Identity Issues | Borderline Personality Disorder
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- čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
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Thanks, Glo. I've had so many personas over my life that it's embarrassing. Now I still don't have that feeling that some people display of operating from a "core" self. But I'm trying to focus on action. "what do I want to DO today" instead of "what, or who, do I want to BE today. I really have trouble expressing myself so I really appreciate your eloquence. Thanks again.
I didn’t wanna be like my dad either. He was very traumatizing. Both of them were in different ways tbh. I feel you.
I love the rawness of your videos, no music, no guff, just powerful words that those of us with BPD can resonate with. Do keep it up as I can see this channel growing nicely.
Thank you very much! I considered adding music but it can be quite off putting or manipulative of emotions so I just try and keep it basic!
I don’t notice your makeup or hair because the most obvious aptitude I notice is you. Your real ness. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us and helping others along the way. 💕
This is so sweet, thank you very much 🥺🧡
I love that your lipstick matches your sweater. Super nice.
I was diagnosed with bpd when i was 18, 2 years later (now) i am finally accepting it. After growing up watching ny mom deal with UNTREATED bpd i thought there was no way i was like her. But here we are. When i ignored it for so long it got worse and worse.
I just started seeing someone, and i am trying to find tools to help me. Fuck its hard to stay focused. I feel so desperate to find people that understand (such as yourself) and I'm so glad i found you now, when im trying to recover. Listening to your experiences in what you feel feels like a hug.
I believe, Because of my bpd, and because kids are assholes, i don't have one friend from school, i don't have a soul to have fun with. I feel completely alone... Idk why I'm saying it, but i feel like that part isn't normal.... Idk...
Thank you for reading, and thank you for making videos.
Thank you, this was very consoling for me ❤
Your hair looks great, the eye make up looks awesome to me. My identity is a messy collage which I love….and I’ve also made choices while navigating it that I’m not proud of. Buuuut I’m growing and I appreciate you sharing, I’m 26 and I still feel horrible about how mean I was when I was 9-10 years old, it’s comforting to hear that it’s normal.
I was recently called inauthentic, also comforting to hear that it comes with the territory. It sucks though, but I’m alright, just gotta keep doing me.
That's so eye opening I'm crying 😭
I worry a lot that I'm a bad person and now that I'm a mom there's also worrying that I'm a bad mother. I'm afraid I'm not warm, maybe I'm warm in a different way. I'm not a touchy feely person, i think this is related to autism (self diagnosed)
Inspirational stuff. Thank you x
I relate to all of this video. Thank you for sharing and making me feel less alone and normal ♥️
my mother was traumatized by a narcissistic mother so i grew up hearing about how any positive thinking about ourselves was narcissistic. she’s even convinced that posting 1 or 2 selfies in social media means you’re a genuine narcissist. so now when i try to think about how i’m doing good or i’m proud of myself in a way because i’m growing mentally or getting good at something, i feel like i shouldn’t and i should stay humble or else i’ll be self centered. it’s so hard to allow myself to have positive emotions because i learned that it means i’m a shitty abuser narcissistic who everyone will talk shit about and eventually cut off. i am trying to get passed that as much as i can, and thankfully i can see how she’s delusional… clearly my pfp is a selfie so i understand it’s fine but it still affects me in so many other ways
My (undiagnosed) BPD ex was definitely struggling with who she is especially in terms of her sexual orientation. She’s a closet gay woman but can’t come out to her family. She has a huge fear of abandonment & has a boyfriend she has been using as a cover up. She goes back & forth between two different worlds; the lgbtq community & then going home to play house with her boyfriend & parents. She refuses to go to therapy. She has never been in a healthy relationship so there’s the history of intense, unstable relationships, even in her friendships. Me & her boyfriend are definitely her favorite people’.
I also thought your video on ASD and BPD was very intriguing, bc she has told me on many occasions that it’s been suspected that she’s on the Autism spectrum but has never officially been tested.
This is so relatable, i could have said it word for word... 😅 Bizarre. Ty for talking about your experience!
literally LOVE your videos! makes us feel as if were not alone! And this is something I needed to hear today, so thank you!!
Thank you so much for your support 🥺 xxx
Being you is what makes your videos yours ! ❤ Thank you for your hard work :)
I think your make up looks good, don’t be so hard on yourself ❤️
Right, it was scary knowing even my happiness could be used against me by those narcissistic folks who claim to love and care for me acting like they know a damn thing about truly loving another for all that they are, flaws and all.
I keep hearing about stigma for BPD but yet to actually talk to a single person who even knows what Borderline personality disorder is without having to look it up
That was me! I’ve now met a bunch of people who want us to 💀 if you get me. They think we are nasty evil people who are malicious and don’t deserve kindness or love. Pretty much the way people view Trisha Paytas who also has bpd and explains a lot of their past behaviour
@@GLOsLifeI mean didn’t you just say you were nasty at 3:15? Bpd isn’t really stigmatized in that sense. Without a significant amount of recovery pwbpd will push those closest away because of the fear of abandonment and fear of engulfment and usually be pretty nasty especially toward those who actually love and care for them.
I have no idea who I am. I’m just whatever I need to be at the time I need to be it. --Frank Gallagher
I think you look beautiful. Your personality is shining through beautiful too. The first video i saw of u i felt i could understand u right away. I strongly relate
Hii glo.... Im 25 and just had a therapy session today and my dr told me to read more abt identity. I legit dk who dafuq i am at 25 HAHHAHA. I shape-shift ard people n even sustained friendships with genuinely shitty people. I've since cut them off and nw idk who tf i am without my true friends by my side hahaha
I have OCD...❤🥺
My sister had bad attitudes at home and sometimes tried to hurt my parents...
I was so scared
And because of this now i am afraid of having BPD.
I don't criticize those who have BPD...i cry when i heard people who improve themselves because my sister just don't admit she have a problem.
Everytime i experience depersonalization because i feel the relationship with my sister just has gone...
It's so difficult to rebuilt it and she tells a lot of bad things so i feel confused because i want a relationship but at the same time i feel so sad when she tells bad thing.😔❤
My OCD reminds me all the things she has done so i am afraid of being borderline not because of the illness but because of the things i have seen.
My OCD makes me analyze ALL my past and present...
I went to therapy saying to my Psychologist "oh maybe i have BPD" but she said me that i am not impulsive and BPD are not aware of their problem...
But OCD gives a lot of doubts and fears...🥺
Anyway...i love people who improve themselves and i am happy for you.❤
Thank you for sharing :))
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Cant find you on insta. Hope all is well with you.