Seeing Two Surgeons At Hospital | Cancer & Vlogmas DAY 6

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  • @tiffanythinks
    @tiffanythinks  Před rokem +346

    Happy Vlogmas Day 6 - initially I just wanted to get the surgery done and not meet the surgeons but now I completely get why seeing and meeting them is so important. It’s so important to understand what they’re doing & how it’ll impact my life. I know it’s a big surgery but I also know I am the luckiest girl with so much support so I will get through it🙏 thank you for being part of my life - i love you a lot a lot a lot my tiffanythinks family, we got this💙 IG, FB & TikTok: @tiffanythinks. Subscribe💙

    • @sherrybettencourt8424
      @sherrybettencourt8424 Před rokem +9

      💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏WE GOT THIS 💙Thinking and prayers & Love sent to you Tiffany. ❤️❤️From Canada,🇨🇦

    • @attainingwellness4559
      @attainingwellness4559 Před rokem +7

      💙💙💙

    • @louisepianokeyz2860
      @louisepianokeyz2860 Před rokem +7

      💙💙💙

    • @annsmith4739
      @annsmith4739 Před rokem +13

      Hi Tiffany sweetheart,iv sent you a card I painted an made myself sent it to your P.O. Box hope you like it Ann 🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️

    • @debbiestinson9983
      @debbiestinson9983 Před rokem +10

      We love you too! You are the sweetest and strongest person I've ever seen 💗

  • @patdaniell5528
    @patdaniell5528 Před rokem +90

    I think mum is looking unwell because near to the op on her daughter. Frightening for a mum who can't show her true emotions in front of you tiff. She needs lots of hugs and kisses from you especially when you see her like she was today. She has done so well xxxxx

  • @katarzynaw.9036
    @katarzynaw.9036 Před rokem +324

    Please, Tiffany, give your mother a big hug. Yes, from Mom to Mom. I feel sorry for her. Seeing a child suffer is a terrible thing. Hang on Girl!

    • @SingingForTheCreator
      @SingingForTheCreator Před rokem +8

      🙏we are praying everything will go well.

    • @DanetteVega
      @DanetteVega Před rokem +26

      I totally agree!! Amma
      Is amazing. Everyone needs an Amma.

    • @charliebarrow7086
      @charliebarrow7086 Před rokem +25

      You are speaking directly from the bottom of my heart, and surely on behalf of almost all mothers out there. My heart is full of love for Amma.

    • @liviamoon
      @liviamoon Před rokem +1

      💖🙏🤗🕊

    • @michellemarshall4411
      @michellemarshall4411 Před rokem +2

      🙏🏻💙

  • @kristinsiebert4504
    @kristinsiebert4504 Před rokem +129

    My mom watched two of her children be sick from cancer. Sadly my brother passed away. The pain she had in her heart was unbearable. Let Amma be there for you, let her cry with you, let her hold your hand, let her wipe your tears, this is what moms need to do. My mom used to tell me, it doesn’t matter how old we are she will always be our MOM. Biggest hugs to Amma and Tiffany you seem to have so much joy in your heart right now it is so nice to see. I call all of my health issues bumps in the road. You will get over this bump and life will be so much better 💕

    • @puntinprincess7343
      @puntinprincess7343 Před rokem +5

      My dear, beautiful, love of my life grandma had to deal with my moms cancer, which we almost lost her and my grandma was there every single day, for months why my mom was still in the hospital, she said a mothers love and care starts at the womb to the tomb, which is so true and didnt really get it until i had my own children. A saying could never be more true!

    • @librarylover6414
      @librarylover6414 Před rokem +7

      I lost my daughter in a car accident. Heartbreaking. So sorry for the terrible losses in your family.

    • @kristinsiebert4504
      @kristinsiebert4504 Před rokem

      @@librarylover6414 thank you!

    • @joannpergakis4183
      @joannpergakis4183 Před rokem

      So so sorry, hugs your way

    • @joannpergakis4183
      @joannpergakis4183 Před rokem +4

      @@librarylover6414 so sorry I lost my son suddenly
      Hugs to us

  • @brannon5311
    @brannon5311 Před rokem +130

    Tiffany, you are surrounded by a world-wide hug. You got this and we have your back.

    • @flowerlm47
      @flowerlm47 Před rokem +2

      Great way to describe our love and care for Tiffany!💙

  • @lisahubbard6442
    @lisahubbard6442 Před rokem +31

    Your precious Mom is hurting. It shows in her eyes. As a mom myself, and as a mom of a cancer surviving daughter (she’s only 27 now) she is terrified and hurting so bad for her Tiffany.
    Love on her - she needs it. Praying for you in NC, US.

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 Před rokem

      I have a daughter who’s just turned 27. I can’t imagine the unbearable pain you must have gone through. I’m so glad your daughter is ok now. It was heart wrenching to see Tiffany’s mum I’m this video. The pain in her eyes. I’m a nurse here in Australia. I see young adults with cancer and as much as I do all I can to help them I pay so much attention to the parents. I’m really concerned about Tiffany’s mum from a medical standpoint.

  • @showjumpingdreams7379
    @showjumpingdreams7379 Před rokem +51

    Bless poor Amma. She really seemed like she was struggling emotionally and physically in this video 😢

    • @stormfaith
      @stormfaith Před rokem +8

      Yes, Amma is carrying a heavy load. I love her so much… please, let’s keep Amma in our prayers along with darling Tiffany and Matt.🙏🏽

  • @chelsealouise1717
    @chelsealouise1717 Před rokem +57

    Can see the pain in Amma’s expression in this video. Wish I could give her a big hug. It’s hard when you are trying to keep a brave face for someone you love when all you want to do is break down. You will get through this Tiff I have every faith. We got this 💙💙

  • @tanyacrumlish
    @tanyacrumlish Před rokem +149

    There is not many youtubers that I need to watch instantly like your videos Tiffany, you are such a lovely young woman, and with such a kind positive energy about you. you have been through and going through so much yet you always remain so kind hearted and always looking out for us and everyone around you. Praying for you always💙💙💙

    • @lenablanc7162
      @lenablanc7162 Před rokem +4

      Hi tanya. I always see and read your comments. You always write very thoughtful, kind and loving ones. I think it's amazing. Just wanna tell you. Have a nice evening

    • @tanyacrumlish
      @tanyacrumlish Před rokem +1

      @@lenablanc7162 Hi Lena. This comment is also very sweet and has made my evening thank you love💕 hope your evening is going amazing!! sending love 💋

    • @lenablanc7162
      @lenablanc7162 Před rokem +1

      @@tanyacrumlish 💙💙

    • @Simple-d9i
      @Simple-d9i Před rokem +2

      I Agree!

    • @sarah29880
      @sarah29880 Před rokem +2

      Same !!

  • @MM-px4jc
    @MM-px4jc Před rokem +91

    You got this Tiffany - love your positivity. I generally try to watch your videos as an onlooker and not get emotionally drawn in, but today seeing Amma's comportment in the waiting room hit me hard on an emotional level. I hope she's also seeing a counselor to help her deal with your cancer journey. Wishing you the peace from God that surpasses all understanding.

    • @DanetteVega
      @DanetteVega Před rokem +1

      Tic tic tic!!!

    • @bygrace24
      @bygrace24 Před rokem +4

      I hope they are all being supported by cancer counsellors. There is going to be a huge lot to work through and Amma looks like someone who keeps it all in, bless her.

    • @misskay8131
      @misskay8131 Před rokem +4

      Omg, I thought I was the only one that saw how drained and upset Amma was in the hospital as they were waiting for the doctor. That really pulled at my heart strings. She is so strong, but I can’t even begin to imagine what she is dealing with seeing her daughter go through all this. My heart goes out to her and mothers everywhere whose children are unwell.

  • @tamathamavraides5532
    @tamathamavraides5532 Před rokem +20

    To Oma (spelling?) I see her pain. I hurt for her. She’s such a loving Mom. She’s the strongest person I’ve ever seen. To watch her child suffer is awful. I’d love to hug her so tight. Please tell her we love her. We see her. We really feel her hurt. We’re here for her too. She’s amazing. Please tell her or have her read these. ❤

  • @beverleycumming1876
    @beverleycumming1876 Před rokem +28

    I watch for Amma!! Getting closer and she’s just holding together her anxiety for you…you’ve got this

  • @jaynebahler9696
    @jaynebahler9696 Před rokem +16

    Hi Tiffany and Amma, I can really see the sorrow on Amma’s face today. She is struggling knowing her beautiful daughter is going thru this difficult journey. Please tell Amma I am praying for her that God will give her all the strength she needs. She’s the best Amma ever !! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dianaray1470
    @dianaray1470 Před rokem +9

    Ama is hurting. As a mum I understand exactly what she’s feeling. Bless her heart.

  • @karynahern970
    @karynahern970 Před rokem +21

    Sweet Tiffany, As a Mom I can see the pain in Almmas eyes, Pease give her a hug and kiss. Maybe you and Almma can go out for a special lunch, just you and Almma. Mom's always feels the hurt with their children no matter what their ages are. It breaks my heart seeing her like this. You are such an inspiration to all. You have a great support team, with Almma and Matt and all of your Tiffany Thinks Family. We all wish you the best in everything. We love you all too.💜💜 We Got This!!🙏🙏

  • @tamitarekolayan9918
    @tamitarekolayan9918 Před rokem +28

    Tiff, really enjoying your vloggmas!! Plz give AMMA a hug from Mom to a Mom! I have a chronically ill child now 26 and I know the pain a mother harbors inside! You and Matt are taking such good care of her!! She is priceless!💙💙🎄

  • @barbaranjang3730
    @barbaranjang3730 Před rokem +29

    And please a big hug to Ama. She is such a great, lovely, strong Lady with a big big Heart with sooo much love inside💙

  • @sherladixon2842
    @sherladixon2842 Před rokem +7

    As a mom of 3 grown children , my heart goes out to your mom. I can’t imagine how she feels seeing you going thru this. God knows all about your body and he knows what you need. He will give you strength .

  • @iselasotolongo6695
    @iselasotolongo6695 Před rokem +34

    Poor Amma is barely holding on. As a mother I can imagine what she's going thru watching her precious daughter suffer.

    • @lindajohnson.
      @lindajohnson. Před rokem +4

      She looks very stressed today! Hope this surgery will be over soon❤

  • @dianestevens2659
    @dianestevens2659 Před rokem +13

    Are we seeing the videos the day they are filmed? People are saying they are a week old.

  • @tanyabryden4640
    @tanyabryden4640 Před rokem +30

    Can you please tell your mum Tiffany that she is so amazing with her driving. I have no idea how she drives around in places she's not familiar with and seem so calm. Honestly that in itself deserves huge 👏. 💙..love to you all x

  • @elainesheldon5823
    @elainesheldon5823 Před rokem +10

    When will you get a date for your operation? All taking a long time.?

  • @sue7500
    @sue7500 Před rokem +53

    You and your Mum are adorable the love u have for each other shines like a bright star. U have got this.xx

    • @abigailh7715
      @abigailh7715 Před rokem +3

      🥰so sweet and such kind encouraging words

    • @cherdeandrade9259
      @cherdeandrade9259 Před rokem +7

      Im so worried about Amma as well. I know tiff is going thru so so much, but her poor mom...I wish we could help her in dealing with Tiffany 24/7... it's daunting and I sure hope Amma is taking care of herself too.❤

  • @peggytan8328
    @peggytan8328 Před rokem +4

    Amma looks so exhausted. Hope that she takes care of herself too, eats well and rest well so that she is able to care for you after your surgery. Wish you well, tiffany!❤❤❤

  • @lifewithveronicah
    @lifewithveronicah Před rokem +59

    Please give Amma lots of hugs from us💙💙💙
    Today she especially seemed down😢
    I hope she knows how much we all care about her and you Tiffany 💙💙
    We got this💙💙
    Lots of hugs from 🇰🇪 💙💙
    Matt is the most amazing boyfriend 💙💙

  • @irenekupczak1314
    @irenekupczak1314 Před rokem +6

    Amma is a strong woman, but we can see just how exhausted she is. Love you all...

  • @cafedulce6545
    @cafedulce6545 Před rokem +13

    Too many appointments no treatment no surgery i would be scared that Cancer could be spreading

    • @Luna_and_Miles
      @Luna_and_Miles Před rokem +3

      stop. not helpful at all.

    • @azapater5619
      @azapater5619 Před rokem +1

      @Laney 26 are you sure? A whole week behind? The surgery is booked already and we know nothing? Why??????

    • @azapater5619
      @azapater5619 Před rokem +1

      @@dianareveron4576 gracias por tu mensaje. Estoy de acuerdo contigo. Hay retrasos inexplicables.... Sinceramente, no pinta bien...

    • @cafedulce6545
      @cafedulce6545 Před rokem

      @@dianareveron4576 asi mismo es

    • @azapater5619
      @azapater5619 Před rokem

      @@dianareveron4576 un placer hablar contigo. Gracias por escribirme. Si, tenemos que rezar por ella. Un abrazo!

  • @ivonnevermeer3600
    @ivonnevermeer3600 Před rokem +19

    It’s nice that you have the feeling you are in the best hands with your surgeon, I did not know Amma means mother, but I am sure we all want to have such a loving mom like yours dear Tiffany, you are both so loving , giving and humble, just like two angels, we got this 🥰💙

  • @hannahkime6902
    @hannahkime6902 Před rokem +9

    Do you know what I can't wait for the most. This time next year as we are watching you trim up for Christmas, watching you eat all the food you want. Living the life that you have fought so hard for, you are so remarkable and resilient and I simply cannot wait to see you take life by the balls. Loads of love to you all xxxx

  • @karenturner7983
    @karenturner7983 Před rokem +19

    I would like you to give Ama a hug for me. From one Mom to another. Watching her, breaks my heart. 💕

    • @lindaballenger4935
      @lindaballenger4935 Před rokem +2

      Me too

    • @lifewithveronicah
      @lifewithveronicah Před rokem

      Today she especially seemed down😢
      I hope she knows how much we all care about her and Tiffany 💙💙
      We got this Amma .
      Lots of hugs from 🇰🇪 💙💙
      Matt is the most amazing boyfriend to Tiffany 💙💙

  • @mindy9061
    @mindy9061 Před rokem +11

    What is the date for your surgery?

    • @21237flower
      @21237flower Před rokem

      She will let us know when she is ready. ❤

  • @xx50C3NTiiZMiiN3
    @xx50C3NTiiZMiiN3 Před rokem +11

    When is the surgery date?

  • @angelabatterton5080
    @angelabatterton5080 Před rokem +7

    Have you and your family had counseling or talking therapy.. Maybe your mum could do with talking to someone she seems to be bottling everything up xx

  • @marilynpalosaari2387
    @marilynpalosaari2387 Před rokem +10

    💙💙💙💙hi from 🇨🇦 Tiffany. My comment today is for Amma. Today was an extremely HARD day for her. I know she usually sits out appointments in the car. Today she came in, and heard some pretty complicated & explicit details I imagine. You could see the sorrow and fear in her eyes behind that mask.
    Yes... She opted to stay home for a "rest." I think she needed time alone for a good cry. Also... The look on her face (almost like horror) at the food treat you brought back for her.... Her face, to me was like "how can I possibly EAT when I feel like this?" I imagine her anxiety, stomach knots, and fearful brain is every single bit as bad as yours is, Tiff... and she too, tries to put on the brave face to protect you too. I feel like today she just Crashed & really hit a wall.
    So Amma and Tiffany... Hug it out and cry it out together. Reassure Amma that you will be strong enough to deal with the after effects of surgery, no matter how it goes. Tell Amma in WORDS that she helps you stay strong so much with her actions every single day! It's very easy to see that you are as close as can be, but sometimes we need the WORDS our loud, along with the hugs. Tell Amma from me, that she is a true Momma Bear & is doing a WONDERFUL JOB, but that she absolutely needs to take care of herself too. ❤️❤️
    I say this all with love & send all my love to your entire amazing family! 💙💙💙💙

    • @Luna_and_Miles
      @Luna_and_Miles Před rokem

      I think you are assuming an awful lot. Amma was exhausted, had been sleeping, she was sleepy when Tiffany handed her the bag of food. Don't assume you know that she was "horrified". Remember these videos are edited as well. We miss a lot too, of what goes on amongst Tiffany, Matt, and Amma. Maybe they ARE already hugging and crying it all out every day, most of the day. We get a tiny slice of their lives here in a half hour video. Tiffany is putting a brave and positive face forward, and I don't see why people have a problem with that.

    • @marilynpalosaari2387
      @marilynpalosaari2387 Před rokem +2

      @@Luna_and_Miles I'm sorry if my post sounded harsh or presumptuous. It certainly wasn't intended that way at all. I LOVE this entire family & their dynamic & kindness towards each other. ❤️❤️
      I, myself have travelled the cancer road, and know all too well how it affects EVERYONE in the family.
      I am 67 and a mother myself, and I know how I would be struggling to keep my *hit together if it had been my daughter going through treatment, and not me. So I DO identify with Amma. She is Tiffany's rock for sure, as is Matt.
      I have been following Tiffany from the start (and even 5 years ago), so I would never say an unkind thing about her or her family. I know she doesn't post every private moment. I know being on camera is not Matt or Amma's favorite thing, but they are getting used to it.
      Amma just seemed like she was having a very exhausting day. I wish I could reach out to her with huge hugs and cuddles, because she needs them too ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lauraapuan5610
    @lauraapuan5610 Před rokem +3

    My heart goes out to Amma in this vlog. As a mom myself, seeing her face in the doctors office, when you got a little emotional, her eyes looked so sad. Her love and concern for you is so apparent. I can guarantee you there is nowhere else she’d rather be than with you, supporting you, loving you.
    It’s been heartwarming to see you so happy and enjoying your Christmas decoration, and your darling Matt.
    You’ve got this💙 and we are here for you💙

  • @carolliskovice7250
    @carolliskovice7250 Před rokem +8

    I’m glad he pain medicine and anti sickness meds have made such a difference. You are eating well, smiling, going out and enjoying yourself without pain and even drinking hot chocolate. You go girl. Hugs and love.❤

  • @theresacrockett8559
    @theresacrockett8559 Před rokem +18

    Tiffany, Throughout this awful ordeal, you have been able to be a light to everyone around you. You have the most beautiful, kind and loving and joyful spirit. I see it as God Almighty supernaturally carrying you, Amma and Matt. Even under this immense strain, I see the unwavering peace and love among you. No matter what comes against you, I see how God's spirit is protecting and keeping all of you. Psalm 91 He who dwells in the shelter of the most high will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I thank God for all who pray for you. We are witnesses to the Grace of God carrying you, Amma and Matt. Love and continued prayers xo

  • @dianaray1470
    @dianaray1470 Před rokem +5

    How many people does it take to figure out to make hot chocolate?? 😂

  • @EshaAudrina
    @EshaAudrina Před rokem +6

    Do they not assign a dietician to you for the type of food to eat?

  • @lucbelcher7256
    @lucbelcher7256 Před rokem +3

    I hope since they haven't done any treatment, that it hasn't grown because that would mean she has to have more cut out.
    I'm by no means a Dr and I know they definitely know what they are doing, it is just something that has been worrying me.

  • @sharonhoward884
    @sharonhoward884 Před rokem +2

    You could see the pain in Amma's face today & from the comments here most people can see this is taking a big toll on her. She didn't look well later in this video. Perhaps your aunt who is a doctor can sit in on a chat or help get a Tamil speaking counsellor & home care service on board. Matt is wonderful although he is the income earner and his physical capacity to be there is limited. Amma is probably grieving and still has a lot of emotions to experience while at the same time providing physical care and love for you. It's a lot. she'll need breaks (whether she likes it or not) and someone to be there for her. "Who nurtures the nurturer?" was something I remember well from my own cancer journey. Prayers and love to you all xxxx

  • @christine8394
    @christine8394 Před rokem +28

    I struggle to eat first thing after waking up, I need at least 2 cups of tea and a shower before I can face food :) I don't get hungry until mid afternoon. It's great to see you so positive. 2 important consutations in one day must be physically and emotionaly draining but 'you've got this' xxx

    • @stephanieadlard4077
      @stephanieadlard4077 Před rokem +1

      So glad that you were pleased with you visit with the doctors. Stay positive and everything will fall into place! Praying for you always! We Got This💙

    • @charliebarrow7086
      @charliebarrow7086 Před rokem +2

      I thought I was one of the few that feel like you feel about breakfast. Can't eat in the mornings, start to get hungry at around two pm.

  • @denisewebb5073
    @denisewebb5073 Před rokem +6

    Ama seems sad and looks exhausted. I hope she can rest for a few days.

  • @susanfleming496
    @susanfleming496 Před rokem +7

    You and Amma did a great job getting through 2 appointments on one day. It can't be easy. Praying that your surgery goes well, Tiffany. It looks like you're doing well and eating more lately which is great. Thinking of you and sending big hugs to you, your sweet mom and Matt. We got this dear girl! 💙💙💙

  • @donnaoleson9499
    @donnaoleson9499 Před rokem +12

    Yes , poor Amma 😢, she looks especially sad today. The world is encircling her in a loving hug

    • @dianestevens2659
      @dianestevens2659 Před rokem +1

      I feel she is suffering from carer stress and needs a break

  • @joannemcmurray1361
    @joannemcmurray1361 Před rokem +7

    One last thing, Amma is very worried and she needs a lot of cuddles. I’m a Mom and I can’t imagine my daughter having cancer, let alone major
    surgery. She will as you feel better when that’s over. Me too love jo

  • @providencephelps1497
    @providencephelps1497 Před rokem +8

    Does anyone know what day Tiff’s surgery is scheduled for? I haven’t missed an episode. I know that she said that the physicians were hoping to get her in before the 19th. I’d feel so much better knowing that they had an actual date for this procedure.
    You’ve got this Tiffany!! We love you!

    • @providencephelps1497
      @providencephelps1497 Před rokem +2

      @@danielbobberson9849 thank you! I’m sure she’s set to have the operation. I just remembered that she did mention a possibility of January a few weeks back. I just want to get this done and over with. Cheers to a cancer-free Tiffany!! ❤️❤️

    • @marisa8699
      @marisa8699 Před rokem

      @@danielbobberson9849 what's your evidence for that?

  • @babysteps22
    @babysteps22 Před rokem +4

    I am glad you are enjoying the season. I hope all of you (you Amma and Matt) have considered support groups and seeing a therapist. You all need

  • @CocktailUmbrellas
    @CocktailUmbrellas Před rokem +12

    After meeting with two surgeons there's no "new news"?

    • @lizgephart2040
      @lizgephart2040 Před rokem +7

      I can’t comprehend this at all.

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  Před rokem +4

      It’s about the surgery and what it entails - my main surgeon has already told me what each surgeon will do. I know it all now so when I saw these doctors I already knew what was going to happen because my main surgeon had already told me ☺️ hope this makes sense 💙

    • @Luna_and_Miles
      @Luna_and_Miles Před rokem +2

      If by "news" you mean you want every detail of everything Tiffany's surgeons tell her, that is asking a lot. It is quite personal. Tiffany has been fully informed and that is all that matters.

    • @loretaloreta1041
      @loretaloreta1041 Před rokem +1

      @laney268 stop being a scam.
      Tiffany block this one!!!!!
      she all over leave comments being not a friendly at all only trying be negative and saying things against you!!!

  • @sharonproctor4079
    @sharonproctor4079 Před rokem +9

    Here in the US usually only kids do advent calendars. The excitement builds each day to Christmas.

    • @patdaniell5528
      @patdaniell5528 Před rokem +1

      I don't think a child would like the candle calendar do you have a nice Xmas

    • @jodysmaggus1862
      @jodysmaggus1862 Před rokem +2

      My husband is enjoying his After Eight one. He is 59😂❤

    • @helenagreenwood2305
      @helenagreenwood2305 Před rokem +3

      My adult daughter buys me the Number 7 make-up calendar 👄💅 am in UK 👍🇬🇧

    • @lynnpayne6262
      @lynnpayne6262 Před rokem +1

      I have seen them for dogs and cats too. So cute!

    • @loretaloreta1041
      @loretaloreta1041 Před rokem +2

      Im in USA and i just got beer advent calendar for my boyfriend😂

  • @tamathamavraides5532
    @tamathamavraides5532 Před rokem +14

    Matt is the sweetest! He packs lunches and snacks. He’s thoughtful. He’s loyal. It’s so easy to see he loves you. I’m so happy you have such amazing support. What I want for Christmas? I want you to be healthy after this surgery. That would make me so happy. Best gift ever. Stuff doesn’t matter health and relationships matter. We’ve got this!!!

  • @michiganmom857
    @michiganmom857 Před rokem +2

    I always think of Surgeons as artists, they are truly amazing in their abilities.

  • @Crystal-t6g
    @Crystal-t6g Před rokem +5

    Tiffany, Will done for keeping up with these daily videos. Please be careful your not doing to much, can you please say more about your surgery. It would be helpful to understand what why and how your surgery is going, l feel in the complete dark, in terms of what’s happening for you. Have you started counselling, you will need some preparation, before your operation. Your mum needs a break she’s shattered, she’s an absolute angel. I love her nonstop take care of yourself and rest up. 💐🎄💛

  • @SleekBlack82
    @SleekBlack82 Před rokem +7

    This video footage is probably from a week ago (End of November) so I'm guessing her surgery is a week away from now. Before Christmas.

  • @heatherjunker967
    @heatherjunker967 Před rokem

    With having to meet with each doctor to talk about surgery, it makes it more real. Of course Ama is upset and she's tired. Most mom's would be the same way. She is trying to be strong but she is going through emotions too. Some days are going to be better than others. One step at a time they will get through this. I am glad this community is here to give support. There are lots of good people here.

  • @pamelaelliott7118
    @pamelaelliott7118 Před rokem

    I love the relationship you have with your mom. Such love and support for each other. I find you on my mind so much. I'm praying for you and your surgeons.

  • @maryharding6399
    @maryharding6399 Před rokem +5

    Dear Tiffany. So pleased to hear everything went ok with the surgeons. I really felt for Anna today. She seemed very quiet and not herself. I can understand how terribly difficult it is for her to see you going through this journey. Please give her a big hug and send her loads of love. As I am an avid George Michael fan, Matt made my day choosing Last Christmas to sing in the car 🤣👍. Take care my lovely. We got this 💙💙💙

  • @mmmmlllljohn
    @mmmmlllljohn Před rokem +17

    At first, I didn’t know that Ama meant mother but when I did, it was o.k. to still call her Ama because she is the mom I always wish that I had. Thanks for sharing your Ama with us. You are such a kid, Tiff, especially around Christmas! And Matt as well! Love from Mississauga ❤️🇨🇦

  • @julielynn86
    @julielynn86 Před rokem

    Tiffany, your channel was recommended to me yesterday and so I clicked on it. I'm watching a bunch of your videos while I'm down with the flu and today, a migraine. I paused the video after you asked your precious, incredible, steady and STRONG mother if she was okay because I wanted to tell her that I connect with her mother's heart and I'm so sorry for her pain. I have three grown sons who are your age Tiffany, four-year-old triplet grand-daughters and a two-year-old grandson. I am praying so earnestly for your mom and you and your whole family.

    • @julielynn86
      @julielynn86 Před rokem

      PS. I named my youngest son Matthew. His wife calls him Matt. ❤

  • @shirleymarshall425
    @shirleymarshall425 Před rokem

    Amma is such a wonderful woman.I pray for her every night.Her heart must be so broken to seeing her Daughter going through so much.God bless her and all of you.

  • @lenablanc7162
    @lenablanc7162 Před rokem +8

    Hi darling. Glad you could speak to the surgeons. I think, for me, it's always better when I know what's coming and what I have to expect. And very happy your surgeon made you comfortable. Love you. 💙💙

  • @shernandez2276
    @shernandez2276 Před rokem +10

    Tiffany. It was lovely to see you having fun after your appointments. Soon this will be done and you can move on to your “new” normal. Praying for you and your family ❤

  • @joankidder4674
    @joankidder4674 Před rokem +4

    Tiffany, your dinner with Matt is exactly what my husband and I do when we go somewhere special to eat. Order different plates and share. Like you said more to try. Glad you are enjoying your holiday season with your family. Love the relationship you have with Amma. Stay strong for her. WE GOT THIS!!

  • @annettejarvis9830
    @annettejarvis9830 Před 10 měsíci

    I found your channel recently; you are such a considerate, kind girl; so loveable and special. You light up my life even while you are facing difficult times yourself, if only the world were full of more people like you xx

  • @juliemitchell3013
    @juliemitchell3013 Před rokem +7

    You can see Amma is sick with worry God love her xxxx

  • @lizgephart2040
    @lizgephart2040 Před rokem +14

    They still don’t have the biopsy results ?? How come they ask you to come to the hospital and they don’t talk about your scan results and biopsy results.
    I get so angry about this but I see you are ok with all.
    So no new information.
    I think they waste so much of your time.
    It’s been like how many weeks 10-12 ? Wow. I don’t know what to say this time 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @chipsnotchunks2620
      @chipsnotchunks2620 Před rokem +11

      Everyone seems to have their head in the clouds. God forbid she gets covid or the flu at this point. It would be devastating to her survival. Constantly touching her face, eyes, nose and mouth after touching public things. I fear for her safety.

    • @elbabebe9788
      @elbabebe9788 Před rokem +5

      Unbelievable !!

    • @lizgephart2040
      @lizgephart2040 Před rokem +7

      @Laney 26 weeks are flying fast and a lot of delays and wait and see approach for extended time like 12 weeks 13 weeks and I am worried about her eating habits as she drinks hot chocolate eats chocolate and so much sugar and carbs as we mostly learned that sugar feeds cancer cells. I am surprised her drs don’t care about this issue of hers.
      Obviously drs are ok with this but in US I believe first thing drs require not to eat or drink sugary food if you have cancer.
      So it’s different in UK then what can I say. Delays are normal. Her biopsy was done when ? Probably 2 weeks ago and drs didn’t see them yet 😳😳😳😳
      I wonder how long more they will make her wait. Another round of scans and wait for the results bla bla bla.
      I think differently that’s all.

    • @loretaloreta1041
      @loretaloreta1041 Před rokem

      @laney268 stop

  • @debsarley5612
    @debsarley5612 Před rokem +2

    Dear Tiffany, it was so nice to see you enjoying yourself out to dinner with Matt! This is exactly what you should be doing- having fun and making memories. At least your journey is moving forward to rid yourself of cancer finally. God bless you!

  • @marilynsinger2821
    @marilynsinger2821 Před rokem +2

    Hello my darling Tiffany, each step is taking you closer to being without cancer. You have an amazing future with Matt and Amma to plan for, and I am with you every step of the way. I have been on the same journey as you, many years ago. Not an easy journey, but so worth all the challenges... I am 75, with a happy life. My love is with you always sweetheart 👵💙🙏🏻🌈🎄xxx you got this 💙💙💙

  • @AllThingsClarice
    @AllThingsClarice Před rokem +4

    Bless Amma, she’s worn out gods bless her, she deserves her wee nap as her head will be going round in circles with worry. Glad you have now seen the surgeons and they have explained everything. Won’t be long now and you have this Tiffany 💙💐🎄🤗😘

  • @kendramiller3529
    @kendramiller3529 Před rokem +14

    Hugs to ama! She is so strong! Matt is such a sweetheart! You have a wonderful support team!

  • @spirit9290
    @spirit9290 Před rokem +4

    I think poor anma is tired and very worried which is understandable give her an extra long hug love your beautiful family love you all you got this💙💙💙💙

  • @lyndabriggs3615
    @lyndabriggs3615 Před rokem +8

    Glad that days over for you. Amma is so lovely and she's keeping it together because of the love she has for you. I would like to give you both a huge hug. Soon be all over and you can get on with the rest of your life. Bless you
    Sending lots of love ❤ 😍

  • @allyp1088
    @allyp1088 Před rokem +7

    Love amma and it’s hard to watch her seeing her baby girl go through all of this your so brave and positive Tiffany you’ve got this sweet girl❤

  • @lzal9204
    @lzal9204 Před rokem +9

    I would totally call her Amma if I ran into her! 😂 From this mom to Amma, hang in there. Sending you a huge hug. 🤗 I’m glad you were able to speak to the 2 other surgeons.

  • @paula6928
    @paula6928 Před rokem +13

    Have you been given any possible dates for surgery yet? 💙

  • @yanniegrannie
    @yanniegrannie Před rokem +8

    💙💙💙💙💙💙 six hearts today because of the double appointments. I'll be keeping you in my heart ❤️ and as a mom of a daughter with terminal disease and extra hug for Ama😘

  • @silverstars7882
    @silverstars7882 Před rokem +32

    Since I retired, I have a lazy breakfast. I have Greek yogurt with a handful of blueberries, raspberries and strawberries. A little drizzle of honey and some mixed nuts and I am good to go for quite a few hours. When I worked it was a quick bowl of cereal before the London rush hour. We got this Tiffany. 💙💙💙

    • @valtaylor8893
      @valtaylor8893 Před rokem

      Good to see you looking so we'll Tiffany love to you amma matt ànd your family we got this

    • @louisep4805
      @louisep4805 Před rokem +1

      Yum

  • @johnnylnowlin
    @johnnylnowlin Před rokem +8

    Bless your beautiful soul. Thanks for inviting us all into your world and allowing us to share in this difficult journey - of which you will rise victorious

  • @suecaron4674
    @suecaron4674 Před rokem

    Your Mom is so amazing as is Matt, cancer effects not only the one with cancer but all your loved ones. I’m 10 year cancer survivor, stay positive, pray, and know we are all praying for all of you all.

  • @isking1715
    @isking1715 Před rokem +16

    "I call it a fox, its actually a squirrel" Tiff, you crack me up sometimes 🤣 Happy Vlogmas 6. Huge hugs to you all.

  • @ppthegreatest3941
    @ppthegreatest3941 Před rokem +4

    Darling Tiffany, please give your gorgeous mum a big hug from me. I can see in her eyes the worry, which is completely natural. Love you all. We got this 💙💙💙💙 xsuex stay strong x

  • @julieks5316
    @julieks5316 Před rokem +11

    Please eat, don’t offer to share your food. Don’t skip meals even if you don’t like breakfast. I am a cancer patient and you will puke if you don’t eat with pain meds. Eating has to be number one and building strength. Sitting in a chair or your bed lifting light weights. I am a cancer patient and my oncologist said eat, eat, eat, and more eat. I had cancer surgery and I don’t mean to to scare you dear but you are so frail. The cancer is is growing and taking your nutrients. You need to eat and try to build some sort of strength. Your life depends on it. And they will remove what they can may not get all and cancer may come back even after surgery. It’s time to fight not pretend this isn’t happening and protecting Matt and your Mother(yes she is sweet) but she will be your care giver with you have a colon bag and possible bladder bad and much much more that is even more intense.
    Before my my cancer surgery I did whatever I could not to get sick no large gatherings, use hand gel after public contact and never touching my mouth or face after being in public. You are high risk again for cdiff. Please take more hygiene precautions in public. Your body is way too thin. Please eat steak potatoes, a hearty sandwich without sharing with mom Matt. Drink milk, eat high quality protein fats veggies fruits and whole grains. I just don’t think don’t realize the serious nature of this. I work in healthcare. This surgery is done as a last resort. Please please please inform yourself more. You didn’t even know the type of doc you we’re seeing the second one. You need to educate yourself, I have cancer and I am my own advocate! I trust my doctors but educated myself for after care and such. Don’t leave mom in the dark. You will probably end up with bags on your body for life. They love you. We all do. Educate yourself and your family. You are 30 not a child research and prepare. Life is going to never be the same. It’s ok to grieve be mad and neutral person a counselor can help. Please also see a dietician.
    This message may seem harsh but Tiffany your life is really on the line. Even after surgery cancer can and does come back. I know as I have cancer. It’s time to toughen up, eat, and exercise. This surgery is going to be like no other anyone has experienced.
    Sorry for the long message but Tiffany please get ready for the fight of your life.

    • @pamelajefferies3197
      @pamelajefferies3197 Před rokem +3

      Julie I pray your journey is full of love and healing. Everyone's cancer journey is so different. I just don't think anyone has to talk about bags ect. Tiffany is anxious enough. I think she is serious and learning. I also think she puts on a braver face for us the tiffanythinks family. Julie as you know the fear and anxiety one has in the middle of the night is different than the face we try to put on for others. I do agree you have to be your own advocate. I know you care and it shows.

    • @Luna_and_Miles
      @Luna_and_Miles Před rokem +2

      @@lilyfromBrissy "Fluffiest Fox" is trolling here. Sarcasm, you know. Ignore her multiple comments trying to give Tiffany a hard time. I don't know why she resents Tiffany so much.

    • @cressidaclarke8036
      @cressidaclarke8036 Před rokem +3

      @@dingoateyourbaby There are quite a few of you on here, FF! You're breeding!

    • @Luna_and_Miles
      @Luna_and_Miles Před rokem +1

      @@dingoateyourbaby I know. I was talking about the person impersonating you, saying to ignore that person's comments, because they are just trolling.

    • @Luna_and_Miles
      @Luna_and_Miles Před rokem +1

      @@dingoateyourbaby Oh! I just noticed that person's comments are gone now. They were calling themselves "fluffiest fox". Maybe their comments have been deleted.

  • @catmama54
    @catmama54 Před rokem +1

    When my brother had his accident and became paralyzed it was very hard on our parents but they became his caretakers,doing everything and I do mean everything. My Mom learned how to Catheterize him and take care of his wounds. This is what loving parents do and your Mom needs to take care of her girl so let her. ❤️🙏

  • @nanam5917
    @nanam5917 Před rokem

    Tiffany, it is so unfortunate that you have cancer and are going to face this big surgery, but you have so many supporters and prayers each and every day. I tell you what, you have the sweetest mom and boyfriend that love you so much. There are a lot of people who don’t have that kind of support and love. Tiffany, you are so sweet and you will be in my prayers.

  • @joanbrucks446
    @joanbrucks446 Před rokem +4

    I'm not a breakfast person. Watching you, Matt, Ama, and your whole family is such a joy!😍💕

  • @reginabutta4443
    @reginabutta4443 Před rokem +5

    What a wonderful mom you have!Hang in there Tiffany.

  • @debvw9740
    @debvw9740 Před rokem

    When I watch you, I am struck by the amount of love and support you have from Matt and your Amma. This must be so stressful for them, yet they put your wellbeing ahead of everyone else. It is beautiful. I think of you every day and want you to know that you have so many who love you and are praying for a safe and successful surgery. You got this beautiful girl. Hugs.

  • @preetinair1617
    @preetinair1617 Před rokem +11

    I think you should stop eating sugar in any form

  • @lindadykes4040
    @lindadykes4040 Před rokem +11

    Tiffany you are an amazing person. Your mom and Matt are so special. May Jesus protect you and your family under the shadow of his wings! God bless y'all. We got this 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙✝️

  • @Naz-io5gc
    @Naz-io5gc Před rokem +2

    Tiffany I think you should book Amma a suprise spa day for the both of you to get a massage, get your hair done and nails. She seems abit down in this vlog I think it would cheer her up💙💙💙💙

  • @57msdeb
    @57msdeb Před rokem +16

    When are they expecting the biopsy results? I feel that more than enough time has passed for them to be back. Are they doing surgery without the results? Ask, ask, ask! I’m sure doctors mean well but it’s important to keep them on their toes, sweet girl! I love your vlogmas videos. Thank you so much for being a light in a world than can be dark at times. 💙

    • @lizgephart2040
      @lizgephart2040 Před rokem +2

      @Laney 26 she never said the date it’s not booked. They don’t even have access to her scans and biopsy yes they will proceed with the surgery hopefully this year she learned nothing new today.

    • @lizgephart2040
      @lizgephart2040 Před rokem +4

      @@janematthews3394 what ??? Seriously ??? Why ?

    • @lizgephart2040
      @lizgephart2040 Před rokem +5

      @@janematthews3394 then maybe she might have the surgery even today or tomorrow. 😳😳😳 very interesting. I didn’t know that. Many things can happen in 1 week gap.

  • @siobhanjohnson8088
    @siobhanjohnson8088 Před rokem +1

    Glad you got to chat to the surgeons but I think this is all getting very real for your mum and as he just looked like she needs a big hug 😢. Look after yourself and your lovely mum ❤❤

  • @deborahgraham6112
    @deborahgraham6112 Před rokem +3

    My entire life (I am 71) I have eaten breakfast - a hard boiled egg, or slice of toast with jam or peanut butter, or cream of rice hot cereal and on the weekends a true proper breakfast of bacon, eggs and hashbrowns.

  • @elainehammond4598
    @elainehammond4598 Před rokem +6

    I absolutely love watching you and Matt together. Have a wonderful sleep. Love you.

  • @Lacroixmakeupartist
    @Lacroixmakeupartist Před rokem

    Hi Tiffany....strong,sweet,intelligent,patient,caring,loving lady.
    Sometimes i find it so hard to say something about you and your disease process.I find it diffecult that you feel so bad often.And that you have to fight like this. Your strenght...your sweet Ama and wonderfull boyfriend. Your family. I am so glad you have them around you. They pull you trough. Lots of Love from the Netherlands! Stay strong Tiffany! ✨❤🎄🎅🏼✨

  • @sheribellagee9998
    @sheribellagee9998 Před rokem +21

    As a person who lives with cancer, I can tell you that what you eat makes a big difference. Lots of organic vegetables, fruits, and whole grains. No white bread or white rice, or sugary foods. Read a book called "Chris Beat Cancer" about a fellow who overcame GI cancer using diet ( you already have the positive attitude down pat!)

    • @Serendipity-gj2me
      @Serendipity-gj2me Před rokem +4

      I could not agree more with you. How can you expect life if you are consuming death? As much as I love Tiffany, I feel that her diet of dead processed, mucus forming and acidic food is appalling and cannot benefit her health-wise. Diet makes a huge difference, but doctors will never tell you that.

    • @5mini5
      @5mini5 Před rokem +1

      @@Serendipity-gj2me what are you on about? Tiff cooks fresh food from scratch most of the time. She is allowed to have the odd piece of cake etc sometimes. There’s nothing of her, she is so small. Putting her on a diet of veg, fruit and whole grains will cause even more weight loss. She needs lots of carbs to gain weight.

    • @Joshow313
      @Joshow313 Před rokem +1

      @@5mini5 I agree. Tiffany seems to eat pretty healthy. My mom did as well (for decades) and she still got colon cancer. Diet can certainly help but you can’t always blame it on someone’s “bad” diet.

    • @kristimartinez7528
      @kristimartinez7528 Před rokem

      @@5mini5 Exactly! 💯 I don't understand why people make comments about that..She is doing fine!!

    • @kristimartinez7528
      @kristimartinez7528 Před rokem +1

      @@janematthews3394 not true.. we've seen her cooking in various videos. not to mention she probably cooks off camera..we only see very small snippets of her life.

  • @clarexo110
    @clarexo110 Před rokem +15

    I hope everything went ok with your surgeon appointments 🙏🏼 We got this 💙💙💙🙏🏼

  • @joanneshaw3071
    @joanneshaw3071 Před rokem +8

    It’s amazing how many of us have noticed your mum really struggling in this video. Not sure if she’s like this when the camera is not on. I hope she’s taking care of herself. As for the “surgery world” when you’re in an operating theatre working it’s pretty straight forward most of the time however with a surgery like yours when they’re not sure exactly what to expect it’s not as straightforward

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 Před rokem +6

      @@dingoateyourbaby more sensitive about what????

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 Před rokem +5

      @@dingoateyourbaby there’s nothing intense about my post Unless you know Tiffany personally you cannot say without any doubt that she is aware of how much her mum is struggling. We are all allowed to voice our opinion on here so stop thinking that you know everything

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 Před rokem +6

      @@dingoateyourbaby stalker much!

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 Před rokem +1

      @Laney 26 so weird!

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 Před rokem +1

      @@dingoateyourbaby I’m sure you are 🙄

  • @julieharden2433
    @julieharden2433 Před rokem +1

    My favorite breakfast is:
    fruit, topped with a drizzle of maple syrup, topped with rolled oats and walnuts. Delicious.
    In the summer, I shop up a nectarine or a peach.
    In the winter, I use berries and maybe some mango and banana.
    With the fruit - you get all your vitamins and antioxidants. The rolls provide the fiber (and cleans out your arteries). The walnuts provide the crunch, the healthy fat, and the protein.
    Super quick and easy to make. Delicious, nutritious, and filling. Travels well, too. You can even make this the night before and stick it in the fridge.

  • @IsabelSantosCunha1972
    @IsabelSantosCunha1972 Před rokem +12

    Is Amma a little sad today? is she alright? maybe i'm being super sensitive, but dear Amma doesn't seem too well 😢 Hope everything is Ok.. Xoxo

    • @buleberryjam177gaming7
      @buleberryjam177gaming7 Před rokem +7

      @Laney 26 It is probably the first time she has understood what is actually going to happen in this surgery.

    • @buleberryjam177gaming7
      @buleberryjam177gaming7 Před rokem +3

      @Laney 26 Not sure if she can be totally prepared for what lies ahead.