enjoy & Be Well !!!

    • @charlenecole1840
      @charlenecole1840 Před 3 lety +6

      Rebecca, sometimes for me it helps a little to hear from someone who shares your pain… my son drowned August 2019. A call at 9:37 pm changed my life. I am at the point in my grief that I can talk to him without crying… I hope you are healing🙏

    • @traciewabluee3508
      @traciewabluee3508 Před 3 lety +3

      Sending prayers your way. You will meet again. 🦋💗

    • @charlenecole1840
      @charlenecole1840 Před 3 lety +1

      @@traciewabluee3508 Thank you Tracie🎈

    • @cynthiasmith6465
      @cynthiasmith6465 Před 3 lety +3

      I'm so sorry she passed on . Parents shouldn't ever have to outlive children. I pray God gives you peace until you are together again.

  • @janeta3508
    @janeta3508 Před 2 lety +122

    I know the pain of losing a brother unexpectedly and for similar reasons. My heart aches for you and my prayers go up for you and your family. I just discovered your channel and I thoroughly enjoy it. You have a good heart, I can see it in your face and hear it in your voice. May God give you strength, guidance and comfort during your time of mourning. God bless you guys.

    • @kimartist
      @kimartist Před 2 lety +3

      Same. My brother passed unexpectedly at 37 getting ready for work. It was a great shock 😲😭

  • @traceyglass9703
    @traceyglass9703 Před rokem +7

    I came across your channel by accident and I'm addicted. it calms me. I am sick and can't get out so I'm living through you guys.

  • @kathyh7215
    @kathyh7215 Před 2 lety +4

    I am so sorry to hear about your brother. I too had a brother who struggled with addiction, and we lost him in 2005. I am praying for your peace. What a beautiful piece of land you have, and am impressed by what you do. May God continue to shine His light on you and your family.

  • @genemckinney1500
    @genemckinney1500 Před 3 lety +28

    Sorry for the loss of your brother.
    Not a good way to end a trip to piece of ground, heartbreaking. In heaven there is no pain, nor addictions or disabilities, just a whole lotta grace. We love Him for that.

  • @kevola5739
    @kevola5739 Před 4 lety +72

    The passing of your brother brings added meaning to “Get outside and Get Happy” cuz that is all we can really control. Do not think of your brother as gone now, but as always with you.

  • @magdalenebecerra8475
    @magdalenebecerra8475 Před rokem +11

    You two are so amazing together,you two together can do a week's worth of work in one day!! I love the life you live, the forest the tent the cabins You've built together. It's such an amazing life style. I wish you life together always!! God bless you always!!

  • @christineabedini3765
    @christineabedini3765 Před rokem +6

    I am so sorry for the loss of your brother and yes he will see him in a better place😇❤️☮️

  • @trespire
    @trespire Před 3 lety +35

    So sorry for your loss.
    On a lighter note, there is something magical working and sleeping in the out doors, it's like returning home.

  • @adriandelfabbro8875
    @adriandelfabbro8875 Před 3 lety +4

    I watched my mother pass away when I was 16. It was the worst day of my life and yet I was so thankful that I was there to say I love you and hold her hand as she passed.
    Your videos move me.

  • @brettytsrik2978
    @brettytsrik2978 Před rokem +9

    You both are just so fantastic, loving of all creatures, and stewards of nature and life. ((Oh yeah, I know the difficulties of Reynaud's Syndrome, winter and summer too)). I so much enjoy watching your adventures. Just today I came across a few of your videos and I will view them all as soon as I can. Just 2 hours of your videos has me smiling broadly, instead of feeling sorry for myself and my lot in life. May God bless you in your endeavors. Take care my friends. I write this even as I have not yet watched the rest of this particular video. I just read ahead some of the comments and learned of your brother's passing. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for all your do for so many.

  • @candacetaylor7346
    @candacetaylor7346 Před rokem +6

    OMG I just found your channel today June 26th 2022 and i have been watching videos all day long. Can not get enough of your videos. I also watch Living Off Grid With Jake and Nicole. They are awesome as well. But I just adore you and your husband, you have a good husband there. But I am so sorry to hear the news at the end of this video about your brother. I hope in heaven he is healed of all the struggles he suffered here on earth. My brother is 36 and he is struggling with addiction now and has been for many many years. I hate to say it, but I know the outcome if he continues on this path of distruction, I am waiting on the phone call that he has passed due to some situation of drugs no matter if it was an overdoes, injury, etc....it is scary. I will continue to hold you and your family in my prayers.....

  • @jailen461
    @jailen461 Před 3 lety +29

    You two are great together. Been with my wife 45 yrs. Seeing you two enjoying each other and do the same thing ❤ together is everything. Way too go.

  • @Kimchi_-nw8vg
    @Kimchi_-nw8vg Před 3 lety +100

    I’m so sorry for your loss. May he forever Rest In Peace.
    I really am enjoying your videos. They are so calming to me during this crazy time in the world.
    Thank you.

  • @jamesmartin6546
    @jamesmartin6546 Před 2 lety +9

    Brooke, What a wonderful life you and Dave are living. That great property "up North" where you set up "tent keeping" and showed us all. Sorry for your loss, especially while you were up there soaking in Gods beautiful earth. Love to all of your family and continue enjoying your tent home in the woods. We can't get into the woodsy thing ourselves but I do vicarously through your neat videos. Thanks, and God be with you.. Jim Martin McFarland Wi

  • @pressplay38733
    @pressplay38733 Před 2 lety +9

    Absolutely love your videos and especially seeing the ones of the two of you together. What a beautiful love for nature and for each other, what a breath of fresh air. 😁

  • @robinredondo9427
    @robinredondo9427 Před 4 lety +126

    You are such an extraordinary woman and an inspiration to all of us. I’m terribly sorry about your brother. Take care of yourself.

    • @catherinemclaughlin6949
      @catherinemclaughlin6949 Před 4 lety +5

      You are such a great couple love watching both your video you are both great workers by the way Dave I make the best coldslow saw most of all your video love them

    • @catherinemclaughlin6949
      @catherinemclaughlin6949 Před 4 lety +8

      So sorry about your brother Brooks I know you love him so much you are in my prayers and your family

  • @Thatcanadianguyhey
    @Thatcanadianguyhey Před 4 lety +74

    I've lost a lot of very close people in my life due to Cancer and this quote helps me in times like this. “Time goes on, and your life is still there and you have to live it. After a while, you remember the good things more often than the bad. Then gradually, the empty silent parts of you fill up with sounds of talking and laughter again, and the jagged edges of sadness are softened by memories.”

    • @MrBraulio28
      @MrBraulio28 Před 4 lety +3

      You need two concrete panels in the corner to protect the tent walls from fire

    • @DomMini
      @DomMini Před 4 lety +4

      That is beautiful Dean! Thanks for sharing!

    • @zibabird
      @zibabird Před 4 lety +3

      Excellent! Thank you for sharing.

    • @twocentproductions5326
      @twocentproductions5326 Před 4 lety

      Jackfact ZIG says he needed that, his 30yr old daughter is battling 4 brain cancer, not looking forward to the different life without her...

  • @kathykubina2743
    @kathykubina2743 Před rokem +10

    Thank you for sharing all. Someday a lot of us may be living like this. Not everyone likes to be around people. I'd rather be around animals. ❤️🌝

  • @brendaestes5391
    @brendaestes5391 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m so sorry about your brother. Hugs for you. You guys are amazing and your faith is strong you are very blessed to have one another to lean on. I can see you work well together as it should be. My husband and I are like that too. Your spot in the woods is amazing. Blessing for you both.

  • @momofrex4183
    @momofrex4183 Před 3 lety +28

    Just seeing this channel for the 1st time. You have such a beautiful area to build. And you seem to have such a beautiful spirit. So very sorry that you had to kiss your brother goodbye. My brother passed suddenly 1 year ago and I didn't get to say goodbye to him. It was so very very hard and still is as both are parents have passed away. But our hope is in the Lord and a blessed reunion with our saved loved ones and getting to worship at His feet for all eternity. Bless you.

  • @elizabethwatt8131
    @elizabethwatt8131 Před 3 lety +39

    I’m so sorry. It really hurts, I know.... There is something about a sibling. Maybe because they shared the same womb as you. They are the same blood. They are you......., just a different body. They’ve grown up with you, together, shared the same life.
    And they go on.....before you. They’ve gone on....to the great divide, and you are left behind. Do they see you...as they look down from Heaven? Do they know how much you miss them? ..............but they are at Peace, at last. No pain. Just total LOVE. RIP

    • @jenjarrell9973
      @jenjarrell9973 Před 2 lety +5

      "They shared the same womb as you." What a beautiful and moving statement. I am the youngest of 8...six girls and two boys. My parents were both amazing people, devoutly Catholic. My beloved father died in 1999 and my dear mother suffered loneliness from his loss until her death in 2012. She was happy with her children, grandchildren and her church but she wasn't complete without him. Then my sister died of an accidental overdose in 2014 and my brother died from a freak, tragic fall from a ladder in 2019. Grief is grief but my siblings' deaths hit a different way than our parents. We used to be a tight family unit but death's blow is hard and relentless. They went on before us but I hang on to your last statement while awaiting our heavenly reunion...no pain, no suffering- just peace and total LOVE.

  • @cinrsmoviereviews5109
    @cinrsmoviereviews5109 Před rokem +1

    I’m so sorry to hear about your brother’s passing. May he rest well. May your memories help you through this difficult time. Until you meet again.

  • @sheilajoseph9953
    @sheilajoseph9953 Před rokem +5

    Sorry about your brother.
    God bless him 🙏
    Your land is awesome and the lake looks inviting, you need a little boat.
    I've watched your vlogs for first time today subscribed and now I'm watching them backwards. Take care, live life to the full, do what makes you happy and brings joy. ❤

  • @christinechurch8303
    @christinechurch8303 Před 3 lety +68

    It is nice you two found each other, it is a joy to hear you interact.

  • @katden220
    @katden220 Před 2 lety +12

    You guys are the perfect couple! Now I am a Abba fan myself. Chiqitita my fave!
    So very sorry for your loss. I have lost my brother, my husband and my mother all within 5 years.
    So many days I have each of them on my mind and know they are watching over me.

  • @michellemarieperez6574
    @michellemarieperez6574 Před rokem +4

    I could imagine the Hemlock smelling so so good. You two are so cute.
    Great video.👍🌻🙏❤️🇺🇲

  • @sheryllbaskin2658
    @sheryllbaskin2658 Před rokem +5

    Love following you. You inspire me. Great seeing you both chillaxing with Abba too

  • @InnKogNeeto
    @InnKogNeeto Před 3 lety +136

    I’m crying. You are good people. Keep Christ centered like you are doing. God bless you.

    • @tygewellman5352
      @tygewellman5352 Před 3 lety +3

      Yep, I cried at 40:40 too.

    • @nancyjones7932
      @nancyjones7932 Před 2 lety +3

      I'm crying as well. My oldest child had an addition problem and ended his on life. Totally understand. I am so sorry for your loss.

    • @janenelovelove2639
      @janenelovelove2639 Před 2 lety +1

      I COULDNT AGREE WITH YOU MORE+ I"m overfilled while thumbing thru channels God stopped me to watch this...this beautiful display of encouragement, love inspiration+

  • @stephensgate1
    @stephensgate1 Před 4 lety +59

    I’m so sorry Brooke. My brother is struggling with addiction too, and I’m at loss on what else I can do to help him. He lives in Minnesota, I live in Ohio. So, it’s not so easy to see each other. So sad to see someone you love struggle with alcohol and other substances. Again, I’m so sad that you lost your brother. May he rest in peace in the presence of our Lord and Savior, Christ Jesus. ❤️ -Stephen, Ohio

  • @calewis55
    @calewis55 Před 25 dny

    I love how you work together and listen to one another. It's true joy.

  • @user-ol2jk5sm5h
    @user-ol2jk5sm5h Před 11 měsíci +1

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother, deepest sympathy to you & your family

  • @craigjohnson4271
    @craigjohnson4271 Před 3 lety +33

    I didn't expect to start crying at the end... Thoughts go out to you, I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @katbot2190
    @katbot2190 Před 3 lety +66

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you got to tell him you loved him.

  • @bernfran1313
    @bernfran1313 Před rokem +3

    Beautiful countryside. Condolences for you and fam. So glad you made it back to see him before he passed on.

  • @dfberry
    @dfberry Před 2 lety +4

    I think you honored your brother by living YOUR best life while doing what you could for him. We can only love those with additions -- with the hope that we can provide them with a different "view" of life by the way we live owns -- but alas, each person makes their own choices/paths. I know it's not easy --- but, everyone makes their own life.

  • @kayashmore4296
    @kayashmore4296 Před 3 lety +27

    I can sympathize with you. Oct 21 started a down hill run for my husband. He was 73 & had a bad heart. 1.5 yr ago had a defibrillator/pacemaker put in. He was 100% dependent upon it. His organs started showing signs of failure not getting floor flow they needed. Nov 5th test "C+" so I was not able to be with him after that. His phone was his only lifeline to family. Meds could not help keep his fluids from filling his arms hands legs & feet. He coded on Dec 16th & they brought him back but on Dec 18th he was bleeding someplace & his organs began shutting down. They did allow 2 of our boys living in state and me to come & say our goodbyes. We spent 6hrs with him & said if he was able we would talk in the morning. Five hrs later they called to say he had passed peacefully to Jesus arms in heaved. He had many loved ones already there to greet him. Best of all he gets to spend eternity with God. We too will join him & many loved ones & friends who have already gone ahead of us. Great joy in our sorrow to have that peace. John 3:16

  • @trynsurviven2440
    @trynsurviven2440 Před 4 lety +62

    It’s hard to find the right words to say when someone has lost a loved one. Losing a sibling seems a lot tougher than a aunt or uncle or even a parent. My sincere apologies and condolences to you and your family during this terrible time.

  • @stephanieskarren3434
    @stephanieskarren3434 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Don't ever stop showing us your falls and mistakes and goofs! These things happen, it's real life and that's how things go sometimes. Love watching you guys. I grew up in the UP, my husband and I are looking for land to homestead, not sure where we'll end up but you guys are definitely an inspiration! God bless!

  • @richardbartley2584
    @richardbartley2584 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am so so sorry for your loss. It's hard to know what to say at a time like this, I was just getting ready to write how wonderful it was watching you and Dave relaxing and not really working for a change...but, again, my condolences.

  • @karensnider2332
    @karensnider2332 Před 4 lety +36

    Your land is beautiful, and your brother no longer has pain or addiction in heaven. God bless

  • @brendasmith5699
    @brendasmith5699 Před 3 lety +56

    Isn't it funny that everytime you see someone cooking it makes you want to get up and cook some too? 😉 I think I will 🤗😊🤣

  • @joebayley9010
    @joebayley9010 Před 2 lety +1

    Sorry to hear about your brother and his passing my heart go's out to you and your family

  • @melaniecrews52
    @melaniecrews52 Před rokem +2

    I'm a newbie and these self build videos have been saving grace teachings. I've added you & hubby to my "thank God for you both" list of fav couples 💑❤ 🙏.

  • @luciepaul1
    @luciepaul1 Před 3 lety +28

    So sorry for your loss. Never east losing a loved one. May god wrap his arms around you and your family in this time of need. God bless you

    • @eisbeinGermany
      @eisbeinGermany Před 3 lety +2

      yes ive lost 2 brothers,one due to a foiled armed robbery and he died in his shop,already in 2003 but still think about him everyday, second one due to being hit on his head at work when a chain block fell down, that was at same time my other brother got shot, in the same week, the brothers work accident happened the wednesday and the friday my brother got shot, ok the other brother only died in 2011 but was a brain aneurysm from the hit on head, his skull was cracked open, so i know what it is too loose 2 brothers, so i know what it is too lose a loved one,

  • @fredferd965
    @fredferd965 Před 4 lety +307

    When I worked for the police years ago, I heard a hard nosed detective talk to a lady who had just lost a loved one and I was very surprised to hear what he said. It's OK to cry, he said. Love is the only thing that is able to cross the barrier between the living and the dead. Hate is a strong force, but it is not powerful enough, only love. Your brother will hear your tears, and he will know. They will be your last gift to him. It's OK to grieve - in fact, you're supposed to. And then, some day, at some time in the future known only to you, will get up one morning and know that everything is allright now, and that will be his last gift to you. And then you can go on. The man had put in a full career in the force, and he was as hard a man as could be. Before that day on the job, I had never heard him say more than a single sentence at a time, but he did this for a lady. That was over 30 years ago, and I've never forgotten it.

    • @CarlaHanson68
      @CarlaHanson68 Před 4 lety +14

      That is a beautiful thing to say, my friend, and so true! Love is definitely the thing that connects us to our loved ones, whether living or dead. 💕

    • @PaulButkiewicz
      @PaulButkiewicz Před 4 lety +8

      Beautiful. Thank you for sharing

    • @bodz64
      @bodz64 Před 4 lety +4

      Thanks for this. 🎈❤️🎈

    • @carolburke9153
      @carolburke9153 Před 3 lety +4

      thankyóu fred 💗

    • @debbiedebbie9473
      @debbiedebbie9473 Před 3 lety +3

      Beautiful ❤️

  • @mobayguy
    @mobayguy Před 2 lety +2

    You guys are like one loving soul. Brooke, I offer Peace to you and your family. Thank you folks - May God Bless and Keep you Always

  • @richardandreao1332
    @richardandreao1332 Před 5 měsíci

    I honestly could smell the woods for a brief second when your camera first panned around your property. It's been a while, so thank you!
    Sorry for your loss, but it's so good to have that solid hope of seeing one another again.

  • @marlenemeek9030
    @marlenemeek9030 Před 3 lety +19

    This is a powerful video. A film maker could create an amazing movie out of just everything you have shared here...there is love, natural beauty, music, a warm fire and beautiful people. Sorry about your loss. My brother also died young for reasons that were hard to accept. After coming home from Vietnam, we didn't realize he was suffering from PTSD. He drove off a cliff and broke his back because he wasn't fully in control of his truck. This didn't kill him immediately but he was never the same and his quality of life was reduced because of alcoholism.Thank you for making this beautiful brave video. It's not the first time I've watched it and it probably won't be the last.

  • @HIPPIETHUG92109
    @HIPPIETHUG92109 Před 2 lety +57

    You two are so darn adorable together. I love watching your inner child at play. BTW that breakfast looked amazing!!! My mouth was watering the entire time while it was cooking.
    🙏💪❤️ To you both!

  • @Conservative01
    @Conservative01 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m 3 years late, but I’m so sorry for your the loss of your brother. It’s comforting knowing we will see our loved ones again! God Bless!

  • @ebgnina
    @ebgnina Před rokem +3

    Nice to have someone to share this with. ❤️

  • @terrimalek
    @terrimalek Před 2 lety +39

    Deepest condolences for the loss of your brother. Thank you for the inspiration. Beautiful land and life. Many blessings.

  • @kimkelley9269
    @kimkelley9269 Před 3 lety +45

    Brooke, I just found your channel and I can't quit watching! I love seeing you and Dave work together! You two are a wonderful couple! The morning breakfast looked awesome too! So sorry to hear of your brother's passing.

  • @brianshanahan3878
    @brianshanahan3878 Před 4 měsíci

    Your brother heard you / felt your energy and is at peace and in a place of infinite amazement and wonder. So glad you got to see him before his journey!

  • @Thylacine1
    @Thylacine1 Před rokem +1

    You two are just such a gift, thanks so much for sharing your lives with the world. She gone!

  • @tygewellman5352
    @tygewellman5352 Před 3 lety +18

    I started crying at 40:40. It is so beautiful see people pray in public and love the Lord publicly. Thank you for that🙏✝️🛐💒
    PS, just lost my brother last week to drinking and smoking his whole life.

  • @angelsmith9480
    @angelsmith9480 Před 4 lety +62

    I feel ya, honey. My brother was a lifelong addict and died two weeks ago. May our Lord Jesus comfort you in this time of loss as only He can.

    • @therealgirlinthewoods
      @therealgirlinthewoods  Před 4 lety +12

      I'm so sorry

    • @tiffanieqaisar4632
      @tiffanieqaisar4632 Před 4 lety +16

      I think that addiction is a terrible DISEASE because IT IS. I don't believe that alcoholics or drug users purposely intend it. Its just a real tragedy and especially I have seen the pattern in my life that most people who suffer most, are most fragile and sensitive and kind hearted and never fit in because they are so pure of spirit. It's really not the world they connect with and most say they'd rather Go Back Home on the other side. I understand and feel that way too. Mama Mia has a part 2 now but you have to pay for it or pay for upgraded Netflix which is ridiculous! Making eggs and homemade bread for breakfast as I type this. Thank God for our Blessings and may everyone find comfort in their creator, for those here andon the other side! Bless you. Make us some coleslaw next time with a fish fry and hush puppies old skool way, haha! I love TexMex food and culture, its who I am! Fiesta for breakfast everyday because it gives you a good boost if you forget to eat later... you could survive solely on your breakfasts, Brooke!!!!!
      💋🤍🤍🤍🤍🙋‍♀️😷🙋‍♀️🤍🤍🤍🤍💋

    • @sandravanlankvelt7975
      @sandravanlankvelt7975 Před 4 lety +1

      God's blessings to you for your loss and he's in God's hands now. Hugs to you.

    • @tinkerbell4296
      @tinkerbell4296 Před 3 lety +3

      My brother committed suicide because of addiction...I think about him everyday. I don't know how anybody lives without knowing Jesus Christ.

  • @ElsieDee001
    @ElsieDee001 Před 2 lety +1

    So very sorry for your loss. I’ve lost all three of my brothers. Now, it’s just my older sister and I. My sis, at 80, is hanging on by a thread. Some day, my loved ones and I will all be reconnected. For now, living a God-filled life of gratitude keeps me going. Bless you both.

  • @davidsalinas8640
    @davidsalinas8640 Před 2 lety +3

    Y’all have a nice piece of property with lots of potential! I’m so sorry of your Brothers passing. I’m glad you got to see him one last time. I’m sure it’s been difficult for you. You two are certainly down to earth people and I enjoy watching the two of you poke fun at each other, keeps the spark alive! Enjoyed your video.

  • @SCSlimBoiseID
    @SCSlimBoiseID Před 4 lety +38

    So sorry for your loss, Brooke. We know from earlier videos that you've tried to help him. I lost my two older brothers some years ago, a few years apart - it's not easy letting go, but I believe, as you do, that I will see them again. I've found some comfort in 1 Thessalonians 4: 13-14. Wishing you peace for your heart, rest for your soul, and comfort for your spirit.

  • @gaeasnavel8955
    @gaeasnavel8955 Před 2 lety +29

    Prayers to you and your family as the anniversary is upon us. God bless you for sharing with us and may he keep you guys safe from harm always.🕊 thank you for sharing how to do this. I recently purchased my first property and will be doing all the work alone. Watching you inspires me and gives me faith that I can 💕

  • @MUDDRAGGERRC
    @MUDDRAGGERRC Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks a million for bringing me along! Your spirits are incredibly beautiful, im very sorry for your loss. I will always watch your videos from now on.

  • @SallyanneDeegan-sh4kb
    @SallyanneDeegan-sh4kb Před 2 lety +1

    You are living my dream life style... thanks for all the instructions on camping in the wild.... wish I had a partner to work with like you guys....the ultimate life in my opinion
    Tears for your loss...so deeply sorry

  • @mrs.c5471
    @mrs.c5471 Před 3 lety +15

    I am so sorry for your loss.. He’s with GOD now and will never hurt again.

  • @kellyrogers4301
    @kellyrogers4301 Před 4 lety +19

    I'm so sorry about your brother. I started crying then thought of my sister who also struggled with addiction and passed a couple years ago of an overdose. I'm sorry.

  • @jofleury2982
    @jofleury2982 Před 8 měsíci

    I was just watching the video, where you lost your brother. Am sorry to hear. We all have to say Thank You for everyday we have. None of us should take it for granted. Hes no longer suffering, though that doesnt make it easier.

  • @RebaBrooks-es5gy
    @RebaBrooks-es5gy Před 5 dny

    I love watching your videos; you two compliment each other in all aspects of remote life: staking out the perfect spot for a cabin; seeing your dreams come true through all the amazing talents you all have. I've been watching your You Tube channels for a long time now. As important, if not the most important thing that I admire about you two, you never forget to THANK OUR HEAVENLY FATHER for all the BLESSINGS that have come your way: Blessings on the food you eat; the beautiful day and time with which HE has given you to accomplish your worthwhile dreams. I really appreciate this quality you have in your lives.

  • @trayseelaysee
    @trayseelaysee Před 2 lety +17

    Wow, I felt that! Thank you for being so intimate with us. I was smiling when I heard you genuinely laughing with your hubby and I was crying by the end. I'm very sorry for your heartache and loss. That was such an accurate representation of exactly the way it goes..... You're doing ok, actually, you're a little better than ok. You're grateful and appreciative for how wonderful life is, how beautiful things are, you just settle down and kind of snuggle into the calm love of the person you sincerely enjoy spending time with, and suddenly you have to move really fast towards the polar opposite situation. It can be scary and difficult. It isn't easy navigating through the trauma of how quickly things can change forever. I was just telling my daughter, 26, that when she finds things are calm and ok, be happy, be grateful, stop and hold onto that feeling with both hands. Happiness and being content isn't something to wait for, go find it and live in it, cover yourself in it, like a blanket. I can promise you this, you'll be ok again. In time, after your heart heals, you'll get back to the calm you had that weekend.

  • @willowwolf9472
    @willowwolf9472 Před 3 lety +23

    Brooke, watching you and Dave is delightful. Best and most heart warming reality show I’ve ever seen. Keep that song in your heart, prayers on your lips and the positive attitude. You are awesome!

  • @taiweannoona1204
    @taiweannoona1204 Před 2 lety +1

    I felt that. I truly did. Family is precious and special. I hope things are better since then. Thankyou for sharing your adventures with us. I just found your husband building a little cabin this morning. It was nice since life has been stressful for me and mine. A nice relief even if only for a little while. I loved watching you guys trapesin around like a couple of deer 🦌 much love from the Oregon coast❤️

  • @spiceangel10
    @spiceangel10 Před 2 lety +1

    So sorry for the loss of your brother. It’s never easy especially when it comes unexpectedly. May your heart be healed and your soul put to ease that you will see him again when the time is right.

  • @brucesz2334
    @brucesz2334 Před 3 lety +48

    I could deal with the mosquitoes. It was the black flies coming at me with a knife and fork that I couldn't stand.

  • @jacquejecker4435
    @jacquejecker4435 Před 3 lety +24

    This is the first episode of yours that I have watched. I will watch them all over a period of time. I pray Gods peace for you, after seeing the conclusion. I know there are really no words that will get rid of the pain, but there are so many very wonderful thoughts for you in this blog. This is a part of life we always dread. The only thing I can say is that it does get better, but it takes time. I have not yet lost any siblings but we lost our son in 1995 and I lost my wife in 2016. You have such a beautiful place to go to grieve and be close to God and your brother. Peace.

    • @therealgirlinthewoods
      @therealgirlinthewoods  Před 3 lety +3

      thank you jacque

    • @tannisgiesbrecht3253
      @tannisgiesbrecht3253 Před 2 lety +3

      I lost my mom when I was 25 and a nine month old baby That was hard Then I lost my best friend and sister Penny you know the scary stories in the woods. I found that so hard to hear when someone loses someone we love
      Then in 2010 I had a knock at the door our daughter was taken from us in a train accident I still have some hard days Losing a child is uniquely harder for it does not make sense Here is where my faith in Jesus kept me going love your sight

  • @DaMoose1015
    @DaMoose1015 Před 11 měsíci

    So sorry for your loss. Glad you were able to say farewell. My wife's youngest passed bc of addiction. It's a horrible and heartless master. Prayers for peace and comfort.❤

  • @janepipkin8139
    @janepipkin8139 Před rokem

    I agree with developing a property slowly and organically and in harmony with nature. That's what I'm doing on my property. It might take longer and might be harder, but I feel all the natural world appreciates it!

  • @randallcaldwell5675
    @randallcaldwell5675 Před 3 lety +20

    You Lady are a treasure! Your partner is a lucky man and he knows it!

  • @Henry.58
    @Henry.58 Před 3 lety +19

    So sorry for your loss. We all have a loved one's who have Addiction Demons they fight. I understand the pain of not being able to save someone.May he Rest in Peace.

  • @joycecook8876
    @joycecook8876 Před rokem +1

    So sorry for your loss Brooke. Beautiful property and a special place to discover and remember. ♥️🙏

  • @JayYarbroughMusic
    @JayYarbroughMusic Před 2 lety +1

    No relationship is perfect but I absolutely noticed how, on the way into your property, the two of you made decisions together. I didn't notice any ego getting in the way. I'm sure you've heard it many times but, it seems (from a viewers perspective) you two are big time lucky to have each other. Just wanted to share.

  • @fionalouise4998
    @fionalouise4998 Před 4 lety +45

    I’m so sorry you lost your precious brother. My thoughts are with you. From a mother who lost her 19yr old daughter

    • @CarlaHanson68
      @CarlaHanson68 Před 4 lety +9

      I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings to you, my friend.

    • @Downeastwaves
      @Downeastwaves Před 4 lety +5

      Sorry you lost your daughter

    • @kathygirlygirl4109
      @kathygirlygirl4109 Před 4 lety +11

      Yes, I lost my sister and then 4 yrs. and 4 days later my son died. It changed me forever. It stole half of my soul. I do love the Lord but there is no changing that kind of loss. It's a club no parent ever wants to join.

    • @Death852
      @Death852 Před 4 lety +3

      i am so sorry for your loss 😢

    • @therealgirlinthewoods
      @therealgirlinthewoods  Před 4 lety +15

      I can't imagine. My dad took it the hardest. You're not supposed to outlive your children. I'm so sorry.

  • @tobes911
    @tobes911 Před 3 lety +21

    Sorry to hear about your brother. Addiction is the worst to witness in our loved ones. 😢 💜🙏☮️

  • @rebeccahutcheson599
    @rebeccahutcheson599 Před rokem

    I love the freedom U2 have together dancing and singing is awesome. I was cracking up so sweet so sweet

  • @JudiDolliverAstley
    @JudiDolliverAstley Před 2 lety +6

    I love the pics of sitting/dancing around the fire! My hubby & I are 57 & 60 we have camped all our married lives. In fact we camped in tents & cooked on campfires whilst building three homes when I was a child growing up. Your videos bring back all those wonderful memories! ❣️🏕