Battle of the Sexes: Are stay-at-home dads "punking out?" || STEVE HARVEY
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- Steve Harvey's "Battle of the Sexes" tackles the question of whether it's time to end the social stigma for stay-at-home fathers.
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Steve just over here sipping on his tea like☕☕☕
Alaysia Carter Right😂!
Make him a meme like Kermit the frog 😁
Alaysia Carter he had me dying😂😂😂
This got real ..... REAL QUICK 😳
REEEAL QUICK
It sure did lol
Cuz dat person in red keeps makin it personal like tf wrong wit her
@@michaelx697 She's a "pick me" girl who needs a man to feel validated
😬
"Do you have children?"
No
"You are too busy having sex thats why"
O my lawddddddddddd
She was so right about that.
That annoyed me , cause she was more than likely getting around before she got married 🙄
Michael Ogbebor 😂😂😂
Jessica Rose not every girl goes around being independent(independent my ass just a bunch of sluts)
I would have told her that just because you know to make and have a baby doesn't mean you know how to raise one
My dad was a stay at home dad with me for the first 3 years of my life. My dad decided he wanted to take on a more active role in my upbringing, and it was great. He'd do the housework while I slept and we spent the rest of the time doing things together, I can't say I have ever viewed him as any less of a man because of this, and my relationship with my mum has never suffered due to her working.
Children will always love their dad when they do that, but it is the wife that eventually loses respect for her husband. They support it at first, but at some point they start to look at their 'man' differently. Thousands of women were interviewed about this and admitted what I am saying.
Your daddy wasn’t s***
@@hughdenault3097 exactly. This is exactly what happened in my household including my mother losing respect
@@simplyelvi5676 I'm sorry that you had to experience that. If women focused on being the best wives and mothers, and men focused on being the best husbands and fathers, there would be a lot less going wrong in the world today. We live in a very selfish society where people are programmed to focus on 'me, me, me'. As a young person, you must be careful, and be aware that there is a lot going on in our society today that is focused on subtly programming people into unhealthy habits. Much of what we now see on TV, movies, music and even being taught in schools is unnatural. I have found that whenever something doesn't seem right, if you take it back to nature and how it was suppose to function, that seems to fix the problem. And I have found the best source for wisdom, direction, and to explain much of the madness in the world today is the Bible.
I will give you the same advice I've given to my daughters. Our lives are like ships at sea. And if you stay focused on Jesus, He will always guide you to safety and to where you want to end up, whether the waters are calm or if in terrible storms. In fact, its when going through the terrible storms where we see and feel His presence the most.
@@hughdenault3097What a stupid thing to say, who taught you to be so delusional
A man who will stay at home with their children and raise them, spend time with them, and show them that men can take responsibility for his family, is a great MAN. If it works for their family who are we to judge. I think it's an honor and should be praised, same as women.
Kye Marie isn’t providing for his family a responsibility too?
5hawn thats what she just said. She agrees that a man should be praised for taking care of his kids just like woman are praised for taking care of their kids.
Absolutely!! 🙏
There's a reason men don't get praise or respect for being stay at home dads. And no matter how much people keep advocating for it, that fact won't change.
@@r3mii619 its not only a responsibility, its the mans responsibility.
Juanita sounds like Cardi B
Camisha Ferguson I was thinking the same lol
This!
swear ii was the only one wo realized tis like forget everything else peep cardi and off set!
😂😂😂😂😂
Probably her cousin
Hats off to stay at home dads! RESPECT!
It takes strong man to support his wife career and hold down the house. As a family do what works for you. Don't let society dictate your life.
I noticed being the stay at home father , that any relative issue or bump in the road/relationship tosses fathers right back into the stigma of things. It’s beautiful when it’s perfect but when ever is life perfect? I appreciate your shout out to others such as myself. Really...
No it doesn't. Men that do that are just men that don't want to be heads of their household or be the leader. They are punking out.
@@geremymason5936 or maybe those r the men who's jobs don't pay as much as their wife's job does have u ever considered that?
@@Random-bv2xk ok, in that case, maybe its not what he wants, but its what he's allowing. If a man decides to take a backseat role in his family to allow his wife to go make the money while he "holds down the house," its still punking out. Even if the mans wife makes more than him, who cares? Your job as the man is to provide, meaning you go to work and make the money to cover the family expenses. Obviously, you cant do that if youre a "house husband." The topic of this discussion wasn't a man that makes less than his wife; its about a man that decides to stay home and allow his wife to work.
@@DS-fi4hf nothing that you said counters anything I said. My point was that a man that wants to be taken care of so he can be a "house husband" will develop this perception for himself in the eyes of other men. Men have a certain role to fill regardless of what you think about it. Any able-bodied man that decides he wants to be taken care of by his wife/girlfriend will be viewed as such. It just is what it is. We have a role to fill regardless of what you or other women feel about it. Even the almighty steve, a guy who makes a living telling women what they want to hear, doesn't endorse this nonsense.
3:00 shots FIRED!!!!
+Ckador awkward....*sips tea*
+tinalyzing I know right.... I was like... DDDDDAAAAAANNNNNNGGGGGG!!!!! BRUH!!!!
+Ckador lol i was like ohh got damn!!!
+Ckador SSSSAAAAAAAVVVVVVVAAAAAGGGGGGEEEEEE
😂😂😂 right!
The stay at home mom in red is very very disrespectful
+Efia „Nips91“ Nipah But she is all about respect!
Very disrespectful and hypocritical.
Naaah i like her she is so real 😂😂
Yes, if it was me on that stage I would have wanted to snatched her up lol. She's shaming other women and contradicting what herself in the process also.
+Fran JLo I agree, she'd very judgmental and if you aren't ACTUALLY experiencing it (i.e, married, have kids) how could you possibly know what you are talking about.
“cause you’re too busy having sex” *Steve sips tea* 😂😂😭😭
My wife and I both worked because we are used to working. We also have 2 kids together and we each took turns taking care of them. She worked during the day and I worked nights. Feeling both sides of the working class and the stay at home class. both our kids had both mother and father around to raise them and teach them the difference of being a Strong independent women and that a man can both be a provider and a stay at home father. I want them to know that both parties can be equal in each field.
awesome. love your comment
Looking at their ages and seeing 24s and they looking like 40s and late 30s
RIGHT THEY LOOK OLDER THAN ME
@@celestematthews3266 how old are you
@@usrstidudutduxtuutdsrsu9110 36 and look like 23
celeste matthews 🤣🤣🤣
If this is not showing how horrible woman are to each other...a man has to speak up to stop her. that screaming woman is disgusting. And it's always about respect, she has no respect for anybody not even herself. Or she is to stupid to understand that now the world knows that she is full of it.
A man is a man not because he goes to work or brings the money home. That's like saying a woman without kids can never be a woman. What time are we in?
You should be a good person first, a loving and understanding one. Who the hell cares for who washes the dishes or who brings out the garbage.
Thank you! It really doesn't matter who does what, as long as someone is providing and taking care of their other half or/and their family.
I agree the way she spoke was disgusting
She was the worst person on that panel...
I think we are talking about the woman that has so much respect for her husband because we works and brings the money home and married a woman that had never had sex before? Not about the young woman that does not care about what people think she should do.
agreed. it should be a mutual agreement and couples should not have to rely on one another financially. Let it be a choice
I think this shows a huge culture gap.
Just seen this video and you right.
Facts
Just became a stay at home dad recently due to a lay off at work. I am working harder than any job I have ever had in my life and I have worked upwards to 16 hour days 6 and 7 days a week in industrial construction. This is the first job out of my 17 years of being in the work force that I am actually enjoying my job. I am making up time I have lost with my children who was lucky to see me maybe 1 hour out of the day. A mother's bond to their children is automatically there where a father really has to work hard to have that connection. I missed so much out of my children's life that at times it was like I was some sort of oddity or alien around the home when they did see me. My children already know how hard I have worked...but working hard does not make someone a man. A man is someone that is there for his family, someone who raises his children right to make a difference to those around them and pass on good traits to their children and so on. As long as a man does that then it is no one else's business to judge or criticize a man doing what is good for his family and ultimately our future society. So many people have the wrong idea of what makes a man, a man these days.
lol, i got my own cuppa tea when she said "too busy having sex"
tawana camilleri 😂😂😂
tawana camilleri that was a burn
damn, shots fired!
Girl why did I go make me some
lmfao.
Juanita are one of those kinda women that feel like because they have a husband and are a mother that they are better than other women. Like damn, dont do that ma.
Jet Mistress yep
@Cherry Blossom Happiness was it necessary to be rude to disagree? May you find peace.
Exactly. She finds her identity in those two roles that she plays. Meanwhile it could be the worst marriage but it doesn't matter because "I got a ring" and "I'm a wife and a mom"
@Cherry Blossom Happiness You seem really triggered and bitter. and you look really dumb seeing that you know nothing about the person you're making all these radical ASSumptions about.
She is though.... Why you mad? lol 😆
"Rob him of his manhood?"
Lady...you and your husband were BROKE!!! DO SOMETHING!!! You can't just expect him to always do to stuff for you.
@Cherry Blossom Happiness I'm glad your man stood back on his feet. May God bless you and your family.
Cherry Blossom Happiness I’m sure women can get it done too. You yourself put down you own gender
Cherry Blossom Happiness men fail a lot too. Then what?
Chimp Wimp she’s already doing something which is taking care of her family. All the man has to do is get a job? Really not that difficult.
This woman did do something - she took care of her kids and let her husband do what he was supposed to do. Its not her responsibility to provide, its his.
Ok so let me get this str8... When a woman chooses to stay at home then she is suffering at the hardest job. But when a man does it then he is lazy and watching the stories? Total double standard.
I don't think most people even see it that way. I just think you're going to get a higher concentration of old fashioned people in a Steve Harvey audience because that's his kind of content. All the stay at home dads I've known have done an excellent job. I think people are praising women for looking after kids because they are trying to bring awareness to how much work it actually is. People including spouses often don't realize how much of a 24/7 juggling act it can be. But we should be praising any parent staying at home not just women. That's where I have the issue. Just like society had to get used to women working, society will have to get used to men looking after children.
Double standards between men and women exist for a reason because men and women are not the same.
@@littleripper312 hate to break it to you but stay at home dads probably will never get praise. Doesnt matter if they're the best stay at home parent alive. The only people they'll get praise from is other stay at home dads, future stay at home dads, and the small population of women that actually want a weak man.
@@littleripper312 "That's where I have the issue. Just like society had to get used to women working, society will have to get used to men looking after children."
You talk about "the society" like it's some invisible boogyman. Society, in this case, is the women... Women do not want men to stay at home. They lose respect for their man if he does that. Would you get married to a man knowing that you're going to have to provide for him and his children for the rest of your life? Would you do it yourself? :)
I'm just scratching the surface. There are numerous flaws in your argument. It's like you're living in La La land.
@@geremymason5936 Weak man? Quite the opposite! You try taking care of kids, shopping, cooking, and cleaning! When you go insane, then we'll see who the weak man is! 😂🤣
Juanita constantly contradicts herself. I can't take her seriously
I'm glad I'm not the only one who saw that
+Mandy X'O-twod Which one is Juanita?
+Jayli0 in the orangish-red dress
drivenpoet I knew it lol
+Mandy X'O-twod lol like for real. Like SHUT UPPP
The idea that men are meant to only work is just as sexist as the idea that women are meant to only cook and clean and take care of their kids. If we're going to break the stigma that women only exist to do small domestic work, then we need to break the stigma that men are the only meant to provide. By saying that working is a "'manly" thing, it's basically the same as saying that women belong in the kitchen. That Juanita girl is disgusting and sexist.
+Britanny Lichel Exactly. Our society is so stupid. If I stood up there and said women need to keep their mouths shut, cook, and have sex, they'd roast me alive---but it's okay to say men were put here to be beasts of burden. She's archaic. I'd love to know how her husband really feels. And why did she piss that money away going to college and then stay home?
Jim Beam If you believe that men are made to just work and do all of the money making then you must also believe that women are just made to cook/clean and make babies, right?
I love it. I like the idea of knowing thre s people out there who think the same as me. Thanks.
I agree. It's sad that this thought will carry over the next generation because she's raising her kids to be that way and to think that way.
moonrice, thats EXACTLY how i feel! college isnt cheap at all, if she didnt want to use her degree, whyd she go in the first place? the woman doesnt even carry herself in an educated way with all this dang yelling and talking over people
isn't feminism supposed to have equal rights? this isn't equal, if a man can't be a stay at home dad, that's not equal
feminism is not what it used to be, now it's man hating, not equality of the sexes, women want the benefits men have without having to take the same responsibility, women should go to the frontlines, they should go work in mines and fishing in high seas, they should carry bricks, if they want equality, then work for it
I personally do not believe in complete equality like feminists wants, because what they want is for women to take the roles of men in society, which they don't want to take, we are the best the way we are, we have equality of opportunity.
Feminists want equality of outcome, which is also known as communism.
She’s clearly not a feminist the complete opposite a traditionalist
Doggo Fitness very true brother
Many of us aren’t feminist. I’m against today’s feminism
@@kay22100 me too , I will rather call myself equalist( if that's a word)
I guess you could call my dad a stay at home dad. He started his own business as a graphic designer so he works from home while my mom is a nurse. It works out well😊
Not really because your dad still has his own paycheck.
Juanita was quite rude. Her comment was really unnecessary.
+Jadas Reality too rude who is she to put herself in such a high pedestal? since she has quite a lot of time on her hands she ought to learn how to speak to people.
I'm here for the tea chiiiiile.
Jadas Reality i just found this video and the way she came for katherine was not cool
People like her think they can come and rip a new one in single no kid having people. It needs to stop. Don’t ever be disrespectful to somebody just because you are married with kids like you better than a single person
@@tamesechristian6020 yeah im tired of people acting like that as well. Its annoying. Now as a married person i can sit and say in thay prespective that it shouldnt even be like that.
I will not be the sole bread winner nor will I be the sole homemaker. It's called a PARTNERSHIP for a reason. We should both pull our weight in all aspects of life.
MusiqQueen6 But if one parent is the sole breadwinner and another parent is the sole homemaker, that’s another aspect of partnership. There are many different ways.
This is a good point, this one bread winner and one homemaker mentality is what was used to focus on making the home great. My Grandpa and Grandma always told me that the man would work outside to bring money to better the quality of the house, and the woman would labor inside to make the house peaceful and nice. By doing so they felt happier together in their home, and would be able to vacation often since only he would need to ask for time off. Perhaps it is an out-dated belief now a days, but I can see the logic.
@Cherry Blossom Happiness Many black women have bought into the lie of being an independent woman. Not realizing how it is hurting our families.
@@Wachalpharoh society had made women believe they need their independence, careers, etc to feel equal to the man.. otherwise they are weak somehow? They are going against their own biology which is the reason divorce and broken families sky rocketed in the past few decades..
People thought women were oppressed and suppressed in the homes.. maybe in some households where the man doesn't have sound logic.. but mostly women were content to be bearing and rearing children and making the houses into homes...
just me you are just as bad as misogynist men and have been Brain washed
Make sure the kids and home are well taken care of. Don't care who does it. My mom is a stay at home mom and her brother is a stay at home dad. My cousins and I grew up as stable as one another. Mad respect for stay at home parents.
Yeah his friends and even his family members won't look up to him though even if they don't say anything.
Your uncle sorry
Love stay at home husbands ❤❤❤
so when she quits her job and choses to be a stay at home mom she's great, but when her man loses his job and she can perefectly go find a job she's not gonna let him 'punk out' . Girl you did the same thing! you just don't wanna go to work is that it?
How can the lady in red say that she is accepting the other woman next to Steve when she just slut-shamed her? Who does she think she is? And Why does she think she is better than everyone else on the panel? :S
Respecting***** not accepting
Slut shame is an oxymoron... Think about it... smh
+sarah forrester whatever it is, it's disrespectful to point fingers at people.
+Mexak A sluts are already shameful. but an extra but of shame isnt too bad
Lol, watch the other parts, you'll understand why this woman in blue is annoying too.
I really feel bad for Juanita's husband.
You shouldn't, traditional moms tend to make husbands happier and have higher chances of a long lasting marriage, when a woman does the "man's job" (providing), then wtf is the man supposed to do? mom's are the best caretakers, no doubt, and now they want men to not work? You are setting marriages up for disaster, if one partner can do well without the other, then at the least setback, they will file for divorce, plain and simple, hence why men are hesitant to marry women who persue careers as much as them
Doggo Fitness very true besides women have a biological nature to be provided protected and cared for if men in never provided or protected women the human race not only wouldn’t survive but also women would be less happy and on constant stress
Also another point I would like to make women tend to be more happier being a single mother due to nuturing their child with this it creates stability of having a family.
JesuCristoEsREY , same he made poor decision by making her wife
I don't I would love to mash that.
Lol he slick he said "20 nurtures?" 5:20
As a stay at home mom, we don't claim Juanita as our own.
Thank you 🙏
👍👍👍👍👍 she is insanely rude
This is why Juanita is the only married woman there :-)
Hahahahahaha
TBH....It's all about everyone in the household playing their part. If the man wants to stay home and raise the kids, then so be it. Raising kids and keeping the home in order is a legit full time job so I don't see what the problem is. As a 20 year service member, I am looking forward to switching roles and starting my new job as the stay at home parent. It's all about what works for you and YOUR family. So many people get caught up and have an opinion what everyone else is doing, and they tend to lose sight on what is going on in their own household.
Amen!! My husband is also former active duty, now reservist who stays at home with my 3 boys now that it's MY turn at career success. Nobody can tell me this man isn't virile and sexy as hell while carrying it all. He is our ROCK!! (And it's a LOT of work if you're doing it right!!)
mollymariern that's the wrong with evetyrhing. Let let gender decide a career. I've been married with a woman with two kids. Those kids were everything to me but they don't feed themselves. Finiacally and physicallyl
James Jackson 100%! And thank you for your service. My nephew retired a couple of years ago and took on the roll of staying with his daughters. I hope all is going well in your parenting journey 💕👏👏
I totally agree. It's whatever work for that couples' household. Everyone is entitle to their opinions, it's when the person given the opinion tries to make it a rule or law. It's no right or wrong way to this, its whatever works. My son is a stay home dad of eight (8) and work from home. He gets the kids to school, cook, clean, take his girlfriend to work (they only have one car), all of it. Then work until it time to pick everyone up. So does that make him a PUNK, NO this work for their household.
Very Good Observation!!!!
that lady in the purple is working on Steve nerves. ..and mine too
Victoria Lawson i dislike her
Victoria Lawson Female*
She is not a lady.
It's funny because the red one is annoying me XD
Lol I think she was born a man
Victoria Lawson seriously agreed
juanita has only seen disney movies
Steve just went Jerry Springer at 2:48...
Being a stay at home mom OR dad is really hard work. Just because you arent getting a paycheck doesnt mean that you arent as good as a person who goes out and works all day.
Caren Collins I’m not a dad but my sister has a kid and I watched my nephew for 4 hours once and it was hard work so I agree
No one said it wasn't hard. The topic of discussion is whether people are cool with a guy being a stay at home dad or not. As we can see, most people are not and lets face it - it most likely will never change.
@Geremy Mason Her opening statement was. I am a stay at home mom BY CHOICE!!!! That’s what women fought for. If her man wasn’t doing right by her or fell on hard times she would get back out there. She even said she is educated.
@@Jambuc829 so what? Ok, she's a stay at home parent by choice. Most women nowadays are educated. And I guarantee you most women, if they had the choice, would love to have the option to go to work or stay home with their children. Try this out if you're not sure - ask any woman that has to return from fmla leave whether they would prefer to still be home or rather be back at work and I'm sure you'll have a better understanding. Many women don't even want to have to go 50/50 on financial responsibility of the household, what makes you think they want 100% of the responsibility?
Who is that man in the gray vest and green shirt! He's so enlightened and modern. I wish they were all like him.
The one with the abnoxious voice who is single, and will end up being a stay at home dad and will end up being cheated on because stay at home dads are the most disgraceful set of libtards thought of.
If all men were like him, there would be no MEN on earth, only pussies
Man O' War he's not single. It literally says it when they introduced him.
He also said in one clip that he'd be happy to let the woman pay for his meal on a first date. Sorry, but if he cant pay for a meal, he can't afford anything else.
Damn Juanita is a shame to us women.
Shut up!
I think we ought to view people as individuals, and not give them the responsibility of having to represent the entire sex of women as a whole when they give an opinion. Im sure you wouldnt want everybody who disagrees with you to call you a disgrace to womanhood or humanity. Anyway, that being said, I dont think she was wrong. Really, I found the white man and woman to be the most annoying on the panel.
I bet none of you have ever asked your kids how they feel when they come back home to an empty house. It's comforting to a child to have a mother waiting for them and helping them develop into healthy human beings..That's why now we have have all these psychopaths and narcissists running around wanting attention. They never got as a a child. You're a shame as a human being.
Lewieo that's not true because children want a parent not just anyone. When they grew up they will look back on it. Nowadays you have parents who buy their kids love with material tjings. Parents are working longer hours than before because of inflation. You could think what you want but a girl will always miss her mom. Just the same as a guy will always miss their dad. It's about identity and who they are. Men need dads that's why you see so many in jail and on the streets. There is a void only parents can fill. As I said again that's why in this generation we have so many narcs and psychopaths.
Smileyyy21 I do know the feeling of coming home to an empty house, and it's not like I only wanted my mom. My dad was a stay at home dad at some point and I loved the way he raised us and did everything my mom would do. He cooked for us, cleaned the house, took us all out, etc. I would even say that I would rather have my dad stay at home rather than my mom. I know it's different for everybody but at the time it has to be agreed on by both parents.
I stayed at home for 2 years when we first started homeschooling, BECAUS MY WIFE MADE MORE MONEY. I felt emasculated. I continued to homeschool all the way through highschool, but I took a night job for my own sanity sake. I say, do what you want, BUT I can't stay home with no job at all. I just can't #OLDSCHOOL.
i feel ya brother
I know, it is emasculating for the man to ask money from his wife. It's not even a matter of how much one earns but the fact that one has a job.
@Malcolm McCorkle They are not weak at all. A relationship is 50 50. I personally could be a stay at home dad but for only a short time because I way too ambitious to be sitting at home not because I feel insecure because a woman makes more than me. Everyone is different. These guys aren't going to be stay at home dads forever kids do grow up.
You as a man have that natural "provider need" in you which is something this generation is try to do away with. This is why ppl are so screwed up.
Good for you sir and I'm happy you provide for your family...LIKE A MAN SHOULD DO.
I totally agree
That women in the orange dress should be ashamed of herself. I don't care that you are a stay home mom with a college education, most do. However, it is not okay to tell someone that they don't have the knowledge for parenting because they are having too much sex. That is disrespectful to any women and I don't care who you think you are. If you are all about a man having class and such, feminism is all about a double standard, so I think that women should too. In this time period and in this type of economy, both parties should have a job because it's really hard to find one and provide for your family. Back then, women staying at home to raise their children was the "thing"; however, times change and now both the man and women are basically required to have jobs to provide. All in all, that women in the orange dress should be ashamed because that is disrespectful for that particular women and women in general. That comment was degrading and selfish on her part. I really wish people would just make their point across in a respectful manner instead of bringing other people's history and information into the debate. Just say your opinion and get it over with because what I saw was a disgusting excuse for a stay home mom and a women in general.
why are you bringing feminism into this
The dress is red not orange.
Jackie Montrose because that ia literally the point of feninism...
Sluts gotta be shamed #HardOnThots
There's nothing wrong with a stay-at-home mother. If the couple can afford it, it's better for the children to have their mother at home then to pass them off for someone else to raise them.
I just can't stop laughing at Steve's facial expressions throughout this whole video.. he's so funny!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
"You to busy having sex"
Steve eyes 😳😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I know i'm late, but this was very disappointing to watch. It really is blatant tradition-based sexism on full display. I mean come on, to paraphrase steve said "when a woman comes home from work she doesn't want to see her man on the couch watching TV.", alright i get that. So then the flip side of that coin should be that no man wants to come home to see his woman just lounging on the couch watching TV either. People are literally saying "what kind of woman would want a man that's just at home with the kids!?" LOL literally no one is listening to themselves. It's ok for women to be jobless and spend their time tidying up the house, playing with the kids, or otherwise doing whatever while the man spends his day making sure his family has food to eat and a roof over their heads, but you switch the genders and all of a sudden it's a travesty?
Mind you, it's not my personal goal to be a stay at home dad, I just think it's absolutely pathetic and disgusting that people think men shouldn't have the option to manage their home and care for their children. If this is how people want to be then the fight for equality needs to be shut down completely and we might as well go back to the way things were.
Agree
A - Kuma I agree, amen to that.
I don't understand how men keep up with that. If they have like 4 kids okay for a while, but kids grow up and then these women keep doing nothing and they work 80 hours a week and they're fine w it. I don't get it.
I agree. This was a terrible discussion. I am a stay at home mom. I am stay at home because my job did not pay well enough for good childcare, so it made more financial sense for me to stay at home. My job is to provide childcare and do all the extra things I can at home so my husband and I are pulling 50/50 with responsibilities as a whole. If our roles were reversed and my husband did all the same home and kid responsibilities, that wouldn't bother me at all. I just want each of us to do our half and do the best we can for our needs as a family. As our kids get older and go to school, we have a plan so that we are still pulling 50/50 and we both actually get more free time and less responsibility. Gender does not factor into our decisions for responsibility division. We divide responsibility according to what works for our situation at the time. It disturbs me that others would look down on my husband if our roles were reversed. Clearly those same people do not think our jobs are equal, and that is insulting.
i agree,well said.emancipation of the sexes comes whith no more double standards,this was sad to watch.,yes,really sad
I am a wife and a mother. There is nothing wrong with a man staying home if the woman makes more money. You can give your all and all at home with those kids too. . . .Let me rant for a minute. You mean to tell me that you would let your family suffer for an idealistic notion of a man providing everything financially? What kind of good parents do that? I just, I can't! You have got to be the most selfish bastard I have seen today.
+Dava Adlain The best part is that he gets alimony if you get divorced.
if we get divorced there are bigger problems to deal with than alimony.
Dava Adlain Not in today's economy.
Do you work full-time while you're husband stays home with the kids? I'm just curious.
@@geremymason5936 I did for two years.
Steve better sip that tea
the traditional family concept are always the best
EDIT: Those of you being all 'ahahaha it's a red dress you're wrong', go to an optician lol if you can't even tell the different between dark saturated pink and red
The lady in the pink dress is contradicting herself, she claims that her choice as a stay at home mom while having a proper education and career is an honour and a privilege, and her raising up the next generation.
Now, why can't it be the same for men?
Why is it that if it's a men staying at home by choice, had a proper education and career, wanting to raise up the next generation too, he's 'punking out'? Just because he is a man?
There is nothing wrong with having expectations of her personal relationship and marriage, she wants her life to be a certain way, she finds a man who can provide her with the life she wants and meet her expectations, good for her.
But don't go around telling every single man they should match up to her outdated gender stereotypes, other people have other expectations and wants in life.
Zakito her dress is red
Btw her dress is red not pink and that is a simple fact that makes me know that you haven't understood what she really meant. You are hearing but not listening...
Same thing goes with the dress 😁
Ocean Days That is dump lady or Sir
I think you are dumb :)
Ocean Days what does in the girl in the red dress mean then? And I’ll save you some time. Yes I am dumb so please as someone who is smart and understands what that girl is really trying to convey... enlighten me.
Lmao those men were emasculated 😂😂😂
"No, you too busy havin sex"
Steve: *Sips tea*
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
the problem starts when us as the society insist on putting up a certain standard of how married people should live. they are now in partnership and its up to them to decide on whatever terms they choose to live under and this should be done free from anyone's judgment. no two households are the same, it's such a shame to expect such.
100% Facts.
That too how people should live is patriarchal and no other way of life makes sense or is correct. That’s how it is for these people. Like the majority. That’s the problem
Juanita did hit below the belt and it pushed some buttons, but i have to say every since women stepped outside the home into the work force family structure has declined and the children have suffered greatly for it.
totally agree with you even I am single.
Purple dress girl and young guy argued so much about their freedom and right but life will teach them to think differently in certain years in the future.
I'm so glad to see someone sees how messed up society is. What you said is so true. The era of a good family structure is gone when women started working and abandoning the idea of raising a strong family. No wonder the new generations are messed up.
Many women have had to step out and work because the men or not there. Single mothers have to make ends meat. Also the decline of the family should rest on the shoulders of one sex. Both sexes are blame.
I have two working parents and me seeing my mother who has a Masters bringing in her own money and not being totally dependent on my father I saw that i could accomplish anything in life and be successful without being dependent on one person especially when my step father had cancer and she was the only one working because he couldn’t.
Amen to the woman in the blue dress. A man is not punking out by staying home to raise his kids, stay at home dads deserve just as much respect 🙏
Yes, his punk a** need to work like a man suppose to
I love the stay at home mom in the red! 😂 Go get em!
Only gold diggers don't approve of stay at home dads. They just want the man to make all the money and pay for everything.
drink your coffee Steve. Drink your coffee
"Punk out"? " choosing not to go to work"? Her mentality is jacked up
Why are all of these arguments originally anti-men/pro-women?
Society misusing equality rights
The stay at home mom in red makes me feel that there is trouble in paradise...
What if the father is an author or simply works from home? Is that punking out?
My opinion is, if your significant other is ok with it, then it's nobody elses business who works and who stays at home. Too many people worry about what others think. Do whatever makes you happy and if people have a problem with it, you have a middle finger for a reason.
An author is still employed.
How can you be independent if you don't work??? Hello! The only way you are independent (any gender), is when you get a job, get your own money and can pay your place, food, insurance, education, etc. Otherwise, you are dependent of someone.
You do realize in a marriage its about working together right?
The "none of y'all comin' back" line is CLASSIC
lady in red : if her man stays at home, he is a punk.
she stays at home, it's ok. lady sit down.
I feel sorry juanita husband
+Curtis Clifford Dude, you know that man works all those hours to stay away from her ha ha
but unfortunately Juanita is the type of Latina that men dream of being with...which I do not understand...
why is that?
octbaby88 really?
Curtis Clifford that man has the best wife
Steve's reaction was hilarious
Juanita is so REAL
I LOVE IT!!!!
I think the people in the comments are colorblind or something 💀 Bc I'm reading "lady in the red dress" "woman in the orange dress" "girl in the pink dress" idek what color that dress is anymore-maybe it's green idk
2:54 apply water to the burned area, she literally got roasted there pretty fine xD
LOL everybody has there own version of what a MAN is. I'm jus going to be me
yessir same here , dont ever let someone elses idea of who you are " supposed to be " define you , keep becoming more and more authentic and discover what life truly means to you , and live it to the fullest !!
My husband was the stay at home dad. And I worked because l earned more and frankly he was better with our children then l was.
If you're gonna do a panel like this, bring in more stay at home dads who can actually speak to the experience, and not just the one who rightly so felt attacked by a stay at home mom who takes care of the same responsibilities that he does
She didn’t say being a stay at home dad is being a punk . She’s saying her husband losing his job and not wanting to work anymore . That is in fact punking out when you were the provider and you lost your job and chose not to go back
I agree with Steve. Everyone else for the most part is freaking out
Being a stay at home dad is like jumping out of a plane and 10 seconds later you realize you forgot your parachute... You know the ground is coming, but you dont know when its going to hit and how hard its going to it hit. But when it does you f_cked. A stay at home has mom has 5 backup parachutes, right inside her purse (you know they never go anywhere with out that thing 🤣) exactly when she needs them to break her fall.
I know we're all talking about the argument and all...but can we just appreciate the fact that Steve handled the conversation perfectly. He allowed every one to give their views but once they go off into a tangent full of hate he brings every back onto the topic.He also gives a commen ground for every one to stand on. To agree on at least one thing.
That Latino woman was on point, men need to take their a** to work no matter what. Whether the woman works or not.
RealTakerslady you know you sound like a feminist right? It's disgusting how you think that way I work at home and sometimes in a office but if a man decides to stay home because he got fired or he can't get a job that is fine while the wife is at work the man can be at home taking care of the kid's and when the wife comes home she sees her kids shower and already have eating than let the man be at home
Grizz Cmt You don't knoe what a feminist is apparently. A feminist wouldn't care if the man was at home. I'm a traditionalist, men are protector/provider.
RealTakerslady you know feminist have the ideal that they have more right than a man so by you saying men shouldn't stay home you are implying that womem are only allowed is like saying you aren't allowed to hit a female if she hits you
not a feminist, a white knight.
What if the man works from home? Like a novelist like James Patterson. Or a day trading stock broker who can work from his home computer?
Steve said being a stay at home parent is more challenging then going to work but then says he wouldn‘t let his woman go to work... so you really wanna be lazy and won‘t let your wife do the same...? So she has to do the hard job?
The prime minister of New Zealand, who is a woman, is a working woman about to be the working mother. Her partner will be the stay at home dad. I think that is a great honor! He is giving up his fishing show to stay home, raise their child, so his partner can do her service to the country. This is 2018 people. Stay at home dad's are amazing!! Thank you for all if you do.
Lex Morningstar ,only strong women believe in gender equality and are cool with idea of stay at home dad, thats why she is prime minister of New Zealand
lmfao chick in the red is out of her damn mind 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she fr crazy
2:58 DAMMMMMMN need some ice for that burn 😂
I was a stay-at-home parent. Now I’m a single parent, and I am a positive male roll model for my kids.
For hundreds of years men in society back then were expected to be a breadwinner, and for that relationship to change in society now is something. For men to break that societal standards is balls and braveness; if they want to deal with the mentality of being a “mother” to their kids should be clapped for. It’s tough raising kids.
the 2nd guy scream soy boy LOL
the woman in red is talking straight sense
The girl in red is saying exactly truth....She is a traditional women and wants a traditional man...
I would be so ashamed and feel emasculated if i sit home and do nthing while my wife works out for our family..... in our culture the man is provider and protector... women's responsibility is to manage the house take care of kids and keep his man happy by being traditional loyal women.
The issue is mens role as the masculine protector and provider are always considered static while womens duty as the feminine wife and stay at home mother are somehow negotiable. Women want their cake and eat it to and life doesn't work that way without serious consequences down the road for society.
That woman in red is the only honest person on that panel. Everyone else is being "politically correct ".
I mean if everyone was straight up and honest. Their would be a lot of ass whooping going around
When Steve sipped the tea 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
If u slept with twenty something guys and said that number on national tv you cant be mad when someone claps back saying your too busy having sex u knew wht door you opened so dnt be surprised when stuff walks through
Men sleep with that many women all of the time but they're applauded for it.
That's called double standards and there's not much you can do about that.
Britanny Lichel women stay clowning women for being hos dont bring us into it
See, this is where true feminism comes into play. As a Feminist i am completely here for a stay at home husband. Coming home to a clean house and a cooked dinner would be AMAZING!!! I feel like they're undermining they're work and effort that goes into being a stay at home parent. That make it seem like its a "lesser roll" and "something only women should do". I would also like to say that there is an age limit to sat at home parents IMO. Once the kid hits middle school, the stay at home parent should begin to pursue a career.
The women in the red has it spot on we all need a great male role model a mother provides a role model figure with how she raises us a father isn’t as good at providing it, mother are more nurturing and deeply connected to the children they birthed.
"THAT'S SLUT SHAMING!" LOL
The problem is not the men punking out at home or deciding to be stay at home dads, its that when that are at home they dont do nothing and expect the woman to come back from the long hours and cook and clean and bath the kids, thats the problem. Women get irritated by this behaviour
+Jessica Ahire yet what if he's done the cooking and cleaning?
+Ismail Bolden Well that's what you call a stay-at-home dad done right.
Jessica Ahire yeahh most of this comment doesnt get it though
Love Steve Harvey but completely disagree with this segment. I'm a successful career woman and my husband stays at home with my 3 young boys... The man DOES IT ALL. He also happens to run a business from home and is a Marine reservist. When he is gone on his reserve duty I'm in awe of all that he does. My ROCK is gone and things are tough until he's home again. He demonstrates strength and love and is a role model for my boys. We are raising fine young well-adjusted men that don't define their worth (or anyone's) by the paycheck they pull in. Children don't care. My boys don't know anything of salaries, etc. They know their loving rock of a father is present. Sexiest thing ever that I can be supported in *my turn* at career success and have my (very virile, masculine, strong warrior-man) in my corner, carrying the home-front and supporting his wife. (No "watching them stories" for this man. He's too busy in the serious work of growing the next generation of upright men to send out.
It seems hard for people to see past this whole "man pride". I think we all agree being a parent is hard as hell. But its contradicting to say being a parent is on equal grounding if you wouldnt want your husband to do it because now he's getting off easy and isnt providing. thats doesnt make any sense logically. if my husband wanted to stay at home (seeing as we could afford it economically) then yeah thats cool. Take care of our kids, hold the house down because we will always be a team and whatever I make really is our money. the same goes if I stay home. I personally could not be a stay at home mom forever. I want to work once my children are old enough to go to school, I like to be busy and working so thats really why I would want to work. But again I think being a stay at home parent is a hard and can be a very stressful job. its on the same level as having your typical job and whoever decides to do it in our relationship doesn't matter. the only factor that would really come in is money.
Its not just about a mans pride - its biology. Women are designed to want to reproduce with the most fit mate available to her that can provide for and protect her and their children. Being a stay at home dad or whatever you want to call it will never be ok with the vast majority of women (as well it shouldn't).
@Geremy Mason Women are the ones fighting to change that. Too many women back in the day stuck in abusive relationship or cheaters because she depended upon him for survival. Provider also isn’t the same as protector. Times have changed my guy it’s 2021 not the 1940’s. Women are high paid lawyers, doctors, politicians celebrity chefs and engineers. The number of stay at home dads are also going to continue to grow especially with women graduating from college at a higher rate than men in a work force where brute strength is no longer necessary.
It is easy to forget this but it is okay to have an personal opinion.
People get too worked up over wanting everyone to agree with you. Your opinion is still valid.
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junita. "being a father to his kids make him a punk"
Thats not what she said. She's saying a man not going to work to provide for his family is punking out.
I want my man to he a stay at home parent. we have alot of land and he has elderly parents I'd love for him to be home all the time ...
If I ever find a woman like Juanita, definitely putting a ring on her finger. What a good woman
That woman with the red dress is speaking FACTS 👏🏼👏🏼 & of course Steve
House hold responsibilities and raising kids should be 50/50 across the board, unless one person is not working for whatever reason, they should take care 80%
However, I prefer my husband and I to equally take care of kids, house hold things, & work!!
Face it if a man just stays home that feels
Weird period! You come home and your man is sitting in the couch doing nothing turn off!
Non sense
This is a logical comment we can all agree on.